SAINT MARGARET MARY CATHOLIC PARISH & SCHOOL www.stmmp.org 414-461-6073 3970 North 92nd Street Milwaukee, WI 53222 PASTORAL STAFF Administrator: Fr. Patrick Nelson, SDS ext. 182 Email: frpatn@stmmp.org cell #: 414-581-2397 Deacon: Frank Pemper: 262-385-5696 Email: deaconfrankpe@yahoo.com Director of Faith Formation: Dave Liccione ext. 106 Email: dliccione@stmmp.org Director of Music: Neal Bardele cell: 414-530-2508 Email: nealb@ameritech.net Director of Administrative Services: Vicki Harder ext. 104 Email: vharder@stmmp.org Director of Facilities: Chris Matchett ext. 126 Email: cmatchett@stmmp.org Administrative Assistant: Mary Blinkhorn ext. 100 Email: mblinkhorn@stmmp.org Weekday Masses: Monday- Friday: 8:15am Wednesday:10am (only during the school year) & 7:00pm Weekend Masses Saturday: 5:00pm Sunday: 9 & 11am SCHOOL/COMMUNITY OUTREACH WWW.STMMP.ORG CLICK ON SCHOOL TAB 3950 N. 92nd Street 53222 Phone: 463-8760 Fax: 463-2373 Principal: Mrs. Nilda Cordova... 108 Email: ncordova@stmms.org Older Adult Program Northwest Interfaith Office: 414-466-8858 Ms. Niedra North St. Vincent de Paul intake office: 414-462-7837 PASTORAL COUNCIL OFFICERS Chairperson: Anne McKiernan 414-232-7260 Vice-Chairperson: Colleen Krentz..414-430-5553 Secretary: Krystal Burke.. Trustee-Treasurer: Nancy Bonesho Trustee Secretary: Cheryl Vosswinkel SACRAMENTS BAPTISM: Please contact the parish center to arrange. A class with the Deacon is required prior to baptism. MARRIAGE: Preparation sessions with a pastoral staff member begin no later than six months prior to the wedding date. MINISTRY TO THE SICK: The Sacrament of Healing & Strength is for persons who are seriously or chronically ill, or facing major surgery. Please ask Father after Mass if you are interested. RCIA: If you are interested in converting to Catholicism and the RCIA process, contact Faith Formation Director Dave Liccione at 414-573-9292 ordliccione@stmmp.org RECONCILIATION: Wed. 12-1pm & 6-7pm & Sat.: 4 4:45pm ADORATION CHAPEL: Open from 6am-12am. Please call the parish center for the key pad code. St. Margaret Mary Parish is committed to developing and sustaining an intimate relationship with Jesus Christ and proclaiming the reign of God. October 14, 2018 Twenty Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time
Welcome to St. Margaret Mary Parish 2 From A Grateful Heart They were exceedingly astonished and said among themselves, "Then who can be saved?" Jesus looked at them and said, "For human beings it is impossible, but not for God. All things are possible for God. (Mark 10:26-27). You will do well if you keep my Commands! This week we hear St. Paul repeat the message in our reading from Matthews Gospel where Jesus commands his disciples to forgive and reconcile to the orthodoxy (truths) of the whole church. Sometimes this message of Jesus on binding and loosing is very misunderstood to be the subject of settling personal disputes. No Jesus is talking our discipleship and the proper way to live His teachings. Since, Jesus teaches and commands obedience to his good news, from those who wish to follow him, they are bound to loosed from obedience to the Word of God upon having hear the Word! See: (Matt. 16:19 and Matt. 18:18) Jesus is warning against ignoring the Word of God or applying personal interpretation to the Word of God. Discipleship requires obedience to the orthodox (true) message delivered from Jesus lips. (John 14:21) REMEMBER: (Matt. 16:18) Jesus is establishing his CHURCH out of the 12 Apostles. (the newly restored 12 tribes of Israel, Matt. 19:28) So, Jesus gies them responsibility to teach, guide the Truth of God as He gives it to them and to guard those teachings from error or heresy. All that said the bottom line is the LAW. the Law of Love! However, as Jesus insists, forgiveness must happen and those who are taught error need correction. All this needs to precede Love of Neighbor. For, if one cannot forgive, neither can they love out of concern for others. Love then builds a Church, a community of love, a people of God. All this building needs direction, instruction and protection from errors to the truth. Jesus is building a community of love. God is Love. We are called to live in community; in God; in Love of one another. (continued next column) (continued from previous column) So, Jesus insists that If you love me you will keep my commands The Church is God s community of love. We come together to help each other in the mission of love, as Jesus gave us the twelve Apostles who are our Bishops today. The lesson we need to take away from the readings today is how Jesus has done the work of Salvation for us. We can only attain that salvation by participating in what he has done. Discipleship now tells us to trust in Jesus, His Message and the vehicle established as the means of our eternal life = The Church with the sacraments and the Bishops to help us along the way of Salvation. As Aaron Rogers might say: Salvation, Let s get after it May the Heart of The Savior Bless you! Fr. Patrick Nelson, SDS Struggles of Adult Children and Aging Parents We all want the best for our parents. But in the process of trying to do what is best for them, adult children often need to honestly assess their own feelings. Over the years I have identified two common situations in which adult children often find themselves. How they handle their own feelings and fears will impact how they can be of help to their parents. Just as Mom