Confirmation Preparation

Parent and Youth Handbook Confirmation Preparation 2015 2016 Please keep this booklet through May 2016

NAME GROUP # MEETING DAY & TIME LEADER S NAME LEADER S ADDRESS DIRECTIONS Contents Information for: Levels 1 Level 2 Both Page * Parents 4 * Youth Expectations and Attendance Policy 5 * Code of Conduct & Technology Policy 6 * Sponsors 6 * Guardian Angels 6 * Level 1 Calendar 7 * Level 2 Calendar 8 * One Day Retreat 9 * Large Group Events 9 * Overnight Retreat & House of Charity Info 10 * Overnight Retreat Permission Form 11-12 * House of Charity Permission Form 13-14 * Donut Sunday 15 * Fish Fry 15 * Confirmation Rehearsal 16 * Confirmation Reception and Guardian Angel Revelation 16 * Confirmation Day Information 17 * Individual Service Opportunities 18-19 * Individual Service Report/Catholic Social Teachings 20 * Individual Service Report 21-22 * More Youth Opportunities 23 2

Welcome to the 2015-2016 Confirmation preparation year! We hope that you will participate fully in preparation for Confirmation, and become strong Christian leaders in our community. We invite you to learn about the power of the Holy Spirit and see what difference the Sacrament of Confirmation can make in your personal life. God has great hopes for you (Jeremiah 29:11), and we do, too! Preparation for Confirmation should aim at leading the Christian toward a more intimate union with Christ and a more living familiarity with the Holy Spirit his actions, his gifts, and his biddings in order to be more capable of assuming the apostolic responsibilities of Christian life. (Catechism of the Catholic Church #1309) A small faith community is a group of 5-10 youth who meet intentionally and regularly, together with adult mentors, to share life, deepen their faith, and actively live out the mission of the Church. Growing Teen Disciples, by Frank Mercandante, St. Mary s Press, 1998 3

Parents Level 1 and 2 Confirmation Preparation begins in the family Parents are the primary educators of their children, especially in their life of faith. Much of this education takes place in their loving example, exhibited in their relationship to their spouse, to their children, to friends, and to God. In Renewing the Vision : A Framework for Catholic Youth Ministry, the US Bishops state: We believe that family life is sacred because family relationships confirm and deepen family members union with God and allow God s Spirit to work through them. The Church encourages families with adolescents [to] engage in family faith conversations; to teach moral values; to develop healthy relationships and use good communication skills; to celebrate family rituals; to pray together; to participate in shared service activities; to explore and discuss vocations to the priesthood and consecrated life; and to nurture close parental relationships and parental faith. One of the most important tasks of the Church today is to promote the faith growth of families by encouraging families to share, celebrate, and live their faith at home and in the world. (RTV pg 11-12) In the spirit of partnership, listed below are commitments that we are promising to you, as well as commitments that we ask of all parents/families choosing to participate in Confirmation preparation. Parish Commitments Parent Commitments recognize and affirm you as the primary teacher of your son/daughter set the example for your son/daughter by actively living your faith provide a Catholic community to encourage and support you make the process of preparing for Confirmation a priority in the family calendar communicate with you about Confirmation preparation and listen to input and feedback connect you with other parents of teens provide resources (Parent Link newsletter, lending library in lower level lobby of Parish Center, Parenting video series) to strengthen and assist you in your parenting role provide opportunities for you to be involved in your son/daughter s preparation process partner with you in forming your son/daughter s faith and relationship with God and our Church discuss the material in the Candidate handbook and assist your son/daughter in completing homework assignments on time volunteer in one role within the Confirmation preparation program, as listed in the Parent Volunteer Options (mailed home in August - extra copies available in the office or online) participate in Mass as a family at least weekly partner with the parish in forming your son/ daughter s faith and relationship with God and our Church 4

Youth Expectations and Attendance Policy Students are expected to attend all scheduled Confirmation preparation activities. We all have full lives and busy schedules, however, an essential part of Confirmation preparation is to build friendships with other teens and grow together as disciples of Christ. The only way this can happen is if the candidates are present together for the scheduled preparation activities. While illness or unavoidable situations do arise from time to time, just as any team needs every player, your group needs you! While an occasional absence may be necessary, missing more than 20% would prevent successful completion of preparation. Preparation includes: Small Groups: (see pg. 2) 11 small group meetings per year Large Groups: (see pg. 8) Safe & Sacred Good Friday: Living Stations of the Cross (Level 1) Group Service Projects: Level 1: Donut Sunday (see pg 15-17) Level 2: House of Charity and Fish Fry Individual Service Projects: (see pg 20-22) project consisting of at least 10 hours/year e.g. Wild Game Feed, Living Stations Special Events: Level 2: Confirmation Rehearsal (see page 18) Retreats: (see pg 9 and 10) Level 1: 1-Day Retreat Level 2: Overnight Retreat Sponsor Support: (see pg 6-7) Sacraments: Sponsors and youth meet 2-3 times each year The foundation for Confirmation preparation: Confirmation preparation is a next step for those regularly celebrating their faith, who want to confirm the promises made at Baptism and grow as disciples. It is essential for families to attend Mass together weekly and to periodically receive God s love and forgiveness in Reconciliation. 5

