Chanting for Our Fathers

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1 Meditation Master JinBodhi's Dharma Teachings Chanting for Our Fathers Chanting Makes One Wise and Intelligent What did you do just now? Singing. Isn't this a chanting class? What songs did you sing? "Talk less and chant more. Singing cannot help as much as chanting the mantras and Buddha s names. Did you chant as well? How long did you chant in the morning? You all still look so clear-minded, which indicates you didn't put yourself into it totally. If you lose track of time while chanting, then you are probably totally into it. Some people keep watching the clock, wondering when to stop. At first, chanting can seem boring, since, unlike using a computer, it doesn't offer much interaction. Chanting or meditation can seem boring to beginners. However, after this lonesome feeling subsides, we will get to experience wonderful things. You may have read legends about wise people in ancient times and in other countries, and noticed that many meditation practitioners are very wise. Have you heard of that? I don't dare boast of my wisdom, but I'm much wiser than before in seeing many things. We don't need to compare ourselves with others. Some students complain, "I've paid for private lessons in many subjects; why didn't I score well enough to go to the best university?" Yet many who do go have never had any private lessons. Some people may have a slow start in life. They actually don't need to worry, since the people at the best universities may not be the best talents, and pg. 1

2 the best talents may not go to the best universities. Do you agree? People who need to learn will go to school, since schools teach us skills and knowledge. If we were born with these, we wouldn't need to go to school. We must understand this. It is like going to the market to buy stuff. You need to buy it because you don't have it. If you had it, you wouldn't need to buy it. Learning is the same. And there is a sufficiency level, too. Do you agree? Some of you may not have gotten the point yet. I completely believe in it. A person doesn't need to read too many books before the age of 30, about 3000 books would be enough, including magazines. Don't dismiss magazines. They can be useful, too. Specialty books are like main dishes, magazines are side dishes, and websites are desserts. All three combined make a good dinner. It is no good to have only soup or dessert, instead have a portion of each of the three. Now let's move on to our main topic for today. Does everyone know the benefits of chanting? It doesn't matter if you don't. First, it awakens wisdom in us. The first part of our body that benefits from our practice is the brain. That s for sure. This is my experience. Many people that I've taught have also had similar experiences, and their overall health improved, too. Chanting is a special method that not only benefits health, but also enables us to access unspeakable, endless energy and wisdom. Wisdom seems to be linked to brain development, whereas energy, regarding how it works on our body and where it comes from, is an unknown factor. When I meditated intensively in my younger years, I was totally absorbed in it by the final stages, and I had no thoughts in my head. However, at some point, I would suddenly think of food, a detailed picture of a certain type of food because I hadn't eaten for many days. Usually within two days I would receive exactly the food I had thought of. Well, you eat when you are hungry. That's pg. 2

3 normal. And someone may bring you food because he knows you. Such an explanation seems to work. However, I experienced a phenomenon; whereby, whenever I needed anything, the thing would appear within a short period of time. There are countless things in the world; yet, I would receive what I needed most at that moment. Meditation practice can bring us amazing inconceivable results. What did you chant just now? Do you remember? It was Medicine Buddha s Heart Mantra. It connects our hearts with the Medicine Buddha's. What kind of Buddha is the Medicine Buddha? He is the Buddha who regards human beings as his primary concern. When we talk about the Medicine Buddha, people who are versed in Buddhist sutras recall his twelve vows. These twelve vows help humans attain happiness and perfection. The first is about great compassion. What is said in the first vow is actually the Greater Illumination we have cultivated. When we use this compassion to influence the world, hope appears. May all become richer and receive what they need for a happy life. May all stay on the right track without falling into drugs, gambling, or other behaviors that harm the person, his family, and society. The Medicine Buddha wished to help the human race by giving people what they lack. For instance, unwise people would receive wisdom. If a person were disabled, such as deaf or blind, the Medicine Buddha would help the person to hear or see. May all humans have a healthy, functional body. All the important needs in a person's life are included in his vows. His twelve vows are about satisfying the needs a human would have. This is different from certain sutras, which are more about life after death, about what we experience after death, which is difficult for us to prove. When we chant the Medicine Buddha's Heart Mantra, if we can connect our ordinary pg. 3

