The Parish of the Holy Cross 95 Nichols Road + Nesconset, NY 11767 + 631.265.2200 + www.pothc.org LET ALL BE WELCOMED AS CHRIST! May the Lord direct your hearts to the love of God and to the endurance of Christ. 2 Thessalonians 3:5 Come and pray with us! 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time - November 6, 2016 WE CELEBRATE EUCHARIST Monday Thursday: 9:00 A.M. (Chapel) Saturday: 5:00 P.M. Sunday: 8:00 A.M. + 9:30 A.M. + 11:30 A.M. WE CELEBRATE BAPTISM Baptisms are celebrated on the second and last Sunday of each month at 1 P.M. Please contact the Parish Office for more information. WE CELEBRATE RECONCILIATION Saturday: 3:45 P.M. 4:30 P.M. or call Father Michael for an appointment. WE CELEBRATE WEDDINGS Couples should contact the Parish Office at least six months in advance of the proposed wedding date.
We are here for you! 631.265.2200 + Fax 631.265.2229 + pothc@optonline.net Parish Office Hours: Monday - Friday 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM (closed 12:15-1:00 PM) Rev. Michael F. Holzmann Pastor Ms. Ellen Fox Director of Religious Education Mrs. Connie Calabro Mrs. Mary Anne Mc Culloch Co-Coordinators of Parish Outreach Mrs. Judith Pickel Pastoral Associate Mrs. Jane Wirth Parish Secretary Mr. Edward Guise Mr. Gerald Farrell Custodians PASTORAL TEAM PASTORAL STAFF Dr. Vincent Mazurek Music Minister Deacon Ralph Rivera Pastoral Minister Mrs. Elizabeth Shea Business Manager Mr. Brian Reich Director of Music Ministry Mr. Salvatore Finocchiaro Coordinator of Youth Ministries Mrs. Mary Inghilterra Weekend Sacristan Mr. James Reiss Mrs. Mary Pannone Religious Education Secretaries (hcreled@optonline.net) Celebrants for Next Weekend s Masses November 12th/13th 5:00 PM Fr. Frank Eisele 8:00 AM Fr. Michael 9:30 AM Fr. Frank 11:30 AM Fr. Michael Mass Intentions Schedule Week of November 6th, 9 AM Mass Mon. Henri-Robert Lamarque Tue. Frank & Agnes Salemi Wed. Joan Babino Thu. Matthew Akuntius New Life in Christ Scripture Readings for November 13, 2016 + Malachi 3:19-20 + 2 Thessalonians 3:7-12 + Luke 21:5-19 Banns of Marriage Third Time Rebecca D Andrea & Sean Daly Saturday, November 12th, 5 PM Mass James Schiavone, Bill O Sullivan, Gary Cioni, Katie Modell, E. Marsha Elsner Sunday, Nov. 13th, 33rd Sun. in Ordinary Time 8:00 AM Everette McKinley 9:30 AM John Schultz, John Gleason, Anna May Kappelmann, Kevin Nolan, Mary Beth Weiteg, Mary Jane James 11:30 AM People of the Parish Please pray for those in our parish who are sick, their families and caregivers: Philomena Giordano Ben Monaco Frances Monaco 2
Happy Birthday Mom! by Father Michael This weekend my Mom celebrates her 90 th birthday. The family festivities will be on Saturday. On Sunday, I am hosting a group of her friends at the house. It will be a busy weekend for her, but I hope it is one in which she can celebrate life with the many people who have been part of her journey. She is a remarkable woman who has taught me so much. May God continue to bless her and shower His blessings upon her. Happy Birthday, Mom! Allow me to offer a great big thank you to all those who gave in last week s second collection. We received over $5,000 towards our Catholic Ministries Appeal goal. I deeply appreciate your support of this effort. I look forward to announcing within the next few weeks that we have reached our goal. Your generosity helps to maintain various ministries throughout the diocese. And, it will benefit Holy Cross once we reach our goal. On Wednesday we celebrated All Souls Day. There are certain celebrations in the life of the church that just naturally work well. For example, on Ash Wednesday we don t need to convince anyone to come to church; the place is packed. There is that same spirit on All Souls Day. It may not draw huge numbers, but for those who are there it just makes sense. It is a time for all of us to be united in the mystery of death and resurrection. At our special evening Mass we pray in particular for all our parishioners who died in the past year. But, for all of us it is an opportunity to hold in prayer all our loved ones who have gone before us. Needless to say, this is an important week for our nation as we will be choosing our next president along with many other elected officials. There is tremendous passion and emotion that surrounds this election. As I shared with you a few weeks ago, there is an important perspective to keep in mind whenever we find ourselves in a