Code of Conduct and Technology Policy Individuals participating in St. Timothy s sponsored activities agree to: Participate voluntarily, actively, and with respect for others, facilities, buildings, and others property Turn off cell phones, I pods, mp3 players, and handheld games during meeting time The following are not permitted: illegal substances, firearms. ammunition, explosives, and other weapons alcohol or tobacco for minors harassment, violence, or uncooperative behavior sexual innuendos or romantic displays of affection Sponsors Level 1 & 2 A sponsor assists the candidate by sharing his or her faith journey in a personal way and helping the candidate live as a true witness of Christ. Candidates may choose a Confirmation sponsor who is the same sponsor from their Baptism (Catholic Godparent) or another confirmed Catholic who has received Eucharist and is leading a life of faith. The sponsor cannot be a parent of the candidate. Besides attending the rite of Confirmation itself, the sponsor will meet with the candidate 2-3 times per year outside of the home sessions. Sponsors are invited to attend large group events with their candidate. Sponsor selection forms are due to the parish office no later than October 11. Extra forms are available in the office, on the website or by e-mailing Margaret Kelly. Guardian Angels Level 2 The role of a Guardian Angel is to anonymously support a young person in the final year of preparation for Confirmation. The Guardian Angels spiritually walk with the candidates by praying for them, and encourages and supports them by writing a short note as often as they can. It might be a letter sharing their faith, a copy of a prayer, a seasonal card, or a scripture they would like to share. Informational forms are due from each Level 2 youth by September 20. Extra forms are available in the office or on the website., Some candidates will undoubtedly receive more mail than others will. Remember, this is not a contest to see which candidate receives the most mail. Some Guardian Angels will have more time and write more frequently. This does not diminish the value of all who participate in the program. While it is always fun to get a note, some angels may spend more time in prayer. Any benefit you receive is an added blessing. Guardian Angels and candidates are invited and encouraged to attend the Revelation Party. Guardian Angel Revelation is after the 8:30 Mass on Sunday, April 10th. 6

Level 1 Calendar Required Events Level 1 Small Groups Meetings (SGMs) Day Date Required Event Time Location Wed. Sept. 16 Kick-Off Mass 7 pm Church Wed. Sept. 23 NET Ministries Evening Retreat 6:00-9:00 room 224 Sun. Sept. 27 SGM #1: Life is Choices Sun. Oct. 11 SGM #2: What s Holding You Back? Sun. Oct. 25 SGM #3: Hungry for the Sun. Nov. 8 SGM #4: The Jesus Question Sun. Nov. 22 Comprehensive Immigration Reform Panel 6:30-8:00 Church (Parent/Youth night) Sun. Dec. 13 SGM #5: Jesus Was a Radical Sun. Jan 10 SGM #6: Why Pray? Sun. Jan. 24 SGM #7: The Prayer Process Sun. Feb. 7 SGM #8: A Map for the Journey Sun. Feb. 21 Safe & Sacred 6:30-8:00 Church (Parent/Youth Night) Sun. Feb. 28 SGM #9: How Should I Use the Bible Sun. Mar. 6 Vocations and Discernment 6:30-8:00 Church (Parent/Youth Night) Sun. Mar. 6 Service Report Form Due Sun. Mar. 13/20/27 SGM #10: What is the Purpose? Fri. Mar 25 Living Stations of the Cross 3-4 pm Church (Parent/Youth ) Sun. Apr. 3 SGM #11: What is Love? Required Dates for my group only: Day Date Required Event Time Location Mass Saturdays 5 pm Sundays 8:30 & 10:30 Reconciliation Saturdays 6 pm Sun. Donut Sunday 7:30 am 12:30pm Hospitality (fill in your group date-see pg. 15) Center Additional Dates to Know: Day Date Celebration Time Wed. Feb. 10 Ash Wednesday 9am, noon, 7pm Thurs. Mar. 24 Triduum - Holy Thursday 7 pm Fri. Mar. 25 Triduum - Good Friday 3 pm, 7 pm Sat. Mar. 26 Triduum - Holy Saturday 8:30 pm Sun. Mar. 27 Easter 7:00, 8:30 & 10:30 am Bring for each Small Group meeting Bible Decision Point Book Pen/Pencil 7

