Oradell/New Milford, NJ Saint Joseph Roman Catholic Church Fifth Sunday of Lent MARCH 13, 2016 NO GREATER LOVE OR MERCY *Are you searching for meaning in your life? *Are you looking for the grace to let go of anger, to forgive someone, to find forgiveness for yourself? *Are you praying for healing and for the strength to persevere or to be a support to someone else? COME TO OUR PARISH MISSION with Friar Johnpaul Cafiero beginning THIS SUNDAY March 13 at 7:30-9 pm. The Mission continues Monday and Tuesday. See page 4 of this bulletin to learn more! THIS WEEKEND: *FOOD DRIVE *ASCPG Irish Soda Bread Sale *OUR PARISH MISSION *MEN S CORNERSTONE INVITE PASTOR: Msgr. David C. Hubba PAROCHIAL VICARS: Rev. Andrew Park Rev. Roy Regaspi DEACON George Montalvo DEACON Edward Maron PASTOR EMERITUS: Rev. George M. Reilly MASS SCHEDULE Saturday 5:00 pm Sunday 7:30 am, 9:00 am, 10:30 am, 12:00 pm DAILY Weekdays & Saturday HOLY DAYS as announced Miraculous Medal Novena Monday, 7:00 pm in Mary s Chapel Eucharistic Adoration First Wednesday of Month 9 am 5 pm in Mary s Chapel SACRAMENTS Confession: Saturday, 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm Baptism Contact the Parish Office. Marriage Arrangements should be made with a priest at least one year in advance. Sick/Homebound/Hospital Call the Parish Office. Christian Initiation of Adults RCIA Contact the Parish Office. PARISH REGISTRATION Contact the Parish Office. Office Location Phone Email/Fax Website Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 office@sjcnj.org Fax #: 201-261-0369 sjcnj.org Religious Education 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-1144 religioused@sjcnj.org sjcnjre.org Saint Joseph School 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org the greenhouse-prek 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-477-8114 vailc@greenhouseusa.org greenhouseusa.org Parish Office Hours: Parish: Mon.-Fri..9 am-5 pm, ; Rel. Ed.: Mon Thurs.: 9:30 am 5 pm (Also by appointment.)
Saturday 5:00 pm Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10.30 am 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday 5:00 pm Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10:30 am 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm March 12, 2016 Mary Greenan March 13, 2016 People of the Parish Irma Primc Susan DeRosa Sophie Jacura Arcangelo Panza SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ March 14, 2016 Mary Farrell (Birthday Remembrance) John J. McMahon March 15, 2016 Judene Maron Baglieri Mildred M. Frykberg March 16, 2016 Todd Sain Mary & John Flieger (Wedding Anniversary Remembrance) March 17, 2016 Carol Guilbert Pietro Bernardi March 18, 2016 Kevin O Halloran Bill Higley (Anniversary Remembrance) March 19, 2016 Philip McGough Roberto Losardo (25 th Anniversary Remembrance) March 20, 2016 People of the Parish Concetta Bordonaro James Sattely Katherina Strobach The Deceased Members of the Gregorio & Cresenciana DeLuna Families PRAYER REQUESTS Let us remember those who are ill: Marilyn Kahill, Kristen Kamal, Henry & Anna Iwanowski, Giuseppini Manchisi Let us remember those who have recently died: Ruth Dsouza, Letitia Nepomuceno, Simplicia Lagrazon Let us remember those serving in the military. SUNDAY COLLECTION Week of March 6, 2016 BASKET PARISHPAY TOTAL $8,767 $4,892 $13,659 STEWARDSHIP REFLECTION For his sake I have accepted the loss of all things and I consider them so much rubbish, that I may gain Christ. (Philippians 3:8) The first commandment says that we shall not put other gods before the Lord. Detaching ourselves from material possessions and considering them rubbish does just that. It strengthens our relationship with Jesus and allows us to live more freely and joyfully. FOOD DRIVE DONATIONS MAY BE BROUGHT TO RECTORY GARAGE UNTIL 1:30 PM SUNDAY, MARCH 13. Monetary donations are also welcome. Please make your check out to Saint Joseph Church and memo it Food Drive. Thank you! TIME TO COUNT YOUR SACRIFICES It s almost time to turn in your Rice Bowl offering. Your check (please no cash or coins) made out to Saint Joseph Church and memo d Operation Rice Bowl ) must be dropped off at the parish office or put in the collection basket by March 23. NO NOVENA ON MARCH 14 Because of the Parish Mission, the Miraculous Medal Novena celebrated every Monday evening at Saint Joseph will NOT be held on BREAD AND WINE INTENTION The bread and wine for the week of March 13, 2016 is offered in prayer and celebration of the wedding of our daughter, Ann Marie Bull to Michael Ryan Riley as requested by Joanne & Jamie Bull. EARLY BULLETIN DEADLINE In order for an announcement to be considered for the Easter bulletin, it must be submitted to bulletin@sjcnj.org no later than Thursday, March 17 IN CASE YOU FORGOT! Daylight Savings Time begins Sunday, March 13. 2
