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YITRO Welcome to the Aleph Beta Study Guide on Parsha Yitro! The Marriage of God and Israel Parshat Yitro tells of the climactic moment when Israel stood at the foot of Mount Sinai and received the Torah from God. If you ve been around the block a few times, you may have heard of that encounter between God and Israel as being analogized to a marriage -- with God as the groom, the people as the bride, and the Torah as the ring. It s a romantic notion -- but it s certainly not obvious from the text itself. Is there any actual textual evidence to support this claim? Or is it just a bit of poetic license? It turns out that there is some striking textual evidence - but it s not to be found where you would expect, in the description of the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai, which begins in chapter 19. You need to turn back a few pages, to chapter 18, to a prologue of sorts, to find it. Yitro Visits It all begins with a visit from Yitro, Moses father-in-law. Yitro hears the amazing news -- that Israel has been freed and taken out of Egypt -- so he gathers his family and his belongings and he hustles to meet up with Moses in the desert: Exodus 18:5 5 And Jethro, Moses father in law, came -- with [Moses ] sons and his wife -- to Moses, to the desert where he was encamped, to the mountain of God. שמות יח:ה ה ו י ב א י ת רו ח ת ן מ ש ה, ו ב נ יו ו א ש ת ו --א ל-מ ש ה: א ל- ה מ ד ב ר, א ש ר-הו א ח נ ה ש ם--ה ר ה א ל קים When you read the description of his visit, it doesn t sound like a miraculous piece of evidence to bolster the claim of Sinai-as-marriage. But it turns out that this encounter with Yitro isn t as straightforward as it first appears. It s packed with clues which suggest that something deeper is going on. This story is actually based on an earlier event in the Bible -- the first time we, the reader, encountered Moses father-in-law. ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 1

INSTRUCTIONS There are a lot of divrei Torah on the parsha. How is this different? At Aleph Beta, we believe that the Torah is a guidebook that answers life s biggest questions, offering profound insights about how we should live our lives. Moreover, we believe that Jewish tradition has always recognized the right of all readers, in every generation, to look at the text themselves and try to decide what they think it means. That means you. That s why you are the most important author of this quest through the sources. We think that this guide offers a fun, stimulating and relevant path through the sources, but if you get wrapped up in a stimulating discussion and never make it past page 2, we ll consider that a success! Is this guide for self-study or should I study it with others? Either works! You can gather a small group of friends to explore it together, share it with a chevruta (learning partner), or go through it by yourself. Do I need to prepare anything or can I just jump in? Just jump in! Even if you re planning to use this for a group discussion, just open up to page 1 and get going. (If you read it in advance, it will spoil the fun!) The only thing you should do in advance is print out copies of the Source Sheet for the other participants, so everyone can follow along and engage with the sources. About the Author Most of the material within although not the particular language contained in this guide - was first developed and taught by Rabbi David Fohrman, founder and CEO of Aleph Beta, and is presented in his video, Parshat Yitro: The Marriage of God and Israel (available for viewing at ). This guide was written by Beth Lesch, Writer at Aleph Beta, and edited by Immanuel Shalev and Rivky Stern, and arranged by Charles Treece. The First Encounter PONDER THIS When is the first time in the Bible that we meet Yitro? Rewind back to chapter 2 of Exodus. Moses had just fled from Egypt to the land of Midian. He was resting by a well when he saw seven sisters approach to