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A Manual for Engaged Couples Who Desire to be Wed at University Lutheran Chapel University Lutheran Chapel 316 10th Avenue SE Minneapolis, Minnesota 55414 612-331-2747

Official Policy of University Lutheran Chapel The pastor(s) of University Lutheran Chapel will not under any circumstances conduct marriages that are not in accord with the teachings of the Holy Scriptures of the Christian Faith, in particular, unions, whether sanctioned by the state or not, consisting of anything other than one man and one woman. The facilities of University Lutheran Chapel will not be used for marriages other than those conducted by her pastor(s) or with the permission of her pastor(s) and in accord with the teachings of the Holy Scriptures of the Christian Faith. (Adopted July 9, 2013) Introduction The fact that a Christian wedding is a worship service will govern almost every detail of service planning. In planning, the couple will need to always ask the question would this be appropriate in the Divine Service on Sunday morning? If the answer is no, then that item should probably be discarded. Because the wedding service is a worship service being held at a particular congregation, the pastor of that congregation is the final authority on all matters touching the worship service and the rite of holy matrimony itself. The pastor reserves the right to refuse to marry any couple who will not cooperate in this area. The Liturgy Because the marriage service is first and foremost a worship service, the wedding will normally take place within the liturgy of the Church. These liturgies have been handed down from the earliest Christian times and are the Church s voice through the ages. The rite of marriage itself will be performed according to one of the following books: The Book of Common Prayer (1945 edition), The Lutheran Agenda, Lutheran Worship Agenda, or Lutheran Service Book Agenda. The vows will not be written by the couple, but will be spoken as they are written in these volumes. The rite of marriage will be set within a larger liturgical context. The choice of liturgy depends upon the time of day that the ceremony is to take place. If the marriage is in the morning the liturgy will be the Order of Matins, the Order of Terce (Prayer at Nine O Clock), or the Order of Morning Prayer. If the ceremony is in the late afternoon or evening, the liturgy will be the Order of Vespers or the Order of Evening Prayer. The couple may choose to use settings of these liturgies found in either Lutheran Service 2

Book, Lutheran Worship or The Lutheran Hymnal. If the ceremony is in the early afternoon the liturgy may be either the Order of Noonday Prayer (Sext), or of Three O Clock Prayer (Nones). The Order of Holy Communion will not ordinarily be used due to pastoral concerns over the proper administration of the Sacrament. Music Music is an integral part of the Church s worship. Music not only serves to accompany the message of the text of song, but also carries a message all its own. It is a powerful tool that can be used either to enhance the meaning and purpose of words, or detract from those words. Likewise, music can either enhance our reverence in worship, or it can detract from that reverence. Great care must therefore be taken when choosing the music of the wedding service. The couple will need to choose organ preludes and postludes, hymns, and a canticle. For your convenience, the following list is an example of pieces that fit nicely into the wedding service and have the pastor s pre-approval. Preludes and Postludes: Purcell, Trumpet Tune and Air Bach, Kommst du nun, Jesu Most sacred music by Bach, Buxtehude, Byrd, Charpentier, Howells, Mendelssohn, Purcell, Praetorius, Stanley Processionals: Charpentier, Prelude from Te Deum Bach, Jesu, Joy of Man s Desiring, Wachet Auf, ruft uns die Stimme, Sheep May Safely Graze Clarke, Trumpet Voluntary Frescobaldi, Canzona I Pachelbel, Canon and Gigue in G minor Handel, Minuet from Music for the Royal Fireworks Hymns: Alleluia! Let Praises Ring LSB #822, LW #437, TLH #23 Praise the Almighty, My Soul Adore Him LSB # 797, LW #445, TLH #26 Now Thank We All Our God LSB #895, LW #443, TLH #36 Blest be the Tie that Binds LSB #649, LW #295, TLH #464 3

The Church s One Foundation LSB #644, LW #289, TLH #473 Lord Jesus, Thou the Church s Head LSB #647, LW #293, TLH #477 Wake, Awake, for Night is Flying LSB #516, LW #177, TLH #609 Lord, Who at Cana s Wedding Feast LSB #859, LW #252, TLH #620 O Father, All Creating LSB #858, LW #251, TLH #621 The Voice that Breathed o er Eden TLH #622 O Perfect Love LW #253, TLH #623 O Blessed Home Where Man and Wife LW #466, TLH #624 Oh, Blest the House, Whate er Befall LSB #862, LW #467, TLH #625 For Many Years, O God of Grace LW #325, TLH #639 Gracious Savior, Grant Your Blessing LSB #860 Canticles: At Matins or Morning Prayer: Te Deum Laudamus LSB p.223-225, LSB #941, LW #8, TLH p.35-37 Benedictus LSB p. 226-227 or 238-240, LW p.217-218 or p.239-242, TLH p.38-39 Benedicite, Omnia Opera LSB #931, LW #9 Confitebor Tibi LSB #927, TLH p.120 Exultavit Cor Meum LSB #928, TLH p.120-121 Gaudens gaudebo LSB #929 At Vespers or Evening Prayer Te Deum Laudamus LSB p.223-225, LSB #941, LW #8, TLH p.35-37 Magnificat LSB p.231-232 or p.248-249, LW p.228-230 or p.255-257, TLH p.43 Please note that there is no canticle in the liturgies of Terce, Sext or None. Recessionals: Bach, Nun danket alle Gott Stanley, Movement 4, Allegro, Suite from Ten Voluntarys Most sacred music by Bach, Buxtehude, Byrd, Charpentier, Howells, Mendelssohn, Purcell, Praetorius, Stanley Please note that the Wedding Marches of Wagner and Mendelssohn may not be used due to their pagan origins. Tocata and Fugue in D minor by Bach also may not be used. 4

