EXAMI ATIO OF CO SCIE CE FOR ADULTS 1. I am the Lrd yur Gd. Yu shall nt have strange gds befre me. D I give Gd time every day in prayer? D I seek t lve Him with my whle heart? Have I been invlved with superstitius practices r have I been invlved with the ccult? (frtune telling, hrscpes, gd-luck charms, tart cards, palmistry, Ouija bards, seances, reincarnatin?) D I seek t surrender myself t Gd s wrd as taught by the Church? Did I deny that I was Cathlic? Have I ever received cmmunin in the state f mrtal sin? Did I despair f r presume n Gd's mercy? Have I ever deliberately tld a lie in Cnfessin r have I withheld a mrtal sin frm the priest in Cnfessin? Are there ther "gds" in my life? Mney, Security, Drugs, Fame, Pwer, Peple, etc.? D we really want t be transfrmed by the will f Gd, r d we just use ur religin in rder t "lk" like gd Christian peple? D we claim t have gd values, but ften bend r abandn them in rder t fit in and be "part f the grup?" 2. Yu shall nt take the name f the Lrd yur Gd in vain. Have I used Gd s name in vain: lightly r carelessly? Have I been angry with Gd? Have I wished evil upn any ther persn? Did I curse, r break an ath r vw? Have I insulted a sacred persn r abused a sacred bject? 3. Remember t keep hly the Lrd s Day. Have I deliberately missed Mass n Sundays r Hly Days f Obligatin? Have I tried t bserve Sunday as a family day and a day f rest? D I d needless wrk n Sunday? Did I shw reverence in the presence f Jesus in the Mst Blessed Sacrament? 4. Hnr yur father and yur mther. D I hnr and bey my parents? Did I neglect my duties t my husband, wife, children r parents? Did I fail t educate myself n the true teachings f the Church?
Did I fail t actively take an interest in the religius educatin and frmatin f my children? Have I given my family gd religius example, especially t the yung? D I try t bring peace int my hme life? D I care fr my aged and infirm relatives? Did I cause anyne t leave the faith? Did I cause tensin and fights in my family? Did I give a full day's wrk fr a full day's pay? Did I give a fair wage t my emplyees? 5. Yu shall nt kill. Have I had an abrtin r encuraged r helped anyne t have an abrtin? Have I physically harmed anyne? Did I use r cause my spuse t use birth cntrl pills (whether r nt realizing that birth cntrl pills d abrt the fetus if and when cnceived)? Did I attempt suicide? Have I abused alchl r drugs, fighting, quarreling? Did I give scandal t anyne, thereby leading him r her int sin? Have I been angry r resentful, impatient, envius, unkind, prud, revengeful, jealus, lazy? Have I harbred hatred in my heart? D we use ur pwers f influence well, especially ur vting rights, in rder t fight war, ppressin, abrtin and injustice, r d we allw thse evils t cntinue by ur apathy and ur silence? Have I mutilated myself thrugh any frm f sterilizatin? Have I encuraged r cndned sterilizatin? Have I engaged, in any way, in sins against humanlife such as artificial inseminatin r in vitr fertilizatin? Have I participated in r apprved f euthanasia? Did I abuse my children? 6. Yu shall nt cmmit adultery. Nte: In the area f deliberate sexual sins listed belw, all are mrtal sins if there is sufficient reflectin and full cnsent f the will. "N frnicatrs, idlaters, r adulterers, n sdmites,... will inherit the kingdm f Gd." (1 Cr 6:9-10) "Anyne wh lks lustfully at a wman has already cmmitted adultery with her in his thughts." (Mt 5:28)
D we respect the dignity f the human bdy and the hliness f Christian marriage? D we shw that respect in ur speech, r are crude language and jkes ften part f ur cnversatins? Did I abuse my marriage rights? Did I cmmit impure acts with anther - frnicatin (premarital sex), adultery (sex with a married persn)? Have I used any methd f cntraceptin r artificial birth cntrl in my marriage?(by pills, device, withdrawal) Has each sexual act in my marriage been pen t the transmissin f new life? Have I been guilty f masturbatin? Have I been guilty f any hmsexual activity? Did I willfully entertain impure thughts r desires? Have I respected all members f the ppsite sex, r have I thught f ther peple as mere bjects? Did I deliberately lk at impure TV, vides, plays, pictures r mvies? Or deliberately read impure materials? D I seek t be chaste in my thughts, wrds, actins? Did I avid the ccasins f impurity? Am I careful t dress mdestly? Did I marry r advise anyne t marry utside the Church? 7. Yu shall nt steal. Did I steal, help r encurage thers t steal r keep stlen gds? Have I returned r made restitutin fr what I have stlen? D I waste time at wrk, schl, and hme? D I gamble excessively, thereby denying my family f their needs? D I pay my debts prmptly? D I seek t share what I have with the pr? Have I cheated anyne ut f what is justly theirs, fr example creditrs, insurance cmpanies, big crpratins? Did I envy ther peple's families r pssessins? 8. Yu shall nt bear false witness against yur neighbr. Have I lied? Did I deliberately deceive thers, r injure thers by lies? Did I gssip r reveal thers' faults r sins? D I speak badly f thers behind their back? Am I sincere in my dealings with thers? Am I critical, negative r uncharitable in my thughts f thers? D I keep secret what shuld be kept cnfidential? Have I injured the reputatin f thers by slanders? Did I fail t keep secret what shuld be cnfidential?
