The BSNA Convention A dream come true by Anoop Bhargava

April 1995 Volume 1 Issue 2 The BSNA Convention A dream come true by Anoop Bhargava apna loves to dream, may be it is in her name or what? She is a sophomore student at MIT and visiting her parents during the spring break. Her parents had come to United States about twelve years back when she was five years old. She had grown up in this country and it had been mostly an interesting and challenging experience for her. On Saturday, her father and mother were watching an old Hindi movie of Dilip Kumar and Madhubala. Sapna got bored, she picked up something from the table to read and went to her bedroom and started flicking channels on the TV. She was also reading what she had picked up from the family room. After changing channels for about fifteen minutes, she finally settled to watch Saturday Night Live. It was one of her favorite shows. She doesn't remember (nor do we) how long she watched the TV but soon she was cruising in the dream-land and this was no ordinary dream. She found herself in the peaceful town of Allentown, Pennsylvania where the first Convention of Brahman Samaj of North America was being held. Her father Viresh had talked to her about the convention in the evening but Sapna had strongly resisted the idea of going there. She had been in many similar events before (generally dragged by her father, as she claims). All she heard in those events were the problems that parents face in raising their children in this foreign land. Nobody wanted to listen to what the children have to say or the problems they face in trying to keep a balance between two different cultures. So even in her dreams she was surprised to find herself there. Must be Dad's conspiracy, she thought. But once she was there, the first thing that struck her was that everything seemed to be in order. She and the family was greeted warmly at Days Inn. The hotel- room was neat and clean and had two double beds. She was glad to find that the hotel had an outdoor swimming pool, volley-ball courts, health and racquet club facilities. After a quick registration (and a cup of coffee), she started mingling around in the crowd. She was glad to find that there were enough people from her own age group. There was one face that looked very familiar to her but she couldn't figure it out. Finally she went and introduced herself. He turned out to be Vinay, her one year senior at MIT. They had seen each other Amitabh Bachchan, Michael Jackson to attend the BSNA convention? Ramesh Pande with Sushmita Sen Not only them but many stellar dignitaries including Sushmita Sen (the Miss Universe), Madhuri Dixit, Salman Khan, and Dilip Kumar will not attend the BSNA convention. Feel cheated? Sorry, just a little editorial joke. It is the season of Holi that induces such jokes. The next sentence is true, honest. Michael Jackson and Amitabh Bachchan will be there, not in their original personality, but as impersonated by our star entertainer Ramesh Pande. See p4. Prof Rama N Sharma The Keynote speaker- A reputed scholar Prof. Rama Nath Sharma, the Key-note speaker at the BSNA convention, is a Professor of Sanskrit in the Department of Hawaiian and Indo-Pacific Languages at the University of Hawaii, Honolulu. He is a Sanskrit scholar of international fame. He has published scores of poems, literary criticisms and articles on linguistics in general, and Hindi linguistics in particular, in journals of repute. His recent publications include books on Hindi and Panini (the famous Sanskrit grammarian of the 5th century BC). Perhaps the most significant contribution of Prof. Sharma is a five volume study on Panini's grammar of the Sanskrit language that started in 1978. He has completed four volumes.; three of these have already been published by Munshiram Manoharlal, Publishers of New Delhi. The final volume is expected to be completed by the end of 1995. In his own words What a relief! Prof. Sharma received his MA in Hindi Literature from the University of Allahabad and in Linguistics from the K.M. Institute, Agra. He received his Ph.D. in General Linguistics, from the University of Rochester, Rochester, New York. He studied Sanskrit and rituals at home from his father. Prof. Sharma, the eldest son of Sh Raghunath Sharma and Smt.Bacci Devi, was born at Chhata, Ballia in U.P. Prof. Sharma is the worthy son of a worthy father. His father, Sh.Raghunath Sharma, a famous scholar of Sanskrit, was a recipient of certificate of merit and Padmashri from the President of India, and also the first to receive the coveted Rs. 100,000 award, Sanskrit Vishvabharati, from the Prime Minister Brahma-Bharati Publication of the BSNA The Pre-covention Issue

