CHRISTMAS, CHRIST S DAY!

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1 St. George Greek Orthodox Church Volume 17, Issue 4 November/December 2017 The Bi-Monthly Newsletter of St. George Greek Orthodox Church A Message from our Proistamenos CHRISTMAS, CHRIST S DAY! +Father Andrew Eugenis As the years pass by, I find it harder and harder to keep Christ in Christmas. Once Thanksgiving ends we will soon begin to see beautiful lights, candles, snowflakes that decorate our malls and city streets. People will adorn their homes with the colors of red and green, put wreaths and candles and dazzling lights in their windows. These decorations even appear in our schools and businesses. It s the Christmas season! As my children were growing up, I saw and read the stories and colorings they would bring home from school each year. However, throughout the years I never saw any mention whatsoever about Jesus or His Birth in all of their works. It saddens me that today when you ask youngsters what Christmas is about, you would be amazed at their response! Most children think Christmas is more about presents than about Christ. And why shouldn t they? There is no mention of Christ in the schools or malls anymore. Most townships stopped putting up manger scenes as not to offend anyone. What about when you go shopping: what happened to Merry Christmas, that s right, I forgot it s Happy Holiday now. As I think about it more and more, I too began to realize that Christmas really is only about presents. So, if Christmas is only about presents, then what kind of presents are we talking about? I would like to share a few stories about Christmas and presents with you to better understand my point of view: It s about presents. Christmas truly really is about presents It s about a father who scolded his three-year-old daughter for wasting a full roll of gold wrapping paper. Since money was tight, he became furious when his little daughter tried to decorate a box with the wrapping paper and put it under the Christmas tree. Yet, on Christmas day, the little girl brought the gift wrapped in gold paper to her father and said, "This is for you, Daddy." When he saw the gift, he was embarrassed by his earlier reaction, but his anger flared up again as he unwrapped the gift, opened the box, and found it empty. "Don t you know when you give someone a present, there s supposed to be something inside of it?" he shouted. With tears in her eyes, the little girl looked up at him and said, "Daddy, it s not empty. I blew kisses into the box and put them in there for you." Her father then smiled, put his arms around his little girl, and begged her forgiveness and kept that gold box by his bed for years so that whenever he was discouraged he would take out a kiss and remember the love of his little daughter who put it there. The gift of love! (Continued on page 16) IN THIS ISSUE President s Message p. 3 Stewardship p. 4 Philoptochos p Budgets p. 14 AHEPA p. 18 Monthly Calendars p DIVINE LITURGY HOURS Orthros 8:30 a.m. Liturgy 9:30 a.m. ST. GEORGE GREEK ORTHODOX CHURCH 1033 West Park Avenue Ocean, NJ P: F: Website: PROISTAMENOS Father Andrew Eugenis OFFICE MANAGER Karen Catizone kcatizone@stgeorgeap.org CHURCH OFFICE HOURS Monday-Friday: 9 a.m. 4 p.m. Father Andrew s Office Hours Mon., Tues., & Fri: 9:30 a.m. 1:30 p.m. Wed.: 2 p.m. 6 p.m. If there is no response to your phone call during regular office hours, please leave a message and someone will return your call ASAP. In case of emergency, call the church office for more information.

2 Page 2 THE BEACON November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 PARISH COUNCIL PRESIDENT Spiro Pappas spappas134@gmail.com EXEC.VICE PRESIDENT John Vrettos johnvret@aol.com VICE PRESIDENT Theo Koufidakis theoritorto@aol.com TREASURER Athena Loesch kevinloesch@aol.com ASST. TREASURER George Costidis gccostidis@aol.com SECRETARY Barbara Terlecsky bterlecsky@aol.com MEMBERS Dimitris Geaneas jgeaneas@msn.com Teddy Kavarakas kavarakas@aol.com Nick Kosmas kma100@msn.com Louie Koumoutsos hrima@aol.com Peter Lalli Peter.Lalli@sanofi.com John Pardenek JPardenek@aol.com Mike Psomias mikepsomias@aol.com Peter Thomas koroni1@hotmail.com Athanasios Tsilivitis athan944@aol.com MINISTRIES & ORGANIZATIONS AGAPE A.H.E.P.A. Acolyte Coordinator Beacon Beacon Advertising Cemetery Choir Directors Daughters of Penelope G.O.Y.A. Greek School Historian Philoptochos Photographers P.T.O. Socialites Kali Parea Soup Kitchen Stewardship Sunday School Website Administrator Youth Advisors Vicki Kamaratos Arthur Pappaylion Emanuel Tsarnas Theo Koufidakis Sophia Anest Stephen G. Pappayliou Alex Karpodinis Pauline Aridas Patty Vlahos Jordana Freidl Olivia Magoulas Vasiliki Nikolettos Demitri Karagias Elise Rogers Arthur Pappaylion Barbara Terlecsky Anastasia Kerris Sophia Anest Athena Papanikolaou Soula Tsettos Barbara Terlecsky Kristen Cline Mike Sakelaris Fr. Andrew Eugenis George Moutis Our Beacon of Orthodoxy & Hellenism newsletter is published five times a year. All submissions and pictures will be reviewed prior to printing by the Beacon committee and under the guidance of Father Andrew Eugenis. All articles, flyers and photos must be submitted by with a contact name and phone number to: Theo Koufidakis theoritorto@aol.com All submissions must be received by the following deadline dates in order to be considered: Edition Deadline January/February December 1 March/April February 1 May/June April 1 August/September/October July 1 November/December October 1 WEBSITE Submissions If you would like to add an article or flyer to our website, please submit them to Karen Catizone at kcatizone@stgeorgeap.org And make sure to follow us on facebook and twitter! PROUD SUPPORTERS OF THE BEACON Sophia Anest The Billows Family Dorothy Dimtsios The Kamaratos Family Demitri & Helen Karagias Mary & George Karagias The Koumoutsos Family Peter, Teri, Demitra, Sophia Lalli Kevin, Athena & James Loesch George Michals Family Victoria & John Michals George, Kasandra, Nicole & Dana Moutis ORGANIZATION SUPPORTERS George N. Panas Angela Pappas Spiro, Elayna, Dean & Alexandra Pappas Stephen G. Pappayliou Bess Peterson Mary Sandilos Helen Skopas The Emanuel Tsarnas Family Athanasios, Melanie Tsilivitis & Family Savas & Maria Tsivicos A.H.E.P.A. Daughters of Penelope Thomas Edison Chapter #287 Aulis Chapter #195 St. George GOYA St. George PTO St. George Philoptochos St. George Socialites