draw water for their flocks. A group of nasty shepherds elbowed their way in and begin to bully the girls. The girls, frightened, scattered from the well. Moses saw all of this playing out and he took a stand. He swooped in, defended the girls, and personally brought water to their thirsty sheep. When the girls made it home, they told their father about this heroic man who had intervened on their behalf - and their father chastised them: You re telling me that you just left the man standing there? Where are your manners? Go back and invite him home for a meal. Their father was none other than Yitro. It might not be apparent at first glance, but these two Yitro stories (let s call them Yitro 1 and ) -- they resemble one another in amazing ways. And when you see how the verses all line up, it points you to a striking conclusion. ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 2

The Search Begins Let s start by looking at a seemingly ordinary event from (the one from our parsha) - and then we ll see if we can find its parallel in Yitro 1 (the first encounter with Yitro). Here is one of the first things that happens in : Exodus 18:8 8 Moses told his father-in-law about all that the Lord had done to Pharaoh and to the Egyptians on account of Israel, and about all the hardships that had befallen them on the way, and that the Lord had saved them. שמות יח:ח ח ו י ס פ ר מ ש ה ל ח ת נו א ת כ ל-א ש ר ע ש ה י קו ה ל פ ר ע ה ו ל מ צ ר י ם, ע ל או ד ת י ש ר א ל: א ת כ ל-ה ת ל א ה א ש ר מ צ א ת ם ב ד ר ך, ו י צ ל ם י קו ה In, Yitro is told about an incident in which God miraculously saves Israel from Egypt. So if these accounts really are parallel, we d expect to find a corresponding event in Yitro 1. Let s take a look: Yitro 1 Exodus 2:16-19 16 Now the chief of Midian had seven daughters, and they came and drew water, and they filled the troughs to water their father s flocks. 17 But the shepherds came and drove them away; so Moses arose and rescued them and watered their flocks. 18 They came to their father Reuel¹, and he said, Why have you come so quickly today? 19 They said, An Egyptian man saved us from the hand of the shepherds, and he also drew water for us and watered the flocks. שמות ב:טז כ טז ו ל כ ה ן מ ד י ן, ש ב ע ב נו ת; ו ת ב אנ ה ו ת ד ל נ ה, ו ת מ ל אנ ה א ת-ה ר ה ט ים, ל ה ש קו ת, צ אן א ב יה ן. יז ו י ב או ה ר ע ים, ו י ג ר ש ו ם; ו י ק ם מ ש ה ו י ו ש ע ן, ו י ש ק א ת-צ אנ ם. יח ו ת ב אנ ה, א ל-ר עו א ל א ב יה ן; ו י אמ ר, מ ד ו ע מ ה ר ת ן ב א ה י ו ם. יט ו ת אמ ר ן --א יש מ צ ר י, ה צ יל נו מ י ד ה ר ע ים; ו ג ם-ד ל ה ד ל ה ל נו, ו י ש ק א ת-ה צ אן Sure enough, we find an echo in Yitro 1: Yitro is told about the Egyptian man who saved his daughters from the shepherds at the well. That s two times in which Yitro is told about something. That s admittedly not a parallel to write home about - but we re only just getting started. PONDER THIS Think more deeply about the two incidents which Yitro is told about. Can you find any parallels between them? Are there similarities in the ways that the stories are told? 1 Here is he referred to as Reuel - but most commentators understand that he is the same person as Yitro. After all, we ll see very soon that Reuel is the father of Tziporah and becomes the father-in law of Moses. And when we meet Yitro, we see that he too is the father of Tziporah and the father-in-law of Moses. ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 3