9. Yu shall nt desire yur neighbr s wife. Have I cnsented t impure thughts? Have I caused them by impure reading, mvies, televisin, cnversatin r curisity? D I pray at nce t banish impure thughts and temptatins? Have I behaved in an inapprpriate way with members f the ppsite sex: flirting, being superficial, etc.? Have we weakened r damaged ur marriage cmmitment thrugh ur bsessin with anther persn? D we respect the cmmitments f thers and help them remain faithful t their prmises? D we treat ur marriages casually in ur cnversatins and attitudes? Have we said r dne anything which made a mckery f ur sacred prmises? 10. Yu shall nt desire yur neighbr s gds. Are we satisfied with what Gd has given us, r are we jealus f thse wh seem t have mre? D we appreciate ur wn gd qualities, r d we cnstantly cmpare urselves with thers and becme resentful r bitter? D I envy the families r pssessins f thers? D we try t prve we are better than thers by bragging r buying mre things? Am I greedy r selfish? D we cpe well with the prblems that cnfrnt us and maintain ur Christian hpe in spite f hard times and difficulties? Are material pssessins the purpse f my life? D we truly "seek first the Kingdm f Gd" in ur lives and place ur trust in Him? D we reflect the peace, hpe and jy f a peple redeemed and made hly by the Bld f Christ? HOW TO GO TO CO FESSIO 1. Yu always have the ptin t g t cnfessin annymusly, that is, behind a screen r face t face, if yu s desire. 2. After the priest greets yu in the name f Christ, make the sign f the crss. He may chse t recite a reading frm Scripture, after which yu say: "Bless me Father fr I have sinned. It has been (state hw lng) since my last cnfessin. These are my sins."
3. Tell yur sins simply and hnestly t the priest. Yu might even want t discuss the circumstances and the rt causes f yur sins and ask the priest fr advice r directin. 4. Listen t the advice the priest gives yu and accept the penance frm him. Then make an Act f Cntritin fr yur sins. An Act f Cntritin O my Gd, I am heartily srry fr having ffended Thee, and I detest all my sins, because I dread the lss f heaven, and the pains f hell; but mst f all because they ffend Thee, my Gd, Wh are all gd and deserving f all my lve. I firmly reslve, with the help f Thy grace, t cnfess my sins, t d penance, and t amend my life. Amen. 5. The priest will then dismiss yu. If he says: "Give thanks t the Lrd fr He is gd. Yu respnd: "Fr His mercy endures frever." The priest will then cnclude with: "The Lrd has freed yu frm yur sins. G in peace." Yu respnd by saying: "Thanks be t Gd." 6. Spend sme time with Our Lrd thanking and praising Him fr the gift f His mercy. Try t perfrm yur penance as sn as pssible. PRAYER BEFORE CO FESSIO O mst merciful Gd! Prstrate at yur feet, I implre yur frgiveness. I sincerely desire t leave all my evil ways and t cnfess my sins with all sincerity t yu and t yur priest. I am a sinner, have mercy n me, O Lrd. Give me a lively faith and a firm hpe in the Passin f my Redeemer. Give me, fr yur mercy s sake a srrw fr having ffended s gd a Gd. Mary, my mther, refuge f sinners, pray fr me that I may make a gd cnfessin. Amen. Mass & Services Parish Bulletin Staff / Ministries Frms Knights f Clumbus Chir Parish Office: 281 Nepean Street, Ottawa, Ontari, K1R 5G2 Tel: (613) 233-1126 Fax:(613) 234-8667 Cpyright 1995-2010. Saint Patrick's Basilica, Ottawa, Ontari, Canada. All rights r