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Vol. LV, No. 14 April 11, 2013 1 Iyar 5773 All Is Ready for the Temple Israel Players Latest Production of Fiddler on the Roof Final rehearsals are underway for The Temple Israel Players latest production, Fiddler on the Roof, which opens on the Crystal Ballroom stage on Saturday, April 27, and Sunday, April 28. A large cast is rehearsing daily late into the night, but it is a labor of love, according to one of the show s producers, Eileen Putterman. There is something very special about the way people feel about this play, she said. The Fiddler story creates increased sensitivity about the tragedies Jews have had to endure. She said a number of cast members have had to explain what happened in Anatevka to their children. How would I tell my children today that the government is making us homeless and making us leave our hometown? one parent asked. The cast of more than 45 includes congregants of all ages, a number of couples, brothers and sisters, and parents along with their children. Several members of the Temple Board of Trustees are in the cast and the clergy will all have cameo roles. Lead roles include Abe Kanfer, who stars as Tevye and has been nursing along an authentic beard that he says would make any rebbe jealous; Lois Sazer, who plays Yenta; Gary Noren, the butcher; Mark Cwern, an important villager; and Kim Kaiman, who plays Golda. The Temple Israel Players have staged Fiddler four times, about every ten years, and some members of the cast have been in each production, including Kenneth M. Leff, Mark Cwern, and Eileen Putterman. One cast member, former Temple Israel President George Abrahams (A South African resident of Anatevka?), was in!"#$%&'!$()*++,#&-$./+$&#01*/#+$!"#$2.'!$31&$!"*'$'"145 Several couples are in the cast, including Kim and Jon Kaiman, Eileen and Mickey Putterman, Lois and Gary Sazer, and Rebecca and Dan Wotman. Carol and Steve Smolinsky are both working behind the scenes, helping with stage production. Other members of the cast include Robert Aizer; Harold Citron; Deborah Clayden and her daughter, Zara; Lori Freudman; Keyvan Frouzan and his daughter, Danielle; Rachel Geula; Marylin Goldberg; Dan Goldberger and his son, Eli; Brandon Greenspan; Iyana Kaiman; and Barrett Kanfer. Additional cast members include Ron Klempner; Andy Nadler; Ofra Panzer; Harriet Picker and her son, Ari; Mark Putter and his daughter, Amanda; Lillian Rokhsar; Ruth Schelberg; Nancy Schoen; Robin Silberg; Diana Stein; Maxine Vogel; Debbie Volk and her daughter, Amanda; and Sophia Wotman. The producers are Ron Klempner, Mark Putter, Eileen Putterman and Lois Sazer. Working behind the scenes are Mark Birnbaum, stage manager; Linda Burson, stage director; Fred Gatti, musical director; Maggie Goldberger, choreographer; Sherry Husney, makeup; Continued on page 7 6$,.&7#$2.'!$13$21/7&#7./!'$.&#$/14$&#.+8*/7$!"#$,.!#'!$9#:;,#$<'&.#,$=,.8#&'$;&1+>2!*1/?$()*++,#&$1/$!"#$@113$A/1!#$!"#$%++,#&$.!$!1;$&*7"!B5-$Photo by Bob Lopatkin

A VOICE GUEST COLUMN A Men s Club Invitation By Seth Moin EDITOR S NOTE: The Men s Club has had an extremely active year, with much more to come and you are invited, as reported in this Voice Guest column by President Seth Moin. Our Men s Club has become one of the most active in the region because of our multi-generational synagogue base and the varied services and programs we run throughout the year. Our members enjoy every minute we spend together. Regular meetings are held the fourth Thursday of each month. Following a light Our members enjoy every minute we spend together. complimentary dinner, a short D var Torah, and business meeting, interesting speakers are heard on topics ranging from men s "#.,!"$!1$1>&$%/./2*.,$"#.,!"