MODULE 2 Transcript: Your Inner Commerce & Resonance Causation

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1 MODULE 2 Transcript: Your Inner Commerce & Resonance Causation Yesterday I was clever. I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise. I am changing myself. Rumi Inner Commerce simply means the commerce of you; it is the Commerce between you and your unique, personal Resonance and all its constituents: your emotions, beliefs, thoughts, choices and decisions. It is also the Commerce between you and all the different aspects of yourself: your inner child, your negative ego, your future Self, your Higher Self and the Divine, as manifested in a myriad of ways, represented by everyone you meet and everything that crosses your path. We concur with the wisdom of Rumi: if we re going to change anything in our reality, we need to firstly change ourselves. All religions suggest that the world is our mirror; that we are the most powerful statement we can make. In the sixties, there was an incredibly beautiful personal development and self-help program developed by Dr Burr and Dr Claude Steiner which was called Transaction Analysis. They suggested that all communications and interactions in our lives are transactions or exchanges between ourselves and other people. However, we are not only transacting with others; we are also continually transacting with all the different aspects of ourselves. Inner Commerce is what happens backstage or behind the scenes of our reality creation and concerns our personal Resonance. Each one of us has a unique, ever changing Resonance created from hundreds of little resonances, which unite to create the resonance of you. Let us explore the concept of Resonance. Einstein revealed to us that everything within our universe is pure energy, plus he explained the theory of particles. Particles light vibrating at different frequencies - are everywhere. Neil s Bohr refined this, by proving that particles could also be waves, which literally changed according to who was looking at them and the person s belief system and thoughts. When these particles come together, they create a synergy a standing wave or Resonance far more powerful than the total sum of their parts. Within the realm of infinite possibilities, everything we want to create exists as a wave in 1

2 the quantum field, simply waiting for us to make it real. This means based on our current understanding that we all create everything in every aspect of our lives. If there is an element in our lives that we don t like, it is entirely within our power to change it. Change our Resonance and our reality changes. Reality precipitates or collapses, as they say in quantum physics, from our personal Resonance, which is a synergy of many different energies and frequencies, most importantly, our beliefs, feelings, thoughts and choices. As we throw out our hooks our intentions, our expectations and our imagination into the future to draw down what we want into our present lives, they pass through our Resonance or, as others might call it, our filter or lens. When two frequencies or Resonances come together, they create a new Resonance. This is one of the laws of Resonance. For example, my wife, Rowan and I have our own unique personal Resonance, but when we are together, we create the Resonance of Relationship, which we could call the Ayman-Rowan Resonance. One of the theories from the Renaissance is Sir Isaac Newton s theory of cause and effect, which, for a long time, was the accepted explanation of how things in life happen. Cause and effect theory originated with the billiard ball example: here is the billiard ball and if you hit it at a certain angle, with a certain energy, it will go in a certain direction and if it bounces off the side of the table, at a different angle and with a different energy, it will go in a different direction. Anything that happened that didn t comply with this theory was interpreted as luck, God s will, magic, coincidence or a miracle. However, modern scientific research and explorations within the field of quantum physics prove that the concept of cause and effect is only one minor form of causation. The majority of causation - the way we create our reality - is via Resonance causation, where the future creates the present against a backdrop of the past. This is an entirely new paradigm involving a major shift in consciousness, where the past loses its power and we develop a positive relationship with the future. In medicine, sometimes healing happens miraculously and sometimes people get sick for no reason at all: I believe this is because the person s Resonance attracted the healing or attracted the malady. For example, a lot of cancers come from guilt or anger in the body, which is unattended for a long time. Wherever the anger is the genitals, lungs or heart that is where the cancer will manifest. In this case, our personal Resonance has been building anger for years and years - and that anger has turned into guilt, because we feel we have no right to express it. Our Resonance is made out of hundreds of little Resonances and in our health Resonance, we now have this resonance of guilt, plus a few other unattended emotions, which create a Petri dish of ideal conditions for the creation of illness. For example, a person with HIV might talk to their therapist about their father, expressing how angry they have been with him nearly all of their life for not being accepted and 2

