Saint Joseph Roman Catholic Church Oradell / New Milford, NJ Fourth Sunday of Easter, April 21, 2013 Reconciliation / Confessions Saturday, 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm Baptism Contact the Parish Office before the fifth month of pregnancy. Marriage Arrangements should be made with a priest at least one year in advance. Sick / Homebound / Hospital Ministry Call the Parish Office. Rev. Andrew Park, PAROCHIAL VICAR Mrs. Colette Vail Principal of Saint Joseph School Mrs. Angela Gussoni Vice Principal of Saint Joseph School Mrs. Diane Hellriegel Director of Communications & Development Jesus said: My sheep hear my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish. Jn 10:27-28a Sacramental Life Mass Schedule Sunday Mass Saturday 5:00 pm Anticipated Sunday 10:30 am 12:30 pm Daily Mass Weekdays and Saturday Holy Days as announced Parish Staff Rev. Thomas B. Iwanowski, PASTOR Rev. George M. Reilly, PASTOR EMERITUS Mr. Heath Winborn Director of Operations Mr. Monroe Quinn Mrs. Phyllis Vrola Director of Music Business Manager Mrs. Anne Annunziato Parish Secretary Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament First Wednesday of the Month 9:00 am - 5:30 pm in Mary s Chapel Miraculous Medal Novena Monday, 7:00 pm in Mary s Chapel Christian Initiation of Adults RCIA Contact the Religious Education Office. Parish Registration Contact the Parish Office. WEEKEND ASSISTANTS: Rev. John Chadwick & Msgr. Richard Groncki Mrs. Emily Ruffing Director of Religious Education Mrs. Arlene Kennedy Sacrament Coordinator Mr. Anthony Armando Youth Minister Office Location Phone Email Website Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 office@sjcnj.org sjcnj.org Religious Education 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-1144 religioused@sjcnj.org sjcreligioused.blogspot.com Saint Joseph School 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org the greenhouse-prek 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-477-8114 vailc@greenhouseusa.org greenhouseusa.org Parish Office Hours: Weekdays 9 am - 5 pm or by appointment Religious Ed. Hours: Mon. thru Thurs. 10 am - 6 pm / Fri. closed
Saturday 5:00 pm Sunday 10.30 am 10:30 am MC 12:30 pm Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday 5:00 pm Sunday 10.30 am 10:30 am MC 12:30 pm April 20, 2013 William J. Sweeney SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ April 21, 2013 People of the Parish John Bentivegna Caterina Aromando Jerry Merola Gregorio & Cresenciana DeLuna April 22, 2013 Frank Peady William Ryan April 23, 2013 Maria Han George Labita April 24, 2013 Michael Sapunarich William Ryan April 25, 2013 Francisco & Teresita Tumang John Dabrowski Remembrance on Wedding Anniversary April 26, 2013 Vincent Armenio Mary Jane Mooney April 27, 2013 Rose Della Fave Mary B. Sweeney April 28, 2013 People of the Parish Deceased Members of The Prior & Plinio Family Donald Staff, Sr. 3rd Anniversary Remembrance Marie Gaynor 2nd Anniversary Remembrance Antoinette DiBiagio Birthday Remembrance BREAD AND WINE INTENTIONS The Bread and Wine for the week of April 20, 2013 are offered in prayer for the health and healing of Helen O Brien as requested by John Plinio. Lord, hear our prayers for the people of Boston. Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me. (Ps 23: 4) 2 PRAYER REQUESTS Let us remember those who are ill: Don Cottrell, Emily Cottrell, Leth Ibanez, Michael Hoock, Maggie Joya, David Gill, Brother Alan Thomas, OFM Let us remember all those who have recently died: Bill Malone, Ruth Belthoff, George Danchak B Let us remember those serving in the military. The 2013 Mass Book still has weekday Masses and Bread/ Wine intentions available for dates in the second half of this year. Please stop by the parish office for available dates and to place a request. The disciples were filled with joy and the Holy Spirit. ACTS 13:52 Because the disciples heard Our Lord s call, they were able to spread the Gospel message with strength and vitality. We, too, can experience that same joy if we take time to open our hearts, listen to God, ask for His direction and allow the Holy Spirit to guide our lives and our decisions. Sunday Collection for Week of April 14, 2013 Basket ParishPay Total $8,609 $5,547 $14,156 The Easter Sunday Collection total is $69,001 to date. Thank you very much for your generosity. ARCHBISHOP S ANNUAL APPEAL Many thanks to the 264 families who have already pledged their support. We have currently received pledges for $60,302 of our assigned goal of $63,000. For those who have not yet had the chance, pledge envelopes are available at the doors of the church or at the rectory. (You may place your envelope in the collection basket or drop it off at the rectory.) With everyone s help we can reach and perhaps exceed our goal and really make a difference. MONTHLY BEREAVEMENT GROUP If you have lost a loved one, you are welcome to visit a Bereavement Group which meets monthly on the first Thursday of the month at 7:30 pm at the Church of the Immaculate Conception at 900 Darlington Avenue, Mahwah, NJ. The purpose of the group is to provide spiritual and emotional support; to provide knowledge of the mourning process and the resources; and to offer a caring, compassionate and confidential atmosphere for the sharing of experiences. The group is open to men and women of all ages and of all faith backgrounds. For information, please contact Jennifer Edwards at 201-327-1276 or by email at Jennifer.EdwardsICC@gmail.com
