Ash Wednesday February 10, 2016 Schedule of Services Today

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1 6:00 AM Mass in Spanish 8:00 AM Mass 10:00 AM Prayer Service 12:00 Noon Mass Ash Wednesday February 10, 2016 Schedule of Services Today 2:00 PM Prayer Service 4:00 PM Children's Service (All Welcome) 6:00 PM Prayer Service 7:00 PM Young peoples Mass (All welcome) The Basilica Parish of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary Southampton, NY

2 Welcome to the Basilica Parish of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary Pastoral Team: Rev. Michael A. Vetrano, Pastor In Residence: Rev. Msgr. William J. Gill Jennifer Ferrantino, Director, Religious Education Jeannine Rose, Director of Parish Social Ministry Maura O Loughlin, Youth Minister Jo Ann Morse, Director of Music Bill Kunzer, Plant and Facilities Manager Daily Mass Mon. Wed. Thurs. Fri. at 12 Noon Tue. at 8:00 AM First Saturday 8:00 AM Holydays: 7 PM Vigil, 8:00 AM, 12 Noon Weekend Masses Saturday: 5 PM Sunday: 8 AM, 9:30 AM, 11 AM, 12:30 PM (in Spanish) and 5 PM Reconciliation Saturday: 4 PM - 4:45 PM Ministry to the Sick For communion at home or Anointing please contact the Parish Office. Baptism Please contact the Parish Office to schedule an appointment with Jennifer Ferrantino Marriage Arranged at least six months in advance, please call the Parish Office. Becoming A Catholic We welcome those who would like to become Catholic and adult Catholics who have never received formal religious education and/or sacraments. Please call the Parish Office. Parish Office Suzanne Marchisella Karen Berry Donna Valle Cemetery Office Suzanne Marchisella Parish Leadership: Finance Committee Fred Weinfurt (trustee) Pat Jordan (trustee) Jay Diesing Charlene Kagel John Neknez Pastoral Council In formation Consolation Sr. Barbara McKenna, RSM Adult Faith Formation Mary Adamczyk Parish Ministries Parish Office 168 Hill Street Southampton, NY P: , Ext 0 F: W: E: parishoffice@shjmbasilica.org Mon-Sat: 9 AM - 4:00 PM Fr. Mike Vetrano E: pastor@shjmbasilica.org Religious Education Office Jennifer Ferrantino, Director P: E: jferrantino@shjmbasilica.org Parish Social Ministry Jeannine Rose, Director E: JRose@shjmbasilica.org P: Ext 317 Apostolado Hispano Rev. Steve Grozio Cell: Vincentian Fathers Youth Ministry Maura O Loughlin youthgroup@shjmbasilica.org Our Lady of Hamptons School Sister Kathy Schlueter, CSJ 160 North Main Street Southampton, New York P: E: olh@hamptons.com

3 Pastor s Letter Ash Wednesday What to do about Lent? Lent begins today and with it comes an annual question for Catholics: What am I giving up for Lent? Smoking cessation, weight loss, overconsumption of candy are the usual culprits but with a little bit of thought Lent can provide us with meaningful growth in our spiritual lives. The idea behind fasting, the giving up part of Lent, is to use physical hunger or some other feeling of want or desire to alert us to a more profound hunger the hunger for God and for the things of God. We fast for an hour before the Eucharist on Sunday so that the little bit of hunger we feel will remind us of the spiritual hunger for the blessing of God s presence received in the Eucharist. Fasting, of course, can go wrong or even turn selfish. On Ash Wednesday the Gospel reading recounts Jesus warning his disciples to be sure to wash their faces and groom their hair when fasting so that only God will notice their sacrifice. There was to be no bragging about fasting among his disciples. A reading from Isaiah raises the issue of those who become bitter and grumpy because of their sacrifice. To them and to us Isaiah speaks of a fast that is pleasing to God: This, rather, is the fasting that I wish: releasing those bound unjustly, untying the thongs of the yoke; setting free the oppressed, breaking every yoke; sharing your bread with the hungry, sheltering the oppressed and the homeless; Clothing the naked when you see them, and not turning your back on your own. I find Isaiah s words to be a profound challenge. It might be tough to give up candy but it is surely more meaningful, and much more difficult, to give up something God would like us to give up. Fasting from prejudice, from resentment toward a friend or family member or buying things that are of little necessity when others are lacking food, shelter, and clothing are ways to respond to Isaiah s challenge. Maybe Lent is a good time to give up a bad habit like gossip, stirring the pot, or envious talk. Or perhaps it is not a giving up at all but a beginning we need like beginning to be generous, or patient, or kind. The lesson about lent that I have learned over the years is: What is the fast that God wants? instead of: What would I like to give up for Lent? Sincerely yours in Christ, Rev. Michael A. Vetrano

