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1 Saints Constantine & Helen Greek Orthodox Church 60 Traverse Road Newport News VA Volume March 2018 Issue T C + R I N S I D E T H I S I S S U E : March Sundays, Acolytes, Readers Hi-Lites 2, 7 Journey to Pascha 3 Registry / Announcements Church, Club & Community News Tsourekia Pastry Bake Sale Project Mexico Mission 6 Our Lenten Journey 8-9 PC Minutes 10 Stewardship Calendar 11 St. Gregory Palamas March 4 Veneration of the Holy Cross March 11 St. John the Ladder March 18 St. Mary of Egypt March 25 Annunciation of the Theotokos March 25 F F G C W I C Each one of us has had the blessings of being part of a Community. We, here in Hampton Roads, are surrounded by water and beaches but also a rich history. The diversity of our area shows us a richness of cultures and a strong pride in being Americans. One of the tasks of being a human being is the ability to interact with our fellow beings. Relationships are wonderful experiences for all, for we see the bonds of friendship withstanding the hardest attacks of the devil and humanity. In the Eighteenth Chapter of the Book of Ezekiel, we see an entire chapter of Scripture devoted to our relationships with God. The very reality of living a Christian life should be seen as being meaningful and creative, assisting us in the building of relationships. Christ invites us to do the right thing and live in the closeness of a relationship with God. The first step in this process is the development of an understanding of God which S O will enable us to achieve spiritual wealth. While we are in this world we are in a state of probation; the time of trial lasts as long as the time of life and will be with us as we enter the Kingdom of God. As the sinful son was embraced by his forgiving father in the Parable of the Prodigal Son, we too will be forgiven by a loving Father when we seek the forgiveness of our sins. As we find ourselves in Great and Holy Lent and approaching Holy Week, let us take a good hard look at ourselves and see what is great about ourselves and identify our weaknesses. By identifying our weaknesses, we will be able to correct what might seem crooked and see ourselves as standing tall and spiritually fit as we walk the walk of Holy Week. Let us watch and listen to what will be occurring during the Lenten Services and the Gospel readings for the next few weeks. May each one of us walk out of our Church with the feeling of fullness. Procession of Acolytes, Religious Education Classes and Father George commemorating the restoration of Holy Icons to the Church on the Sunday of Orthodoxy.

2 The Cross+Roads Page 2 Glory Be To God Saints Constantine & Helen Greek Orthodox Church 60 Traverse Road Newport News VA Phone (757) Fax (757) Addresses: priest@ office@ parishcouncil@ youthdirector@ webmaster@ admin@ schgochurch.va.goarch.org Office Hours Monday Through Friday 9:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m. Priest Father George Chioros Work Home Mobile frgchioros@aol.com Parish Council Frank Peri, President John Dermanis, Vice Pres. Zena Mageras, Treasurer Bobby Garofalis, Asst. Treas. Kent Paumier, Secretary Greg Bicouvaris Stavroula Gailey Tom Grepiotis Nick Matthews Anastasia Theodorogiannis Barry Hendricks, Past Pres. Chanters Tim Sofis Harry Fotiou John Williams Brian Fink George Petrakos Church Secretary Sylvia Marcin Archdiocese on the web M S Apolytikion for Saints Constantine & Helen, Equal-to-the Apostles in the Plagal of the Fourth Tone Having seen the image of Thy Cross in Heaven, and like Paul, having received the call not from men, Thine apostle among kings entrusted the commonwealth to Thy hand, O Lord. Keep us always in peace, by the intercessions of the Theotokos, O only Friend of man. Τοῦ Σταυροῦ σου τὸν τύπον ἐν οὐρανῷ θεασάμενος, καὶ ὡς ὁ Παῦλος τὴν κλήσιν οὐκ ἐξ ἀνθρώπων δεξάμενος, ὁ ἐν βασιλεύσιν, Ἀπόστολός σου Κύριε, Βασιλεύουσαν πόλιν τὴ χειρί σου παρέθετο ἣν περίσωζε διὰ παντὸς ἐν εἰρήνῃ, πρεσβείαις τῆς Θεοτόκου, μόνε Φιλάνθρωπε. MARCH 4 EPISTLE READING Hebrews 1:10-14; 2:1-3 GOSPEL READING Mark 2:1-12 SAINTS AND FEASTS COMMEMORATED Sunday of St. Gregory Palamas Gerasimus the Righteous of Jordan Paul & his sister Juliana and their Companions Daniel, Prince of Moscow Gregory, Bishop of Constance Philoptochos Stavroula Gailey, President Religious Education Helen Micha, Director Greek School Paula Tofalli, Aphrodite Christopoulos Youth Ministry Stephanie Peri and Kent Paumier, Advisors Acolytes Barry Hendricks, Director JOY/HOPE Helen Micha, Director Bookstore Elizabeth Puckett Cross+Roads Nick Vlattas WISDOM OF THE FATHERS Now Matthew indeed saith, that "they brought him," but the others, that they also broke up the roof, and let him down. And they put the sick man before Christ, saying nothing, but committing the whole to Him. St. John Chrysostom, Homily 29 on Matthew 9, 1. B#54, pp. 195, 196, 4th Century HYMNS OF THE DAY Resurrectional Apolytikion in the Plagal Second Mode Angelic powers were above Thy tomb, and they that guarded Thee became as dead. And Mary stood by the grave seeking Thine immaculate Body. Thou hast despoiled Hades and wast not tried thereby. Thou didst meet the Virgin and didst grant us life. O Thou Who didst arise from the dead, Lord, glory be to Thee. Apolytikion for Sun. of St. Gregory Palamas in the Plagal Fourth Mode Light of Orthdoxy, pillar and teacher of the Church, adornment of monastics, invincible champion of theologians, O Gregory thou wonderworker, boast of Thessalonica, herald of grace: ever pray that our souls be saved. Seasonal Kontakion in the Plagal Fourth Mode To you, Theotokos, invincible (Continued