difficult situation. It is not ultimately useful to say who was right and who was wrong, or who is the winner or loser, but rather to focus on the problems that lie before us. No one single candidate in any election will resolve all issues. Some will be pleased with the results, others will be disappointed, angry and concerned. Regardless of what happens, there will always be a need for all people to address ongoing issues of peace, justice, and respect for basic human rights. We need to continue to offer our needs, worries and prayers to the Lord. We need to seek to grow in understanding our faith and all that God calls us to. May God bless our families. May God bless America. The Parish Office is closed on Friday, November 11th for Veterans Day. 3
PARISH NEWS Holy Cross welcomes these children Baptized in October Christian John Paul Bruni Mariella Grace Caruso Zoey Elizabeth Cianci Sophia Elyse Fernhoff Dominic Michael Napolitano Pray for Our Military FC3 Lane Dyar Sgt. Daniel Frost WO Christopher Kaminsky LCpl. Michael Knipper Lt. Jennifer Kollmar Spc. Ryan Mauldin Lt. Ryan Montvydas IT3 Jason Mulderig Cpl. Steven Ziegler A1C Timothy Ziegler Wedding Pictures Needed! We are in the process of creating a wedding brochure for engaged couples in which the steps leading up to the wedding day and instructions for the wedding day are explained. We would like to include in the brochure, wedding pictures of parishioners. If anyone has pictures they d like to share, please email them to James at pothc@optonline.net. Thank you! 4 Basket Raffles Once again, the Fund Raising Committee is sponsoring our annual BASKET RAFFLE. Ticket prices are 1 ticket for $2, 3 for $5, and 7 for $10. Tickets will be sold on November 5/6, November 12/13 and November 19/20. On November 20th the winners will be drawn after the 11:30 Mass. Wine and cheese will be served. Please try to support this wonderful fund raising event. Thanks to you the BASKET RAFFLE has been a great success for our parish! Announcing: Holy Cross Book Club Join us as we meet once a month, on Thursday evenings, from November to June, to read and discuss the book, My Life with the Saints, by Father James Martin, SJ. This book is available in print or digital format from most booksellers. Reserve just one night a month to journey through and discuss this intriguing and entertaining book about why we should care about the saints, and what they have to do with our lives. Come for good conversation, inspiration, and coffee and cake! First meeting: Thursday, November 10, 7:30 PM in the Fr. Joe Room Questions? Call Jude at (631) 265-2200x16
HOLY CROSS TRAVEL CLUB S Holy Cross Travel Club s Southern Swing This is a Drive/Fly Tour ~ The bus will bring us south, the plane will bring us home. April 24-30, 2017 Highlights: Holy Cross Travel Club s Southern Swing ismyrtle Beach, Tour S.C. ~ The bus will bring us south, the plane will bring us home. This a Drive/Fly Charleston, S. C. April 24-30, 2017 Savannah, GA Walking Tours & Waterfront Shopping Highlights: Plantation, Mansion, and Garden Tours Beach, Myrtle Evening showss.c. at The Carolina Opry and the Savannah Theatre. Charleston, S. C. Savannah, GA Tour Package Includes: Tours & Waterfront Shopping Walking 7 Days of Sightseeing Provided by Hampton Jitney. Plantation, Mansion, and Garden Tours All Admissions & Touring at (including The Carolina Opry and theoceanfront Savannah Marriott Theatre Resort & Evening 6 Nightsshows Lodging 2 nights at the Spa at Grand Dune) Tour Includes: Package 6 Breakfasts, 3 Lunches, 6 Dinners (including 1 Dinner Cruise) 72Days of Sightseeing Provided by Hampton Jitney Evening Shows All Admissions & Touring Non-stop Jet Blue flight home from Savannah, GA. 6Airport Nights Transfer Lodging (including nights at the oceanfront Marriott Resort & from JFK to2 Holy Cross Spa at Grand Dune) 6 Breakfasts, Practical Stuff: 3 Lunches, 6 Dinners (including 1 Dinner Cruise) 2Price: Evening Shows $2,089 per person based on Double Occupancy. ($2,759 for singles) Non-stop Jet Blue flight home from Savannah, GA Price includes All taxes, and baggage fees. Airport Transfer fromplease JFK to Holy Cross If you are interested call the Parish Office to sign-up. Information Night: Wednesday, November 9 at 7:30 PM in the Atrium Practical Stuff:of $350 per person will be taken at that meeting. Deposits Price: $2,089 per person based on Double Occupancy ($2,759 for singles) Price includes All taxes, and baggage fees. If you are interested please call the Parish Office to sign-up. Information Night: Wednesday, November 9 at 7:30 PM in the Atrium Deposits of $350 per person will be taken at that meeting. 5
