Mary s Shelter 6th Annual Summer Soirée August 1, 2015
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Our History Mary s Shelter was founded in 2006 and has grown from a two-room apartment into an inspiring community of five shared homes. Our program provides women and their children, both born and unborn, with the unique opportunity of living at Mary s Shelter for up to three years in order to further their education and/or secure a career, while also attending in-house parenting and life-skills classes. Each woman is blessed with a mentor who provides hands-on guidance, compassion and support. This foundation ensures women have the necessary time to work toward their goals and provide for their children, making the possibility of independent, stable living a reality. More than 150 women have participated in the Mary s Shelter program and the ripple effect of receiving unconditional love and support has gone beyond what we can measure. This prolife ministry, which is rooted in the teachings and profound love of Christ, seeks to offer hope and a chance for a brighter future for women who have made the beautiful choice of life. 2 Mary s Shelter Sheltering Women & Their Children
Serving the Fredericksburg Area: Family Services Counseling The St. Lucy Project Food Pantries Baby Closet Migration and Refugee Services Emergency Financial Assistance Adoption & Post-Adoption Counseling Serving Mary s Shelter: Counselors from Catholic Charities visit Mary s Shelter to assist the moms with... Individual Counseling Group Therapy Parent Skills Training To receive help or offer help, please contact us: 540-371-1124 info@ccda.net ccda.net arlingtoncatholiccharities.com The PARISH COMMUNITY of SAINT MARY of the IMMACULATE CONCEPTION GIVES THANKS to GOD AND to the STAFF and VOLUNTEERS at MARY S SHELTER for THEIR PROFOUND WITNESS to the VALUE of LIFE and the LOVE of GOD AMONG US. 6th Annual Summer Soirée August 1, 2015 3
Our Heartfelt Thanks This evening and our continued work is graciously sponsored by the following: CHAMPION ANONYMOUS St. Mary of the Immaculate Conception Catholic Church PROTECTOR Loura Turner BENEFACTOR Michael & Mary Bostain Tom & Lisa Faleskie Andrew & Nicole Flusche General Thomas F. Meagher Division, Ancient Order of Hibernians John & Louise Kugler McCottry Industries ANONYMOUS Gail D. Russell ANONYMOUS St. John the Apostle Catholic Church St. Jude Catholic Church ANONYMOUS PATRON Nancie Ames Denise Luck ADVOCATE Abby Construction Art & Laraine Bennett Daniel & Debbie Bolas Caroline Christian Health Center, Inc. Isabella Clemente Courtyard by Marriott Historic District ANONYMOUS Allen & Maura Harrison Eric & Lisa Herr Bill & Annie Hocter The Keddie Group Jason & Sarah King Knights of Columbus Council 4034 Tom & Liz Larus James & Jennifer Lupi Kevin & Kimberly Martelon John & Terry Mayer ANONYMOUS Gregory & Charmaine Mueller St. John the Beloved Catholic Church St. Matthew Catholic Church 4 Mary s Shelter Sheltering Women & Their Children
Program Welcome David Bereit, Master of Ceremonies National Director, 40 Days for Life Pledge of Allegiance Corporal and Mrs. Stephen Wilson Mary s Shelter Overview Julian Malcolm President, Board of Directors Opening Remarks Thérèse Bermpohl Director, Office for Family Life The Catholic Diocese of Arlington Opening Prayer Fr. Don Rooney Pastor, Saint Mary of the Immaculate Conception DINNER Caroline Payton Parker Soloist VIDEO PRESENTATION Special Guest Speaker Art Bennett President & CEO, Catholic Charities The Diocese of Arlington Mary s Shelter Update Kathleen Wilson Director, Mary s Shelter Keynote Speaker Dr. Haywood Robinson Family Medicine Physician & Pro-Life Advocate Financial Appeal David Bereit Closing Prayer Fr. Tom Ferguson Pastor, Good Shepherd Catholic Church 6th Annual Summer Soirée August 1, 2015 5
