FOURTH SUNDAY OF EASTER APRIL 25, 2010

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1 FOURTH SUNDAY OF EASTER APRIL 25, 2010

2 St. Thomas the Apostle Catholic Church 1500 Brookdale Road, Naperville, IL (Main Office) Visit us on the internet at (Religious Education) (Facsimilie) Parish Staff Rev. Joel Fortier Pastor, Rev. Rodolphe Arty, Associate Pastor, x 103, rarty@stapostle.org Rev. Bob Colaresi, O. Carm. Weekend Associate Fr. Pat Brennan, Weekend Associate Rev. Mr. William Worden, D. Min. Deacon, x105 Rev. Mr. Chuck Lane Deacon, x220, chucklane2@juno.com Rev. Mr. Jim Breen Deacon, , jimb4853@yahoo.com Rev. Mr. Larry Kearney Deacon, x225, lrkearney@comcast.net Rev. Mr. Michael Barrett Deacon, x220, meabarrett@att.net Liturgy Kate Cuddy Director of Music and Liturgy, x112, kcuddy@stapostle.org Lori Culberson Liturgy Coordinator, x120, lculberson@stapostle.org Angie Tuttle Liturgy Office Assistant, x110, atuttle@stapostle.org Jessi Allured* Asst. Director of Music, x111, jallured@stapostle.org Theresa Sheliga* Sacristan Coordinator, x116 Faith Formation Chari Rosales Director of Adult Education & RCIA x138, crosales@stapostle.org Kevin Pranaitis Director of High School Youth Ministry, x123, ym@stapostle.org Brett Adams Coordinator of Middle School Faith Formation, x117, Patti Dougherty Director of Religious Education, x109, pdougherty@stapostle.org Nancy Cirmo Religious Education Assistant, x118, ncirmo@stapostle.org Marge Coronado Religious Education Assistant, x219, mcoronado@stapostle.org Anne Schultz Adult Faith Formation Assistant, x113, aschultz@stapostle.org Lynne Vehlewald* Librarian, x125, library@stapostle.org Outreach and Social Justice Michael Ryder Director of Outreach & Social Justice, x121, mryder@stapostle.org Anne Schultz OSJ Partner, x113, aschultz@stapostle.org Sally Meno* OSJ Financial, x137, smeno@stapostle.org Pastoral Care Jan Olah Director of Pastoral Care, x124 Felicia Lawlor*, M.S., R.N. Faith Community Nurse, x104, flawlor@stapostle.org Rose Grumbine*, R.N., Faith Community Nurse, x104, rgrumbine@stapostle.org Administration Janet Simmons Finance/Business Officer, x106, jsimmons@stapostle.org Diane McQueen Gen Office Administrative Asst, x101, dmcqueen@stapostle.org Kathy Ferguson Gen Office Administrative Asst, x100, mainoffice@stapostle.org Marilyn DeMeo* Database Coordinator (T/Th), x107, mdemeo@stapostle.org Pat Berkhout Evening/Saturday Receptionist, x119, nitecrew@stapostle.org Angie Tuttle Bulletin Editor, Graphic Design, x110, atuttle@stapostle.org Susan Francesconi* Communications Coordinator, x108, sfrancesconi@stapostle.org Ted McKeown* Facility Coordinator, x133, facility@stapostle.org Jorge Gonzalez* Custodian Pastoral Leadership Community John Ball Christine Berta Pam Foster Commission Facilitators Charles Haydon Nick Furibondo Richard Strassburger Worship Josh Goralski Parish Life Faith Formation Chris Baker Elaine Scutti Administration Dave Otto Service Carol Healy Sacrament of Reconciliation Reconciliation is available Saturday, 3:30 to 4:15 p.m., or after the 4:30 p.m. Mass in the Reconciliation Room of the Chapel. Fr. Joel is available during the week by appointment. Communal Penance services are held occasionally throughout the year. Sick and Home Bound Call the Church Office to receive prayer/eucharist from a priest, deacon or Minister of Care. Baptism Baptisms are usually celebrated 2-3 Sundays each month at a 12:30 p.m. service. On selected dates, Baptisms are celebrated at weekend Masses. Parents are required to attend an awareness and renewal evening prior to the Baptism. Call the Church Office a few months in advance to make arrangements. Matrimony A couple planning on being married at St. Thomas should contact the church six months in advance. One year is preferred. Either the bride or groom, or their parents, must be a registered parishioner for at least three months prior to calling to set a date. Religious Education Call the to register. RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults) Any person wanting to learn more about the Catholic Faith, or to join our Catholic community should call the church at Counseling Service Call Samarian Interfaith or Jan Olah, Pastoral Care x 124. Sunday Nursery Nursery care is available for your child age one (walking) to four at the 9 & 10:45 a.m. Mass. For more information call the church office. Liturgy Schedule Daily (Monday Friday) Communion Service 6:30 a.m. Rosary 8:10 a.m. Mass 8:30 a.m. (Saturday) Communion Service 8:30 a.m. Weekend Saturday Vigil 4:30 p.m. Sunday 7:30, 9:00, 10:45 a.m., and 6:30 p.m. Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament every first Friday, 9:00 9:30 a.m. *indicates part-time staff

