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Preface Disciple Making in Transient Communities The world is on the move! Millions of people are moving at any given time in a multitude of directions. In today s fast- paced world of globalization, not even national boundaries slow people down. According to UN statistics, more than 200 million people were living outside of their home country in 2010. The world is increasingly on the move as international companies form in increasing numbers, as relationships between nations demand larger embassy staff, as military personnel and their families are stationed in overseas postings, as graduate students seek higher education at international universities, and as migrants and refugees seek better living conditions across national borders. No one knows for certain exactly how many millions of expats are moving around the world today, but the increasing numbers present tremendous opportunities and challenging implications for those who minister to expats in international congregations. These global people living in local areas or glocal communities are unique congregations serving a unique people group. These international churches function primarily in the English language and have the majority of their people from other countries. International churches have two main distinctives. They are very international (multi- cultural) and most of their members are transient. Transient members typically know when they arrive that they will be in that city for a short period of time. They know they are not permanent residents and they know it from the beginning. There is a distinct sense of the temporary. They are sojourners. This transient reality of the international church presents challenging implications in every area of church life and in every task of the church s mission. One international pastor put it this way, It is like pastoring a parade! It is imperative that disciple making endeavors be approached with the transient nature of the international church in mind. It is critical that those who minister in international settings understand the need for contextually appropriate approaches to disciple making in transient communities. Those ministering in international settings must learn to disciple the moving target. 1

Reproducible Disciple Making It s all about Experiencing Jesus! The goal of this guide is to: 1. Provide a process and tools for disciple making with the transient nature of the international church in mind. 2. Equip disciple makers to experience joy in making disciples. 3. Empower all of us, regardless of personality, gifts, or experience with an effective way of disciple making that is less leader centric, more life- giving, more reproducible, so we can see God's Kingdom expand. Contents: 1. The Essence of Disciple Making 2. Three Core Values of Disciple Making 3. Disciple Making Stages 4. What do we do in the weekly meeting? 5. What do we do during the week? 6. Practices for Experiencing Jesus 7. What is the content we use? Then Jesus came to them and said, All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age. Matthew 28:18-20 2

1 The Essence of Disciple Making Disciple making is making disciples of Jesus...who in turn make disciples. OK, that s obvious when we think about it, but helping people really connect with Jesus often tends to be overshadowed by a list of tasks to be fulfilled - reading scripture, praying to Jesus, pursuing fellowship and accountability, sharing our faith, and so on. Jesus himself modeled discipleship for us. He was discipled by His Father. He awakens me morning by morning. He awakens my ear to listen as a disciple (Isaiah 50:4, 5). I do nothing on my own initiative, but I speak these things as the Father taught me (John 8:28). If we are to be discipled by Jesus then our primary goal is to learn how to hear and respond to Him. Whether we are reading Scripture, walking with other believers or sharing our faith, we need to be open to the instruction of the Holy Spirit who has been given as our Helper to lead us into all truth. Dependence on him is even necessary if we are to pray effectively (Romans 8:26). And, of course, praying itself is severely limited and soon becomes robbed of enjoyment if we are not listening to him and entering into dialogue with him so he can guide and encourage us. Disciple makers all too often find they are weighed down and drained by trying to give the disciples the answers and help they need. Now of course, patience and endurance are often required in coming alongside someone and helping them grow in Christ. The problem is that disciple makers often cultivate, maybe unwittingly, a dependence on themselves as source instead of dependence on Jesus. What a relief it is for disciple makers to recognize the radical difference! 3