Level 2 Calendar Required Events: Level 2 Small Groups Meetings (SGMs) Mass Saturdays 5 pm Sundays 8:30 & 10:30 Reconciliation Saturdays 6 pm Seasonal additions in bulletin Day Date Required Event Time Location Wed. Sept. 16 Kick-Off Mass 7 pm Church Sat. Sept. 19-20 Overnight Retreat 8:45 pkg lot Sun. Sept. 27 SGM #1: The Resurrection: God is Victorious Sun. Oct. 11 SGM #2: Pentecost: Gift of the Spirit Sun. Oct. 25 SGM #3: Guided & Strengthened by the Holy Spirit Period of Reflection Sun. Nov. 8 SGM #4: Prayer: Communion with God Sun. Nov. 22 Comprehensive Immigration Reform Panel 6:30-8:00 Church (Parent/Youth night) Sun. Dec. 13 SGM #5: Christian Morality: What Does Love Look Like Sun. Jan 10 SGM #6: Christian Service: Witnessing to God s Justice Sun. Jan. 24 SGM #7: Sacraments of Initiation Sun. Feb 7 SGM #8: Baptism Born in the Holy Spirit Sun. Feb. 21 Safe & Sacred 6:30-8:15 Church (Parent/Youth Night) Sun. Feb. 28 SGM #9: The Eucharist: Nourished Through the Holy Spirit Sun. Mar. 6 Vocations and Discernment 6:30-8:15 Church (Parent/Youth Night) Sun. Mar. 6 Paperwork Due (Confirmation Information, Service Form & Letter to Fr. Joe) Sun. Mar. 13/20/27 SGM #10: Confirmation: Sealed with the Holy Spirit & Celebrating the Rite Sun. Apr. 3 SGM #11: Life After Confirmation: Moving On in the Spirit of Jesus/Wrap Up Sun. April 10 Guardian Angel Revelation after 10:30 Mass room 224 Wed. April 10 Confirmation Rehearsal & group pictures 1pm St. Tims Church Sat. April 17 Confirmation Mass 2:00pm Cathedral Required Dates for my group only: Day Date Required Event Time Location Sun. House of Charity (fill in your group date-see pg. 13-14) 8:25 12:30 pm meet at Parish Center Fri. Fish Fry 4:30-8:15 pm Hospitality Center (fill in your group date-see pg. 15) Additional Dates to Know: Day Date Celebration Time Wed. Feb. 10 Ash Wednesday 9am, noon, 7pm Thurs. Mar. 24 Triduum - Holy Thursday 7 pm Fri. Mar. 25 Triduum - Good Friday 3 pm, 7 pm Sat. Mar. 26 Triduum - Holy Saturday 8:30 pm Sun. Mar. 27 Easter 7:00, 8:30 & 10:30 am 8 Bring for each Small Group meeting Bible Candidate Handbook Pen/Pencil Notebook/Folder Any additional materials requested by Small Group Leaders Do for each Small Group meeting Read assigned pages from the Candidate Handbook Any other worksheets or activities as requested by Small Group Leaders

Level 1 Evening Retreat Wed. September 23rd 6:00-9:00 in room 224 & the Church The NET (National Evangelization Teams) are Catholic young adults from around the US (and beyond) who travel across the country conducting retreats for Catholic young people just like you! They will be here to lead you in a fun and faith filled retreat evening. Large Group Events Level 1 and 2 *A Parent or sponsor is expected to attend all large group events with their youth. * Comprehensive Immigration Reform A Panel Discussion Sunday, November 22, 2015 6:30-8:00 pm in the church 1) James Scott, Catholic Charities HOPE Street Center for Homeless Youth 2) Kate Searls, Research and Policy Manager for Office for Social Justice 3) Karrie Schaaf, District 11 Homeless Youth & Families Liaison Patrick Quillan Safe and Sacred Sunday, February 21, 2016 6:30-7:45 pm in the church As Christians, we are called to freedom! We are to reflect our loving relationship with God in our relationships with others. Unfortunately, many in our society today feel trapped by relationships that are abusive. Learn about how you can protect yourself, help a friend in need, and help to end the cycles of abuse in our world today. All must attend-archdiocesan requirement unless parent speaks to Nolan Gutierrez. Creating Safe and Sacred Places is a response to The Charter for the Protection of Children and Youth (United States Catholic Conference of Bishops). Vocations and Discernment Sunday, March 27, 2016 6:30-8:00 pm in the church When many young people receive the Sacrament of Confirmation, they seem to disappear, not to be seen again until they want to get married in the Church. Why is this occurring? Is our faith Important? Is it so important that it should help lead us in our decision making or should we just go to our gut feeling. This night is set up so that we can see what God is calling us to and how to properly discern those call ings. Good Friday: Living Stations of the Cross Friday, March 25, 2016 3:00 pm in the church If anyone wants to come with Me, he or she must put aside self-interest, then pick up their cross, and follow Me. 9