3 Dear Friends, I believe in a relational model of church where people work at being in real, living, human relationships with each other; where we can experience acceptance, compassion and care, as well as celebrate the joy of being alive and in love. It is also a place where we bear with each other, put up with, excuse, and forgive each other, loving each other even when we don t feel loving sometimes. That s what it s like to be a family. The love of Jesus is not just a feeling. It is a decision, a decision to love even when we don t feel so loving. That s what Jesus did on the cross. I m sure it didn t feel good hanging from the cross, yet he continued to love even those who tortured and put him to death. In that is the heart of our salvation: The Sacred Heart of Jesus. We are called to make a home in the Heart of Jesus, a place where all people can dwell and find a home, and can experience what it means to be part of the family of God. This relational model of church is certainly captured in the words of Jesus that begin our gospel today: My sheep hear my voice; I know them, and they follow me...no one can take them out of my hand...the Father and I are one. We are baptized and called into that unity of life and love, into a personal relational experience of God, a place where we come to know even as we are known, a place of intimacy, a place where we need not fear, a place where we can be secure and find peace, joy, and love; a place we can call home. It is my fervent prayer that all people could experience St. Thomas as a spiritual home, a place where people can form relationships, sink roots, grow and be supported in their lives and in their relationship with God and one another. That s what I believe it means to be a parish, to be church, to hear the voice of Jesus and to follow The Way. I rejoice with all of you in that Easter Experience of hearing the voice of the Risen Lord, of following Christ and experiencing God s presence here with you at St. Thomas the Apostle. The love of Jesus is not just a feeling Fourth Sunday of Easter April 25, 2010 I have made you a light to the Gentiles, that you may be an instrument of salvation to the ends of the earth. Acts 13:47b Welcome Guests and Visitors! St. Thomas is here to companion you on your faith journey. Come with us as we grow in closeness to Christ through liturgy, music, faith formation, special events, and countless ways to be Companions on the Journey. Would you like to become a Parishioner? Join us at during the Ministry Fair after the following Masses: Sunday, May 23, 7:30, 9:00 and 10:45 a.m. in the Gathering Area.

4 Worship Commission Wine Through fermentation, yeasts convert the sugar in grapes into carbon dioxide and other byproducts, including alcohol. There is obvious energy in this transformation. Fermenting grapes hiss and fizz with potentially explosive force. In Christian tradition, wine has become symbolic for the power of the Holy Spirit. God s Spirit is the lifeblood of the body of Christ. Jesus commands us to drink deeply. On Pentecost, the disciples drank so much of the Spirit that bystanders thought they were drunk. The signs of the Spirit, such as fire and wind, share qualities in common. Like wine, they can be agents of destruction or forces for creativity and delight. During Eastertime it seems as if the earth itself is filled with these signs. Orchards and vineyards blossom. Sunshine pours down and gentle breezes blow. And, on occasion, there are windy thunderstorms and even worse. Keep people in your prayers whose lives are disrupted when the weather turns wild. Throughout Eastertime, celebrate the Spirit with kites and windsocks, with maywine and sweet liqueurs, with fiery barbecues and flickering candles. Make of this season a time to turn away from destruction and to renew your powers of creativity and delight Archdiocese of Chicago: Liturgy Training Publications, 1800 North Hermitage Avenue, Chicago IL 60622; ; Text by Peter Mazar. Art by Vicki Shuck. All rights reserved. Used with permission. The Spirit of the Fountain dies not. It is called the Mysterious Feminine. The Doorway of the Mysterious Feminine is called the Root of Heaven-and-Earth. Lingering like gossamer, it has only a hint of existence. And yet when you draw upon it, it is inexhaustible. Lao Tzu May Crowning On May 8, our mother Mary will be celebrated in a special way. At 4:00 p.m., the Rosary will be recited and immediately following the 4:30 Mass, there will be a May Crowning! You are invited to bring a flower to present to Mary during the crowning. Pentecost Taizé There will be a Taizé Style Pentecost Prayer Monday, May 17 at 7:30 p.m. in the Lighthouse. Please plan to come and experience this beautiful prayer, felt through the Taizé music. Presider s Schedule May 1/2 4:30 Fr. Joel Fortier *1st Communion Mass 7:30 Fr. Pat Brennan 9:00 Fr. Bob Colaresi *1st Communion Mass 10:45 Fr. Dolphe Arty 12:15 Fr. Joel Fortier *1st Communion Mass 6:30 Fr. Fritz Louis April 25, 2010 Page 4

