When We Hate. It s scary sometimes how deeply we can feel anger or resentment toward someone or some situation. I m not talking about being annoyed or frustrated, something you wish were different but hey, we ll deal with it. No this goes deeper. It surprises us with how hot it gets us; our reactions can be so strong that we say or do something that has devastating effects, sometimes for years. Try this one out - - did this ever happen in your family? It did mine. I was a teenager (I m guessing 13 or 14 yrs. old). I can t even remember the issue now (some minor no to something I wanted to do); but I remember the flash of intense anger I felt and the words I spoke to my mother. I hate you! I said. I wish I had a different mother! (I m feeling the shame of those words as I type this). My mother of course, being the adult and knowing her son could be a spiteful boy, walked away from this awful moment (perhaps to cry). I look back on this incident some 50 yrs. ago and wonder how my parents didn t put me up for sale! How can anger be so strong? How does it completely overwhelm our reason and better instincts? I don t know. It just does. It may go back millennia to the fury we needed to survive in the hostile environment of the animal wilderness. What I do know is... it is NOT God s will that we act that way. Rather, Get rid of all bitterness, passion and anger, no more hateful feelings. Instead, be kind and tenderhearted to one another, and forgive one another. Ephesians 4:31. ****************** This is exactly what my mother did. And in doing this selfless act of parenting she saved her son. Years later I would recall that moment to her and how her sad but silent walking away showed how much she loved me. Church of the Most Holy Trinity 1460 Ridge Road Webster, New York 14580 (585)265-1616 Fax 265-1627 (website) www.holytrinityweb.com (email) wholytri@dor.org I tell this story because I know some families who have allowed words (thoughtlessly spoken) to become a giant chasm between parent and child or brothers or sisters. For some it has been years since family members have spoken to each other. As I say, it s frightening how one moment of heated exchange can cost a lifelong friendship or worse, a brother or sister or parent. ****************** This same toxic anger is afflicting our political conversation. Both sides are infected, Democrats and Republicans. Each sees the opposing side as not just wrong or misguided, but they are seen rather as the enemy whose heart is wicked and whose intentions are cruel. So long as we see our opponents as lacking character or moral goodness, there is little hope we can work to solve our common problems. New effort must be constantly put forth to repair or renew tattered relationships - - - no matter how many times it takes. This is hard work and requires a basic trust in our neighbor s goodness. Where do we get the will to start again with that stupid Democrat or blind Republican or foul mouthed child? It comes in knowing that, despite present appearances (!), this is a Child of God. Christ shed his blood for them and for me. So as scripture tells us we now have peace through the blood of Christ. With his own body (Christ) broke down the wall that kept them enemies. Eph. 2:14. In other words he died for us all. If he refuses no one his redeeming love, can we? Lord help us to turn the other cheek. It is your beloved child who strikes us. God bless your week. Fr. Tim Our Mission We are a Catholic faith community blessed with the joy of God s love. Together we share this love with all who hunger for God s presence in their lives. We follow Christ who taught us to find God by giving our lives in service to others and gathering to celebrate a Eucharist that welcomes everyone. Join us on this journey!