4 Cinema Basilica All are invited to join us Saturday Mornings at 10:00 AM in the Chapel Room of the Parish Center to our ongoing Cinema at the Basilica series. Bring a friend and a snack or two. Each film is followed by a short discussion. A wonderful to share with old friends while meeting new friends. Sponsored by the Adult Faith Formation and Office of Social Ministry. Please feel free to contact Jeannine Rose at ext 317 with any questions or to reserve a seat. Saturday, February 20, :00 AM in Chapel Room of Parish Center Movies at the Basilica In 1946, Jackie Robinson is a Negro League baseball player who never takes racism lying down. Branch Rickey is a Major League team executive with a bold idea. Rickey recruits Robinson for the Brooklyn Dodgers to break the unspoken color line as the first modern African American Major League player. As both anticipate, this proves a major challenge for Robinson and his family as they endure unrelenting racist hostility on and off the field, from player and fan alike. As Jackie struggles against his nature to endure such abuse without complaint, he finds allies and hope where he least expects it. And lets his bat, base-stealing and love of the game do his talking. Winner of the Heartland Truly Moving Picture Award. A strong cast with Chadwick Boseman, Harrison Ford, Lucas Black and Nicole Beharie. Saturday, March 12, :00 AM in Chapel Room of Parish Center He was a just man, appointed by God to be the husband of Mary and the chosen father of Jesus. But there is more to St. Joseph than his familiar role at the center of the salvation message. He was a prayerful man, an exemplary worker and a true model of authentic manhood. This powerful film explores all aspects of St. Joseph and the many ways he reflects the nature of God, combining stunning artwork and interviews with Catholic leaders. Saturday April 9, :00 A.M. in Chapel Room of Parish Center Pope John Paul II referred to the Holy Eucharist as "the greatest treasure of the Church," and yet even many devoted Catholics have a very limited understanding of this powerful sacrament. This book will change all that. The reader will come away with a completely new awareness that the Eucharist is not just about receiving Communion; it's about transforming your daily life. Deeply based on the Scriptures, the writings of the Saints, and the teachings of our two most recent Popes, this profound and remarkably readable book will introduce you to some of the "hidden" truths of the Eucharist truths that have always been embraced by theologians, saints, and mystics, but have rarely been passed on to the average person in a meaningful way. In 7 Secrets of the Eucharist, these truths are finally made accessible to all, as author Vinny Flynn shows how each reception of Holy Communion can be a life-changing experience.

5 Couples: Celebrate Valentines Day Mass and Blessing :: Feb 14 at 9:30 Dinner and a Talk Thursday February 18 at 6:30 pm What could be better than an opportunity to renew your marriage vows and celebrate an evening together. All married couples are invited to join us on Sunday, February 14, at 9:30 for a Valentines mass and blessing. Then we also invite you to join us: Thursday, February 18, at 6:30PM for a Valentines dinner at Plaza Café. Couples young and old will enjoy this event. Prix Fixe Dinner is $35 per person and includes a complimentary glass of wine. Reservations can be made by calling the Plaza Café at Lenten Mission 2016 A Mission of Mercy In this Holy Year of Mercy our Lenten mission will bring together three speakers to lead us in understanding the mission of mercy in our lives. Monday, March 7 th at 6 PM: Mercy Revealed in women of faith. Dr. Maria Basil, MD, a doctor and poet, will share her awareness of mercy in her life as healer. As a physician, wife, and mother, Dr. Basil will reflect on faith, mercy, and healing in her life; and how we learn of mercy through Mary, the women Jesus meets along the way, and the saintly women of our church. Tuesday, March 8 th at 6 PM: Bishop Nelson Perez will be with us to speak about Mercy toward the refugee and immigrant. This special mission of our country is also at the heart of the Gospel. PARISH MINISTRIES Wednesday, March 9 th at 6 PM: Police officer Steven McDonald will join us to speak about Mercy toward those who have harmed us. Officer McDonald was shot and paralyzed in 1986 while questioning a young suspect in a theft. Since that dreadful day he has preached a message of healing and forgiveness.