These are both stories of rescue, of salvation. Granted, it s a lot more epic in - God does the saving, and He does it by miraculously freeing an entire nation from slavery - but Yitro 1 is also a story of salvation: of Moses saving the daughters from the shepherds. This is no stretch: the very same verb, להציל ( to save ), is used to describe both acts of salvation: Exodus 2:19 Yitro 1 ו ת אמ ר ן --א יש מ צ ר י, ה צ יל נו מ י ד ה ר ע ים... They said, An Egyptian man saved us from the hand of the shepherds... Exodus 8:18 ו י ס פ ר מ ש ה ל ח ת נו א ת כ ל-א ש ר ע ש ה י קו ה... ו י צ ל ם י קו ה. Moses told his father-in-law about all that the Lord had done that the Lord had saved them. PONDER THIS When is the first time in the Bible that we meet Yitro? In both Yitro 1 and, we find that the saved persons are the ones talking, and they are telling Yitro about how the savior saved them. Means of Salvation That s all very interesting - but what does it have to do with our outstanding question? Where s the evidence that the giving of the Torah was like a marriage? We re getting closer to our answer, but we still have a ways to go. Because the parallels between Yitro 1 and don t end there. Yes, these are both stories of,הצלה of salvation, told by the saved person - but there s a further likeness in how the savior does the saving. Let s consider Yitro 1 first. How exactly did Moses go about saving the daughters? ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 4

LOOK INSIDE If you look carefully at the text, you ll find that when Yitro s daughters report the heroics of this mysterious man, they don t simply say, Moses saved us! There are three different verbs used. According to verse 19, what are the three things that Moses did for them? Exodus 2:19 19 They said, An Egyptian man saved us from the hand of the shepherds, and he also drew water for us and watered the flocks. שמות ב:יט יט ו ת אמ ר ן --א יש מ צ ר י, ה צ יל נו מ י ד ה ר ע ים; ו ג ם-ד ל ה ד ל ה ל נו, ו י ש ק א ת-ה צ אן Yitro s daughters tell him that Moses did three things: 1. He saved us from our enemies. 2. He drew water for us. 3. He gave water to our thirsty flock to drink. Shockingly, when Moses tells Yitro how God saved the people in, he actually says, in effect, these three things. It s not immediately apparent, but the connections are there. Let s take a look at Moses language in : Exodus 18:8 8 Moses told his father-in-law about all that the Lord had done to Pharaoh and to the Egyptians on account of Israel, and about all the hardships that had befallen them on the way, and that the Lord had saved them. שמות יח:ח ח ו י ס פ ר מ ש ה ל ח ת נו א ת כ ל-א ש ר ע ש ה י קו ה ל פ ר ע ה ו ל מ צ ר י ם, ע ל או ד ת י ש ר א ל: א ת כ ל-ה ת ל א ה א ש ר מ צ א ת ם ב ד ר ך, ו י צ ל ם י קו ה It s easy to see the connection to #1: He saved us from our enemies. But where are #2 and #3? A Divine Drawing of Water PONDER THIS When, in the course of saving Israel, does God draw water? (Hint: It didn t take place at a well. When did God take a single body of water and draw some of the water away?) ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 5

Well, ask yourself: How exactly did God save the people from Pharaoh and the Egyptians? Yes, the ten plagues were part of the grand lead-up, but the real climax of salvation was at the Parting of the Sea: Exodus 14:21 21 And Moses stretched out his hand over the sea, and the Lord led the sea with the strong east wind all night, and He made the sea into dry land and the waters split. שמות יד:כא כא ו י ט מש ה א ת י דו ע ל ה י ם ו י ו ל ך י קו ה א ת ה י ם ב רו ח ק ד ים ע ז ה כ ל ה ל י ל ה ו י ש ם א ת ה י ם ל ח ר ב ה ו י ב ק עו ה מ י ם God took a single body of water and drew some of the water away, making, in effect, two bodies of water. It was a horizontal splitting of the waters. Now go back to what Moses did for the daughters at the well in Yitro 1. What exactly happens when a person draws water from a well? First, before lowering the bucket, all the water is in the well. It s one single body of water. Then, after you lower and raise the bucket, you draw part of the water away, making two bodies of water. It sounds a lot like a vertical splitting of the waters. In one case, God did the splitting, in the greatest miracle known to mankind. In the other case, it was Moses with his bucket - hardly a miracle. But the connection is unmistakable. It s #2: He drew water for us. So we ve found #1 and #2 - but where s #3? A Thirsty Flock PONDER THIS When does God give water to a thirsty flock? (Hint: We re not actually talking about sheep here. Think about the use of flock as a metaphor.) ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 6

