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WHATISYOURAMBITION? 10 32 TheywereontheirwayuptoJerusalem,andJesuswasgoingaheadofthem.[The disciples] were astonished; and those who followed[them] were afraid.[jesus] again tookthetwelve[aside]andbegantotellthemwhatwasgoingtohappentohim. 33 [He said,]listen,wearegoinguptojerusalem;butthesonofmanwillbebetrayedtothe chiefpriestsandthescribes;theyshallcondemnhimtodeath,andhandhimoverto thegentiles. 34 [TheGentiles]shallmockhim,andspitonhim,andscourgehim,andkill him; but after three days he shall rise again. 35 Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee,cameneartohimandsaid,Teacher,wewantyoutodoforuswhateverwe shallaskyou. 36 Hesaidtothem,Whatdoyouwantmetodoforyou? 37 Theysaidto him,grantthatwemaysit[withyou]inyourglory oneatyourrighthandandone atyourlefthand. 38 ButJesussaidtothem,Youdonotknowwhatyouareasking.Are you able to drink the cup that I [am about to] drink? Or to be baptized with the baptismwithwhichi[amabouttobe]baptized? 39 Theysaidtohim,Weareable.Then Jesussaidtothem,ThecupthatIdrink,youshalldrink;andthebaptismwithwhichI ambaptized,[withthatbaptism]shallyoualsobebaptized. 40 Buttositatmyright handoratmylefthandisnotminetogive;onthecontrary,[itisforthose]forwhom it has been prepared. 41 Now when the [other] ten [disciples] heard about this, they begantobeindignantagainstjamesandjohn. 42 ThenJesuscalledthemtohimselfand said to them, You know that those who are recognized as rulers among the Gentiles lord it over [their subjects]; and their high officials rule over them [with tyranny]. 43 Butitmustnotbelikethatamongyou.Onthecontrary,whoeverdesirestobegreat amongyou,shallbeyourminister; 44 andwhoeverdesirestobefirstamongyou,shall be servant of all; 45 for, indeed, the Son of man came not to receive ministry, but to minister,andtogivehislifearansomformany. 46 Then they came to Jericho. Now as [Jesus] was leaving Jericho, along with his disciples and a large crowd of people, a blind beggar, [named] Bartimaeus, ([whose namemeans,]thesonoftimaeus),wassittingbytheroadside. 47 Whenheheardthatit was Jesus of Nazareth, he began to cry out, Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me. 48 Butmanypeoplerebukedhim,orderinghimtokeepquiet.Buthecriedoutallthe more,sonofdavid,havemercyonme. 49 ThenJesusstoodstillandsaid,Callhim.So theycalledtheblindmanandsaidtohim,takecourage.getup;heiscallingforyou. 50 Throwing aside his garment, [the blind man] leaped to his feet and came to Jesus. 51 ThenJesusaskedhim,Whatdoyouwantmetodoforyou?Andtheblindmansaidto him,rabbi,[iwant]toreceivemysight. 52 Jesussaidtohim,Goyourway;yourfaith has healed you. Immediately he received his sight, and followed him along the road. (Mk.10:32 52) Introduction AsuccessfulNewEnglandbusinessmanandhiswifecametovisittheirpastor;they cametodiscusstheirmarriage. Thestorythatemergedrevealedthatthisman sall consumingambitiontosucceed wascostinghimdearly:itwascostinghismarriage,hischildren,hishealth.hewasa