THE PASTOR S COLUMN SUNDAYS & FIRST COMMUNION If you belong to one of the committees of our parish, you know that every meeting begins with an icebreaker. The icebreaker is usually a question designed to help the members of the group learn more about one another. I believe that committees work much better when the members know something about one another. At the last Parish Finance Council this was the icebreaker, First Communions will be celebrated during the coming weeks at our parish, share a memory from your First Holy Communion. That question made the members think back to their own First Communions. One of the members even came to the meeting with the prayer book and rosary beads that he received on the occasion. As you read this column, memories of your own First Holy Communion may be coming to your mind. What do you remember? I remember my First Communion. It took place at Queen of Peace Church in North Arlington on May 5, 1957. I received the sacrament from the pastor, Monsignor Peter B. O Connor. Yes, I wore a white suit with white buckskin shoes. There was a small family party at home after the Mass. Like that member of the Finance Council whom I mentioned, I still have my First Communion prayer book. In fact, I looked at it when I was writing this column. Thinking of my First Communion Day fills me with warm and pleasant memories associated with my family, with my home parish, with Sister James Aloysius (my second grader teacher), and with feeling closer to God by sharing the Eucharist. Over the years as I have continued to receive Holy Communion, I have grown in my appreciation of what it means to receive the Body and Blood of Christ, of what it means to be in a holy communion with God and with my fellow Christians. This weekend, and for the following three weekends, the second grade children of our parish will be celebrating their First Holy Communion at our 5 pm, 10:30 am and our 12:30 pm Masses in our upper church. (Note: there will be no First Communions at our 5 pm next Saturday, April 26.) In total, 117 children will be sharing at the Table of the Lord for the first time. The Church suggests that Easter Time is the perfect season of the year for First Communions since Easter is the season for the Sacraments of Initiation, namely, Baptism, Confirmation, and Eucharist. That is also the reason why we celebrate the Sacrament of Confirmation during this season. Bishop Marconi will be celebrating the Sacrament of Confirmation at our parish this coming FOURTH SUNDAY OF EASTER, APRIL 21, 2013 3 Friday evening, April 26, at 7 pm, and then on Saturday, April 27, at 9:30 am and 1:30 pm. In total, 112 teenagers of our parish will be confirmed. You might wonder why we celebrate First Communion at our Sunday Masses and not at some other time. A document of the Church dealing with Easter says, It is also appropriate that children receive their First Communion on one of the Sundays of Easter. Sunday is the day that celebrates the Resurrection. It is the day the Spirit brought the Church to life. It is the day we dedicate to the Lord. It is the day the community of the Church comes together. It is a day for family. So it is most appropriate that Sunday is the day for First Communion. (That includes Saturday evenings for we see that Mass as part of our Sunday celebration.) Also, celebrating First Communions at a regularly scheduled Mass reminds us that the children receiving the Lord are also being fully initiated into the weekly gathering of the Church. They are now allowed to join the communion procession and come forward to share with us the Body and Blood Christ. They are now truly Sunday people. Having First Communion at Sunday Mass also allows us to support the children and their families by our presence. We sometimes forget that the children we baptize become the responsibility of all the Church. We have a duty to help them to grow in their Catholic Faith. We do that most of all by the example we give them. I often say that faith is caught more than taught. By that I mean that children learn from how we live our faith. By celebrating First Communion at our Sunday Masses we are providing the children and their families with an example of faith. We are there because we believe. We believe the Lord is Risen. We believe that God speaks to us in scripture readings. We believe that God loves us so much that God comes to us in a piece of consecrated bread and a sip of consecrated wine. We believe that what we do at Sunday Mass changes us and can change the world. By our presence at the First Communion Masses, you and I are sharing our faith and helping the children and their families to see that First Communion is far more than just a family social event, and far more than a onetime event. It is the beginning of many, many Holy Communions as we go through life. Wouldn t it be wonderful if sometime in the future, when people are thinking about their own First Holy Communions, they remember the faith they saw and the love they felt at their First Communion Mass on a Sunday at Saint Joseph Parish? Love, Father Tom Iwanowski