From the outset, a disciple should learn they can turn to Jesus, ask Him about anything and receive what He has for them. They can bring Him their burdens, difficulties, problems, pain and get help, encouragement, wisdom and freedom directly from the One who knows and understands them like no other. Disciple makers are only effective to the degree that they point others to Jesus and help them engage with him! Sadly, it is all too common for disciples to become so dependent on the disciple maker that they are at a loss when they find themselves in a situation where they no longer have access to their help and encouragement. They have not experienced the reality of deep relationship with Jesus. They have not cultivated a lifestyle of enjoyable intimacy with him that meets the deepest needs of their hearts. Modeling and leading disciples to enter into a simple two- way conversation with God builds confidence in turning to him as their Father, Comforter, Shepherd, Teacher, Guide, Healer, Deliverer and closest Friend. Impediments to our growth in Christ will be revealed and overcome as we come to the Wonderful Counselor. The disciple is not limited to the strengths or weaknesses of the disciple maker but is able to access the unlimited counsel of God! This is why every disciple maker should learn how to facilitate the disciple s connection with the Father. How do we engage in disciple making? While there are many different ways to progress in disciple making this guide describes a basic, reproducible model that will help every disciple walk more closely with Jesus while learning to be a disciple maker himself or herself. This model is designed with groups of three people in mind (but has a broader application as well) and provides a process aimed at helping the disciples experience Jesus more personally. 4

2 Three Core Values of Disciple Making Disciple making is most effective when it is Jesus- centered. Then Jesus came to them and said, All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age. (Matthew 28:18-20) But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth. (Acts 1:8) I want to know Christ yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death (Philippians 3:10) God made us for relationship, so our priority in disciple making is to help the disciple experience Jesus more intimately. He wants us to walk with Him, to learn to hear His voice and to follow Him in obedience. We can facilitate this by resisting the urge to talk too much and provide all the answers. Put Jesus in the center by letting the disciple discover answers to their questions in the Word and by learning to discern the Holy Spirit's leading. This is where life is! Disciple making must not revolve around the disciple maker's personality, gifts, or experience. If it does, we will inadvertently make the disciple dependent upon the disciple maker rather than Jesus. 5

To have a life- giving experience centered on Jesus, keep the words of John the Baptist in mind: "He must become greater, I must become less." John 3:30 Disciple making is most effective when we leave footprints to follow. The things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others." (2 Timothy 2:2) One of the goals in disciple making is for the disciple to become a disciple maker. Therefore, discipleship should be done in a way that leaves footprints behind so they can learn to disciple others. This is why a flow to our discipleship meeting time is important. It's Jesus- centered and gives the disciple maker a pattern they can use with others. Disciple making is most effective when it has a kingdom vision. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. (Matthew 6:33) And this gospel of the kingdom will be preached in the whole world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come. (Matthew 24:14) Discipleship is Jesus' way of expanding his kingdom. Therefore, it must be centered on what Jesus is doing in the world: reconciling people to God and bringing them into the church. Discipleship that focuses on God's expanding kingdom develops people who impact their sphere of relationships and stirs passion in the hearts of Christ followers for all nations. 6

The goal in discipleship is transformation, pure and simple. We want to become more like Jesus so we can help others become more like Jesus and experience him more fully. When we align ourselves with what Jesus is doing in the world, we can be sure that we will be amazed by the ways he shows up. A common misunderstanding of discipleship is that the goal is just more knowledge. Often people view completing a book as the finish line. Nothing could be further from reality. It's all about experiencing Jesus and becoming a disciple maker. What's expected of the one being discipled? Letting the disciple know what to expect in discipleship helps to avoid misunderstanding and to promote success. Some of the basic expectations of the disciple(s) and disciple maker are: We will spend daily time in the Word and commit to obey what the Lord says. We will make a weekly discipleship meeting a priority in our schedule. We will learn certain skills such as how to share our faith story and the gospel We will keep a consistent journal. We will learn how to become a disciple maker. There are certainly other things that we could add to the list, but the point is for the disciple to see discipleship as an intentional relationship. Disciple someone who is ready for discipleship. Minister to someone who needs ministry. Some people are ready for the intentionality of discipleship while others may be in a season where they need more freedom or ministry. For example, for a person going through a divorce or one who has recently lost a loved one, intentional discipleship may feel like pressure. What this person may need in this particular season is prayer ministry, counseling, or simply a friend who listens. While discipleship will always include a pursuit of freedom, it's important to differentiate between someone who is ready for discipleship and someone who may need ministry or freedom as their current priority. 7

