Saint Joseph Roman Catholic Church Oradell - New Milford, NJ October 23, 2011 Our Parish Mission Statement As a family of faith, Saint Joseph Parish welcomes everyone to encounter Jesus Christ through Word, Worship, Community, and Service. Guided by the Holy Spirit, we are changed for the better and sent forth as disciples of Christ to continue his work in the world. Schedule Mass Schedule: Saturday 5pm, Sunday 7:30am, 9am, 10:30am, 12 Noon Weekdays: 7am, 8:30am, Saturday 8:30am Holy Days: As announced in the bulletin Baptism: Contact the Parish Office before the fifth month of pregnancy Sick / Homebound / Hospital Ministry: Call the Parish Office Marriage: Contact the Parish Office at least one year in advance. Reconciliation / Confessions Saturday, 4 pm - 5 pm Christian Initiation of Adults Contact the Religious Ed. Office Miraculous Medal Novena: Monday, 7 pm Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament: First Wednesday of the Month, 9am - 5:30pm Parish Registration: Contact the Parish Office Pastoral Staff Rev. Thomas B. Iwanowski, Pastor Rev. Raul Ivan Silva, Parochial Vicar Rev. Roy Regaspi, Parochial Vicar Rev. George M. Reilly, Pastor Emeritus Mr. Heath Winborn, Director of Operations Mrs. Colette Vail, Principal Mrs. Angela Gussoni, Vice Principal Mr. Anthony Armando, Coordinator of Religious Education and Youth Minister Mrs. Arlene Kennedy, Sacramental Coordinator Mr. Monroe Quinn, Director of Music Phone Fax Email Website Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 201-261-0369 office@sjcnj.org sjcnj.org St. Joseph School 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 201-261-0830 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org Religious Education 300 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-1144 201-261-1163 religioused@sjcnj.org sjcnj.org Parish Office Hours: Weekdays 9 am - 4 pm or by appointment Religious Ed. Hours: Mon., Tues., Wed., & Thurs. 9 am - 5pm
ST. JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10.30 am 10:30 am MC 12 noon Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday 5:00 pm Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10.30 am 10:30 am MC 12 noon October 23 2011 Julie Masterson Catherine Murphy Felice Bartolomeo Patrick Gallo Dorothy B. Koster October 24 2011 Mary Ann Plinio Birthday Remembrance John Mulvaney October 25 2011 William Joseph Novotny Miguel Estrada October 26 2011 Catherine Manino Irene Bolter October 27 2011 Regina Fletcher Leonarda L. Ventura October 28 2011 Teresa Valleta Gerard Mabli October 29 2011 Fuzaia and Faiza Hanna People of the Parish October 30 2011 William O Connor Rose McLaughlin Birthday Remembrance Ann McPartland Hank Jabel Peter Kuchar BREAD AND WINE INTENTIONS The Bread for the week of October 23, 2011 is given In Loving Memory of Eleanor Sauer, donated and requested by Violet and Clifford Guion. The Wine for the week of October 23, 2011 is given In Loving Memory of Eleanor Sauer, donated and requested by Diane and Mitch Sobel. PRAYING FOR THE DECEASED Beginning November 2, All Souls Day, we will have a series of Masses for our beloved deceased. To have your deceased relatives and friends included, please return the special envelope included in your monthly mailing. PRAYER REQUESTS Let us remember those who are ill: Madaline Cummings. Let us remember the those who recently died: Fredrick Petrolia Let us remember those serving in the military: May they be protected and return home unharmed. GIVING THOUGHT You shall love your neighbor as yourself. That is the command that Jesus gives us in today s Gospel. (Matthew 22:34-40) Just consider the time, the effort, the attention, and the money we spend in loving and caring for ourselves. As Christians, we are challenged to give a portion of our time, our talent, and our treasure to those in need and to God s Church. In doing so, we show love for our neighbor and love for God. How much we give should have some relationship to how much we spend on ourselves. After all, the standard Jesus sets is love your neighbor as yourself. JOIN US FOR BREAKFAST TODAY, SUNDAY, OCTOBER 23, 8:30 AM TO 1:30 PM LOWER SCHOOL GYM Join us after Mass today for the annual all you can eat breakfast sponsored by New Hope for Children, a non-profit organization