From your Editor Welcome to the second issue of the Brahma- Bharati. The first issue was very well received for which we sincerely thank all our readers and authors. We particularly thank those readers who were kind enough to give us their suggestions and comments- compliments as well as criticizms. We have seriously considered all the comments and already introduced some changes in this issue. The most striking change that you may have already noticed is the spelling Bharati instead of Bharti. Your comments on this and the future issues will be most welcome. This is your journal. Please do write to us. Keep your computer keys clicking. A special note of thanks to Mr. Ram Bhargava of Indianpolis for his help and support in bringing out the Brahma-Bharati and the BSNA directory. His press, the Bhar Printing Inc. of Indianapolis, handled the difficult task of printing and mailing the two publications with exemplary efficiency. Some readers inquired about the significance or wisdom of printing the picture of a barking dog in the editorial column. It was actually a mixup. I intended to publish my own picture but by mistake I used the dog s picture since the two pictures looked so much alike. That can not be true, says a friend, because the dog looks smart. All right, the real objective was to convey the message that barking editors dont bite. It is the season of the Holi--the festival of humor and the spring season with all its colors. However, at the moment, sitting in Colorado with several inches of snow outside, Spring feels to be remote. Nevertheless, Holi does bring back nice memories. Recently, a friend told me about the Akhil Bhartiya Moorkh Sammelan (All India Fools Convention) that used to be held in Delhi on the day of Holi every year. An important activity of the convention was the election of the Maha-Moorkh (The greatest fool) who chaired the convention. Once this honor was given to the Mayor of Delhi. In his Presidential speech, the Mayor made the key statement that only fools can save the world. Unfortunately, that proved to be his undoing. The delegates immediately protested that the Mayor had made a wise statement and, therefore, was not worthy of the honor of chairing the great convention. There were many such interesting events. I toyed with the idea of starting a similar activity here. However, my friend is unenthusiastic. It would be impractical, he says, Too many people will qualify. Happy Holi. From your President Dear fellow Brahmans: We have moved forward once again on several fronts. It is heartening to note that our two recent publications, namely the Brahma Bharati and the directory of Brahmans, have been received with great enthusiasm, pride and a sense of accomplishment. The plans have now been finalized for the annual convention set for July 1 and 2, 1995. It will be held at the Days Inn Conference Center, in Allentown, Pennsylvania, not New Jersey as previously announced.. This is the most ambitious project undertaken thus far by us. The registration campaign has been very successful as 75% of the rooms have been already assigned. We are planning to welcome up to 400 fellow Brahmans about half of whom will be young adults and children who were born outside India, and will be curiously looking to find what does it actually mean to be a Brahman. Many of the participants are seeing this Your BSNA organization Board of Trustees Members: Ram D. Chaudhary, Oswego, NY (315) 343-3583; Onkar P. Dwivedi, Guelph, ONT (519) 822-2534; Satya S. Pachori, Jacksonville, FL (904) 737-7829; Ghanshyam N. Pandey, Burr Ridge, IL (708) 789-0569; Rama Nath Sharma, Honolulu, HI (808) 395-2400; Suresh C. Tiwari, Fayette, MS (601) 786-3408. Executive Committee: President: Nirmal Choubey, Manlius, NY (315) 682-5013; General Secretary: Shyam N. Shukla, Fremont, CA (510) 770-1218; Treasurer: Bha Dutt Shukla; Asst. Secretary: Lakshmi S. Dube, DDA, P.Q. (514) 685-4278; Shrinath Dwivedi, Calgary, ALTA (403) 274-0269; Kailash C. Sharma, Bronx, NY (718) 379-5449; Hans Upadhyay,Elk Grove, IL (708) 529-7957; Shrikant Vajpayee, Hattiesburg, MS; (601) 268-6615. Area Coordinators: Alberta- Shrinath Dwivedi, Calgary (R7) (403) 274-0269; Arizona- Prem Bhardwaj, Mesa (602) 897-1340; California- Shyam N. Shukla, Fremont (R5) (510) 770-1218; Colorado- C.P. Misra, Littleton (R4); Florida- Satya S. Pachori, Jacksonville (904) 737-7829; Hawaii- Abha Dubey, Honolulu (808) 373-2827; Illinois- Pradeep Sharma, Aurora (708) 898-3889; Hans Upadhyay, Elk Grove (R3) (708) 529-7957; Indiana-Anil Bajpai, Indianapolis (317) 299-4323; Lousiana- Dhirendra Sharma, Alexandria (318) 445-9841; Maine- Mahesh Chaturvedi, Bangor (207) 848-3512; Maryland- Jitender P. Dubey, Greenbelt (301) 474-7161; Massachusetts- Anita Dubey, Wilmington (508) 658-2411; Awadh K. Pandey, Plainville (508) 699-8450; Michigan- Subhash C. Upadhyay, Fenton (810) 629-2770; Minnesota- Satyendra Chaturvedi, Minneapolis (612) 566-3103; Mississippi-Shrikant Vajpayee, Hattiesburg (R2) (601) 268-6615; New Jersey-Dhirendra K. Shukla, Murray Hill (908) 665-8590; Yogi Shukla, Cherryhill (609) 489-0373; New York- Kailash C. event as a novel way to meet relatives and friends, and make some new ones at the same time. This will be the first convention of its type ever held outside India, and this you cannot afford to miss. All signs are that a historic occasion is in the making. Everyone, including the local guests, will be staying at the Days Inn. In my last communiqué, I wrote about our massive mail campaign for new members. The response is encouraging but much more is neded. You have seen