The Monthly Newsletter of Phinney Ridge Lutheran Church 7500 Greenwood Avenue North A Reconciling in Christ Seattle, Washington 98103 Congregation 206.783.2350 www.prlc.org Volume 64, Issue Ten December 2017
In the Family Newly Married Matt Langston and Frances Hammond, married November 10, 2017 Recently Born Flynn Owen Roby, boy; born November 25, 2017 to parents Becky and David Roby Faithful Departed Margaret Pedersen, died November 5, 2017 Elaine Kirsten, died November 12, 2017 Lois Stettner, died November 21, 2017 Circles in December And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host, praising God and saying, Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace among those whom he favors! (Luke 2:13-14) Both circles will study the Christmas story as it is recorded in Luke, chapter 2. Bethany Circle will meet Dec. 11 at 10:30 (note time change) at Judy Smith s home. Bible study will be followed by a potluck lunch. Salem Circle will meet Dec. 20 at 10:00 at Ilse Bolliger s home for Bible study and singing around the lighted tree. Our annual Christmas lunch will follow at Queen Mary Tea Room, 2912 NE 55th St. 2 26th Annual Nativity Exhibit Presented by Nativity Exhibit NW Celebrate Advent! Enjoy our exhibit of nearly 500 nativities created by artists from over 112 countries and territories around the world. Friday Dec. 1, 2017 10:00am 7:00pm Saturday Dec. 2, 2017 10:00am 7:00pm Sunday Dec. 3, 2017 9:00am 1:00pm Admission is free. Venue is wheelchair accessible. Messiah Lutheran Church 7050 35th Ave. NE, Seattle 98115 Phinney Ridge Lutheran Church 7500 Greenwood Avenue North Seattle, WA 98103 206-783-2350 www.prlc.org As people made one in the waters of baptism, we believe our lives and faith are strengthened by diversity. We strive to be a community that welcomes people of every ability, age, citizenship status, ethnicity, gender identity and expression, language, life circumstance, marital status, political perspective, race, and sexual orientation. Whether you are a believer, doubter, or seeker, we openly welcome and value you. We celebrate God s unconditional love and respond joyfully to your presence here. All are welcome. You are welcome. Bryon Hansen Pastor pastor@prlc.org Anne Van Kley Associate Pastor associatepastor@prlc.org Kirsten Olshausen Parish Administrator administrator@prlc.org Patrick Meagher Minister of Outreach outreach@prlc.org Nancy Monelli Children and Family Minister children@prlc.org Tim Sullivan Child Development Center Director cdc@prlc.org Christina Bogar Parish Communications and Office Manager office@prlc.org Church Staff Pam Gompf Vicar vicar@prlc.org Valerie Shields Organist Beth Ann Bonnecroy Chancel and Handbell Choirs Director Evelyn Hartwell Children s Choir Director Diane Figaro Youth Choir and Gospel Choir Director Molly Chrisman Angel Choir Dallas Cooper Anthony Nelson Custodians Cally Nelson Vanessa Unti Jannah Fitch Nursery Attendants Bryant Williams LYONS Director lyonsdirector@roaringlyons.org Sunday Worship Schedule Holy Communion at 8:30 a.m. and 11:00 a.m. Church Office Hours: Monday-Thursday 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. Friday 8:30 a.m. to 12:00 p.m.