3 honoured and for always being verbally abused. Once the anger is released, the attractor collapses and a new Resonance is created. This new Resonance minus this intense anger will no longer be the right attractor for HIV; the newly created invironment will simply not allow the virus to prosper and thrive and therefore the disease will disappear; it simply cannot live without that Resonance of family anger. Doctors won t understand what has happened and will call it a miracle, but that person has diffused the damaging frequencies out of their Resonance and, once the Resonance collapses, whatever was in it will have to change. Consider a person who has eaten a healthy and nutritious diet, who suddenly discovers they have cancer. They may believe they didn t cause or create this, disagreeing with the theory that, one hundred per cent, we all create our reality. However, I feel this means they are a victim: something or somebody else has more power over their reality creation than they do themselves. If we believe that somebody else has the power to create our reality and we have a reality we don t like, somebody else has to recreate our reality for us. However, if we believe we create our own reality - and nobody has more power in creating that reality - we are empowered to change it ourselves. Our Resonance is like an attractor, a huge petri dish that draws realities to us. Our goal is to create a Resonance that only attracts what we want into our lives. The raw materials of our Resonance are our thoughts, our beliefs, our feelings or emotions, our attitudes, our choices and decisions - and the agreements or contracts we have made with both others and ourselves in this life and our past lives. All of these are kinds of frequencies or energies, which together, similar to the process of alchemy, create our personal Resonance. Everything is possible within the realm of infinite possibilities: a close, loving relationship, a successful career, a soul-satisfying job, a lucrative business deal. We simply focus on what we want to create and we send our hooks into the future to draw them into our reality. There are three main hooks. The first is the ability to desire something: to know what we want and to want it for the right reason ie not a desire for revenge or guilt or pain. And then we need to process that want, exploring the reasons for our desires, focussing on them and strengthening them. We need our hooks to be honed and sharp. Sadly, most cultures, religions and societies tell us: Don t desire too much. Stop wanting this, this and this. Be grateful for what you have. Stop wanting more. Hinduism and Buddhism, for example, advise us to have no desires at all, but to develop detachment from everything. However, being truly detached from everything means having everything you want and saying: I don t want it. The second hook is our expectations. We need to expect the desired outcome to happen. In our society, we are often taught at an early age to not have high expectations, as we don t want to be disappointed: just receive whatever God sends you and be happy and grateful. However, if we want to create something, it s not enough to have a desire for it; we need to also expect it to happen. Again, we need to sharpen our expectations; to deeply feel that we already have that thing that we want and it is already a part of our reality. The 3

4 football coach tells his players: You need to expect to win. Believe you are going to win. Expect to be number one. The third hook is our imagination. This is probably the most powerful one, because if we cannot imagine something, we cannot create it. Again, on the football field, the coach will tell the players: Close your eyes and imagine yourself already in the zone with the ball in your hand. Imagine yourself the winner. Imagine yourself standing on the podium. The concept of creative visualisation is very powerful. So, we have our three hooks and we focus on the reality we want: a loving relationship, a fulfilling job, a secure home and we imagine it already in our reality, we expect it to happen and we desire it. If, for example, you feel guilty about wanting something more in your life or if you cannot really imagine it happening, it s as if your hooks are blunt. In addition to the sharpened hooks needed to draw your reality down, you need to put yourself into a high frequency, high quality energy zone; enter a state of beauty, goodness and truth, where you feel your power, majesty, value and self-esteem. As you draw your desired reality towards you, it passes through the filter of your Resonance. I might say: I want a million dollars, because I want to buy a beautiful house with a pool, but if my Resonance incudes negative beliefs and thoughts such as, Money doesn t grow on trees or I don t deserve a lovely home or The rich abuse society, then I will lose ten, twenty, thirty per cent of that million dollars. If I feel guilty about receiving money magically without doing any hard work, it again affects my Resonance or filter - and the effectiveness of my hooks. Similarly, if someone desires a special close relationship, but they believe that no-one would ever love them or that inevitably the relationship will end, then they are sabotaging their chances and greatly reducing the odds that a loving relationship will come their way. So, we need to clean or raise our Resonance and this is done by practicing Inner Commerce; learning how to have the right beliefs, make the right choices, have the right feelings and develop positive thinking. Then when we throw our hooks into the future and draw it towards us, it will pass through a high quality, clean Resonance. On a regular basis, my father used to complete a unique type of balance sheet: his emotional and spiritual balance sheet. He would write down both his assets his strengths, achievements, positive qualities, successes, etc - and his liabilities - any weaknesses, areas of improvement, failings, blockages, problems, anything he wasn t proud of, etc. This helped my father to raise his Resonance. Clear your base, raw energies and turn them into gold. Polish your assets, acknowledge them, feel grateful for having them. Don t give in to your negative ego; say, Yes, I am good at this, thereby enhancing the positive frequencies in your Resonance. The more you clean your blockages, the more you raise your Resonance and vibration. Most people want to believe that there is only one reality. However, every reality is subjective. My reality is completely different to yours. In my reality, I could believe that 4