4 human hearts with Medicine Buddha's, we can obtain a blessing from him, a kind of protection and wish-granting. How to get this blessing? Through sincere chanting. The more sincerity, the better. The mind must not wander. Sincerity counts more than purity and calm. Is there anyone who has something to pray for? Does anyone have issues you cannot solve yourself in your life? Or things you wish to have or to have some help? Those wanting help please raise your hand. I know I need help. I'm often dimwitted, and I need more money and talents to work with me. If you need help, please raise your hand again. I see some people's hands are not raised. Is your life perfect already? Really? If you want help, you must be sincere. If you take chanting as a triviality, then it matters little if you chant or not. If you are not serious about it, you will get bored and tired. But, if you chant sincerely, miracles start to happen. Has anyone felt leg pain since our retreat started? Some have, and some haven't. Both are normal. Does your mind wander off toward home sometimes? Or to work? Or to movies? Or to some past trouble? Has this happened to you? This is normal. After all, we're still ordinary humans. It shows your mind is flexible; it goes on trips like the Monkey King. The Monkey King's body stays here, but its mind and spirit are gone. Gone where? To Heaven, its home, Fruit and Flower Mountain. Our mind is like this, but don't give up. You may become as powerful as the Monkey King, able to transform yourself. Follow the Law of Causality; Imperfections in Our Fate can be Repaired If you have an illness, please raise your hand. How come so many hands are raised?! If you feel you are a bit foolish sometimes, please raise your hand. Not pg. 4

5 so many. If you feel clever, I guess many of you will not admit being clever, though you are thinking, "I've tricked so many people, of course, I'm clever!" Alright, no need to raise your hands on this one. Many feel they lack health, or wisdom, or money. Some people feel they have suffered a lot, or that they are suffering now. Some are jobless. People are in various kinds of trouble - illness, lack of money. What other kinds of trouble? Two are enough for a person to carry. Relationships? Yes, there is suffering in relationships, too. There may be many defects in life. In fact, many people are very unfortunate. Some people are born with an incomplete body. Some are born mentally challenged because of either hereditary or other factors. They later feel the pain of not making adequate progress at school. I have had this experience.: Classmates look down on you, teachers think you are incompetent, and you are bullied by siblings. Your parents sympathize with you out of pity. This kind of sympathy causes pain. Many people complain of hurt feelings, an unhappy marriage, etc. Some cannot keep a job. There could be many afflictions in our lives. Yet some people seem to be luckier than others. They don't seem to encounter so many problems. Why are they lucky? The Christians will tell you God has endowed them with luck. The Buddhists believe in causality: Any suffering a person goes through is the fruit from a seed of causation, like fruit at harvest time. If the seed is a peach seed, you cannot get an apple. It is just like that. Among peaches, there are differences in quality. All seeds, including human DNA, have different qualities. In the animal world, male herbivore animals, such as deer and goats, fight for top position during mating season to secure mating privileges. They fight to win the top position, thus being the first to mate with the females. pg. 5

6 I mention this to emphasize the importance of the quality of the seed gene. A doe will become pregnant with a baby deer that inherits the deer king's DNA. The deer king is big and strong, as well as being the brightest and bravest of his herd. Thus, his offspring will have strong immune systems. Young deer must be able to run away from predators, so deer learn to stand up soon after birth, and can run five minutes after birth. If the deer dad were weak or disabled, what would its offspring be like? Perhaps weak, becoming lunch for a wolf. So, the female herbivores all know to choose to mate with the strongest males. Their survival instinct chooses the best seed. It is the same with humans. Your DNA decides health, intelligence, and even your luck. All your suffering, happiness, affliction, wealth, and poverty come from the seed. However, the Buddhist concept of the seed is not absolute. Every life is independent. Your current life condition is the result of all you did in the past or in past lives. I hear some people complain about their broken marriages; this is the result of behavior in your previous lives. For example, some have money but not marriage, or meet love but with no result. A few days ago, I met with a student of mine. He cried hard. I observed his past lives. He was an eagle in one life; I will not go into details here. Those lives, when he ate cruelly, took revenge on him in his current life. The revenge is that the animal becomes his lover in the next life, and when he is very in love, he has to watch his lover die. He has to feel the pain. The animal thought, "You could have spared me, but you killed me, tore me into pieces, and ate me! In disguise, I'll take revenge!" This kind of story happens all the time because of causality. Our fate and life experiences are results of what we did or accumulated in the past and in our previous lives. pg. 6

