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No I, No Problems: The Quintessence of Buddhist Psychology of Awakening P. L. Dhar Psychological Studies ISSN 0033-2968 DOI 10.1007/ s12646-011-0111-0 1 23

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DOI 10.1007/s12646-011-0111-0 REFLECTIONS No I, No Problems: The Quintessence of Buddhist Psychology of Awakening P. L. Dhar Received: 25 May 2011 /Accepted: 11 July 2011 # National Academy of Psychology (NAOP) India 2011 Abstract If psychology is viewed as the science of human mind, the Buddha could unarguably be termed as the finest depth psychologist humanity has seen. Not only did he penetrate deep into the hidden recesses of human mind and uncovered the machinations of the latent tendencies, he also found the way out of their stranglehold on mankind. As a compassionate teacher, he focused his entire teaching primarily on the later practical aspect. He often mentioned that he taught only two things: there is unhappiness (dukkha) and there is a way out of this unhappiness. The root cause of this unhappiness, he identified as the primeval ignorance avijja, which creates the notion of I as an individual entity, the doer, the feeler and the thinker. This in turn gives rise to the concepts of I and mine, thee and thine from which originate craving (raga) and aversion (dosa). The Buddha s penetrative insight into the nature of human reality revealed that what we call I or a being is only a concatenation of the five impermanent aggregates, viz. the body, consciousness, intellect, feelings and volitional mental formations, which work interdependently, changing from moment to moment in accordance with the law of cause and effect. By a systematic cultivation of the mindfulness of these aggregates anyone can progressively uproot the ego and purify the mind by extinguishing this fire of defilements continuously burning within it. As the mind gets progressively purified, it awakens from the illusion of personality and naturally abides in loving kindness (maîtri), compassion (karuna), altruistic joy (mudita) and equanimity (upekkha) to increasing degree. No I, No problems, as one contemporary Master puts it. P. L. Dhar (*) Department of Mechanical Engineering, Indian Institute of Technology Delhi, Hauz Khas, New Delhi 110010, India e-mail: pldhar@yahoo.com Keywords Self-view. Illusion. Attachment. Suffering. Dis-enchantment. Dispassion. Craving. Aversion. Delusion. Sense of self. Psychological-social-linguistic construct. Awakening. Neuro-biology. Emotions. Feelings. Radical healing Introduction The Oxford dictionary defines psychology as scientific study of the human mind and its function, especially those affecting the behaviour in a given context. From this perspective, the Buddha can unarguably be termed as the finest depth psychologist that humanity has seen. Not only did he penetrate deep into the hidden recesses of human mind, and uncover the machinations of the latent tendencies, he also found the way out of their stranglehold on mankind. As a compassionate teacher, he focused his entire teaching primarily on the later practical aspect, on revealing the fundamental cause of dukkha, the existential suffering, the perpetual sense of dis-satisfaction, anxiety, dis-ease, that human beings find themselves in, and explaining the way out of it. Like any modern scientist, he performed a series of experiments to unravel the root cause of this dukkha, and eventually discovered, and validated through his own personal experience, the path that leads to its complete extinction. The path of liberation that he described is so logical, and therefore simple, to understand (though not so easy to practice!) that anyone with requisite dedication and perseverance can verify for himself the possibility of awakening from the illusions that bind us to the sensory world. The Essence of the Teachings of the Buddha The Buddha often summarized his teachings in just two sentences: There is suffering (dukkha), and there is a way

for its complete extinction. The Buddha carried out in depth investigation into the existential suffering of sentient existence and arrived at progressively deeper realizations, till he reached the very roots from which springs all suffering. Thus, in the very first discourse delivered after his Enlightenment, the Buddha describes suffering (Bodhi 2000a) as: Birth is suffering, aging is suffering, illness is suffering, death is suffering; union with what is displeasing is suffering; separation from what is pleasing is suffering; not to get one wants is suffering; in brief, the five aggregates subject to clinging are dukkha(suffering). While the bulk of the explanation is self evident, the italicised last part of the above sentence clearly needs some explanation. Through his penetrative insight the Buddha noticed that what we