3 November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 THE BEACON Page 3 A Message from our Parish Council President \ We just celebrated the start of a new ecclesiastical year schools have reopened and the business of life and the Church comes out of vacation mode. We at St. George have a very busy period coming up. Our Greek School and Sunday Schools programs have resumed. With regard to Greek School, while we have a slight drop off in Greek School enrollments, this year will be a time to strengthen the fundamentals of the program to create a stronger, more vibrant educational and cultural experience for our youth. The same can be said for our Sunday School, where we hope to deliver a rich religious experience for the children of our community. The Parish Council has been hard at work to make sure our complex stays in good shape and remains a facility we can continue to be very proud of. We work to maintain our property - repairs have been made to the grounds and plans are in development to fix the retention basin and erect a proper storage building. On October 15 th we had our Fall Parish Assembly meeting where we reviewed all the current and future projects of our parish life. Thank you to all our ministry leaders for their contributions to our meeting and our parish life. Thank you also to all those who attended the Assembly and took an active part in the decision making of our parish. In addition to reviewing our Stewardship and Treasurers Reports, we also reviewed our 2018 budget see pages 14 & 15. This coming month, on Sunday, November 19, we will have our annual Stewardship Sunday. We ask our community to make their financial pledge for 2018 by filling out the Stewardship Commitment form and placing in the second tray that Sunday in church. There s no need for payment on that day, just a commitment. We also ask that everyone complete their 2017 Stewardship commitment if they haven t already before the end of the year. The Church office can provide you with information about your pledge and payment status. It takes all of us together as one St. George family, to build and grow our parish. Finally, I want to continue to remind everyone of our upcoming Iconography Project and ask that you please make every effort to financially support the project. Consider sponsoring an icon either alone, or with family and friends - in memory a loved one. If you cannot donate an individual icon, w please consider making a donation to our Community Icon the 12 Prophets. Thank you all for your support of St. George. We could not continue to thrive and grow if not for the contributions of each and every one of our stewards. God bless, Spiro Pappas RECENT SACRAMENTS Baby Blessings Nicholas Gregory Sariotis July 9 Savvina Marina Maltabes July 16 Baptisms Emma Rose Gemelos July 1 Theo Alexander Barnes July 30 Dimitrios Pangiotis Kernizan Aug. 12 Russell John Crane IV Aug. 19 Alexander Konstantinos Ring-Makrinos Sept. 9 Savvina Marina Maltabes Sept. 23 Christina Bennett Sept. 24 Chrismations Ashley Grimm Sept. 3 Weddings Pavlos Dimitroulakos & Nicole Doucette July 1 Daniel Justin Russomanno & Alexandra Caliope Parlamas July 29 Dean Alexander Athans & Allegra Alexandria Maglio July 30 Joseph John Campitello & Michele Marziarz Sept. 23 Funerals George Karavolas Sept. 1 Anastasia Kokkinakis Sept. 11 Dennis Charles Droushiotis Sept. 21 To schedule Sunday Memorial (Mnimosino) or 40 day Baby Blessing, please contact the Church office no later than Wednesday of that week. Please be advised that the family is responsible for ordering and securing koliva for the memorial service. Editor s Note: The article in the last issue of the Beacon on Stephen G. Pappayliou, past president of the St. George Cemetery Association and his contribution to the beautification and maintenance of the cemetery, was written and researched by both Athena Loesch and Sophia Anest. Thank you to both and may his memory be eternal.