Master of Ceremonies DAVID BEREIT is national director of the worldwide 40 Days for Life movement, a mobilization of 650,000 volunteers in 559 cities across all 50 American states and 30 nations. Through prayer and fasting, peaceful vigils outside abortion centers, and grassroots community outreach, 10,331 lives have been saved from abortion, 118 workers have left the abortion industry, and 60 abortion centers have closed. His work has been featured in many media outlets, including Fox News, ABC, CBS, NBC, CNN, HBO, The New York Times, USA Today, The Washington Post, NPR, & BBC. David is co-author, with Shawn Carney, of the #1 Top-Rated Christian book on Amazon, 40 Days for Life: Discover What God Has Done... Imagine What He Can Do. David is married to his best friend, Margaret, and they reside in Fredericksburg, VA with their two children, Claire and Patrick. Opening Remarks THÉRÈSE BERMPOHL is Director of the Office for Family Life in the Diocese of Arlington. She holds a BA in Theology from Trinity College and an MA in Theology from the Dominican House of Studies, both in Washington, DC. She previously worked for the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB), both in the Office for Ecumenical and Interreligious Affairs and in the Office for Natural Family Planning, followed by two years teaching morality at Elizabeth Seton High School in Bladensburg, Maryland. For six years she worked in campus ministry at The Catholic University of America and then at George Washington University. Thérèse joined the Diocese of Arlington in 2005 as Assistant Director of the Office for Family Life and Director for the Respect Life Office. She attends Blessed Sacrament parish in Alexandria. 6 Mary s Shelter Sheltering Women & Their Children
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Our Heartfelt Thanks to Our Table Hosts! Thanks for promoting and supporting Mary s Shelter by introducing and welcoming your friends, neighbors and business partners to our ministry! Atkins Bereit Carroll Cassidy Dalton D Antonio Devine Doyle Helbling Hiney Ivory Kane Merriman Moncure Muggeridge Pinion Robertson Rousseau Sampson Schamel Schmiegel Smith Spencer Sumner Wilson Graphic and Web Design Consistently Beautiful. Beautifully Consistent. Maura Harrison, Creative Director maura@thedesignroominc.com thedesignroominc.com 8 Mary s Shelter Sheltering Women & Their Children
Opening Prayer FR. DON ROONEY was ordained a priest for the Diocese of Arlington on May, 21, 1994, after receiving an MA in Systematic Theology from St. Charles Borromeo Seminary in Philadelphia. Prior to Seminary, he received an undergraduate degree in Fine Art/Painting from the University of Dallas. He is the pastor of St. Mary of the Immaculate Conception in Fredericksburg. Fr. Don also serves as Ecumenical/Interreligious Officer for the Arlington Diocese and president of CADEIO, the Catholic Association of Diocesan Ecumenical and Interreligious Officers, an organization which furthers the formation of bishops delegates for ecumenical and interreligious affairs for dioceses of the United States. He continues to serve on the Advisory Board of the Holy Land Christian Society, which supports the presence of Christians in the Holy Land. Closing Prayer FR. TOM FERGUSON was ordained a priest for the Diocese of Arlington on May 21, 1994. He was born in Woodside, New York and moved with his family to Alexandria, Virginia in 1978. He graduated from Bishop Ireton High School. He received a B.A. in Politics from Allentown College of St. Francis de Sales, an M.A. and Ph.D. in Government from the University of Virginia, an M.A. and M.Div. from Mount St. Mary s Seminary and a Licentiate in Canon Law from St. Paul University in Ottawa. He is currently Episcopal Vicar for Faith Formation in the Diocese of Arlington, and Pastor of Good Shepherd Church in Alexandria. God s Blessings Be Upon Mary s Shelter From The Brothers of the General Thomas F. Meagher Division Ancient Order of Hibernians Sláinte Jim O Donnell Division President 6th Annual Summer Soirée August 1, 2015 9
Special Guest Speaker ART BENNETT is the President and CEO of Catholic Charities in the Diocese of Arlington (CCDA). The CCDA provides support to the poorest of the poor throughout 21 counties in Virginia. Over 90,000 individuals receive assistance via the 14 programs the CCDA oversees. Over 110 employees and hundreds of volunteers provide services in the areas of housing, food, emergency assistance, mental health counseling, immigrant & refugee support, in addition to programs for the imprisoned, unemployed, the aged and the lonely. The emphasis at CCDA has been to transform lives through the Gospel by being servants of the poor, integrating our Catholic Faith by working closely with parishes and all faiths with the hope of strengthening the organization to better transform lives. Bennett was a Vice President for Science Applications International Corporation (SAIC). He managed the international mental health