and Dad may be struggling to consider moving from the family home, their children can find it equally upsetting. The house can represent so many memories and significant moments for a family. Families need to validate these feelings before a conversation about an actual move can go forward. For others, the primary difficulty is feeling uncomfortable with changing roles. We really do not become the parents of our parents; we will always be their children. Yet, it may feel that our parents are now looking to us for the answers. Most children feel sympathetic that their parents are undergoing a transition in life that can be emotional and challenging. If they are honest with themselves, they are in transition as well. We want our parents to remain the healthy, vigorous and in-charge person we ve always known. Unfortunately that s not always possible. Recently in one of my talks, after hearing several audience members share stories of parents reluctance to move and the difficulty they were having getting Mom or Dad to accept the inevitable, a woman raised her hand and said, I have to admit that I m having as much difficulty with this transition as my mother is. I m really struggling with the fact that I have to put my mother in a place that she may not want to go. I feel like a horrible person and a bad child. She wasn t alone in her thoughts. At any given moment we can become that 8-year-old child who is trying to please their parent and gain their praise. But a moment later, in that same conversation, we may have to fill the role of advisor out of necessity. Honoring our parents means doing the right thing by them. It s not easy, but I know you can do it. Adele Lund Director Community & Business Relations Laureate Group 414-659-2343 www.laureategroup.com
Milwaukee, Wisconsin 3 October 14, 2018 Sunday: Wis 7:7-11/Ps 90:12-13, 14-15, 16-17 [14]/Heb 4:12-13/ Mk 10:17-30 or 10:17-27 Monday: Gal 4:22-24, 26-27, 31--5:1/ Ps 113:1b-2, 3-4, 5a and 6-7 [cf. 2]/Lk 11:29-32 Tuesday: Gal 5:1-6/Ps 119:41, 43, 44, 45, 47, 48 [41a]/Lk 11:37-41 Wednesday: Gal 5:18-25/Ps 1:1-2, 3, 4 and 6 [cf. Jn 8:12]/Lk 11:42-46 Thursday: 2 Tm 4:10-17b/Ps 145:10-11, 12-13, 17-18 [12]/Lk 10:1-9 Friday: Eph 1:11-14/Ps 33:1-2, 4-5, 12-13 [12]/Lk 12:1-7 Saturday: Eph 1:15-23/Ps 8:2-3ab, 4-5, 6-7 [7]/Lk 12:8-12 Next Sunday: Is 53:10-11/Ps 33:4-5, 18-19, 20, 22 [22]/Heb 4:14-16/ Mk 10:35-45 or 10:42-45 Monday, October 15 8:15 am: The parishioners of St. Margaret Mary Tuesday, October 16 8:15am: Genevieve Nycz + Wednesday, October 17 8:15am: Stella Burke Salvatorian Intention + 10:00 am: For our school 7pm: Jill Brent Salvatorian Intention + Thursday, October 18 8:15am: Mary Ann Jusiel + Friday, October 19 8:15am: George Saidler + Saturday, October 20 5:00pm: Norman Singer + Sunday, October 21 9:00am: Sylvia Pahule + 11:00am: Gertrude Brown Salvatorian Intention + DEVOTIONS MONDAY-FRIDAY: Rosary 7:30AM MONDAY -FRIDAY: Rosary with Adoration 3:00PM TUESDAY - Mother of Perpetual Help Devotions After 8:15 AM Mass FRIDAY - Litany of the Sacred Heart after 8:15AM Mass Way of the Cross with Adoration 3:00PM Please save the date! Church cleaning is scheduled for Saturday, November 17th from 8 to 12. Please consider helping. Please, 13 year old and up. Contact Anne McKiernan at 414-232-7260 for questions. To Cantor is to Sing, To Sing is to Pray Twice If you have some vocal ability and enjoy singing at Mass, please consider joining St. Margaret Mary's music ministry as a cantor. If you're interested in becoming a cantor, email Neal Bardele (nealb@ameritech.net) or contact the parish office. Our Parish Family Needs You! Servers ages: boys and girls 4 th grade and up, high school & adult. Call Ashley Mellenthein at 414-477-9546 or Fr. Pat. Sacristans, ushers, greeters, lectors, and Eucharistic ministers. Call the parish center or Fr. Pat. Sunday collection counters: those who assist with gathering up the weekend collections, counting the money, and safely depositing same at the bank. Archdiocesan and insurance regulations require that this process be completed by parish volunteers. The goal is rotating teams, so that you would not be on duty more than once every two weeks, usually Monday mornings at 8am. Pastoral Council members: we need at least 2 more. Your duty is to help discern, plan and carry out our parish goals for now and into the future. Would you like to designate your donation to a specific item that our parish community is in need of? One of the current items is purchase of the licensing rights needed to project music hymns on the screens during mass along with repairs. This estimated cost is $2000. Please send your donation marked Screens in the Church to the parish office. Thank you! Women Are Invited to Pray for Vocations Join the women of de Chantal for Eucharistic Adoration and spiritual formation at Saint Francis de Sales Seminary. We are women who are passionate about supporting vocations, families, and our own spirituality. We gather three times per year in the peace of the Seminary for adoration, formation and benediction, followed by a light reception. Our next gatherings will be led by the Seminary s new director of spiritual formation, Fr. Rob Kroll, S.J. Tuesday, November 6 at 9 a.m. and 7 p.m. Please choose whichever time works best for you. Bring a friend! Gatherings are held at Saint Francis de Sales Seminary 3257 South Lake Drive, Saint Francis RSVP to newheartnewspirit@sfs.edu or (414)747-6463.
