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Lesson 1: The Tension and Frustration Challenges The Big Idea: And David behaved wisely in all his ways, and the Lord was with him. Therefore, when Saul saw that he behaved very wisely, he was afraid of him. 1 Samuel 18:14-15 If you are a leader in the middle of an organization, you have a challenging job. Everyone who attempts to serve effectively as a 360 Degree Leader faces common challenges. At times you may feel like you are banging your head against a brick wall. In this series of lessons, we will discuss seven challenges faced by middle level leaders. PRAY! PRAY! PRAY! A Question to Consider: Do you ever feel caught in the middle of your organization? Can you identify with the following Tension Challenge? Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 1 Page 1

The Tension Challenge: The Pressure of Being Caught in the Middle One of the greatest challenges of being a leader in the middle of an organization is that you are often unsure just where you stand. You have some power and authority and can make some decisions. At the same time, you lack power and authority in other areas. If you overstep your authority, you can get yourself into real trouble. Here are five suggestions for relieving the tension challenge: 1. Determine how much and the person above you has given to you. 2. Accept the fact that you may receive recognition and appreciation. 1. Authority, Responsibility 2. Limited 3. Know what is of you by your senior leaders. 3. Expected 4. Never violate the of your leaders. 4. Trust Biblical Case Study: Joab (2 Samuel 3:6-39; 1 Kings 2:28-33) Joab was on of David s mighty men and a very successful army commander. For many years he served David with devotion and effectiveness. However, on a few occasions he overstepped his boundaries and forgot whom he was serving. When David extended mercy to Abner, a former enemy, Joab strongly disagreed with David. Without telling the king his plans, Joab plotted to kill Abner. Eventually, Joab s actions cost him everything. Joab violated trust by: 1. Ignoring the of the senior leader. 2. Taking matters into his own. 3. Taking action in. 4. Overstepping his. 5. Serving his own. 1. Desires 2. Hands 3. Secret 4. Authority 5. Selfish Interests Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 1 Page 2

The Frustration Challenge: Following an Ineffective Leader There are many kinds of ineffective leaders. Some of them are as followers: Insecure Leaders, Visionless Leaders, Incompetent Leaders, Selfish Leaders, and Controlling Leaders. John Maxwell suggests the following steps when you find yourself following an ineffective leader: 1. Develop a solid with your leader. 1. Relationship 2. Identify and appreciate your leader s. 2. Strengths 3. Commit yourself to adding to your leader. 3. Value 4. Tactfully share good leadership with your leader. 4. Resources 5. Publicly your leader. 5. Affirm 6. Remember that you also have. 6. Blind Spots 7. Bring your leader, not. 7. Solutions, Problems Biblical Case Study: Daniel (Daniel 1:4-19; 6:3-23; 9:3-19) Daniel s character and courage are obvious as he faithfully served God in a foreign land. This caught the eyes of the Babylonian officials and Daniel became a man of influence in the kingdom. Even though he served three kings who were less than ideal leaders, he left a legacy of powerful influence. Here are some keys to his effectiveness: 1. Daniel was a man of. 2. Daniel served with a commitment to. 1. Integrity 2. Excellence 3. Daniel was a man of. 3. Prayer 4. Daniel identified with the of others. 4. Needs Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 1 Page 3

A Thought to Ponder: What are your leaders strengths? How can you add value to him or her? What Difference Would It Make: What steps could you take to relieve the tension associated with being a 360 Degree Leader? What difference would it make if you were intentional about taking those steps? Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 1 Page 4

Lesson 2: The Fulfillment, Multi-Hat, and Ego Challenges The Big Idea: And David behaved wisely in all his ways, and the Lord was with him. Therefore, when Saul saw that he behaved very wisely, he was afraid of him. 1 Samuel 18:14-15 If you are a leader in the middle of an organization, you have a challenging job. Everyone who attempts to serve effectively as a 360 Degree Leader faces common challenges. At times you may feel like you are banging your head against a brick wall. In this series of lessons, we will discuss seven challenges faced by middle level leaders. PRAY! PRAY! PRAY! A Question to Consider: Are you more committed to team success than to personal success? Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 2 Page 1

