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G e t t i n g Y o u r C h u r c h U n s t u c k 1 GETTINGYOURCHURCHUNSTUCK bydaniela.brown,phd Mostofushavebeenstucksomewhere,somehow inthedesertsandoffthemain road;upatreeweclimbedinourpre adolescence;or,onatrickyalgebraproblem. But somehow, someway we got unstuck. When our tires spun uselessly in the sand, we tried different approaches; when the algebra equation withstood one thought,weassaulteditwithanother. Gettingstuckforcesustoadaptourapproachtolife.Infact,onetheoryoflearning saysthebrainiswiredtosolvepredicaments,andtruelearningonlyhappenswhen themindtriestofiguresomethingout.goddesignedustokeepatit knocking, seekingandasking buttodosoinclosecounselwithhim. One of the shame inducing truisms floating around the body of Christ goes something like, All healthy organisms grow. Pastors of smaller or plateau ed churches feel the implied jab: lack of growth is symptomatic of underlying sickness.that snotveryhelpfulintherealchurchworld.tobeginwith,thereare limits to the size any organism can reach (Trophy trout are rare especially in smallstreams),andifyoukeepgrowingafterthelegalage,it scalledgettingfat. Wemayfindmoresolutionstowhathindersourchurchesfromgrowinglargerif we think in terms of getting unstuck, rather than just getting bigger. Mega congregationsaretheexception,nottherule,butthey liketheoversizedathletes whoplayinthenba getfarmorecoveragethanthemanytimesmorenumerous weekend warriorsinleaguessponsoredbylocalleagues. DanielA.Brown,PhD ctw.coastlands.org

G e t t i n g Y o u r C h u r c h U n s t u c k 2 SIGNIFICANCE Besides,thepointisnot,Ihope,justtogrowbiggercongregations.Ourtrueaim ought to be to grow more spiritually significant people. Rather than trying the latest sure fire program emphases, just to attract more people, we can actually focusourchurchgrowthstrategiesontheverythingsthatmakeforbiggerpeople. If we remember that the goal has never been to put on church per se, but to developpeoplewiththetoolcalledchurch,wecanstillfindseveralwaystogetour peopleunleashedandourchurchesunstuck. The statistics are clear: 80% of all churches in the U. S. average fewer than 200 attendeeseachweekend.withoutmajorchangeinleadershipstyle,congregational dynamics,ministryvision,orsomeothersignificantaspectofchurchlife,churches thathaveexistedformorethan5yearswillmostlikelystaythesizetheyarenow, withonlymoderategrowthovertime. Studies on church growth have sought to identify possible elements that accompany increases in the size of congregations. Some pastors mistakenly criticize church growth statistics, claiming that numbers do not tell the whole story:one spassionforjesus,one sradicalobediencetothepromptingoftheholy Spirit, one s diligent study of the scriptures, etc. cannot easily be translated into numbers for analysis. That is true, but if we presume that every pastor is equally diligent and committed, then other differences can tell us something interesting aboutwhatelementsmaypromoteorretardchurchgrowth. Whilewemustrejecttooclinicalanapproachtochurchgrowth makingitdevoid of God s sovereign working so too must we refuse to attribute all the growth of some churches to the arbitrary whims of God sent revival. Thus, a healthy perspective on church growth leaves to God the things that only He can do(the stuffweprayabout),butitwillinglyassumesresponsibilityforthethingswecan dosomethingabout.godgavemetheteethhegaveme,butibrushthem. LIKELYSTICKPOINTS Whenmycomputerfoulsup,Icallafriendwhoknowsmany(secret)thingsabout howtheyoperate theapparentlylogicalexplanationsforwhy/howtheydowhat theydo.beingatadistancefrommyhardwareandme,hecanonlyguessatwhyi mightbestuckwithanunresponsivemachine.hisfavoritelinebegins, Whydon t youtry DanielA.Brown,PhD ctw.coastlands.org