7 Can you change your fate - how you feel? Yes, you can. It is causality. Here are four sentences I would like you all to remember: "If you want to know what you did in the previous lives, look at what you are experiencing now." These first two sentences mean that your current life, suffering, happiness, family, career, disease, everything you are experiencing now, is the result of your past. The last two sentences are: "If you want to know your future, it is what you are doing right now." That means what you do now decides your future. Does this make sense to you? For example, if I study hard now, I will graduate with a certificate. If I learn a trade, I will be able to make a living with it. It is as simple as that. If I treat people nicely, they probably will be nice to me too. This is how we make friends and keep relationships. You cannot always be demanding because relationships will break. You will be better off treating others with respect, giving kindness, and love. Our actions now decide our future. This is why I often suggest that people should not attach to their personalities. If you don t say nice words to people, you will not get love. Some people grew up without love because their parents talked harshly to each other and treated their children as warlords treated their soldiers. They have suffered a lack of love, and that's what they know. If your world is made up of squares, then when you draw, you will draw squares since that's what you know. We cannot attach to our wrong personalities formed in the past. When we start to awaken, we ought to act as an awakened being, instead of the old self. We see everything more clearly now, so we should use reasonable behavior and state of mind to face our life situations, and to deal with our friends and colleagues. This would be more sensible. If you insist that you cannot change your personality, your personality will become your pg. 7

8 hindrance. So, essentially, you will be attached to your hindrance, to your stubbornness, and to your past mistakes. When I was young I had lots of shortcomings. But I continued to self-cultivate, and I'm still bettering myself. I have personal experience with things I teach today. No matter how our lives are today, if we want to be healthier, richer, wiser, more affectionate, caring, and lovable, we need to correct ourselves continuingly. Anybody here who doesn't want to be loved? Please raise your hand! I'm trying to be the Monkey King, using my piercing, sharp eyes to see who will raise their hand, to see who doesn't want love. There are people like that. They want to appear strong by saying that they don't care about love. There are such superhumans. However, even though their minds tell them they don't need love, the subconscious wants it. I am like this sometimes. I feel I'm a mixture of many different kinds of characters. Often, I don't feel loving, nor the need to be loved. When I'm exhausted, I stay somewhere alone wanting isolation. That's what I do when I'm tired. When I was little, I thought no one loved me, and I couldn't think of anyone I loved either, so I just stay alone by myself without feeling loved. As an adult, after understanding how things work in this world, I realized we desire respect and recognition. We want to better ourselves and be the best we can be. Young people want to have a successful career that gives them fulfillment and makes their parents proud. These goals cannot be achieved alone. We will need to harness the power and knowledge of Nature to be enriched by its wisdom so that we can fulfill our life purpose. How to Have a Better Future: Show Gratitude to Our Parents and Chant for Them pg. 8

9 Do you want your future to be brighter? (Yes!) I have a method, and it is simple: I just talked about the concept of the seed. A seed can be seen, so it is easier for us to understand. But our fate is not made of only one seed. One seed is the original you, or the inborn you according to Chinese Taoism. This you exists eternally, and when this eternal "spirit of you" attaches to a human fetus, your life form will be a human. Humans also have different fates. If this eternal you attaches to a sheep fetus, you will be born as a lamb. Your fate then will be to be slaughtered someday. What happens if you attach to a bull fetus? You will be born as a calf. Some people live like bulls, arrogantly; some like sheep, timidly. Humans fates are sometimes very pitiful. When we want money, we overwork; because we get exhausted from overwork, we vow never to work again. Once we become rich, we lie in bed and do nothing. When the fortune does come, we lie in bed for a month, we cannot walk, and in a few months, we cannot speak. You see, we need to exercise after getting rich. However, rich people and poor people exercise in different ways. In Asia, rich men play golf, right? The Chinese word "golf" starts with the word "high." Remember: The Pigsy went to the "High Village" and married "Miss High" after he got some money. Poor people are so desperate to get rich that they get high blood pressure. Have I joked too much? I'm sorry for my playfulness. My meaning is very serious. But I don't want you to think that studying Buddhadharma and having All-Compassion mean that you must cry all the time. That's not All-Compassion, but pain and sadness. If we want a good future, there's one good method that I came to realize myself. It didn't come from smartness, but from the heart. pg. 9

