Saint Joseph Roman Catholic Church

Saint Joseph Roman Catholic Church Oradell - New Milford, NJ November 13, 2011 Our Parish Mission Statement As a family of faith, Saint Joseph Parish welcomes everyone to encounter Jesus Christ through Word, Worship, Community, and Service. Guided by the Holy Spirit, we are changed for the better and sent forth as disciples of Christ to continue his work in the world. Mass Schedule Saturday 5pm, Sunday 7:30am, 9am, 10:30am, 12 Noon Weekdays: 7am, 8:30am Saturday 8:30am Holy Days: As announced in the bulletin Baptism Contact the Parish Office before the fifth month of pregnancy Sick / Homebound / Hospital Ministry Call the Parish Office Marriage Call the Parish Office at least one year in advance Schedule Reconciliation / Confessions Saturday, 4 pm - 5 pm Christian Initiation of Adults Contact the Parish Office Miraculous Medal Novena: Monday, 7 pm Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament First Wednesday of the Month, 9am to 5:30 pm Parish Registration: Contact the Parish Office Pastoral Staff Rev. Thomas B. Iwanowski, Pastor Rev. Raul Ivan Silva, Parochial Vicar Rev. Roy Regaspi, Parochial Vicar Rev. George M. Reilly, Pastor Emeritus Mr. Heath Winborn, Director of Operations Mrs. Colette Vail, Principal Mrs. Angela Gussoni, Vice Principal Mr. Anthony Armando, Coordinator of Religious Education and Youth Minister Mrs. Arlene Kennedy, Sacramental Coordinator Mr. Monroe Quinn, Director of Music Phone Fax Email Website Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 201-261-0369 office@sjcnj.org sjcnj.org St. Joseph School 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 201-261-0830 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org Religious Education 300 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-1144 201-261-1163 religioused@sjcnj.org sjcnj.org Parish Office Hours: Weekdays 9 am - 4 pm or by appointment Religious Education Office Hours: Mon., Tues., Wed., & Thurs. 9 am - 5pm

ST. JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10.30 am 10:30 am MC 12 noon Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday 5:00 pm Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10.30 am 10:30 am MC 12 noon November 13 2011 Sonja Hanlon Deceased Members of the Prior and Plinio Families Maria José Amarel Eamon G. McCarthy Fifth Anniversary Remembrance Hugh J. Flanagan In Thanksgiving November 14 2011 Imogene Masch Lydia C. Lucey November 15 2011 Irene Bolter Birthday Remembrance Marge Hoock Birthday Remembrance November 16 2011 Andrew Burrous Julia Fallat Birthday Remembrance November 17 2011 Jesse Offringa Milagros Silvestre November 18 2011 Eleanor Keegan Dai Zovi and Choppe Families November 19 2011 Regina Fletcher People of the Parish November 20 2011 Robert Hughes Antonio Claveria, Sr. Felice Bartolomeo 13th Anniversary Remembrance Kevin O Brien Anniversary Remembrance Joseph Pinto 35th Anniversary Remembrance GIVING THOUGHT Each servant in today s Gospel was entrusted with a sum of money by his master, and told to do something with it. God has likewise entrusted us not only with money, but also with time, talents, family, and friends, and even more wonderfully God has given us the gift of faith so we might know Him and have a place in His Church. As faithful servants of God we are to support that Church with our financial offerings and with our involvement in parish activities and ministries. God has entrusted his Church to our care. PRAYER REQUESTS Let us remember the those who recently died: Thomas McWilliams, and Tony Carnevale Let us remember the sick and the homebound. Let us remember those serving in the military: May they be protected and return home unharmed. Let us pray that Peace and Justice may they blossom in our troubled world. ARCHBISHOP S ANNUAL APPEAL MAKING A DIFFERENCE Catholic Charities Emergency Food and Nutrition Network coordinates bulk food collection and distribution through a network of 75 parish-based food pantries, soup kitchens, and shelters in the Archdiocese of Newark. Last year, the network served over 40,000 people from 241,000 pounds of donated food. Thank you for your support of the Archbishop s Annual Appeal, which helps to make the Emergency Food and Nutrition Network a reality! FACEBOOK! Saint Joseph Parish now has a fan page on Facebook. Please take a look. You can find us at (facebook.com/church.st.joseph) You like our parish, so "like" us on Facebook! Our page will be updated on a regular basis, so keep checking us out! BREAD AND WINE INTENTIONS The Bread and Wine for the week of November 13, 2011 are given In Loving Memory of William Brady, father of Linda Pepe, on the First Anniversary Remembrance of his death, as donated and requested by Mark Alleman and Phil DeRosa. HOMILIES ON THE LITURGY Today and Sunday, November 20 & 27, we continue our homilies that focus our attention on the new Roman Missal that we begin using November 27. 2 A LIFE-SAVING REMINDER! It's that time of year again, change your Carbon Monoxide and Smoke Detector batteries! Spread the news! If you don't have detectors, get them! They can save your life! A reminder from Girl Scout Troop #1473