6 The Fast of Isaiah 58 During lent you might wish to think of fasting as something with a positive purpose. In other words Lent is more than giving things up. The prophet Isaiah spoke of this as a fast that is pleasing to God. This, rather, is the fasting that I wish: Releasing those bound unjustly, untying the thongs of the yoke; Setting free the oppressed, breaking every yoke; Sharing your bread with the hungry, sheltering the oppressed and the homeless; Clothing the naked when you see them, and not turning your back on your own. Then your light shall break forth like the dawn, and your wound shall quickly be healed; Your vindication shall go before you, and the glory of the LORD shall be your rear guard. Then you shall call, and the LORD will answer, you shall cry for help, and he will say: Here I am! Fasting During Lent Fasting and Abstinence in Lent Lenten Fast and Abstinence All Catholics between the ages of 18 and 59 inclusive, are also bound to observe the law of fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday to limit themselves to one full meal and two smaller meals (which do not together equal a full meal) on each of those days. Water may be taken at any time. Penance The obligation to do penance and to observe the penitential seasons is a serious one. Those whose health or work would be impaired are excused from fast and abstinence, and individuals consciences should guide them in this matter. However, no one should hold himself lightly excused, and another penitential practice should be substituted by those who cannot fast or abstain. A more serious reason is considered necessary to opt out of the observances on Good Friday and Ash Wednesday than for the other Fridays of Lent. Easter Duty All of the faithful who have received First Holy Communion are obliged to receive the Eucharist at least once a year, normally during the Easter Season a period which in the United States extends from the first Sunday of Lent to Trinity Sunday. TO KEEP A TRUE LENT. by Robert Herrick IS this a fast, to keep The larder lean? And clean From fat of veal and sheep? Is it to quit the dish Of flesh, yet still To fill The platter high with fish? Is it to fast an hour, Or ragg d to go, Or show A downcast look and sour? No ; tis a fast to dole Thy sheaf of wheat, And meat, Unto the hungry soul. It is to fast from strife, From old debate And hate ; To circumcise thy life. To show a heart grief-rent ; To starve thy sin, Not bin ; And that s to keep thy Lent.

7 Stations of the Cross We remember the road to Jesus death and link his journey to our own through this beautiful devotion. Come and pray with us Each Friday during Lent after the noon mass 12:30 PM Living Stations of the Cross Good Friday, March 25 th, at 7:30 PM in the Church This is a wonderful opportunity for your Lenten and Holy Week journey! Our parish community comes together-led by our young people, our Music Ministries and members of our parish community who share their own personal experiences on this most holy and solemn night. The celebration includes the Veneration of the Cross. Lent is a season of soul-searching and repentance. It is a season for reflection and taking stock. Lent originated in the very earliest days of the Church as a preparatory time for Easter, when the faithful rededicated themselves and when converts were instructed in the faith and prepared for baptism. By observing the forty days of Lent, the individual Christian imitates Jesus withdrawal into the wilderness for forty days. Lent is a forty-day period before Easter. It begins on Ash Wednesday and ends on the day before Easter Day. We skip Sundays, when we count the forty days, because Sundays commemorate the Resurrection. In the Roman Catholic Church, Lent officially ends at sundown on Holy Thursday, with the beginning of the Mass of the Lord s Supper. Fasting is a spiritual discipline that does not involve starvation or dehydration. Quite often, our bodily appetites control our actions. The purpose of fasting is to make your bodily appetites your servant rather than your master. More Lenten Opportunities Adult Faith Opportunities for Prayer & Study Spiritual Book Group :: meeting every Tuesday at 1 PM in the dining room of the Parish Center. New members are always welcome! Resurrection Prayer Group :: meets on Thursdays at 7 PM in the Parish Center. Come share your healing gifts with us. Prayer requests are always welcome. Secular Franciscans :: meet on the third Sunday of the month after the 11 AM Mass in the dining room of the Parish Center. Would you like to know more about us? Please come to our meeting. Bring a bag lunch and we will supply the coffee.