The Monelli Memo Children and Family Ministries People get ready! Advent begins on Sunday, December 3. Are you already stressed, overbooked, or worried? If you have a job and children and extended family, this time of year can be difficult. But I hope you will take heart and follow the lead of the church (and our children) by taking time to take stock, rest and pray, and respond to all around you with joy. Sunday mornings can be islands of peace and renewal during this busy time of year in addition to helping us all keep everything in perspective yes, it really is about Jesus. And even though schools and extracurricular programs all seem to cram every possible concert, tournament, and more into these few short weeks, is that really such a burden? Remember, your children are only young for a very short period of time, so find other activities to give up (like cleaning the parts of your home no guest will ever see or baking every cookie your grandmother made) and enjoying these events with your kids. So, as we are all called to get ready during this Advent season, let s do so by grounding ourselves in the knowledge of God s love and the willingness to share that love with one another. For His Sake, Nancy People Get Ready The Advent Event Sunday, December 3, 2017 10:00am in Fellowship Hall We will begin this event with a brief presentation for everyone in the Tree of Life room. Then, 7th and 8th grade students will retire to the Teen Room for activities and projects with their mentors; 6th grade confirmation students will go to the kitchen for their Advent experience, and Fellowship Hall will provide everything needed for creating Advent Wreaths along with other crafts and activities for children and their parents and other adults. There will be something for everyone to begin this special season of preparation! Sunday School All are welcome to the annual no-rehearsal, joy-filled Nativity pageant on Sunday, December 17 at 10:40 (ish) am in Fellowship Hall. This festive retelling of the first Christmas is put on by the children in preschool through fifth grades and is offered for parents and all members of the PRLC community. The Phinney Phlames Sunday, December 10, 2017, 12:15 1:30 pm All youngsters in the 4th and 5th grades are invited to this lively youth group experience. This month we will be doing all things gingerbread, with decorating completions, games, and much, much more. Lunch will be provided and participants should expect a sweet and messy experience. Please contact Nancy at children@prlc.org for more information. Calling all Families with Children Ring in the New Year with food, games, and more on Sunday, December 31st from noon until 2pm (midnight in Jerusalem). The event will begin with lunch and feature family games and competitions along with the opportunity to start the new year with fellowship and fun. We will even drop a ball that we will make ourselves. Sign up sheets will be available soon. If you d like more information or would like to help with this event, please contact Nancy at children@prlc.org. PROGRAMS AND ACTIVITIES FOR THE ADULT MEMBERS OF CHILDREN AND FAMILY MINISTRY The Caregiver Circle meets on SUNDAY, December 17, 2017 in Pastor Hansen s office. If you care for an elderly parent, a loved one with a chronic condition, or a distant relative with continuing needs, you are welcome and encouraged to take part in this support group. This is an opportunity to meet with others experiencing similar life challenges, to learn coping skills, discover local resources, and pray with and for one another. This month we will be discussing the special demands and joys of caregiving during the holidays. If you would like more information, please contact Nancy Monelli at children@prlc.org. 3
Advent Worship We are called to ponder mystery and await the coming Christ, to embody God s compassion for each fragile human life. God is with us in our longing to bring healing to the earth, while we watch for joy and wonder for the promised Savior s birth. Unexpected and Mysterious Hymn 258, Evangelical Lutheran Worship Advent Memorial Worship A time to remember our losses Sunday, December 17, 2017 12:30 Soup lunch and conversation with Rosemary Raynaud, Licensed Counselor and Pastoral Therapist 2:00 Worship in the chapel Christmas is a wonderful season in many ways, but it can also be a particularly painful time for those who are grieving. Perhaps you are mourning the loss of a loved one, the loss of a job, the absence of family, or another sadness in your life. All are welcome for an afternoon of personal reflection, learning, comfort, and worship. Together we will find light in the darkness. Contact Pastor Van Kley if you have questions. The Advent Wreath may be traced back to the ancient Roman rite of waiting in the midst of winter darkness for the return of the sun. These ancient forebears took a wheel off their wagons and fastened torches to the wheel to see them through the darkest time of the year. Evergreen branches adorned the wheel as a hint of springtime. Over three hundred years ago, Christians in Germany turned this practice into the Advent wreath. The greens, the circle, the lights are signs of hope and eternity as we wait for the coming light. Each Sunday in Advent we begin in darkness. The circle of light grows each week as another candle is lighted. Our song and prayers are marked by a sense of anticipation, yearning, expectancy and joy. The liturgical color is blue, because bright blue is the color of the sky when it turns from night to dawn. In Advent, we begin a year long journey with the Gospel of Mark who bids us to stay awake for the coming of the Son of Man and calls us to greet Jesus with the radical change preached by John in the wilderness. The beautiful passages from Isaiah call us to new hope. In addition to Sunday Eucharist in Advent, there will be evening prayer on Wednesdays. On the Fourth Sunday in Advent we will have one service of lessons and carols at 10:00 a.m. 4 Mid-Week Worship During Advent Using the beloved Holden Evening Prayer worship service, we will gather around light, song, prayer, and Word to prepare our hearts for the coming of Christ. Join us! Wednesdays, Nov. 29, Dec. 6, Dec. 13, 2017 6:50-7:30 p.m. in the Sanctuary As always, dinner will be served family-style at 6:15 in the Fellowship Hall. All are welcome! Adult Forums in December 10:00 a.m. in the Tree of Life Room December 3, 2017 Advent Event (No Adult Forum) Please join the fun in the Tree of Life Room and Fellowship Hall at our Intergenerational Advent Event! See page 3 for details. December 10, 2017 LYONS: Lutheran Youth of North Seattle A conversation about the mission and vision of our ministry to youth. December 17, 2017 A Seminarian s Update PRLC is blessed to have members in the candidacy process. These are folks who are preparing for ordination to Word and Sacrament or Diaconal ministry. One of them is lifelong member Abby Cress. She is now in her second year at United Lutheran Seminary, the Gettysburg campus. Come and hear about Abby s journey where she has been and where she is going. Come and hear about church and ministry from one of our future pastors in training.