call I or a being is only a concatenation of the five impermanent aggregates, viz. the bodily form, consciousness, perception, feelings and volitional mental formations, which work interdependently, changing from moment to moment in accordance with the law of cause and effect; there is no immutable entity called me. What these aggregates are and how these are of the nature of dukkha, we can understand from other sutta (Bodhi 2000b): The four great elements 1 and the form derived from the four great elements: this is called form..and why,bhikkhus, do you call it form? It is deformed bhikkhus, therefore it is called form. Deformed by what? Deformed by cold, deformed by heat, deformed by hunger, deformed by thirst, deformed by contact with flies, mosquitoes, wind, sun and serpents.. And what, bhikkhus, is feeling? There are these six classes of feeling: feeling born of eye-contact, feeling born of ear-contact, feeling born of nose-contact, feeling born of tongue-contact, feeling born of bodycontact, feeling born of mind-contact. This is called feeling. And bhikkhus, why do you call it feeling? It feels, bhikkhus, therefore it is called feeling. And what does it feel? It feels pleasure, it feels pain, it feels neither-pain-nor pleasure. And what, bhikkhus, is perception? There are these six classes of perception: perception of forms, perception of sounds, perception of odours, perception of tastes, perception of tactile objects, perception of mental phenomena. This is called perception. With the arising of contact there is the arising of perception And why, bhikkhus, do you call it perception? It perceives, 1 Namely the earth element(pathavi), water element(apo), fire element (tejo) and the air element(vayu) bhikkhus, therefore it is called perception. And what does it perceive? It perceives blue, it perceives yellow, it perceives red, it perceives white.. And what, bhikkhus, are volitional formations? There are the six classes of volition: volition regarding forms, volition regarding sounds, volition regarding odours, volition regarding tastes, volition regarding tactile objects, volition regarding mental phenomena. With the arising of contact there is the arising of volitional formations. And why, bhikkhus, do you call them volitional formations? They construct the conditioned, bhikkhus, therefore they are called volitional formations. And what, bhikkhus, is consciousness? There are the six classes of consciousness: eye-consciousness, ear- consciousness, nose- consciousness, tongue-consciousness, body-consciousness, mind-consciousness. With the arising of name and form there is the arising of consciousness. And why, bhikkhus, do you call it consciousness? It cognizes, bhikkhus, therefore it is called consciousness. And what does it cognize? It cognizes sour, it cognizes bitter, it cognizes pungent, it cognizes sweet, it cognizes sharp, it cognizes mild, it cognizes salty, it cognizes bland And, bhikkhus, from what are sorrow, lamentation, pain, displeasure, and despair born? How are they produced? Here, bhikkhus, the uninstructed worldling.. regards form as self, or self as possessing form, or form as in self, or self as in form. That form of his changes and alters. With change and alteration of form, there arise in him sorrow, lamentation, pain, displeasure, and despair. He regards feeling as self perception as self volitional formations as self consciousness as self, or self as possessing consciousness, or consciousness as in self, or self as in consciousness. That consciousness of his changes and alters. With the change and alteration of consciousness, there arise in him sorrow lamentation, pain displeasure and despair. In another sutta we find a clear enunciation of how the notion of I arises due to clinging to these five aggregates (Bodhi 2000c) It is by clinging, Ananda, that the notion of I am occurs, not without clinging. And by clinging to what does I am occur? It is by clinging to form that I am occurs, not without clinging. It is by clinging to feeling to perception to volitional formations to consciousness that I am occurs, not without clinging. Suppose, friend Ananda, a young woman or a manyouthful and fond of ornaments would examine her own facial image in a mirror she would look at it

