The Unshakeable Man A New Definition of Core Confidence and Exactly How to Get It

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1 The Unshakeable Man A New Definition of Core Confidence and Exactly How to Get It

2 Welcome Back! Great job taking ac/on on the first weeks tasks As well as sharing in the Facebook community Important: Harness an unwavering commitment to show up to trainings, calls, and to share in the Facebook group Make this program a priority in your life, treat it as such, and you ll get EVERYTHING you want out of it

3 With that Said, Today We con/nue the internal healing work, with three unique topics That all add up to ins/lling you with unshakeable confidence, and a consistently happy life As well as the ability to fill your social life with an abundance of amazing people The three topics we ll be touching on are: 1. Being non- judgmental 2. Being non- reac/ve 3. And Being non- atached to the outcome

4 Without these three concepts You ll waste a TON of energy on things that produce no posi/ve results in your life You ll be difficult to be around, and people will feel uneasy in your presence You won t appear confident to others, but more importantly you won t FEEL confident in your own skin And you definitely won t be a magne/cally atrac/ve man, capable of filling your life with an endless supply of high value rela/onships

5 Now more than EVER It is cri/cal to make the shivs we ll be talking about today This will make more sense later, but EVERYTHING is speeding up Technology is a physical example of this, but there are spiritual components as well And the botom line is that it is /me for life on Earth to exist at a HIGHER vibralon, more consistently one of light and love...

6 Today s concepts Will cause a profound shim in your biology, raise your vibra/on, and allow you to make this transi/on with ease People will feel safe around you, enjoy your presence, and open up to you like never before And when you do this right, you ll have the freedom to be yourself at all /mes, experiencing a level of salsfaclon that most never will

7 First, Being Non- judgmental The problem It is typical for people to be highly judgmental of others Where it comes from Ego and societal programming How it shows up in our life We are oven quick to judge other people and situa/ons Why it hurts us This closes off poten/ally expansive experiences and keeps our reality small

8 The Real Issue is CriLcism Judgment The forming of an opinion, es/mate, no/on, or conclusion as from circumstances presented to the mind CriLcism The act of passing severe judgment; faultinding Think of cri/cism as a virus that has infected your computer via bad programming We have to aclvate our anl- virus and wipe this clean!

9 It s All Just a ReflecLon Anyway When you meet someone beter than yourself, turn your thoughts to becoming his equal. When you meet someone not as good as you are, look within and examine yourself. ~ Confucius est. 500BC People of the world don t look at themselves, so they blame one another. ~ Mevlana Rumi est. 1250AD In Yoga, it is taught that the outer world is a reflec/on of the inner, because you create your reality from the inside out The people and situa/ons you see that you have judgment over are just the internal items you s/ll need to heal

10 The World is Your Mirror Take on the mindset of the world being your mirror What don t you like in your current reality? What isn t the way you want it? What do you hold judgment or cri/cism over? These are the precise places to look inside and take responsibility for shiving your internal landscape

11 Very Real Damage Here s the core issue with being judgmental or cri/cal To ever spout this low energy out toward the world, you must first feel it within your own being You are literally exposing yourself to this energy first, every /me And you know how it feels awful So with every judgment you cast, you become more fearful of others judging you, and you create a hard shell of indifference that disconnects you from others, and even yourself!

12 Can be Simple to Heal First, just declare that judgments and cri/cisms aren t worth your /me or energy They aren t they produce NO posilve result, yet require your energy, /me, and aten/on Making them energy drains like sending your valuable life force down the toilet! Second, try the posi/ve judgment exercise

13 The PosiLve Judgment Exercise! Go to a public place and look at the people you walk by In your head, create a random, made up, SUPER POSITIVE story about who that person is, or why they are awesome Have fun with it and do this for at least ten people a day for the next few weeks Very quickly, you ll find pre- programmed habits of judgment fade away to an expectalon of awesomeness! And what you ll see in your life, is you get what you expect

14 Secondly, Non- ReacLvity Reac/vity is a phenomenon that occurs when individuals alter their performance or behavior due to the awareness they are being observed. But for our purposes it goes deeper EmoLonal reaclvity is the real problem, and here s how it hinders your life

15 3- Step Vs. 4- Step Decision Making There are two different models of decision making, one reac/ve and disempowering, the other non- reac/ve and empowering 3- Step ReacLons S/mulus Emo/on Reac/on 4- Step Choices S/mulus Emo/on Cogni/on Choice The 4- step model is non- reaclve and empowering

16 NegaLve ReacLvity is the Real Culprit Posi/ve reac/ons are not a problem, they bring you joy, happiness, excitement, and expansion! Nega/ve reac/ons though are disempowering, because the energy is lost just like during judgment A nega/ve reac/on brings no desired results in your life, so it s always a waste of your effort So the ul/mate reason to never be reac/ve is not to be cool, but to harness every bit of your life force for crea/ng the life you truly desire You must be RUTHLESS with this!

