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1 The Surprisingly Real Reasons Why Twin Flames Run By Karen Burness Karen Burness and owners of Copying or redistributing are completely prohibited. Please note: For ease of reading, I am going to refer to your twin flame as a "he" but these reasons can equally apply to female twin flames. Introduction If you are reading this then you understand the sheer agony, confusion and panic caused by your twin flame running away from you. The thought of them never coming back can make you sick to your stomach. Many sleepless nights are filled with intense anguish as you try to go over everything and wrap your head around exactly why he is running from you. But the answers always seem to elude you. Well look no further! I understand what it's like to keep going in circles and not feel any sense of relief from all the confusion and pain. I went through this myself for years. I felt so lost and devastated for over a decade. Here is a twin flame experience that many of us can relate to: "My twin and I met through friends. There was an instant attraction between us as soon as we were introduced to each other. I remember shaking his hand and the look we shared was incredible. The spark of passion and love rippled through our very core and opened up a new path for us both, one filled with intense spiritual truth and soul searching. But my twin was not a spiritual man, so after our initial three months of bliss we shared together in a committed relationship,

2 he suddenly felt overwhelmed and vanished overnight without any warning whatsoever. I was utterly shocked and devastated. I knew I'd found The One in him (the term twin flame I later discovered), but suddenly it felt like the universe was against me and had ripped away my very soul when my twin disappeared. There was such a huge gaping hole in my heart, my soul. I knew no-one would ever come close to resonating with my heart, mind, soul and body like he did. Friends tried to tell me to forget him and tried to set me up on blind dates but I was completely uninterested. What was the point? I knew my heart and future belonged to my twin flame. My friends thought I was mad, I could see the concern in their eyes as I tried to explain logically what couldn't ever be explained logically. The more I tried to convince them that this connection was real and different to any other relationship, the more they thought I was delusional. I understand how it feels to have no-one understand what you are going through and the lonliness that causes. It can be such a traumatic time during the runner phase." I have written this ebook to be the friend you need to hold your hand and say that everything is okay, what you are going through is normal and you are not alone or crazy. Although the connection is heart and soul based, there are actually very logical

3 reasons why many twin flames run from the connection in the initial stages. I didn't realise for so long that I was actually a chaser twin flame. I was simply trying to show my twin how much I loved him and that he was safe to open up and be himself with me. I tried to share how I felt so that he would feel secure in our connection and know that I wouldn't ever hurt him. But the more I did this, the more he ran. He completely cut off physical contact and only ever occassionally ed me short responses to my epic s. I felt so offended that he had so little to say in response. He became colder and colder the more I tried to reach out and help him overcome his troubles. TWIN FLAME REUNION MASTERY Instant Download here --> For years I had no idea how my own behaviours were actually causing him to stay stuck in the runner stage. I was so convinced that I was doing everything right and all I had to do was love my twin flame a little harder and prove just how loving and supportive I could be.

4 I was utterly gobsmacked when my guides showed me that this was completely the wrong approach to unite with my twin flame! You see, my guides only had the space to come into my awareness once I had completely burned myself out by over-giving to to my twin flame. When I finally gave up chasing him in complete exasperation, they had the room to enter my consciousness. And boy did they teach me a thing or two about what it really takes to unite with a twin flame! They taught me so much, things I had never in a million years even thought of. They were so full of loving guidance and I am so grateful for how they transformed our connection so we could unite once and for all after more than ten years of separation. It makes me very sad when I see so many other twins struggling in the exact same ways that I did for so long. If only they truly understood what shifts they needed to make for things to simply flow naturally between themselves and their twin flame. It really is simple once we know how. For so long I mistakenly thought reunion was impossible and just a distant and unatainable fantasy, but I was simply not understanding how to make these simple and natural shifts within myself. I didn't realise how I had been blocking the connection through my own energies. When my guides had enlightened me through their knowledge, I transformed into a higher vibration. Then through mine and my twin's shared soul and chakra merge, by the laws of the universe he shifted too into the same higher frequency. Suddenly, after ten years of running he came back to me! I was amazed and so happy to have him back in my arms. I have written a spirit guided ebook all about these lessons my guides taught me to be able to unite with my twin flame. These simple but essential steps are discussed in great detailed in my ebook "Twin Flame Reunion Mastery"