how your one name was transformed into a directory of 200 names. Simply stated, you received a return of 200 times the investment in less than a year. The return is actually much larger when one adds the benefit of our own newsletter and an annual convention. Who else, if not you, can tell others about our exceptional achievements to the prospective members. Please lend us a hand. We plan to open Chapters of the BSNA in major metropolitan areas. I am very positive about the future of BSNA, and I am certain we will prevail if we have your active participa- Sharma, Bronx (R1) (718) 379-5449; Nirmal Choubey, Manlius (315)682-5013, Satchidanand Mishra, Webster (716) 872-5985; North Carolina- Ramlal Pandey, Dunn (910) 892-6181; Ohio- Shive K. Chaturvedi, Upper Arlington (614) 481-9614; Oklahoma- Arvind K. Chaturvedi, Norman (405) 329-2590; Ontario-Liladhar Mishra, Missisauga (905) 828-6475, Ganesh Pandey, Orleans (613) 837-7466, Rekha Sharma, Oakville (905) 827-4955; Quebec- Lakshmi S. Dube, DDA (R6) (514) 685-4278; South Dakota- Chandradhar Dwivedi, Brookings (605) 697-5987; Texas- Pooran C. Tripathi, Houston (R4) (713) 984-9946, Shambhu N. Tripathi, Spring (713) 350-9294; Virginia- Ajay Pandey, Yorktown (804) 766-2075; West Virginia- Surendra Dwivedi, Morgantown (304) 598-2646. (R- indicares responsibilty for a region as identifed below ) Regions : 1- NORTHEAST: CT/DC/DE/ME/MD/MA/NH/NJ/NY/PA/RI/VT/ VA/ WV 2- SOUTHEAST: AL/FL/GA/MS/NC/SC/TN 3- MIDWEST: IL/IN/IA/KY/MI/MN/MO/NE/ND/OH/SD/WI 4- SOUTHWEST: AR/CO/KS/LA/NM/OK/TX 5- WEST: AK/AZ/CA/HI/ID/MT/NV/OR/UT/WY 6- CANADA EAST: NB/NF/NS/ONT/QUE/PEI 7- CANADA WEST: ALTA/BC/MAN/NWT/SASK/YU Brahma-Bharti published by Brahman Samaj of North America (BSNA), POB- 371, Manlius, NY 13104-0371. Editor- Dr. Vinod Tewary. All correspondence to Brahma-Bharti should be addressed to the Editor, c/o BSNA at the address given above, or e-mail given below. E-mail: bg158@freenet.hsc.colorado.edu. Brahma-Bharati April 1995 Page 2

The same question- the same answer By Dr. Vinod Tewary Same questions come up - again and again. Is the BSNA an attempt to resurrect the infamous Hindu caste system? Is it a narrow minded, conservative, and reactionary association? Is it relevant in the contemporary American context? The answers are also the same- -in that order--no, NO, and YES. No rational person would support the evils of the Hindu caste system. At the same time no rational person would deny or disown his/her own identity. The point is simply this. It is perfectly natural, desirable, and indeed important, that persons of similar interests, culture, or heritage, interact with each other. Once we accept similar people coming together, we automatically introduce a boundary defined by that similarity of interest. At the same time, we transcend some other boundaries. For example, the Hindi Samiti will introduce a barrier of interest in Hindi, but cut across the boundaries of caste, religion, or nationality. An Indian association will cut across the barriers of languages, regions, etc., but will be restricted to Indians. Similarly, the BSNA brings brahman on one platform, and transcends all other barriers of language and regional affiliations. Of course, brahmanatva is much more than just a casual interest. It is a heritage, a specific cultural background, and a philosophy of life. It defines the essence of our personality. It happens that brahmans have been the elite of the Hindu society. However, the argument is not whether being a brahman is better or worse than being something else, but that is what we are..if we disown ourselves, we would lose our basic strength. Hindus have been ruled by others for more than a thousand years. The rulers have always tried to discredit Hindus in general and brahmans in particular because the brahmans were regarded as the biggest threat. Alexander the Great (so-called great) was finally beaten by one brahman, the great Chanakya. Yet, the brahmans did not accept any material benefits. Chanakya, who could become the king, did not even accept the primeministership. Traditionally, brahmans have supported other communities (I am sure there would be exceptions). It is largely because of the constant propaganda by our foreign rulers, that some of us think that it is (pseudo) fashionable to disown our heritage and feel ashamed about our cultural background. Rising above the caste system, or having a friendly attitude towards other communities, does not require that we disown ourselves. It is normal, indeed necessary, to give ourselves a label of identification. For example, all of us have a first name and a family name that defines our family, caste, or subcaste affiliations.. The whole purpose of the name is to provide an identity label. Being a brahman, or whatever our cultural background is, provides a wider identity. We all take pride in our lineage. In order to be pseudo-fashionable, are we supposed to be ashamed of our name, our origin, our family, or ourselves? People who have a strong self-respect, also respect others. If I am proud of my own culture and heritage, I will expect that a person of other culture will also be proud