3 Disciple Making Stages As an Equipper and Discipler, your role is to: 1. Encourage the disciple to deepen their intimacy with Jesus. 2. Coach in weak areas and celebrate growth in key indicators. 3. Guide them in navigating their transition between stages of their spiritual growth from a child, to a young man, and finally to a spiritual father or mother. (1 John 2:12-14) 3 Stages of Disciple Making: 1. Establishing: Learning to follow Jesus closely 2. Maturing: Growing deeply rooted in Jesus love and truth 3. Multiplying: Bearing fruit and reproducing Jesus life to another "Now, just as you accepted Christ Jesus as your Lord, you must continue to follow him. Let your roots grow down into him, and let your lives be built on him. Then your faith will grow strong in the truth you were taught, and you will overflow with thankfulness. (Colossians 2:6-7) Stage 1: Establishing (2-3 months) Indicators of Progress Getting to know each other, sharing your stories, personality, gifts, perceptions/understanding of God the Father, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit Commitment and meeting discipling expectations Envisioning the priority of disciple making Consistent meeting flow weekly Praying for who God might have you to disciple Growing in ability to hear God and obey Him more and more regularly. Not perfection, but steps of progress. 8

Stage 2: Engaging (8-10 months) Indicators of Progress Identifying possible soul strongholds, struggles, and hindrances to intimacy with Jesus Consistently sharing spiritual growth and impact More between meeting contact Rotate leading the weekly meeting using the flow and adhering to values Scripture Memory Learning to share your story and God s story Regularly sharing stories of how God is including you in what He s doing On- going embracing the role of disciple- maker and equipper Praying for who to disciple Stage 3: Multiplying (2-3 months) Indicators of Progress Displaying spiritual fruit from Galatians 5 Regularly sharing stories of giving, serving, sharing and ministering both in the life of the church and in their natural relationships On- going embracing the role of disciple- maker and equipper Identifying potential people to disciple. 9

4 What do we do in the weekly meeting? It's all about experiencing Jesus. C.A.L.L.E.D. is a reproducible strategy for disciple making. It describes both a flow for the actual discipleship meeting and also the ultimate goal of discipleship: to become a disciple maker. The first four letters describe the flow and the last two describe your role and goal. C = Celebrate Start with celebrating what the Lord has done in you or through you. Everyone share something good the Lord has done during the past week something He s teaching you, included you in, shown you. (Pray after sharing to praise the Lord.) Luke 1:58 Her neighbors and relatives heard that the Lord had shown her great mercy, and they shared her joy. Luke 15:22 But the father said to his servants, Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Philippians 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! A = Accountability The goal of accountability is to encourage the disciple as they strive to be faithful to what they've heard the Lord tell them to obey. Each week the disciple will determine how God is calling them to respond to his Word. (Pray after sharing to encourage one another.) James 5:16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective. Hebrews 10:23-25 Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful. And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another and all the more as you see the Day approaching. 10

Accountability time covers any area in which the disciple has stated they are seeking to grow. (Purity, discipline, forgiving someone, being more disciplined in daily devotional time, etc.) It also covers "wrong thinking" or lies with which the disciple might be wrestling. L = Learn It This is the time we're actually in the Word together using a simple inductive process called a Discovery Bible Study. This approach is good at helping the disciple learn to hear God's voice and obey. Everything hinges on these two because discipleship is all about knowing Jesus more and following Him in obedience. 2 Timothy 2:15 Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 All Scripture is God- breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work. L = Live It This is where the disciple learns to be still and wait, listening to discern the Spirit's leading. This is the most important part of the process so don't rush it. The disciple will listen to the Lord and write down what he hears God speaking to his heart, ultimately writing down a specific way in which they are to obey the Lord. John 14:15 If you love me, keep my commands. Luke 11:28 He replied, Blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and obey it. 11