Milwaukee, Wisconsin 4 20/21: Hospitality after all Masses: St. Margaret Mary Feast Day celebration Second collection for St. Vincent de Paul Conference at our parish 29: Blood Drive in Sampon Hall Save a life! 31: Mass of anticipation: 7pm All Saints Day Holy day of Obligation Nov. 1: All Saints Day Holy Day of Obligation This weekend is the Combined Collections: Church in Mission This appeal offers us a wonderful opportunity to help people in need through five important efforts. Please give prayerful consideration to supporting these causes: The Catholic Relief Services Collection benefiting Catholic Relief Services, The Catholic Legal Immigration Network, Inc., Migration and Refugee Services, the Holy Father s Relief Fund, and the USCCB s Department for Justice, Peace and Human Development. Catholic Home Missions Appeal supporting missions in Appalachia and the Deep South, the Southwest, the mountain west, and dioceses of the Caribbean and the Pacific. Collection for the Works of the Holy Father: Peter s Pence assisting Pope Francis in maintaining the administration of 700 million Catholics and special needs in Third World countries. World Mission Sunday (Propagation of the Faith) supporting and sending missionaries and seeking world peace with justice. The Church in Central and Eastern Europe funds the restoration and renewal of the Church in Europe. After praying and reflecting on these vital Catholic efforts, please give generously. Help The Homeless On Saturday, October 20, 10AM-2PM- MacCanon Brown Homeless Sanctuary 24 th & Center Would you like to put your faith into action and do as St. James tells us, to be doers of the word and not just hearers of the word? Then join members of both Blessed Savior and St. Margaret Mary Parishes as they volunteer time and help the members of the Sister MacCanon Brown Homeless Sanctuary. Blessed Mother Video Series At Blessed Savior 6PM-7:15PM Wed. October 24 Please join Sr. Judene Studer, and parishioners from both Blessed Savior and St. Margaret Mary parishes, for the next installment of the Blessed Mother video series and discussion at Blessed Savior Church proper on 85 th & Villard. An Evening With Catholic Music Composer Dan Schutte- Saturday, December 8, 5PM Mass, Dinner, & Concert To Follow Join us at St. Margaret Mary Church on Saturday, December 8 for an evening with famous Catholic song composer, singer, and former Milwaukeean Dan Schutte. Dan will perform his music, including Here I Am Lord, Glory and Praise To Our God, You Are Near, and City of God, at the 5PM Mass with members from both St. Margaret Mary and Blessed Savior Parishes. We will have a light supper in Sampon Hall after Mass until 7PM and then An Evening of Music and Reflection With Dan Schutte will take place in the St. Margaret Mary Church from 7:15PM-8:45PM. No tickets or reservations needed. Free will offerings can be made at the door. For information, contact Dave Liccione at 414-573- 9292/dliccione@stmmp.org You may drop your offering in the collection basket or mail or envelope directly to the Archdiocese. Box Tops - this fundraiser continues Labels for Education - this fundraiser has ended. We can no longer submit labels. Sentry receipts - the receipt should have the Funds for Friends sticker put on the receipt. Just ask the cashier. Again, we thank you for your support. St. Margaret Mary Grade School
5 NEW: ANYONE DONATING BLOOD WILL ALSO RECEIVE A T-SHIRT WITH: STARVE A VAMPIRE, DONATE BLOOD ON THE FRONT.