ST. BENEDICT CHURCH 80 S. LYNN WATERFORD, MI 25 th SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME SEPTEMBER 23, 2018

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1 ST. BENEDICT CHURCH 80 S. LYNN WATERFORD, MI 25 th SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME SEPTEMBER 23, 2018 ST. BENEDICT MISSION STATEMENT: St. Benedict Church is a Christian community guided and challenged by the Holy Spirit to worship, love, serve and educate. GROWING IN DISCIPLESHIP How does our parish attract inquirers each year who consider becoming Catholic? The short answer is you! When any parish has many inquirers year after year, it is the fruit of the Holy Spirit as parish members opens their hearts to welcome others. It happens in parish families, in the workplace, in gatherings with friends and neighbors, and in daily contacts. Give thanks to God as he continuously strengthens each of us who seek to do his will in offering a gentle, humble, and clear welcome to the Catholic faith. Go out into the whole world and proclaim the Gospel to every creature. (Mark 16:15) GOSPEL MEDITATION The Oscars. The Super Bowl. TV talent shows. Your son's Little League championship. We live in a culture set on competition. The desire to "be the best" goes beyond hobbies and into politics, the corporate world, and parenting comparisons at the park. This desire is as old as the human race, and it surely arose in Jesus' day. While Biblical society was significantly less open and upwardly mobile than our own, power was attractive. From what we know, many of Jesus' disciples had come from lowly backgrounds. Now they followed an increasingly popular rabbi who seemed primed to do something big. Jesus does his best to dissuade their high hopes by prophesying his own defeat. "The Son of Man is to be handed over and they will kill him." Internalizing the message proves challenging for the disciples, and their attention remains fixed on earthly glory. "They [discuss] among themselves on the way who was the greatest." True to style, Jesus flips their pretensions on their heads. If anyone wishes to be first, he shall be the last of all and the servant of all. We have heard these Biblical principles before. Do we believe them? In our professional lives, do we do whatever we can to get ahead, or are we concerned with the entire team succeeding? In the lives of our children, are we more concerned with victory or with building character? Jesus doesn't condemn success, but he reframes it. Whoever receives one child such as this in my name, receives me. Today's Gospel is a reality check. In God's eyes, our success will not be measured by worldly output alone but by how much love and service we offer to others in the process.

2 OUR PARISHIONERS... Gloria Bonfiglio, Bienvenida DeJesus, Phil Hanson, Lee Haslinger, Lisa Lewis, Albena Lipar, Karol Massacesi, David McKinstry, Mike Powell, Marilyn Reid, John Roblin, Ed Scheett, Norma Swift, Linda Tongko, Fr. Larry Siroskey, Don Zanger....Loved ones who are ill and in need of prayer: Patty Colangelo, Kathleen Cahill, Tiffany Kleinschmidt, Brad Levin, Ami Miller, Helen Olds, Gaye Quinn, Matt Sadol, Kevin Wist. Names run four weeks. To re-list, please call St. Benedict Messenger, Waterford MASS INTENTIONS Monday, September 24 12:15 p.m. - Joseph and Catharine Kell req family Tuesday, September 25 8:00 a.m. - George Blanchard req St. Benedict Parish Wednesday, September 26 Sts. Cosmas and Damian, Martyrs 12:15 p.m. - Deceased members of the Fitzgerald family req family Thursday, September 27 St. Vincent de Paul, Priest 8:00 a.m. - Edward and Leonard Koszewski req Connie Cunningham Friday, September 28 St. Wenceslaus, Martyr; St. Lawrence Ruiz and Companions, Martyrs 8:00 a.m. - Helen Kruszewski req family Saturday, September 29 4:00 p.m. - Donna Baumgartner req daughter, Peggy and family Sam and Carmelina Calabrese req Jim and Linda Kirk Frank and Margaret Secoy req Tom Secoy Ron Sears req wife and family Sunday, September 30 9:00 a.m. - Kelly Stevenson req St. Benedict Parish Eleanor Spadafore req St. Benedict Parish 11:00 a.m. - Carmelina Calabrese req Jon and Susan Herzfeld Joseph Clark req Katie Clark...For all active military personnel from our parish family: Adam Armstrong, Keith Armstrong, David Cole, Max Evans, Jon Hamel, Daniel D. McKinstry, Don Meyer, Patrick Stoddard, James Watson, Jr. SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 30 TH READINGS 1 st Reading: Nm 11: nd Reading: Jas 5:1-6 Gospel: Mk 9:38-43, 45,47-48 (137) AA Wed., 4:30 p.m. - AA MEETING AT REST IN CHRIST A Mass of Resurrection was celebrated on Monday, September 17, 2018, for Sharon Marie Fairbrother, wife of William Fairbrother, mother of Lynn and Mary Ellen. May Sharon rest in the love and peace of our Lord. Please keep our beloved deceased and their families in your prayers. AT REST IN CHRIST A Mass of Resurrection was celebrated on Thursday, September 20, 2018, for George Blanchard, husband of Karen, father of John, Kathy and Jennifer. May George rest in the love and peace of our Lord. Please keep our beloved deceased and their families in your prayers. SEPTEMBER Sun., Sept. 23 rd, 12:20 p.m. - Kid s Christmas Practice Church Mon., Sept. 24 th, 10:45 a.m. - Intercessory Prayer Group, Chapel Sept. 24 th thru 26 th - Knight of Columbus Charity Gamble, Shark Club, Waterford Tues., Sept. 25 th, 1:30 & 6:30 p.m. - Bible Study, Gospel of John, Chapel Tues., Sept. 25 th, 7:30 p.m. - Band Wed., Sept. 26 th, 7:30 p.m. - Choir Sun., Sept. 30 th, 12:20 p.m. - Kid s Christmas Practice, Church