Schedule of Advent and Christmas Services of Holy Communion SUNDAYS IN ADVENT December 3, 10, and 17, 2017 (Advent 1, 2, and 3) Two Sunday services of Holy Communion, 8:30 and 11:00 a.m. December 24, 2017 (Advent 4) - Departing from our usual Sunday schedule, we will offer one service of Holy Communion at 10:00 a.m. in a service of Lessons and Carols. CHRISTMAS EVE WORSHIP Join us on Christmas Eve for festive worship. Sunday, December 24, 2017 (Christmas Eve) 5:00 p.m. - Holy Communion Family Service Leading the proclamation of the good news of Jesus birth are the Children s Choir and the Youth Choir. 10:30 p.m. - Christmas Eve Music led by the Chancel Choir 11:00 p.m. - Christmas Eve Festival Holy Communion The story of the Nativity surrounded by candlelight and carols, echoing the words of the prophet: The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light. On them light has shined. CHRISTMAS DAY WORSHIP Monday, December 25, 2017 11:00 a.m. - Christmas Day Holy Communion The Nativity of our Lord is celebrated around word and meal. FIRST SUNDAY OF CHRISTMAS Sunday, December 31, 2017 (Christmas 1) Holy Communion at 8:30 and 11:00 a.m. Christmas continues still with the unfolding mystery of the Word made flesh, God revealed among us in human flesh. Stewardship Update I am pleased to report on a very encouraging fall stewardship campaign. Over the course of several weeks in October, you heard testimonies from fellow members, read reflections on generosity and on the spiritual discipline of giving. You were encouraged to look at God s blessings in your life, and to consider prayerfully your commitment in support of PRLC s mission and ministry in 2018. The congregation s great response and willingness to consider stepping up their giving will be so helpful to the council for planning the 2018 operating budget! (We have returned to a January-December pledge cycle, concurrent with our budget year.) Thank you to all who returned their General Fund Commitment cards. More forms are still available at Grace Station, or from the office. We have received 115 cards back as of this writing, for a combined total commitment of $463,130 annually. That means an average of $4,027 per household. I was curious and compared to the last pledge drive (which culminated with New Consecration Sunday in May 2016). The average annual commitment then was $3,876. Thank you for your generosity! Other encouraging numbers: With the 8 households newly signed up for Simply Giving, our automatic giving program, we have now at least 101 giving units participating. These consistent electronic contributions make for predictable church income and reduce the impact of low attendance during vacation times. Of those who submitted response cards, 25 indicated they want to increase their Simply Giving contributions in 2018, while only two will decrease their giving. We understand of course that circumstances can change; feel free to contact me any time if you need to modify your pledge. Thank you for both your support of the PRLC operating fund, and many worthwhile ministries such as Outreach, Food Bank, Mary s Place, Global Missions and local programs. Peace, Kirsten Olshausen Parish Administrator 5
LYONS News You're invited to the LYONS' Stay at Home Tea! Rather than inviting you to another fundraising event, we are inviting you to relax, put your feet up, and enjoy a cup of tea on us and consider supporting Lutheran Youth of North Seattle. We are in our 20th year of ministry serving all youth from our 5 member congregations in a Christ-centered community of worship, witness, service, education, and fun. Invitation letters with tea will be available after worship on November 5 through the end of the year. Funds received this year will go to support our trip to the ELCA National Youth Gathering in Houston, June 2018. DECEMBER EVENTS Sunday, December 3: The Great Christmas Cookie Bake Off (All LYONS) Sunday December 10: Middle School Christmas Party Sunday December 17-18: High School Christmas Lock-In Great ways to connect, find event details, and learn more! Website: roaringlyons.org Facebook: Lutheran Youth of North Seattle Instagram: roaring_lyons Longing for the Light The Rev. Kirby Unti, Bishop, NWWA Synod We are living during the wet and rainy winter of the year that longs for the light to return to the world. A cold world that has seen far too many mass killings, sexual assaults, bullying, war and murder. One of the things I admire most about Luther was his capacity to embrace the winter of his own life by acknowledging his own personal depravity. It was in coming face to face with his own shadow that he discovered the light of God s grace. I have always counted it a great gift that I had the privilege of doing my Clinical Pastoral Education under the supervision of Dr. William A Miller. Bill wrote the book, Making Friends With Your Shadow where he makes the case that all of us have a shadow side to our lives. The classical understanding is that our shadow side is opposite and equal to what we display in public.. This is why it is so shocking when we discover the shadow of someone we hold in high regard. When people refuse to own their shadow and reveal it to the light it grows in intensity. We see this in the goody two shoes types who are often the most critical of their neighbors while appearing to be without fault. Such people work over time suppressing the full truth of their lives and often act in secret. Jesus was very clear about the importance of knowing your own shadow. He would say things like, Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. Or he would say, Remove the log from your own eye before you remove the speck from your neighbors. The church ought to be the one place in the community where we can struggle more honestly about the challenges of being human. It ought to be a place that both helps us come to grips with the all of what it means to be human and holds us accountable for addressing our whole lives in healthy ways. If acknowledging one s shadow improves the likelihood that one will not act on isn t it equally true that church and country must do the same? I think the answer to this is Yes. This is why the churches of the Northwest issued a letter of apology to the tribes for the horrible and unjust ways we have treated these brothers and sisters. This is why the 500 th Commemoration of the Reformation was a time for Lutherans to confess the horrible ways Luther depicted the Jews and for contributing to the violence that spread across Europe. It is why delegations from the United States have gathered at Hiroshima and Nagasaki to commit to one another that never again will we unleash such deadly force upon another. If we take seriously the Lutheran understanding of Saint and Sinner than we need to take more seriously how this same tension manifests itself in corporate ways as well as individual ways. These are challenging times that we are living in. If we want to change let s begin with ourselves and own the truth of our own short comings. It is not just the other who needs to see the light. We all do. The light came into the world and the darkness could not overcome it. This is the true gift of Christmas. Come Lord Jesus! 6
Pastor s Page Showing Up Life in a prison cell reminds me a great deal of Advent one waits, and hopes, and potters about, but in the end what we do is of little consequence, for the door is shut and can only be opened from the outside. ~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer Advent is a time for waiting. I ve have described the season of Advent this way for years. Yet, with all this talk of waiting, we may easily turn waiting into another thing we have to do. To be sure, Christian waiting is active. We are called to be alert, attentive and awake to the presence and activity of God. Such waiting gives way to life-giving change. The potential difficulty, as with any spiritual practice, stems from our need to control the practice and the outcome. The door can only be opened from the outside. We would do well to listen to someone like Bonhoeffer, who prayed in his prison cell. We re not in control of these things. I once took a week-long course in which the teacher made sure we showed up for class on the last day by issuing a tickler. He said he would reveal the secret to all prayer on the last day of class. Though tempted to cut the week early, practically all the students came to hear the full and wise disclosure on all things related to prayer. As promised, the teacher revealed the secret as we sat on the edge of our seats. He told it to us in two simple words: Show up. I need to remember to show up, especially when I approach life as a list of tasks to be accomplished, or when opportunities for worship or prayer become duties on a check list. The invitation to show up is an important and gracious invitation to be present to another, to regard creation with a sense of wonder, to listen and not just hear God s word, to be open to interruptions as potential surprise, and to receive each day as gift. Advent is a good time to take the time to ponder the mystery of Christ. Can we slow down a bit and take the time? It is a great gift to just show up. Amen. Come, Lord Jesus. Peace, Pastor Hansen Greetings from the Child Development Center What a fun time of the year it is here as the children and parents get ready for the holidays. Last month the school came together with all the families and staff at the CDC to enjoy a traditional Thanksgiving lunch together as a family. It was great fun, and gave us an opportunity to break bread with the church staff and be led in prayer by Pastor Hansen. We are also looking forward to our annual Christmas program on December 8, when Pastor Van Kley and I will lead the children in the Christmas story through song and hand motions, and then celebrate with a craft fair in the Fellowship Hall. The children will all dress up in their Christmas best. It is one of the highlights of our school year. We are so happy to have Pastor Van Kley, Pastor Hansen, and this congregation as such strong supporters of our children and the whole child development program. From all of us at the Child Development Center we wish you the merriest of Christmases and a happy new year. ~ CDC Director Tim Sullivan 7
7500 Greenwood Avenue North Seattle, WA 98103 RETURN SERVICE REQUESTED TIME VALUE NOV 29, DEC 6, & DEC 13, 2017 WEDNESDAYS DEC 17, 2017 SUNDAY DEC 22, 2017 FRIDAY DEC 24, 2017 SUNDAY DEC 25, 2017 MONDAY 8 Advent Midweek Worship Holden Evening Prayer; 6:50-7:30 pm in the Sanctuary Advent Memorial Service 12:30 Lunch and conversation with Rosemary Raynaud of Lutheran Counseling Network 2:00 Worship Food Bank Christmas Distribution 12:00-3:00 in Fellowship Hall +IV Advent One Service of Holy Communion at 10:00 am +Christmas Eve Service of Holy Communion, led by the Youth and Children s Choirs at 5:00 pm Musical recital at 10:30 pm Festive Candlelight Service of Holy Communion, led by the Chancel Choir at 11:00 pm + Christmas Day One Service of Holy Communion at 11:00 am Church Office and CDC closed