5 and they are universal laws that are relevant to all twin flame couples. In this free ebook I will give you a taster of the Top Reasons Why Twin Flames Run which are explianed in more depth in "The Twin Flame Mastery Course". If you are serious about uniting with your twin flame then I really feel it will help you make the necessary transformations to make it happen. To purchase this wealth of information from my guides and my own 14 years of experience, please click the link below: TWIN FLAME REUNION MASTERY Instant Download here --> I will now go into the Surprisingly Real Reasons why Twin Flames Run. I really hope my explanations will greatly relieve your pain and worry. Ego Resistance The vast majority of twin flames are living in their false ego identity when they

6 meet each other, or at least the runner twin flame is to a greater extent. This means he (or she) is caught up in many 3D illusions of what "reality" is. These illusions are based upon what they have been brought up to believe by society, family and everyone around them. The vast majority walk through life seeing things very logically through the ego lens. But the soul, love and emotions are not based in logic. The soul is the immortal true self, and the ego is the mortal false self that is really just a machine full of programs it's learned in this single incarnation. The soul is eternal and is vastly more sophisticated in knowledge and wisdom than the ego ever will be. The ego is centred on the physical and only sees itself as separate from everyone and everything. The ego cannot truly understand the soul because the soul has eons on the ego. When we incarnate we purposely have soul amnesia. This is so we can try and learn lessons without the knowledge of everything we are supposed to learn. Why is this? Well, if we knew everything in advance and why we were supposed to do this or that, then we wouldn't learn as much than when we walk our path in a state of trial and error. We often learn so much more through our errors, but if we knew everything in advance, then we'd never make any mistakes to learn from or we would try to avoid certain things that would ultimately help us in the long run. We grow more through this amnesia at the start of our lives. We must pass many tests before we can awaken and raise our vibration to align again with our true identity of soul. Often this means getting hurt and then learning to love ourselves enough to awaken to our soul and realise we are oneness with all. This is how we learn to love ourselves and others more. But it's not the only way! We can consciously choose to do our inner healing work and raise our vibration to align with love and therefore attract love back to ourselves. Or we can choose to stay unconscious and avoiding doing the inner healing and so subconsciously we have all the pain still stuck inside of us which attracts more painful situations to try and force us to take notice and heal. The Law of

7 Attraction is key in twin flame connections! But, the runner twin flame has a difficult time letting go of the control ego has on them and they fear looking into themselves in order to consciously heal their wounds. They've got stuck in their comfort zone of avoiding looking inwards in order to heal. They know a lot of pain is residing within them and they haven't been taught the tools by society to be able to process and release their emotions effectively. Many runner twins are walknig around severely bogged down by the dense and heavy energies of their wounds. It's like a dark cloud surrounds them that they cannot see through. Most runner twins are male (but not all) and it's because society actively teaches them to supress their emotions, bury them deep down so that even they themselves don't know their pain is always lurking in the background. The more pain they shove down the more it threatens to come up like opening a can of worms if they dare to becoe even a little bit emotional. It's a dam that is waiting to burst, so they try to repress it more because society hasn't taught them how to deal with their emotions when they do come up. They are caged in their own prisons because they've been taught to stay in their head and out of their emotions. TWIN FLAME REUNION MASTERY