manwhoownedhisownbusinessandroutinelyspent19 20hoursadayatwork. Heusuallyleftforworkbeforetherestofthefamilyawokeandreturnedafterthe children were in bed. When he was present for an evening meal he would be preoccupied with business plans or called away to the phone in order to close a businessdeal. In trying to understand where this man was coming from, the pastor happened to askabouthisfather.suddenlyhismoodchangeddramatically.herevealedthathis father had labeled him a bum, and had repeatedly told his son, You ll never amounttoanything. The pastor discovered that sitting before him was a man, now in his mid forties, who had made it his ambition to prove his father wrong. He had made it his ambition to become a success as defined in terms of high income and status. To succeed,hehadcommittedhimselftonon stopdevotiontohisbusiness. The dictionary defines ambition as being the desire to achieve a particular objective; itgoesontosaythatambition maysuggestequallyapraiseworthyoran inordinatedesire, suchas anardentdesireforrank,fame,orpower. What is your personal ambition? You can discern your ambition in life by consideringsuchquestionsasthese: WhatdoIwanttodowithmylife? WhatdoIwanttobecome? ForwhatdoIwanttoberemembered? HowdoIdefinesuccess? IsyourpersonalambitioninharmonywithyourcallingtobeadiscipleofChrist?Or isitinconflictwiththatdivinecalling?asdisciplesofthelordjesuschrist,wemust allow our Lord s counsel and example to define the overarching ambition of our lives. I.MakeItYourAmbitiontobeDifferentfromtheWorld(Mk.10:32 44) As Jesus is making His climactic journey to Jerusalem, two of His disciples approachhimprivatelywitharequest.itisapersonalrequest:wewantyouto dosomethingforus.itisalsoapresumptuousrequest: Teacher,wewantyouto doforuswhateverweshallaskyou (vs.35.) Jesusinquires,Whatdoyouwantmetodoforyou? NowtheymakeknowntoHimtheirrequest: Grantthatwemaysit[withyou]in yourglory oneatyourrighthandandoneatyourlefthand (vs.37.)thisistheir desire,theirambition;namely,toattainthehighestpositionsofrankandprestige forthemselves.

Now consider the effect of their ambition their desire to gain positions for themselveswithoutregardforothers;theirpre occupationwiththepromotionof themselves. First, they are completely insensitive to Christ. They are insensitive to Christ s demeanor. According to Mark 10:32, They were on their way up to Jerusalem, and Jesus was going ahead them. [The disciples] were astonished; and thosewhofollowedthemwereafraid. OurLord swholedemeanorindicatedhis determination to face the awful fate that lay before Him in obedience to His Father s will, His willingness to offer Himself as the atoning sacrifice upon the crossofcalvary.jamesandjohnwerealsoinsensitivetochrist swords: [He said,] Listen, we are going up to Jerusalem; but the Son of man will be betrayedtothechiefpriestsandthescribes;theyshallcondemnhimtodeath, andhandhimovertothegentiles. 34 [TheGentiles]shallmockhim,andspiton him,andscourgehim,andkillhim;butafterthreedaysheshallriseagain.(mk. 10:33 34) They disregarded their Lord s approaching suffering, thinking only of how they couldexploittheirrelationshipwithhimfortheirownpersonalgain. Second,theyareinsensitivetotheirfellowdisciples.Theyhavespentthreeyears of their lives together; they have been through so many experiences together with Christ. Now, when it appears that a limited number of positions(only two seats)areavailable,theyforgettheirbrothersandthebondtheyshare,selfishly seekingtoseizetheopportunity. Note the consequence of this self ambition on the part of James