What you resist persists and probably ends up right in front of your face again! I left the UK and came to Indonesia to escape a destructive relationship that had pushed me deep into depression and despair. I believed at the time that if I left the UK and my partner that life would be wonderful and I would start again in a new way. Yes this happened, but not immediately. What actually happened first was that my boss was a replica of my partner! He was cold, abusive, unkind and cynical. So even though I had left my partner I had obviously not resolved the reasons why I had left him and especially the beliefs around relationships with men. The beliefs came from within myself and were a strong part of my morphogenetic field of experience and were being reflected back to me through my new boss as message to me to stop resisting and release what was within. When I released the fear inside myself, when I shifted towards forgiveness of my ex-partner, when I stopped hiding my authentic self and spoke and acted the truth of who I Am, my boss was quickly removed not by me personally I hasten to add, but by his circumstance. He was replaced with a boss who was resonating on the same page as I was, who along with his wife, became amazing, supportive friends. I truly felt blessed to be given the message change yourself and everything around you changes! Life is a message. It tells us what we need to release and what is working or is not working for the evolution of our Souls and for who we are at the core of our being. When you have the courage to sing your Soul song everything changes. As I spoke earlier, my guides often say to me stop looking in the direction you do not want to go. This is simple guidance and more profound than it may seem at first glance. If we keep focusing on the bad relationship, pain, lack of money.. fill in the blank! Then we will only get more of it. This does not mean to deny that the bill requires payment, or that the sickness requires healing, or that the love of your life has left you, it means to look at having the means to pay, and look at the healing having occurred and look at the space that has been made for an even better relationship to enter your life better still start a new relationship with yourself! As I said before. Become what it is you want to experience and create in your life. Important. If you are grieving the passing over of a loved one, the immediate loss of a relationship or job or whatever is central to you. It is important NOT TO DENY THIS. Get it out, release the emotions. Emotion means energy in motion let the energy out this is what tears are for. It is not useful to keep on with a positive attitude whilst hiding a broken heart. First release. You can t solve a problem with the same mindset that created it. Albert Einstein When clients and students first come to me I take the time to see them, I listen to them and hear what they are saying. I allow them to complain for the first session and to get it all out. And then I do not consent to their complaints! I know the story, they know the story, and they are with me because they want to change the story. So after a first session we will focus more on what is appearing in their lives, what has changed, what they want to change. And we change it.
I have worked as a counselor for years. I have listened and given advice and guidance when asked. But, this is only healing for a limited amount of time. Because what is psychotherapy and counseling? It is a way of keeping the problem there! If we keep digging around in our childhood traumas, our adult traumas, our supposed mental and emotional illness, we are attracting more of it into our lives, we are keeping it stuck. We are remaining in our story and we stay in the character of our story. So I changed the way I work, I listen yes, I hear yes, and then we transform the trauma or the story into something that is different. We release the emotional charge that is held in the morphogenetic field, and this makes room for something new to enter. When you can tell your story and it feel no emotional triggers it has become neutral, it no longer has a charge, this is an indication that you have left the story and turned a page. I am known for removing pain in seconds. I do this by consciously connecting with the quantum field and allowing what happens to happen. I learned this from Richard Bartlett who founded Matrix Energetics. Allow what comes to come and observe the change, is his advice. So I let go and allow what happens to happen and it usually does. However, some people will come with backache or whatever is going on, and instead of focusing on the amazing happening of having their pain dissipate or disappear instantly they will begin to look for the pain. And guess what, the pain will reappear! This is true of life in general. If we keep looking at what we do not want guess what? We are focusing on what we do not want. This then becomes part of our morphogenetic field and what we attract to ourselves is more of what we do not want! We need to do what my guides suggest keep looking in the direction that you want to go. Observations not only disturb what is being measured, they produce it. Pascual Jordan I used to get together with a friend of mine and talk about the things that we were wanting in our lives, we would talk about how great it would be when we get.. (fill in the blanks). How wonderful we feel. We laugh, we believe and we KNOW that what we are talking about is ALREADY in our field of experience. as my guides say words are cups of light and information. We open the doors of all possibility to enter into our lives, and this allows us to create quickly and effortlessly. Your Soul is listening, it KNOWS what you want and what you need. When you SPEAK about what you want you are triggering action through word, when you FEEL what you want your Soul hears, it knows which doors to open, who to introduce you to, and which direction to take. TRUST. We are ALL CO-CREATORS in this world CREATING TOGETHER! Having said this, we are not just lone creators, we are living in a quantum soup of consciousness that IS the Source of All That Is. We are co-creating with others on this physical world, whether we are in conscious relationship with them or not we are part of a collective consensus of belief. We are cocreating with the environment around us. We are co-creating with our guides, ancestors and with the angels. We are co-creating with our Soul. We are co-creating with The Source of All That Is. There is also such a thing as divine timing, which means everything comes in the time that is perfect for us. We are impatient sometimes and believe that what we are asking for will not come, this is not the truth. The truth is we are required to change our frequency and vibration, and we do this through releasing what is in our morphogenetic field that is keeping us in the past and holding us back from becoming who we already are.