4 Page 4 THE BEACON November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 SPIRIT OF STEWARDSHIP Every man shall give as he is able, according to the blessing the Lord your God gave you. (Deuteronomy 16:17) November is the time for giving Thanks to our Lord. As we welcome the holiday season with the celebration of Thanksgiving, it is a day that we reflect on the blessings our Lord has given to us and our loved ones. We at St. George are thankful for many things, but as a congregation, we are most grateful for our church home in Ocean. We worked hard to build our new complex, and now we extend our thanks to our Lord as we enjoy the fruits of our labor. Stewardship Sunday 2018 is on Sunday, November 19, On that Sunday, we ask that as one loving and devoted family, we offer our 2018 Stewardship Commitment Forms to support Christ s Church of St. George. You will be receiving your packet in the mail shortyl. In the meantime, please see the following page for 2018 Stewardaship Commitment Form. Please place your completed form in the second tray that is passed on November 19 th. We are asking only for your heartfelt and prayerful pledges only no contribution is requested at this time. We encourage everyone to join our church family in our spiritual, social and philanthropic activities. We are forming new ministries as we uncover the need such as our new AGAPE Ministry! How can you become an active parishioner at St. George? Time + Talent + Treasure = STEWARDSHIP We welcome and are grateful to all our good Stewards of St. George Barbara Kissas Terlecsky, Stewardship Chairman, bterlecsky@aol.com Join our St. George Church group Facebook page. AGAPE When someone does you wrong, don t do what comes naturally; do what comes supernaturally Love him! AGAPE is Christian love..in Action. IT NEVER STOPS DOING GOOD Contact: Vicki Kamaratos - vassilia71@aol.com or call Day Blessing: Colleen Pardenek kallip19@aol.com Wedding: Tasi Pappaylion tasipappaylion@gmail.com New Hope/Grief Support Antonia Lyons antonia816@aol.com Funeral Group: Sophia Anest sophiaharry@optonline.net Fellowship in Prayer: George Moutis gmoutis@scinj.com Welcome: Angela Koumoutsos fiore88@aol.com St. George Guides: Arthur Pappaylion apaylion@outlook.com Faithful Hands: Bea Paparsenos beapap@live.com Knit& Crochet Anne Marie Ruvelas aruvelas@verizon.net Hospitality: Vicki Kamaratos vassilia71@aol.com Coffee Hour Helpers Angela Koumoutsos fiore88@aol.com Join a group or start another. Share what you love to do with others! Visit us at May you all have a blessed Christmas!!

5 November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 THE BEACON Page 5 ST. GEORGE GREEK ORTHODOX CHURCH 1033 WEST PARK AVENUE, OCEAN, NJ PHONE: FAX: CHRISTIAN STEWARDSHIP COMMITMENT FORM Please complete your Stewardship Commitment form and return on Stewardship Sunday, November 19, 2017 FAMILY INFORMATION Last Name First Name Cell Phone # [ _ Are you a new member to St. George Y N Orthodox: Yes No ] address: Occupation Spouse s First Name Cell Phone # [ Orthodox: Yes No ] address: Occupation Street Address Home Phone # [ ] City State Zip Children s Name(s) & Birthdates(s) PLEDGE INFORMATION In gratitude for God s blessings, I/we pledge to contribute for Christ s work at St. George Church for 2018: $ $10,000 $ $1, Suggested minimum for Families $ $7,500 $ $ Suggested minimum for Seniors and Singles $ $5,000 $ $ Suggested minimum pledge for College Students $ $3,000 $ Other (Please enter Total Amount of your commitment) The above amount will be given: Weekly Monthly Quarterly Semi-annually Signature Date CREDIT CARD PAYMENT INFORMATION I authorize the payment of my pledge, according to the payment plan selected, by the following credit card: VISA / MC / AMEX # Exp. Date Code Cardholder s Name as shown on card (Please Print) Card member s Signature ELECTRONIC CHURCH MAILING OPTION This allows you to receive our Beacon bi-monthly bulletin via , as well as other important church announcements. Please select only one of the following options: only. (Preferred method) and by Post Office mail. Post Office mail only. s will be sent to all addresses listed under the Family Information section above. Please print legibly. ENJOY THE CONVENIENCE OF ELECTRONIC GIVING!! You can now pledge and pay your Stewardship and your regular weekly offerings with the convenience of electronic giving! On our new Vanco system, Direct Debit Giving is used to automatically transfer funds from your checking or savings account to the church s bank account. Credit & Debit Card Giving allows you to make offerings automatically on a pre-determined schedule using a credit or debit card. Go to You can easily set up an automatic donation plan, change your donation plan, make a one-time donation or view your online donation history. As you contemplate future contributions, please consider electronic giving. Stewardship Deadline: Palm Sunday, April 1, 2018 Please call the Church office with any questions. Stewardship payment envelopes are available at the Pangari and from our Church office.