5 Pray For Our Parish Fourth Sunday of Easter O God, the fountain of joy and of peace, into the hands of your risen Son you have entrusted the destinies of people and nations. Sustain us with the power of your Spirit, that, amid the increasing changes of life in this world, we may never become separated from Christ the Good Shepherd, who guides us to springs of life giving water. We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, God for ever and ever. Amen. From: Prayers for Sundays and Seasons, Liturgy Training Publications. for the sick... Mary Beth Dillon Neal, daughter of Tom & Mimi Elaine Johnson, wife of Carl Rozi Carbonaro, sister of Pauline Vandy Marie Ahern, cousin of Noreen Byrd Grant Ignatius, nephew of Robbie Davidson Mary Ann Kelly, friend of Carol Gapen Raymond Mertens, father of Diane & Jean Jorge Blanco, Margie Johnson, Jean Lipps, uncle and friends of Miguel Blanco David, acquaintance of Monica Reed Erv Ruppenthal & Alfredo Martines, friends of the Lodesky family Herb Holin, friend of the French Family Rob & Tera Schedden, friend of Beth Mahler Chuck Meier, friend of Pat Harrison for the deceased David Tetish June Knox, mother of Erick Raymond Mertens, father of Diane & Jean Mass Intentions Monday, April 26, :30 Helen Wozniak, by Helen & Tim Swanson Lucille Perella, by Fr. Joel Fortier Tuesday, April 27, :30 Loretta Piatanesi, by The Keller Family David Petesch, by John & Felicia Lawlor Wednesday, April 28, :30 John & Jean Cwisko, by Martha Lopez Dolores Aronson, by The Keller Family Thursday, April 29, :30 Kathleen Rose Wachter, by Theodore Wachter Kay Wells, by Kathy & Rudy Mensone Friday, April 30, :30 Rose Polek, by The Keller Family Saturday, May 1, :30 Joanna Vesper, by Mark Vesper Bill Gibbons, by Bob Ruoti Sunday, May 2, :30 Deceased Members of 50+ Holding 9:00 Marilyn Kane, by Ed Kane Helen Ziolkowski, by The Jindrich Family 10:45 Anthony Rizzi, by Family Mary Looi, by The Chew Family Today s Readings First Reading The Jews angrily reject Paul and Barnabas preaching. They then turn their energies to the Gentiles (Acts 13:14, 43-52). Psalm We are his people, the sheep of his flock (Psalm 100). Second Reading John envisions a great whiterobed multitude standing before the throne and before the Lamb. (Revelation 7:9, 14b-17). Gospel My sheep hear my voice; they follow me. I give them eternal life (John 10:27-30). Readings for the Week Mon: Acts 11:1-18; Jn 10:1-10 Tues: Acts 11:19-26; Jn 10:22-30 Wed: Acts 12:24 13:5a; Jn 12:44-50 Thurs: Acts 13:13-25; Jn 13:16-20 Fri: Acts 13:26-33; Jn 14:1-6 Sat: Acts 13:44-52; Jn 14:7-14; or (for the memorial) Gn 1:26 2:3 or Col 3:14-15, 17, 23-24; Mt 13:54-58 Sun: Acts 14:21-27; Ps 145; Rv 21:1-5a; Jn 13:31-33a; Page 5 April 25, 2010

6 Faith and Spiritual Formation Commission Soul Searchers Meets Soul Searchers will meet once a month to explore and discover truths in Story of a Soul: Study edition by St. Therese of Lisieux, translated by John Clarke. Therese Martin was born in France in 1873, entered the Carmel of Lisieux at the age of 15 and died at 24. Known as the Little Flower, she was canonized in 1925 and made a Doctor of the Church in St. Therese said, Everything is a grace because everything is God s gift. Whatever be the character of life or its unexpected events to the heart that loves, all is well. Chapter 11 and Epilogue, p will be discussed. The next meeting of Soul Searchers will be Saturday, May 8 from 9:15 to 10:30 a.m. in the Rectory Basement. The text is available at the Carmelite Center in Darien and on the website: Hand-outs are available in the pick-up drawer under S. Deacon Will and Mary Maloney are group leaders. Join us whenever your schedule allows and enjoy a thought provoking experience. All are welcome to attend this monthly discussion group. Peace Day 2010 Bread Broken for the Life of the World Saturday, May 1, :00-8:00pm St. Charles Pastoral Center, Romeoville, IL Liturgy 4:30pm, FR PAT BRENNAN, Homilist/Presider Dinner 6:00pm Our very own pastor, FR JOEL FORTIER, will receive a 2010 Pax Joliet Award at the dinner. Tickets can be purchased for dinner only for $ Come support and acknowledge Fr. Joel for his years of living and preaching Social Justice. C.A.R.E. CORNER As we continue reading through the Acts