3 St. Benedict Messenger, Waterford ST. BENEDICT YOUTH St. Benedict Church 80 S. Lynn St., Waterford, MI Pastor - Rev. James Mayworm Deacon Tom Mohan (248) ; Fax (248) Daytime Office Hours: Mon. 11 a.m. - 5 p.m. Tues., Wed., Thurs.- 9 a.m. 5 p.m. Fri. 9 a.m noon. Closed for lunch from 12 noon 1 p.m. Website - stbencc.org Face book: St. Benedict s Catholic Church Office Manager - Joyce Miracle Liturgical Minister - Connie Cunningham Minister of Music - Pam Tucker RCIA/Faith Formation Director- Gloria Armstrong Faith Formation Coordinator - Vicki Krier Youth Minister - Katherine Borg Business Manager - Larry Edwards Bookkeeper - Denise Allen Administrative Assistant - Rose DeAnda Building Manager - Greg McInally Maintenance - Dale McCleery, Eileen Kell & Jeff Rowland Weekday Mass Schedule Mon. & Wed. 12:15 p.m. - Tues., Th., Fri. 8:00 a.m. Weekend Mass Schedule Saturday 4 p.m.; Sunday 9 a.m. and 11 a.m. Holy Day Mass Schedule 12:15 p.m. & 7:00 p.m. Sacrament of Reconciliation Saturday 3:00 p.m. or by appointment Sacraments In order to get married or to have your child baptized, you must be a registered member of the parish. This means that you are participating in the life of the parish, regularly attending Mass and using your envelopes. Baptisms Arrangements must be made at least three months prior to desired date. Parents must be a registered member of the parish for 6 months. Marriages Arrangements must be made at least six months prior to desired date. You must be a registered member of the parish for 6 months. Sick Calls and Communion for the Homebound Please call the Parish Office Faith Formation Grades 1-8 Wednesdays 6:00 p.m.-7:30 p.m. (Oct.-May) R.C.I.A Mondays 7:00 p.m.-8:30 p.m., Parish Center (Oct.-Easter Vigil) St. Vincent de Paul St. Benedict Conference , ext. 206 Bulletin Copy Deadline Friday at noon Suicide Hotline (Common Ground) Project Rachel Post Abortion Ministry National Domestic Violence Hotline Report Sexual Abuse Hotline