This weekend we welcome two Chicago priests who have local roots. Father Johnpaul Cafiero, a Franciscan friar, returns to Saint Joseph to give Our Lenten mission. He will speak at the mission sessions (Sunday, Monday and Tuesday evenings at 7:30). Father Peter Armenio, who heads Opus Dei s Midwest province, is here to visit his mother, Mrs. Angela Armenio. He will also offer the 12:00 Mass. Since Thursday is St. Patrick s Day, I thought you might enjoy some reflections from The Wisdom of St. Patrick, a book by Greg Tobin, a parishioner of Our Lady of Sorrows in South Orange. His delightful opening paragraph promises further enjoyments the rest of his work amply supplies: From the forbidding coast of western Britain across the coldly turbulent Irish Sea, Patrick came to Hibernia extra partes, the most distant places, in his words first as a boy and a slave, then as a man and a bishop. The Romans had not dared to conquer this wild island by might of arms, but Patrick, a Roman himself, sought his mission and succeeded where no general or statesman ever had: to win the souls of the Irish for Christ, his King. Drawing on St. Patrick s two indisputably genuine writings that have come down to us from the 5th Century, his Confession and his Letter to the Soldiers of Coroticus (which Tobin points out are the oldest documents in Irish history ), as well as on other writings long associated with Patrick and recent scholarly works on him, Tobin skillfully paints a portrait of the man he calls a self-proclaimed rustic and ignoramus who nevertheless became a fine student of the Scriptures and who had a passionate, pious, deeply held faith in the teachings of the early Catholic Church. Assessing his enduring impact on Ireland and on the Faith, Tobin aptly writes that He was a missionary bishop who converted thousands and thousands of souls with a (continued above) FIFTH SUNDAY OF LENT~ MARCH 13, 2016 FROM THE PASTOR S DESK single-minded intensity that can be felt today. Tobin concludes his book by noting how his studies on St. Patrick have affected his own Catholic life: Will I take up St. Patrick s challenge to follow the path trod by the Son, to breathe in the presence of the Holy Spirit, to worship and obey the Father? Do I have the courage to accept God s grace each day and live a more selfless life of gratitude and service? Perhaps. At least I have the inspiring testimony of a man who did all that and more in the time he spent among the ancient Irish. Saturday is the solemnity of St. Joseph, our parish s patron. St. Bernard paid him eloquent tribute in one of his 12th century sermons: There is no doubt that this Joseph, to whom the mother of the Savior was espoused, was a man good and preeminently faithful. A prudent and faithful servant he was, I say, whom the Lord placed beside Mary to be her protector, the nourisher of His human body, and the single and most trusty assistant on earth in His great design. These anonymous verses from a 19th century poem are a lovely reminder of how much we owe to St. Joseph and of how proud we should be to belong to a parish that bears his name: To all, who would holily live, To all, who would happily die, St. Joseph is ready to give Sure guidance and help from on high. Because March 19 falls on the eve of Palm Sunday (the start of Holy Week) this year, there is only one Mass on St. Joseph s Day: at 8:30 in the main church. And we invite all who attend it to enjoy some pastries in Mary s Chapel right after Mass. By custom, any freely chosen Lenten austerities can stand aside when a Solemnity is celebrated. Msgr. David