8 Call to Worship Entrance Hymn Hosea Ash Wednesday Liturgy Ash Wednesday Liturgy of the Word Come back to me with all your heart Don t let fear keep us apart Trees do bend though straight and tall So must we to others call Long have I waited for Your coming home to me And living deeply our new life The wilderness will lead you To the place where I will speak Integrity and justice With tenderness You shall know Liturgy of the Word Reading I A reading from the book of the prophet Joel Turn your hearts Responsorial Psalm Loving and Forgiving Response Loving and forgiving are you, O God Slow to anger, rich in kindness Loving and forgiving are you Reading II Gospel Homily A reading from the first letter of Saint Paul to the Corinthians. We are ambassadors for Christ A reading from the holy Gospel according to Matthew. Be authentic Prayer of the Faithful Response: God of mercy, hear our prayer.

9 Imposition of Ashes During this time, all are invited forward for the Imposition of Ashes. During the Prayer Services, all are invited to return to their seats for a time of quiet prayer, after which you may leave the Church reverently. During the 8 AM, and 12 Noon masses all are asked to return to their seats. Ash Wednesday Distribution of Ashes

10 Presentation Hymn As Grains of Wheat As grains of wheat are gathered in we come together; from lives apart we bring our hearts to make one whole. Refrain For many are we, and broken we've come, but we shall become one. Ash Wednesday Liturgy of the Eucharist Each grain must fall and give itself: it first is broken; then, joined with others, makes one body and one bread. Refrain From many feilds the harvest comes to feed the hungry; the world cries out to taste the goodness of the Lord. Refrain Your harvest, Lord, is gathered in; We stand before you to be your bread, to be your body in the world. Refrain Communion Hymn My Song Will Be for You My song will be for you forever. You, the music in my heart. For your love is all around me, and your goodness always here. You have clothed me in your promise, You, my love, my light, my friend. You, the way and path before me. You will lead and guide me home. Refrain: My song will be for you forever, you the music in my heart. Closing Hymn Change Our Hearts I am here to be your servant; you anoint me with your love. You will hold me in my longing, all my hope in your embrace. Refrain With your voice you sing within me. You, the one who knows me well. You, my joy, my life, and blessing. When you call you know my name. Refrain I will pledge my love forever. I will call your name out loud. I will reach my hand out to you, and I know you'll reach for me. Refrain Change Our Hearts this time, your word says it can be. Change our minds this time, your life could make us free. We are the people your call set us apart, Lord, this time, change our hearts.