Level 2 Groups September 19-20, 2015 Cost: $50 retreat fee (actual cost: ~$100 St. Tim s covers about 1/2 of the cost of the retreat) Times: Arrive at St. Tim s between 8:30 and 8:45 am Sat. morning We will return by 12:00 pm on Sunday afternoon Check-in and pick-up in St. Tim s Parking Lot Place: Association Retreat Center (ARC) Osceola, WI Forms are due to office no later than Thurs., Sept. 17 What to Bring: Sleeping bag and Pillow Casual clothes (indoor and outdoor) Personal items (soap, towel, toothbrush...) What NOT to Bring: Cell Phones or I-pods Money, keys, other valuables Tobacco/Drugs/Alcohol/Weapons (will be confiscated) Food and Pop (meals and snacks provided) Overnight Retreat House of Charity Level 2 714 Park Avenue South Minneapolis, MN 8:20 am - 12:30 pm Meet your small group at the Parish Center sidewalk. You will then go downtown to prepare and serve hot, nutritious meals. During the noon meal, which is open to the general public, we generally serve about 350 guests. We have a "no questions asked" philosophy about feeding the hungry-we serve anyone in need of a meal. We strive to create a safe and respectful environment to ensure our guests' comfort Directions to the House of Charity 714 Park Avenue South, Minneapolis, MN 55404 (612)594-2000 35W South: To Minneapolis take the I-94 exit (exit 17B); take the 11th Ave. ramp; stay straight to go onto E. 17th St.; take right onto Park Ave (Park Ave. is.2 Kilometers past Chicago Ave.) You may park along side the building in the fenced area and enter the alley or front door. If you choose to park on the street, be sure to follow posted signs meters are enforced on the weekends. People have been ticketed in the past. All drivers must have a current driving check on file with St. Timothy s. Date Group Sun. Oct. 11 4 Sun. Nov. 8 3 Sun. Dec. 13 2 Sun. Jan. 10 1 Sun. Feb. 7 make-up & service hours 10

PARENTAL AUTHORIZATION FORM -OVERNIGHT CONFIRMATION RETREAT Participant Name Parent/Guardian Names Grade Sex Home Address City: State: ZIP: Home Phone ( ) - Work/Cell Phone ( ) - Type of Event: Level 2 Confirmation Retreat Student Cost $50 Date: September 19-20, 2015 Departure: 9 am Saturday Return to St. Tim s by: 12:00 pm Sunday Destination: Association Retreat Center, Osceola, WI Mode of Transportation: Bus EMERGENCY MEDICAL TREATMENT: In the event of an emergency, I give permission to transport my child to a hospital. I agree to allow my child to receive emergency medical treatment at my expense at the discretion of the event sponsor. I wish to be advised prior to any further treatment by a doctor or hospital. In the event of any emergency, if you are unable to reach me at the above numbers, contact: ( - - Name Phone Number Relationship HEALTH INFORMATION: Medication my child is taking at present Allergies (drug, food, or other) Other Medical Condition Family Doctor Phone Number ( - - Insurance Company Family Health Plan carrier number I, GIVE PERMISSION FOR Parent or Guardian Name TO PARTICIPATE IN THE ABOVE-DESCRIBED EVENT. Youth Name I warrant that my child is in good health. In consideration of my child s participation, I agree to indemnify Church of St. Timothy from any claims or law suits brought by myself, my child, or others, that arises out of any behavior by my child at the event/activity described above. I also agree to pay reasonable attorney s fees or expenses incurred by the parish/school in defense of such a claim/suit. I agree to drop my child off at the departure location at least 15 minutes prior to departure and to provide transportation home at my expense. I agree that I am responsible for my child s conduct and actions. The event sponsor is not responsible for any injury or damage incurred or caused by my child. I understand that my child is required to comply with the Code of Conduct provided by Church of St. Timothy while participating in the event. I understand that if my child violates the Code of Conduct he/she may be required to be transported home at my expense. Parent/Guardian Signature Date Turn over & read & sign the code of conduct!! 11