10 Are your parents nice to you? (Nice!) Yet, many of us don't realize what's nice about our parents. A student once mentioned that she couldn't think of anything nice her parents had done for her. I asked if she remembered anybody so far in her life who had helped her. "My landlord," she replied. "When I was moving in, he helped me to carry my heavy mattress. I'll be forever grateful." I reminded her that her father had worked hard so that she could study abroad. I asked why she couldn't recognize her parent's help. I could see that she didn't feel what I felt about this. Maybe after she has a child, she will be able to feel gratitude toward her parents. If you are a parent, you understand what I mean. When your child is little, you protect them constantly. Mothers cannot sleep through the night for years until their child is older. Before a mother gives birth, she might be a girl who cannot bear dirtiness and mess. She cleans up right away. Yet, once she has a baby, she puts up with all the untidiness and is super-kind to her baby. She sticks to her baby, whatever the circumstances. Fathers are the same. After having a baby, a father works harder, and feels more responsibility because he has a child. Some fathers get injured or die because of work. Even if fathers have to bear unfair treatment at work, they still keep their jobs in order to earn money for raising their children. They work hard to pay for their child's education. They do anything for their child's happiness, even if it costs them their life. Fathers are selfless, as are mothers. Let me tell you a true story I have told before. A girl's parents divorced when she was little. Her mother told her only bad things about her father because she hated him. This happens among some divorced couples, one party hating the other. The girl didn't know this, of course. Every time she asked her mom about her father, her mom said that her father was a bad guy and recounted all the pg. 10

11 bad things he did. These bad stories made the little girl believe that her dad was indeed a bad person. To make a long story short, the girl grew up. One day when planning her wedding, she felt sick. The doctor told her that she had liver cancer, and it was terminal and incurable. When faced with death, such a young person changed her view toward the world. This girl wanted to meet her father before she died. She told her mom about her wish, and her mom told the girl's father since it was the wish of her dying daughter. The daughter had mixed feelings about seeing her father. When the father was told of his daughter's condition, he asked her doctor if there was any way to save his daughter's life. The doctor said the only way was a liver transplant. Then she would have a chance. A maybe, not a guarantee. This father didn't hesitate, and asked immediately for a test to find out if he could donate his liver. The doctor checked him thoroughly, and his liver was healthy. He thought that if he gave his liver to his daughter, her body wouldn't reject it. The doctor said this was true, but the father's heart was too weak to withstand a major operation. The father wasn't afraid and insisted on donating his liver as he was willing to risk his own life. The operation was a success, and the daughter survived. The father left a touching letter to her, telling his daughter that he had finally done something for her that had made him proud of himself. It wasn't true that he didn't love his daughter. I believe every father loves his child. This girl had been misled by her mom's opinion. She had misunderstood him and doubted his love for her. All parents love their children, we should never doubt it. Their love is boundless and stronger than we can express. I hope all of you, my old and new students, can feel gratitude toward your parents, toward your ancestors. Now pg. 11

12 let's chant more; let's chant in gratitude for our fathers. Let's chant for our fathers, and pray to the Medicine Buddha and all deities in the Eastern Lapis Lazuli Land, to all buddhas and bodhisattvas, praying for their blessing for our fathers and all fathers before us. Let all fathers receive good energy and blessings. We wish them happiness, health, and freedom. For the fathers who have passed, we pray and may they be born into Heaven, into the Eastern Lapis Lazuli Land, and we wish them eternal freedom from suffering. Only when they are fine, can we be fine, although we are not praying for ourselves right now. Humans are emotional, and we should be grateful for what we have. Being grateful and chanting with a grateful heart cures all ailments, physical and mental. While we are chanting, we are reflecting on the love, care, and kindness our fathers gave us. When I talked to my father on his deathbed, he still tried to sound cheery and told me not to worry, and that he would be fine again in a few days. But he knew that his days were numbered. He said, "Don't worry, I'm fine. This illness is not a big deal." His tone was light-hearted. Not everyone, knowing they are dying, could be that way, but fathers can because fathers are the cornerstones of families. It seems you have seen my point. Let's start now: Chant for our fathers, our ancestor fathers, send blessings to them, pray to the Buddha to protect them, and wish them well. pg. 12