Moses had just spoken of God s deliverance at the Sea of Reeds. What is the very next thing which happened to Israel after they crossed through the sea? They sang a song, praising God for His great salvation, and then: Exodus 15:22-23 22 Moses led Israel away from the Red Sea they walked for three days in the desert but did not find water. 23 They came to Marah, but they could not drink water from Marah because it was bitter... שמות טו:כב כג כב ו י ס ע מ ש ה א ת-י ש ר א ל מ י ם-סו ף ו י ל כו ש ל ש ת-י מ ים ב מ ד ב ר, ו ל א-מ צ או מ י ם. כג ו י ב או מ ר ת ה--ו ל א י כ לו ל ש ת ת מ י ם מ מ ר ה, כ י מ ר ים ה ם For three days after the Parting of the Sea, the people wandered thirstily in the desert, and all they could find were bitter waters. So God miraculously provided them with water: Exodus 15:25 25...and God showed Moshe a tree, and he threw it in the water, and the water became sweet... שמות טו:כה כה...ו י ו ר הו י קו ה ע ץ, ו י ש ל ך א ל-ה מ י ם, ו י מ ת קו ה מ י ם... Now, the verse doesn t say anything about God giving water to thirsty sheep, like Moses did. Where were the flocks? The flock was the people. It s Israel, God s flock. In Yitro 1, Moses - the savior - gives water to a thirsty flock. So too in. It s #3: He gave water to a thirsty flock to drink. That s three for three: Yitro 1 Exodus 2:19 19 They said, An Egyptian man saved us from the hand of the shepherds, and he also drew water for us and watered the flocks. Exodus 18:8 8 Moses told his father-in-law about all that the Lord had done to Pharaoh and to the Egyptians on account of Israel, and about all the hardships that had befallen them on the way, and that the Lord had saved them. Drew water Thirsty flock Saved from enemies ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 7

A Very Important Guest These similarities between Yitro 1 and are stunning. Let s see if the parallels continue. LOOK INSIDE Read through the excerpts from Yitro 1 and below. Compare the two texts. After Yitro is told about the act of rescue, what happens next in each account? Yitro 1 Exodus 2:19-21 19 They said, An Egyptian man saved us 20 He said to his daughters, So where is he? Why have you left the man? Invite him, and let him eat bread. 21 Moses consented to stay with the man, and he gave his daughter Tziporah to Moses. שמות ב:יט כא יט ו ת אמ ר ן --א יש מ צ ר י, ה צ יל נו כ ו י אמ ר א ל-ב נ ת יו, ו א י ו ; ל מ ה ז ה ע ז ב ת ן א ת-ה א יש, ק ר א ן לו ו י אכ ל ל ח ם. כא ו י ו א ל מ ש ה, ל ש ב ת א ת-ה א יש ; ו י ת ן א ת-צ פ ר ה ב ת ו, ל מ ש ה Exodus 18:8-9, 12 8 Moses told his father-in-law that the Lord had saved them. 9 Jethro was happy about all the good that the Lord had done for Israel, that He had rescued them from the hands of the Egyptians...² 12 Then Moses father in law, Jethro, sacrificed burnt offerings and peace offerings to God, and Aaron and all the elders of Israel came to eat bread with Moses father in law before God. שמות יח:ח ט,יב ח ו י ס פ ר מ ש ה ל ח ת נו ו י צ ל ם י קו ה. ט ו י ח ד י ת רו --ע ל כ ל- ה ט ו ב ה, א ש ר-ע ש ה י קו ה ל י ש ר א ל: א ש ר ה צ ילו, מ י ד מ צ ר י ם יב ו י ק ח י ת רו ח ת ן מ ש ה, ע ל ה ו ז ב ח ים--ל אל קים; ו י ב א א ה ר ן ו כ ל ז ק נ י י ש ר א ל, ל א כ ל-ל ח ם ע ם-ח ת ן מ ש ה--ל פ נ י ה א ל קים In Yitro 1, after Yitro hears that Moses rescued his daughters, he demands that they invite him home to enjoy a meal in his honor. follows the exact same pattern: After Yitro hears that God rescued the people, he convenes a meal, inviting Aaron and the elders to break bread. The word ל ח ם ( bread ) shows up in both accounts. Not only that, but both feasts are thrown in honor of the savior. In Yitro 1, Moses saved the girls, so Yitro invited him to dine. In, God saved the people, so Yitro invited Him to dine. Notice that verse 12 in specifies that they are consuming their offerings before God. In both accounts, the savior is the guest of honor. 2 By the way, we ve skipped a few verses here in the interest of space - but don t worry, you can find the complete sources in the back, if you re curious. ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 8