4 MARK YOUR CALENDARS!... St. Ben s Got Talent: Talent Show/ Dinner is coming to the St. Benedict Social Hall on Saturday, Nov. 10 th, following the 4:00 p.m. Mass. PARTICPANTS NEEDED FOR THE TALENT SHOW Instrumentalists Singers Dancers Comedians Ensembles Etc The piano will be available for use, as well as two vocal microphones and input channels for instruments or song tracks from your personal device. The sign-up sheets are located at both entrances. Please list all participant names, what talent you will be sharing, a contact address, as well as what you will need that night. ALL AGES ARE WELCOME TO PARTICIPATE, as long as you are a member of St. Benedict. Tickets will go on sale September 29 th. Be sure to get yours early- space is limited. See Pam for more information. St. Benedict Messenger, Waterford PARISH NEWS AND COMMUNITY EVENTS AROUND TOWN 27th Annual Blessed Solanus Casey Souperbowl Sunday, October 14 th, 12:00-7:00 p.m. Century Banquet Center located within the American Polish Century Club, Maple Lane, Sterling Hts. $25.00 donation for admission (12 and under free). Blessed Solanus Casey keepsake soup bowl included with admission (first 1,000). Raffles throughout the day Cash bar For further information: BLESSING OF THE PETS The bond between person and pet is like no other relationship, because the communication between fellow creatures is at its most basic. Eye-to-eye, a man and his dog, or a woman and her cat, are two creatures of love. No wonder people enjoy the opportunity to take their animal companions to church for a special blessing. Church is the place where the bond of creation is celebrated. Fr. Jim will be giving a blessing of the pets on Sat., October 6 th at 12:00 p.m. We hope to see all of our furry friends there! CHRISTMAS UNTO US We will have a combined Christmas program again this year, including the Adult Choir, Saturday Ensemble, Harvest, Kids Choir and Dancers. In order to make the program a success, we are currently looking for kids to participate: Ages This is an excellent opportunity for you to serve and get involved in your community. The program will be on Saturday, December 15 th at 6:30 p.m. We will begin weekly rehearsals on Sunday, September 23 rd following the 11:00 a.m. Mass. Rehearsals end at 1:30 p.m. There are many ways to get involved: singing (including solo opportunities), dancing, spoken lines, or you could be a helper with directions, costumes, props or lighting. Those that need community service hours are welcome to participate for hours as long as you are able to commit to the program date, December 15 th. All are welcome to participate, so bring a friend! I hope to see you on September 23 rd. Questions: you may see me after Mass or me at pam.tucker.stben@gmail.com ~Pam Tucker Music Minister CARD PARTY HELP NEEDED The Fall Card Party is scheduled for Wednesday, October 10th. We could use donations of salads, door prizes and raffle prizes. We also can use your help at the card party, working in the kitchen, passing out prizes, cleaning up after the event. Please contact Margaret Hanson at if you are interested in helping in any way. ~Thank you

5 JIM S GEMS The Science of Fatherhood ~Soren Johnson Here s a message you don t hear too often: As a father, you really matter. You are needed at home and in the wider world to do things only a dad can do. You can make all the difference in the lives of your children no matter their age. Though common sense to many, these simple principles are often lost in our culture. But the truth is coming out in the best studies in psychology, social science and family dynamics. The bottom line is that a father is vital to the health and welfare of his children and the family. Mothers, of course, are indispensable and often take a larger share of child and home care. Yet due to distinctive differences in the ways mothers and fathers interact with their children, families thrive when a mom and a dad work together. With this in mind, here are five facts guaranteed to bolster your image as a father. 1. Studies extol your role. The outcomes of children who have a father at home compared to those without a father tell a big part of the story. Research shows that in father-absent homes children are twice as likely to drop out of high school, seven times more likely to become pregnant as a teen, and many times more likely to abuse drugs, experience physical or sexual abuse or run afoul of the law. Be there, dad, to give your kids the love and stability they need to succeed in life. 2. You have an edge. Popular culture exerts many negative pressures on kids today, from addictive social media distractions to internet pornography. Yet parents still have the inside line to the hearts and minds of their children. So, use your home-field advantage by forming them in virtue from a young age and setting a good example. If your kids see you doing the right thing even when it s difficult, they will be more likely to follow your guidance and rules. 3. Your prayer is positive. Studies show that prayer has many practical benefits, such as better moods, lower blood pressure, less stress and anxiety and increased willpower to overcome bad habits. Be a man of prayer at home. Show your boys, especially, that kneeling before God requires the strength of humility. 4. Your time counts. No pressure, dad, but from the time you see that little one for the very first time, the clock is ticking. You must make a decision then, and every day after, to be an involved father. Yes to cuddling, to roughhousing, to making the ball games, rehearsals and special moments. The payoff is huge, St. Benedict Messenger, Waterford PASTOR PAGE as studies show that every hour you invest with your child will help them reap priceless benefits in terms of future health, relationships and career. 5. Your leadership is key. Don t leave the family s faith life solely to your wife. Not only is that a major personal mistake, but it could be a disaster for your children. A popular study indicates the outsized influence of a father on the religious practice of his children. In fact, it can be safely said that your faith serves as a model for your kids well into adulthood. Go to Mass with your wife and children, pray together regularly at home, read the Sunday Gospel as a family the evening before Mass. The most powerful witness of faith that your children experience may very well be your own. So tell them what your Catholic faith means to you and the times when God has touched your life. The ultimate role of a father is to help his children get to heaven. The benefits are eternal and the journey starts today. EDITOR S NOTE: This article is condensed from a six-part series that is available as a digital booklet. To get your free copy, fatherhood@kofc.org. ASK FR. JIM This is my Ask Fr. Jim submission form. I will try to adequately and honestly answer any questions addressed to me, provided you sign the question. I will use your name in my response, only if you give me permission to do so. My question is: I give permission for you to use my name. I do not give permission for you to use my name. Name: Place in collection basket or mail to the Parish Center.

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