PHONE: (972) 562-2601 Anjali Pai August 19, 1982 - March 30, 2008 Anjali Pai, age 25, of Plano, Texas, passed away March 30, 2008, in Norman, Oklahoma. Anjali was born August 19, 1982 to Dinesh and Jyotsna (Bhat) Pai. She held Bachelor s degrees in Biology and Music, in addition to a Master s degree in Ethnomusicology. Anjali had just completed a second Master s degree in Western Philosophy at St. John s College in Santa Fe, New Mexico. Anjali had a deep, lifelong passion for education. She loved to learn about anything and everything, from Shakespeare to Japanese culture, Indian classical music to hard rock, Harry Potter to Bhagwad Gita, and all that the world has to offer. She enriched the lives of everyone she knew, whether in person or on the Internet. She had special affection for the more than 200 children whom she tutored with the AVID program in Santa Fe. She thrived on the knowledge that she was making a difference in their lives by igniting a passion for learning. During her short life, Anjali gave her friendship and love to people from all around the world. All of them, and the countless children whose lives she touched, will sorely miss her as a gifted natural teacher. We know Anjali would agree that a scholarship fund to help deserving future educators will be a lasting tribute to her memory. A memorial fund has been set up in Anjali s name. Donations may be made to St. John s College her Alma Mater at the following address: Anjali Pai Memorial Fund c/o James W. Osterholt Vice President St. John s College 1160 Camino Cruz Blanca Santa Fe, NM 87505 Anjali is survived by her parents, Dinesh and Jyotsna Pai of Plano, Texas; sister, Tanya Pai, also of Plano; grandfather, Mundashi Nagesh Pai of England; and numerous loving aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. Funeral services will be held at 2:00 PM on Friday, April 4, 2008, at Turrentine-Jackson-Morrow Chapel in Allen, Texas. Memorials Dear Family of Anjali: Please know that I worked with Anjali in 2006 and early 2007 as she helped me edit my award winning book: America's Conscience.
Anjali is acknowledged in this bookas she was an integral part of the book project. I found her to be hardworking, dependable and extremely bright! I was heartbroken to hear of her sudden death...which I just learned about yesterday. Please tell me where I can send the family a copy of the book (as a keepsake). You can email me at Bernatv.or.Bernadette5@gmail.com or call me toll free at 800-736-8986 if you wish to talk. Blessings to you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. BERNADETTE VADURRO, JUNE 26, 2008 It was difficult to fall asleep Monday night; after hearing the news of Angali s untimely and tragic death. Little did I expect to dream of her; yet just before morning light I was awakened by a short and mystifying dream. In the dream Angali and Tanya appeared together on the verge of crossing a threshold to start their own business. They were unmarried, but both had serious male friends. As they stood before a door, realizing that the next phase of their life lay beyond it. I, and I think they, were expecting the door to reveal a room, instead it revealed a rural property, with a house and landscaping recently installed. The girls and their husbands were to run their business from this house, which they also shared. Many years flitted by in an instant, as illustrated by the time lapse movie like growth of the evergreens planted along either side of the lane leading to the house; the trees matured even as the girls walked by them. As they reached the house the hardwood trees surrounding it also grew to maturity in front of our eyes. This growth of trees illustrated a long and stable life. Then as suddenly as the two girls appeared in my minds eye, the dream ended and I awoke, wondering what it could mean. Since it could now not actually happen, the dream could not possibly be of the prescient variety. So, what could it mean? I conclude that I had witnessed a graphic depiction of what it was that Dinesh and Jyo had lost. The parents were not in the dream, because I was seeing it through their eyes. It was perhaps their dream for the future of their very sweet and talented daughters and it was never to happen. Instead this would be the time to mourn the old dream and tomorrow would be time enough to dream anew.