Page Two SUNDAY MASS TIMES: Saturday (vigil) 4:00 pm., Sunday 8:30 and 10:30 am. DAILY MASS TIMES: Monday, Wednesday, and Friday; 9:00 am. and Tuesday and Thursday; 6:30 am. SACRAMENT OF BAPTISM: Call Tricia Kull, Director of Faith Formation at 265-4750. SACRAMENT OF PENANCE: Saturdays from 3:00 to 3:45 pm. or by appointment with a priest. SACRAMENT OF MARRIAGE: Ar r angements for mar - riage for registered parishioners must be made at least 6 months in advance through the Parish Office. Engaged Encounter or Pre-Cana sessions are required, along with FOCCUS inventory. SACRAMENT OF THE SICK: The Eucharist and Sacramental Anointing are available to the homebound and those in need. Please contact the Parish Office to make arrangements. HOSPITAL VISITS: Please call the Par ish Office in advance, if possible. EUCHARISTIC ADORATION: Thursday 7:00-8:00 pm. Dish and Plate Pickup A gentle reminder that if any one has donated food for a funeral or Fr. Tim s supper, you may pick up your dish, plate or container in the hallway next to the Wing Room Kitchen. They are beginning to pile up. Please claim your dish as soon as possible. Thank You. College 101: Planning, Preparing, and Paying Seminar Sunday, November 18th @ 2:00 pm. College is expensive, but knowledge is power! With that in mind, it is critical for parents to be informed about the many ways to reduce the expense of higher education, especially loan debt, while at the same time finding the best college fit for their children academically, socially, and for future career goals. Holy Trinity Church invites all parents of high school students to a free, one-hour educational seminar called, College 101: Planning, Preparing, and Paying for College on Sunday, November 18 at 2:00 pm. at Holy Trinity Church in the Gathering Space. It will be presented by Dean Condon of College Assistance Plus, a national college consulting company based in Honeoye Falls, NY. Learn about college selectivity, applications, college costs, financial aid, and scholarships. Take home real-world solutions for mitigating the cost of sending your student to college without jeopardizing your family s financial future! Registration is requested. To register, email Dean Condon at dean.caplus@gmail.com or call 585-831-9104. COMPANIONS IN GRIEF GROUP Thursday, November 15 at 7:00 pm. at St. Paul s Church Topic: Hope for the Holidays Presented by: Katherine Cappuccio Pastoral Associate at St. Paul s Church All who have experienced the loss of a friend or loved one through death are invited to attend. All are welcome! Holy Trinity Church, Webster, New York From the Faith Formation Office There is a basket of the blue Children s Envelopes outside the Faith Formation Office. Each box contains a full 12 months of offertory envelopes for children to use for their very own act of giving. This is a wonderful way to teach children how to give back to their community...not only through their time and talent but also to set aside and give some of their treasure. Please take only one box per family to share as there is a limited supply. GETTING READY FOR ADVENT AND CHRISTMAS Advent begins on Sunday, December 2 and we are inviting all families to play a special role in our celebration each week by lighting the candles on the Advent Wreath before Mass. If your family would like to participate in this beautiful ritual, please see the sign-up sheet in the Gathering Space, or contact the Faith Formation Office. The Children's Christmas Pageant will be held on Sunday, December 16 at 12:15 pm. in the church. All ages from 3 years old and up are welcome to be in the pageant. We need angels, shepherds, animals and especially the Holy Family! We are also looking for narrators and singers...as well as Parent Volunteers willing to help. Practices begin on Sunday, December 2 at 11:45 am. in the Gathering Space. There are only 2 practices (Dec. 2 and Dec. 9). There is a Sign-Up Sheet at the Welcome Desk in the Gathering Space for all who are interested. Take some time out during this busy time of year and spend it with these precious children as they re-tell the story of the birth of our Savior. BRINGING FAITH HOME What is your Story? One of the best ways to share our faith with our children is to tell them our story - a personal story about you and God. Don t think you have one? We bet you do think of a time when you were confronted with something bigger than yourself. It could have been something happy or scary, exciting or daunting, momentous or simply calming. But in there somewhere was God. So we encourage you to find your story and then share that with your children. Creating a Safe Environment Education for Volunteers All volunteers who work with children, youth or vulnerable adults must participate in Creating a Safe Environment (C.A.S.E.) Training before they begin their ministry, and must renew their CASE certification every 3 years. We offer in-person C.A.S.E. Training every month at Holy Trinity. If you volunteer in any capacity in our parish or related ministries and you are not sure if you need to take this course, or if you need to register for an upcoming training session, contact our Safe Environment Coordinator, Tricia Kull, at (585) 265-4750.