Hubba XXIV A SPECIAL INVITATION TO MEN An INVITATION is being offered to all men in the parish to join us on our next Cornerstone Weekend to be held THIS Friday night, March 18 at 7:00 pm through an 8:00 pm closing Mass on Saturday, March 19. Cornerstone is much more than a 26-hour RETREAT. It is really a lifelong ADVANCEMENT in our relationship with God, with ourselves, with our families and friends and our fellow parishioners. Please consider joining us as we become a closer family and we promise it will be a decision you will never regret. If you would like TO REGISTER or wish additional information, please call Ralph Mastrangelo at 551-404 -3240 or Rich Ciero at 845-558-1938. 3
SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ OUR LENTEN PARISH MISSION NO GREATER LOVE OR MERCY Reflections on the Seven Last Words of Jesus WHAT is a Parish Mission? A mission is a special time to nourish our spirit and our relationship with God. Our parish mission will consist of a three-evening series of inspirational talks given within a service of prayer, scripture readings and song. The theme of the Mission will be "No Greater Love or Mercy: Reflections on the Seven Last Words of Jesus. WHY are we having a Parish Mission? To renew our faith. To contribute to the spiritual life of our parish. To respond to God invitation call to draw ever closer to Him. To grow in our appreciation of God s marvelous love. To learn how to be better instruments of God s kingdom of love, justice, and peace in our troubled world. WHEN & WHERE is the Parish Mission? The Mission will take place here at Saint Joseph Church. Sunday, March 13, 7:30 9:00 PM Monday, March 14, 7:30 9:00 PM Tuesday, March 15, 7:30 9:00 PM STARTS THIS SUNDAY! WHO will be leading the Mission? Franciscan Friar Johnpaul Cafiero, a native of New York/New Jersey, will lead our Parish Mission. Father Johnpaul has doctorates in theology and psychology, and a Master s Degree in Counseling. He is a teacher and retreat director, international preacher, counselor and teacher on both the high school and university levels, and the former Vocation Director for his Order. He currently is a Chaplain of the Illinois State Police. WHO should attend the Mission? Every adult and teen parishioner, as well as family, friends, and neighbors, are encouraged to attend. COME TO ONE OR ALL EVENINGS. This Mission will touch the heart of EVERYONE! GIRL SCOUTS CELEBRATE OVER 100 YEARS SERVING GOD AND COUNTRY The Girl Scouts of Saint Joseph Parish will attend the 9:00 am Mass this Sunday, March 13, to celebrate the 104th anniversary of the founding of Girl Scouting. The first Girl Scout troop was started by founder Juliette Gordon Low on March 12, 1912 in Savannah, Georgia and was chartered by the U.S. Congress on March 16, 1950. The Catholic Church (among other national religious organizations) has developed and administers a program for Catholic Girl Scouts. The program encourages the girls spiritual growth by helping them work toward special religious recognitions that reinforce many of the values integral to both their Faith and Girl Scouting. Our Brownie Girl Scouts have recently earned the Family of God medal. UPCOMING YOUTH GROUP EVENTS CARDBOARD CITY If you are a teen in grades 9-12 at any high school you are invited to join us in a very special event on March 24. Cardboard City is designed to give young people a small idea of what it is like to be homeless. Teens spend the night sleeping in a cardboard box (in a secure location) and learn what it is like to have to rely on the help of others. For more information, contact our Youth Minister Donna Cirino at cirinod@sjcnj.org or at 201-362-8783. PASSION PLAY Teens of our parish are invited to join our Youth Group in presenting a special Passion Play at Saint Joseph Church on Good Friday, March 25. If you would like to be part of this moving Lenten experience, or just have questions, please get in touch with Donna (see contact info above). 4