G e t t i n g Y o u r C h u r c h U n s t u c k 3 Some congregations remain the size they are because of physical limitations (community or building size) or assignment. Your church situation may be so uniquethatsuggestionssuchastheonestofollowareoflittlehelp.inthatcase, keep praying. But just as 95% of all the fish in a lake inhabit a mere 5% of the space,andmostcomputerproblemscanbetracedtoalimitednumberofcommon issues,so,too,dogrowthstickpointstendtoclusteraroundafewfactors. Of the many such elements, there are three that seem most critical to me: staff composition,fellowshipgroupingandpeoplemobilizing. Who comprises the staff both paid and volunteer? A church will rarely grow beyond the capacity of its staff. One of the easiest, surest ways to foster church growth is to add people with staff responsibilities (not necessarily salary). The benefit to each of those new staff members and to the whole church cannot be overstated. What fellowship groups exist in the church, and how easy it is for individuals to attachthemselvestothoseclustersofpeople?smallchurchesstaystuckbytrying to keep everybody doing all the same things as one big, happy family. Multiple services, small groups, choirs, and other groupings within the church will gear congregationsforexpansion andopenmoreopportunitiesforindividualstolead meaningfully. Havesignificantlevelsandtypesofresponsibilitybeendelegatedtopeopleinthe church? If God entrusts His church with increasing levels of responsibility based onprovenfaithfulness,hewillblesschurchesthatdolikewise.besides,themore leadersarefreedfromdoing thesameoldsameold, themoretheyinitiatenew enterprises. Growth churches keep generating new ministries that inspire and challengethecongregation. Churchesgetstuckatsomesizesmorethanothers,andwhiletheplateaunumbers may not be exact calculations, they do present pastors with slightly different challengesfortryingnewstrategiesinstaffing,groupinganddelegating. UNDER60PEOPLE Generally speaking, the leader feels his job involves knowing everything about each and every person in the congregation, and being there personally for everybody. Church is a big family at the dinner table; that s why potluck meals worksowellwithinthissizechurch.pastorcaresanddoessomuch,thathelulls DanielA.Brown,PhD ctw.coastlands.org

G e t t i n g Y o u r C h u r c h U n s t u c k 4 thecongregationawayfromitsownresponsibilitytobearoneanother sburdens. For the most part, he responds to problems and reacts to situations that arise in thenormalcourseofpeople slives. Actingmorelikeachaplainoraconcernedparent,thepastorofthetypicalsmall churchdelegatesalmostnothing,andifhedoesasksomeonetooverseeanaspect of church life, he will keep checking on it so often and so intrusively, that the individualfeelsaboutasempoweredasayoungsterwithalearner spermitonher firstdrivinglessonwithmom. SUGGESTIONS Identify three ministry jobs (i.e., doing the bulletin, selecting the worship songs, runningthesoundsystem),turnthemovertovolunteers,andafterexplainingthe jobforanhour,donothingandsaynothingrelatedtothosejobsforthreemonths. Donotattendthenextchurchfellowshipfunction,andforthenextthreemonths always invite someone different to open any gatherings (with a prayer or a greeting)andtoclosethem.haveneitherthefirstnorthelastword. Redirectonehourofyourweeklyschedule somethingyounormallydo andgo sitsomewherelikeinacoffeeshopwithpenandpaper;writedownanynewideas forchurch(notreminders). 90 120PEOPLE Having broken free from the previous stick point, churches of this size are developingintoacomfortablecommunity,notjustafamily.usually,therearenot (yet)manystructuralorlogisticalproblems.thefirstfaintglimpsesofaleadership structure are emerging, but delegation is probably friendship based and related almost exclusively to small or easily controlled aspects of church life. No one is really being freed to do things the way they think is best. Rather, the pastor has thoughtitthroughandmerelytellssomeonewhattodoandhowtodoit. Therewillalwaysexceptions,butgenerallyspeaking,achurchof90willstaystuck withoutafull timepastorandahalf timeassistantwhokeepsregularofficehours. DanielA.Brown,PhD ctw.coastlands.org

