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December 30/31, 2017 Lessons from Behemoth and Leviathan Job 40:8-41:34 Mark Mathewson, Theologian in Residence I would love to be able to stand here this morning and tell you that if you are a faithful follower of God, that 2018 will be a year of tremendous blessing for you, but we all know that that's not true. And I'd be no different than many of the charlatan preachers on TV who promise you God's blessing if you only give them your money. Or if you have positive thoughts and a positive image of yourself, then God's blessing will come upon you. But we know that's simply not true! Righteous people do suffer and undoubtedly in a congregation of this size, this coming year many of us will experience suffering the loss of job, of home, of family, of friends, of health, whatever it might be and it often won't make sense. We can't figure out why. And it's in those moments we often, in our search for an answer to why, will go to the book of Job and try to find an answer as to why we suffer. We try to find comfort there. But Job isn't a book that answers the question of why we suffer. It's not a book that particularly will give us comfort in the midst of our suffering, but I think Job does something that's important. The design of the book is to help us think correctly about God in the midst of our suffering, and to think about ourselves. So I'd like to spend a little bit of time today looking at one particular aspect of the book of Job and see what lessons we can learn what lessons Job was to learn about himself and about God in the midst of his sufferings. So if you have a copy of the Scriptures this morning, turn with me to the book of Job. If you open up your Bible, roughly right in the middle you'll likely encounter the book of Psalms and the book of Job comes right before the book of Psalms. We're going to be looking particularly at chapters 40 and 41 this morning, but let's get a little background for the book of Job. The book of Job begins by introducing us to this man named Job who is tremendously wealthy. He fears God and God has blessed him abundantly, blessed him beyond imagination. He has the perfect family. He has wealth beyond imagination. He has everything one could hope for and is living life well. And then the scene shifts to heaven where God has assembled his divine council, members of the heavenly court, to do the business of heaven. They have just come from going out about the earth observing things, and God points to Job and says, "Have you considered my servant Job, who fears me?" And one of the council members who's given the title, the "satan" or the "adversary" you might call him the challenger says, Well you know, God, about that; we have a problem. Does Job really fear you for nothing? In other words, is Job only obeying you and serving you because you've given him all the good stuff and he wants to keep that? In other words, is Job really righteous? I bet if you would take everything away from Job, he would turn against you. And God allows that to happen to Job. He allows Job's family to be taken from him, his wealth, even his health. Job is left with nothing, but in the end Job proves God right. Job was righteous. He doesn't turn against God. But even in the midst of that, Job still has an issue with his suffering because, like I think any of us, he wonders why, especially since he is righteous. Job was convinced and rightly so, and God agrees with him that he is righteous. He had done nothing against God to merit the suffering that he was going through. Job was also convinced that God rewards the righteous and punishes the wicked, so in Job's mind the only conclusion that could be drawn is that there's something wrong with God's justice. And Job challenges God's justice, and he questions God's justice. What else could it be? 1

Well, we know Job's friends come to mourn with him. They hear Job talk this way and they become very irritated with Job because they know that God is just. They, too, believe that God blesses the righteous and punishes the wicked, so what other conclusion could be drawn other than Job has sinned in some way? Job has offended God and this is the reason for his suffering. And so the debate begins and the bulk of the book of Job is Job and his three friends going back and forth and back and forth. Job contends that he is righteous, that God somehow is mistreating him. The friends are trying to convince Job that, no, he sinned and he has to confess somehow that he sinned so that he will once more receive God's blessing. And again, back and forth and, after reading awhile, we get tired of this. It's like, you know nobody is going to give in, so what's the point? I have my suspicions that the author set the book up this way to heighten our anticipation for when God speaks, because we get tired of the back and forth between Job and his friends. So we wonder, What's God have to say in all of this? And so when we get to chapter 38 and God finally speaks, we're attentive. But at the very end of God's speech in chapters 40 and 41, God brings up two very strange creatures Behemoth and Leviathan in order to teach Job an important lesson about himself and about God in the midst of Job's suffering. I want us to consider those lessons that God had for Job...and I think has for us. Again, going into a new year, we can anticipate that we're going to encounter suffering and, How am I going to respond in the face of that? Job, chapter 40, beginning in verse six, God begins the last part of his speech to Job. Just prior to this, God has pointed out to Job that the world is so complex that there's no way Job could figure out how to run the world. We see a summary of this in chapters 6-14, particularly with respect to justice. Again, all along Job has questioned God's justice and, beginning in verse 6 Yahweh, the Lord, speaks: (By the way, I'll be reading from the New International Version this morning.) Then Yahweh spoke to Job out of the storm: Brace yourself like a man; I will question you, and you shall answer me. Would you discredit my justice? Would you condemn me to justify yourself? Do you have an arm like God s, and can your voice thunder like his? Then adorn yourself with glory and splendor, and clothe yourself in honor and majesty. Unleash the fury of your wrath, look at all who are proud and bring them low, Look at all who are proud and humble them, crush the wicked where they stand. Bury them all in the dust together; shroud their faces in the grave. Then I myself will admit to you that your own right hand can save you. (*NIV, Job 40:5-14) What God is telling Job is, "Do you really think that you have the power and the authority and the wisdom to be able to dole out justice in the world, to give judgment to the wicked, to bring blessing on the righteous? Do you really think you could do that, Job?" And the idea is: if you can, and 2