Who s leading our overnight retreat? In response to an urgent need to proclaim the Gospel to youth, 100 NET volunteers ages 18 to 30 are sent out in vans each year across the United States in teams of 10 to 12. The eight teams share their faith during retreats with 70,000 youth from September to May, and invite all they meet to give their lives to the only one who can satisfy their hungry hearts Jesus Christ. For more information about NET Retreats, go to http://www.netusa.org/net_retreats.aspx CODE OF CONDUCT The following are a few rules that all participants are expected to follow while participating and representing Church of St. Timothy. In this event sponsored by Church of St. Timothy on September 19-20, 2015 Please read and sign. I,, WILL: Printed Name of Youth Participant Treat all other persons with respect and not cause any intentional harm (physically, emotionally, or spiritually) to any person in any way. Respect the property of others, including all program facilities and property. Follow all appropriate instructions of all personnel aiding in this event, including, but not limited to, chaperones, support staff, transportation personnel and administration. Be on time for all check-ins and departure time. Not have in my possession any tobacco, alcohol or any controlled illegal substance I agree that if any of these terms are violated, the Parish can send the participant home at the participant/guardian s expense. Youth Participant Signature Date Parent/Guardian Signature Date Please return to: The Confirmation Coordinator in the office no later than the Wednesday prior to the retreat. 12

Parental Authorization Form for House of Charity Participant Name Grade Sex Parent/Guardian Names Home Address City: State: ZIP: Home Phone ( ) - Work/Cell Phone ( ) - Type of Event: House of Charity Service Project Student Cost $0 Date: Departure: 8:30 am Sunday from Parish Center Return: 12:30 Destination: Mpls Transportation: Personal Vehicles EMERGENCY MEDICAL TREATMENT: In the event of an emergency, I give permission to transport my child to a hospital. I agree to allow my child to receive emergency medical treatment at my expense at the discretion of the event sponsor. I wish to be advised prior to any further treatment by a doctor or hospital. In the event of any emergency, if you are unable to reach me at the above numbers, contact: ( ) - Name Phone Number Relationship HEALTH INFORMATION: Medication my child is taking at present Allergies (drug, food, or other ) Other Medical Conditions ( ) - Family Doctor Phone Number Insurance Company Family Health Plan carrier number I,, GIVE PERMISSION FOR Parent or Guardian Name TO PARTICIPATE IN THE ABOVE-DESCRIBED EVENT. Youth Name I warrant that my child is in good health. In consideration of my child s participation, I agree to indemnify Church of St. Timothy from any claims or law suits brought by myself, my child, or others, that arises out of any behavior by my child at the event/activity described above. I also agree to pay reasonable attorney s fees or expenses incurred by the parish/school in defense of such a claim/suit. I agree to drop my child off at the departure location at least 15 minutes prior to departure and to provide transportation home at my expense. I agree that I am responsible for my child s conduct and actions. The event sponsor is not responsible for any injury or damage incurred or caused by my child. I understand that my child is required to comply with the Code of Conduct provided by Church of St. Timothy while participating in the event. I understand that if my child violates the Code of Conduct he/she may be required to be transported home at my expense. Parent/Guardian Signature Date Turn over & read & sign the code of conduct!! 13

For more information about the House of Charity, go to http://www.houseofcharity.org/ CODE OF CONDUCT The following are a few rules that all participants are expected to follow while participating and representing Church of St. Timothy. In this event sponsored by Church of St. Timothy on Please read and sign. I,, WILL: Printed Name of Youth Participant Treat all other persons with respect and not cause any intentional harm (physically, emotionally, or spiritually) to any person in any way. Respect the property of others, including all program facilities and property. Follow all appropriate instructions of all personnel aiding in this event, including, but not limited to, chaperones, support staff, transportation personnel and administration. Be on time for all check-ins and departure time. Not have in my possession any tobacco, alcohol or any controlled illegal substance I agree that if any of these terms are violated, the Parish can send the participant home at the participant/guardian s expense. Youth Participant Signature Date Parent/Guardian Signature Date Please return to: The Confirmation Coordinator in the office no later than the one week prior to your scheduled HOC date. 14

Date Group October 4th 1 November 1st 2 December 6th 3 February 7th 4 March 6th make up Donut Sunday Level 1 7:30 am - 12:30 pm Donut Sundays are mornings when the community is invited to gather for hospitality (donuts, coffee, and juice) after all three masses on a given Sunday. Each Level 1 group takes one Sunday a month to sponsor this service for our community. The day starts at 7:30 am & ends around 12:30pm All group members & at least 1 adult needs to be present for the entire morning. (Group members will take a break to attend either 8:30 or 10:30am Mass.) Knights of Columbus Lenten Fish Fry Level 2 Hospitality Center 4:30-8:15 pm Date Group They said to him, "Five loaves and two fish are all we have here." Then he said, "Bring them here to me," and he ordered the crowds to sit down on the grass. Taking the five loaves and the two fish, and looking up to heaven, he said the blessing, broke the loaves, and gave them to the disciples, who in turn gave them to the crowds. They all ate and were satisfied, and they picked up the fragments left over --twelve wicker baskets full. Mark 14:17-20 Fri. February 5th make-up Fri. February 12h 1 Fri. February 19th 2 Fri. February 26th 3 Fri. March 4th 4 Fri. March 11th make-up Fri. March 18th extra All group members & at least 4 adults need to be present for the entire evening. 15

