Marriage and Family Marriage and Family Lesson 1 Submission To God Foundation of The Family 1. Submission to God foundation of the family 2. God created designed and governs marriage 3. Marriage divorce and remarriage 4. Husbands 5. Wives 6. Parents 7. Children 8. Preparing for marriage 9. Living single 10. Some principles that guide the unrighteous family 11. Some principles that guide the righteous family 2 Introduction Today, many are either ignorant of or openly reject God s law on marriage and family responsibilities Therefore, it is common for our society to redefine marriage and family duties based on relative sinful standards This has resulted in making families and society unstable Although sad, the Scriptures tell us this is Rom 1:20 For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that they are without excuse. Rom 1:21 For even though they knew God, they did not honor Him as God or give thanks, but they became futile in their speculations, and their foolish heart was darkened. nothing new 3 4 Rom 1:22 Professing to be wise, they became fools Rom 1:23 and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man and of birds and four-footed animals and crawling creatures. Rom 1:24 Therefore God gave them over in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, so that their bodies would be dishonored among Rom 1:25 For they exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. Rom 1:26 For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, them. 5 6
Rom 1:27 and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error. Rom 1:28 And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those Religious Deceivers Forsake God 2Ti 3:1 But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. 2Ti 3:2 For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, 2Ti 3:3 unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, things which are not proper, 7 8 Religious Deceivers Forsake God 2Ti 3:4 treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 2Ti 3:5 holding to a form of godliness, although they have denied its power; Avoid such men as these. Introduction God s people have always been challenged to build righteous families in a wicked world No matter what our family situation is, we must learn and apply His Word to ourselves and teach others, especially children, to do the same 9 10 God Has Always Desired The Building of Righteous Families Gen 18:19 "For I have chosen him, so that he may command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing righteousness and justice, so that the LORD may bring upon Abraham what He has spoken about him." Eph 6:4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. 11 God Has Always Desired The Building of Righteous Families 2Ti 1:5 For I am mindful of the sincere faith within you, which first dwelt in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice, and I am sure that it is in you as well. 12
Ruling Principle of Life God has created all including humanity His purpose is for us to glorify Him through obedience to His Word He has created, designed and governs all primary relationships, government, His church and marriage and family Submission to God in all of our relationships is to be placed above submission to humanity 13 Ruling Principle of Life Ecc 12:13 The conclusion, when all has been heard, is: fear God and keep His commandments, because this applies to every person. Ecc 12:14 For God will bring every act to judgment, everything which is hidden, whether it is good or evil. 1Jn 5:3 For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments; and His commandments are not burdensome. 14 Ruling Principle of Governments Rom 13:1 Every person is to be in subjection to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those which exist are established by God. Rom 13:2 Therefore whoever resists authority has opposed the ordinance of God; and they who have opposed will receive condemnation upon themselves. Ruling Act 2:36 "Therefore let all the house of Israel know for certain that God has made Him both Lord and Christ--this Jesus whom you crucified." Act 2:37 Now when they heard this, they were pierced to the heart, and said to Peter and the rest of the apostles, "Brethren, what shall we do?" 15 16 Ruling Act 2:38 Peter said to them, "Repent, and each of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins; and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. Act 2:41 So then, those who had received his word were baptized; and that day there were added about three thousand souls. Ruling Act 2:47 praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord was adding to their number day by day those who were being saved. 1Co 12:13 For by one Spirit we were all baptized into one body, whether Jews or Greeks, whether slaves or free, and we were all made to drink of one Spirit. 17 18
Ruling Eph 5:22 Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. Eph 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. Eph 5:24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything. 19 Ruling Act 2:42 They were continually devoting themselves to the apostles' teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Act 8:22 "Therefore repent of this wickedness of yours, and pray the Lord that, if possible, the intention of your heart may be forgiven you. 20 Ruling Gen 1:26 Then God said, "Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; and let them rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over the cattle and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth." Gen 1:27 God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; Ruling Gen 2:21 So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; then He took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh at that place. Gen 2:22 The LORD God fashioned into a woman the rib which He had taken from the man, and brought her to the man. male and female He created them. 21 22 Ruling Gen 2:23 The man said, "This is now bone of my bones, And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man." Gen 2:24 For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. Col 3:17 Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving Ruling Col 3:18 Wives, be subject to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Col 3:19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be embittered against them. Col 3:20 Children, be obedient to your parents in all things, for this is well-pleasing to the Lord. Col 3:21 Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they will not lose heart. thanks through Him to God the Father. 23 24
Submission To Government Act 5:27 When they had brought them, they stood them before the Council. The high priest questioned them, Act 5:28 saying, "We gave you strict orders not to continue teaching in this name, and yet, you have filled Jerusalem with your teaching and intend to bring this man's blood upon us." Submission To Government Act 5:29 But Peter and the apostles answered, "We must obey God rather than men. 25 26 Submission To False Teachers Gal 1:8 But even if we, or an angel from heaven, should preach to you a gospel contrary to what we have preached to you, he is to be accursed! Submission To Family Mat 10:37 "He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. Mat 10:38 "And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. 27 28 Submission To God Foundation of The Family 1. Submission to God is the ruling principle of life 2. Submission to God is the ruling principle of governments 3. Submission to God is the ruling principle of His church (saved body) 4. Submission to God is the ruling principle of marriage and family 5. Submission to God is above submission to humanity 29