surely you can't, don't question my justice, which Job has been doing all along. And this leads, then, to the two lessons that God has for Job, and two lessons using two creatures. The first is Behemoth, beginning in verse 15 of chapter 40, God says: Look at Behemoth, which I made along with you and which feeds on grass like an ox. What strength it has in its loins, what power in the muscles of its belly! Its tail sways like a cedar; the sinews of its thighs are close-knit. Its bones are tubes of bronze, its limbs like rods of iron. It ranks first among the works of God, yet its Maker can approach it with his sword. The hills bring it their produce, and all the wild animals play nearby. Under the lotus plants it lies, hidden among the reeds in the marsh. The lotuses conceal it in their shadow; the poplars by the stream surround it. A raging river does not alarm it; it is secure, though the Jordan should surge against its mouth. Can anyone capture it by the eyes, or trap it and pierce its nose? (Vs. 15-24) Now there's been a lot of debate among people as to what this Behemoth creature is. Some have suggested, Oh it's a hippopotamus; others, Oh this is a dinosaur. I think it's neither, for reasons that we don't have time to go into now. I think Behemoth represents a land creature that is the strongest possible land creature that we could ever imagine. If we were to think, Okay, what's the strongest possible land creature we could think of? it would probably look something like Behemoth, and God is going to use this creature to teach Job a lesson. It's not a lesson on zoology; it's not a lesson about dinosaurs. It's, again, a more important lesson than that and I think the key to the lesson that Job is to learn from Behemoth comes in verse 23: A raging river does not alarm it; it is secure, though the Jordan should surge against its mouth. I think what God wants to teach Job, using Behemoth, is that Job, in the midst of his suffering, should stand firm and steadfast in the raging waters of his suffering, just as Behemoth stands steadfast and firm in the midst of raging waters. That's how Job should be. Instead of giving up on God, giving up on life, Job needs to continue to stand firm, despite what Job sees as senseless, unjustified suffering that makes no sense whatsoever. God says, "Job, I want you to be like Behemoth. Hey, don't worry so much about you being mistreated. Don't worry so much about making a case that you're righteous. Simply stand firm in the midst of this. And you might wonder, Well, how's Job supposed to do that, and we'll return to that question. But there's a second lesson God wants Job to learn from another creature, Leviathan. We find Leviathan in chapter 41. God says: 3

Can you pull in Leviathan with a fishhook or tie down its tongue with a rope? Can you put a cord through its nose or pierce its jaw with a hook? Will it keep begging you for mercy? Will it speak to you with gentle words? Will it make an agreement with you for you to take it as your slave for life? Can you make a pet of it like a bird or put it on a leash for the young women in your house? Will traders barter for it? Will they divide it up among the merchants? Can you fill its hide with harpoons or its head with fishing spears? If you lay a hand on it, you will remember the struggle and never do it again! Any hope of subduing it is false; the mere sight of it is overpowering. No one is fierce enough to rouse it. Who then is able to stand against me? Who has a claim against me that I must pay? Everything under heaven belongs to me. I will not fail to speak of Leviathan s limbs, its strength and its graceful form. Who can strip off its outer coat? Who can penetrate its double coat of armor? Who dares open the doors of its mouth, ringed about with fearsome teeth? Its back has rows of shields tightly sealed together; each is so close to the next that no air can pass between. They are joined fast to one another; they cling together and cannot be parted. Its snorting throws out flashes of light; its eyes are like the rays of dawn. Flames stream from its mouth; sparks of fire shoot out. Smoke pours from its nostrils as from a boiling pot over burning reeds. Its breath sets coals ablaze, and flames dart from its mouth. Strength resides in its neck; dismay goes before it. The folds of its flesh are tightly joined; they are firm and immovable. Its chest is hard as rock, hard as a lower millstone. 4