with clinging. So too, it is by clinging to form that Iam occurs, not without clinging. It is by clinging to feeling to perception to volitional formations to consciousness that I am occurs, not without clinging. In the light of above exposition, it should be clear why these aggregates are termed as dukkha. These are by their inherent nature conditioned, subject to change. We all experience these changes and since we take these personally, whether it is the change in body due to illness or old age, or the change in feelings due to interaction with the sensory world etc., we suffer. The basic reason for this suffering can be easily seen as our attachment to any or all of these aggregates - regarding them as: This is mine, this I am, this is my self. Conjugate to the notion of I and mine, is the perception of thee and thine ; and from these notions originates the entire egocentric world to which we relate with a self-centered perspective, with craving (raga) or aversion (dosa), with strong likes and dislikes, the immediate cause of all suffering, all conflicts. The way out of this existential suffering also becomes clear from this investigation. As put concisely in another sutta (Nanamoli and Bodhi 1995a): The desire, indulgence, inclination, and holding based on these five aggregates affected by clinging is the origin of suffering. The removal of desire and lust, the abandonment of desire and lust for these five aggregates affected by clinging is the cessation of suffering. The Buddha gave detailed instructions on the practical training of the mind to actually bring about this abandonment of desire. Clearly it cannot be done by exerting will power and suppressing the desire as and when it arises; for such an effort has its roots in the desire to remove the desire. The only way this can be done is by nonjudgmental acceptance of the reality of the desire as and when it arises, without any aversion, and patiently waiting for it to cease naturally. All conditioned phenomena being impermanent, natural cessation of whatever arises in the mind is assured; all we need to do is to resist our instinctive tendency to fiddle with it, and patiently observe its arising and passing away. Thus the path of abandonment of desire essentially consists of systematic cultivation of the mindfulness of these aggregates clearly comprehending their characteristics of impermanence, suffering and non-self. As the meditator repeatedly sees these aggregates through personal direct experience, as these really are, with this wisdom, (s)he progressively develops disenchantment towards them. This in turn leads to dispassion. The disenchantment progressively uproots the self-view, the ego, and dispassion purifies the mind by extinguishing the fire of raga and dosa continuously burning within it. As this fire gets somewhat quenched, the pristine characteristics of the pure mind, viz. loving kindness (maitri), compassion (karuna), altruistic joy (mudita) and equanimity (upekkha) get an opportunity to come to the fore. Thus awakening from the illusion of personality marks the beginning of inner transformation, of liberation from the ever present anxiety that seems to be the fate of worldlings. In modern psychological terminology, this could be called as radical healing. The Concept of Non-self (Anatta) What distinguishes the teachings of the Buddha from those of all other spiritual teachers is the teaching of no abiding self. The Buddha states that the theory of an immutable entity called the SELF, soul or atman has been postulated only to allay the instinctive fear in human beings of extinction at death. All our experiences are just the psychosomatic phenomena associated with the five aggregates which, due to our strong identification with them, (and limitations of language, 2 as pointed out a few centuries later by Nagarjuna) we interpret as happening to me. These aggregates are intricately inter-related and constantly undergoing change, there being no permanent ontological entity which could be termed as I. Apart from the aggregates there is no distinct being the feeler, the thinker or the doer; just as there is no forest apart from the trees; no car apart from the component parts (viz. the axle, the wheels, the chassis, the engine, the fuel tank, the steering etc.); no river apart from the water flowing between the two banks. The apparent continuity of identity, its persistence in spite of the evident change in the aggregates, is due to the illusion created by memory, and the gradual nature of the change, especially in the physical body and in the intellect which determines our perceptions. These changes are so gradual that these do not draw our attention, and we mistakenly posit a continuity of identity. Only when there is a quantum change, say, due to an accident or an illnessphysical or mental- that we become conscious of these changes, but even then we, because of our conditioning, think of these as unpleasant occurrences, happening to I. David Loy(2008a) points out that modern psychology also accepts anatta : Contemporary psychology has also realized that the sense of self is a psychological-social-linguistic construct: psychological, because the ego-self is 2 Thus when there is the experience of ache in the head, we say I am having headache ; when abusive words are heard, we say I am being abused, both these statements reinforcing the illusion of an entity I behind the experience.