6 Page 6 THE BEACON November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 Ladies Philoptochos Society The months of September and October just seemed to fly by. Philoptochos was very busy with preparing and hosting our Annual Fall Luncheon at Eagle Oaks Golf & Country Club on Saturday, October 14, Rula Casey and MaryAnn Iliopoulos once again Co-Chaired our biggest and most important fundraiser of the year and they did it with style and expertise. Victoria Moutis-Michals, Angie Gregos-Swaroop and Kasandra Moutis amazed us with the incredible on-premise gift auction. A tremendous thank you to Nike Valente and Anastasia Pappaylion for organizing the off-premise raffle, Denise Parlamas for coordinating the models and the fashion show, Elayna Pappas for reservation, Soula Tsettos for organizing the Sweet Shop, Athena Loesch for handling publicity, Effie Nicas for the invitation mailings, Gayle Billows for the favors, Deirdre Kosmas for the invitations, centerpieces and decorations, and the entire membership for their support and hard work, donations and solicitations of gifts. Thank you to our generous sponsors of the off-premise raffle and tickets: The Teevan Family and Anthony Valente Home Improvement Contractor, LLC, Angela Pappas, Sabrina Michals, Elvira Michals, Esther Chrisicos, Gayle Billows, and MaryAnn Iliopoulos. Every year in the fall, Philoptochos prepares Thinking of You packages to send to our college bound GOYAN students as a reminder that they are always in our thoughts and prayers and wished well as they embark on their new year. The Wreath & Blanket Community Project is back again this year. For the first time we have the support of the GOYANS who have agreed to place the grave blankets at the cemetery for any of our parishioners who request it. This will be done on Saturday, December 2 nd when they visit for cemetery clean up. Please contact George Moutis if you would like the GOYANS to place your grave blanket at the cemetery. You will need to provide the grave site location. The wreaths and grave blankets will be available for pick up on Saturday & Sunday, November 25 th & 26 th. This year under the auspices of His Eminence Archbishop Demetrios, Geron of America and the blessing of our beloved Metropolis Evangelos of New Jersey, the Greek Orthodox Ladies Philoptochos Society of the Metropolis of New Jersey is honored to host the Sixteenth National Philoptochos Children s Medical Fund Luncheon on Saturday, November 11, 2017 at The Venetian, in Garfield, NJ. The Luncheon is returning to the Metropolis of New Jersey for the first time since The monies collected from this luncheon will provide substantial grant awards to hospitals and special children s medical programs throughout our Metropolis. Established in 1989 by the National Philoptochos, the Children s Medical Fund has made a significant and positive impact on the lives of children in the United States and in other parts of the world. Through generous support, proceeds of the Luncheon have allowed the Society to donate over $3 million to children dealing with life-threatening illness, including cancer, juvenile diabetes, kidney and liver ailments, heart disease, etc. as well as innovative research programs and facilities that offer care, treatment and cures. Our Saint George Philoptochos Chapter 1021 has made a $5,000 Sponsorship Donation. If you have not yet purchased a ticket to attend this wonderful event, or cannot attend due to a conflict, please make every attempt to support the luncheon by purchasing a raffle or making a donation. Please check out the Bulletin Board in the Administration Building for a Calendar of Events and Philoptochos News. A huge shout out to Penelope Gabriel for decorating and keeping the board updated. Remember our upcoming General Membership Meetings: -Thursday, November 16 th - 6:30 PM -Monday, December 11 th - Philoptochos/AHEPA Family Christmas Dinner at Charley s Ocean Grill, 29 Avenel Blvd., Long Branch, NJ. Send in your reservation $30.00 per person. Flyer on page 9 Respectfully Submitted, Elise Rogers/President

7 November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 THE BEACON Page 7 Saint George Greek Orthodox Church Philoptochos November 2017 Dear Parishioner, The Ladies Philoptochos Society Saint George Chapter 1021 sincerely urges every woman at St. George to become a member. For the past 89 years, this philanthropic arm of the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese of America continues to undertake a multitude of programs supporting many worthy organizations and offering aid to those in need. The mission of Philoptochos is to promote charitable and philanthropic outreach through the individual Philoptochos societies within each Greek Orthodox Church. Being part of this dedicated group of women provides a rewarding opportunity to connect with our community, to learn from others, share new ideas and to build meaningful relationships tied to a common goal of Philanthropy. Your participation and support enables our organization to continue to deliver on our commitments and to strive to achieve and exceed our goals. Please note and take into consideration that $22.00 of your membership donation meets our National and Metropolis obligation. $30 $50 $75 $100 I cannot join at this time, but would like to help with an event I cannot join at this time, but would like to make a tax deductible donation $ Please make checks payable to: The Ladies Philoptochos Society along with this stewardship membership pledge. Name Address City State Zip Telephone # We welcome you all and with your support look forward to another productive year! 1033 West Park Avenue-Ocean, New Jersey Tel:(732) Fax: (732) Web: Reverend Father Andrew Eugenis FRA333@aol.com

8 Page 8 THE BEACON November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 Ladies Philoptochos Society FIND YOUR NICHE AND VOLUNTEER Dear Philoptochos Membership and St. George stewards, Following please find a list of Philoptochos sponsored events that we need your help hosting. FIND YOUR NICHE and commit to helping with at least 1 event. When you FIND YOUR NICHE please contact Elise Rogers/President either by telephone (732) or eliseg111357@gmail.com. VISITATION: HOMEBOUND/NURSING HOMES: Assembling & delivering Christmas and Pascha Baskets for Homebound Coordinators: Dee Petrantis & Errie Teevan FELLOWSHIP BASKETS FOR COLLEGE BOUND STUDENTS: Every year Philoptochos prepares Thinking of You packages to send to our college students as a reminder that they are always in our thoughts and prayers and wished well as they embark on their new adventure. Coordinator(s): Claire Chrysanthopoulos & Errie Teevan EPIPHANY HOUSE, Asbury Park, New Jersey: Epiphany House is committed to promoting recovery and self-sufficiency for chemically dependent women and children who are homeless or at risk of homelessness. Epiphany House provides transitional housing and a continuum of health care and social services. At Christmas time, Philoptochos provides personal care products to the women and toys for the children residing at their facility on Grand Avenue. Last year, we prepared gifts for 18 women and 12 children. Gifts need to be purchased, wrapped, tagged with our organizations name, and delivered one week before Christmas. We welcome any member who wishes to spearhead this outreach and perhaps reach out for donations of toys and gifts. VASILOPITA SUNDAY RECEPTION DATE: SUNDAY, JANUARY 7 th, 2018 PLACE: ST. GEORGE BANQUET HALL Philoptochos sponsors a Vasilopita Reception for our St. George Community to welcome in the New Year. Volunteers needed to assist with the following: Set Up, Break down/clean Up, Preparing an Appetizer/Dessert, Make Phone Calls. Philoptochos/ AHEPA Family Christmas Dinner Monday, December 11 th, 2017 at 6:30 p.m. Charley s Ocean Grill, 29 Avenel Blvd. Long Branch, NJ Cost: $30.00 per person Choice of three entrees; Chicken, Fish, or Beef Salad, Vegetable & Potato, Dessert, Coffee, Tea, or Soda A complimentary glass of Wine or Beer with your meal. Reservation Form Due by: December 4 th Name(s): Indicate: Chicken Fish Beef Please make your check payable to: St. George Philoptochos/Christmas Dinner. Mail to: 1033 West Park Avenue, Ocean, NJ Bring a gift; Get a gift- Value $20.00