G e t t i n g Y o u r C h u r c h U n s t u c k 5 SUGGESTIONS Legitimize your operations by making the office staff more substantial setting prescribedhourswhenyou re(always)open,fillingthosehourswithworkers(paid and unpaid), getting a real piece of office equipment, having a staff lunch for volunteers,etc. Begin to establish multiple gatherings of the same kind, like dividing into two weekendservicesevenifyourbuildingisnotfull,startingthreebreakfastgroups for emerging leaders; for five months discontinue regular meetings with your elders, so they can each meet during that time slot with their own group of the samesize/gendercompositionastheformerelders group. Identify three main areas of ministry (i.e., CM, worship, men s meetings), and inviteatleastfivepeopleineacharea,totwobrainstormingsessionstodreambig. Delegatespecificjobsandresponsibilitiestoeachparticipant.Helpthemtodoitif theyneedthehelp,butexpectthemtodoit.leaveitintheirhands. 200PEOPLE ThevastmajorityofallU.S.churchesstaystuckherebecauseitmarksthelimitto the number of people with whom the pastor has the time, the energy or the personal reserves to stay close. People drift in and out of the church because the pastor has unknowingly set up the expectation that he, personally, is going to attend to them. Sooner or later, the pastor will unintentionally violate that agreement, and they will feel like things just aren t the same anymore since all thenewpeoplecame. The pastoral strategy must be to remove himself slightly from the whole congregation in order to concentrate on a few present or prospective leaders. Forcedtobecomemorestrategicandlong terminthinking,thepastormustback awayfromthepeopleandgetaheadofthem. SUGGESTIONS Staffing plays an especially critical role in pushing past the 200 barrier. Even if it seems like the money is not there, seriously consider hiring two full time, pastoral level staff with two full time support personnel. Begin by paying salaries to the two support personnel and add pastors to the payroll as you can(they re much more expensive to hire, and far more likely to be excited about the role evenasavolunteer). DanielA.Brown,PhD ctw.coastlands.org

G e t t i n g Y o u r C h u r c h U n s t u c k 6 Identifyafairlymajorworkprojectandbondpeopletoeachotherbygettingthem toworktogetheronit.ifpeoplescrapepaintsidebyside,theywillfeellikethey areapartofthebody,andthechurchwillbegintogrow.itbuildsespritdecorps, avitalreplacementtothe big,happyfamily feeling. Writedownthenamesofthesevenmostactive in leadershipindividuals/couples in your church and the hats they wear; ask each individual/couple to help you thinkofotherpeopletowhomyoucandelegateallbuttwoofyourleaders jobs. 400PEOPLE Thepastorisabsolutelyconvincedheorshecannotandshouldnotpastorallthe people in the church; so significant administrative and discipleship measures to utilizethefewtopastorthemanyhavealreadybeenadopted.pastoralcare,along withvirtuallyeveryotherministrysegmentofthechurch,mustbedelegatedthe wayjethroinstructedmoses.churchisadministrativelyandrelationallycomplex. Individuals and groups shift the focus of attention, and some widows are not goingtobeservicedproperly. Thechurchbecomesitsownmissionfield,needingsub congregationsalmostlike newchurchespioneeredwithinit.leadersarebeginningtohaveanambitionfor the people they directly oversee, and sometimes that internal ambition will cross grainswiththewholeprogram.internalexpansionandprogramneedsshouldwin outoverthelargerchurchprogramatleastsomeofthetime. It stimefortheyouthpastortobehisorherownperson.theseniorpastorshould welcome times when various ministry leaders buck the system, (developing kingdomswithinakingdom)notinthespiritofabsalom,butinthespiritoftrue servantswho,likeyou,areinthebusinessofministrybecausetheyseethesheep needing more shepherds. Commission and appoint people, full of the Holy Spirit andpower,tooverseevastareasofministryresponsibility. SUGGESTIONS Staff for sanity, staff for growth: If you keep an appropriate ratio of staff/people, sanitycallsfortheequivalentof6full timestaff,andgrowthwilllikelyrequirea couplemorethanthat.makealistofeveryoneyouwouldhire(todowhat?)ifyou weregiven$500,000tobeusedonlyforsalaries.don twaitforthemoney.askthe peopleonthelisttostartdoingwhatyou dlikethemtooversee. DanielA.Brown,PhD ctw.coastlands.org