17 What makes you react negalvely? Or take involuntary, unproduclve aclon? Every bit of it stems from internal energelc chords or blockages, and your mental associa/on to them And like judgment, nega/ve reac/ons are a reflec/on of your inner terrain needing healing Otherwise people on the outside would not be causing your reac/on, and you would not be reac/ng So the solu/on is the RES technique, which is why you use it every /me you have an emo/onal reac/on Soon, you will no longer be the slave of your old habits and blocks, and you ll be empowered to CHOOSE your aclons consciously

18 This Truly Put s you on Another Level When you ditch reac/vity, you become super human Reac/vity to cravings, desires, cri/cisms these are things that hold us slave to our circumstances But when you can have the same s/mulus appear, and consciously choose the ac/on which serves you best, you start playing life on another level And you get next level results in ALL areas

19 Lastly, Aiachment to Outcome The way things are supposed to look is a total illusion A construc/on of the ego mind And it will cause you a LOT of suffering when the outcome is not how you desired

20 It s Missing the Component of the Divine When you are atached to an outcome, you re forgejng that you are a co- creator of this life You are forgegng to account for that energy which is bigger than yourself, call it god, the co- creator, spirit, consciousness It is co- crea/ng this life with you, and doing a beter job of it than we can really comprehend Think about the complexity of the most simple occurrence, like running into an old friend We certainly are not planning this en/rely by ourselves!

21 How this Hurts Us We create a desired result, and usually also accompanied imagery of how we ll achieve that result We aiach ourselves to how we want the result to look, how we get there, and how it should all occur Then as life starts to twist and turn, we resist by holding on to our atachment It s like trying to fight the waves of the ocean impossible, exhaus/ng, and it could get you killed! As a result, you ll waste tons of energy, endure extra stress, and miss out on the happiness of life

22 It s All Just Programming When you were a baby or young child, you lived blissfully in the moment and flowed effortlessly with life But as you grew up, you went to school, and got rigidly programmed to get specific results There were outcomes that were good, and outcomes that were bad, and you definitely built up an aiachment to the good ones!

23 And What this creates with women Failed expecta/ons and disappointment, which women CERTAINLY feel Tension and uneasiness, Am I doing what she wants me to do? A seriousness that causes women to close down and feel on alert for your ulterior mo/ves When a guy approaches rela/onship with a specific outcome in mind, and atachment to achieving that outcome, he is very unatrac/ve to the woman, and literally wreaks of it

24 But think back to a Lme When you were young, and life was easy When life wasn t about bills, or grades, or specific results But the moment, enjoyment, freedom, and play This is the truth of your reality, and what everyone wants to experience deep down Provide this space of non- atachment and effortless enjoyment of the moment for women and you become a unique catch, a RARE find among men

25 Zen Teacher John Daido Loori said According to the Buddhist point of view, non- atachment is exactly the opposite of separa/on. You need two things in order to have atachment: the thing you re ataching to, and the person who s ataching. In non- atachment, on the other hand, there s unity. There s unity because there s nothing to aiach to. If you have unified with the whole universe, there s nothing outside of you, so the no/on of atachment becomes absurd. Who will atach to what?

26 How to Release Aiachment Recognize the unified consciousness that is the Universe fundamentally it s all just energy And then align with it as the co- creator of your life Recognize that you re not in full control, and release the desire to be And by unifying yourself with all that is, you allow happiness in the HERE and NOW It s already here, just wai/ng for you to ALLOW it in And this comes from detaching from the illusion, and recognizing that everything is EXACTLY as it is supposed to be, always

27 So You ve Just Learned How to release judgment and cri/cism How to ditch reaclvity and begin making conscious choice And how to release your aiachments to outcome

28 The Results from Achieving this in your Life Are Happiness When you detach from outcome, life flows, and you find happiness in the here and now MagneLsm When you remove cri/cism from your programming and expect greatness from others, you become magne/c and your energy atracts in amazing people and events Confidence A new defini/on of confidence is simply the combina/on of non- aiachment and non- reaclvity, as you ll always be comfortable in your own skin, happy, and content Making you a truly UNSHAKEABLE man

29 You Create Your Reality From this place of unshakeable confidence, you create your reality You don t waste your energy on unimportant or non- serving outlets And you consciously choose your ac/ons and results in life

30 Next Week We ll dive into The Devoted Man You ll gain a deep connec/on with divine feminine energy And you ll understand the intricate balance of masculine and feminine that exists in all beings Showing you how to truly LOVE women (so they can literally sense it)

31 But first, Lme for aclon! To achieve the three outcomes of today s training Do the posi/ve judgment exercise for at least 7 days Con/nue cul/va/ng non- reac/vity with 7 more days of RES technique on your most reac/ve emo/ons Stay aware of when you are becoming atached to an outcome vs. legng life flow, and add I am eternal joy and bliss to your mirror affirma/ons Lastly, share in the Facebook group and show up for the Q&A for personal coaching!