of his/her culture. I will, therefore, have a natural respect for other cultures and communities. On the other hand, if I have an inferiority complex about my own culture, I can not treat the other cultures with any respect. There is something inherently scientific and refreshing about the unity in the diversity of brahmans. The different subcastes of the brahmans like Shuklas, Mishras, etc., are very close and related to each other. The reason is that a traditional brahman marriage is arranged between families of different subcastes. As a Brahma-Bharati April 1995 A word from your General Secretary By Dr. Shyam Shukla This is an appeal to all our members to set aside the period April 15 to May 15 for the membership drive. We ask that you contact 10 prospective members and stay in touch until at least three of them have signed up. Without your active participation, we will not succeed in reaching our modest goal of increasing the membership to 500. BSNA is currently engaged in four initiatives. These are: (i) Directory of brahmans in North America, (ii) a quarterly news letter, Brahma-Bharati, (iii) annual convention, and (iv) Chapters in major metropolitan areas. These are solely for the benefit of the Brahman community. The directory allows us to network with others of similar background and interest. Kids can find the right college, and may be even their first job. Adults may find another person who has tackled the same issues that he or she is facing now or is likely to face in future. The convention could be a place to spend time with friends and relatives, all at one nice location and also at the same time with no dishes to wash or house to vacuum. Housewives please note. The chapters allow a more intimate ************* relationship than it would be possible otherwise. This is where religious and cultural functions are held. Won t you please make those calls today! The BSNA News *The BSNA is registered as a Not-For-Profit Corporation in the State of New York. *Mr. Bhaw Dutt Shukla of New York is the new Treasurer of the BSNA. *Mr. C.P. Mishra is the Area Coordinator of the Colorado area. *Mr. Dhirendra Sharma is the Area Coordinator of the Loisiana area. *************************** Meeting at Old Bridge, NJ By N. Choubey On January 21, 1995 a luncheon meeting was hosted by Mr. & Mrs. Kailash and Savitri Sharma of Bronx, New York, at the residence of their daughter and son-in-law, Richa and Shivendra Pandey in Old Bridge, New Jersey, in their absence. The meeting was attended by 22 people. We also had a visitor from Europe. An excellent pot-luck luncheon was arranged by Mrs. Neelam Agnihotri. Most of the time was devoted on the make up of the directory, database and membership registration form. Some attendees felt passionately about many of the questions asked on the forms and would like to see them omitted. This meeting was unique in the sense that not even a single person was opposed to the idea of forming BSNA, and were very appreciative of what had already been achieved. Several members volunteered to help in the membership drive. About half of the attendees were already directory participants and several others have joined us since then. The attendees were Anoop and Rajni Bhargava, Prabudh and Manorama Misra, Kailash and Shiela Sharma, Kailash and Savitri Sharma, Rajendra Shukla, Virendra Nath Ojha, Nand and Munna Jha, Vinod Tiwari, Vinod Bhardwaj (from Holland), Vijay and Ranjana Agnihotri, Neelam Agnihotri, Chandra Pandey, Kavita Pandey, V.P. Kaushik, and myself with my wife Mukul. Welcome to BSNA We welcome the following new members Chaturvedi, Prasoon and Neelima (Waltham, MA); Dixit, Rajiv and Madhuri (Baltimore, MD); Jha, Nand Kishore and Munna (Bronx, NY); (cont p7-mem) Panditji bought a rather expensive pure wool sweater for his teenage daughter. When she tried the sweater, Panditji asked her how it was. Oh Dad, said the daughter enthusiastically, It is cool. What a waste of money, Panditji said in disgust, For that price, I thought it would be very warm. * Ram: Hey, Mohan, I heard you won $100,000 at Las Vegas. Is it true? Mohan: Not exactly. Ram: Well, what is the truth? Mohan: One thing, it was not at Las Vegas. It was at Atlantic city. Ram: Oh, that s all right. How does the place matter? Let s celebrate. Mohan: Then, the amount was not $100,000. It was only $20,000. Ram: That is still a good amount. Come on, let s celebrate. Mohan: Finally, I did not win that amount. I lost it. ************* Geeta: Happy birthday, Shanti! Shanti: Thank you. Geeta: How old are you now? Shanti: Forty one. Geeta: Come on, you said the same thing on your last birthday! Shanti: Yes, of course. You see, I am not one of those, who keep changing their statements. Once I say something, I stick to that. The poetry corner From Ramcharitmanas (By Tulsidas) (in Hindi) Vari Mathe ghrit hoi baru sikta te baru teil; Binu Hari bhaje na bhav tarahi, yehu siddhanta apail (Approx. translation) May be, water if churned long enough, turns into butter; or one may get oil from sand; but one can not cross the ocean of life, without worshipping God. This theory can not be vio- Page 3