programs in Europe and Asia for 15 years. He was also the Founder and Director of the Alpha Omega Mental Health Clinics in Maryland and Virginia (2002-2010) which integrates psychology with the Catholic Faith. Bennett is a licensed marriage and family therapist and the creator of Unity Restored, a website designed to help those afflicted by pornography. Art and his wife, Laraine have four children and have co-authored four books. Liturgy Schedule Saturday, Vigil 5:00 pm Sunday 7:30 am, 9:30 am & 11:30 am Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday Daily Mass 9:00 am Friday Daily Mass 12:15 pm followed by the Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament and the Benediction. Confession is Saturday starting at 3:30pm, or by appointment 10725 COURTHOUSE ROAD FREDERICKSBURG, VA 22407-7793 540-891-7350 WWW.STJUDECHURCH.US Thank you to all the Mary s Shelter volunteers. Your tireless effort on behalf of women and children is a blessing for the whole community. 10 Mary s Shelter Sheltering Women & Their Children
Keynote Speaker DR. HAYWOOD ROBINSON is a Family Medicine doctor in College Station, Texas and is affiliated with St. Joseph Medical Center. He received his M.D. from the University of California at Irvine. During his residency in Los Angeles, Dr. Robinson received abortion training while on the obstetrics and gynecology service. Discussion regarding the ethics of these procedures or alternatives was not part of the training. Performing abortion required little effort and he did not give serious thought to the morality of his actions. During this time he met his future wife, Noreen. As their relationship progressed, moonlighting together in abortion clinics was commonplace. Money became a mutual motivator as the pay was substantial. After completing their residency programs, the Robinsons married and moved to Texas. By God s grace, they came to know Christ and were transformed by God s word. They came to realize that they were making a living as hired killers of preborn children. Today, Dr. Robinson shares his testimony nationwide to expose the truth about the abortion industry and to be a voice for the unborn. 6th Annual Summer Soirée August 1, 2015 11
Volunteer with Mary s Shelter I can do things you cannot, you can do things I cannot; together we can do great things. Mother Teresa We are so grateful to our many dedicated volunteers and prayer partners. Our hope is that everyone interested in being involved with Mary s Shelter can find a role that best suits their talents and availability. Below, you will find a list of several different ways to help. Please look it over, choose your area(s) of interest, and let us know by email what commitment you can make and/or if you have any questions. Please respond to volunteers@marysshelterva.org. VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES Weekly/bi-weekly mentoring Weekly/bi-weekly grocery store trips Occasional driving to appointments, job fairs, etc. Monthly Saturday baby celebrations: Prepare food/babysit Monday Night Madness: Be a speaker, teach a cooking class or knitting class Resume help Academic tutoring Doula services Nursing/new mother help Babysitting: We have a great need for a pool of sitters who can be available to watch the children of residents during our Mary s Shelter meeting and class time. Spiritual adoption New mother and new baby welcome baskets Host a baby shower Seasonal yard work Boutique assistance: Help with the organization of Mary s Shelter s own thrift store, available to Mary s Shelter residents. Household repair/maintenance Monthly food pantry pick-up and delivery Organize a diaper/formula/clothing drive Fundraise Participate in a group to adopt a mother Be a parish liaison 12 Mary s Shelter Sheltering Women & Their Children
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Hi, my name is Jessica. I came to Mary s Shelter because my husband of seven years abandoned my son and I. I was left with no home or job. Right after that, I found out I was pregnant. I was terrified. I was referred to Mary s Shelter. They took me in with open arms. This place gave me hope and confirmed having my baby was the right thing to do. I am getting back on my feet so I can provide for my family. I am so grateful to Mary s Shelter! Education: I am attending college to be a Clinical Medical Assistant! 6th Annual Summer Soirée August 1, 2015 15