on page 7) P M O ACOLYTES MARCH 11 Team A Jorgie Polyzos Yianni Tsimplekis James St. Martin Dean Peri MARCH 18 Team B Ethan Detweiler Cris Campbell Soterios Tofalli Kyprianos Tofalli MARCH 4 & 25 Team C Hayden Hendricks Georgios Haramis Christos Konstantinou Christopher Myers Christopher Micha EPISTLE READERS Please contact Barry Hendricks if you are interested in reading the Epistle during the Sunday Divine Liturgy. bhendricks@cox.net March 4: Howard Mandeville 11: Hayden Hendricks (GOYA) 18: Nick Vlattas 25: Michael Landon Greek Orthodox Youth Association (GOYA) Christina Myers, President Kent Paumier, Advisor Young Adult League (YAL) Anastasia Theodorogiannis, President Golden Hearts Helen George, President Order of AHEPA Nick Matthews, President Daughters of Penelope Kathy Matthews, President Hellenic Womens Penelope Society Aleksandra Garofalis, Helen Vaughn, Co-Presidents Hellenic Youth Dancers Bobby Garofalis, Director

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4 The Cross+Roads Page 4 C R / A BIRTHS: Our best wishes and sincere congratulations to Bradley & Sophia Ruiz on the birth of their son, January 22. Proud maternal grandparents, John & Becky Karatsikis, and a very proud maternal great grandmother, Angie Karatsikis. Our best wishes and sincere congratulations to Anthony & Sophia Waltz on the birth of their son, January 26. Proud maternal grandmother, Marina Becouvarakis. Our sincere congratulations and best wishes to Samuel and Mary Ann McCormick on the birth of their son, February 4. Proud maternal grandparents, Al and Christine Mignogna. NA SAS ZISOUN!!!!!!!!!!!! 40-DAY BLESSING: The infant daughter of Zachary & Lori Donnatelli received her 40-day blessing in our Church, February 13. May the blessings of our Church always be with the newly-churched infant as well as her entire family. BAPTISM: Michael Landon was baptized into the Orthodox Faith, February 10. Serving as his godparents were Johnson & Barbara France. We welcome Michael into our Orthodox Faith and extend our best wishes to him, his godparents and his entire family. WEDDING: Douglas & Mary Graham had their marriage sanctified in our Church, February 11. Anastasia Krisik & Harry Makris served as the Koumbari. Our sincere congratulations and best wishes to Douglas & Mary as well as to Anastasia & Harry and their entire families. NA ZISETE!!!!!!! ILL AND NEEDING OUR PRAYERS: We wish a speedy recovery to our friend and fellow parishioner, Harita Stavrou who is hospitalized. DEATH: Our sincere condolences to the family of Richard Morton, Sr. who died January 24.The late Richard Morton, Sr. was the father and father-in-law of our parishioners, Richard Morton and Dr. Venisse Georgalas. MAY HIS MEMORY BE ETERNAL!!!!! REFRESHMENTS We respectfully ask our parishioners, on receiving their monthly copy of the Cross+Roads, to note the Sunday on which they are asked to serve as hosts for the coffee after Church and to mark that date on their calendar. We thank you for your participation in this activity, and to all of you, many, many thanks for your generosity. LUMINARIES Hellenic Youth Dancers A beautiful way to recognize those in our "Memory" or those we would like to "Honor" is through the lighting of luminaries on Good Friday during Holy Week. The Hellenic Youth Dancers (HYD) will be selling luminaries each Sunday until Holy Week. The luminaries will be displayed in front of the church on Good Friday. Please stop by the table in the Church Hall following church services to purchase them. MUSCARELLE MUSEUM Religious Paintings Exhibit The Muscarelle Museum at the College of William and Mary in Williamsburg is hosting an exhibition entitled, "In the Light of Caravaggio." The exhibition focuses on Dutch and Flemish religious paintings of the Baroque period with some mythological paintings interspersed. The inspiration for these artists was the Italian Baroque painter Caravaggio, and thus the title, though none of Caravaggio's works are on display. Also on display and on loan from a museum in Louisville is a Rembrandt portrait. There are no Rembrandt paintings in any of the Virginia museums. The museum is open on weekdays at 10:00 a.m. and on weekends from noon and closed to the public on Mondays. Entrance fee $10. THE ANASTASIOS L. DANIEL SCHOLARSHIP The Parish Council will one again administer an annual scholarship established by the Estate of beloved parishioner Anastasios 'Danny' L. Daniel. We welcome graduating High School seniors of the Orthodox Faith to apply by picking up an application in the Church office. Additional eligibility information and requirements as outlined by the estate will accompany the application. Completed applications must be returned to the Church postmarked by April 30, ATTENDANCE February February February February Feb 2018 Ave 173 Feb 2017 Ave 154 YTD 2018 Ave 156 YTD 2017 Ave 139 REFRESHMENTS We thank all those parishioners who served as hosts for the month of February. The hosts for March are: March 4: M/M Joe Saur, Mr. Gregory Saur, Ms. Anastasia Savrides, Ms. Athena Savvas March 11: Philoptochos Membership Tea. March 18: Ms. Pauline Schlim, M/M Paul Summa, M/M Peter Sun March 25: M/M John Thomas, M/M Chris Tofalli, M/ M Sotos Tofalli, Ms. Amgela Kritikos Koliva If you would like to purchase Koliva for memorials, you may contact: Helen George Anastasia Savrides Athena Savvas Cross+Roads CHURCH LIST Subscribe to the church list for monthly links to the Cross+Roads and important church announcements at: DEADLINE Please information no later than the 20th day of the month to Nick Vlattas nvlattas@hewv.com