Page Three Holy Trinity Church, Webster, New York Scripture Readings for the 33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time First Reading: Daniel 12:1-3 Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 16:5, 8, 9-10, 11 Second Reading: Hebrews 10:11-14, 18 Gospel: Mark 13:24-32 Please Remember in Prayer Our Beloved Dead Pauline Kueppers, mother of Susan Schwartz; David L. White; and those who mourn for them. Altar Candles will burn this week for the following special intentions. The Sanctuary Lamp will burn in loving memory of Michael Mostipak, req. Don Basch. Prayer for Vocations Heavenly Father, bless your church with an abundance of holy and zealous priests, deacons, brothers and sisters. Give those you have called to the married state and those you have chosen to live as single persons in the world, the special graces that their lives require. Form us all in the likeness of your Son so that in Him, with Him, and through Him we may love you more deeply and serve you more faithfully, always and everywhere. With Mary we ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen. Our Blessed Mother s Altar Candle will burn for the special intentions of Suzanne and Dave Ubanski, req. Denny and Pam Schultz. St. Joseph s Altar Candle will burn in loving memory of Michael Harens, req. Wanda and Family. If you would like a candle in memory of a loved one or for special intentions, please call the parish office. A REMINDER: If you need a devotional candle lit immediately for a loved one, a special occasion, or special intentions, you are invited to light the small votives that are on the side altars of the Blessed Mother and St. Joseph. They will burn for about 4-5 hours. Adopt a Family at Christmas Christmas time causes us to think of gathering friends and family together for a delicious meal. We look forward to opening bright packages. But this season can be especially stressful for those who struggle all year to make ends meet. HOPE Ministry provides Christmas food and gifts for children. Would you be willing to adopt a family this Christmas? Many area businesses, organizations, scout troops, clubs, individuals and families have adopted a family by providing food and gifts for the children. We share the wish list and guidance; you supply the Christmas spirit! For more details contact us at 265-6694, or Chris at shrtstp@aol.com Changing of the Hymnals It is that time of year again when our Liturgical Year will be coming to an end and a new one will begin at the end of November. We are asking for some help in pulling out old hymnals and replacing them with new ones. If you would like to help, please meet in church on Wednesday, November 28 at 9:30 am. (after the 9:00 am. Mass) Thank you! Hopefully everyone has received the Catholic Ministries Appeal mailing by this time and has had a chance to review the materials. Extra copies of the brochure are available in church. The theme for this year s campaign is Sharing Our Blessings. The CMA affords each of us an opportunity to support the larger Church so that it can meet real needs throughout the Diocese. Your support enables the Church to be responsive and caring. Please be generous in your response. Every gift is needed and important! If it is easier, you may make your gift online at www.dor.org/cma. You may also pay your pledge off in six installments by May 31st. CMA envelopes, which may be placed in the collection or mailed directly to the Diocese, are available in the back of the church. Please be sure to fill out the envelope with your information, and kindly do not mail cash. You may give cash to the parish office or place it in a CMA envelope in the collection basket. Please pray for the success of our efforts. Thank you. GOAL: $155,787.00 TOTAL TO DATE: 62,433.00 DONORS: 280 % TO GOAL: 40.00 % Weekly Collection Sheets for the Month of October 2018 GOAL: $62,400.00 OFFERTORY ENVELOPES: $50,520.00 LOOSE COLLECTION: $ 2,554.00 CHILDREN S ENVELOPES: $ 20.00 ONLINE GIVING $11,973.00 VARIANCE: $+2,667.00 ATTENDANCE for November 3/4 1,252 Penny Sunday - Grace House - $1,973.00