helping children in need. This is the first time the breakfast is being held in the lower school gym. Food will be served from until 1:30 pm when the Tricky Tray winners and winners of the 50/50 raffle will be announced. Admission for the full buffet breakfast of pancakes, eggs, bacon, sausage, and our famous Social Concerns Crumb Cake or dessert, is still only $6 for adults and just $3 for children under age 7. This event sends a message of love and caring to the orphans of Ukraine. Many immediate needs of the children are met through your participation in this annual event. REPORTING ABUSE The Archdiocese takes very seriously any allegations of sexual misconduct by members of the clergy, religious, and lay staff of the Archdiocese. We encourage anyone with knowledge of an act of sexual misconduct to inform us immediately so that we may take appropriate action to protect others and provide support to victims of sexual abuse. Individuals who wish to report an allegation of sexual misconduct may do so by calling the Archdiocesan Office of Child and Youth Protection at (201-407-3256). 2
30 SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME OCTOBER 23, 2011 SPECIAL SERIES ON THE MASS This is the fourth of a series of articles designed to help us grow in our appreciation of the Mass, and to help us prepare for the coming changes in the liturgy. Previous articles may be found on our parish website (sjcnj.org) under bulletins. PART FOUR: PRESENTATION OF THE GIFTS Some people say that taxes are too high. Others say that taxes are too low. Some people say that we should increase taxes on millionaires. Others that we should scrap the present tax code and replace it with a flat tax or consumption tax. Everyone has an opinion when it comes to taxes. In last Sunday s Gospel, the Pharisees, who opposed cooperating with the hated Romans, and the Herodians, who were much more willing to go along to get ahead, ask Jesus, "Teacher, we know that you are a truthful man...tell us, then, what is your opinion: Is it lawful to pay the census tax to Caesar or not?" Placed in a situation where any answer he gave would have been considered the wrong answer by one group or the other, Jesus simply says, "Repay to Caesar what belongs to Caesar, and to God what belongs to God." People have interpreted those words of Jesus to mean that Christians have an obligation to pay taxes to fund the government. According to the present tax code, they are required to render to "Caesar" anywhere from 10% to 39.6% of their taxable income. When it comes to the words of Jesus about repaying God, some Christians believe that followers of Christ are required to tithe, to give God 10% of their income. Other Christians lower that number to 5%. And according to national statistics, Catholics bring it down even more. As a group, we Catholics give only about 1%. Yet if you look at what Jesus says in the Gospels, he gives no percentage. Instead Jesus simply says "Repay...to God what belongs to God." Such repaying to God begins with us considering what belongs to God and what belongs to us. When we do, we realize that all our possessions, including life itself, are blessings from God. They are given to us only for a time. Our lease on those goods ends when we die. While we have those blessings we are to use them to make a positive difference in our world and we are to offer them to God as a way of acknowledging they are truly his. The government requires us to pay a certain percentage in taxes. Pay that and the rest of our money is ours to use for whatever we want,. Jesus tells us that God sets no tax rate. God simply tells us to give him what is his. We do that repaying to God in a particular way at Mass during the Presentation of the Gifts, which begins with 3 the collection and concludes with the Prayer Over the Offerings. As the collection basket comes before us at Mass, you and I are given the opportunity to do what Jesus speaks about in the Gospel, namely, to repay to God what God has given to us. We are challenged to be generous, self-sacrificing, and unselfish. We are challenged be good stewards who support the Church that is ours by Baptism. We are challenged to recognize that all we possess is a gift from God. Our response to the collection, also makes