When it rises up, the mighty are terrified; they retreat before its thrashing. The sword that reaches it has no effect, nor does the spear or the dart or the javelin. Iron it treats like straw and bronze like rotten wood. Arrows do not make it flee; slingstones are like chaff to it. A club seems to it but a piece of straw; it laughs at the rattling of the lance. Its undersides are jagged potsherds, leaving a trail in the mud like a threshing sledge. It makes the depths churn like a boiling caldron and stirs up the sea like a pot of ointment. It leaves a glistening wake behind it; one would think the deep had white hair. Nothing on earth is its equal a creature without fear. It looks down on all that are haughty; it is king over all that are proud. (Vs. 1-34) So what is the lesson Job is to learn from Leviathan? Again, I think Leviathan is the sea equivalent of Behemoth. As Behemoth represents the greatest possible land creature we could imagine, I think Leviathan represents the greatest possible sea creature that we could imagine, and I think the key to the lesson Job is to learn from this daunting beast is in verse 10: No one is fierce enough to rouse it. Who then is able to stand against me? I think what God wants Job to learn from Leviathan is that Job should treat God like Job would treat Leviathan. And how would Job treat Leviathan? He would let him alone. He would not challenge Leviathan; he would not try to tame Leviathan. He would let Leviathan be Leviathan. There's no other option. I think what God is telling Job is, "Job, you need to treat me that way. You need to stop challenging me, thinking you could tame me, manipulate me into trying to explain myself, trying to explain my justice. You need to let me be me, Job, even when you don't understand. In the midst of your suffering, that makes no sense to you and you think you've been wronged but somehow, Job, you need to let me be me." And the question is, How is Job supposed to do that? God says, Look at Behemoth. I want you to be like Behemoth stand firm in the raging waters of your suffering and, during your suffering I want you to treat me like you'd treat Leviathan. Don't challenge me. Don't think you could tame me somehow. Let me be me. How? Because it looks like what God is telling Job is, "Job, I'm God. You're not. Shut up. Quit your whining and just live with it." But it's clear that's not what God is telling Job. There's a back story to this and I think the key to how Job is to stand firm like Behemoth and to treat God like he would treat Leviathan is found in chapter 28 in the book of Job. Now we don't have time to read that this morning. I'll leave you to do that. But the whole point of chapter 28 which is an interlude, actually the words of the author, I think, and not Job is to point out the fact that while humans search the world and try to figure out how the world works, one thing that they can never discover is true wisdom. Wisdom can only be found in God. God is the one who possesses wisdom. Only he knows how the world works and how to operate the world. And, in fact, God runs the world on the basis of his wisdom, not so much his justice. Wisdom is the overriding factor, and the way Job is going to be able to stand firm like Behemoth, the way Job is going to be able to treat God like he would treat Leviathan 5

is to trust in God's wisdom that God knows what he's doing. Job's suffering hasn't come about randomly. Job's suffering hasn't come about because God somehow wasn't watching at the proper time and has messed up and caught him by surprise. God knows what he's doing, even if Job doesn't understand it, and even if God were to explain it to Job, Job still probably wouldn't get it. So it's Job being able to trust in God's wisdom. But I think there's something else. It's the fact that Job has a history of knowing who God is. He knows that God is good. He knows that God is loving, and part of the problem Job has is his prior knowledge of who God is. He has certain expectations, but because Job knows who God is, God thinks Job ought to be able, then, to stand firm, to be able to trust God his wisdom, his goodness, his love. And so Job is asked by God to stand firm in the midst of his suffering like Behemoth and to treat God like he'd treat Leviathan not challenge God, not try to tame him even though Job doesn't know why he's suffering and never did. Even though Job can't make sense of it, I think those lessons that Job learned are lessons that we need to learn. Because, as I mentioned, we're heading into a new year, and we all hope it's going to be the best year but, again, we don't know that. We have no guarantees, and so the question is: when we encounter suffering, how are we going to respond? Can we stand firm like Behemoth in the midst of the raging waters of suffering, even when we can't understand and we don't know what God's up to? Can I still trust that God's ways are the best ways and that he's wise enough to figure out how this world operates and what is best for all? Or, am I going to turn from God, be so angry with him that I want nothing more to do with him, or abandon life itself because it's too much? Or can I trust him and his wisdom for the strength to endure? During those times, will I be able to let God be God, and not question his justice, demand that he give me an explanation, or try to manipulate him into justifying himself? Or can I simply let God be God because I trust in his wisdom, that he is wise; he knows what he's doing. That is going to require that I have a relationship with him. Think: the people that you trust the most are the people you know the best. Well, it's the same with God. I can only trust God as far as I know who he is and am confident that he does care for me, that he is wise; he does know what he's doing. The apostle Paul, in Romans 11, writes what I think meshes well with the book of Job and the message of the book of Job. At the end of Romans 11, beginning in verse 33, Paul says: Oh, the depth of the riches of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable his judgments, and his paths beyond tracing out! Who has known the mind of the Lord? Or who has been his counselor? Who has ever given to God, that God should repay them? For from him and through him and for him are all things. To him be the glory forever! Amen. (Romans 11:33-36) Can we trust this God whose wisdom is so deep we can't even fathom it; we can't understand it? Can we trust God in the midst of our suffering, even when it doesn't make sense? That's what God asked Job to do, and I think that's what God asks us to do. We may never know why we suffer, but we know who is in control when we do. And can I let God be God and trust in his wisdom? There is a young woman in Britain whose name is Tanya Marlow, and I think that Tanya exemplifies a person that, again, can stand, and has stood, and is standing like Behemoth in the face 6