The Fulfillment Challenge: Leaders Like the Front More Than the Middle Wherever people find themselves in life, they usually possess the natural desire to move up. They want to advance and improve. Leaders are no different. They want to make a greater impact. There are some advantages to being out front: 1. There is more at the front. 2. The is better at the front. 3. The leaders in front determine the. 4. The leaders in front can set the. 1. Recognition 2. View 3. Direction 4. Pace John Maxwell teaches that with the right attitude and skills, a 360 Degree Leader can influence the entire organization wherever he or she is in the organization. He says the leader can do five things to enhance his fulfillment in the middle of the organization: 1. Develop strong relationships with key in the organization. 2. Define winning in terms of. 3. Put the team s success his own success. 4. Engage in continual with the organization s leaders. 5. Accept and keep. 1. Influencers 2. Teamwork 3. Above 4. Communication 5. Responsibility, Growing Biblical Case Study: Caleb (Numbers 13 and Joshua 14:6-15 Caleb was Joshua s friend and partner in ministry. Caleb was a man of great faith, courage, wisdom and devotion. When Joshua was named to succeed Moses as the top leader, Caleb did not complain that he had been overlooked. He continued to serve with excellence. Here are some lessons learned from Caleb: 1. Leadership is not a matter of, but disposition. 2. Leadership is not a matter of, but attitude. 3. Devotion to duty will eventually be. 1. Position 2. Age 3. Recognized Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 2 Page 2

The Multi-Hat Challenge: One Head - Many Hats When people are starting at the bottom of an organization, they often have few tasks. When someone is in the top position, he or she has the luxury of choosing which tasks they will do. They can determine their priorities and focus on their strengths. Anything else they can delegate. Leaders in the middle, on the other hand, must perform countless tasks, often with shifting priorities and limited time and resources. The 360 Degree Leader usually faces the Multi-Hat Challenge every day. Here are some suggestions for dealing with this challenge: 1. Always remember you are wearing in any given situation. 1. Which Hat 2. When you change hats, don t change your. 2. Personality 3. Don t any hat you are responsible to wear. 3. Neglect 4. Remain at all times. 4. Flexible Biblical Case Study: Joseph (Genesis 37:1-50:22) Joseph wore many hats when he was placed in a high position in Egypt. In each situation he acted according to the hat he was wearing at the moment. 1. As second in command, he faithfully served with solving problems. 1. Pharaoh 2. As a, he extended forgiveness to those who mistreated him. 2. Brother 3. As a, he demonstrated compassionate concern for his father. 3. Son 4. As a, he endeavored to instruct his sons in the ways of the Lord. 4. Father Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 2 Page 3

The Ego Challenge: You Are often Hidden in the Middle It s normal for any person to want recognition, but leaders in the middle of the pack rarely get the credit or recognition they desire or deserve. This fact can be a real ego buster. The challenge is to be a team player and remain content while contributing. Here are some suggestions for doing that: 1. Focus more on your than on your. 2. Appreciate the of you role in the organization. 3. Find in knowing you did your job well. 4. Remember that good leadership can get in due time. 1. Duties, Dreams 2. Value 3. Satisfaction 4. Noticed Biblical Case Study: Joseph and the Chief Butler (Genesis 40:9-23) The statement in Genesis 40:23 is quite heartbreaking. It reads, Yet the chief butler did not remember Joseph, but forgot him. How very painful this must have been for Joseph, but his servant s heart surpassed his need for fair treatment or recognition. 1. Joseph showed genuine concern for the other. 1. Prisoners 2. Joseph interpreted the of the chief butler. 2. Dream 3. Joseph proclaimed his to the chief butler. 3. Innocence 4. Joseph asked the chief butler to for him before Pharaoh. 4. Intercede 5. Joseph was by the man he befriended. 5. Forgotten 6. Two years later Joseph received the he deserved. 6. Recognition Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 2 Page 4

A Thought to Ponder: How can you find satisfaction in your work even if you do not receive the credit you deserve? What Difference Would It Make: List the hats you are required to wear. What tools do/could you use to help you keep track of your various responsibilities? What difference would it make if you continued or began to use these tools regularly? Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 2 Page 5