11 From Religious Education Director :: Jennifer Ferrantino fasting, and giving. Today is Ash Wednesday, we begin Lent, the season that asks us to stop and be aware. Lent is a gift that the Church in her wisdom celebrates every year. It is a gift of time, a gift of contemplation, and a gift of quiet so that we may listen to the Word, who whispers to us to come back to the God who created us. It encourages us to turn away from the noise and over-indulged appetites so that we may understand the hunger that can be filled with the grace of God only by prayer, So how are we going to bring Lent into our homes? What are we going to do different at this time of year? We are asked to pray, fast and give. Can we make time to pray daily? Is there time for that? A few minutes can make a big difference. Fasting? Can we fast from things like gossip, criticism, or negative attitudes? Can we give of ourselves to others, make time to speak with family members, old friends, or new friends? Share a smile and find joy? Can we give to the poor, the home bound, or the infirmed? Sometimes the hardest to give is our time. How are we going to challenge ourselves and our families this Lent? Reminding children to do the simple things helps them become aware of the simplicity of the Gospel and in turn helps the adults too. Confirmation Enrollment Mass has been rescheduled for Saturday February 27 th at 5 PM Mass First Holy Communion Families will meet our Teaching Mass and workshop Saturday March 5 at 10 AM. Lenten Activities: Along with fish on Fridays how about family meal prep time each member is asked to give or make something for the meal together. It is a great time to start growing something inside the house, this helps children become aware of the waiting period. Waiting for new life, waiting for Easter Sunday. What are your Lenten traditions? What has made Lent meaningful for you? Religious Education Confirmation Date: May 31, 2016 Please contact me with any questions or jferrantino@shjmbasilica.org Lent is a great way to share with our children the beauty of our Faith. I wish you all a Blessed and Holy Lent. Please contact me with any questions jferrantino@shjmbasilica.org or Thank you!

12 Events New and Old in Lent Anchors of Mercy Music at the Basilica presents A special St. Patrick s Day Event March 17, 2016 This year Sacred Hearts is happy to welcome The High Kings, a traditional Irish singing group, to be with us for St. Patrick s Day. Tickets will be on sale the week after Christmas. Tickets are $40 / $32. This will be a sellout event so visit our website or parish office now for best seats! During this Holy Year of Mercy we will celebrate Eucharistic Adoration on Thursday from the conclusion of the noon mass until Benediction at 4:00 PM. We will also have confessions during this time and our Spanish community will pray the Chaplet of Divine Mercy from 3:00 PM to 4:00 PM. We call Parishioners who support this time of prayer our Anchors of Mercy. If you are willing to join them please visit the sign up sheet in the Sacristy or call or the office: parishoffice@shjmbasilica.org Adult Faith Formation Group is holding their 11th Annual Angel Tea Sunday, May 1, 2016 Guest Speaker: Sister Pat Duffy Parish Hall Auditorium If anyone is interested in baking desserts or making sandwiches, please call: Sandwiches & Desserts: Patricia Sheerin