of the Apostles today, we have shifted from the witness of Peter and the original disciples to the witness of a new group of disciples, which included Barnabas and Paul. Like all good disciples should, they were doing what the Lord commanded them to do; they were being... an instrument of salvation. And in spite of the challenges that accompanied their calling, they were filled with joy and the Holy Spirit. This fourth Sunday of Easter is also known as Good Shepherd Sunday. Our brief Gospel passage points to Jesus as our Good Shepherd: the One who knows us; the One we are supposed to follow; the One who is one with the Father. And what is the benefit of following Christ as shepherd versus following another leader? Jesus tells us in today s Gospel: I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish. Such a promise can only be fulfilled by God. For a full slate of workshops, events and registration information, search Peace Day 2010 on the St. Thomas website. LAST WEEK TO SIGN UP! April 25, 2010 Page 6

7 During the month of May, we give particular love and honor to Mary, Mother of the Church. The Rosary will be prayed each week at 7pm in the St. Thomas Chapel as follows: Wednesday, May 5 Wednesday, May 19 Thursday, May 13 Wednesday, May 26 We will also celebrate Mary surrounding Mother s Day with these events: Saturday, May 8 11am - The Journey of a Mother s Heart: A labyrinth walk with Mary, facilitated by Patti Essig 4pm - Rosary 5:30pm - May Crowning Monday, May 10 7pm - Mother/Daughter Marian Tea, Lighthouse Tickets $8 per person (available at the reception desk) Wednesday, April 28 7:30 9:00 PM St. Thomas Lighthouse Join our beloved and energetic former pastor, Fr. Don Kenny, for a peek into his pictures and passion as he describes his on-going mission in Rancho Alto, Ecuador and his hopes and dreams for the future. GOOD NEWS! That s what gospel means and that s what you can experience as a participant in a Gathering with the Word small group. New booklets covering the time from Easter to Pentecost are available this weekend for group members and can be picked up after Masses from the Gathering Area. If you wish to sign on as a new member, please call Anne Schultz at x113. Page 7 April 25, 2010

8 Religious Education Special Instructions for first Eucharist First Eucharist Liturgies will be April 24 at 1:00 and 4:30 p.m., and April 25 at 10:45 a.m. and then the following weekend, May 1 at 4:30 p.m. and May 2 at 9:00 a.m. and 12:15 p.m. During these liturgies the First Communicant and parent/s will be invited to come forward first to the front stations. Other guests in those rows and the rest of the assembly will be asked to wait for Communion until all First Communicants and parents have received. Eucharistic Ministers will proceed to their assigned stations as usual but will remain facing the altar at their assigned station (except in front) until all First Communicants and parents have received. Once First Communicants have received the Eucharist, host-greeters will invite the rest of the assembly to receive. This will include the other guests in the First Communicant s pew. We thank you for your patience as the children and their parent s receive Eucharist and thank you for the prayers you have said for these children as they meet Jesus in this most holy sacrament. Families: Take some time to discuss and reflect on the readings of the week. April 25 Question of the Week... Who are the shepherding people in your life?? Liturgy of Word with Children Important Dates There is no Liturgy of the Word for Children this weekend, April 25 at the 10:45 a.m. Mass and May 2 at the 9:00 a.m. Mass due to First Communion. Please note, May 2 is the last day for Liturgy of the Word with Children until September. Mother/Daughter Marion Tea This Mother s day treat your Mom (or the Mother in your life) to an elegant tea held in celebration of Mary, our Blessed Mother. All ages are welcome! Enjoy tea, coffee or lemonade and a variety of beautiful pastries along with prayer and conversation. Monday, May 10 7:00 p.m. until 8:30 p.m. in the Lighthouse Tickets are $8 each, available at the reception desk after Sunday Masses, May 2 and 9, and during regular office hours. Limited tickets available. Sponsored by St. Thomas Mary s Way Ministry. Questions may be directed to Patti Dougherty x109 or pdougherty@stapostle.org What a joy to remember that she is our Mother! Since she loves us and knows our weakness, what have we to fear? Saint Therese of Lisieux, Doctor of the Church Teens With Character (TWC): Quick Facts Who: Any Middle School Students What: Meetings, community service projects, fun! Why: Serve others, practice leadership, and be a part of a Christian community of peers. Don t miss our final large group Pillar meeting and Potluck celebration on May 8 after the 4:30 PM Mass in the Gym! Looking Ahead May 22 - Dupage River Clean Up June 9 - Hesed House Eye Clinic June 25/26 - Relay for Life Middle school students and families are welcome to any of these events. To RSVP for a service project or for any more information, contact Brett Adams: x117 or badams@stapostle.org. April 25, 2010 Page 8