LLOYD L. KLEIN, APRIL 24, 2008 Dear Dinesh, Jyo, and family, I am Arun Pai's older brother from Pittsburgh. (Geetha's brother-in-law).although we have not met you or your daughter Anjali, my wife Diana and I are deeply saddened and shocked to hear about the tragic loss. We just wanted to send our deepest condolences. Our heart goes out to you. Sincerly, Gopal and Diana Pai.Pittsburgh,Pa KOCHIKAR GOPAL PAI, APRIL 19, 2008 Jyo, I was deeply saddened to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you all strength-- Nasreen Ahmad NASREEN AHMAD, APRIL 10, 2008 My deepest condolences in this time of loss. The number of people to whom Anjali has reached out to might be uncountable, even though I couldn't get to know her very well, I'm one of them. I feel lucky to have known about her, read her writings. She is and will always be an unforgettable influence. ANUSHREE BAIKERIKAR, APRIL 10, 2008 Jyo, I have no words to express the sorrow I feel for your loss. We are not supposed to bury our children. Anjali was obviously an amazing young woman. I pray that your happy memories sustain you and help you in enduring the pain of this tragedy. Sincerely, Kathy Wilcott KATHY WILCOTT, APRIL 9, 2008 Dear Dinesh Bhavaji and Jyotsna, We are shocked and sorry for your loss. Please accept our deepest condolence.we pray that God gives you strength a to live your life with the memories of Anjali's love in your hearts. Sincerely, Milind and Madhuri Kasbekar MADHURI MILIND KASBEKAR, APRIL 9, 2008 Jyo and Dinesh, I am deeply sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers for love and strength are with you and your family. TODD RICHARDSON, APRIL 7, 2008 Dear Jyo, Dinesh and Tanya, words cannot express the sadness I feel for you in the loss of your dear daughter and sweet sister Angali. It is impossible to imagine the loss of a child or such a very dear sister. And oh, how we wish that
there was something that we could do to lessen the pain that you carry in your hearts. Her life was full of love and giving to others and she will be remembered and missed by so many. My family's prayers and thoughts are with you all, that you find comfort and peace in the journey through this very difficult time. My Love, Kathy Wacker KATHY WACKER, APRIL 7, 2008 We are deeply shocked to know about the untimely departure of your beloved daughter Anjali. May God give you strength to overcome the sorrow of her loss.please accept our heartfelt condolence. Uday, Nandita, Nivedita and Namita Hegdekar Sneh Kunj, Flat # 4, 1st floor, Lt. P. N. Kotnis Marg, Mahim, Mumbai 400016. DR. UDAY VENKATESH HEGDEKAR, APRIL 5, 2008 Dear Dinesh bhavaji and Jyotsna, I do not know how to express myself for a loss so big and so sudden, but I do feel your pain and pray that God give you the strength to live your life with the memory of her love in your hearts. Sincerely, Sujata Kamat SUJATA ARUN KAMAT, APRIL 5, 2008 Dear Jyo, I am so sorry for your loss, Please accept my deepest condolences. I wish there is something that can ease your pain and sadness. Take care of yourself and your family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. JANE XU, APRIL 4, 2008 Hello Dinesh & Jyotsna, We are all shocked to hear the untimely death of your precious angel, as you called them.it is TERRIBLE to see young, aspiring, talented, loving, children die in front of us. May god give you both the strength to bear the loss. I pray God gives more strenghth to Jyotsna, who lost her b- inlaw in UK.just a few days back. Birth & death is in god's hands. Let us accept that. It is with DEEP regret that I will have to remember my b'day, as a mark of this ghastly incident. Anjali's cousin,aditi also shares my b'day,30 th march.what a sad, mourning day from now on.!may her soul rest in PEACE. Love, from your cousin, vasanti from Blore, INDIA
VASANTI VINAY VINEKAR, APRIL 4, 2008 Jyo, You are an amazing lady and I know Anjali was as well. I'm here for you if you need anything, as I'm sure I can speak for all of our District 50 Toastmasters. My love and prayers are with you and your family daily. REED ROGERS, APRIL 4, 2008 Dinesh and Jyo, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of such great loss. May your many wonderful memories of Anjali be a comfort to you and Tanya at this time and forever. Sincerely, Elizabeth and Roy ELIZABETH AND ROY MILLS, APRIL 4, 2008 Dinesh and Jyotsna, we are very sorry to learn about your tragic loss.please accept our deepest sympathy. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Mamata & Laxman Kamath, Newnan, Georgia. MAMATA L KAMATH, APRIL 4, 2008 Dinesh, our sincerest and deepest condolences to Jyotsna, Tanya and you. There are no words to comprehend your loss, pain and grief, and is unimagineable. We hope that you will find strength in Anjali s accomplishments and memories to overcome this tremendous loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. DAVINDER AND BINDU BHALLA, APRIL 4, 2008 Jyo, On behalf of Park Central Toastmasters I would like to express our deepest sorrow on your loss. It is my hope that time and beautiful memories of your beautiful daughter will ease your sorrow. Cynthia CYNTHIA BROWN, APRIL 4, 2008 Our hearts are saddened at at your tremendous loss. Please know that our prayers are with you and your family. ROD & VERA ATCHISON, APRIL 4, 2008 Jyo, Dinesh and Tanya - My thoughts and prayers are with you in this sad time. The loss of Anjali became much more pronounced for me when I read the rich life that she had afforded all those who knew her. It's true what they say about only the good ones die young. M. MUKHTARIAN, APRIL 4, 2008