13 El Año Jubilar de la Misericordia Durante este año el Santísimo estará expuesto para la adoración todos los jueves de la 1 a las 4 PM en la basílica de Southampton. Nuestra comunidad latina acompañará al Santísimo de 3 a 4. Se concluirá con la bendición solemne y habrá oportunidad de confesarse en español a fin de ganar la gracia del año jubilar. Tomado de El Papa Francisco nos Habla sobre la Cuaresma - La Cuaresma de este Año Jubilar sea vivida con mayor intensidad, como momento fuerte para celebrar y experimentar la misericordia de Dios. Cuántas páginas de la Sagrada Escritura pueden ser meditadas en las semanas de Cuaresma para redescubrir el rostro misericordioso del Padre! Con las palabras del profeta Miqueas también nosotros podemos repetir: Tú, oh Señor, eres un Dios que cancelas la iniquidad y perdonas el pecado, que no mantienes para siempre tu cólera, pues amas la misericordia. Tú, Señor, volverás a compadecerte de nosotros y a tener piedad de tu pueblo. Destruirás nuestras culpas y arrojarás en el fondo del mar todos nuestros pecados (cfr 7,18-19). Tomado de la Bula De Convocación Del Jubileo Extraordinario De La Misericordia 17. Roma, el 11 de abril de Ayuno, Abstinencia y Actos de Penitencia para la Cuaresma: Los obispos de los Estados Unidos prescriben, como obligación mínima, que todas las personas que han cumplido los catorce años y los mayores de catorce están obligadas a abstenerse de comer carne el miércoles de ceniza (el 10 de febrero) y todos los viernes de cuaresma y viernes santo. Además, todas las personas desde los 18 años de edad hasta los 59 años, inclusivas, están obligadas a ayunar limitándose a una sola comida completa el miércoles de ceniza y el viernes santo, mientras las otras dos comidas en esos días deben ser ligeras. A todos los fieles se les anima, cuando sea posible, a participar en la Misa y recibir la santa comunión; a celebrar con frecuencia el sacramento de la penitencia; a iniciar lecturas espirituales, especialmente el estudio de las Sagradas Escrituras; y a participar en las devociones de cuaresma, así como en programas cuaresmales de educación. La adoración al Santísimo Sacramento es especialmente recomendada. Retiro Para Hombres - El ministerio Nuevos Discípulos les invita a todos los hombres mayores de 18 años a un retiro espiritual los días 26, 27 y 28 de febrero en Greenport. Los interesados pueden llamar a Polo ( ) o a Padre Jesus. Retiro de la Divina Misericordia - un retiro cerrado de tres días del de febrero en Monte Alvernia. Para más información llame a Jimmy Rodas ( ). Rincón de Información Curso Pre-Bautismal El curso se da el último domingo de cada mes a la 1:30 PM en el Apostolado Hispano en Southampton o a las 5:00 PM en la iglesia en East Hampton. El próximo curso será el domingo, 28 de febrero. En marzo el curso será el 20 de marzo. Favor de llevar la copia del acta de nacimiento del niño. Bautizos en Southampton serán el 6 de marzo, el 3 de abril y el 1º de mayo. El Asesor de Inmigración de Caridades Católicas En el Apostolado, jueves, 11 de febrero, de 2 a 5 PM. Comunidad de Oración para Adultos y Familias Los martes a las 7:30 PM en el salón parroquial. El 3r martes de cada mes - la hora santa en la iglesia. Divina Misericordia - Misa en la Basílica el cuarto miércoles de cada mes a las 8:00 PM. Preparación Pre Matrimonial Para casarse por la iglesia, haga una cita para una entrevista con el P. Jesús o el P. Esteban. El curso pre-matrimonial se da por seis domingos, de las 9 AM al mediodía comenzando el primer domingo de octubre o de feb. Requisitos para el Bautismo de un Niño Curso: Para bautizar a su hijo, es necesario que los padres y padrinos asistan al curso pre-bautismal. Padrinos: Debe escoger a los padrinos conscientes de los requisitos. Los padrinos tienen que ser católicos bautizados, confirmados y que han hecho su Primera Comunión y deben poder comulgar. El padrino (madrina) debe ser un(a) soltero(a) o debe ser casado por la iglesia. Permisos: Si viven afuera de la zona servida por el Apostolado Hispano, necesitan una carta de su párroco dándonos permiso para bautizar su hijo. Padre Esteban: Cel: ; Fax: Padre Jesus Arellano: Cel: Horas del Apostolado: los martes a viernes PM APOSTOLADO HISPANO

14 Looking Ahead to Holy Week Reconciliation in the Season of Lent Receiving the Sacrament of reconciliation is an excellent practice in the season of Lent. Our parish celebrates this sacrament every Saturday from 4:00 to 4:45 PM before our Saturday evening mass. Our pastor and priests who assist here are also available by appointment to celebrate the sacrament. During Holy Week we will join with all the parishes of our diocese to celebrate reconciliation from 3 PM to 9 PM on Monday, March 21 st. Be sure to take some time to experience the miracle of God s healing forgiveness. In this Holy Year of Mercy we Celebrate Reconciliation Every Thursday following the 12 noon mass. Holy Week at SHJM Holy Thursday 7:30 PM Evening Mass of the Lords Supper Presentation of Holy Oils, The Washing of the Feet, Eucharistic Procession and Adoration Evening Adoration Good Friday 3:00 PM The Passion of the Lord Reading of the Passion, Communion, Adoration of the Cross 7:30 PM Living Stations of the Cross Holy Saturday Sacrament of Reconciliation 10 AM to 11 AM Easter Vigil Mass 7:30 PM Blessing of New Fire, Baptism and Reception of Adults, Renewal of Baptismal Promises Easter Sunday 8:00 AM 9:30 AM 11:00 AM 12:45 Mass in Spanish No 5 PM on Easter Sunday