ANNUAL LITURGY FOR THOSE WHO HAVE SUFFERED THE LOSS OF A CHILD The 26th Annual Liturgy for Those Whose Children Have Died will be held on Friday, May 10, at 7:30 PM at Notre Dame RC Church, 359 Central Avenue, North Caldwell. All parents who have suffered the death of a child of any age are invited to attend with their families and friends. A personal witness will also be offered as the name of each child is read during the Mass. Preregistration is requested by calling 973-497-4327. STILL TIME TO COME! BINGO & BASKET The Social Concerns Committee s Bingo & Basket fund raiser to support our sister parish, the Church of the Resurrection in Jersey City, will be held on Thursday, April 25 in the Saint Joseph Lower School Gym. Doors will open at 6pm, Bingo begins at 7, and will be followed by a Tricky Tray. Your $20.00 donation includes admission, 3 bingo cards for each game, dauber, and refreshments. Guaranteed seating with Advanced Reservations. Please call Joanne at 201-261-6810. If you would like to make a donation, you may drop off your check (made out to Church of the Resurrection ) at the Saint Joseph Rectory. PROOF OF THE RESURRECTION Father Tom recently blessed the handiwork of the members of the Saint Joseph Prayer Shawl Ministry. He called their knitted scarves and hats, crocheted blankets and shawls (all intended for those who are sick or in need), and their unselfish commitment to helping others through their work and prayers, beautiful proofs of the Resurrection. The Shawl Ministry recently celebrated their 8th anniversary serving others. We are blessed to have them in our parish! Pictured with Fr. Tom are (from left to right): Lorraine Smith, Gail Fabiano, Fran Woods (standing), Jeanne Wieme, Joan Murray (standing), Barbara Piersa (co-leader), and Jane Emanuel. (Not pictured are: Pat De Nicolo (co-leader), Joanne Hudes, Jan Burns, Helen O Brien, Tina Behselich, Eileen Scrivani, Linda Derbique, Bernice Weber, Mary Ann Krasnow, Emilie Hern, Rose Ronda.) SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ 4 SAINT JOSEPH SCHOOL CLASS OF 1973 40TH REUNION! Alumni of the SJS Class of 1963 (born in 1958-59) are cordially invited to a reunion on Aug. 3, 2013 from 2:00 pm to 6:00 pm at the Bacari Grill, Washington Township with a tour of the school at 12 noon. For more information email Anna Preziosi at stjoes1973reunion@gmail.com ESTATE PLANNING Spring has finally arrived!! And so has the Spring cleaning. Now is a good time to evaluate your financial planning and ask yourself the question, Do I have a Will? If not, now is a great time to make a Will and get your financial affairs in order. Please consider remembering Saint Joseph in your Will. A bequest will ensure that the works of Saint Joseph will continue into the future. If you need information on how to prepare a Catholic Will, please contact me, Theresa Lynch, Planned Giving Manager at 973-497-4042 or by e-mail at lynchthe@rcan.org Our Sunday bulletin is also available online at sjcnj.org Click on Calendar & Bulletin. THEOLOGY ON TAP Thursday night Series - April 25 and May 2-7:30pm at The Mason Jar Restaurant in Mahwah. The Christian call to love is not always easy. Love your enemies, forgive those who trespass against you, love your neighbor as yourself. Have you ever wondered WHY we are called to love in such a radical way? The answer can be found in our DIGNITY. Each night begins with casual conversation over drinks and a meal (if you choose to order). An interesting talk from the Sisters of Life will follow and finally we will wrap up the night with a question and answer session. The Mason Jar is located at 219 Ramapo Valley Road in Mahwah. Please contact Matthew Higgins at 201-327-1276 for more information. UNDERSTANDING THE NEW JERSEY DEATH WITH DIGNITY ACT Rita Marker, attorney, author, and authority on assisted suicide legislation, will speak on Tuesday, April 23 at 7:30 pm at the St. Joseph s Shrine Auditorium on Long Hill Road in Stirling, NJ. Mrs. Marker, who is Executive Director of Patients Rights Council, will discuss NJ s pending bills as well as Health Care Proxy, followed by a Q&A. Don t miss this opportunity to learn the facts and implications of assisted suicide. Invite adults of all or no faith. Free will offering at the door. If the laws pass, voters will decide the issue at the next general election.