33 SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME NOVEMBER 13, 2011 THE NEW ROMAN MISSAL, HOMILY ONE Last Sunday, November 6, the following homily was preached at our Masses and in many parishes throughout the Archdiocese of Newark. This is the first of four homilies the Office of Divine Worship has suggested be delivered to help us prepare for the Third Edition of the Roman Missal. Most people count down the shopping days until Christmas. But some count the shopping days until the start of Advent in late November. Those folks try to get their Christmas shopping done before Advent. They want Advent to be a time of peaceful reflection as they prepare to celebrate the day when God was born among his people. Those who count the days before Advent, are like the five wise virgins of the Gospel. They knew the bridegroom was coming and they got ready to meet him. They came not only with their lamps but also with flasks of oil so their lamps would burn brightly when he arrived. They were not like the five foolish virgins who came with insufficient oil for their lamps. When the bridegroom's coming was announced, those five ran off to buy oil at the last minute. When they returned, they were too late. The doors were locked, and they were left standing outside, looking in. They were unprepared. By now, all Catholics should know that something is coming on Sunday, November 27. Yes, Advent and the start of the new Church Year of 2012. But something else is coming. On that day, Catholics at Mass will hear English words and phrases that will sound unfamiliar. They will read words and phrases that they have not seen before in their worship aids. That change is coming as surely as the bridegroom in the Gospel. Rather than be like those who were not prepared for his arrival, here at our parish, we have been following the example of the wise women who were ready to welcome him. Over the past months, there have been several articles in the bulletin, and in our worship aid, about the coming changes. We also have been learning new musical pieces that were composed to include the wording of the new translation. For the next few Sundays we will more closely consider the change in wording that will take place. We want to be well prepared for November 27. Let's begin at the beginning. The prayers of the Mass are first published in the Latin. That s the official language of the Roman Catholic Church. The prayers are then translated and published in English, and in all the other languages used by Catholics throughout the world. These prayers of the Mass are found in a book called the Roman Missal. When the Mass was revised after the Second Vatican Council in the 1960 s a new Roman Missal was published in Latin and then translated into English. A 3 slightly revised version was published in 1985, that is the translation that we are currently using today. In the year 2000, a new, third edition of the Roman Missal, was published in Latin. We will start using the English translation of that third version of the Roman Missal this Advent. Two things make this English edition different from the one we are now using. First, this edition of the Roman Missal contains additional prayers. And second, and much more importantly, this edition is translated differently. The earlier editions were translated following a principle called DYNAMIC EQUIVALENCE. This means the translators were interested in translating concepts and ideas, and not just words. The translators were trying to put a thought expressed in Latin words into English words that would convey the same idea. They were not translating word for word. However, some ten years ago, Pope John Paul II, said liturgical translators should now aim for a more literal translation. They should use a method of translation called FORMAL EQUIVALENCE. This requires a more word for word style of translation, and one that respects word order and sentence structure. The document issued by Pope John Paul II also called for a more formal style of language and one that respects references to phrases found in the Bible. Here is an example of what this means. Currently when the