All roads lead to Allentown, Pa Preparations are going on at a frantic pace for the first BSNA convention to be held on July 1-2, at Allentown, Pennsylvania. Mr. Anoop Bhargava, the Coordinator, and other members of the Convention committee, Dr Anita Dubey, Mr. Ramakant Chaturvedi, Mr. Kailash Chandra Sharma, and Mr. Dhirendra Kumar Shukla. They are working really hard. By all indications, it is going to be a great event. There is going to be something for every body. In addition to various thought provoking talks and discussions, there will be lively cultural programs. Teenagers will be given a full session for saying whatever they want to say. There will be a dance session with a professional DJ, and a KaviSammelan. The keynote address will be given by Prof. Ramanath Sharma of the University of Hawaii. Prof Sharma is an internationally acclaimed expert of Linguistics, and a scholar of Sanskrit and Hindi. We will have Ramesh Pande with us who is from Hollywood and is a star enterainer as well as a yogi. Finally, we will have a whole day of picnic with lots of games including some for very young children and a yoga demonstration by Mr. Pande. So, come to the convention for a miniholiday, away from the daily chores. You will have plenty of fun--social, cultural, as well as intellectual. But, before that, you have to register for the convention. See p8 for How to get there Place: Days Inn Conference Center, 1151 Bulldog Drive; Allentown, Pa. 18104. Phone: (610) 395-3731. Convenient Airports: Newark (NJ)- 80m, Philadelphia (Pa)-60m. From North or South: North East Extension of Pa. turnpike to Exit 33, Lehigh Valley. Turn east on Route 22, 1/2 mile; Exit 309 What the hotel promises The Days Inn Conference Center at Allentown, Pa, where the BSNA convention will be held, has following facilities and amenities: Outdoor pool; sand volleyball court; 27 acres of grounds; shooter's sports bar & grill; Valley cafe (full service); 282 guest rooms; free parking for over 700 cars; free USA Today newspaper; free incoming faxes; free local calls; just minutes from Lehigh Valley international airport (free transport); nearby health & racquet club facilities (guest privileges)l all rooms equipped with in-room safes; self service washer/dryer; centrally located between Allentown-Bethlehem-Easton. A friendly reminder We trust you have already filled out your membership form and paid your subscription. If not, please do it as soon as possible. The membership form is printed in this issue. Needless to say that the publications and other activites of the association cost money. It is getting increasingly difficult for us to send the publications to those who have not yet paid. Sponsors needed We are looking for sponsors who can donate $1000 towards the expenses of the convetion.bsna needs your support. Please help. north (Tamaqua). At light turn right, and return on service road to the entrance of Days Inn Conference Center. From East: Interstate 78 west to Exit 15. Continue on Rte 309 north 2 miles: (cross under RT 22 bypass). Days Inn on immediate right. From West: Interstate 78 east to Route 22 exit 15 (Whitehall). Follow Route 22 for 2 miles, exit 309 north (Tamaqua). Days Inn on immediate right. Go to light and return on service road. Ramesh Pande The Hollywood Yogi Good news for all those who plan to attend the forthcoming BSNA convention. Ramesh Pande, one of the greatest Indian entertainers in the USA, will be present at the convention and has promised to perform at the cultural program. He will also give a yoga demonstration during the picnic. Ramesh Pande hails from Lucknow. He worked in Bombay before moving to Hollywood. He has acted in several Hindi and English movies such as Don, Razia Sultan, Waqt Kee Deevar, Atoot Rishte, Halloween Madness, and has a role in the Jungle Book, a recently released CD ROM. In addition, he is a TV host and producer. His show regularly airs on the Century Cable in California. The dignitaries whom he has interviewed on his TV show, include Ms Sushmita Sen, the Miss Universe, Ms Kavita Chabra, the Miss India- United States, and Rahul Roy, the famous actor. He is also a mime expert. His impersonation of Michael Jackson is always a big hit. He is well versed in Indian folk and film dances. Overall, Ramesh is a great entertainer. His entertainment shows have won universal acclaim from the Press with flattering reviews like a sterling show, the show of all shows. He occasionally gives entertainment programs at cruises and parties where he is always a big hit, and becomes life of the party with his stellar presence. Ramesh is also an expert yogi. He has taught yoga both in India and the USA for 20 years. He focuses on different aspects of yoga: proper exercise, relaxation, diet, and positive thinking through meditation. Tentative Program July 1, 1995: 7.00-10.00 AM: Registration 10.00-12.00 Noon: Session 1 -(Basic issues) 12.00-1.00 PM: Lunch Break 1.00-2.00 PM: Session 2 -(Keynote Address) 2.00-3.00 PM: Session 3-Traditional valuesyoung adults and teenagers perspective 3.00-4.00 PM: Breakout sessions - What are the issues? (Groups 1: Parents, 2: Young Adults, 3: Teenagers, 4: Young Mothers)- Topics and groups to be finalized. 4.00-6.00 PM: Tea and Check in 6.00-8.00 PM: Cultural Program 8.00-9.00 PM: Dinner 9.00-12.00: Dance/ Kavi-Sammelan July 2, 1995 : Picnic in the Park from 8 am to approx. 4 PM.: There will be yoga demonstration, award ceremony, games for all ages, songs, and other fun-activities. Breakfast, lunch, and tea will be served. Brahma-Bharati April 1995 Page 4

