The Parish of the Holy Cross 95 Nichols Road + Nesconset, NY 11767 + 631.265.2200 + www.pothc.org + www.facebook.com/pothcnesconset LET ALL BE WELCOMED AS CHRIST! Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour. Matthew 25:13 Matthew 23:12 Come and pray with us! 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time - November 12, 2017 WE CELEBRATE EUCHARIST Monday Thursday: 9:00 A.M. (Chapel) Saturday: 5:00 P.M. Sunday: 8:00 A.M. + 9:30 A.M. + 11:30 A.M. WE CELEBRATE RECONCILIATION Saturday: 3:45 P.M. 4:30 P.M. or call Father Michael for an appointment. WE CELEBRATE BAPTISM Baptisms are generally celebrated twice each month at 1 P.M. Please contact the Parish Office for more information. WE CELEBRATE WEDDINGS Couples should contact the Parish Office at least six months in advance of the proposed wedding date.
We are here for you! 631.265.2200 + Fax 631.265.2229 + pothc@optonline.net Parish Office Hours: Monday - Friday 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM (closed 12:15-1:00 PM) Rev. Michael F. Holzmann Pastor Ms. Kathleen Reid Director of Religious Education Mrs. Mary Anne Mc Culloch Ms. Patricia Gyscek Co-Coordinators of Parish Outreach Mrs. Judith Pickel Pastoral Associate Mrs. Jane Wirth Parish Secretary PASTORAL TEAM PASTORAL STAFF Dr. Vincent Mazurek Music Minister Deacon Ralph Rivera Pastoral Minister Mrs. Elizabeth Shea Business Manager Mr. Brian Reich Director of Music Ministry Mr. Salvatore Finocchiaro Coordinator of Youth Ministries Mrs. Mary Pannone Religious Education Secretary (hcreled@optonline.net) Mrs. Barbara Shipman P/T Asst. to the Pastor Mr. Gerald Farrell Mr. Vincent Matula Custodians Mrs. Mary Inghilterra Weekend Sacristan Celebrants for Next Weekend s Masses November 18th/19th 5:00 PM Fr. Michael 8:00 AM Fr. Michael 9:30 AM Fr. Kenan Peters 11:30 AM Fr. Michael Mass Intentions Schedule Week of November 12th, 9AM Mass Mon. Mr. & Mrs. Leon Yashian Tue. Lorraine Drey (living) Wed. Robert DeMonte Thu. Anne DeGennaro (living) New Life in Christ Remembering our Sick Please pray for the sick of our parish, their families and caregivers: Frances Monaco Scripture Readings for November 19, 2017 + Proverbs 31:10-13,19-20,30-31 + 1 Thessalonians 5:1-6 + Matthew 25:14-30 2 Saturday, November 18th, 5 PM Mass Concetta Brady, James Combs, Leo Bertucelli, Robert DeMonte, Gerald Wisnowski, Vincent Mazurkiewicz Sunday, Nov. 19th, 33rd Sun. in Ordinary Time 8:00 AM Mr. & Mrs. O. DeSanto 9:30 AM People of the Parish 11:30 AM Catherine Dooley, Robert Schmitt, Joseph Brindisi, AnnMarie Slominski, Mary Spinks
Smooth Sailing by Father Michael Hopefully, this will be my final parking lot progress report. We lost Monday as a work day due to the weather. The workers also needed to accommodate two funerals this week. I am assured that, in spite of all of this, we should be completely finished by the weekend. Last weekend before the 8:00 Mass, I volunteered to be on traffic patrol out on Nichols Rd. I made one interesting observation as I stood in the street waving my arms. Far more cars approach the parish from the south than those that come from the north. That is my fascinating fact for the week. Many thanks to all of you who have given to our fundraising effort. Our thermometer (on page 11) is approaching the halfway point. We appreciate your help with this project. Last week I received a call from the Bishop s Office asking me if I would serve as the Dean in this corner of the Diocese. Rockville Centre is broken up into fourteen clusters of parishes called deaneries. Our cluster is known as the Smithhaven Deanery, which consists of eight parishes. The Dean has a few specific duties such as an annual review of the sacramental records as well as officiating at the installation of a new pastor. But beyond that, the deans also serve as a consultative board to the Bishop and may have input into Diocesan policies. I am very happy to have been asked and look forward to serving the wider Church in this capacity. Normally, at this time of year we begin our raffle basket fundraiser. We have new leadership in the Fundraising Committee, and this year the raffle baskets will take place in the spring rather than around Thanksgiving. The one exception is for the prize of my cooking dinner at the house for the winner and seven of his or her friends. I like being able to host dinner at my house near Christmas when all the decorations are up. We will be selling raffle tickets for this prize in the coming weeks. More information about this will be coming. This week our Nation remembered and honored all our Veterans who have served in the Armed Forces. So many men and women have sacrificed tremendously for the sake of serving our great land. We are most appreciative to all those who have dedicated a part of their lives to this important work. We pray for those who continue to carry physical and emotional scars as a result of their service. Please keep our young people in your prayers this weekend as they are on their Fall Retreat. Continue to pray for peace and for an end to all senseless violence. 3