5 The Cross+Roads Page 5 C, C C N PHILOPTOCHOS On March 12, 13 &14, Philoptochos will be, once again, making and baking their annual Easter Tsourekia. We ask all those of our members who are available on those dates to be sure to offer their help. We do need as much help as we can get. And to all of you, both Philoptochos members and non-members, who so generously give of your time and talent, our most sincere thanks. On Sunday, March 11, following the Divine Liturgy, Philoptochos will host a tea in the Community Center. This is to recognize and thank all those members who have served and continue to do so all these many years and also to promote further membership in Philoptochos. We remind all our faithful that Philoptochos is considered the right hand of our Church, and it is incumbent on every Orthodox Christian to assist and promote the work of Philoptochos. On April 1, Philoptochos will host its annual Palm Sunday Luncheon. We ask all our friends and fellow parishioners to mark this date on their calendar and to join us on that Sunday for a delicious lenten lunch prepared by our talented chefs. As we do in every issue of the Cross+Roads, we again remind everyone that Philoptochos continues its AOK project. Every Monday of every month we visit patients receiving chemotherapy infusions at Virginia Oncology, and treat them to a light lunch along with a lot of cheer and moral encouragement. Please, contact Ellie Costulis, Home , Cell , and let her know you want to help. And once more we ask that you continue to bring us your "box tops for education" We use these items to assist local schools to supplement some of their classroom needs that are not covered by regular school funding. Our obligations to the National for the month of March are: A contribution to the Orthodox Christian Mission Center/ Support a Mission Priest (OCMC/SAMP) which provides financial support to missionary priests and teams; and a contribution to Hellenic College Holy Cross Lenten Event - Veneratrion of the Holy Cross. The proceeds from this contribution provide for Hellenic College - Holy Cross operational expenses. Our March meeting will be Monday, March 5, in the Community Center, starting with refreshments at 6:30 pm. Serving as hostesses are Tessie Dakis and Dina Headrick. ORDER OF AHEPA Our AGORA- Greek Market is ready to satisfy all your special needs for items such feta, kasseri, kalamata olives, dolmades, tarama, taramosalta, fresh fillo, Greek coffee, etc. Stop by the AHEPA Family Center and stock up for the Holiday! SCHOLARSHIP APPLICA- TIONS are available at the AHEPA FAMILY CENTER for both District and local sponsored AHEPA FAMILY scholarships. The deadline for submitting the District application is April 16, 2018 while the deadline for the local application is April 30, The Community Awards Luncheon, jointly sponsored by the Daughters of Penelope and our AHEPA chapter, is scheduled for Sunday, May 20, Scholarships will be awarded at this time as well as other presentations. All Hellenic community organizations are invited to participate as well. DAUGHTERS OF PENELOPE: On Saturday, February 10, five (5) members of our Chapter attended the mid-year District meeting held at Saints Constantine & Helen Cathedral in Richmond. At this meeting the duties and responsibilities of Chapter Officers were discussed. Our sincere thanks to sister Zena Mageras who spearheaded the fund-raiser of February 18 at Uno's Pizzaria. It resulted in a very successful fund raiser. The Daughters are now taking orders for spanakopitess. Do plan to add a delicious spanakopita to your Easter dinner, and call Zoe Marcopoulos, Home or Joanna Vallas, Home , Cell to order your spanakopita. They are $25.00 a pan. Sisters, Chapter dues are still payable now. Please remit your dues to Maria Vidakis, Corr. Secretary, who will issue you a receipt before turning the money over to the treasurer. Dues are $38.00 annually. Our March meeting will be Thursday, March 29, starting with dinner at 6:30 pm. in the AHEPA Family Home. HELLENIC WOMAN S PENELOPE SOCIETY The March meeting of the Hellenic Woman s Penelope Society (HWPS) will be held on Sunday, March 4 th after church services at the Sacalis Hall. Christine Mignogna will be the hostess. We are now making plans for our annual Spring Bake Sale (order pick-up), which will be held on Thursday, March 29 th from 10:00 AM to 12:00 noon in front of the AHEPA HALL. We will be selling baklava, finikia, koulourakia and kourabiethes. Lemon torte will be available upon request. Those interested in purchasing for Easter our delicious pastries are reminded to place their orders by Thursday, March 22 nd.. Pastry preparation will take place on Monday, March 26 th (baklava, finikia and koulourakia); Tuesday, March 27 th (kourabiethes and finikia dipping); Thursday, March 29 th (order pick-up). Our 2013 edition of our cookbook, Culinary Gifts from the Greeks, may be purchased by calling Marika Anthony ( ) or Tessie Dakis ( ). They make wonderful gifts for bridal showers, weddings and many other occasions. We will gladly gift wrap them according to the occasion free of charge. Applications for the Father Peter and Gregory Makris Merit Scholarship for undergraduate students may be obtained from Maria Vidakis by calling her at On February 24 th we held our 18 th Annual Dinner Theater. More details will be included in the April issue of Cross+Roads. WE WISH A SPIRITUAL AND FULFILLING LENTEN SEASON TO ALL. THANK YOU BARRY Past Parish Council President Barry Hendricks was honored for his many years of service on the Parish Council at the Parish Assembly held on February 25. Father George and President Frank Peri presented Barry with the icon of Saints Peter and Paul.