and John: it causes indignation, resentment, divisiveness, a sense of betrayal. According to verse41, whentheothertendisciplesheardaboutthis,theybegantobeindignant againstjamesandjohn. Observingthattheothertendisciples begantobeindignant, Jesuscallsthemto Himselfandcontraststhemindsetoftheworldwiththelifestyleofthekingdom ofgod: ThenJesuscalledthemtohimselfandsaidtothem,Youknowthatthosewho are recognized as rulers among the Gentiles lord it over their subjects; and theirhighofficialsruleoverthem[withtyranny]. 43 Butitmustnotbelikethat amongyou.onthecontrary,whoeverdesirestobegreatamongyou,shallbe yourminister; 44 andwhoeverdesirestobefirstamongyou,shallbeservantof all.(mk.10:42 44) Intheworld sschemeofthings,thegreatonesexercisedominionoverothers.in thekingdomofgod,thegreatonesrenderservicetoothers. InthelightofourLord scounsel,considertheadmonitionoftheapostlepaulto the Galatians: Since we live by the Spirit, let us walk by the Spirit. 26 Let us not

become conceited, provoking and envying each other (Gal. 5:25 26.) We are cautioned to not become conceited. How is an attitude of conceit conveyed to others? It can be conveyed by the way we speak to others: Do we address our Christian brothers and our neighbors with courtesy and politeness? Or do we tendtoissuecommandstothem,likethegreatonesoftheworldissuecommands to their subordinates? An attitude of conceit and arrogance can be conveyed by the way we treat others: Do we treat our Christian brothers and our neighbors withrespectanddignityandlove?ordoweconveytheimpressionthattheyare ourpersonalservantswhosesolefunctionistofulfillourdesiresandtoserveour ambitions? What is the consequence of exhibiting an attitude of conceit? By exhibiting an attitude of conceit we may cause some of our brethren to become provoked; causing them to become indignant, angry, challenged, and defiant. By treating themlikeourservantswemakeitverydifficultforthemtorecognizethatthey are our servants, just as we are their servants, note Galatians 5:13, You, my brothers,werecalledtobefree.butdonotuseyourfreedomtoindulgethesinful nature;rather,serveoneanotherinlove. Byentertainingandexhibitinganattitudeofconceitwemaycauseothersofour brethren to become envious: they will wish to imitate our aggressive, authoritative style.bytreatingthemasourservants,insteadofservingthem,we are setting a bad example for them. Note the Apostle Paul s example that he expectsthechurchtofollow: Itrytopleaseeverybodyineveryway,forIamnot seekingmyowngoodbutthegoodofmany,sothattheymaybesaved. 1 Followmy example,asifollowtheexampleofchrist (1Cor.10:33 11:1.) In contrast to the negative admonition of Galatians 5:26, note the positive admonitionofhebrews10:24, letusconsiderhowwemayprovokeoneanotherto loveandgoodworks. Whatevermaybeourpersonalambition,asChristians,letusmakeitourprimary ambitiontobedifferentfromtheworld: ThenJesuscalledthemtohimselfandsaidtothem,Youknowthatthosewho are recognized as rulers among the Gentiles lord it over their subjects; and theirhighofficialsruleoverthem[withtyranny]. 43 Butitmustnotbelikethat amongyou.onthecontrary,whoeverdesirestobegreatamongyou,shallbe yourminister.(mk.10:42 43) Theworld scounselis:become#1attheexpenseofothers.ourlord scounselis: Become#1byexpendingyourselfforothers.