FIFTH SUNDAY OF LENT~ MARCH 13, 2016 SOCIAL CONCERNS BINGO & BASKETS APRIL 14 The Bingo and Basket fundraiser for our Brother/ Sister Parish, St. Joseph in Jersey City, will take place on Thursday evening, April 14 in the Saint Joseph Lower School Gymnasium. The doors will open at 6:00 pm and Bingo will begin at 7:00 pm. We are presently collecting gifts for our Tricky Tray Baskets. We will gratefully accept any gift you would like to donate to help make this a successful event for the school children of St. Joseph in Jersey City. Please call Pat DeNicolo at 201-261-4323 or Joan Murray at 201-265-5823. See our bulletin in FULL COLOR at sjcnj.org PARISHIONERS STILL NEEDED RITE OF WASHING OF FEET MINISTRY OF MOTHERHOOD PRESENTS MARY'S WAY OF THE CROSS MARCH 23 HOLY THURSDAY, MARCH 24 Parishioners are needed to be part of the rite of foot washing at the Mass of the Lord s Last Supper on Holy Thursday, March 24. If you are interested in participating please call the parish office at 201-261-0148 and leave your name, phone # and email address with our parish secretary Gerry. We will need 12 individuals (including men, women, teens and older children) for this centuries old ritual enactment of the sign that Jesus gave us (in his own washing of the feet of his disciples at the Last Supper) that we must love one another. The Saint Joseph Parish Ministry of Motherhood invites all women to Mary's Way of the Cross on Wednesday, March 23 from 7:30 9:00 pm at the Saint Joseph Parish Life Center on Grove St. (behind the lower school). This will be a wonderful opportunity to prepare for the Triduum and walk with our Blessed Mother the Way of the Cross. Light refreshments, coffee & tea will be served. If you have any questions please email us at ministryofmotherhoodsjc@gmail.com or call Jeannie Tenaglia at 201-261-0595. We hope you can join us! NEEDED: NEW OR GENTLY-USED COMMUNION DRESSES/SUITS BY MARCH 17 WOMEN'S CORNERSTONE REUNION MARCH 16 Our Religious Education program continues to collect First Communion outfits (Communion dresses/veils, suits and shoes) for the Archdiocese of Newark s Office of Development and Stewardship. The outfits will be given to families in our inner city parishes and to the Religious Sisters at the Cathedral who know families in need. Last year the Archdiocese was able to distribute over 400 dresses and 200 suits. If you have clothing you would like to donate, please bring it cleaned to the Saint Joseph parish office/rectory no later than Friday, March 17. We will be having a Reunion Meeting of our Women s Cornerstone XXIV this Wednesday night, March 16. We will gather at 7:30 pm at the K of C Hall located at 199 River Road in New Milford. We hope to see all of our Cornerstone Sisters there to welcome our new ladies and look back on the wonderful weekend that we've just experienced. A good time to remember what has been and to look to forward to what is yet to come. Please plan to attend, you won't regret it! 5
SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ ITALIAN TREASURES NOVEMBER 7-19 OUR BEEFSTEAK DINNER WAS A BLAST! Our second annual Beefsteak Dinner on Feb. 27 was a big success. Thanks to all who came and to all those who participated in the 50/50 raffle. Congratulations to the lucky raffle winners: 1st prize Donna Bascomb ($1,964.50), 2nd prize Lori Finley ($1,178.70), and 3rd prize Anne Westdyk ($785.80). Below are some photos of all the fun. (Almost 100 photos of the event can be seen at facebook.com/ church.st.joseph Anyone can go to the site just scroll down to see all the pix. Maybe you ll see yourself!) Join our own Deacon George Montalvo for the trip of a lifetime to Italy this November. Visit Milan, Padua, Florence, Assisi, and Rome. Celebrate Mass at St. Peter s Basilica in Rome and at the shrines of St. Anthony, St. Francis and St. Padre Pio. Special highlight: an audience with the Holy Father (subject to His Holiness schedule). 12-Day tour includes round-trip airfare, 20 meals (including full breakfast daily), professional guides in all major cities, deluxe motor coach and lots more. Cost is only $2,798 per person/dbl. occ. Contact Nuovo Tours at 973-882-0021 or NTTOURS@aol.com to reserve your space. A special thank you to the members of our Beefsteak Dinner Committee: Betty Kern, Judy Rosenberg, Carol Winkler, Rich Ciero, Bob Viscardi and Irene Galvan for a job well done! 6
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