PARISH OUTREACH CHRISTMAS ANGELS COMING SOON! Next weekend, November 12 th and 13 th will be the first weekend of our Parish Outreach Christmas Project. We are once again requesting gift cards to local stores (i.e., Kohls, Target, Wal- Mart) to enable our families to purchase for themselves and their children the items they need. As you may know we have also helped the following agencies for the last several years and will continue to do so this Christmas: Olsen s Rest Home is a neighborhood facility for frail elderly on Gibbs Pond Rd. Residents of the home have always been considered members of our parish community. Holy Cross ministers to our friends at Olsen s in a variety of ways during the year. Mercy Haven is a provider of housing and other services for persons who are elderly, those living with mental illness, those families who are on limited income and those with special needs. Pronto is a human service agency located in Brentwood helping people in need with food, clothing and other basic necessities. They assist approximately 500 families for the holidays each year. Talbot House Chemical Dependency Crisis Center is a 24-hour voluntary chemical dependence crisis center licensed by the New York State Office of Alcoholism and Substance Abuse Services to provide short-term medically monitored inpatient withdrawal services to adult men and women who are in crisis. This facility provides nourishing meals, counseling, limited transportation, support groups, and referrals. SEE NEXT WEEK S BULLETIN FOR MORE DETAILS ON WAYS TO PARTICIPATE IN THE CHRISTMAS OUTREACH PROGRAM. 6
PARISH OUTREACH THANKSGIVING BASKET SIGN-UPS THIS WEEKEND Any parishioner interested in participating in our Thanksgiving Basket program can sign up after all the Masses this weekend. Please note that you must be able to bring in the Thanksgiving Basket on Monday, Nov. 21st between 7AM and 11:30 AM when we have volunteers available to receive them. Each volunteer will be responsible for buying and packaging the food, and will be given the menu, shopping list and supermarket gift cards to cover the cost. The completed baskets will be brought to the Parish Center on Monday, November 21st between 7:00 AM and 11:30 AM. If you are unable to do a basket, but would still like to support this program, donations of money or supermarket gift cards will be greatly appreciated. Envelopes marked Thanksgiving can be dropped in the collection basket or brought to the Outreach office. We are grateful for anything you can do to make this a real time for Giving Thanks. LITURGICAL MINISTERS Attention Liturgical Ministers! Would you like to serve at a Christmas Mass? Please circle your choices. Name: I am an: Altar Server Eucharistic Minister Usher Lector I would like to serve at Mass: Christmas Eve 4PM 6PM 10PM Christmas Day 8AM 10AM 12Noon 7
YOUTH GROUP Hi Everyone! Are you in high school? Do you want to make new friends as you play fun games and activities? Do you want to build more of an understanding about yourself and your faith? If you answered "Yes!" to any one of those questions, then you MUST check out the Holy Cross Youth Group! You will be glad you did! If you recently made your Confirmation, then come on down with a friend and check out the wonderful opportunities the Youth Group has for you! We would love to see you! The Holy Cross Youth Group is the perfect opportunity for you to continue to grow in your faith and build relationships with others in the parish. All Fall retreat food and supply donations can be left in the big pumpkin in the Atrium. All monetary donations can be dropped off in the parish office, and they will be given to Sal Finocchiaro, Youth Minister. We are extremely excited to begin a wonderful year with the Youth Group, and the amazing individuals who are a part of it! Here are our upcoming youth events and happenings! Take a look: 11/6: Youth Night, 6-8PM. The Youth Night will be located in the Atrium. 11/11-11/13: Youth Group Fall Retreat @ Sisters of Mercy Villa! Please see the attached flyer for more information! So, if you are thinking about coming to the church to see what we are all about do it! You will not regret it. Come with a friend or family member, and join us as we continue to grow in the endless love of Christ. If you have any questions or concerns, or if you are thinking about joining us and you would like more information, then please do not hesitate to contact Sal Finocchiaro, Coordinator of Youth Ministries, at HCyouthgroup@hotmail.com or call the parish office. :-) 8