9 November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue THE BEACON Page 9 Saint George Greek Orthodox Church Philoptochos Dear Parishioners, The Christmas card event organized by Philoptochos is a way for the St. George Community to express their prayers and wishes to loved ones for a blessed Christmas Holiday. The cover of the card will be adorned with beautiful religious artistry that captures the essence of the meaning of Christmas. As a subscriber, your name/names will be listed on the card and sent to all church members and friends whose names appear on the St. George Church mailing list. As Philoptochos prepares the annual Christmas card, it is our hope that every member and friend of our parish will include his or her names on the card. The donation is $15.00 per family, which is a savings in time, effort, and cost if you were to send them out individually. To avoid any errors or omission, please print your name/names as you wish it to appear in the card and return the form in the enclosed envelope. One family per line. With Seasonal Blessings, Father Andrew Eugenis Elise Rogers Penelope Gabriel Pastor Philoptochos President Tasi Pappaylion Chairpersons Print your name as you wish it to appear on the solid line below with your phone number Name Please return this form in the enclosed envelope as soon as possible along with your check for $15.00, made payable to St. George Philoptochos. Deadline: November 10, 2017 Signed Phone Check No West Park Avenue-Ocean, New Jersey Tel :(732) Fax: (732) Web: Reverend Father Andrew Eugenis FRA333@aol.com

10 Page 10 THE BEACON November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 Buy your Holiday Grave Blanket and Christmas Wreath from the Saint George Ladies Philoptochos Society. Medium Grave Pillow with Natural Decorations $27.00 (Birch branches, pinecones and a weatherproof red bow) Square - approximately 2 ½ feet in size Large Grave Blanket with Natural Decorations $30.00 (Birch branches, pinecones and a weatherproof red bow) Rectangular - approximately 40L X 22W Double Sided, undecorated 10in. diameter wreath - $15.00 Decorated-$17.00 Undecorated 12 in. diameter wreath - $17.00 Decorated-$ in. Decorated- $ in. Undecorated-$ in. Decorated-$ in. Undecorated-$25.00 Order Form: Order by Friday, November 17th Name: Telephone: Medium Grave Pillow Quantity Large Grave Blanket Quantity 10 inch Wreath-Plain Quantity 12 inch Wreath- Plain Quantity 10 inch Wreath-Decorated Quantity 12 inch Wreath-Decorated Quantity 14 inch Wreath-Decorated Quantity 20 inch Wreath-Undecorated Quantity 20 inch Wreath-Decorated Quantity TOTAL: Blankets and Wreaths will be ready for pick up at St. George Church on Sunday, November 26, Please mail your check and order form to Elise Rogers 2210 Glenmere Court, Wall New Jersey or place your check and order form in the Philoptochos mail box at church. Make checks payable to St. George Philoptochos Society. If you would like our St. George GOYANS to place your grave blanket at the cemetery for you please indicates the grave location and name. Name: Location:

11 November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 THE BEACON Page 11 St. George Greek Orthodox Church 1033 West Park Avenue Ocean, NJ Father Andrew Eugenis Invites You to Our Spiritual Enrichment Program Fr. Barnabas Powell A Journey to Fullness Video Series WEDNESDAY, Video Cast NOVEMBEr Series 8 In the Library 7:00-8:00 p.m. What is the Orthodox Church When Did Orthodoxy Begin Upcoming Sessions: NOVEMBER 15: Characteristics of Orthodox Christianity Mindset Matters DECEMBER 6: Christmas Prayer Service A Healing Purpose DECEMBER 20: Truth & Tradition How Do I Understand the Bible 2018 VesperS ServiceS St. Efstratios Chapel 5:00-5:45 p.m. A Journey to Fullness Video to follow January 6: When we say God Part 1 January 20: When we say God Part 2 FEBRUARY 10: God With Us FEBRUARY 24: Our Ultimate Purpose We are blessed to have Father Barnabas Powell via video conference at our November 8 session. Come join us!

12 Page 12 THE BEACON November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 Spiritual Enrichment MINISTRIES Circle of Faith This internet ministry provides s of podcasts, videos and daily readings to educate and deepen our understanding of our journey to Orthodoxy. Leader: Barbara Terlecsky bterlecsky@aol.com Fellowship in Prayer This ministry prays continually for the ill, believing in God s Will, compassion and love. Please inform us if someone is in need of prayer. First names are posted in the Sunday bulletin; please add them to your daily prayer life. Leader: George Moutis gmoutis@scinj.com Spiritual Growth This ministry provides many enlightening and educational programs throughout the year in harmony with the liturgical cycle helping participants to come to a deeper understanding of the Orthodox Faith. Priest: Father Andrew Eugenis frandrew@stgeorgeap.org Sharing Our Faith Book Corner This ministry conducts sessions to discuss books about the Orthodox Faith to enrich understanding of our lives through the lens of the Church. Leader: Teri Lalli lalliptds@comcast.net The Mustard Seed Book Store The new book store will be open on Sundays during Coffee Hour stocked with a variety of books about Orthodoxy, liturgical music CD s, icons and other religious items. Leader: Teri Lalli lalliptds@comcast.net Circle of Faith: Feature Podcasts Less Than Human: Fr Apostolos Hill, Dean of Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Cathedral in Phoenix Fr Apostolos speaks about the horrific events in Las Vegas Christmas Prayer service December 6, :00 p.m. Father Andrew will conduct a special Christmas Season Memorial service to remember those who have fallen asleep in the Lord. During this service Father Andrew will read the names of the departed. A small reception in the library will follow. You re welcome to bring an ornament in honor of your loved one(s) to place on our Christmas tree. If you would like to have Father Andrew read the name of a loved one(s) please submit the name(s) to: Antonia Lyons or Antonia816@aol.com All are welcome to come and honor the memory of a loved one. A Sower Went Out to Sow: Fr. Barnabas Powell is the parish priest at Sts. Raphael, Nicholas, and Irene Greek Orthodox Church in Cumming, GA. In a world where our priorities are so disjointed that we find ourselves investing the best of our lives in temporary things while eternal things go without, we have to confront with honesty and repentance the challenge of authentic Christian Stewardship