of the raging waters of suffering. And I think she's gotten to the place where she can let God be God and realize that the only thing that she has is to trust in him, trust in his wisdom. Tanya used to be an instructor in biblical theology, where she taught students to be able to teach the Bible and train others. But that was until she was diagnosed with myalgic encephalomylitis, or ME, which is a neurological disorder that leaves her chronically fatigued. So she must spend probably 21-22 hours a day in her bed. She simply doesn't have the energy. She can only walk a few paces before her legs give out. She can no longer cook, play with her children in the park, go for walks, do the things that she wants to do...can't go to church. Luckily, once every two weeks, maybe, she's able to get out of the house in a wheelchair for just a little bit. She's able, a couple of times a week, to have acquaintances or friends come by, just for a short visit. It's too taxing for her. She also suffers bouts of severe pain that she has to simply endure and, unless God somehow heals her, this will be her condition until she dies. And I want to, in just a second, show you a video clip of an interview with Tanya, so you can hear some of her faith journey in this. But what I find interesting is, at the very end, she says that her only choice is to go through this with God. And I think Tanya is a good example of someone who stands firm, like Behemoth, in the midst of those raging waters, and ultimately lets God be God and treats him like she would treat Leviathan. I'd like you to hear Tanya's story. (Interviewer): I'm just wondering what the impact of such, kind of intense and long-lasting pain and struggle has been at this stage? (Tanya): Well, before I was this ill, I was a Bible teacher and so I could lecture quite happily on suffering and God and how it all fit together. But when you're going through something yourself, you can know theology, but then there's heart theology and, for me, the thing that was most hard, was because there is this Christian myth that when you are suffering, God is somehow more present or closer to you, or you become more holy in some way, and that kind of justifies the amount of suffering. And so I felt very awkward about the fact that when I was going through the hardest time of my life, God was silent. I was pretty unholy, (laughter) for it's really hard to be anything but angry and irritable when you're in a lot of pain. It's just hard. And so I was kind of like, going, I don't know what's going to happen to me, and I want God to be here, but God is silent, and what do I do with that? And it was worse, just the worst point was just after I gave birth. So I was going through labor and that kind of pushed my ME into this very severe stage. And so after I gave birth, I woke up with a new baby and a new disability. I couldn't walk; I couldn't even stand in the very early days. I couldn't pick up my baby. I couldn't change his nappy. So, for months I was in bed, just looking up at the ceiling, too exhausted to speak to anyone for more than 30 minutes per day, just having my baby to feed and then hour after hour looking up at this beige ceiling, the same color, everyday, nothing to do. It's just endless time going on and on and I was like, I don t know if I can do this. I just don't know if I can even survive this. I had this newborn baby who I loved and would have done anything for, and then something in me snapped and I said to God, If I have the power to stop my baby suffering from the way I am now suffering, I would do it, and you have the power and you're not! How are you my parent? How are you demonstrating love for me in this? And I'm not the kind to suffer in silence. (laughter) I got mad at God, and I kind of raged and wrestled and I ranted at people, and I think I'm still in that crisis of wrestling in many ways. But there are two things that really helped. The first was looking at the Bible again with this fresh perspective, and discovering there were so many heroes of God who wrestled similarly, who really, really struggled in their faith or with 7

suffering. And the fact that so many pages are devoted to that in the Bible gives me hope; it gives me permission, to say, I'm not okay with this, and, God, I'm going to you with the questions, because this doesn't add up. So I think having permission and that space was huge, and with those questions we often underestimate the length of time it takes to begin to process and cope with a loss or a suffering like this. And so we don't want to rush too quickly to say, Hey, just trust God! for then we fail Christians, and I think there are a lot of people who walk away from their faith just because they have no space for that in-between moment, that lament we see so much of in the Psalms and in Job. And the second thing that really helped me was, I was listening to Kay Warren talk about her son's suicide and I don't know if you heard the talk but it was really good and at one point she says, Suffering will come because suffering will come because suffering will come. You can't escape suffering. You can't wish it away. So do you want, in that midst of suffering, do you want to be with God, or do you want to do it without God? And for me that was the choice. You know, I wanted to go and to fix things, but in the face of him not fixing things, I had to say, Okay, am I'm going to do this alone or am I going to do this with God? And I felt just like the disciples who say, Well, where would we go? You have the words of eternal life. You know, I've got to do this with you and, yeah, what else can you do? Scripture taken from the THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION NIV Copyright 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide Copyright 2017 - Mark Mathewson. All rights reserved 8