Confirmation Rehearsal Level 2 Wednesday, April 10, 2016 After Guardian Revelation in St. Timothy s Church A quick evening to work out the logistics to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation. All youth are required to attend Either a parent or sponsor must also attend Group photos will be taken at the end Individual photos are available 6-7 pm or after the group photos are finished Confirmation Reception and Guardian Angel Revelation Level 2 Sunday, April 10, 2016 After 10:30 am Mass In Room 224 & the Hospitality Center The parish will begin with a Rite of Sending for the Candidates at the 8:30am Mass. Please sit with your family for Mass. You will be asked to stand at a certain point. Anticipation has been building all year for both the students and the angels for the Revelation/Reception Party. All the students are anxious to meet their Guardian Angels and I can assure you that the Guardian Angels are very anxious to meet their students. All students who were assigned a Guardian Angel are asked to report to Room 224 following the 8:30a.m. Mass. There you will have the opportunity to meet your Guardian Angel and visit with them for a brief time before proceeding to the Hospitality Center for the parish Reception for the candidates. It is also a time to thank them for their prayers, letters, gifts and commitment to you. Please invite your Guardian Angel to have refreshments with you and take a moment to introduce them to other family members and guests. URGENT: It is very important for you to be at the Revelation/Reception and you are expected to do so. If for some unforeseen reason IT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU TO ATTEND this Revelation/Reception, please call Nolan Gutierrez at 763-784-1329. Perhaps other arrangements can be made for you to meet your Guardian Angel. In addition, if you cannot be there, please at least write a thank you note to your Guardian Angel. Address the envelope: REVELATION/RECEPTION Guardian Angel of your name) Bring that note to the parish office and place it in the Guardian Angel mailbox in the parish office reception area if it is impossible for you to attend. 16

Confirmation Day Level 2 Monday, April 17th, 2016 2:00pm Cathedral in St. Paul Confirmation Mass: The Sacrament of Confirmation will be given as part of the Mass, and the service will last approximately 2 hours. On Sunday, April 10th, there will be a Rite of Sending at the 10:30 Mass and Confirmation Reception at St. Timothy's. Dress: Since Confirmation is a special day, people enjoy dressing up. Usual attire for men is a suit or slacks and a dress shirt and tie, if you choose. Women usually wear dress pants or a skirt and nice shirt or a dress. Whatever you decide upon, please choose something that will reflects your dignity as a child of God and the virtue of modesty. Seating: St. Tim s will have a seating that are assigned to us. However, there are not pews assigned, so you may choose your own pew within our section. Our seating assignment is based on each youth receiving ½ pew for themselves and their guests, which will fit about 5 people total. Additional guests may be seated in nonreserved rows. Seating charts will be available in as soon as I receive them from the Archdiocese. Directions/Parking/Arrival: Confirmation Mass will take place at the Cathedral in St. Paul. A map with directions and parking information will be sent a few weeks before. Please arrive about 30 minutes in advance of Mass. Please do not arrive more than 45 minutes early, unless you have a volunteer capacity (see below), as we will not yet be prepared to seat youth and their families. Photography: No photography or videotaping will be permitted during the liturgy itself. It is impossible for photographers to approach the front of the church to take individual pictures during the anointing. Professional photography is available at the rehearsal. Photographs and videotaping are encouraged before and after Mass. Don t Forget: A couple of things that are sometimes forgotten in the excitement of the day are that hats should not be worn in church, and no one should be chewing gum, eating or drinking. Turn all Cell Phones Off! During the Mass. Volunteers Needed: Many volunteers are needed to help Confirmation day go smoothly. Any parents, sponsors, or other family members who are able to help are greatly appreciated. Youth, this could be a great day to begin the new ministry you are planning to do after you are Confirmed! We usually need volunteers in these areas: greeters (4people) The following they will let us know the number: gift-bearer lector Eucharistic Ministers If you can help in any of these areas, please contact the office. 17