6 The Cross+Roads Page 6 P M M T This summer, a few weeks before I head off to college, I will have the privilege of traveling to Tijuana, Mexico on a mission trip with 11 other Orthodox Christian young adults from Hampton Roads to participate in a Home Building Mission Trip with Project Mexico & Saint Innocent Orphanage. The dates of the trip are July 18th to 24th and our primary goal will be to construct a home for a needy family in Tijuana. We will also have the opportunity to interact with the young orphans at Saint Innocent, sharing our Orthodox faith. I have wanted to participate in a trip like this after talking with some of my counselors about missionary work during Camp Good Shepherd-Virginia. When I heard about this trip and the chance to work with others to help those less fortunate, I jumped at the opportunity. Members of the mission team have been asked to raise funds individually to help cover their transportation, food and lodging, supplies, and materials needed for the trip roughly $1,200 per person. I m humbly asking if you would consider helping to support this spiritual journey to serve those in need in Mexico? If you choose to support my participation in this mission trip with a donation, checks should be made payable to "Saint Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church", and in the memo line please write "Project Mexico - Hayden Hendricks". Checks can be either mailed to the trip coordinator (Saint Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church, Attn: Sam Williams, 621 First Colonial Road, Virginia Beach, VA 23451) or given to me directly at church. You can also donate online at volunteer.projectmexico.org/fundraising/trip/hayden-hendrickstrip-to-project-mexico and complete the donation form on the left side of the page. Donations for our trip deposit must be raised by March 31st. In order to participate in this mission trip, I will need both your spiritual and financial support. Anything you can contribute in support of this important ministry of hope will be greatly appreciated. Please keep me in your prayers as I prepare for this trip, as well as while I'm there. When I return, I would like to share my experience with the community. If you have any questions, or better yet, if you have experience serving on a mission trip that you would like to share with me, please contact me directly at hhendricks001@gmail.com or In Christ, Hayden Hendricks

7 The Cross+Roads Page 7 M S S C H (Continued from page 2) Defender, having been delivered from peril, I, your city, dedicate the victory festival as a thank offering. In your irresistible might, keep me safe from all trials, that I may call out to you: "Hail, unwedded bride!" MARCH 11 EPISTLE READING Hebrews 4:14-16; 5:1-6 GOSPEL READING Mark 8:34-38; 9:1 SAINTS AND FEASTS COMMEMORATED Sunday of the Holy Cross Sophronius, Patriarch of Jerusalem Theodora the Righteous Pionios the Presbyter George the New Wonderworker of Constantinople WISDOM OF THE FATHERS And see how He also makes His discourse unexceptionable: not saying at all, "whether you will, or no, you must suffer this," but how? "If any man will come after me.", St. John Chrysostom, Homily 55 on Matthew 16, 1. B#54, p.339., 4th Century HYMNS OF THE DAY Resurrectional Apolytikion in the Grave Mode Thou didst abolish death by Thy Cross; Thou didst open Paradise to the thief; Thou didst transform the myrrh-bearers' lamentation, and didst bid Thine Apostles to preach that Thou art risen, O Christ God, granting great mercy to the world. Apolytikion for Sun. of the Holy Cross in the First Mode Save, O Lord, Thy people and bless Thine inheritance; grant Thou unto the faithful victory over adversaries. And by the power of Thy Cross do Thou preserve Thy commonwealth. Σώσον Κύριε τόν λαόν σου καί ευλόγησον τήν κληρονομίαν σου, νίκας τοίς Βασιλεύσι κατά βαρβάρων δωρούμενος καί τό σόν φυλάττων διά τού Σταυρού σου πολίτευμα. Seasonal Kontakion in the Plagal Fourth Mode MARCH 18 EPISTLE READING Hebrews 6:13-20 GOSPEL READING Mark 9:17-31 SAINTS AND FEASTS COMMEMORATED Sunday of St. John Climacus Cyril, Patriarch of Jerusalem Edward the Martyr, King of England Trophimos & Eukarpion, Monk-martyrs of Nicomedea HYMNS OF THE DAY Resurrectional Apolytikion in the Plagal Fourth Mode From on high didst Thou descend, O Compassionate One; to burial of three days hast Thou submitted that Thou mightest free us from our passions. O our Life and Resurrection, Lord, glory be to Thee. Apolytikion for Sun. of St. John Climacus in the Plagal Fourth Mode With the streams of thy tears, thou didst cultivate the barrenness of the desert; and by thy sighings from the depths,thou didst bear fruit a hundredfold in labours; and thou becamest a luminary, shining with miracles upon the world, O John our righteous Father. Intercede with Christ God that our souls be saved. Seasonal Kontakion in the Plagal Fourth Mode MARCH 25 EPISTLE READING Hebrews 2:11-18 GOSPEL READING Luke 1:24-38 SAINTS AND FEASTS COMMEMORATED Annunciation of the Theotokos 6th Monday of Lent 26 Martyrs in Crimea HYMNS OF THE DAY Resurrectional Apolytikion in the First Mode When the stone had been sealed by the Jews and the soldiers were guarding Thine immaculate Body, Thou didst arise on the third day, O Saviour, granting life unto the world. Wherefore, the powers of the Heavens cried out to Thee, O Lifegiver: Glory to Thy Resurrection, O Christ. Glory to Thy Kingdom. Glory to Thy dispensation, O only Friend of man. Apolytikion for Sun. of St. Mary of Egypt in the Plagal Fourth Mode In thee