product of mental conditioning; social, because a sense of self develops in relation with other constructed selves; and linguistic, because acquiring a sense of self involves learning to use certain names and pronouns such as I,me, mine, myself which create the illusion that there must be some thing being referred to. If the word cup refers to this thing I am drinking coffee out of, then we mistakenly infer that I must refer to someone in the same way. This description of self-ing is also corroborated by the recent scientific researches in this field. Extensive studies by Damasio on neuro-biology of emotions and feelings have brought out that the sense of self arises not just because of our ability to think as Descartes implied in his famous statement, I think, therefore I am but arises from the brain s ability to sense the somatic sensations and the associated feelings. Since these sensations and feelings are changing incessantly, the sense of self also arises from moment to moment (Damasio 1994). The self is a repeatedly reconstructed biological state; it is not a little person, the infamous homunculus, inside your brain contemplating what is going on. It doesn t help to invoke a homunculus doing any seeking or thinking or whatever in your brain, because the natural question is whether the brain of that homunculus also has a little person in his brain doing his seeing and thinking, and so on ad infinitum. Early body signals, in both evolution and development, helped form a basic concept of self ; this basic concept provided the ground reference for whatever else happened to the organism, including the current body states that were incorporated continuously in the concept of self and promptly became past state. At each moment the state of self is constructed, from the ground up. It is an evanescent reference state, so continuously and consistently reconstructed that the owner never knows it is being remade unless something goes wrong with the remaking. The continuity of background feelings befits the fact that the living organism and its structure are continuous as long as life is maintained. Unlike our environment, whose constitution does change, and unlike the images we construct relative to that environment, which are fragmentary and conditioned by external circumstance, background feeling is mostly about body states. Our individual identity is anchored on this island of illusory living sameness against which we can be aware of myriad other things that manifestly change around the organism.. Our experiences tend to have a consistent perspective, as if there were indeed an owner and knower for most, though not all, contents. I imagine this perspective to be rooted in a relatively stable, endlessly repeated biological state. The source of stability is the predominantly invariant structure and operation of the organism, and the slowly evolving elements of autobiographical data... In brief the endless reactivation of updated images about our identity (a combination of memories of the past and of the planned future) constitutes a sizable part of the state of self. Thus, in accordance with these researches too, it is the predominantly invariant nature of the background feelings, and the slowly changing autobiographical data, which are responsible for our perception of continuity of identity. There is no separate immutable SELF, soul or atman which gives rise to the notion of I. Implications of Anatta The delusion of self view, the notion of my being a separate person with a distinct immutable identity, a distinct image, which needs to be preserved and further improved, is at the root of all dukkha. From the notion of I arises the notion of mine; and co-arise their conjugates thee and thine. We look at the world with an ego-centric perspective: those who help fulfill our aspirations become our friends, whom we like and extol; and those who seem to obstruct these, we treat them as adversaries, whom we detest. As a result most of our interactions with the world our response to the sensations and feeling originating from our interaction with the world are governed by cravings and aversions. Over a period of time these become deeply ingrained in us as deep seated habit patterns making us behave like an automata. Individually we are never at peace, and neither are those who interact with us. Thus spread the viruses of mental defilements like pride, dissatisfaction, anxiety, fear, ill will, hatred which manifest as strife, crime and violence in the society. Unless these habit patterns, these underlying tendencies are removed, explains the Buddha cogently, the suffering would not abate (Nanamoli and Bodhi 1995b): Bhikkhus, dependent on the eye and forms, eye consciousness arises; dependent on the ear and sounds, ear consciousness arises, Dependent on the mind and the mind-objects, mind consciousness arises; the meeting of the three is contact; with contact as condition there arises [a feeling] felt as pleasant or painful or neither painful-nor-pleasant. When one is touched by a pleasant feeling, if one delights in it, welcomes it and remains holding on to it, then the underlying tendency to lust lies within one. When one is touched by a painful feeling, if one sorrows, grieves