E = Equipper Your role is to be an equipper. We want to equip them with experiences, skills, and tools for their journey with Jesus and their journey of discipling others. You ll be furnishing them with skills like sharing their faith story and sharing the Gospel. You ll equip them with strategies and a perspective for them to disciple others. In everything we do, we are pointing them to Jesus and His Word helping them experience Jesus personally. We're not looking to be the "answer man" for all the disciple's questions. You don t need to become their counselor (they actually have a better one living inside of them!) But you are leading them to practical tools, skills and experiences that are fundamental to learning how to follow Jesus closely for a lifetime. D = Discipler Your role as discipler is to come alongside the other person in a life on life relationship. Regularly encouraging and spurring the disciple to keep growing and seeking to become more like Jesus. Be their greatest cheerleader as you walk with them through the ups and downs of life as they follow Jesus. Even as we are helping the disciple to experience Jesus more personally, we are equipping them to do the same thing with someone else. We are teaching them how to be a disciple maker. When they start discipling someone else they'll grow at an even faster rate themselves. Remind them regularly of the goal of becoming a disciple maker. Don t forget that discipleship is a team effort. You have resources to tap into in your journey with them as issues and obstacles in their life surface. There are lots of resources available. 12

5 What do we do during the week? It's all about experiencing Jesus 1. Experiencing Jesus in the Word. Encourage the disciple to: Have a personal devotional time each day using the principles of Learn It and Live It. The goal is to learn to hear God's voice and to obey it. Keep a listening journal where they can record what they hear from the Lord. Practice memorizing scripture. 2. Experiencing Jesus in the World. Encourage the disciple to: Prayer, Care, Share Pray the Include Me Prayer. Wherever, whenever, with whomever, ask the Lord, "Would you include me in what you're doing?" 3. Experiencing Jesus in the Family. (Physical and Spiritual Family) Encourage the disciple to: Hear the Lord for the sake of blessing others. (1 Corinthians 14:3-4) Use their spiritual gifts to bless others. (1 Corinthians 12-13) Grow in the way of love. (1 Corinthians 12-14) 13

6 Practices for Experiencing Jesus Discovery Bible Study For years many missionaries have been using a simple approach to Bible study through which anyone can be successful. It works well with new believers and more experienced ones. 1. Pray first and ask the Holy Spirit to speak as you read the selected scripture passage silently several times through and to guide you as you study the Word together. Feel free to use different translations. 2. Discovery Questions: Discuss these together. Observation What does it say? Interpretation What does it mean? Application What do I do with it? A few great discovery questions to ask: What happens in this passage? What does this passage tell us about God? What does this passage tell us about people? 14

Be attentive to help the disciple stay on this passage only and focus word by word. Don t get side tracked with this reminds me of... or other things that take up time instead of allowing the Word to speak and what the Spirit is teaching here. Slow down each word of scripture is significant. Hearing God Speak and Journaling After spending time in the Word, have the disciple be still before the Lord asking, "What does faithfulness look like for me in response to this passage, Lord?" The Lord will always impress upon them something about himself, about them, or about someone else. A few great application questions to ask Is the Holy Spirit pointing out a truth to embrace or a lie to reject? Is the Holy Spirit identifying something to do or stop doing? Is the Holy Spirit bringing to mind someone to love or to forgive? Encourage the disciple to test what they hear. Does it align with God s Word? (2 Timothy 3:16 All Scripture is God- breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness) Does it align with God s character? (Psalm 103:8 The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love.) Is it constructive and never condemning? (Romans 8:1 Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus) Does it align with the spirit of God s people? (Proverbs 12:15 The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice.) The active ingredient in a devotional time is faithful obedience. A good way to start is to have the disciple write an "I will" statement in their journal that expresses to the Lord how they will respond to his leading. This will form the basis for your accountability next time you meet. Progress is difficult without this. 15