SERVICE OPPORTUNITIES People Serving People (PSP) Date TBD An opportunity to sleep overnight at a homeless shelter downtown Minneapolis and have games, activities, and movies and experiences relating to homelessness. More Information will be available at a later date. Call if you are interested. Contact: Margaret NIGHT OF WOH Saturday, October 10 Sleep out in a cardboard box for an evening and experience and raise money for the homeless. This is held here at St. Timothy and you can count it as 3 hours of service. Contact: Nolan Family Promise Oct. 13-19 5:00-8:30pm Come be a host with the families in the evening. Play with the children. Come just for one day of the week listed above. Contact: Parish Office BAGS FOR FOOD DRIVE done by Monday, October 19 Staple a food list to grocery bags for the annual Food Drive this can be done at various times, but must be completed by Monday, October 24. FOOD DRIVE October 24-25 after all the Masses Hand out bags to the parishioners as they leave Mass. Need 2 people at every door. The bags will be returned the following weekend with food for the Thanksgiving & Christmas Baskets. Contact: Margaret LEAF RAKING Saturday, November 1 9-12:00 noon This is a great way to get service hours and also help someone. We will be raking leaves for people who are unable to do their own. You need to sign up by calling the parish office. I need to know how many people will be helping and then I can plan how many lawns we can do that day. Sign up by Thursday, October 31. Drivers & chaperones are also needed and they need to have a form filled out if you are driving somebody other than your own child. Moms/dads families all are welcome. Bring a rake! Contact: Office 784-1329 Youth Group Service Projects Join the St. Tims Senior High Youth Group as we preform a different service project each month. We also welcome you to our group which meets Wednesdays 7:00-8:15pm in room 125 and join other high school teens in food, fun and fellowship. Pizza and pop included. 18

FOOD SORT November 1st after the 8:30 & 10:30 Masses Sort the food brought in for CEAP and the Basket program. It is after the two Sunday morning Masses. It is in the gym and takes about 1-1 ½ hours. Contact: Margaret THANKSGIVING BASKET SET-UP November 22 9:30am Set up the food etc. after the 9:00 Mass in the hospitality center for the Thanksgiving Basket distribution on Monday. Contact: Margaret Christmas caroling December 16 6:30pm Do Christmas caroling at a senior home and in the neighbor around St. Tims. We will meet in the parish center in room 125 and return there for hot chocolate and social time; games, etc. This is considered service time. Call the parish office to sign up. Contact: Nolan SANTA S WORKSHOP December 6 9:30pm Help with crafts & activities. Contact Robbie Raaen CHRISTMAS BASKETS Tuesday, December 10 th 12:30-8:30pm receive gifts as they are brought in by parishioners. There will be two hour shifts on Tuesday and you will also be putting tags on the gifts. Monday, December 16 th 6:30 Set up the gym and carry the bags of presents to the gym from Room 224. It will take about 1 ½ hours Contact: Margaret FEED MY STARVING CHILDREN Jan. 9 & Feb. 20 9:00am This is a great service project. You will need to get a ride or have your parent and/or family come too. They have relocated to Coon Rapids. It is putting food packets together to be shipped overseas to starving children. Call the Parish Office to sign up. You can go on your own, but will need to check with the organization for available days & times at www.fmsc.org. Contact: Johanna Scanlan WILD GAME FEED Saturday, January 9 4:30-8:30pm Help with set-up, serving and cleanup as well as enjoy a meal at the Wild Game Volunteers are needed to help with this event. Great way to get service hours. Contact: Margaret LIVING STATIONS Feed in January. 12:00-2:00 Various Sundays during Lent (rehearsal) Living Stations have rehearsals on some Sunday s during Lent and the performance is on Good Friday at 3:00. There are no speaking parts except if you choose to be a narrator. This is a wonderful experience and an opportunity for service hours. Contact: Johanna Mother s Day Corsages Saturday, May 7 9:00am Assemble Mother s Day Corsages & can sell before & after Masses that weekend also. 19