priest says, "The Lord be with you." You respond by saying "And also with you." Your response is a based on the Latin that says "Et cum spiritu tuo," which literally means, "And with your spirit." The earlier translators, using Dynamic Equivalence, translated that phrase, "and also with you." Beginning November 27, following Formal Equivalence, we will say "And with your spirit." That translation is more literal. While some of your other responses will be different with this new principle of translation; the change will be most noticeable as you listen to the words prayed by the priest. The wording will be more formal, the sentences will be longer, and the grammatical constructions a little more complicated. Like any change, the coming revisions in the Mass may make us uncomfortable until we become familiar with them. This new translation of the Mass will require us to be more attentive to what we hear and to look more carefully at words that we often say with little thought because we have heard them so many times before. As wise Catholics, may we be ready to welcome this translation of the Missal with enlightened minds and hearts. Like the wise virgins, may our lamps be burning brightly! 2011 Rev. Thomas B. Iwanowski

ST. JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ THE NEW ROMAN MISSAL The New English Translation As you know, starting November 27, we will be using a new English translation of the Roman Missal that contains the prayers of the Mass. Below are some examples of the new wording. Parts in bold indicate change from the present text. GREETING Priest: The Lord be with you People And with your spirit. GLORIA Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace to people of good will. We praise you, we bless you, we adore you, we glorify you, we give you thanks for your great glory, Lord God, heavenly King, O God, almighty Father. Lord Jesus Christ, Only Begotten Son, Lord God, Lamb of God, Son of the Father, you take away the sins of the world, have mercy on us; you take away the sins of the world, receive our prayer; you are seated at the right hand of the Father, have mercy on us. For you alone are the Holy One, you alone are the Lord, you alone are the Most High, Jesus Christ, with the Holy Spirit, In the glory of God the Father. Amen. ACCLAMATION AFTER THE GOSPEL Priest A reading from the holy Gospel according to Matthew. People Lord to you, O Lord. MYSTERY OF FAITH / MEMORIAL ACCLAMATION Priest The mystery of faith. People When we eat this Bread and drink this Cup, we proclaim your death, O Lord, until you come again. SIGN OF PEACE Priest The peace of the Lord be with you always. People And with your spirit 4 SAINT JOSEPH SCHOOL PTO SPONSORING BREAKFAST WITH SANTA Join us Saturday, November 26, from 9 am to 12 noon in the Lower School Gym for our annual Breakfast with Santa! $5.00/person. $3.00/photo with Santa Includes breakfast buffet, face painting, music and dancing. RSVP by Nov. 22. Advanced reservations only. For further information contact the Lower School office (201-261-2388). WE NEED YOUR FAVORITE RECIPES! The Saint Joseph School community is creating its very own Cook Book. Please help by submitting recipes for your favorite appetizers, beverages, soups & salads, breads, muffins, vegetables & sides, brunch items, pasta, pizza, main dishes, desserts, and of course, don t forget your secret family recipes! Please submit favorite recipes to: Christine Maron (cvmaron@yahoo.com ) or Jenn Hill (gnjhill@optonline.net). Or drop off your recipes to the parish office/rectory. Thank you for your support. WOMEN S CORNERSTONE MEETING If you've made Cornerstone Retreat, we invite you to join us this Wednesday evening at 8 pm at the K of C Hall on River Road in New Milford, for our November preparation meeting for Cornerstone XX. Our Cornerstone weekend will be held on March 2 & 3, 2012 and we are enthusiastically praying and preparing. All of our Team assignments and those who have said "yes" to doing them, will be announced at this meeting. If you have made Cornerstone, and, maybe you haven't been able to attend our meetings, we still invite you to this meeting. You will be invited to join one of the teams who needs additional help. Of course, we will also have our prayer and sharing time and fellowship time with goodies prepared by a few of our ladies. So, plan to attend as we move toward our wonderful weekend. Also, we will be giving additional thanks to our Lord during this Thanksgiving Season, for all the good things he has given to us. We hope to see you Wednesday Night - 8 p.m. K of C. There will still be a seat for you if you have to be a little late!