FOURTH SUNDAY OF EASTER, APRIL 21, 2013 God bless the newest members of our Church who were baptized on Sunday, April 14. Valentina Laura Child of Michael & Debra Mariano Hailey Nicole Child of Nicole & Joseph Berchtold Noel Christopher & Michael Joseph Children of Joshua & Deirdre Urban STARS OF SAINT JOSEPH Summer Performing Arts Camp K-8 As a result of last summer s big success, Saint Joseph Parish will once again be offering the Summer Performing Arts Camp the week of August 19-23. This year we will have a session for students entering kindergarten-grade 3 which will run from 9 am to 12 noon and one for those going into grades 4-8 from 1 to 4 pm. Real music professionals will help students explore the basics of singing, acting and dancing. No prior experience is necessary. Enrollment is limited, so register early! Tuition for new campers is $175 per child; $150 for returning campers. Register online at sjcnj.org, click on Newest News, then click on Stars of St. Joseph. If you have any questions, contact us at summercamp@sjcnj.org Visit the Saint Joseph School website at sjsusa.org LADY PALADINS HOOPS CAMP The Paramus Catholic Lady Paladins are hosting their 21st Hoops Basketball Camp the week of July 8 through the 12. The girls will be working out in our air-conditioned facility at Paramus Catholic High School. Camper s day includes Drill Stations, Games, and Contests. Each camper will receive instructions and encouragement. The camp is open to girls who will be entering 3rd through 10th grades. The cost is $200 and includes a T-Shirt, Awards and a Pizza party on the last day. For more information and to register, please contact Head Coach Al Roth at kassa5@aol.com or call 201-394-0290. 5 COMING EVENTS The Sacrament of Confirmation will be celebrated on Friday, April 26 at 7:00 pm, on Saturday, April 27 at 9:30 am and 1:30 pm. First Communions will continue to be celebrated at the following weekend Masses: Sunday, April 28 (10:30 am Upper & 12:30 pm), Saturday, May 4 (5 pm), Sunday, May 5 (10:30 am Upper & 12:30 pm), Saturday, May 11 (5 pm), Sunday, May 12 (10:30 am Upper & 12:30 pm). There will be NO First Communions at Sunday Masses. 24/7 HELPLINE FOR MOTHERS OF CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEEDS Mom2Mom is a peer-support program for mothers of children with special needs in New Jersey. Directed by the University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey University Behavioral HealthCare, the confidential program s focus is on caring for the mental and emotional health of mothers of children of all ages with special needs. By dialing the Mom2Mom helpline 877-914-MOM2, callers can: talk to other mothers of children with special needs who have been trained as peer counselors who can offer support; gain access to a Resource Database; and get information on Mom2Mom Support Groups in their area. Mothers can also access live chat on the website mom2mom.us.com
SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ The Gospel is the Good News about Jesus. The Gospel Reading for today is from Saint John 10:27-30. Compiled by the Liturgy of the Word With Children Committee We know the sound of our parents voices and likewise, our parents know the sound of our voices. Our parents also know us by name, so that when they call us by name, we listen and know they are talking to us. Our parents teach us things that we need to know, such as looking both ways before crossing the street. In today s Gospel, Jesus talks about sheep. Jesus tells us that sheep know the sound of the shepherd s voice so that when the shepherd calls them, they come to him. Likewise, the shepherd knows his sheep. The shepherd keeps the sheep safe and directs them where to go. In this Gospel, Jesus compares us to the sheep and tells us that he is our shepherd. Like the shepherd, Jesus knows his people. He knows us by name and he knows if we love him and if we follow his rules. Jesus tells us that if we love him then we also love God because Jesus and God are one person. Jesus will always look out for us. Jesus will always direct us to follow the right path and to do the right things. Jesus will keep us on the road to heaven. But like our parents, we need to obey and listen to him. How lucky we are to have Jesus the Lord as our Shepherd! Jesus is the Good Shepherd and we are his sheep. MISSION OF THE WEEK Every night before you go to bed, pray to Jesus to help you love him and follow his ways so he can shepherd us to heaven. NOTE TO PARENTS We are looking for volunteers to help with the Liturgy of the Word with Children Committee. If anyone is interested, please see Father Tom or Father Andrew or any of the volunteers that attend on Sunday morning. 6