Lesson 3: The Vision and Influence Challenges The Big Idea: And David behaved wisely in all his ways, and the Lord was with him. Therefore, when Saul saw that he behaved very wisely, he was afraid of him. 1 Samuel 18:14-15 If you are a leader in the middle of an organization, you have a challenging job. Everyone who attempts to serve effectively as a 360 Degree Leader faces common challenges. At times you may feel like you are banging your head against a brick wall. In this series of lessons, we will discuss seven challenges faced by middle level leaders. PRAY! PRAY! PRAY! A Question to Consider: Can you clearly and positively communicate the vision of your organization to the people around you? How can you champion the vision? Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 3 Page 1

The Vision Challenge: Championing the Vision is More Difficult When You Didn t Create it If you are to become a highly effective 360 Degree Leader, you must become the champion of a vision other than you own. In fact, the reality is that all the people in the organization other than the top leader are going to be asked to fulfill a vision that didn t generate. Vision begins with one person, but it is accomplished by many people. Middle level leaders sometimes respond negatively when the top leaders cast vision and attempt to enlist them to fulfill the vision. Sometimes middle level leaders even attack and criticize the vision for one or more of the following reasons: 1. They didn t help it. 2. They don t it. 3. They don t with it. 4. They feel to achieve it. 5. The aren t for it. 1. Create 2. Understand 3. Agree 4. Unneeded 5. Ready Truly effective and fulfilled 360 Degree Leaders embrace and champion the vision of the senior leaders. They add value to the vision so it become their own vision. They do four things exceedingly well: 1. Place the organization s before their. 2. Help keep the before the people. 3. Understand their in seeing the dream become reality. 4. Stay on the vision. 1. Needs, Needs 2. Vision 3. Roles 4. Focused Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 3 Page 2

Biblical Case Study: The Apostle Paul s Associates (Acts 9:1-30, 11:25, 13:1-29:30) Paul received a God-given vision to take the Gospel of Jesus Christ to the Gentile world. Barnabas, Silas, Timothy, John Mark and others embraced and championed the vision. They invested their lives in Paul s dream because: 1. The dream was from. 2. It was compelling in and. 3. It was of importance. 4. It would change the. 5. It was important enough to for. 6. It was important enough to for. 1. God 2. Size, Scope 3. Eternal 4. World 5. Live 6. Die Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 3 Page 3

The Influence Challenge: Leading Others Beyond Your Position Is Not Easy If you are leading in the middle of the organization, you must learn to influence many who do not report to you. That is why 360 Degree Leaders work to change their thinking from I want a position that will make people follow me to I want to become a person whom people will want to follow. If people won t follow you where you are currently, then they won t follow you where you re going in the future. John Maxwell states that people follow the kind of leader described below: 1. People follow leaders who about them. 2. People follow leaders they trust - leaders with. 3. People follow leaders they respect - leaders who are. 4. People follow leaders they admire - leaders with. 1. Care 2. Character 3. Competent 4. Commitment 5. Consistent 5. People follow leaders they can approach - leaders who are. Learn to think INFLUENCE, not position. Grow your influence by: 1. Building relationships on. 2. Caring about people as. 3. in people. 4. to what others have to say. 5. Understanding from points of view. 6. Helping others become. 7. Assisting others through. 1. Trust 2. Individuals 3. Believing 4. Listening 5. Others 6. Better 7. Difficulties 8. Positive 9. Power 8. Initiating relationships. 9. Giving others the to lead. Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 3 Page 4

Biblical Case Study: Samuel (1 Samuel 4:1, 7:1-17, 15:10-27) Rarely has anyone without an official position had as much influence as Samuel, the prophet. The Israelites sought out Samuel to speak words of direction for their future, to help retrieve the Ark of the Covenant, to offer strategy to defeat their enemies, and to select their king. His influence grew so vast that when King Saul failed in his leadership, Samuel removed him from office. Imagine, having the sole authority to kick out the reigning king! Samuel was a man of impact because: 1. He with the people, knowing when to be tough and when to be tender. 1. Identified 2. He was not motivated by, but. 3. He spoke with both and. 4. He was a steward of all God had entrusted to him. 2. Power, Service 3. Conviction, Compassion 4. Faithful Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 3 Page 5

A Thought to Ponder: Describe the qualities of a leader who you would want to follow. If you do not possess all these qualities, what steps can you take to improve? What Difference Would It Make: Of the seven challenges in this series of lessons, list the two that are the most difficult for you. What are two or three specific steps you can take to overcome those challenges. What difference would it make if you were to take those steps? Challenges 360 Degree Leaders Face Lesson 3 Page 6