9 NEWS from All Saints Catholic Academy NorthWest Student Exchange NWSE is looking for host families for Catholic students for the 2010/11 school term/semester. Students would enjoy living with a family that has an interest in their culture. Often there is a possibility for an reciprocal exchange with American student. NWSE has students from South America, Mexico, Asia, Europe, and former Soviet Union countries. If you would like more information, please contact Elaine at or visit Habitat for Humanity Teen Helpers Welcome! The teen week Habitat Mission in Mississippi is full. But St. Thomas OSJ has openings for the earlier week (June 5-12). Teens are welcome with a parent. It is a wonderful experience helping others and meeting the people of Tutwiler. It is a great opportunity for building homes, muscles, and relationships. You don t need to be a seasoned construction worker! You do need an open heart and a willingness to experience life in the Mississippi Delta. If you would like more information, please contact Sue Lane at St. Raphael Football This August, the St. Raphael Football Program will begin its 48th year serving the Naperville area. The league is open to all Naperville area children from age 6 to 12 and they are currently accepting registration. Player check-in is July 23, 24 and 26. For more information, download the football registration form or register online at Questions? Call Come be a part of the program and bring a friend. GUYS AND DOLLS Come celebrate with All Saints Catholic Academy as the Junior High Class presents Guys and Dolls Jr. Guys and Dolls Jr. is a Broadway musical comedy set in the 1940 s featuring a cast of unconventional characters including gamblers, do-gooders and night club entertainers! You will enjoy musical hits such as Luck Be a Lady, ; A Bushel and A Peck, and Sit Down, You re Rockin the Boat. All Saints Catholic Academy will feature two evening performances beginning Friday, May 7 at 7:30 p.m., and Saturday, May 8, 2010 at 7:30 p.m. All Saints Catholic Academy is located at 1155 Aurora Avenue in Naperville, Illinois Tickets will be sold at the door for $10/adults and $5 for children/seniors. For more information, please contact Theresa Hawley at thawley@wideopenwest.com or the school office at All Saints Catholic Academy School Board There will be an opening on the ASCA school board beginning in June. Anyone interested in serving on the board, please send a note of interest and qualifications to Fr. Joel (jfortier@stapostle.org), by May 15. The school board meets once a month on the fourth Tuesday (except July). You do not need to have a child attending the school to be considered. Page 9 April 25, 2010

10 Service Commission Outreach & Social Justice Duchity Healthcare Clinic Progress The team that just returned from Duchity reported on the progress of the clinic construction. It is a wonderful building and is expected to be completed by the end of May or early June. The original cost was $121,000. Thanks to Tom Coyle and the Nadira Corporation, the final payment has just been made. Tom, a St. Raphael s parishioner, traveled to the Netherlands on a business trip to visit his company s home office and presented the St. Thomas Twinning story. The company agreed to a matching program. Donations from Tom and other Nadira employees in the US and in Europe provided the last payment of $25,000! In walking through the clinic with Father Bellange, the Holy Cross priest/engineer that is building the clinic, some additional needed items were identified, including a 6KW generator for the clinic. The estimated cost for the additions is 10K. May Care Pantry Food Collection Next Weekend May 1/2 Here are the items we especially need Tuna Pasta Sauce Jiffy Mix Cake Mix Crackers Jell-o Wipes Popcorn Ramen Noodles Mac n Cheese Listen for the announcement during Liturgy after the Prayers of the Faithful. If you are able, carry your groceries to the altar at that time as a physical signan offering of a part of ourselves to the families who come to the Care Pantry Companions on our Journey. Habitat for Humanity Helpers Still Needed St. Thomas is again sending groups to Tutwiler, MS to work with Habitat for Humanity in June. Willing workers are especially still needed for Week 1-June 5 to 12. This is a great opportunity for building homes, muscles, and relationships-you don t need to be a seasoned construction worker! You do need an open heart and a willingness to experience life in the Mississippi Delta. If you would like more information, please contact Sue Lane at MAY KIDSKARE Ask if there is a chore you can do during the week-helping with Yard Work, perhapsto earn a jar of Pasta Sauce to bring to the altar when you come to church next weekend. April 25, 2010 Page 10 Thank You! Pregnant? Confused? Need Help? Please call Woman s Choice Services