33 SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME NOVEMBER 13, 2011 RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS FIRST PENANCE INTERVIEWS THANKSGIVING FOOD DRIVE November 19 & 20 Monday & Tuesday, November 14 and 15, The First Penance Students have interviews with the parish priests at the rectory/parish office. Please consult the time you have been assigned. Lord when did we see You hungry, and feed You, or thirsty, and give You drink?... Truly I say to you, to the extent that you did it to one of these brothers of Mine, even the least of them, you did it to me. Matt.25:37, 40. TARGET NEWS Our Thanksgiving Food Drive will take place next weekend, November 19 & 20. As a reminder, please take home a grocery bag as you leave Church today. Help someone in need by bringing your donations to the Rectory Garage before or after Mass next weekend. During this Food Drive we gratefully accept turkeys. Your generosity will certainly be appreciated. The donations will go to the Food Pantry at Ascension Church in New Milford and to Resurrection Parish, our Sister Parish, in Jersey City. TARGET, our high school youth program for those in grades 9 through 12, sponsors a Hang Out Night that takes place each Thursday from 7 to 9 pm in the TARGET Room located in the rectory basement OUR BAPTISM PROGRAM We have a new parish baptism program consisting of several components or gatherings. These gatherings are led by members of our parish who are excited to share their faith and the joys of parenthood with new Moms & Dads. If you prefer, gift cards from the supermarkets are always welcome! You may also make a monetary donation. Please make the check payable to St. Joseph Church, mark the envelope Food Drive. You may mail it in or put it in the box provided in the Rectory vestibule. Your help will truly be a blessing to many of God s people. Thank you and God bless you! Those who wish to have their children baptized at our parish should contact the parish office well before the fifth month of pregnancy so they can take part in all the gatherings before the actual baptism. Please contact the parish office / rectory for more information, our program schedule, and registration forms. (201-2610148) or (office@sjcnj.org). SENIOR CITIZEN THANKSGIVING DINNER HOSTED BY IHA & BERGEN CATHOLIC HS CHILDCARE ON SUNDAY DURING MASS The Good News for Little Ones program, for children 6 months through 4 years of age, provides a safe and comfortable environment for children while their parents attend our 9 am or 10:30 am Sunday Mass. Good News for Little Ones takes place in the greenhouse classroom located in the Saint Joseph Lower School on Elm Street. Immaculate Heart Academy High School and Bergen Catholic High School students are hosting the Third Annual Thanksgiving Dinner for local senior citizens. This free event will be on Tuesday-November 22 from 5 to 7 pm at Immaculate Heart Academy, 500 Van Emburgh Avenue in Washington Township. SHAWL MINISTRY The Shawl Ministry of Saint Joseph Parish will hold their monthly meeting this Tuesday-November 15, from 2 to 4 pm, in the rectory basement meeting room. Please bring all finished items to the November meeting. For information about the Shawl Ministry please contact Pat (201-261-4323) or Barbara (201261-0298). There will be no December meeting. For reservations call Stephanie (201-445-6800 x 125) by Thursday-November 17. Please leave your name, phone number and number of people in your party. SAINT JOSEPH LEISURE CLUB TRIP The Saint Joseph Leisure Club is sponsoring a trip to the Resorts Casino, Tuesday, November 29. The bus will leave the Knights of Columbus Hall on River Road, New Milford at 9 am and return at approximately 8 pm. Cost $24, with a bonus cash back. For reservations or more information please call Ann May (201-261-5265) THIRD SATURDAY PRAYER All parishioners are invited to join the Legion of Mary for their monthly Third Saturday Prayer that will be held on Saturday, November 19, after the 8:30 an Mass in lower church/mary's Chapel. After the rosary, Father Roy will give short reflection on the virtues of Our Blessed Mother. 5

ST. JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ The Gospel is the Good News about Jesus. The Gospel Reading for today is from St. Matthew Chapter 25 verses 14 to 30. In today s reading Jesus tells us that God gives us all different gifts and talents. He tells us that we can choose to waste the time, money and the special talents that God gives us. We can also be selfish with those gifts. But when we use our time, money and our special gifts to spread the good news of Jesus, God is pleased and he fills our hearts with joy. NOTE TO PARENTS The Liturgy of the Word with Children takes place at our 9am Sunday Mass. During that Mass the younger children are sent forth just before the First Reading and go to the lower church/ Mary s Chapel for their own celebration of God's Word. The readings, homily, songs and prayers are geared to their understanding. The children return before the presentation of the gifts to continue the celebration of the Liturgy with their families. We want God's Good News to be exciting for the younger members of our parish family. If anyone is interested in helping with this committee or is interested in helping with the publication of this Kid s Page, you can contact us at (kids@sjcnj.org). COMING NEXT WEEK Jesus tells us how to love one another Compiled by the Liturgy of the Word With Children Committee NOTE TO KIDS Be sure to use your special envelopes in the collection. You can get extra envelopes during the Liturgy of the Word with Children. 6