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14 Page 14 THE BEACON November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 PARISH ASSEMBLY PRESENTATION 2017 PROJECTED AND 2018 PROPOSED BUDGET INCOME 2017 Budget 2017 Projected Total 2018 Proposed Budget Stewardship $295, $295, $320, Candles $55, $55, $58, Tray Collections $25, $16, $19, Memorial Offerings $7, $4, $6, Christmas Donations $4, $3, $3, Pascha/Epitaphios Donations $6, $7, $6, Flower Donations $2, $1, $1, Parishioner Donations Sub-Total $394, $381, $413, Food Festival $215, $198, $204, Taste of The Shore $20, $16, $18, /50 Raffle $33, $25, $25, Fundraising Sub-Total $268, $240, $247, Gym Rental $69, $69, $69, Rental $93, $96, $99, Utility Reimbursements $39, $38, $39, Snow Removal Reimbursement $4, $1, $2, Ocean Township Complex Rental Sub-Total $205, $204, $209, Asbury Park Payments Total $128, $128, $128, Other Donations Sub-Total $18, $10, $12, Greek School Sub-Total $10, $7, $10, Bookstore Sub-Total $ $ $3, Miscellaneous Income Sub-Total $30, $12, $15, TOTAL INCOME $1,053, $984, $1,037,700.00

15 November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 THE BEACON Page 15 PARISH ASSEMBLY PRESENTATION 2017 PROJECTED AND 2018 PROPOSED BUDGET EXPENSES 2017 Budget 2017 Projected Total 2018 Proposed Budget Clergy and Staff Sub-Total $308,350 $310,400 $317,000 Food Festival $105, $105, $105, /50 Raffle $17, $15, $15, Taste of The Shore $2, $1, $2, Fundraising Sub-Total $124, $122, $122, Utilities Sub-Total $125, $117, $125, Complex Maintenance and Supplies Sub-Total $120, $110, $120, Archdiocese National Ministry Commitment $63, $63, $68, Metropolis and Archdiocese Miscellaneous $3, $9, $9, Archdiocese and Metropolis Sub-Total $67, $73, $77, Insurance Sub-Total $28, $31, $30, Church Supplies Sub-Total $19, $18, $19, Office Expenses Sub-Total $27, $37, $32, Sponsorships Sub-Total $3, $3, $3, Fire and Security Sub-Total $10, $6, $7, Property Taxes $2, $2, $2, Sunday School Sub-Total $4, $2, $2, Greek School Sub-Total $3, $1, $2, Miscellaneous $8, $24, $8, Mortgage $128, $128, $128, Capital Improvements $75, $60, $75, TOTAL EXPENSES $ 1,053, $ 1,047, $ 1,072, $63, $34,300.00

16 Page 16 THE BEACON November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 * Class Time: Immediately following Holy Communion until 11:40am Welcome to the Sunday School year! As you can see from the picture we are off to a great start! I would like to take this opportunity to thank not only Father Andrew and the dedicated teachers for sharing their love of the faith, but also to all the parents who are bringing their children every week to learn about the love and life of Christ. We have approximately 80 students registered and look forward to many more joining us throughout the course of the year. If you still have not officially registered your child, please see their teacher or Kristen for a form (or take one from the Sunday School Bulletin Board) and return it to the main office. We are also always looking for Sunday School volunteers, both as occasional aides and substitutes. Please contact Kristen if you are interested. Upcoming dates to remember: November 12: Godparent Sunday and Teaching Liturgy. Please invite your child s Godparent to join us in the Sunday School classrooms. December 23 (Saturday, 10AM): Practice in the Church for the Nativity Pageant December 24: Nativity Pageant in the Church Any questions, please contact Kristen Cline: kristen.et.cline@gmail.com and put SUNDAY SCHOOL in the subject (Continued from page 1) It s about presents. Christmas truly really is about presents It s about a contest held to find the most caring child. The winner was a four-year-old boy whose next-door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the gentleman s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his mother asked the little boy what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing I just helped him cry." The gift of consolation! It s about presents. Christmas truly really is about presents It s about a four-year-old who went to the pediatrician for a checkup. As the doctor looked down her ears with an otoscope, he asked, "Do you think I ll find Big Bird in here?" The little girl stayed silent. Next, the doctor took a tongue depressor and looked down her throat. He asked, "Do you think I ll find the Cookie Monster down there?" Again, the little girl was silent. Then the doctor put a stethoscope to her chest. As he listened to her heartbeat, he asked, "Do you think I ll hear Barney in here?" Oh no! the little girl replied. "Jesus is in my heart." The gift of faith. It s about presents. Christmas truly really is about presents It s about God, who loved each one of us so much that he gave us his only begotten Son, Jesus Christ so that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life. The ultimate gift! It s all about presents. Christmas really is about presents But it s not about the presents we give that we bought at the local Toys R Us, or the local department store. It s not about the giving of money; Christmas is not about a holiday season. Rather, Christmas is about the gift of giving of ourselves, giving of our time and talents so that we might touch the life of another. The reason why we give of ourselves is because we commemorate the gift God gave us His only Son! So what type of gift will you give this Christmas? Will it be the gift of love by telling family and friends how special they are to you; the gift of consolation, remembering those who have no one else to remember them, or visiting those who have no one to visit them; bringing the gift of laughter to those who are in sorrow, or imparting the gift of faith, by keeping Jesus Christ in Christmas. Let us always remember that Christmas is when we celebrate the day salvation was born to all of humanity! God Bless you and Merry Christmas