11 Migration Initiative Update For those expecting to sign postcards on immigration reform last weekend, we needed to defer that activity to a later time due to the Bishop s Appeal and everything else that was taking place that weekend. We will provide a full opportunity in early June. You may remember Ramon Zepeda from St. Nicholas, who gave a witness talk at some masses during our Migration Initiative kick-off. His daughter, Michelle, traveled last month to the Immigration Reform rally in Washington D.C. Below is an excerpt from her reflection. More than 200,000 people linked arms together for immigrant rights. The people in that march were there not because of a single piece of legislation, they were there because of their stories - stories of hope for a better tomorrow. I saw people of many backgrounds come together, Asians, Caucasians, Africans, Latinos, At one point I remember standing alone and looking at the crowd. Chills went down my spine as I saw thousands of people as passionate for the same cause as I am. I felt so small, but at the same time incredibly powerful. I was proud to be part of creating change, but even more proud to be doing it with all of these other people whom I did not know. As we started walking through the residential area, I expected to experience some backlash. It did not happen. What I saw instead is something I will never forget. People came out of their homes cheering and waving; taking photographs. Another family came out of their home with water that they gave to us, which felt so good after a long, hot day. Among us we handed the water to those who needed it the most. I know I was very thirsty but I gave it to an elderly man next to me, whom I did not know. This is what America is all about. Michelle Zepeda Mother s Day Card Eileen Gleam is a parishioner who is the Co-Chair for a Project Love Mother s Day Card action. The mission of Project Love is to provide financial aid to pregnant women and new mothers in need. They will be offering a beautiful Mother s Day card for a free will donation at the Masses next weekend. More Earthquake Relief from Long Beach Hurricane Katrina, in addition to destroying the St. Thomas church in Long Beach, also destroyed their school. The school has since been rebuilt. Just as the St. Thomas Long Beach Parish sent us a donation for Haiti earthquake relief, so did their Saint Vincent de Paul Catholic School. We wanted to join our effort to help you with earthquake relief for Haiti. Our sixth graders have done odd jobs to earn the enclosed donation. Please accept this check for $145 from the sixth grade class of Saint Vincent de Paul to use for your mission in Haiti. We thank you for the help you gave us in Our prayers are with you. We are praying for all God s children. Church Women United of Naperville Invites you to MAY FRIENDSHIP DAY - Living the Vision Friday, May 7, St. Thomas - Lighthouse 11:30 am Registration. 11:45 Catered Chef's Salad Luncheon followed by small group discussion and worship. Childcare is available. Please call Rose Bagley, to reserve space. Please send $10 check to Mary O'Keefe, 6 S. Wright St., Naperville, 60540,by May 3. ALL ARE INVITED! Page 11 April 25, 2010

12 Pastoral Care Health Promotion Offering Health Ministry volunteers are available after the 7:30, 9:00 and 10:45 Sunday masses next weekend for Blood Pressure Screening and Education. The screening site is the Deacon s office, the first office left as you exit the Church (West Wing). All health conscious individuals are welcome. Call your Parish Nurses at x 104 or 140 with questions, concerns, or to schedule another time. From Our Parish Faith Community Nurse Healing Life s Hurts Here are 10 steps to handling life s hurts: 1. Recognize a problem exists. We cannot begin dealing with any problem in our life until we acknowledge the issue. Only then do we have something concrete to deal with. 2. Acknowledge the pain you feel or caused. Our emotions play a very important role in our wellbeing. Emotions are good! It shows we are human and that we have a heart. When we keep our anger, hurt and other feelings bottled up, we prevent ourselves from being the loving humans that God created. 