Matrimony This is all very interesting - but we don t seem to be any closer to answering our original question: why is revelation compared to a marriage? PONDER THIS Have you noticed any mention of a marriage in the verses, from either Yitro 1 or, that we ve seen so far? You may have noticed that we have come across a marriage in these verses. It s in Yitro 1: Yitro 1 Exodus 2:21 21 Moses consented to stay with the man, and he gave his daughter Tziporah to Moses. שמות ב:כא כא ו י ו א ל מ ש ה, ל ש ב ת א ת-ה א יש ; ו י ת ן א ת-צ פ ר ה ב ת ו, ל מ ש ה First, we had a verse that describes the feast that Yitro convened in honor of the savior, in honor of Moses. And in the very next verse, we have a marriage: the marriage of Moses to Tziporah, one of Yitro s daughters. The savior marries the saved. Well, if these parallels between Yitro 1 and are real, then the next thing that should happen in the chain of parallels is some kind of corresponding event: a marital event. This is starting to get quite interesting indeed. Maybe this is where that whole idea of Sinai as a wedding comes from! A marriage between the savior (God) and the ones who were saved (Israel). So what we need to do is look closely at, and find the verse that describes the feast -- and then turn the page. And right there, we should find our marriage. So let s turn the page: ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 9

Exodus 18:13 13 It came about on the next day that Moses sat down to judge the people, and the people stood before Moses from the morning until the evening. שמות יח:יג יג ו י ה י, מ מ ח ר ת, ו י ש ב מ ש ה, ל ש פ ט א ת-ה ע ם; ו י ע מ ד ה ע ם ע ל-מ ש ה, מ ן-ה ב ק ר ע ד-ה ע ר ב Oh dear, this is not what we expected to find at all. We d hoped for thunder, maybe some lightning, and a wedding-like encounter between God (the savior) and Israel (the saved) at Sinai. (And yes, those things are going to come, but not for another 14 verses.) Instead we find this boring story about Moses judging the people. This doesn t sound very marital at all. So did we make a wrong turn somewhere? Remember, we identified all of these amazing parallels between Yitro 1 and : Yitro 1 Yitro is told a story of salvation The saved person(s) do the telling Key verb is להציל (to save) The story of salvation has 3 parts: Yitro is told a story of salvation The saved person(s) do the telling Key verb is להציל (to save) The story of salvation has 3 parts: 1. He saved us from our enemies. 1. He saved us from our enemies. 2. He drew water for us. 2. He drew water for us. 3. He gave to a thirsty flock to drink. 3. He gave to a thirsty flock to drink. (לחם) Yitro convenes a feast with bread and savior is the guest of honor (לחם) Yitro convenes a feast with bread and savior is the guest of honor Culminating in...a marriage Culminating in...moses judging the people??? These connections are too much to be a coincidence, way too much. But then all of the sudden, the trail went cold. So where s the marriage in? ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 10

Not So Fast We might be tempted to give up the search - but let s not be hasty. Perhaps there is something marital about this account of Moses judging the people after all. Let s take a closer look and try to understand its meaning. In doing so, we re hoping to understand what this passage is doing here, where we expected to find a romantic marriage between the savior and the saved, between God and Israel. Let s dive in. In Exodus 18:14, Yitro sees Moses sitting and judging the people and asks him: Exodus 18:14 מ ה-ה ד ב ר ה ז ה א ש ר א ת ה ע ש ה ל ע ם--מ ד ו ע א ת ה יו ש ב ל ב ד ך, ו כ ל-ה ע ם נ צ ב ע ל יך מ ן-ב ק ר ע ד-ע ר ב What is this thing that you are doing to the people? Why