8 Instant Download here --> They cannot see how to reach their highest good because that involved following the heart which is the gateway to our soul truth and wisdom, and so, with their intuition repressed, they hold onto logic all the more. Twin flames relationships don't make sense to the logical mind, but for a masculine twin to try and delve into their emotions to make sense of it all, this opens up that lifetime's can of worms that they simply don't know how to deal with. They FEAR emotions because why wouldn't they?? They've been taught to rise above them, to conquer tham as if they are the enemy. But the soul is now trying to break through and release the twin from all their 3D ego illusions so even greater lessons can now be learned through soul consciousness. Masculine runners need their feminine counterpart to be the safe sanctuary where they can gently ofload their emotions. But many masculine twin's have trust issues. I talk a lot about this in depth and how the feminine can assist the masculine to open up in my "Twin Flame Reunion Mastery" ebook TWIN FLAME REUNION MASTERY

9 Instant Download here --> Runners often have low self-esteem and their ego tells them that they are unworthy of this love. The ego therefore creates an overload of reasons why it should distrust this connection, this awakening and push it away. You see, your twin flame is running from facing himself because that requires all the terrifying wounds to come up to the surface that need to be healed and released. He's become comfortable in the illusions because it seems "safer" but knows deep down profound change is happening whether he likes it or not. The infinite truth of the soul cannot be stopped indefinately. The ego's attemots to fight soul truth only serve to burn ego out. The ego, believing in separation, tells your runner twin that if he surrenders and goes with the flow of this connection, then he will be separated from everything, he will lose everything becuase he's not worthy to have this love. Because he is losing his identity (false ego identity), he feels he is losing "himself" and losing everything. He doesn't realise that this is the ego death to make way for his true identity, his soul, to emerge triumpantly.

10 Deep down he suddenly feels distant from his old life, his old friends, his family etc as his vibrations are rising slowly into alignment with love and therefore he is falling out of alignment with those associated more with his ego identity. He's scared of losing it all. He does not know what awaits him in the awakening of soul consciousness. He doesn't know that the soul truth is always much better and liberating than continuing to live in the lie of ego. Simply, he does not understand what the hell is happening, so he tries to deny it all and cling onto his safety blanket of his old life. He's scared of the unknown. It's not personal. He just doesn't know how to surrender and go with this. You see, it's not a personal rejection after all. TWIN FLAME REUNION MASTERY Instant Download here --> More About Emotional Overload Many male twin flame runners simply do not know how to feel their emotions, let

11 alone express them to you in an understandable way. They know most women are experts at expressing emotion and so they feel pressured to reciprocate but they can't. They don't want to look stupid and so they avoid all opportunities of emotional expression at all costs. They don't even understand their own emotions because they have just been taught to lock them away without acknowledging them. Many men are absolutely petrified that if they allowed themselves to stay open and vulnerable to all these deeply painful and overwhleming emotions, then they will be destroyed by them and never recover. It is a real fear for most men, because emotions are so unknown to them that they feel like a literal threat to their safety. They aren't running because of the deep love they feel for you - they run from you because they don't know how to deal with all the painful emotions that come out of their open heart because they need to be released. They fear love too because if they get too emotionally involved and it doesn't work out then they know there will be a ton more painful emotions to try and repress and and keep guard over. It's exhausting! This is all subconscious though and they don't run just to be cruel. Many male twins don't even understand their own behaviour. Feeling Pressured When women don't truly understand the real fears a man experiences when it comes to him opening up to his emotions, she can often get frustrated and try to force him to open up. But this only adds to his worries and the pressure builds so much that he just runs away. He literally does not know how to feel his own emotions let alone be able to express them to you. When you blame him and then dump a load of your own intense emotions on top of his own it's even worse!