5 neither the planet nor humanity are in danger; that there are plenty of trees, the water is clean, the air is pure, the earth is pollution-free; yet in your reality, you fear that the climate is warming, the waters are rising, resources are being rapidly depleted and that humanity is doomed. I am aware that there is a consensus reality, where my reality and your reality, out of choice, intersect and we share a small sliver of reality common to both of us. example, in our shared realities, Obama is the President of the United States. However, there may be other people in whose reality there is an entirely different President. In a lot of mystical books, there is a joke suggesting that during the days of Atlantis, there was a major explosion. Prior to the explosion, many people believed that the island was about to explode and therefore tried to escape - and in their reality Atlantis actually blew up. There is however, another parallel reality, where those people who did not believe in the explosion, still live in the island of Atlantis, somewhere in the Atlantic Ocean - and the Ambassador of Atlantis sits alongside the Ambassadors from America, France and England on the Security Council of the United Nations. Reality is subjective. In my reality, I believe there is no lack of anything. I feel that the one-child-per-family policy in China is due to their belief that the world is overpopulated and that there are not enough resources for everyone; a concept of lack and poverty. To me, they do not understand that they create their own reality one hundred per cent; reality is subjective and is created from their Resonance. So it s not about intersecting from time to time out of choice and you enter my reality and I make you real, I realise you in my reality. Why? Because of choice: because I gave you the lines; I gave you every word you tell me. I made you real by investing emotions in you, be it emotions of love or hate or jealousy. So by investing emotions in you, I make you real and you enter my reality. Your reality and my reality intersect and there is part of my reality, my subjective reality, that is similar to yours. But the rest of my reality has nothing to do with your reality; and that part is never in consensus or in common. I believe, one hundred per cent, we all create our own personal reality. There is nobody to blame. We are empowered when we believe we create our reality, because if we have a bad reality and we understand that we created it, then we can change it. It makes me laugh when people want to occupy Wall Street, blaming the bankers for the financial crisis and complaining about how greedy the banks are, etc. Those banks are part of their imagination, part of their personal Resonance; they created those banks, as a reflection of themselves. The Economist, one of the most important British magazines on the subject of the economy, recently carried out a survey of 5,000 people in America, asking them whether, just before the mortgage and housing crisis - where the banks had to be bailed out to prevent them from collapsing - when they applied for their mortgage, they gave the required information totally correctly and honestly? Apparently, eighty per cent of the people had exaggerated their income, their revenue and the value of their property, in order to get more money. They lied to and cheated the bankers and then they were surprised that the bankers cheated and lied to them. 5 For