do you sit by yourself, while all the people stand before you from morning till evening? Explain to me what you re doing. It looks like you re just administering small claims court. Why don t you train some others to help you? You must have more important things to worry about. I don t understand why it s so important that you need to do this all yourself. LOOK INSIDE Take a look at Moses reply in Exodus 18:15-16. According to Moses, why are the people coming to him? Exodus 18:15-16 15 Moses said to his father in law, For the people come to me to seek God. 16 If any of them has a case, he comes to me, and I judge between a man and his neighbor, and I make known the statutes of God and His teachings. שמות יח:טו טז טו ו י אמ ר מ ש ה, ל ח ת נו : כ י-י ב א א ל י ה ע ם, ל ד ר ש א ל קים. טז כ י-י ה י ה ל ה ם ד ב ר, ב א א ל י, ו ש פ ט ת י, ב ין א יש ו ב ין ר ע הו ; ו הו ד ע ת י א ת-ח ק י ה א ל קים, ו א ת-ת ו ר ת יו ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 11

If Moses is merely administering small claims court, we might expect him to say: The people come to me to recover their damages or The people come to make sure that their neighbor s tent doesn t encroach upon their front yard. But that s decidedly not what he says. He says that the people are coming to him: Exodus 18:15 ל ד ר ש א ל קים to seek God Moses insists that what he s doing is not just a menial administrative task. Yes, the people are having disputes and they re coming to him to resolve them. But what are they seeking? It s not a mere legal resolution. They re seeking God. They want to know what God thinks of their disputes, how God will settle them. They re coming because they want to understand their Creator - and one of the main ways that they can access Him is through His laws. Think about it: how do people bring God into their lives? People are mundane beings; God is so transcendent and spiritual. Learning about and following God s law is one of the ways that we bridge that gap. So whenever the people had a dispute, they actually got excited - because they realized: This is a chance for us to understand God, for us to bring God into our lives! That s why they were getting in line to talk to Moses. PONDER THIS That s all very interesting - but it still feels totally unrelated to our fundamental question. As we ve been asking all along: Where s the marriage? There s something truly romantic about this notion of the people seeking God. It s hardly overt in the text, but it s not a stretch to use the metaphor of a marriage here. This language of ל ד ר ש (lidrosh), to seek, really does sound like the people are seeking a personal, intimate connection with God. God sees them seeking, and He comes to meet them. He offers them His law. As the people hear and accept the law, they are connecting to God in a deep, loving and committed way. It really is like a marriage, with God as the groom, the people as the bride, and the law as the ring. And Moses is sitting there all day long, conveying these judgments, facilitating the deepest connection imaginable: the personal connection between God and man. He s making marriages, one by one. That s why this account of Moses judging the people -- it comes in the narrative exactly where we expected to find a marriage. This is the parallel event which corresponds to Moses marriage to Tziporah. It s the marriage of the savior and the saved. ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 12