17 November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 THE BEACON Page 17 We would like welcome everyone, new and old, to the GOYA year. Not too long ago, we were entering GOYA for the first time, and now we are seniors in our last year participating in this program. GOYA has helped us create friendships that never would have happened had we not been involved. Our aim for this year is to integrate new and returning members and make memories with our GOYA family one last time. To start off, the annual kickoff party was held at the Scheidt house. Here, we had a small meeting, met new faces, talked with old friends, and of course, kicked off the GOYA season! Not long after that, Anne Papageorge, Costas Demetriades, Joan Scheidt (who retrieved the cross for the Senior Girls), and John Paragioudakis dove for the cross during the annual Blessing of the Waters on the Asbury Park boardwalk. Shortly after, basketball, volleyball, and Greek dance practices started. The purpose of these activities is to give GOYA members bonding time, while doing something that they enjoy. Mr. and Miss GOYA was also a major event in the first month of GOYA, where Aleka Damiano (came in 1 st runner up) and Antonis Krousos represented our church. Looking into the future, our GOYA has a lot in store. As usual, we will be doing our Christmas morning gift delivery in partnership to The Giving Tree. We will also be making sandwiches for the homeless in Newark, which will be an eye opening event. A big part of GOYA is giving back, so that is what we strive for. Though GOYA is a lot of service, we also try to have fun. Dances happen almost every month and they are great for meeting GOYANs from other churches. We also have two lock-ins during the year, as well as the annual ski trip to Woodloch Pines, Pennsylvania. With all of this in mind, we look forward to having a fun, safe, and memorable GOYA year. None of this could be possible without our advisors, families, and the 74 members of the St. George GOYA. With Love, Top: GOYA members at Kick-Off Party. Above left: Fall Board members from left to right: Melanie Valente, Jordana Friedli, Alexandra Chrystal, Markos Eugenis, Victoria Ritorto, Jamie LeMire. Above right: Joan Scheidt retrieves the cross from the water on Holy Cross day. Jordana Friedli and Olivia Magoulas

18 Page 18 THE BEACON November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 AHEPA NEWS CORNER Thomas A. Edison Chapter, 287 Ocean, NJ By: Arthur Pappaylion, Chapter President During this summer our AHEPA chapter officers were busy organizing events for the New Year which - started in September. On August 19, through the efforts and supervision of Brother James Petrantis, our chapter enjoyed a Day at the Races at Monmouth Park in Oceanport (photos below). We had 50 members of our community participate in this activity and a fun time was had by all. Our chapter sponsored a race and offered the winning jockey a trophy in the winner s circle. This event was so well received by everyone that we are planning to have another Day at the Races sometime next spring. On October 9 th, at 7:30PM our chapter initiated 10 new members into the Order of AHEPA. The District Officers of New Jersey will be in attendance. Presiding over the initiation will be the new District Governor Zenon Christodoulou. Pictured left: Candidates initiated into AHEPA on October 9th by the District Lodge. From left; Glenn DeGeorge, Demetri Karagias, Anthony Diamiano, Zach Roros, Andrew Skokas, George Lambrinos, Frank Lambrinos. and Gregory Billows. The District Lodge was headed by DG Zenon Christopulos (not pictured) Arthur Pappaylion. Pres.(center)

19 November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 THE BEACON Page 19 THE DAUGHTERS OF PENELOPE AULIS 195 Christmas Jingo AND GIFT AUCTION SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2, 2017 St. George 1033 West Park Avenue, Ocean Township NJ DOORS OPEN AT 7:00 PM $25.00 Admission includes: 10 rounds of JINGO Cards (4 per game) Hors d oeuvres, Coffee and Dessert BYOB Special Guest Announcer B98.5 s Lenny of the Mateo & Lenny Morning Show Prizes from Designers such as: Michael Kors, Coach, Calvin Klein, Vince Camuto and more! FOR RESERVATIONS MAIL THE ATTACHED FORM TO Marissa Costidis 2 Quaker Rd. Middletown, NJ Marissa Costidis or Joanne Cahill *As per state law, tickets will not be sold to anyone under the age of NAME: PHONE NUMBER: NUMBER OF TOTAL ENCLOSED $ Please make checks payable to: Daughters of Penelope, Aulis 195 Please indicate who you would like to be seated with: A portion of the proceeds to benefit various non-profit organizations