$./+$21::>nity-wide issues. Our knowledgeable guest speakers in the last year have included congregants Dr. Mark Tarras expounding on FROM THE RABBI Kedoshim tihyu, ki kadosh ani Adonai Eloheikhem. You shall be holy, for I the Lord your God am holy. (Leviticus 19:2) 9"#$ %&'!$ EF$ 2".;!#&'$ 13$!"#$ D11G$ of Vayikra/Leviticus, which we have been reading since before Pesah, can be challenging for modern Jews. The Torah spends a luxuriously extensive amount of time on the (frequently gory) details 13$!"#$./2*#/!$ '.2&*%2*.,$ 2>,!?$!"#$ 31&:$ 13$ worship that our ancestors practiced prior to the destruction of the Second Temple in Jerusalem, at the hands of the Romans in 70 C.E. But, of course, none of this applies to us today we are fortunate that we communicate with God directly through the words of prayer, without a priestly intermediary. And suddenly, Vayikra opens up into another, seemingly more relevant way of interacting with God, a kind of counterpoint to the beginning of the book: rules of how to conduct ourselves with respect to others. Holiness may not only On Being Holy how to survive your stay in the hospital, and Dr. Michael Ziegelbaum on his medical mission to Haiti. We have also welcomed Det. Lieut. Gary Shapiro, who provided an informative talk on bias crimes in Nassau County. Aside from hosting our annual opening breakfast with a speaker in the fall and the Yom Kippur break-the-fast, ably coordinated by Dr. Charles and Iris Adler, we ".C#$*/*!*.!#+$.$/>:D#&$13$'*7/*%2./!$;&1- grams that have become annual events in the life of our synagogue. We joined with Jews around the world to teach our youngsters to wrap!"#$$%& at our annual World Wide Wrap. We co-sponsor the Rabbinic Dialogue with Temple Beth- El and Great Neck Synagogue. Another highlight of our calendar is the Men s Club Shabbat, where, with the expert assistance of Cantor Frieder, our members lead the Continued on page 7 By Rabbi Seth Adelson D#$.2"*#C#+$!"&1>7"$ '.2&*%2#H$ *!$ :.8$.,'1$ be attained by honoring one s parents, paying a laborer his fair wages at the end of the day (rather than the following day), and not placing a stumbling block before the blind. The principles enumerated in this passage, to which scholars typically Holiness is found in commitment to placing the needs of others high on your list of priorities refer as the Holiness Code, are mitzvot/ commandments of the sort that not only make for a healthy society, but also give us a basis for understanding that God s demands of us are not merely personal or ritual in nature; they also require derekh Continued on page 7 2 FROM THE PRESIDENT Remembering By Alan Klinger Before one can catch his/her breath from restoring the house after Passover (that is, if you re the one restoring), comes our trio of lesser known, but thematically important days of observance. This past Sunday night we gathered 31&$!"#$%&'!$13$!"#'#?$Yom HaShoah. While it is hard to employ the word celebrate in connection with the remembrance of the six million Jews who lost their lives during the Holocaust, the program designed for that service presented an inspirational and, indeed, moving evening. From the very beginning, when our own survivors marched down the sanctuary aisle to light the special menorah, to the musical interludes of the Temple Israel and Gahelet Children s Choirs Please join our activities in commemorating these days. and the violin solo by Leerone Hakami of the theme from Schindler s List, to the remarks by Leo Slawin of his own experience in evading the Nazis in Poland, our evening 4.'$ %,,#+$ 4*!"$ #:1!*1/5$ 9"1'#$ */$.!!