Brahman Samaj of North America (BSNA) Directory/Membership Form Yours Spouse Last/ Maiden Name First/Middle Name Ancestral Place Last education in India Deg/Univ. Yr Last education outside India -Deg/Univ/Yr Profession Employer/Position Children #1 #2 #3 #4 Son/Daughter First Name Last or Current ed.. Deg or Gr. /Univ or school(major/ Yr) Profession Single/Married YES, I (We) want to be BSNA member. Enclosed is a check in US dollars to BSNA for: (Please circle one. People outside N. America can become associate members by paying double the amount.) $5000 (Patron) $250 (Life) $25/ Yr $5/ Yr (full time students) [one copy of the directory and a yr subscription (4 issues) to the Brahma-Bharati free to members] NO, I (We) do not want to be a BSNA member but enclosed is a check of (Please circle one) $15-one copy of the directory $10-one yr subscription (4 issues) to the Brahma-Bharati $25-both (No fee required for inclusion in the directory) Mailing Address Phone number (Day): (Evening): Fax: e-mail: (Signed)Mr/Ms Date I am willing to play an active role in this effort. Please have someone call me--yes/no (Please circle one) Please sign and mail this form to For question and comments BSNA please contact your nearest P.O.B. 371 area coordinator or call N. Choubey Manlius, NY 13104-0371 at (315) 682-5013 (Please turn over for the database registration form) Brahma-Bharati April 1995 Page 5

Brahman Samaj of North America (BSNA) Database Registration Form Note: Please first fill out the registration form for the directory. Yours Spouse Name Age on last birth day Type of brahman/ Gotra Father s first name Mother s maiden name Children #1 #2 #3 #4 Son/Daughter First Name Age on last birth day If married, spouse s name First/Middle/Last Spouse s profession A brief family history Details of children s academic and other accomplishments/interests I understand that the database will primarily be used to the benefit of brahman community. I absolve BSNA or anyone connected with this effort from any wrongdoing. I have the authority to sign this waiver. (Signed)Mr/Ms Date Please sign and mail this form to For question and comments BSNA please contact your nearest P.O.B. 371 area coordinator or call N. Choubey Manlius, NY 13104-0371 at (315) 682-5013 ****************************************************************************************************** Referral Form Please send details of the BSNA and the registration forms to following ( names/addresses/phone numbers) 1. 2. Brahma-Bharati April 1995 Page 6

at the college but never got a (cont p7-anoop) (from p1-anoop)chance to talk to each other. It's a small world, they figured. from a recent movie and by the time she finished herin1985.(cont p7-rns) (fr. p1-rns)prof. Sharma and his song, everybody was singing and clapping with her. wife Kamala have two daughters, Manimala and Neelam, a son, Alok Nath, and three grandchildren, Mrinal, This loud clapping of course woke her up. (see next Soon, the formal ceremony started with the welcomecolumn) It was 2 am in the morning, 'Saturday Night Medha, and Sarang. address in the impressive Ball Room of Days Inn. The Live' was over. She switched off the light and TV, kept I would like to live it again if I could, says Prof. purpose and objectives of Brahman Samaj were briefly the magazine that she was reading and, with a smile onsharma. The greatest thing I learned in life is Sanskrit. explained. What impressed Sapna most was the fact thather face, went to sleep again. Looking forward to retirement when I will get enough a forum was being created to share common experiences When she woke up next morning, she was so excitedtime to read the literature and preach and practice the and provide support to each other. And now was thethat she couldn't wait to tell Viresh about her dream. ideals of the Vedas, Upanishads and the Puranas. A time for mouth watering Luncheon. Sapna always loved She rushed to the breakfast area where Viresh wasgood life should have as its ideal what Kalidasa wrote Indian food. The pure vegetarian food catered by a enjoying his morning coffee. Sapna was still holding theabout the descendants of Raghu: '(I sing praises) of famous local restaurant was delicious. Sapna is very magazine in her hand that she was reading last night. those who practiced knowledge in their adolescence, conscious about what she eats so she was debating aboutdad! you won't believe but guess where I was in the pursued pleasures in their youth; in the old age accepted 'to go or not to go' for a second helping of dessert. Vinay dream last night? Viresh, who was reading the newspa- the conduct of the sages; and at the end relinquished this said, without looking at her, May be in Allentown body by means of Yoga' came