A journal is critical! We use a journal to write down scriptural observations, prayers, and reflections. It's a great place to record times that God has shown up in our lives. We also write down insights that come to us during the day or in our discipleship meeting. We can use it to write discipleship assignments. A journal can be as simple as a spiral bound notebook. Journaling isn't writing down my thoughts, like "Dear, Diary..." It is more of listening journal for recording what God speaks to you. Prayer, Care, Share: A powerful practice for giving God room in your life. Prayer: When we pray, we open up a door for the Holy Spirit to work in our relationships (our personal sphere of influence.) Ask the Lord to bring to mind five people and begin praying for the Lord to bless them. Beyond praying for those you ve identified, wherever you go, ask the Lord, "Will you include me in what you're doing?" The Include Me Prayer is powerful and one Jesus loves to answer. A great way to pray BLESSings for others. Body pray for their physical well being Labor pray for their employment and financial health Emotional pray for their emotional health joy, peace, happiness, etc. Social - pray for their social health family, friends, relationships Spiritual pray for their spiritual health relationship with God Care: Look for ways to care for the needs of people, especially the specific people for whom you're praying. For example, if your neighbor had a baby, bake them a casserole. If your coworker is working late, get them a cup of coffee. Genuinely caring is rare and reveals that the other person is important to you. 16

Share: When we pray and care for people, they almost always open up about their lives, often revealing a concern or problem they have. When they do, we have the opportunity to share with them. Maybe we pray for them briefly right then. Perhaps we share our personal experience and how Jesus met us. Or maybe we get to encourage them with something from God's Word. God will make these opportunities obvious to us if we've been praying and caring. Intentional Conversations Help the disciple learn to hear and follow the Holy Spirit to intentionally lead conversations toward opportunities to share truth. Good questions are key to guiding the conversation. Casual Significant Intentional Conversations Gospel/Truth Spiritual Learn to Share Your Story While we can always tell the long version of our spiritual journey, learning a short version is really important. Develop a 90- second (100 words or less) faith story using these three themes: 1. What was life like before I knew Jesus? 2. How did I come to know Jesus? 3. What is life like now that I follow Jesus? 17

Avoid church words or phrases that people might not understand. Be real and vulnerable. Practice sharing your faith story and learn to tell it well. Learn to Share His Story Every disciple needs to know how to use the Bible to show someone else the good news about Jesus' love and forgiveness. There are numerous tools and approaches to sharing God s story available to us. Check out the great resources provided by Cru at www.cru.org and the Navigators at www.navigators.org. One- Verse Evangelism a simple illustration and explanation using Romans 6:23 The Four Spiritual Principles to Knowing God Four simple principles to explain how someone can personally begin a relationship with God, through Jesus Christ The Bridge Illustration a simple explanation and illustration of the gospel story Scripture Memory As you start to memorize a verse Read in your Bible the context of each verse you memorize. Read the verse through several times thoughtfully, aloud or in a whisper. Discuss the verse with God in prayer, and seek His help to memorize it. While you are memorizing the verse Work on saying the verse aloud as much as possible. Learn the first phrase of the verse. Once you have learned the topic, reference, and the first phrase and have repeated them several times, continue adding more phrases after you can quote correctly what you have already learned. Think about how the verse applies to you and your daily circumstances. After you can quote correctly the topic, reference, verse, and reference again Writing the verse out can be helpful. This deepens the impression in your mind. Find a friend to check you on the verse. Better yet, memorize together! 18