and laments, weeps beating one s breast and becomes distraught, then the underlying tendency to aversion lies within one. When one is touched by neither painful-nor-pleasant feeling, if one does not understand as it actually is the origination, the disappearance, the gratification, the danger, and the escape in regard to that feeling, then the underlying tendency to ignorance lies within one. Bhikkhus, that one shall here and now make an end of suffering without abandoning the underlying tendency to lust for pleasant feeling, without abolishing the underlying tendency to aversion towards painful feeling, without extirpating the underlying tendency to ignorance in regard to neither-painful-nor-pleasant feeling, without abandoning ignorance and arousing true knowledge this is impossible. The Buddha recognized this causal connection very soon during his spiritual quest. He realized that sakkayadithi the mistaken belief in the existence of a unique person to whom belong the five aggregates and these mental defilements, form a vicious cycle strengthening each other. It is because of sakkayadithi that mental defilements originate, and these mental defilements further strengthen sakkayadithi. He therefore kept his goal focused on finding a practical method of breaking this vicious cycle. The practice of the noble eightfold path that he discovered, progressively reduces these mental defilements and as the defilements reduce, so does the ego. As one is released even a little from the tentacles of self view, the pristine characteristics of the pure mind, which otherwise lie buried deep inside the heaps of mental defilements, now get a chance to manifest. The progressive manifestation of these characteristics, viz. loving kindness (maitri), compassion (karuna), altruistic joy (mudita) and equanimity (upekkha), naturally leads to extinction of dukkha. for all of them have their origin in these mental defilements, having their roots in ego. No I, No problems, as one contemporary Master puts it. The Buddha explained the same to his disciples with an interesting analogy (Nanamoli and Bodhi 1995c). Bhikkhus, what do you think? If people carried off the grass, sticks, branches, and leaves in this Jeta Grove, or burned them, or did what they liked with them, would you think: People are carrying us off or burning us or doing what they like with us? - No venerable Sir Why not? Because that is neither our self nor what belongs to our self. -So too, bhikkhus, whatever is not yours, abandon it; when you have abandoned it, that will lead to your welfare and happiness for a long time. What is not yours? Material form is not yours Feeling is not yours Perception is not yours Formations are not yours Consciousness is not yours. Abandon it. When you have abandoned it; that will lead to your welfare and happiness for a long time. Concluding Remarks Every human being does, sometime or the other, recognize the reality of his mortality; and is forced to ask that big question: what is life? Most of us, unable to get a satisfactory answer, repress the question itself by keeping ourselves busy in various pursuits, which we, collectively as a society, approve of as good and of great immediate importance. But, as Freud taught, repression does not work. It comes to haunt us in different guises. David Loy (2008b) associates the perpetual sense of dis-ease that mankind suffers from with the repression of not just the fear of extinction of my self at death, but with the uncomfortable sense of unreality at our core. This repression apparently manifests as a sense of lack, something lacking or missing in life lack of money, lack of power, lack of authority, lack of love, lack of belongingness, lack of enjoyment, lack of esteem, lack of fame, etc. which seems to justify the anxiety that I find myself in perpetually, and my intense efforts to fill this lack. The Buddha gives us a direct way out of this anxiety: face it! Face the unreality (Nagarjuna prefers the word emptiness ) of the sense of self. This, in practical terms, amounts to just observing the interplay of body and mind, the five aggregates, without any craving or aversion. As we repeatedly come face to face with our habitual ways of thinking, feeling, behaving, the process of de-construction of the I instinctively built up over the years gets initiated. We are no longer interested in making real our illusory self by various artifices of wealth, power, fame etc., as we used to do hitherto. We become free of the bondage of having to defend our image. This living death of the egoself naturally leads to extinction of all suffering, As the poet Saint Kabir puts it beautifully in Hindi : Jiite ji mari rahe Bahuri nahii marana hai (if one dies while alive, there are no more deaths!) References Bodhi, B. (2000a). The connected discourses of the Buddha, (A Translation of the Samyutta Nikaya). Wisdom Publications, Boston, 56.11, p. 1844.

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