the image was preserved with exactness, O Mother; for taking up thy cross, thou didst follow Christ, and by thy deeds thou didst teach us to overlook the flesh, for it passeth away, but to attend to the soul since it is immortal. Wherefore, O righteous Mary, thy spirit rejoiceth with the Angels. Apolytikion for Annunciation of the Theotokos in the Fourth Mode Today is the fountainhead of our salvation and the manifestation of the mystery which was from eternity. The Son of God becometh the Virgin's Son, and Gabriel announceth the good tidings of grace; for this cause, let us cry to the Mother of God with him: Rejoice, thou who art full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Σήμερον τῆς σωτηρίας ἡμῶν τὸ Κεφάλαιον, καὶ τοῦ ἀπ' αἰῶνος Μυστηρίου ἡ φανέρωσις, ὁ Υἱὸς τοῦ Θεοῦ, Υἱὸς τῆς Παρθένου γίνεται, καὶ Γαβριὴλ τὴν χάριν εὐαγγελίζεται. Διὸ καὶ ἡμεῖς σὺν αὐτῷ τὴ Θεοτόκω βοήσωμεν Χαῖρε Κεχαριτωμένη, ὁ Κύριος μετὰ σοῦ. Seasonal Kontakion in the Plagal Fourth Mode

8 The Cross+Roads Page 8 O L J PREPARING FOR THE PASSION & RESURRECTION OF OUR LORD Great Lent is a time for selfexamination and self-denial a time for taking control of our lives and our bodies. The purpose of the fast is to give us a greater awareness of our dependence on God. It is a time to improve ourselves and our relationship with God. Lent is a time for greater works of mercy and charity for those less fortunate than us. It is a time for visitation of the sick and assistance to the poor, and generally a more joyful relationship with those who are close to us our family and friends. Most of all, Lent is a time of joy and a new beginning. We cleanse ourselves mind, body and soul through the physical and spiritual fast, keeping a Christian attitude in all that we do. All this is done to prepare us for the Great Feast of Pascha the Resurrection of Christ. May God bless you and guide you, and may you reach your Paschal destination with the joy of renewed faith in Christ. PRAYER Have no anxiety about anything, but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which passes all understanding will keep your hearts and your minds in Jesus Christ. -St. Paul s letter to the Philippians One key to a more fulfilling life is prayer. For Orthodox Christians, the aim of prayer is to enter into conversation with God. Prayer is sometimes referred to as dialogue with God. Often it is a waiting on God in silence. In the church it is defined as the lifting of the mind and heart to God, and also as walking in the presence of God. We turn our mind and thoughts toward Him. We mentally gaze at Him and speak with Him in reverence, fear, and hope. At times we speak to Him with words and at other times we stand in reverent silence, saying nothing, but being aware of His presence. In this dialogue with God we praise Him and thank Him. We ask Him for what we need. Our mind and our heart are opened to Him. Prayer is not only repeating words, it is trust in God that he hears and directs us in His Way involving spiritual growth and development. The Prayer of St. Ephraim the Syrian Read each week-day during Great Lent O Lord and Master of my life, take from me the spirit of sloth, despair, lust of power, and idle talk. But give rather the spirit of chastity, humility, patience, and love to Thy servant. Yea, O Lord and King, grant me to see my own transgressions, and not to judge my brother, for blessed art Thou, unto ages of ages. Amen. Prayer to the Holy Spirit Heavenly King, Comforter, the Spirit of Truth, present in all places and filling all things, the treasury of blessings and Giver of life: come and abide in us. Cleanse us from all impurity, and save our souls, O Gracious Lord. FASTING The fast for the forty days of Lent is indicated below, though many are not able to hold to the strict fast. We offer the following guidelines to be considered prayerfully with the guidance of your spiritual father and in consideration of any medical condition or dietary requirements. STRICT FAST No Meat, Fish, Milk, Dairy Products, Oil, or Oil Products PALM SUNDAY Fish, Oil & Wine permitted FEAST OF THE ANNUNCIA- TION/MARCH 25 TH March 25 th - all day: Fish, Oil & Wine Permitted Shellfish are permitted throughout Great Lent Resource: The Orthodox Daily Planner and Resource Guide published by the Department of Youth and Young Adult Ministries provides daily guidance in fasting, scripture, feast days and more. St. John Chrysostom on Fasting Do you fast? Give me proof of it by your works. If you see a poor man, take pity on him. If you see a friend being honored, do not envy him. Do not let only your mouth fast, but also the eye and the ear and the feet and the hands and all the members of our bodies. Let the hands fast, by being free of avarice. Let the feet fast, by ceasing to run after sin. Let the eyes fast, by disciplining them not to glare at that which is sinful. Let the ear fast, by not listening to evil talk and gossip. Let the mouth fast from foul words and unjust criticism. For what good is it if we abstain from birds and fishes, but bite and devour our brothers? May He who came to the world to save sinners strengthen us to complete the fast with humility, have mercy on us and save us. Jesus Instructions on Fasting "Moreover, when you fast, do not be like the hypocrites, with a sad countenance. For they disfigure their faces that they may appear to men to be fasting. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. But you, when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, so that you do not appear to men to be fasting, but to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly. BIBLE READING In private study, when a Christian profitably reads the Bible, receiving inspiration and strength from it, family members, friends, relatives and even acquaintances will inevitably notice the difference. Any person who comes into contact with such a Christian cannot but notice the growing peace, love and inner assurance - the spirit of Christ - in that Christian, and will frequently ask (if not ask, certainly think) what gives that person such strength and radiance. God will provide many opportunities to the growing Christian for sharing with others his or her experience with the Bible. What better witness for the truth of the Christian faith than a solid Christian life nour-