Holy Trinity Parish Staff Rev. Timothy E. Horan, Pastor....265-1616x303 fr.timothy.horan@dor.org Rev. John Mulligan, (In Residence).....265-1616x314 Kasey Baker, Business Manager.......265-1616x304 kasey.baker@dor.org Tricia Kull, Faith Formation Director. 265-4750 tricia.kull@dor.org Judy Cass, Middle School & Confirm. Co-ord...265-1616x328 judy.cass@dor.org Pat Bell, Faith Formation Assistant.. 265-4750 pat.bell@dor.org Helen Sleeman, Ministry Coordinator......265-1616x337 helen.sleeman@dor.org Pam Schultz, Parish Secretary......265-1616x302 pam.schultz@dor.org Joanne Mix, Receptionist.....265-1616x301 Clare Schreiber, Liturgical Music Director.265-1616 clare.schreiber@dor.org Lisa Thyne, Choral Minister...lisa.thyne@dor.org Joan Sullivan, Multi-Parish Finance Director..265-1616x311 joan.sullivan@dor.org Margery Morgan, Director of HOPE Ministry 265-6694 margery.morgan@dor.org HOPE Ministry - 1450 Ridge Road - 265-6694 Monday 6-8 pm. Wednesday 3-5 pm. Tuesday 10-12 Noon Thursday 7-8:30 pm. Legion of Mary: Tuesday 9:30 am. Marian Room. Prayer Chain: Legion of Mary - Roger Ellender.455-0876 Corpus Christi: (Holy Communion to the Homebound) Jean Wolf...1-315-524-8940 Dove Ministry: Provides rides to appointments Carol Ortis 265-9409 Men s Group Coordinator: Will Trout..315-333-1098 Meets the 4th Saturday of each month 9:00-10:30 am. Parish Council - Mark Malahosky, Chair Office Hours Monday - Friday: 9:00 am. to Noon, and 1:00-4:00 pm. Summer Office Hours: Monday - Thursday, 9:00 am. to Noon, and 1:00-4:30 pm. and Friday, 9:00 am. to 12:00 Noon Mass Times: 4:00 Vigil (Sat.) 8:30 and 10:30 am. Sunday Confessions: 3:00-3:45 pm. on Sat. Every Tuesday from 4:30-5:30 pm. (no Tuesday confessions during the summer) If you wish to listen to the Sunday Homily, please visit www.holytrinityweb.com/index.php?page=homilies If you find that you are unable to attend daily Mass, you may listen to 1460 AM on WHIC at 8:00 am. Station of the Cross Holy Trinity Church is now on FACEBOOK. You can check out our page by typing www.facebook.com/ holytrinitywebster into your internet web browser. Already a FACEBOOK user? You can search Holy Trinity Church, Webster, NY on FACEBOOK to find us as well. HOPE Ministry Facebook @HOPEMinistryny and also HOPE Garden Facebook @HOPEGardenWny. Victims Assistance Coordinator: call Deborah Housel at 1-800-388-7177 ext: 1555 housel@dor.org
Mass Intentions: 2018 November 12 - November 18 Monday - Saint Josaphat, Bishop and Martyr 9:00 Special Intentions of Dulce Lissette Williams, req. Rodriguez Family Tuesday - Saint Frances Xavier Cabrini, Virgin 6:30 Special Intentions of Brunner Family, req. Emily Brunner 9:00 Morning Prayer/With Communion Wednesday - Weekday 9:00 Joseph, Marie, Joe and Tom Hurysz, req. Family Thursday - Weekday (Saint Albert the Great, Bishop and Doctor of the Church 6:30 Intention of Celebrant 9:00 Morning Prayer/With Communion Friday - Weekday 9:00 Richard French, req. Mr. and Mrs. Herman French Saturday - 4:00 (VIGIL) For the People of Holy Trinity, Living and Deceased Sunday - THIRTY-THIRD IN ORDINARY TIME 8:30 Mary Burns, req. Husband and Children 10:30 Amelia Ferrara, 2nd Anniversary, req. Family This Week At Holy Trinity Tuesday, November 13 9:30-10:30 am. Legion of Mary - Marian Room 4:30-5:30 pm. Confession - Church 4:00 - Finance Mtg. Marian Room Wednesday, November 14 9:30 am. Women s Faith - Wing Room 3:30 pm. Liturgy Meeting - Marian Room 6:00-7:00 pm. Contemporary Choir - Aquinas Room 7:00-9:00 pm. Choir - Aquinas Room 7:00 - Book Club - Wing Room Thursday, November 15 7:00-8:00 pm. Adoration - Church Friday, November 16 8:35 am. - Rosary - Church Saturday, November 17 9:00-11:00 am. Men s Spirituality - Wing Room Sunday, November 18 9:30-10:30 am. Faith Formation - All Rooms 9:30-10:30 am. Middle School/Confirmation 12:00 Noon - RCIA - Marian Room 7:00 pm. - Teen Mass - Church Penny Sunday - STAR Program Veterans Day: Parish Office Closed The Parish Office will be closed on November 12 in observance of Veterans Day. May God hold all our veterans in the palm of His Hand.