12 Many female twins express their emotions in a very heavy way and they expect their male twin to reciprocate in return. He knows you are expecting that and when he literally can't do it he feels inadequate and just knows from past experience with other women that you will likely get annoyed with him. Many runners will therefore run before it even gets to that point. He is afraid of your criticism because his ego is very fragile (because they've been taught to base who they are through ego identity). TWIN FLAME REUNION MASTERY Instant Download here --> Men are not weak or stupid, they have simply been programmed to be extremely reserved when it comes to emotions. But many female twins make it clear they think their male twin is stupid, wrong, cruel, you name it because they mistakenly think their male is just being harsh and stubborn. They are not! They've just never been taught how to express and feel their emotions like you have and they've not had a woman be patient and understanding enough for him to fully trust her and slowly open up. Most women take it for granted how they have been allowed and encouraged to

13 express and release their emotions regularly amongst friends and family, to the point where most of their lives are lived around their emotions. Men do not have this. Men are mocked and stigmatized if they open up emotionally or base their life around their feelings. My ebook "Twin Flame Reunion Mastery" goes into these reasons and so much more in much greater detail and shows you exactly how you can help a man open up without pressuring him. Men are secretly desperate to find a woman who they can express themselves to. They are longing for this emotional freedom. They just don't know how to trust most women because they've been blamed and scholded by them when they couldn't open up as readily as their fellow females. Male twin flames need to feel completely safe and not under any pressure before they can open up to you. But most women (including me in the past!) go about this completely the wrong way. Simply showing how much you love him by expressing your love a lot and demonstrating that it's safe for him to open up by doing it yourself isn't good enough and does not work. Have you noticed how the more you open up to him, the less he opens up to you?? There are reasons for this and my guides really helped shed light on this important aspect of male twins. I really want to help you and believe I can transform your connection with your twin so he can open up to you and come closer instead of running in the opposite direction. TWIN FLAME REUNION MASTERY

14 Instant Download here --> The aspect of male twin emotions discussed here is only a small part of my ebook as I cover a vast array of important areas that must be understood and mastered for reunion to occur. Other chapters include: How to master the 7 Divine Stages of Twin Flame Reunion The common misunderstanding of what true unconditional love is and how to fix it How to release the fear which blocks reunion and keeps you stuck in a low vibration What surrendering truly means and how to achieve it and kick start the reunion process How to truly raise your vibration and therefore raise your twin's in the process How to put your twin at ease so he can open up to you emotionally Twin Flame Healing meditations

15 Much more! Twin Flame Reunion Mastery Course ebook Instant Download here --> Karen has 14 years of extensive twin flame wisdom that she has accumulate through her own personal experience with her twin flame connection, through working with thousands of other twin flame clients and most importantly through her continuous communications with her spirit guides. This ebook is the result of everything Karen has learned spanning well over a decade. Karen is the one who understands everything you are going through and she will guide you through the many pitfalls she got stuck in needlessly before her deep awakening occured. Join Karen as she explains in great depth the many stages that twin flames must go through and how to master the crucial lessons along the way to create harmony within yourself and thus your twin flame too and speed up reunion.

16 What you will learn from the course: How to dissolve your ego without making it the enemy; How to TRULY be unconditionally loving to yourself and your twin flame; How to raise your frequency to the level required for your twin flame reunion; How to reverse any mistakes you might be making that are causing your twin flame to run away; What surrender truly means and how to do it; Healing meditations to raise yours and your twin flames frequencies; What it really takes to unite. Item Specifics Instant Download Secure Payment PDF ebook 30 Day Money Back Guarantee Available Worldwide TWIN FLAME REUNION MASTERY

17 Instant Download here --> Testimonials "Karen's ebook is absolutely fantastic! I learned so much about my runner twin flame (who isn't running anymore!!) and about all the things I thought I was doing right but was actually doing wrong. I never thought it was possible to have things run so smoothly and easily between us. But now he always tells me how he feels and I feel so loved. I'm very very happy I read this! Truly invaluable. Thanks Karen!" - Denny, Portugal "This ebook is by FAR the best information on twin flames you will EVER read! I am absolutely addicted to it. Every time I read it I learn something more. I couldn't put it down! It changed my life overnight and my twin has started coming around to me after 2 years of running. Things just flow much more smoothly between us now. It's a miracle!" - Carmella, USA

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