to her rescue. He told her about the article heper recently read in the latest issue of American MedicalPennsylvania. Sapna was totally surprised. How do Prof. Sharma feels that two things have served as the Association. According to that article, the calories taken you know that Dad? She asked. Viresh looked up and most sustaining forces in his life: one which he always on week-ends do not count, he told Sapna. Sapna firstsaid Elementary my dear Daughter. Firstly, I know wanted, and the other which he never wanted. He always had a big laugh but then couldn't resist believing thatwhere you went in the dream last night because I waswanted to receive the blessing of his elders particularly theory and proceeded towards the zero calorie 'ras-malai' there too, wasn't I? And secondly the magazine you his parents, and he never wished to incur divine anger. waiting for her. were reading last night is the latest issue of BrahmaAnything other than these two, according to Prof. The key-note address that followed lunch was thoughtbharati describing the program about the convention Sharma, has always been the trappings of the samsara: provoking. It very clearly answered some of the questions they are having on July 1-2. Now it is my turn to ask a samsara which has to be dealt with diligence and she always wanted to ask. The next session wasquestion, Viresh said., Can you guess what I am conscience. There is a lot which is in our own two hands. given to teenagers for talking back to the community, and gave a chance to everybody to understand the teen result, a family would have close relations(contd p7- Why cry over what is beyond our reach? Prof. Sharma s hobbies are Astrology, and, of course, perspective. After that there were parallel break-out vkt) (from p3-vkt) with brahmans of other subcastes. appreciation of good food. In recent years, he has been sessions for groups to discuss specific issues. Each This diversity has brought a genetic excellence to the focusing more on meditation and devotion. Efforts group was 'moderated' by some one from within the brahmans while maintaining the cultural concentration. The feeling of belonging to a diverse yet cultur- group. People talked about their personal experiences in made in meditation are bearing fruits, he says, The future, if pursued diligently, looks very bright. Certainly. We whole-heartedly agree, and look forward to dealing with the issues, what worked and what didn't ally unified community gives us a tremendous sense of work in their particular cases. Sapna had a lot to talk and she even got into heated discussion at times but it security along with an open-minded social outlook. Most of us who grew up in India, automatically got was fun to listen to the experiences of people with whom she shared a similar background. After talking separately, the groups came together. Representatives from each group presented their ideas to each other. Over-all, the afternoon sessions helped explain the 'sometime strange behavior' of one age-group to other. Sapna felt that she knew her father better and understood him more after taking part in this exercise, and communicating to him. The evening was reserved for an interesting cultural program. Sapna was surprised at the talent displayed. There were songs, dances, jokes (good, bad and sic). There was even a surprise Indian item straight from Hollywood. He was really funny. Some of the artists were truly professional in what they performed. Sumptuous dinner followed the cultural program. Sapna hurried through the dinner. No, not because she was counting her calories but because after dinner was the program she had been waiting for. The Ball Room was turned into a dance floor and there was the professional DJ with a catchy beat. Sapna met a lot of other people of her age and had a great time. Sapna found out later that her father Viresh had a great time too attending a 'Kavi Sammelan' in the other room. Even Sapna took a walk to that room during one of her dance-breaks and listened to some of the poems (without falling asleep, to her credit). Later Viresh and others joined the dance-crowd. Sapna doesn't clearly remember till what time she danced but next morning she was woken up by her mother because everybody was ready to go for a picnic. The picnic was arranged in a nearby state park. The park had a lot to offer. There was boating, biking, trails, volley-ball and a nice museum. There were lots of games organized for small children and then there were some for 'not so small children'. She really had fun playing 'Jeopardy (Indian Style)'. There was a Yoga Demonstration too. Her mother had a great time playing 'Antakshari'. There was also an informal cultural program. Normally Sapna stays away from such programs, but she was so thoroughly enjoying everything that she offered to sing herself. She picked a popular Hindi song the benefit of the sense of belonging to a community. Joshi, Hira B. and Deepa (Richmond Hill, Ontario); Living here, our children may have missed this advantage. We, therefore, owe it them, to pass on to them the Aracelis (University, MS); Mishra, C.P and Asha Joshi, Madhup (Waikulu, HI); Joshi, Shrikant and great heritage that was bestowed upon us by our (Littleton, CO); Misra, Prabudh (Staten Island, NY); community. This is obviously not an individual problem. It is a community issue. But the community here Chandra and Seeta (Mclean, VA); Pandey, Aneel Misra, Raga and Kamalesh (Hights Town, NJ); Pande, does not live next door. It is spread all over the Madhukar (Nashville, TN); Pande, Ramesh Chandra continent. We need a platform to bring the people (Los Angeles, CA); Pathak, Bhawani Prasad and Rama together to form the community. The BSNA has been (Hamilton, Ontario); Pathak, Manikant and Chanchal created to play just that role. The creation of the (Corona, NY ); Pathak, Sen and Raj (Missouri City, BSNA is a start, an important start, but not enough. It TX); Prashar, Kanwal Darsahn and Meenakshi is absolutely vital that more and more people join it, (Rockford, IL); Purohit, Nitin D. and Sudha (Troy, influence it, and actively participate in the activities of MI); Sharma, Arvind and Nidhi (Orono, ME); Sharma, the association. The strength of a community is in the Awadesh and Sunita (Laurel, MD); Sharma, Gopal numbers. If you do not like any aspect of the BSNA, or Chandra and Purnima (Severna Park, MD); Sharma, if you feel that it is not adequate, come and change it Jagar and Roshni (Franklin Square, NY); Sharma, from within. We invite you, particularly the younger Kailash C and Shiela (Pomona, NY); Sharma, Kedar people, to use Brahma-Bharati as the medium for and Santosh (Bowie, MD); Sharma, Ramesh and Asha frankly communicating your thoughts. Come and (Flanders, NJ); Sharma, Ramesh C. and Niru (Utica, offer a constructive criticism. We will listen and try to MI); Sharma, Satya Prakash (Richardson, TX); change. Come and make fun of us. We will laugh with Sharma, Sushil and Pavan (Budd Lake, NJ); Sharma, you on our idiosyncrasies. But you have to join us. No Vinod K. and Vinita (Moncton, New Brunswick); body can afford to be a distant observer. If we do not Shukla, Anil and Renuka (Trenton, NJ); Tewary, Rajiv come together today, our children will be rootless and Madhulika (Shreveport, LA); Tiwari, Chandra and tomorrow. Maya (Jersey City, NJ); Tripathi, Anurag and Sushma Let it be absolutely clear: the BSNA will promote a (Cherry Hill, NJ); Tripathi, Rajkishore and Prabha sense of pride in the brahman culture, but at no stage (Cambridge, OH); Trivedi, Uttam and Sarita (Glen the BSNA will advocate any disrespect or animosity Mills, PA); Upadhyay, Shirish and Anusuyaben (Jersey towards other communities, races, or religions. The city, NJ); Vaid, Prabodh K. and Nirmala (Silverspring, aims and objectives of the BSNA, published in the MD); Vyas, Hasmukh and Shakuntla (Milpitas, CA); inaugural issue of the Brahma-Bharati and written in Vyas, Krishna Kant and Jyoti (Harrisburg, PA); Vyas, the constitution, explicitly state that. The BSNA will Mahesh M. and Vasavdatta (Bethelhem, PA). sing the glories of our yesterdays, but live the today, and evolve into tomorrows. We derive strength from Dr. S.R. Sarma It is with profound grief that we inform you of the sad demise of Dr. S.R. Sarma on February 23, 1995. He is survived by his daughter and two sons. He was the founder of Mahatma Gandhi Medical College and the Workers College in Jamshedpur. He was well known in the community as a doctor and a humanitarian. Sorry to hear Justice Govind Mohan Mishra We express our condolence to Mr. Gajendra Mohan Mishra of Fremont, CA on the occasion of the sad demise of his father, Mr. Govind Mohan Mishra, a retired judge of the Patna High Court. Justice Mishra was a distinguished member of Bihar State judicial service for several decades and was a well recognized Brahma-Bharati April 1995 Page 7

BSNA ANNUAL CONVENTION-JULY 1-2, 1995 AT Allentown, Pennsylvania A two-day fun-filled extravaganza for the whole family plus a SPECIAL TREAT FOR YOUNG ADULTS AND TEENAGERS Please register today Registration fee (for BSNA members): Until May 31, 95: $59 per person or $159 per family; Until June 30, 95: $69 per family or $189 per family. Registration at the Convention Center: $ 15 surcharge. Nonmembers please add $25. Please call your nearest representative or a member of the Annual Convention Committee. Annual Convention Committee: Anoop Bhargava (Convention Director)(609)896-1423; Ramakant Chaturvedi (610)861-5952; Anita Dubey (508)658-2411; Kailash Chandra Sharma-(718) 379-5449; Dhirendra Kumar Shukla-(908) 665-8590. REGISTRATION FORM Please register the following person(s): / / / No. of young adults-single(age 20-30) teenagers(age 13 to 19) children (age 1 to 12) toddlers? Please describe if anyone in the party has an interest in performing: BSNA MEMBER: YES / NO (PLEASE CIRCLE ONE) ADDRESS AND PHONE NUMBER: Enclosed is a check to BSNA in the amount of:$ (includes one night accommodation, all meals, and entertainment for up to 5 members per family). Please mail the check and the form to: Mr. N. Choubey, BSNA, POB 371, Manlius, NY 13104-0371. PH: 315-682-5013. From BSNA POB 371 Manlius, NY 13104-0371 inside... The BSNA Convention July 1-2, 1995 A dream come true- p1 How to get there- p3