Review the verse immediately after learning it, and repeat it frequently in the next few days. This is crucial for fixing the verse firmly in your mind because of the tendency to forget something recently learned. Spiritual First Aid The Freedom Path Psalm 139:23-24: Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life. 1. Recognize the bad fruit (anger, fear, shame, etc.) appearing in your life. 2. Ask God to reveal which wound, lie, or sin is the root feeding the bad fruit. 3. Repent through forgiving, confessing sin, or renouncing lies. 4. Receive a blessing from Jesus. Ask, Jesus, is there something you want to give me in exchange for what s been removed? 5. Walk in victory. Ask, Lord, is there something I need to change in my life to guard my freedom? WOUNDS: (FORGIVE AND BLESS) Matthew 18:21-22: Then Peter came to him and asked, Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times? No, not seven times, Jesus replied, but seventy times seven! 1. Count the debt: Jesus, <name> owed me <list the offenses/sin against you>. 2. Get Jesus perspective: Jesus, how do you see <name> and what they did to me? 3. Cancel the debt: In the name of Jesus, I choose to forgive <name> and cancel their debt to me. 4. Bless the forgiven: Lord, I bless <name> in your name. Will you show <name> how much you love them? 19

LIES: (RENOUNCE AND BELIEVE) John 8:31-32: To those who had believed him, Jesus said, If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. 1. Reveal the lie: Lord, what am I believing that makes me feel <bad fruit>? 2. Receive the truth: Lord, if the lie is <name the lie>, what do you say is true? 3. Renounce the lie: In the name of Jesus, I renounce my belief that <name the lie> and how I have lived according to that belief. 4. Declare your allegiance to the truth: I declare and receive the truth that <name the truth>. SIN: (CONFESS AND REPENT) 1 John 1:9: If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. 1. Reveal the sin: God, is there any place in my life that is not yielded to your authority? 2. Confess the sin: Jesus I ask your forgiveness for all the ways <name sin> has affected my life. 3. Repent from the sin: I commit myself to breaking <name sin> out of my life, turning from it and turning to Your ways. 4. Receive the blessing: I ask You, God, to fill the empty, clean places with blessing, grace and righteousness. 20

7 What content do we use? While there is value in the many books and resources out there, we seek to focus on the transformational power of God s Word, God s Spirit, and God s People. Therefore, we want to stick with the scriptures as our content and allow other resources to be secondary. Here are some pathways for utilizing the Bible in your disciple making: 1. Stories/Parables 2. New Believer 3. Foundational Themes 4. Books of the Bible 5. Sermon Based Stories/Parables These are good to use to explore Jesus and learn about who He is (See the Discovery Bible Study- Section 6). Use the stories or parables below as well as study through some of the Gospel accounts: Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. 1. John 1: Good place to describe Jesus 2. Luke 7:36-50: Simon the Pharisee and the Sinful Woman 3. Luke 18:9-14: A Tax Collector and a Pharisee 4. Matthew 18:21-35: Parable of the Merciful King 5. John 4:4-42: Woman at the Well 6. Luke 24:13-35: Road to Emmaus 7. Luke 19:1-10: Story of Zacchaeus 8. John 3:1-12: Story of Nicodemus 9. Mark 4:1-20: Parable of the Soils 10. Matthew 16:13-27, Romans 10:9-10: Decision Lesson 21

New Believer To start with a new believer, it is important to help them understand their new identity, purpose and belonging. We suggest using one of these targeted resources that speak right to this fresh place. It is important for you as the disciple maker to help them grow not only in knowledge of these new truths, but also in the relational closeness of walking with Jesus hearing and obeying. Suggested supplemental resource: Beginning the Journey: Entering the Kingdom of God by Ralph Neighbour- 5 weeks (Mentor guide in the back of the book) Books of the Bible 1. Choose a Book of the Bible and read through it together during the week. 2. Choose a chapter or two for the week and read through to really focus deeply. Sermon Based This approach seeks to bridge the gap between the sermon and the disciple group. The intent is to not diverge from the pastor s main point; instead, they look at the same text or theme they heard, except this time in a posture of discussion. Open the Bible. Read the text. Again. In an environment where the Spirit of God can use the Word of God in the lives of the people of God. 22