9 The Cross+Roads Page 9 ished by Holy Scripture and radiating true Christian love at home, at Church and at work? The Christian's own life becomes a kind of gospel, a living Bible, in which other people observe, read and experience the truths of God in action. From Bread for Life, by Father Theodore Stylianopoulos Greek Orthodox Archdiocese Department of Religious Education Suggestions for family Bible reading: Set aside a regular time for daily reading preferably in the evening at the supper table when the whole family is together. When the children are young, mom or dad can do the reading. When the children grow older, they may share in the reading. Reading to children is one of life's greatest joys. Children treasure it. Don't read too much or too fast. One chapter a day is sufficient. Let what you read sink in slowly. If the children are young, read from a Bible story book-one that has pictures which you can show the children. Start with the biographies of Jesus (Matthew, Mark, Luke, John). Read with the faith and the expectation that God will really and truly speak to you through what you read. Don't worry about the passages you do not understand. Concentrate on what you do understand. The more you read, the more you will understand. One passage explains another. Each day memorize at least one verse that grips you. Say it out loud as a family three or four times. Encourage your children to fall asleep with this verse on their lips. Get a translation your children understand. As you read, try to have an icon of Jesus before you if you are reading the Gospels; one of St. Paul if you are reading his epistles, etc. This will help you realize who it is who is speaking to you. from Making God Real in the Orthodox Home REPENTANCE & CONFESSION Repentance has its roots in the apostles. In the Book of Acts the Apostle Peter says, Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. (Acts 2:37-38) When we fall away from God, we have removed ourselves from His communion with Him and with other Christians. We have excommunicated ourselves. To re -enter communion with God is the on-going activity of all Christians. We fall away daily in some way or another. No one is exempt. Often, when children play in competitive games, one will call out that s a do over! Haven t we all wished for that chance to undo the past and start over? Repentance offers us this new beginning. We are telling God that we have changed our mind about our past direction and want to be back in communion with him. The Greek work for repentance, metanoia, implies a very deep change in the way we see ourselves, our world, and our relationship to God. To change our mind in repentance is the starting point in our Lenten journey. We leave behind regret as we move toward hope. Repentance is not a single action but an attitude, a frame of mind. Think back over your life of things which you regret having said or done hurtful, inconsiderate, selfish, deceitful. Think also of those things which you have done which may not have directly affected others, but which you know to be wrong according to the teachings of the Church. Bring them to mind as if they were occurring right now. Think of how it would have been if you had acted differently. Take this regret and turn it into repentance. Acknowledge that you have offended another person or the Church, and in doing so you have offended God. If we are to be forgiven by God, He requires of us that we also forgive one another. For many of us, this is the most difficult aspect of repentance and confession. Yet we say it each time we pray the Lord s prayer, forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Just as God s love for us is personal, so must ours be for Him. As the Christian grows from child to adult, his or her personal response to God becomes crucial. This personal response is the act of confession. HOLY COMMUNION The Sacrament of Holy Communion the Eucharist which literally means "Thanksgiving," is the Mystery whereby the bread and wine of offering are changed, actually, not symbolically, into the very Body and Blood of Jesus Christ. The Eucharist is at the very center of the Church's life, and from it flows the prayer of believers in a sacrifice of entreaty for the peace of the world, for all those who ask for help, and for all men and women '"The Eucharist unites us in the most intimate fashion with the Lord; it nourishes our soul and body, and aids our strengthening, increase, and growth in spiritual life. According to the promise of the Gospel, He that eats this bread will live forever. (The Gospel of John 6:58) The cup which holds the wine that becomes the blood of Christ is the chalice, the cup of salvation. When we kneel during the liturgy, we pray with the priest that God the Holy Spirit may