Wait A Second That s all very beautiful but -- hold on a second! I thought we said that the revelation at Mount Sinai was the wedding. But now we ve said that the wedding took place earlier, at the small claims court. What s going on? Were there two weddings? One when Moses judged the people in chapter 18, and a second wedding at the giving of the Torah in chapter 19? There s just one wedding - and they re the same. Where is Moses standing when he judges the people? At the foot of Mount Sinai. And what s the very next thing which happens in the Torah? Chapter 19: Moses ascends the mountain to receive the Torah and the thunder and lightning begins. What is Moses doing when he judges the people? He s acting as the lawgiver, teaching God s law to the people - which is what revelation is all about. It s one long story, one long wedding. It begins with Moses judging the people, and it ends with God giving His Torah to the people on Mount Sinai, amidst the thunder and lightning. The whole story focuses on the same core theme: God giving His Law to the people, the groom giving His bride the ring. That s why the story of the courts immediately precedes the revelation account - and that s why it comes right after Yitro s feast. This is indeed a wedding, in which the people seek to draw closer to God, their beloved, through His laws. And we can follow their example, seeking knowledge of our Creator through his laws - renewing our vows for eternity. ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 13

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Source Sheet 1. Yitro 1 Exodus 2:16 21 16 Now the chief of Midian had seven daughters, and they came and drew water, and they filled the troughs to water their father s flocks. 17 But the shepherds came and drove them away; so Moses arose and rescued them and watered their flocks. 18 They came to their father Reuel, and he said, Why have you come so quickly today? 19 They replied, An Egyptian man saved us from the hand of the shepherds, and he also drew water for us and watered the flocks. 20 He said to his daughters, So where is he? Why have you left the man? Invite him, and let him eat bread. 21 Moses consented to stay with the man, and he gave his daughter Zipporah to Moses. שמות ב:טז כא טז ו ל כ ה ן מ ד י ן, ש ב ע ב נו ת; ו ת ב אנ ה ו ת ד ל נ ה, ו ת מ ל אנ ה א ת- ה ר ה ט ים, ל ה ש קו ת, צ אן א ב יה ן. יז ו י ב או ה ר ע ים, ו י ג ר ש ו ם; ו י ק ם מ ש ה ו י ו ש ע ן, ו י ש ק א ת-צ אנ ם. יח ו ת ב אנ ה, א ל-ר עו א ל א ב יה ן; ו י אמ ר, מ ד ו ע מ ה ר ת ן ב א ה י ו ם. יט ו ת אמ ר ן --א יש מ צ ר י, ה צ יל נו מ י ד ה ר ע ים; ו ג ם-ד ל ה ד ל ה ל נו, ו י ש ק א ת-ה צ אן. כו י אמ ר א ל- ב נ ת יו, ו א י ו ; ל מ ה ז ה ע ז ב ת ן א ת-ה א יש, ק ר א ן לו ו י אכ ל ל ח ם. כא ו י ו א ל מ ש ה, ל ש ב ת א ת-ה א יש ; ו י ת ן א ת-צ פ ר ה ב ת ו, ל מ ש ה 2. Exodus 18:1-16 1 Now Moses father in law, Jethro, the chief of Midian, heard all that God had done for Moses and for Israel, His people that the Lord had taken Israel out of Egypt... 2 So Moses father in law, Jethro, took Zipporah, Moses wife, after she had been sent away, 3 and her two sons, one of whom was named Gershom, because he [Moses] said, I was a stranger in a foreign land, 4 and one who was named Eliezer, because [Moses said,] The God of my father came to my aid and rescued me from Pharaoh s sword. 5 And Jethro, Moses father in law, came -- with [Moses ] sons and his wife -- to Moses, to the desert where he was encamped, to the mountain of God. 6 And he said to Moses, I, Jethro, your father in law, am coming to you, and [so is] your wife and her two sons with her. 7 So Moses went out toward Jethro, prostrated himself and kissed him, and they greeted one another, and they entered the tent. 8 Moses told his father in law [about] all that the Lord had done to Pharaoh and to the Egyptians on account of Israel, [and about] all the hardships that had befallen them on the way, and [that] the Lord had saved them. 9 Jethro was happy about all the good that the Lord had done for Israel, that He had rescued them from the hands of the Egyptians. 