Foundational Themes As you have therefore received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him, rooted and built up in Him and established in the faith, as you have been taught, abounding in it with thanksgiving. Col. 2:6-7 THEME SCRIPTURE RESOURCE 1. Walk in My Identity in I John 3:1, Eph. 2:1-10, I Thess. 5:23, John 5:24, Rom. Christ 5:1, 2 Cor. 7:1, John 17:3, Gal. 4:4-7, Rom. 8:14-17, Gal.2:20, I John 5:11-13 2. Walk in fellowship with the Father - Gen. 1-3, Ps. 103-105, Ps. 139, Isa. 40:11, I Triune God John 4:7-19, Ex. 33:12-23, I Kings 19:11-12, Matt. 3:16-17 Son- Isa. 53, John 1, Col. 1:14-28, Heb. 1:1-3, Eph. 1:19-22, Eph. 2:18 Spirit- John 16:7-16, I Cor. 2:9-16, Rom. 8:25-26, Acts 1:8, Titus 3:3-7, Gal. 5:16-25 3. Walk with Jesus Luke 24:13-35, Rom. 12:1-2, Ps. 103, 145, Matt. 6:5-16, John 17:9-19, James 5:13-16, Eph. 3:14-21, I John 1:3-10 4. Walk in Mission Matt. 28:18-20, Acts 1:8, Luke 5:1-11, John 17:17-26, 2 Cor. 5:15-21, 2 Tim. 2:2-7, Matt. 9:35-38, Matt. 16:24-28 5. Walk in the Kingdom of Matt 24, Daniel 4:34-37, Matt. 6:33, Matt. 5:1-12, God Luke 10:1-11, John 15, Matt. 13:31-46, Isa. 55:8-12. Ps. 145:3-21 6. Walk in Power Luke 3:21-22, John 14:15-17, 25-27, John 15, John 16:7-15, Acts 1:8, Eph. 5:18, Eph. 4:30, Acts 2:1-20, Acts 4:29-33 7. Walk in Freedom Gal. 5:1, John 8:31-36, Gal. 4:21-31, 2 Cor. 3:16-18, Romans 6, Romans 8:1-4, Isa. 61:1, Eph. 3:12, I Peter 2:16-17 8. Walk in Truth 1 Pet. 1:21-25, 2 Pet. 1:19-21, 2 Tim. 3:16-17, Heb. 4:12, John 17:13-19, John 8:31-36, Ps. 19, Prov. 2:1-12, John 14:6, John 8:43-47, Mark 4:1-20, 3 John 4 Experiencing God Henry Blackaby The Bondage Breaker or Walking in Freedom Neal Anderson 23

9. Walk in Trust Heb. 11, Prov. 3:5-6, Ps. 103:8-14, Eph. 1:4-5, Lam. 3:22-23, Rom. 8:38-39, Joshua 1:9, Isa. 43:1-7 10. Walk in Victory I Cor. 10:13, I John 4:4, Isa. 14:12-15, I Peter 5:8-9,James 4:6-8, 2 Cor. 10:3-5, Eph. 4:17-24, Eph. 6:10-20, Rom. 8:30-39, Matt. 4:1-11, Rev. 3:20-22 11. Walk in Community Acts 2:42-47, Heb. 10:22-25, Eph. 2:19-22, Eph. 4:10-16, I Cor. 14:3, 26, Col. 3:13-16, Rom. 12:1-6, I Cor. 12:12-27, I Peter 2:9-10 12. Walk in Stewardship Matt. 6:19-30, Matt. 19:16-24, Matt. 25:14-30, Mark 8:34-38, Ps. 90:12, Ps. 127:1-5, I Tim. 6:6-10, James 4:13-17, Eph. 5:1-10 Victory Over the Darkness Neal Anderson Financial Peace University Dave Ramsey 24