Individual Service Reflection James 2:26 says, For just as a body without a spirit is dead, so also faith without works is dead. Our love of God should show in the way we live our lives and spend our time. You are asked to complete an individual service project, of a minimum of 10 hours. The goal is not simply to log in hours. There are two purposes: 1. To positively impact the world around you in the love of God, and 2. To reflect on your experience and grow from it 7 key themes of Catholic Social Teaching Life and Dignity of the Human Person The Catholic Church proclaims that human life is sacred and that the dignity of the human person is the foundation of a moral vision for society. This belief is the foundation of all the principles of our social teaching. In our society, human life is under direct attack from abortion and euthanasia. The value of human life is being threatened by cloning, embryonic stem cell research, and the use of the death penalty. Catholic teaching also calls on us to work to avoid war. Nations must protect the right to life by finding increasingly effective ways to prevent conflicts and resolve them by peaceful means. We believe that every person is precious, that people are more important than things, and that the measure of every institution is whether it threatens or enhances the life and dignity of the human person. Project Ideas: volunteer at a crisis pregnancy center, visit a nursing home, write to Congress against the death penalty. Call to Family, Community, and Participation The person is not only sacred but also social. How we organize our society in economics and politics, in law and policy directly affects human dignity and the capacity of individuals to grow in community. Marriage and the family are the central social institutions that must be supported and strengthened, not undermined. We believe people have a right and a duty to participate in society, seeking together the common good and well-being of all, especially the poor and vulnerable. Project Ideas: baby-sit for free to give a married couple a date night, organize a block party, participate in Parish Council or YAC Rights and Responsibilities The Catholic tradition teaches that human dignity can be protected and a healthy community can be achieved only if human rights are protected and responsibilities are met. Therefore, every person has a fundamental right to life and a right to those things required for human decency. Corresponding to these rights are duties and responsibilities--to one another, to our families, and to the larger society. Project Ideas: volunteer at the library, help with a Get-Out-the-Vote effort Option for the Poor and Vulnerable A basic moral test is how our most vulnerable members are faring. In a society marred by deepening divisions between rich and poor our tradition recalls the story of the Last Judgment (Mt 25:31-46) and instructs us to put the needs of the poor and vulnerable first. Project Ideas: sort food at CEAP or St. Tims, wrap and organize food and gifts for the Thanksgiving and Christmas baskets Volunteer at Feed My Starving Children The Dignity of Work and the Rights of Workers The economy must serve people, not the other way around. Work is more than a way to make a living; it is a form of continuing participation in God s creation. If the dignity of work is to be protected, then the basic rights of workers must be respected--the right to productive work, to decent and fair wages, to the organization and joining of unions, to private property, and to economic initiative. Project Ideas: tutor a student who is struggling in an area you are skilled in Solidarity We are one human family whatever our national, racial, ethnic, economic, & ideological differences. We are our brothers & sisters keepers, wherever they may be. Loving our neighbor has global dimensions in a shrinking world. At the core of the virtue of solidarity is the pursuit of justice and peace. Pope Paul VI taught that if you want peace, work for justice. The Gospel calls us to be peacemakers. Our love for all our sisters &brothers demands that we promote peace in a world surrounded by violence & conflict. Project Ideas: attend a mission trip, learn about the meaning of fair-trade, participate in Night of WOH, Food Fast. Care for God s Creation We show our respect for the Creator by our stewardship of creation. Care for the earth is not just an Earth Day slogan, it is a requirement of our faith. We are called to protect people and the planet, living our faith in relationship with all of God s creation. This environmental challenge has fundamental moral and ethical dimensions that cannot be ignored. Project Ideas: volunteer at an animal shelter, Adopt-a-highway, carve pumpkins to help Springbrook Nature Center s fall fest http://www.usccb.org/sdwp/projects/socialteaching/excerpt.htm 20

Individual Service Report Level 1 and 2 DUE: by March 2nd to the office (complete the questions below and on reverse, or give a typed response to the same questions if you prefer) Name: Level: 1 or 2 (circle) Group Number: Time Spent: hours Date(s) of Service: Place of Service: Service Recipient or Supervisor Signature: Description of my project (see project ideas on pg. 20): I chose this project because......... What did I learn about God? Jesus said, What ever you do unto the least of these, you do to me. How did I experience God through this project? 21

What did I learn: about myself, my attitudes, about service Who am I? What are my values? How will this alter my future behaviors/attitudes/and/or career? Have my motivations for volunteering changed? In what ways? What makes for a good volunteer? 22

More Youth Opportunities Mission Trip 2016 Serve others by doing work on homes or working with children. Location and Date TBA watch the bulletin and website! Living Stations of the Cross Rehearsals on Sundays of Lent 11:30-2:00 pm leading worship on Good Friday. Watch bulletin & website for other activities. 23

Prayer for the Gifts of the Holy Spirit Christ Jesus, before ascending into heaven, You promised to send the Holy Spirit to Your apostles and disciples. Grant that the same Spirit may perfect in our lives the work of Your grace and love. Grant us the Spirit of Fear Of The Lord that we may be filled with a loving reverence toward You. the Spirit of Piety that we may find peace and fulfillment in the service of God while serving others; the Spirit of Fortitude that we may bear our cross with You and, with courage, overcome the obstacles that interfere with our salvation; the Spirit of Knowledge that we may know You and know ourselves and grow in holiness; the Spirit of Understanding to enlighten our minds with the light of Your truth; the Spirit of Counsel that we may choose the surest way of doing Your will, seeking first the Kingdom; Grant us the Spirit of Wisdom that we may aspire to the things that last forever; Teach us to be Your faithful disciples and animate us in every way with Your Spirit. Amen. Nolan Gutierrez- Confirmation Coordinator 707 89th Ave. NE Blaine, MN 55434 (763)784-1329 or NolanG@churchofsttimothy.com www.churchofsttimothy.com 24