change the bread and wine into the Body and Blood of Jesus. This means that when we receive Holy Communion, Jesus comes to live in us. How do we prepare to receive the Body and Blood of Jesus? We pray. We should have love in our hearts for all people. We should ask forgiveness from God and from our parents, brothers, and sisters, and from anyone we may have hurt. When we come before the priest for Communion, we make the sign of the cross, tell the priest our baptismal name, hold the Communion cloth under our chin, and open our mouth wide. After receiving, we wipe our lips with the Communion cloth, make the sign of the cross, and hand the Communion cloth to the person next to us. Once we have received Communion, we must remember that we have become one with Christ and with all those who received Communion with us. Christ now lives in all of us. We are all living icons of Jesus. It is by loving one another that we love Jesus. After receiving Communion our bodies become holy chalices. God lives in us. Jesus wants to use our hands, which have now become His hands, to help those in need. When we receive Communion, we become members of Christ's Body, the Church. This means that Jesus has no eyes but our eyes, no feet but our feet to do His work in the world today. What kind, thoughtful act will you do for Jesus today? From Let s Take a Walk Through Our Orthodox Church by Fr. Anthony M. Coniaris / Light & Life Publishing

10 The Cross+Roads Page 10 P C M J 22, 2018 I: Call to Order & Opening Prayer: Present: Father George Chioros, Frank Peri, John Dermanis, Zena Mageras Dr. Bobby Garofafis, Greg Bicouvaris, Elias Doulgerakis, Nick Matthews, Tom Grepiotis, Anastasia Theodorogiannis Absent: Dr. Stavroula Gailey, Kent Paumier Guest: Howard Mandeville, Nick Vrettos The meeting convened at 18:31 with an opening prayer by Father George. The following items were discussed: II: Minutes: Garofalis made motion to approve the meeting minutes of the December 2017 meeting; seconded by Greg Bicouvaris, passed unanimously. President s Update: confirmation of Parish Council members contact and discussion of eliminating prayer study at meeting. We now have an Adult Education and asked if anyone had any concerns with this change; III: Correspondence: Safety Deposit renewal Dermanis and Mageras will contact Wells Fargo to either pay or close out box; IV: Treasurer s Report: Zena Mageras presented the Balance Sheet and Budget/Actuals (attached) V: Visitor s Comments: Vrettos: thanked all PC members for serving; expressed his concern of the future of the church with respect to stewardship committee and his agreement to continue his support; we need spiritual growth as well as financial; President thanked him for his compassion for the church; Vrettos thanked Matthews for his chairmanship; Mandeville: memo sent to Kent; Dermanis recommended that a committee be formed for this project and Canavos be included for equipment availability; Mandeville addressed any questions asked; President thanked Mandeville; VI: Committee Reports: Stewardship Ministry Nick Matthews: As of the Jan 17, 2018, we have received 192 pledges for a commitment of $166, Report attached Youth Ministry Father George reported that youth attended Richmond event and won and there were referee issues experienced; GOYA Lenten retreat March to be held at Silver Beach; 25 March- GOYA Spaghetti Luncheon with Greek School program; JOY/HOPE bags were made for PORT clients; GOYA sang Christmas carols as church served dinner on 17 December for PORT project. Peri announced that we received 3 applications for this position and need to be evaluated: committee formed: Dermanis,Garofalis,Bicouvaris and concerned parents with interests; Discussion of PT vs FT position; Garofalis asked about having app. 10 boys interested to become Altar boys meet with Konstantine / Barry Missions Ministry Dr. Stavroula Gailey Absent and no report sent. House Committee Barbara France attached. Calendar access discussion; Festival Committee Spring Festival meeting on Wed. Jan 24; Festival dates: 31 May - 1 June. VOLUN- TEERS NEEDED! Maintenance Committee Doulgerakis reported status on library almost finished; President asked what work remains outstanding and thanked Elias for what he has done. Centurion Campaign Barry Hendricks Other Committees No other reports VII: Priest s Report: Father George Father wished a Happy and Healthy New Year to all and thanked all for serving; PORT we served 17- Dec all went well St. Basils assisted with PORT and plan on being partner church with us in future; we had plenty of volunteers; Broken desk in Greek School repaired by J. France; 28-Jan Manuel presentation for Mission trip Guatamala during coffee hour; OCF Retreat at William and Mary Feb 2-4; AHEPA Super Bowl Feb 4 Tickets $ Father will be away Feb 5 7 at Clergy retreat in Cape May, NJ Break in salad shed on 18 Jan. Repaired by Fotiou and Doulgerakis; Police report filed; Discussion of alarm and additional cameras with Johns and Holbrook; 19- Feb -Great and Holy Lent begins- extra services begin then: Compline, Sat of Souls, Presanctified, Salutations Father thanked PC for Christmas gift; VIII: Unfinished Business: Committees formed: House - France Budget Zambas,Chalkias, Vidakis, Galoozis, Garofalis Personnel need someone to manage employees 10 Feb Church Garage Sale VIII: New Business: General Assembly Sunday 25 Feb 18 Monthly meeting 12 or 19 - depends on Budget prep IX: Adjournment: Fr. George offered the closing prayer at 20:14. X: Certification: Respectfully Submitted Zena Mageras & Kent Paumier Kent Paumier, Secretary Approved: 19 Feb 2018