10 [Thereupon,] Jethro said, Blessed is the Lord, Who has rescued you from the hands of the Egyptians and from the hand of Pharaoh, שמות יח:א טז א ו י ש מ ע י ת רו כ ה ן מ ד י ן, ח ת ן מ ש ה, א ת כ ל-א ש ר ע ש ה א ל קים ל מ ש ה, ו ל י ש ר א ל ע מ ו : כ י-הו צ יא י קו ה א ת-י ש ר א ל, מ מ צ ר י ם. ב ו י ק ח, י ת רו ח ת ן מ ש ה, א ת-צ פ ר ה, א ש ת מ ש ה--א ח ר, ש ל ו ח יה. ג ו א ת, ש נ י ב נ יה : א ש ר ש ם ה א ח ד, ג ר ש ם--כ י א מ ר, ג ר ה י ית י ב א ר ץ נ כ ר י ה. ד ו ש ם ה א ח ד, א ל יע ז ר--כ י-א ל ה י א ב י ב ע ז ר י, ו י צ ל נ י מ ח ר ב פ ר ע ה. ה ו י ב א י ת רו ח ת ן מ ש ה, ו ב נ יו ו א ש ת ו --א ל-מ ש ה: א ל- ה מ ד ב ר, א ש ר-הו א ח נ ה ש ם--ה ר ה א ל קים. ו ו י אמ ר, א ל-מ ש ה, א נ י ח ת נ ך י ת רו, ב א א ל יך ; ו א ש ת ך --ו ש נ י ב נ יה, ע מ ה. ז ו י צ א מ ש ה ל ק ר את ח ת נו, ו י ש ת חו ו י ש ק-לו, ו י ש א לו א יש -ל ר ע הו, ל ש לו ם; ו י ב או, ה א ה ל ה. ח ו י ס פ ר מ ש ה, ל ח ת נו, א ת כ ל-א ש ר ע ש ה י קו ה ל פ ר ע ה ו ל מ צ ר י ם, ע ל או ד ת י ש ר א ל: א ת כ ל-ה ת ל א ה א ש ר מ צ א ת ם ב ד ר ך, ו י צ ל ם י קו ה. ט ו י ח ד י ת רו --ע ל כ ל-ה ט ו ב ה, א ש ר- ע ש ה י קו ה ל י ש ר א ל: א ש ר ה צ ילו, מ י ד מ צ ר י ם. י ו י א מ ר, י ת ר ו, ב רו ך י קו ה, א ש ר ה צ יל א ת כ ם מ י ד מ צ ר י ם ו מ י ד פ ר ע ה: א ש ר ה צ יל א ת-ה ע ם, מ ת ח ת י ד-מ צ ר י ם. יא ע ת ה י ד ע ת י, כ י-ג דו ל י קו ה מ כ ל-ה א ל ה ים: כ י ב ד ב ר, א ש ר ז דו ע ל יה ם. יב ו י ק ח י ת רו ח ת ן מ ש ה, ע ל ה ו ז ב ח ים--ל אל קים; ו י ב א א ה ר ן ו כ ל ז ק נ י י ש ר א ל, ל א כ ל- ל ח ם ע ם-ח ת ן מ ש ה--ל פ נ י ה א ל קים. יג ו י ה י, מ מ ח ר ת, ו י ש ב מ ש ה, ל ש פ ט א ת-ה ע ם; ו י ע מ ד ה ע ם ע ל-מ ש ה, מ ן-ה ב ק ר ע ד-ה ע ר ב. יד ו י ר א ח ת ן מ ש ה, א ת כ ל-א ש ר-הו א ע ש ה ל ע ם; ו י אמ ר, מ ה-ה ד ב ר ה ז ה א ש ר א ת ה ע ש ה ל ע ם--מ ד ו ע א ת ה יו ש ב ל ב ד ך, ו כ ל-ה ע ם נ צ ב ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 15

Who has rescued the people from beneath the hand of the Egyptians. 11 Now I know that the Lord is greater than all the deities, for with the thing that they plotted, [He came] upon them. 12 Then Moses father in law, Jethro, sacrificed burnt offering[s] and [peace] offerings to God, and Aaron and all the elders of Israel came to dine with Moses father in law before God. 13 It came about on the next day that Moses sat down to judge the people, and the people stood before Moses from the morning until the evening. 14 When Moses father in law saw what he was doing to the people, he said, What is this thing that you are doing to the people? Why do you sit by yourself, while all the people stand before you from morning till evening? 15 Moses said to his father in law, For the people come to me to seek God. 16 If any of them has a case, he comes to me, and I judge between a man and his neighbor, and I make known the statutes of God and His teachings. ע ל יך מ ן-ב ק ר ע ד-ע ר ב. טו ו י אמ ר מ ש ה, ל ח ת נו : כ י-י ב א א ל י ה ע ם, ל ד ר ש א ל קים. טז כ י-י ה י ה ל ה ם ד ב ר, ב א א ל י, ו ש פ ט ת י, ב ין א יש ו ב ין ר ע הו ; ו הו ד ע ת י א ת-ח ק י ה א ל קים, ו א ת-ת ו ר ת יו 3. The Parting of the Sea Exodus 14:21 21 And Moses stretched out his hand over the sea, and the Lord led the sea with the strong east wind all night, and He made the sea into dry land and the waters split. שמות יד:כא כא ו י ט מש ה א ת י דו ע ל ה י ם ו י ו ל ך י קו ה א ת ה י ם ב רו ח ק ד ים ע ז ה כ ל ה ל י ל ה ו י ש ם א ת ה י ם ל ח ר ב ה ו י ב ק עו ה מ י ם 4. Israel Thirsts in the Desert Exodus 15:22 25 22 Moses led Israel away from the Red Sea, and they went out into the desert of Shur; they walked for three days in the desert but did not find water. 23 They came to Marah, but they could not drink water from Marah because it was bitter; therefore, it was named Marah. 24 The people complained against Moses, saying, What shall we drink? 25 So he cried out to the Lord, and the Lord instructed him concerning a piece of wood, which he cast into the water, and the water became sweet. There He gave them a statute and an ordinance, and there He tested them. שמות טו:כב כה כב ו י ס ע מ ש ה א ת-י ש ר א ל מ י ם-סו ף, ו י צ או א ל-מ ד ב ר-ש ו ר; ו י ל כו ש ל ש ת-י מ ים ב מ ד ב ר, ו ל א-מ צ או מ י ם. כג ו י ב או מ ר ת ה--ו ל א י כ לו ל ש ת ת מ י ם מ מ ר ה, כ י מ ר ים ה ם; ע ל-כ ן ק ר א-ש מ ה, מ ר ה. כד ו י ל נו ה ע ם ע ל-מ ש ה ל אמ ר, מ ה-נ ש ת ה. כה ו י צ ע ק א ל-י קו ה, ו י ו ר הו י קו ה ע ץ, ו י ש ל ך א ל-ה מ י ם, ו י מ ת קו ה מ י ם; ש ם ש ם לו ח ק ו מ ש פ ט, ו ש ם נ ס הו ALEPH BETA STUDY GUIDE ON PARSHAT YITRO- PAGE 16