20 Page 20 THE BEACON November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 November 2017 Weekday Church Services to be Announced Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday 5 8:30AM Orthros 9:30AM Divine L 5 th S. of Luke 11:00AM- 2:00PM GOYA Souvlaki Fundraiser 7:30 to 9:30PM St. George Basketball 12 8:30AM Orthros 9:30AM Divine L 8th S. of Luke 12:00 to 1:00PM GOYA Meeting AHEPA Room 12:00 to 1:00PM GOYA PARENT Meeting -Library 7:30PM St. George Basketball 19 8:30AM Orthros 9:30AM Divine L 9th S. of Luke 7:30 PM St. George Basketball 26 8:30AM Orthros 9:30AM Divine L 13th S. of Luke 7:30PM St. George Basketball 6 5:30 to 7:00PM Jr. GOYA: Boys Basketball-Gym Sr. Goya Basketball-Gym 13 5:30 to 7:00PM Jr. GOYA: Boys Basketball-Gym Sr. GOYA: Boys Basketball-Gym 7:00 to 10:00PM Daughters General Meeting- Library 7:00 to 9:00PM AHEPA Meeting AHEPA Room 20 5:30to 7:00PM Jr. GOYA: Boys Basketball-Gym 7:00 to 8:30 Sr. Goya Boys Basketball-Gym 27 5:30 to 7:30PM Jr. GOYA: Boys Basketball- Gym Sr. Goya Basketball- Gym 7 6:00 to 7:30PM GOYA Girls Volleyball-Gym 14 6:00 to 7:30PM GOYA Girls Volleyball-Gym 21 6:00 to 7:30PM GOYA Girls Volleyball-Gym 28 6:00 to 7:30PM GOYA Girls Volleyball-Gym 1 4:00 to 6:00 PM Greek School 6:00 to 7:00 PM 6:00 to 7:00 PM AHEPA ROOM Sr. Greek Dance 8 4:00 to 6:00 PM Greek School 6:00 to 7:00 PM 6:00 to 7:00PM AHEPA ROOM 7:00 to 8:30 PM Sr. Greek Dance Spiritual Enrichment Program-Library 15 4:00 to 6:00 PM Greek School 6:00 to 7:00 PM 6:00 to 7:00PM AHEPA ROOM Sr. Greek Dance Spiritual Enrichment Program-Library 22 4:00 to 6:00 PM Greek School 6:00 to 7:00 PM 6:00 to 7:00 PM AHEPA ROOM Sr. Greek Dance 6:00 to 7:00 GOYA Exec. Board Meeting 29 4:00 to 6:00 PM Greek School 6:00 to 7:00 PM 6:00 to 7:00 PM AHEPA ROOM Sr. Greek Dance 2 7:00 to 10:00PM Philoptochos Exc. Board Meeting Philoptochos Room :00 to 10:00PM Philoptochos General Meeting - Library Happy Thanksgiving Calendars are prepared in advance and subject to change, always check your weekly bulletin or ministry flyers for the latest details!

21 November/December 2017, Vol. 17/Issue 5 THE BEACON Page 21 December 2017 Weekday Church Services to be Announced Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday 1 2 7:00PM Daughters of Penelope Christmas Jingo 3 8:30AM Orthros 9:30AM Divine Liturgy 14 th S. of Luke 11:30AM-3:30PM Parish Elections Library 7:30 to 9:30PM St. George Basketball 10 8:30AM Orthros 9:30AM Divine L 10th S. of Luke 11:00 to 11:30AM GOYA 2nd Exec. Board takes Oath 12:00 to 1:00PM GOYA PARENT Meeting -Library 12:00 to 1:00PM Sunday School Teachers Meeting 7:30PM St. George Basketball 17 8:30AM Orthros 9:30AM Divine L 11th S. of Luke 11:00 AM to 1:30PM Greek School Christmas Program 5:00 to 10:00PM GOYA Christmas Caroling -HOMES 7:30 PM St. George Basketball 24 8:30AM Orthros 9:30AM Divine L Sunday before the Nativity 11:00AM to 12:00 PM Sunday School Nativity Pageant Church 7:30PM St. George Basketball 4 5:30 to 7:00PM Jr. GOYA: Boys Basketball-Gym Sr. Goya Basketball-Gym 11 5:30 to 7:00PM Jr. GOYA: Boys Basketball-Gym Sr. GOYA: Boys Basketball-Gym 7:00 to 9:00PM AHEPA Meeting AHEPA Room Basement Philoptochos & AHEPA Christmas Dinner 18 5:30to 7:00PM Jr. GOYA: Boys Basketball-Gym 7:00 to 8:30 Sr. Goya Boys Basketball-Gym 25 MERRY CHRISTMAS 11:00 AM to 1:00 PM GOYA GIFT GIVING 5 6:00 to 7:30PM GOYA Girls Volleyball-Gym 12 6:00 to 7:30PM GOYA Girls Volleyball-Gym 19 6:00 to 7:30PM GOYA Girls Volleyball-Gym 6 4:00 to 6:00 PM Greek School 6:00 to 7:00 PM 6:00 to 7:00PM AHEPA ROOM 7:00 to 8:30 PM Sr. Greek Dance Spiritual Enrichment Program-Library 13 4:00 to 6:00 PM Greek School 6:00 to 7:00 PM 6:00 to 7:00PM AHEPA ROOM Sr. Greek Dance 20 Greek School Sr. Greek Dance Closed Spiritual Enrichment Program-Library :00AM to 2:00PM Socialites Christmas Pot Luck Lenten Luncheon Calendars are prepared in advance and subject to change, always check your weekly bulletin or ministry flyers for the latest details!

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24 ST. GEORGE GREEK ORTHODOX CHURCH 1033 West Park Avenue Ocean, NJ Non-Profit Org. US Postage PAID CFSM St. George Greek Orthodox Church invites you to our 3 rd Annual CHRISTMAS TREE LIGHTING Sunday, November 26, p.m. Please join us for an evening of fellowship and caroling as we ring in the holiday season! Tree lighting in center of St. George grounds. Refreshments to follow in our.