Hi, my name is Shaquana. I have lived at Mary s Shelter for almost two years. I have attended classes and started my very first job! Goal: I want to keep working towards a better job to get a place of my own so I can raise my two daughters. Thankful for: Everything! St. John the Beloved was Mary s Shelter! God bless you. ST. JOHN THE BELOVED CATHOLIC CHURCH 6420 LINWAY TERRACE MCLEAN, VIRGINIA 22101 TWITTER.COM/STJOHNMCLEAN WWW.FACEBOOK.COM/WCSJB WWW.STJOHNCATHOLICMCLEAN.ORG 16 Mary s Shelter Sheltering Women & Their Children
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Hi, my name is Nessa. I came to Mary s Shelter pregnant with my second son. My family would not help me. My boy s dad was in jail and I had so many obstacles I could not overcome on my own. I could not find a safe place till I came to Mary s Shelter. Thankful for: I am thankful for Mary s Shelter and the opportunity I have been given to go to school, begin a great career and make a better and more meaningful life for me and my kids. At Mary s Shelter, I have the chance to make it on my own. 98 spacious rooms and suites The Bistro serving breakfast, lunch and dinner Complimentary wired and wireless Internet access Business Center Fitness Center Indoor pool and whirlpool Valet parking Located in downtown Fredericksburg Close to restaurants, shops, and night life 620 Caroline Street, Fredericksburg, VA 22401 540-373-8300 marriott.com/fkrcy 18 Mary s Shelter Sheltering Women & Their Children
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We promise to give hope to pregnant women and their children who are facing a crisis situation. We promise Fulfill the Visit the Mary s Shelter website and learn more about our Fulfill the Promise campaign. marysshelterva.org to provide them with a nurturing environment rooted in the teaching and profound love of Christ. We promise to help them learn to care for their family by giving them the tools needed for independent living. We promise that by working together, we will help our mothers grow in self-respect, self-confidence and a self-sacrificing love for the children placed in their care. 20 Mary s Shelter Sheltering Women & Their Children
Hi, my name is Sally and this is my youngest child, Elnora. She has four siblings! We came to Mary s Shelter with tons of stuff going on and feeling hopeless. We have lived here for almost two years and are now living in the transitional home. Where else would a mother of five get to live and have the chance to go to school and work and make life better for her family? Mary s Shelter has been a true blessing that I never would have believed existed! 6th Annual Summer Soirée August 1, 2015 21
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Hi, my name is Tenitha. I am 28 and have an 8-year old son. I came to Mary s Shelter to get back on my feet. My daughter was just born. She was only 2 lbs. 11 oz. and immediately brought to NICU. It is such a comfort to know I can bring her back to a safe home. I work and am going to school. Goal: I am very focused on giving my children the life they deserve. I had a setback, but that makes way for a bigger comeback! I didn t know I had a choice TEES FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY PROUDLY MADE IN THE U.S.A. 1011 Caroline Street FXBG VA 22401... until Mary s Shelter gave us a home. Suzanne J. Metzger Proprietor Pappagallo Fine Gifts and Imports Old World Charm with Impeccable Service 300 William Street Fredericksburg, VA 22401 p.540.372.2001 pappagallofinegifts@gmail.com 6th Annual Summer Soirée August 1, 2015 23
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God Bless You! Mary s Shelter extends a heartfelt thank you to all who so generously shared their talents and resources! Vendors Maura Harrison, The Design Room, Inc. Howard & Mary Owen, Stafford Printing Kate Mandel, Kathryn Mandel Photography Musicians Caroline Payton Parker, Soloist Kaylee Payne, Violin Kelsey Payne, Violin Talitha Muggeridge, Viola Aaron Shirk, Cello Audio Visual Specialists David Bereit Jim Chambers Videographers Original Focus Productions JW Beatovich & Ben Fleser Our Teen Volunteers The army of Mary s Shelter Volunteers who work so beautifully & selflessly for love of others. May kindness return to you in the same beautiful way that is was given. 309 Hawke Street, Fredericksburg, VA 22401 540.374.3407 info@marysshelterva.org marysshelterva.org