I often give my clients and students the analogy of England in winter. When it is deep winter the days are short and nights long and dark, there may be snow on the ground, certainly in many places there is ice. The trees are bare of their leaves, there is little growth except for a few winter hardy hedgerows. When we venture outside the world looks cold and bleak. There is a time during winter when many get depressed with this because there is not enough light, outside it seems as though nothing is growing. Then suddenly the cold dark nights get shorter the, during the day the sun shines brighter and warmer, the ice and the snow melt, and underneath the icy earth growth is occurring that we cannot not see - but the sun is warming the earth and encouraging seeds to wake up. Suddenly the trees start to sprout new growth of leaves and there are small buds of plants and flowers sticking out of the frozen earth. And a couple of weeks later there is an abundance of leaves on the trees, an abundance of flowers are blossoming, the world is green again and full of colour and the days are beginning to get warmer and longer reminding us that soon Summer will be here. Life is like this sometimes. What we observe on the outside is not necessarily the truth. Under ground during winter there is preparation being made ready for the beginning of spring and the new growth. Sometimes we need to remember this when we look at our lives and feel that nothing is growing and nothing is happening, because beneath the surface there is a lot of activity going on that we cannot see. We trust during the winter that spring will arrive, and so it is with life. Spring always arrives and after that summer and then the harvest time of autumn, and then during another winter when we are required to let go of those things that no longer serve our growth, and so the cycle continues in this world of ours. It helps to remember that behind the scenes, in the ethers where we do not see, all is being orchestrated in perfect place and timing. Richard Bartlett says stop it with manifesting! And to an extent I agree with this. There is a dichotomy in the manifestation process. The more we are hankering after getting something, the more we are focusing on what we do not have. This is why I say we need to become what we want. Feel what we want. Identify what is in your heart, what is the song that your Soul wants to sing? What does your Soul want to compose? What is the music that it loves to dance to? Begin to sing it and life will become a dance. This is the same as the light of the sun warming the ground and sprouting the seeds that are waiting beneath the earth. I was a semi-professional singer for years, what I learned is the more I used my voice the stronger my voice became, the stronger my lungs became, I could hold notes for longer than before, the more confident I became in my ability. This is true of becoming. The more you become the feeling you want to feel, the stronger you are resonating with what you want to have, be, see in your life. Stop standing in front of yourself! My guides say to me to stop standing in front of yourself, because if you keep standing in front of yourself all you will see is yourself! This is the morphogenetic field that I speak of. What we see in front of our eyes, in our lives, is the manifested evidence of our beliefs. It comes from INSIDE OF YOU. It is only being REFLECTED on the outside. When we stop standing in front of ourselves we can suddenly see the open vistas, the field of all possibility, and our Soul has the opportunity to bring what is ours to us in the best way possible.
Once you make a decision the Universe conspires to make it happen! I trust and know absolutely that The Source will bring what is in my best interests to bring. This can come in different disguises, and certainly I do not always like what is reflected back to me! But it is all message to either stay in the direction I am going or to change direction. This was not always true, I was brought kicking and screaming at points when I was required to go with the flow but I know from experience that it works, my Soul holds the answers to what will serve me and the more I look in this direction the more I feel like singing. When we can see that everything around us is a reflection of what we are holding inside ourselves we can detach more easily from the outcome, change direction, and allow what is ours to come to us. And it will come to us. Because it already is us, it already is who we are, it is what we were born to be and to do. It is who we are born to be as unique expressions of the Creative Force. We know this when we feel passionate about what we are doing, and who we are inviting into our lives, yet at the same time as feeing passionate there is a peaceful knowing in the heart that tells us all is well. When we keep trying to manifest something in a particular way what we are doing is giving out the message that we do not have whatever it is we are wishing to acquire or create. We are saying that we do not trust that Spring will arrive, the sun will shine, the days will get longer and the new seeds will grow. Trust and Knowing are important, how it happens is not our job, it is the job of the Soul together with the Universal Force, to bring it to us in whatever way it comes. When we insist that something appears in a certain way we are again placing limitations on what and how and when. When we let go and allow, knowing that whatever it is will appear then we open the door for all possibility to enter in the best way possible. Take a look at what we actually do when we insist that something has got to come in a certain way and we focus on it only coming in that way. Our goals Limited focus of manifestation What Your Soul sees The field of all possibility is wider than the focused line and covers all directions, it sees the bigger picture.
For instance, I remind my clients who are seeking their soul mate. Stop seeking! This just gives the message out in to the universe that you are seeking and you will therefore keep seeking as this is what you are emitting in your morphic field of experience. I ask them how they are speaking about men/women, relationships. Are they saying there is a scarcity and seeing through a narrow line, or are they talking about the perfect partner being there for them and allowing the open field? Allow, open, and talk about how you love being in love, how you love women/men, how your perfect partner is there, and then let go. Know that your perfect partner is also out there wondering where you are! And this is true for the perfect job, state of health etc. Your Soul and The Source of All That Is wants the best for you, trust this. The universe is orchestrating things so that you will meet at the perfect time, in the perfect circumstances for you both. This is co creation. Refining our frequency of vibration is an on-going process. We are never finished. But as we clear our beliefs and limitations and clear our energy fields in order to vibrate at a higher frequency, then all comes more easily. We know when we are finished with learning a certain theme because it stops occurring in our lives. However, as we refine our vibrational frequency new themes or lessons will appear because we never stop learning and experiencing. It is also a message that we are EVOLVING! Please go to the meditation to connect with the field of all possibility