II.MakeItYourAmbitiontobeLikeYourLordJesusChrist(Mk.10:35 52) OurLordJesusputHimselfatthedisposalofthesetwodisciples: Whatdoyou wantmetodoforyou? (vs.36.)considerwhathewasabouttodoforthem andforus asheisonhiswaytothecross: youknowthegraceofourlord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, so that youthroughhispovertymightbecomerich (2Cor.8:9.) OurLordJesusdidnottakeoffenseatthesetwodisciples.Whereastheotherten disciples begantobeindignant, thiswasnottheresponseofthelordjesus.the Lord sreplyinverse40almostsoundsasthoughhewouldhavegrantedtheir request if it were within His power to do so. To better appreciate our Lord s gracious response to this utterly insensitive and selfish request made by these two disciples, consider the following example. Suppose you were to confide to your dearest friend that you have contracted a very rare disease and that you have only one week left to live. After a few moments of silent contemplation, yourfriendinquires, Afteryouaredead,canIhaveyourvaluables? Howwould yourespondtosucharequest?butourlorddoesnotrespondwithindignation, ashewouldhaveeveryrighttodo;onthecontrary,heexhibitsaforbearance that issues from a heart of self giving, sacrificial love. One great purpose for whichchristourlordwenttothecrosswassothathemightatlastsharehis verythronewithhisdisciples notjusttwoofthem,buteveryoneofuswhoare Hisdisciple!InRevelation3:21thereisrecordedHissurepromise: Tohimwho overcomes,iwillgivetherighttositwithmeonmythrone,justasiovercameand satdownwithmyfatheronhisthrone. OurLordJesuswouldproceedtopresenttoHisdisciplesadramaticexampleof service (vs. 46 52.) Jesus put Himself at the disposal of the blind beggar, Bartimaeus,inthesamewaythatHeofferedHimselftoHisbeloveddisciples.He askstheblindbeggar, Whatdoyouwantmetodoforyou? (vs.51) thisisthe samequestionourlordaskedhisdisciples(vs.36.) Shortlyafterthisincident,ourLordJesuswouldpresentanevenmorestriking exampleofself denying,self sacrificingloveandservice Hewouldstoopdown to wash His disciples feet, personally assuming the role of the most menial of householdslaves: It was just before the Passover Feast. Jesus knew that the time had come for himtoleavethisworldandgotothefather.havinglovedhisownwhowerein theworld,henowshowedthemthefullextentofhislove. 2 Theeveningmeal was being served, and the devil had already prompted Judas Iscariot, son of Simon,tobetrayJesus. 3 JesusknewthattheFatherhadputallthingsunderhis power,andthathehadcomefromgodandwasreturningtogod; 4 sohegotup from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. 5 Afterthat,hepouredwaterintoabasinandbegantowashhisdisciples feet,dryingthemwiththetowelthatwaswrappedaroundhim.(jn.13:1 5)

Jesus loveforhisdisciplesgavehimthemotivationtoperformthishumbleact ofservice: Havinglovedhisownwhowereintheworld,henowshowedthem thefullextentofhislove (Jn.13:1b.)Jesus knowledgeofhisrelationshiptogod HisFathergaveHimthesecuritytoperformsuchanactofservice: Jesusknew thatthefatherhadputallthingsunderhispower,andthathehadcomefromgod and was returning to God (Jn. 13:3) Jesus purpose in performing this act of menial service was to provide an unforgettable example for His disciples (including ourselves): I have set you an example that you should do as I have doneforyou (Jn.13:15.) Whatever may be our personal ambition, as Christians, let us make it our primaryambitiontobelikeourlordjesuschrist. Thediscipleisnotabovehisteacher;buteveryonewhenheisperfectedshallbe likehisteacher.(lk.6:40) Conclusion ThatprosperousNewEnglandbusinessmanhadmadeithisambitiontobecomea success, as success is defined by the world. Relationships were not important to him;spiritualwell beingwasnotapriority;theacquisitionandapplicationofgodly wisdomwereoflittleornovaluetohim.hisdrivingmotivationandobjectivewasto makehisbusinessthebiggestandthebestinitssectionoftheyellowpagesphone directory. The pastor remarked that as their counseling sessions proceeded he could almost see this man kneeling before Christ, relinquishing one ambition for another, relinquishing his own chosen ambition for that which Christ desired for him to fulfill. Butitneverhappened. Eventuallythecounselingsessionswerediscontinued.Thecoupledriftedawayfrom thechurchandthepastorlostcontactwiththem.aftersometimehadpassed,the pastorreceivedwordthatthisman sambitionhadfinallycosthimeverything:his marriage,hischildren,hisbusiness,andevenhislife.(orderingyourprivateworld, pp.42 49) Letustaketoheartthetwo foldcounselandcommandthatcomestousfromthis passageofscripture:1)letusmakeitourprimaryambitiontobedifferentfromthe world;and2)letusmakeitourprimaryambitiontobelikeourlordjesuschrist.