us aware that money can easily control us. Most of us find it hard to part with our money. If that were not the case, there would not be so many single dollars bills in the collection baskets of our churches. It is surprising how often Jesus spoke of money in the Gospels. For example, Jesus told the parable of the rich man and Lazarus. Jesus warned that the rich would only enter the Kingdom of God with the greatest of difficulty. Jesus praised the poor widow who gave all she had to the temple. Jesus spoke out about gaining the whole world, and losing ourselves in the process. And Jesus spoke of giving to God what belongs to God. Jesus knew that money can take over the human heart and crowd out the place that belongs to God. Our response in the collection is a good indicator of the control that money, that material possessions, can have over us. In addition to our monetary gifts, bread and wine are also brought forward to the altar during this part of the Mass. That bread and wine represent our selfoffering to God. As they are brought forward we might consider what acts of kindness, love, forgiveness, and self-sacrifice, what gifts of time and talent from the past week, could be represented by that bread and wine. As these gifts are placed on the altar, the priest acknowledges that the gifts we offer come from God as he prays Blessed are you Lord God of all creation, through your goodness we have this bread / this wine to offer. The priest might equally pray that same prayer over our financial offerings. "Blessed are you, Lord God, of all creation, through your goodness, we have this money to offer, which human hands have earned through the talents and opportunities you have given us. Blessed are you Lord God of all creation. In this day, everyone has an opinion on taxes, and an opinion on giving to the Church. And so does Jesus. "Repay to Caesar what belongs to Caesar, and to God what belongs to God." That s the Lord's opinion! 2011 Rev. Thomas B. Iwanowski
ST. JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ RECONCILIATION SERVICE FOR GRADE 4, OCTOBER 24 BAPTISMS AT OUR PARISH The following children were baptized during our 12 Noon Mass last Sunday, October 16. Please pray for these new members of our Church and of our Parish Family. This Monday, October 24, there will be a special Reconciliation Service for Students in Grade 4 of the Religious Ed Program. The service will begin at 4 pm in the Upper Church. Please make every effort to attend. Parents/Guardians are welcomed and encouraged to attend. TARGET NEWS TARGET, our high school youth program for those in grades 9 through 12, sponsors a Hang Out Night that takes place each Thursday from 7 to 9 pm in the TARGET Room. CHILDCARE ON SUNDAY DURING MASS The Good News for Little Ones program, for children 6 months through 4 years of age, provides a safe and comfortable environment for children while their parents attend our 9 am or 10:30 am Sunday Mass. Good News for Little Ones takes place in the greenhouse classroom located in the Saint Joseph Lower School on Elm Street. Caitlyn Alexandra Meehan, daughter of Bill & Andrea THINKING ABOUT CHRISTMAS BEFORE HALLOWEEN? It may seem too early to be thinking about Christmas even before Halloween has arrived. Yet we need to begin planning for our parish s Giving Tree Project. It is a parish tradition to share the blessings and joys of Christmas with those in need through our Giving Tree Project. In past years, our parish has helped families from Catholic Charities, families from the Hudson County area through Our Lady of Fatima Parish, in North Bergen; and residents at Covenant House and the Bergen Regional Medical Center. We are living in a time of hardship. The people of St. Joseph Parish have always shown what it means to live the teachings of Jesus and have expressed the true meaning of Christmas through The Giving Tree. The Giving Tree Project takes preparation before the trees with the tags are displayed in the church. To run this effort smoothly, it takes one person to oversee the effort and be in contact with the agencies, and other volunteers to handle preparing the gift tags; placing the tags on the trees and replenishing them; gathering the gifts from the church to a collection area; and preparing them for pick up by the various agencies. If you are interested in helping with The Giving Tree Project, contact our parish secretary, Anne Annunziato, at the rectory (201-261-0148) or (office@sjcnj.org). Meghan Jane Kavanagh, daughter of Tim & Gina Matteo Antonio Manente, son of Mauro & Melissa Note: Those wishing to have their children baptized at our parish, should ideally contact the parish office no later than their fifth month of pregnancy. BE SURE TO VISIT OUR WEBSITES sjcnj.org 4 sjsusa.org