Dear Jyo, Our twin daughters were born 2 days before Anjali. I cannot imagine the depth of your sorrow and pain. The Lord gifts us beautiful children to nurture and grow. As mothers we strive to give them strong roots, then watch them take wing with wistful pride. Clearly, God blessed you with Anjali, a young woman of character and compassion, wit and wisdom. No one can understand why He took her so soon, but her godliness will live on in our hearts forever. You are in my prayers... Anne Barab ANNE BARAB, APRIL 4, 2008 Jyo, I am deeply sorry for this tragic loss. She sounds like an amazing young woman who will be greatly missed by everyone who knew and loved her. LISA B. FLYNN, APRIL 3, 2008 Your precious daughter and wonderful sister has meant so much to our family. Though no longer with us, Anjali will always remain in our hearts. Jyo, Dinesh and Tanya, our thoughts and prayers are with you. SUSAN, PETER & LOGAN MACLAREN, APRIL 3, 2008 Dinesh, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. MICHAEL J LYNCH, APRIL 3, 2008 Dear Jyo,Dinesh and Tanya, You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Anjali was a joy and has left her mark in this world. When she visited the Cape, she talked of her students and I know she'll live on through them. God Bless you all. In love and friendship Theresa Gratis THERESA GRATIS, APRIL 3, 2008 Jyo, I am so sorry at your incredible loss and I know little words can comfort you other than to say after reading about your daughter, I can tell she was a truly remarkable woman. My mother, who passed away two years ago, was also a life-long teacher who adored children and thrived in educating them. It was said at her funeral that she will never be forgotten as long as the children that she touched continue to live. I feel the same can be said for your beautiful daughter. My love and prayers are with your family at this sorrowful time, Susan Gardner (Toastmasters) SUSAN MARIE GARDNER, APRIL 3, 2008
Jyo, Dinesh, and Tanya, You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this time. LISA HILL, APRIL 3, 2008 Dear Jyo, Dinesh, and Tanya Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We wish strength and love for you at this unfortunate time. CHIP AND PATTY BRUECKMAN, APRIL 3, 2008 Dear Jyo, Dinesh and Tanya, as parents, our hearts are so heavy with the news of Anjali. We remember when Anjali was born. Even then, she brought joy and happiness into your lives. For a short time, before you left for Texas, we glimpsed the spark of what was to be her life. We give thanks for the joy she brought to her family, friends and students and the impact you made on her life. She will live on in the hearts of those she touched. She was loved so much by so many. We pray that happier memories will comfort you and help you toward brighter days. Love, Dave and Judy McKibbon DAVE & JUDY MCKIBBON, APRIL 3, 2008 Jyo and Dinesh, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of sorrow. Anjali sounds like she would have been a delight to have known and been around. Know that we are here if you need anything. LES & FRANCES GUSE, APRIL 3, 2008 Dear Jyo, Dinesh and Tanya, We are so shocked to hear your sad news; it is hard to imagine the grief you must be going through. Please accept our deepest sympathies. You do have the comfort of knowing that though Anjali s life was all too short, she accomplished more than many hope to do in a full lifetime. May those memories see you through this sad time. MYRON & FRANCES ALLEN, APRIL 3, 2008 Dear Dinesh and Jyo, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. Words can not express our sorrow. Do take care and know that we are here if you need us. HELEN LIU, APRIL 3, 2008 OLD MEN DREAM DREAMS The crowd dispersed And left the family there Beside their eldest daughter Lying cold within the ground. The oldest to the
youngest Their respects had come to pay, Now stood reflecting Why she died that way. The oldest bowed his head Then slowly walked away. But suddenly he stopped And addressed his gathered clan In a voice low and calm, "Old men dream dreams, The young just live, then die. A dream is what life is made of, It makes the years fall away. The young live reality, The harshness and cruelty of facts. Old men dream dreams." The family saw within those ancient eyes A glimmer of the old man s life, And the dreams he never shared. The family left Their young daughter lying there. And still the old man dreams. JO NELL FULWILER, APRIL 2, 2008 Dear Jyotna, Dinesh and Tanya, Our deepest condolences. You are in our thought and prayers. We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. SHOBHNA AND SUBHASH PATEL, APRIL 2, 2008 Jo and Dinesh I was so saddened to hear of Anjali's accident. How wonderful it is that Anjali was able to share so much with so many in her short life. It doesn't surprise me at all that your daughter would be so generous and caring. My thoughts and prayers go to you, Tanya and the rest of your family. MARINA ROBBINS (MCKIBBON), APRIL 2, 2008 Jyo, I cannot express in words my deep sorrow. You have been such a support for me during my road to the noble profession of teaching and also during the loss of my mom. My heart and prayers are with you, your family, and friends. MALI WILLIAMS, APRIL 2, 2008 Jyo and Dinesh, Know that you have our caring thoughts and heartfelt prayers to help you through this most challenging time. Pauline and JD PAULINE SHIRLEY, APRIL 2, 2008 I am so sorry for your loss but please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time of grieving. I know you will but take time to remember all the lovely things your daughter accomplished in her life!! JENNIFER ASKEW, APRIL 2, 2008 I remember meeting you my freshman year at Lake Forest College. I remember thinking how cool it was that I had the opportunity to host a
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