3. Do one small, concrete thing to create change. As humans, change is a difficult thing for us. It causes us to stretch ourselves, to go into the unknown, to do the unfamiliar or uncomfortable. But if we start small and are consistent, the small change will become familiar and part of who we are. 4. Make amends if appropriate. As difficult as it may be, saying that you are sorry, is one of the most freeing experiences you can have. It allows you to acknowledge your wrong-doing and to evaluate your actions so as to prevent a future occurrence. 5. Remember, you always have choices. You may not have a choice in what happens to you, but you do have a choice in how you react or respond to what happens in your life. 6. Pray for strength, courage, and healing. The Lord heals the broken hearted, and binds up their wounds. (Psalm 147:2,3) 7. Share what you ve learned with others. Sharing gives hope to others who are going through life s healing journey. It helps them to know that they are not alone and that they too can make it through difficult times. 8. Don t give up hope or extinguish it in others. Viktor Frankl, psychiatrist and Nazi death camp survivor, wrote about prisoners who were constantly, comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. To him, these generous souls offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken but one thing: the last of human freedoms-to chose one s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one s own way. 9. Forgive yourself, forgive others. Forgiveness is NOT condoning, excusing, minimizing, forgetting, justifying, trusting or reconciling. Forgiveness IS however, a path to freedom. The one who forgives refuses to be controlled by the injury Presented by Wellspring Wellspring will present a discussion entitled Caregiving: Taking Care of Yourself While Caring for Others Tuesday, April 27 7:00 p.m. Are you caring for your older parents? Young children? Children with special needs? Are you remembering to take care of yourself? Join us on Tuesday, April 27 at 7:00 p.m. for a conversation with Joan Guest, MSW LCSW, a counselor from Samaritan Interfaith. For questions or to reserve a spot, contact Rose Grumbine x140. Presented by Wellspring, a group dedicated to presenting interactive educational experiences to integrate a wholistic way of living. Counseling Service: Call Samaritan Interfaith or Jan Olah, Pastoral Care x 124 You are central to our hearts. April 25, 2010 Page 12

13 Stewardship A Way of Life Last Weekend s stewardship of financial gifts... Weekly Sunday Offertory April 11, 2010 (week 41) Automatic Direct Debit Mailed in & stock donations Total for week *Based on Collection Counters Reports Fiscal Year (7/1 to 6/30) to date: Weekly Average 7/1/09 to date: Offertory Goal Year to Date Over/short of goal to date: Goal for Fiscal Year 7/1 to 6/30 Remaining for Fiscal Year goal $23,613 $16,810 $4,917 $45,340 $1,458,920 $35,583 $1,451,400 $7,520 $1,840,800 $381,880 Stewardship A Way of Life Last Weekend s stewardship of financial gifts... Weekly Sunday Offertory April 18, 2010 (week 42) Automatic Direct Debit Mailed in & stock donations Total for week *Based on Collection Counters Reports Fiscal Year (7/1 to 6/30) to date: Weekly Average 7/1/09 to date: Offertory Goal Year to Date Over/short of goal to date: Goal for Fiscal Year 7/1 to 6/30 Remaining for Fiscal Year goal $18,478 n/a $1,896 $20,374 $1,479,294 $35,221 $1,486,800 ($7,506) $1,840,800 $361,506 Wed, May 5, 1:00 p.m. Lunch at Olive Garden Meeting to follow. Call Barb Bigus with reservations Thurs, May 27, Horseshoe Casino Trip $20 includes round trip bus, buffet lunch and a $5 coupon. Bus leaves from church parking lot at 9:15 a.m. and returns at 5 p.m. All seniors are invited Call Bill Mann Money must be received by May 21 Knights of Columbus Council #1369 How many times in your life have you asked yourself, How can I live my faith and serve my Church, family and community better? It seems as if there is never enough time to reach out into the community or find the strength to serve one and all. There is a family oriented, faith-filled, organization that can help you find this outlet. The Knights of Columbus is just such an organization! The Naperville Knights of Columbus are conducting a parish-wide membership drive over the next two weeks. There will be an Open House informational meeting regarding the Knights of Columbus Council in our parish to take place on Wednesday April 28, 2010 at 7:00 p.m. The Open House will take place at the Council Hall located at 615 E. Ogden Avenue in Naperville, IL Please mark your calendar. This is a meeting you will not want to miss. If you have any questions or need more information prior to the Open House please contact Eddie Collins, Membership Director at Page 13 April 25, 2010