G e t t i n g Y o u r C h u r c h U n s t u c k 7 Appraise and repair the church program offerings to increase the number of strands fellowshipsituationsoropportunities inthenetyou reusingtofishfor people. The two main types of groups are getting (people come for care and nurture without having to do anything) and giving (people come in order to provideserviceforothers).withanapprenticeleaderatyourside,starttwonew groups,oneofeachvariety,withveryspecificfocuses i.e.,onetargetingfathersin blendedfamilies,andtheotherdevelopingprayerteams. One of the most substantial ways to build team spirit and cooperation is to encouragemembersoftheteamtosharetheirstories/successes/struggleswiththe whole group especially with the primary leader present and attentive. Pastors who do all the talking at leadership gatherings miss a great opportunity to promote others into greater involvement and service. At your next church wide leaders meeting, ask at least eight people to give a 5 7 minute presentation (completewithhandouts)onthecurrentconditionofandthefuturevisionforthe department theyoversee.and(you)takenoteswhiletheyarespeaking! BURNYOURCHURCHUP It s too bad that so many pastors approach ministry with an Old Testament concept of anointing (By the way, that s an over used, under understood expression in church today.). In the old days, Elisha hoped to get Elijah s sole ministrymantle anditwasabitiffythathewouldgetit.inthenewdayssince Pentecost, the mantle has been divided up into countless spiritual flames, distributedinnumerablyuponchurchpeopleeverywhere.that sthebeautyoffire; itcanbedividedagainandagainwithoutlosinganyofitsoriginalsignificance. Ifwe regoingtoburnthehelloutofourworld,itcertainlydoesn thurttohavea few bigger bonfires. But there s a lot to be said for firing the flames of even the smallestcampfire,sothatitwilljumpoutsidewhateverpresentlyringsitin.the kingdom principle has always been multiplication. We find our spiritual significancenotthroughcollectingpeople,butingatheringthemforthepurpose ofsendingthemouttoreplicatetheirexperiencewithus. Raisingmorepeopletotheirfullkingdompotentialisahighercallingthansimply building a larger sanctuary. And frankly, churches of every size struggle equally withthetensionbetweengatheringandreleasingpeople. DanielA.Brown,PhD ctw.coastlands.org

G e t t i n g Y o u r C h u r c h U n s t u c k 8 GREATERGROWTH The underlying rationale for all these suggestions is found in Ephesians 4:11 16, which is the New Testament s most obvious discussion about church growth. Remember what we re supposed to be growing congregants not congregations. Forsomeamazingreason,JesusdidnotchosetobequeathtoHischurchaspecial potiontobepouredonpewstoattractpeoplelikebeescometohoney.hedidn t give us a franchise church in a box, or limitless sources of money to erect impressivebuildings. Instead, He gave the church people gifts (prophets, mercy showers, exhorters, etc.),andaprayerfocus(morelaborers).hmmm Paulputsitalltogetherwhenhesays, theproperworkingofeachindividualpart causesthegrowthofthebody (Ephesians4:16).Themorethatwedeveloppeople intheiruniqueministrygifting,andempowerthemwithtraining,permissionand opportunitytoactmeaningfully,themorethey(andourchurches)willgrow.the keyistheworksuppliedbyeachmember. So, whether a church has big or small numbers, God s interest is the same. And even more to the point, that interest is a sobering reality check for us pastors, regardlessofhowbigorsmallourcongregationsmaybe.thetruequestionisnot how can I get a bigger church? But how can I empower more of my church in ministrythatreallymatters? DanielA.Brown,PhD ctw.coastlands.org