6 I believe the same concept apples to the government; your government is a reflection of your Resonance. If your Government is lying to you, do you lie to your Government? Research proves that ninety per cent of people try to cheat on their taxes. We, the people, are always cheating our Government, trying, by hook or by crook, to get more than our legal entitlement. So our government mirrors us: we created them through our Resonance. When we work on our Resonance and we ask for what we want, leave the details to the universe, which has no option but to comply. Your reality will manifest in the way you want it to. If the reality you want doesn t happen, or if it falls short and you get only a part of the reality you want or with a part you don t like, there is, I believe, always an explanation. Examine your Resonance. You might have a beautiful relationship, enjoying intimacy, loving and caring, but you wish your partner would stop feeling sorry for themselves all the time or you wish you d stop martyring and sacrificing yourself. It is entirely possible for you to change your reality by changing your Resonance. Look at your reality, honestly. Are you aware that maybe when you want to control people, self-pity makes them feel sorry for you and they do whatever you want, right away, just to stop listening to you? Once you have located the self-pity issues in your Resonance, you need to work on releasing them. Sometimes, just awareness of an issue removes or reduces it. Sometimes it s necessary to do certain exercises, techniques and meditations or to talk to a therapist to become more conscious of the resonance of self-pity. In time, your Resonance is strengthened and it rises to a higher vibration. Then, you can decide what you want to replace it with. Okay, I took self-pity out, but I notice there is not enough passion in my relationship; it s loving, caring, yummy, but there s no passion. Therefore, begin to instil passion in your Resonance. Work, explore and learn about passion on a regular basis. Close your eyes and just feel passion. You don t always have to do things, you can just feel them and get the energies to work together, creating their magical alchemy. Suddenly there s more passion between you and your loved one. As I have suggested: imagine your balance sheet as your Resonance: your assets and your liabilities. Work on your liabilities. Free any blockages, transforming them into higher energy. Transform your anger into courage and then into passion. Transform your fears into compassion. Break any redundant contracts you made long ago in your past. Be aware of them; talk about them. Your Resonance changes every second. Reality has to comply with your Resonance. There is no other way. Reality, through Resonance Causation, works beyond time and space. Change can happen instantly. Consider global warming issues. What is the Resonance that creates climate change? Do you pollute yourself? Do you pollute your body? What food do you eat? What do you drink? What emotions do you stuff in your body? The more you work on that, the more you will see we don t need to go and save mother Earth or save the forests. Mother Earth does not need saving, you need saving. Save yourself first. Change your Resonance first and reality will comply. Things will change. 6

7 In time, as we enter this new world, more and more of us will be dropping the paradigm of causation via cause and effect. Although it is a valid paradigm, humanity will become increasingly more conscious of Resonance Causation, where we enter the realm of magic and miracles. Here things happen without too much effort, without pain, without suffering. Life was never supposed to be so painful, but we ve made it so, because cause and effect is a very difficult paradigm, concerned with pain and struggle. This is the commerce behind the scene that is creating this painful reality. It is vital that you also reinforce your wishes with certain actions in the physical world. Supposing, for example, you want a beautiful house with a swimming pool at a certain price within three weeks. You say: I m resonating with this house, I m drawing it towards me, I m sharpening my hooks, I m using high quality energy, I m healing and changing my Resonance and then, you reinforce this with certain actions that tell your subconscious and your unconscious that this is something you want. Open a newspaper or go on-line and look at houses for sale. Maybe walk around the streets where you d like to live. Engaging and taking action is a positive re-inforcement of your wishes in the physical world. Your subconscious is part of your Inner Commerce and contains many, many programmes, beliefs, past memories and conditioning, which needs to be cleaned and cleared out. If, for example, your subconscious contains programming that was put in years ago by you, your parents or by society that says, Keep your expectations low, then, even if you say what you want and reinforce it with positive actions, your subconscious will cause dissonance. However, persevere and continue with the meditations and exercises and eventually and your subconscious will recognise that you are changing your programming. Part of Inner Commerce is clearing your subconscious of redundant conditioning. We are entering a new world, a realm where magic and miracles can happen. Life was not meant to be so painful. Life was not meant to be struggle-oriented. This is not the purpose of living. Life was supposed to be filled with joy and miracles, guidance and support. If you start taking the time to practise and train yourself, you will notice a difference in your life. Write down your equations, create your spiritual and emotional balance sheet, work on your Resonance, sharpen your hooks and practise, you will see how your life changes, becoming more magical, more miraculous and filled with excitement, energy and joy. Learning, living and growing do not have to be painful and struggle-filled. We can learn through beauty, goodness, truth and wisdom. This is the new paradigm; this is the new alchemy, which we call Inner Commerce: the commerce that happens behind the scenes that nobody sees but you. Reality is a reflection of your inner world. Your invironment. It s great to be an environmental activist, fighting for things and challenging the government, but at the same time, be an inner activist too, changing your invironment to one of nurturing support and nourishment. Your invironment will then be reflected in your environment. Activate all your senses, heal and raise your Resonance. This is what creates your reality from the future to the present. 7