LET S CELEBRATE! Holy Cross 30 th Anniversary Celebration Plans are underway to celebrate this milestone event for our parish. We are looking for helping hands to assist in planning and organizing the different events which will take place throughout 2018. If you would like to help, please fill out the form below and return it to the Parish Office. Check as many as you might be interested in: Dance Committee Mardi Gras Committee Kids Games/Activities Parish History Entertainment Picnic Committee Decorations Publicity/Social Media Journal Baker Photographer/Videographer Office Work/Phone Calls Strong Back Committee (Physical set-up/moving for events) Not sure what I want to do, but I am willing to help. Any suggestions/comments: Name: Phone: E-Mail: 4
PARISH OUTREACH Monetary Donations in Support of the Outreach Thanksgiving Project Cash, Check or Supermarket Gift Cards are greatly appreciated to help defray the expenses of our Thanksgiving Basket Program. You can mark your envelope Thanksgiving and drop it in the collection basket or bring it to the Outreach office. We thank you for your continuing support of our Outreach ministry. SCRIPTURE STUDY Join us for Scripture Study on Thursday, November 16th at 10AM or 7PM in the Father Joe Room! THANK YOU LITURGICAL MINISTERS! The Liturgy Committee and Pastoral Team are hosting a Thank You Luncheon for our Liturgical Ministers: Ushers, Eucharistic Ministers, Lectors and Music Ministers to show our appreciation for their service to Holy Cross. Please join us as we reflect on our ministries and share food and friendship on: I will attend the appreciation luncheon. Sunday, November 19th at 1PM in the Atrium I am an (circle one) Usher EM Lector Music Minister Name Phone Email Place in collection basket or drop off at the Parish Office by Nov. 12th. Thank you! 5
PARISH OUTREACH BE AN ANGEL THIS CHRISTMAS! ANGEL TAGS are available this weekend in the baskets on the small marble pillars on the Altar. Once again we are requesting gift cards for both clothing and toys for the households in our area that Outreach assists. Therefore, the BLUE angel tags have requests for a store gift card on them. We encourage you to consider providing a holiday gift card so that our neighbors are able to purchase the items that best fulfill their family s needs. When you purchase a gift card, please put it in an envelope and place it in the Gift Box on the table near our Angel sign. Gift cards do not need to be wrapped. PLEASE BE SURE THE AMOUNT IS NOTED ON THE GIFT CARD OR ENVELOPE. THIS INFORMATION IS NEEDED SO PARISH OUTREACH CAN DISTRIBUTE THE CARDS EQUALLY. (Remember: Gift cards need to be activated at the store register.) The Angel tags are coded as follows: BLUE: Families of the Holy Cross Outreach Program RED: Our friends at Olsen s Rest Home PURPLE: Talbot House, the Catholic Charities crisis center for those struggling with addiction GREEN: Toys for children in the Brentwood area serviced by Pronto ORANGE: Mercy Haven, an organization that provides community residence housing for those living with mental illness PINK: Supermarket cards to enable a family to have a special meal If you choose a tag listing a gift item for Olsens or Mercy Haven (red or orange), please wrap and attach angel to top of package. Items for Pronto and Talbot (green or purple) do not need to be wrapped. Gifts and gift cards can be returned for the next 3 weekends. PLEASE NOTE: Sunday, Dec. 3rd is the last day to return gifts and gift cards. Many thanks to our Holy Cross Angels who give so generously each year to make our Angel program successful!! 6
BANNS OF MARRIAGE Second Time Megan Bayley & Alexander Cranshaw Kathleen Lank & Harry Wareing SPECIAL COLLECTIONS This week at the offertory we will also be collecting for our Renovation and Major Repairs Fund. Thank you to all who have supported this collection and also to those who have responded to our request for donations for our parking lot! Next weekend, we will also be collecting for the Catholic Campaign for Human Development which includes Home Missions (CCHD). CCHD was founded 40 years ago by the bishops of the United States when they realized that the lives of those in need would not improve until the systems and policies that keep people in poverty were changed. For 40 years, CCHD has funded community groups that seek justice and create lasting change. Your contribution will help fight poverty in America and defend human dignity. Thank you for your support of these important collections! ATTENTION LITURGICAL MINISTERS! We know it seems early, but we are starting to plan for the Christmas schedule. Would you like to serve at a Christmas Mass? Please circle your choices and drop in the collection basket or return to the Parish Office by November 19th. Name: I am an: Altar Server Eucharistic Minister Usher Lector I would like to serve at Mass: Christmas Eve 4PM 6PM 10PM Christmas Day 8AM 10AM 12Noon 7