YOUTH GROUP PARISH NEWS Second Collections This week we will also be collecting for the Archdiocese for the Military Services (AMS). And, next week we will be collecting for our Repairs and Major Renovations Fund. Thank you for your support of these important collections! Anointing of the Sick You are strongly encouraged to receive this Sacrament if you are having upcoming surgery, are dealing with a chronic or debilitating illness, are suffering from addiction, mental health issues or frailty. The Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick is offered after the 9:30 AM Mass this Sunday, November 6th. 9
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MEETINGS THIS WEEK Saturday, November 5th HOLY HOUR FOR PEACE 3:45-4:45 PM Worship Area THANKSGIVING BASKET SIGN-UP 5PM Atrium BASKET RAFFLE SALES Atrium Sunday, November 6th All Masses THANKSGIVING BASKET SIGN-UP Atrium BASKET RAFFLE SALES Atrium ANOINTING OF SICK After 9:30 Mass Worship Area RELIGIOUS ED. HOSPITALITY Atrium YOUTH NIGHT 6-8PM Atrium Monday, November 7th ONE TO ONE K OF C GENERAL MTG. FINANCE COMMITTEE Wednesday, November 9th BAPTISM PREP TRAVEL CLUB Thursday, November 10th MOMS GROUP BOOK CLUB Friday, November 11th (The Parish Office is closed for Veterans Day.) Saturday, November 12th BASKET RAFFLE SALES Sunday, November 13th BASKET RAFFLE SALES BAPTISMS 5:00-6:00 PM All Areas 7-8:30PM Fr. Joe Room 7:30PM Conference Rm. 7:30 PM Fr. Joe Room Atrium 11:00 AM Sacristy 7:30PM Fr. Joe Room 5:00 PM Atrium All Masses Atrium 1PM Worship Area CASH CALENDAR Congratulations to the following October Cash Calendar Winners! Date Date Date Amount Name Name Name 10/1/2016 $50 $50 $50 Harry Harry Harry Brockbank 10/2/2016 $50 $50 $50 Edward Edward Hau Hau Hau 10/3/2016 $50 $50 $50 Scott Scott Betz Scott Betz Betz 10/4/2016 $100 $100 $100 Laura Laura Laura & Joe & Joe & Joe Pellechi Pellechi 10/5/2016 $50 $50 $50 Laurie Laurie Laurie Schiraldi 10/6/2016 $50 $50 $50 Ronnie Ronnie Ronnie Graziose 10/7/2016 $50 $50 $50 The The The Emerson Family Family Family 10/8/2016 $50 $50 $50 Tom Tom & Tom Sophie & Sophie & Sophie Kecki Kecki Kecki 10/9/2016 $50 $50 $50 Daniel Daniel Daniel Calia Calia Calia 10/10/2016 $500 $500 $500 Donna Donna Donna Akuntius 10/11/2016 $50 $50 $50 Linda Linda Linda Musante 10/12/2016 $50 $50 $50 Maryann DeNapole 10/13/2016 $50 $50 $50 The The The Knipper Family Family Family 10/14/2016 $50 $50 $50 Pilar Pilar Modzel Pilar Modzel Modzel 10/15/2016 $50 $50 $50 Angela Angela Angela Gallo Gallo Gallo 10/16/2016 $50 $50 $50 Alex Alex & Alex Dylan & Dylan & Dylan Pardini Pardini Pardini 10/17/2016 $50 $50 $50 Laura Laura Laura & & & Michael Dandrea 10/18/2016 $50 $50 $50 Grace Grace Grace Miller Miller Miller & Bridgit & Bridgit & Bridgit Hanley Hanley Hanley 10/19/2016 $100 $100 $100 Nick Nick Nick Lombardo 10/20/2016 $50 $50 $50 Arlene Arlene Arlene Lechner 10/21/2016 $50 $50 $50 Daniel Daniel Daniel Calia Calia Calia 10/22/2016 $50 $50 $50 Ralph Ralph Ralph & Evelyn & Evelyn & Evelyn Rivera Rivera Rivera 10/23/2016 $50 $50 $50 Josephine Sassano 10/24/2016 $50 $50 $50 Ginny Ginny Ginny Brindisi Brindisi Brindisi 10/25/2016 $50 $50 $50 Henrietta Renken Renken Renken 10/26/2016 $50 $50 $50 Joe Joe Brindisi Joe Brindisi Brindisi 10/27/2016 $100 $100 $100 Arlene Arlene Arlene & Jerry & Jerry & Pisapia Jerry Pisapia Pisapia 10/28/2016 $50 $50 $50 Diane Diane Diane Kozicki Kozicki Kozicki 10/29/2016 $50 $50 $50 Maryann DeNapole 10/30/2016 $50 $50 $50 Barbara Heitman 10/31/2016 $50 $50 $50 Diane Diane Diane Lombardo COMMUNITY NEWS The Branch Funeral Home will hold a presentation focusing on getting through the holidays after a loss. It will be held at their Smithtown Branch on Saturday, November 12th between 10:30AM and 12noon. For further information and to register call 631-724-9500. Moloney Funeral Home will hold a presentation on coping with loss during the holidays. It will be held in the Mother Teresa Tribute Center, 132 Ronkonkoma Avenue, Ronkonkoma on Sunday, November 20th from 1:00 to 3:00 PM. Please call 631-588-1515 to RSVP by November 13th. 11
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