The couple may use one of the chapel s organists, or may choose an organist of their own. Other musicians may be employed in the service as well, especially strings, trumpet, and other brass instrumentalists. Guitar may be used if played in the classical style. Many couples desire to have a soloist perform at some point in the service. The couple may choose their own soloist and music. However, due to the nature of the Church s worship, certain styles of music are simply not appropriate and may not be used. These include, but are not necessarily limited to: Opera, Jazz, Blues, Showtunes, Rhythm & Blues, Country Western, Folk, Pop, Rock & Roll, Rap. All music and lyrics must be approved by the pastor. The hiring of all musicians is the responsibility of the couple. Please consult with your musicians regarding appropriate honoraria. Also please make sure that the music you choose is not beyond the abilities of your musicians. Attire Due to the solemn nature of this occasion, formal attire should be worn. The bride and her bridesmaids should wear dresses. Because these will be worn at a worship service in the sight of all, certain accommodations must be made for modesty s sake. Dresses may not be too short (above the knee) or plunge too deep in the front or in the back. The groom and his groomsmen should wear a conservative suit or a tuxedo. Tennis shoes may not be worn. Under no circumstances may costumes be worn by the wedding party (e.g. Hawaiian shirts and Bermuda shorts, cowboy outfits, medieval outfits, togas, etc.) Flowers and Decorations In the worship service one must always be concerned with sacred space. Thus care must be taken when decorating the chapel. As in all worship services, the focal point and center of worship is the altar. Therefore also for weddings the chapel decorations should lead all eyes to the altar. The paraments (altar, lectern, and pulpit hangings) will be the proper color of the season or day and are not to be changed for the wedding service. The couple may wish to take this into consideration when choosing their colors. Colors of the Church Year GREEN All days apart from those below. BLUE Season of Advent PURPLE Season of Lent 5

WHITE Season of Christmas, Season of Easter, Feasts of Our Lord and certain Saint s Days RED Week of Pentecost, Reformation Day, Martyrs Days, Evangelists Days, most Apostles Days. Flowers may be tastefully placed throughout the chapel. They must not, however be placed in such a way that they interfere with the liturgical space and the necessary movements of the pastor and wedding party. The following list of do s and don ts should be followed. Do place flowers beside the altar. Don t place flowers on the mensa (top) of the altar itself. Do place flowers before the lectern and pulpit. Don t block the congregation s view of the speaker or of the paraments. Do place flowers on stands at the side in the chancel area. Don t place flowers on the communion rail, or anywhere where they may interfere with the movement between pulpit, lectern, altar and center aisle. Do place flowers at the ends of the seating rows. Don t place flowers in the aisle. Don t place flowers on or in the Baptismal Font or on the Paschal Candle Stand. Don t place flowers on the piano or organ. Other decorations may include a wedding banner, aisle candles, an aisle runner, and a marriage icon. Any special candles, such as aisle candles, must be provided by the couple. Candles in the candelabra and torches in the chancel will be provided by the chapel. Decorating must be completed at least 1 hour prior to the service. When a florist is engaged to furnish decorations, he or she should be asked beforehand to follow the above guidelines, to respect the sacredness of the house of God, and to do his or her work reverently. Photographers Photographers, like decorators should be asked to respect the sacredness of God s house and of the worship service. No photographs are to be taken during the wedding ceremony or liturgy proper. (This does not include processional and recessional.) If photos are desired during the ceremony, 6

they must be taken from the back of the chapel without a flash and may not under any circumstances be taken in the chancel proper. Formal photographs may be taken either before or after the wedding at the discretion of the couple. As with decorating, all photographic equipment must be removed from the chancel and nave at least 1 hour before the service. Videographers Videographers are urged to follow the same instructions as the photographers. All video taping during the service should be done from the rear of the chapel. Under no circumstances may the videographer stand in the chancel during the service. Additional Details Questions concerning matters not addressed in this manual should be directed to the pastor, who has final authority when determining the details of the wedding service and chapel use. The Rev. David A. Kind, Campus Pastor University Lutheran Chapel Minneapolis, Minnesota Tuesday of Trinity V, July 2, 2002 Revised Tuesday of Sexagesima, February 13, 2007 Revised Wednesday of Trinity VI, July 10, 2013 7