30 SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME OCTOBER 23, 2011 HARVEST FESTIVAL LITURGICAL SCHEDULE for the weekend of October 29 & 30 Ministers of Communion Mass Servers A FUNDRAISER FOR RESURRECTION SCHOOL The Tenth Annual Harvest Festival fundraiser for Resurrection School in Jersey City will be held Thursday, November 17, at 6 pm at the Casino in the Park located in Lincoln Park, Jersey City, NJ. This inner city school is sponsored by Resurrection Parish, our sister parish in Jersey City. During the dinner, a VISION OF PEACE AWARD will be presented to Phil DeRosa, the Chairperson of our Parish Pastoral Council. Phil will be accepting this award on behalf of the Council and our entire parish. Tickets to the event are $75 per person; a table of 10 is $700. For complete information and to make reservation for this dinner contact Joan Murray (201-265-5823) or (joanfmurray@verizon.net) by November 8. Checks for the dinner may be sent to Harvest Festival. 770 Lotus Ave., Oradell, NJ 07649 Lectors 5:00pm UPPER Audrey Schrader Donna Wallum Mary Bednarcik Vincent DeConzo Irene Galvan Lilibeth Andrada Gerald Andrada Laura Villena Maggie McKee Tanya Mendes Michael Krey 7:30am UPPER Mark Alleman Ken Doyle Don Murray Betty Kern 9:00am UPPER Dolores Doherty Dymphna O'Shea Noel O'Shea Darlene Faley John Plinio Marc Sunga Kevin Walker GianPaolo P. Katherine Norian Carol Winkler BOYS & GIRLS PEE WEE BASKETBALL SIGN-UP DATES The Saint Joseph Athletic Association is pleased to announce the Pee Wee basketball sign-up dates for the 20112012 season. The sign-ups are open to ALL boys and girls in grades 3 & 4 whose families are registered members of our parish. The fee, due at the time of sign-ups, will be $110 per player. The fee includes a uniform that each player will keep. Sample uniforms will be available at the time of sign-ups so parents can determine the proper sizing for their child s uniform. If you have any questions or concerns, please contact us by email. (athletics@sjcnj.org) 10:30am UPPER Phil DeRosa Mary McCarthy Pat Fakharzadeh Bill Morrow Doris Rivera Kurt Strobach Pedro Equia Junior Servers 10:30am MARY S CHAPEL Tom Moran Chuck Giancola Maryann Olsen Matt Ascolese Jude de los Reyes Jane Emanuel Marilyn Centrella 12:00 NOON UPPER Sally Ulrich Pat Lau Annette Ziegler Maureen Pucci Michele Wallace Ellen Kozlowsky Florence Bartus Sign-ups will take place in the lobby of the gym in the lower school. Use the Grove Street entrance. Thursday, October 27, 7 9 pm Saturday, October 29, 9 11 am Jack & Joann Verrier MINISTERS OF HOLY COMMUNION NEEDED THE CATECHESIS CONTINUES! YOU CAN STILL COME The Worship Office of the Archdiocese is sponsoring a training session for those who may be interested in serving as Special Ministers of Holy Communion. The session will take place Saturday morning, November 5, at the Archdiocesan Center in Newark. We would leave the parish at 8 am and return by 1 pm. If you have an interest in serving as a minister of Holy Communion at Sunday Mass at our parish or are interested in bringing Communion to the sick and homebound, please contact Father Roy (FatherRoy@sjcnj.org) (201-261-0148). Those who are currently serving in this ministry are also invited to attend. It is always worthwhile for those in any ministry to review the basics and deepen their appreciation of their important ministry. MONDAYS & THURSDAYS AT 8 pm Lower Church / Mary s Chapel This is an opportunity for those 13 years and older to rediscover the meaning of Baptism. It provides an itinerary of adult faith formation, and answers life's deepest questions. * Child Care Available * For information: Contact Father Raúl Silva 201-261-0148 (Ext. 14) The Neocatechumenal Way 5
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