11 The Cross+Roads S Every day, every minute, every breath is truly a gift from God. The theme for the 2018 Stewardship Ministry from the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese of America is Whatever you do work at it with all your heart as working for the Lord, not for men Stewardship Ministry Members: Fr. George, Barry Hendricks, Nick Vrettos, Chris & Elaine Jansen, Dianne Sun, Tom Grepiotis, Faye Evans, John Thomas, and Nick Matthews 2017 STEWARDSHIP: Stewardship 191 Family Pledges (2017) 138 Families (2016) Budget Actual $172,800 $185,161 Average Family Stewardship $969 (2017) / $851 (2016) Stewardship Other $68,450 $165,459 Other: Candles & Trays, Memorials, Flowers, Baptisms, Centurion/Renovations, Christmas/Pascha Donations, Altar Fund, Other Donations TOTAL STEWARDSHIP & OTHER Budget Actual $241,250 $350, Stewardship Ministry Commitment (02/21/2018) 92 Family Pledges Total Stewardship Commitment Pledged $90,841 Stewardship Received $26,335 Total Stewardship Other Received $6,445 The # 1 priority of the Stewardship Ministry is to increase Parishioner PARTICIPATION with Annual PLEDGE, CHURCH Life and ATTENDANCE this will ensure an increase in STEWARDS and TOTAL PARISHIONER REVE- NUE. Enablers from the Stewardship Ministry for 2017: Stewardship Display in the Narthex & the Cross+Roads led by Chris and Elaine Jansen Journey To Fullness 16 lectures on Orthodoxy (Fr. Barnabas Powell) well attended over the summer months led by Dianne Sun and Barry Hendricks Giving HEART Parishioners to donate needed items or cash for the Church or Youth Ministry led by Hope Zambas and Dianne Sun Adult Education Classes Facilitators Fr George and Konstantine Pietronuto, opportunity for everyone to learn about or Faith and Traditions. The classes are held on Wednesday s after the Paraclesis service at 7:00 PM. The topic for the fall series (2017) was Do Angles Really Exist. The four classes in March (7, 14, 21 & 28 th ) will be focused on Great Lent STEWARDSHIP is an important part of our Orthodox faith and is a total commitment to Christ STEWARDSHIP is a way of life by offering back to GOD our Time, Talent, and Treasures for thanks of what He has given us in life ORDINARY STEWARDSHIP is the regular practice of returning to GOD a portion of all that GOD has given us and a belief that all we have is a gift from GOD TIME & TALENT is participating in Church life to further the mission & ministries of our Church SPECIAL STEWARDSHIP help Community realize important goals capital campaigns/ renovations LEGACY STEWARDSHIP a planned gift providing a legacy to generations unborn, and a final testimony of the belief in our Orthodox faith Every day, every minute, every breath is truly a gift from God 2 Friday Second Salutations 5:30 pm Soup Supper in Hall 7:00 pm Second Salutations 4 Sunday Sunday of Saint Gregory Palamas 8:45 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy Noon HWPS 10 Year Memorial Christodoulos Gouletas 5 Monday 6:00 pm Compline 6:30 pm Philoptochos 6 Tuesday 5:00 pm 8:00 pm Greek School 7 Wednesday 10:00 am Presanctified Liturgy 7:00 pm Adult Education 7:15 pm Choir 10 Friday Third Salutations 5:30 pm Soup Supper in Hall 7:00 pm Third Salutations 11 Sunday Sunday of the Holy Cross 8:45 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy Special Tray for Hellenic College/ Holy Cross 12 Monday 6:00 pm Compline 13 Tuesday 5:00pm 8:00pm Greek School 14 Wednesday 6:00 pm Presanctified Liturgy 7:00 pm Adult Education 7:15 pm Choir 16 Friday Fourth Salutations 5:30 pm Soup Supper in Hall 7:00 pm Fourth Salutations March 2018 Page 11 Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sunday Saint John Climacus 8:45 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy 19 Monday 6:00 pm Compline 7:00 pm Parish Council 20 Tuesday 5:00 pm 8:00 pm Greek School 21 Wednesday 6:00 pm Presanctified Liturgy 7:00 pm Adult Education 7:15 pm Choir 23 Friday 5:30 pm Soup Supper in Hall 7:00 pm Akathist Hymn 24 Saturday 5:00 pm Baptism 25 Sunday Feast of the Annunciation Greek Independence Day 8:45 am Orthros 10:00 am Divine Liturgy Greek School Program 12:00 pm Goya Luncheon 26 Monday 6:00 pm Compline 27 Tuesday 5:00 pm 8:00 pm Greek School 28 Wednesday 6:00 pm Presanctified Liturgy 7:00 pm Adult Education 7:15 pm Choir 29 Thursday 6:45 pm AHEPA/DOP 31 Saturday Lazarus Saturday Teaching Liturgy 8:30 am Orthros 9:30 am Divine Liturgy Breakfast & Folding of Palms

12 Saints Constantine & Helen Greek Orthodox Church 60 Traverse Road Newport News VA Return Address Requested Non-Profit Org. U.S. POSTAGE PAID Permit No. 50 Newport News Virginia C W G G Sunday Services 8:45 a.m. Matins 10:00 a.m. Divine Liturgy 11:30 a.m. Religious Education (Sep-May) 12:00 a.m. Christian Fellowship (Hellenic Center) Phone (757) Fax (757) Mission Statement The mission of Saints Constantine & Helen Greek Orthodox Church in Newport News, Virginia is to keep, practice, and proclaim the Orthodox Christian Faith. The work and ministry of our Parish will include proclaiming the Gospel, sanctifying the faithful through God's grace in worship, the Divine Liturgy and the Sacraments, and enhancing their spiritual life. We will fulfill the great commission of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ by inviting others into the Church through Baptism and/or Chrismation, educating them in the Orthodox Faith through the establishment of programs, schools and philanthropic activities, and implementing Christian ministries.