14 Administration Commission Jobs Ministry Weekly Networking Meeting Friday mornings at 9:30 a.m. (after the 8:30 a.m. Liturgy) Lighthouse MAY PRESENTATION Wednesday, May 26, at 7:00 p.m.: Career management author Brian Graham (Get Hired Fast!), founder of CLH Consulting, and who has 20 years of corporate and consulting experience, will present The Job Search in a Jobless Recovery: New Realities and Strategies for He will discuss the current job market and the new realities and strategies for career survival in the tumultuous job market following the worst global recession since WWII. Among the topics covered will be: Why it is so difficult to get a job, why it isn t your fault, and what can be done about it. Where and how to find your next role Do the old techniques still work, and if so, how can I make them more effective Be prepared for a lively interactive dialogue with a recruiting industry leader who has led division and corporate talent acquisition for ADP, Sprint, Sequent Computer Systems (now part of IBM), and global talent acquisition for Navistar International before founding a consultancy focusing on career management and corporate talent acquisition strategy consulting in St. Thomas the Apostle Church, 1500 Brookdale Road, Naperville, IL Friday meeting formats include announcements, speaker presentation, and 2 rounds of networking. Prepare your elevator speech, and bring enough handbills to pass out to 20 fellow networkers. Wednesday night is speaker only, no formal networking. Contact Jim Breen at jimb4853@yahoo.com for more info. Fri, May 7, 9:30 a.m.: Pamela Marte, a Certified Professional Career Coach, will share her 25 years of experience to help maximize the impressions you make and how to stand out from the crowd in her presentation, Creating Your Personal Brand, linking: appearance and the other s perception, behavior and communication, attitude and actions. Fri, May 14, 9:30 a.m.: Small Business Panel Discussion with Ron Ewald, President of The Brickkicker, John Pettinger, CEO of Brexis Courier, and John Ball, retired past President of HBIS Engineering. Is small business something that may be the right fit for you? Hear their experiences and then ask the questions to gain insight. April 25, 2010 Page 14 THE WEEK AHEAD Monday, Apr. 26 4:15 5:15 p.m. Youth Choir, Church 7:30 9:30 p.m. Haiti Twinning, Senior Center Tuesday, Apr :00 11:00 a.m. Care Pantry, Lighthouse 7:00 9:00 p.m. Adult Basketball, Gym 7:00 9:30 p.m. Voices of Faith, Church 7:00 9:00 p.m. Charismatic Prayer Group, Judea Wednesday, Apr. 28 4:15 5:15 p.m. Joyful Jammers, Church 7:00 9:30 p.m. Coed Volleyball, Gym 7:00 8:30 p.m. DuPage United, Senior Center 7:30 9:00 p.m. Miryam Rehearsal, Emmaus Thursday, Apr. 29 6:00 7:15 p.m. Journey Praise, Church 7:30 9:30 p.m. Genesis Rehearsal, Church Friday, Apr. 30 9:00 11:30 a.m. Bible Study, Senior Center Saturday, May 1 8:30 11:30 a.m. Bread of Life, Rectory Basement 9:00 10:30 a.m. Men s Saturday Sharing, Senior Center West 4:30 5:30 p.m. 1st Communion Mass, Church Sunday, May 2 7:00 10:00 a.m. RCIA, Senior Center 8:30am-12:00 p.m. Blood Pressure Sunday, Deacon s Office 9:00 10:00 a.m. 1st Communion Mass, Church 9:00 11:45 a.m. Liturgy of the Word for Children, Ministry Center 12:15 1:15 p.m. 1st Communion Mass, Church 12:00 1:30 p.m. Adult Confirmation Preparation, Cana Fri, May 21, 9:30 a.m.: Sima Dahl, President, Parlay Communications, Ltd. will share her 20 years of experience as a marketing consultant and social media strategist, in her presentation, The Art of Networking in a Digital Age. Learn about her Sway Factor system, the framework to make your online time effective, efficient, and profitable. Wed, May 26, 7:00 p.m.: Brian Graham, founder of CLH Consulting, a firm that provides career management and corporate talent acquisition consulting, and who has 20 years of corporate and consulting experience, will present The Job Search in a Jobless Recovery: New Realities and Strategies for He will discuss the current job market and the new realities and strategies for career survival in the tumultuous job market following the worst global recession since WWII. Be prepared for a lively interactive dialogue with a recruiting industry leader who has led division and corporate talent acquisition for several