YOUTH GROUP Hello Everyone! Are you in high school? Do you want to make new friends as you play fun games? Do you want to build more of an understanding about yourself and your faith? If you answered "Yes!" to any one of those questions above then you MUST check out the Holy Cross Youth Group! You will be glad you did! If you made your Confirmation, then come with a friend and check out the wonderful opportunities the Youth Group has for you! We would love to see you! The Holy Cross Youth Group is the perfect opportunity for you to continue to grow in your faith and build relationships with others in the parish. Here are our upcoming youth events and happenings! Take a look: 11/10-11/12: Youth Fall Retreat! :-) Please keep us in your prayers this weekend. We are all excited in having a fun-filled, prayerful weekend with a wonderful group of teens! * A special thank you to the Selden ShopRite for their donation of food and supplies for our Fall Retreat! Sunday, 11/19-5PM Youth Mass and Thanksgiving Feast 6-8PM. Mass will take place in the Chapel, and our feast will take place in the Atrium. All teens are welcome! So, if you are thinking about coming to the church to see what we are all about, do it! You will not regret it. Come with a friend or family member, and join us as we continue to grow in the endless love of Christ. If you have any questions or concerns, or if you are thinking about joining us and you would like more information, then please do not hesitate to contact Sal Finocchiaro, Coordinator of Youth Ministries, at hcyouthgroup15@gmail.com or call the parish office. Thank you! 8
COMMUNITY NEWS The Seminary of the Immaculate Conception Join the Friends of the Seminary of the Immaculate Conception for a Celebration of Mary to be held at the Seminary on Sunday, December 3, 2017. Journey to the heart of Mary through Theology, Spirituality, and the Arts. Beginning with Mass at 10 AM, celebrated by Bishop Andrzej Zglejszewski, Auxiliary Bishop of Rockville Centre, the day will include lunch, presentations by Fr. Michael Whalen, CM, Associate Professor at St. John s U., Brother Timothy Driscoll, SM, Kellenberg Memorial H.S. Faculty Member, and Theresa Bissex, Music Director at Church of St. Rocco, Glen Cove. Advance registration required. $40 per guest. For reservations and information contact Seminary Development Office, 440 West Neck Road, Huntington, NY 11743 or 631.423.0483 x 102 or bmalone@icseminary.edu. The Branch Funeral Home Bereavement Seminar The Branch Funeral Home and Vigliante family would like to invite you to attend a special seminar for those who have lost a family member or friend this past year. It will be facilitated by Eileen McCormick, LMHC, FT, their bereavement specialist. You will be given suggestions and information on how to cope with the holiday season while grieving the death of a loved one. Please call 631-724-9500 by November 14th to reserve a seat. Seminar Date: Saturday, November 18, 2017 Time: 10:30AM 12 Noon Place: The Branch Funeral Home, 190 East Main Street, Smithtown, New York 11787 Holiday Visit to Calverton National Cemetery On Wednesday, November 29th, the Branch Funeral Home is sponsoring a free trip to Calverton National Cemetery. Bus Pick-up times and Locations: 8:30AM - at The Branch Funeral Home, 190 East Main Street, Smithtown 8:45AM - at Smithtown Senior Center, 420 Middle Country Road, Smithtown Please call 631-724-9500 by Wednesday, November 21st, to reserve a seat on the bus. Coffee, cookies and cold drinks will be served, along with pizza on the way back. The bus has a lavatory. 9
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MEETINGS THIS WEEK Sunday, November 12th 9:00AM-1:00PM GIRL SCOUT CAR WASH Lakeview Car Care BAPTISMS 1PM Worship Area Monday, November 13th 5:00 PM ONE TO ONE All Areas LEV. 8 PARENT/STUDENT MTG. 7PM Worship Area PASTORAL COUNCIL 7:30PM Fr. Joe Room Tuesday, November 14th IN STITCHES GROUP LEVEL 1 PARENT MEETING FUNDRAISING MEETING CHOIR 10:00 AM Fr. Joe Room 7PM Atrium Fr. Joe Room 7:15PM Worship Area PARKING LOT UPDATE Thank you to all who responded to our request for donations to help pay for our parking lot! Our goal is to raise $75,000. Below is a parking lot thermometer to track our progress. We are happy to report we received $30,805 in donations so far! Thank you so much for your support! $75,000 $70,000 $60,000 Wednesday, November 15th SENIORS Thursday, November 16th SCRIPTURE STUDY LEVEL 1 PARENT MEETING Saturday, November 18th K OF C CHANCES SALE 11AM - 2:30PM Atrium 10 AM & 7 PM Fr. Joe Room 1:30PM Atrium 5:00 PM Atrium $50,000 $40,000 $30,000 $20,000 Sunday, November 19th All Masses K OF C CHANCES SALE Atrium LIT. MIN APPRECIATION LUNCH 1PM Atrium YOUTH MASS 5PM Chapel YG THANKSGIVING FEAST 6-8PM Atrium $10,000 $0 KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS The Knights of Columbus will be selling CHANCES after all the Masses on the weekend of November 18th/19th. Thank you for your support of our Church and other charities through this fundraiser. Please support and join the Knights! 11
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