#/- dance likely will never forget the rendition of the Slawin family s ordeal in surviving those years and his depiction of those righteous gentiles that assisted their efforts. In this way, we very much honored the themes of the day: memory of the victims and tribute to those who resisted. It was gratifying to see not just the numbers of people who came out on a Sunday evening, but also the range of ages of those there. For, with the passage of time, we will soon lose those who actually survived the Holocaust. It is thus imperative that the next generations hear and remember what happened so that all efforts are made to ensure that this kind of atrocity is never repeated. The refrain from the Hymn of the Jewish Partisans best sums up the enduring message: We are "#&#I-$ 6$ ';#2*.,$!"./G'$!1$ @1/$ J&##/%#,+$ and the Shoah Committee for putting together a truly special evening. The third day of observance themati- 2.,,8$ D11G#/+'$!"#$ %&'!5$ 9".!$ +.8?$ Yom Ha Atzmaut, marks Israel s Independence, perhaps the most symbolic representation of the Jewish people surviving the Nazi onslaught. Throughout the world Jews will Continued on page 7

IN MEMORIAM Temple Israel extends condolences to the families of: PHILIP PERLMAN husband of Shirley Perlman and esteemed member of Temple Israel BETZALEL BARATIAN father of Shahryar (Shane) Baratian IN QUOTES EDITOR S NOTE: In Quotes calls attention to passages from Jewish prayers and writings frequently overlooked or said by rote, but profoundly written.! LAURETTE KRINGOLD sister of Harold Essex May their memories be for a blessing. CANDLE LIGHTING TIMES Friday, April 12..........7:13 P.M. Friday, April 19...........7:20 P.M. DAILY MINYAN TIMES Mon. & Thur. 6:45 A.M. 8:00 P.M. Tues. & Wed. 7:00 A.M. 8:00 P.M. Friday 7:00 A.M. 6:30 P.M. Sat., April 13 8:45 A.M. 6:55 P.M. Sat., April 20 8:45 A.M. 7:00 P.M. Sunday 8:15 A.M. 8:00 P.M. Congregation Thanks Kiddush Sponsors Appreciation is expressed by the 9#:;,#$<'&.#,$13%2#&'$./+$N1.&+$13$9&>'!##'$ to members who have generously sponsored and enhanced the Pesach kiddush. Contributions toward the kiddush on April 1 and April 2, were made by the families of Edith Eisberg and Oscar Albert. Next Voice, Issue Deadlines The next issue of The Voice, the Lag B Omer and Shavuot issue, will be published on Thursday, April 25. The deadline for that issue is Monday, April 15. The following issue will be published on Thursday, May 9. The deadline for that issue is Friday, April 26. Upcoming Events at Temple Israel April 12-13 Shabbat Kol Ishah 15 Yom Hazikaron 16 Yom Ha Atzmaut 16 Yom Ha Atzmaut Celebration Concert 7:45 P.M. 18 Board of Trustees Meeting 8:15 P.M. 20 Shabbat Talk 12:45 P.M. 21 Shalom Club Meeting 6:30 P.M. 22 Sisterhood Board Meeting 10:00 A.M. 23 TILL Course: Five Talmudic Texts You Really 8:15 P.M. Should Know 25 Men s Club Texas Hold Em Night 7:30 P.M. 26 Kabbalat Shabbat Service and Dinner 7:30 P.M. For College Grads and Friends 27 Temple Israel Players Present Fiddler on the Roof 8:45 P.M. 28 Lag B Omer 28 Temple Israel Players Present Fiddler on the Roof 2:00 P.M. 30 Beth HaGan Nursery School Truck Day 30 TILL Course: Five Talmudic Texts You Really 8:15 P.M. Should Know May 3 Adult B nai Mitzvah Shabbat Service and Dinner 6:30 P.M. Bring Family & Friends to Temple Israel for a Concert In Honor of Israel s 65th Yom Ha Atzmaut Celebration This issue s quote, from Psalm 62:9-11, was submitted by Past President George Abrahams, a frequent contributor to this feature. K#/+$81>&$'>77#'!*1/$!1$9"#$L1*2#?$2M1$!"#$9#:;,#$<'&.#,$13%2#5 Men of low degree are vanity, and men of high degree are a lie; If they be laid in the balances, they are together lighter than vanity. Trust not in oppression and put not vain hope in robbery; If riches increase, set not your heart thereon. 3 SONGS IN BLUE & WHITE Tuesday, April 16 7:45 P.M. in the Sanctuary!"#$%r'() +,r"" -'r$%././.0 1/r#"2' 3.()/ Cantor Raphael Frieder Sandra Bendor Cantor Brian Shamash with Musical Director Ronn Yedidia and the Temple Israel Children s Choir conducted by Cantor Frieder FREE AND OPEN TO THE PUBLIC 45"('() M'(7#( 8'22 9","2d 9"0.r" $," ;.(;"r$ #$ <=>? @AMA Sponsored by The Khorshad Dina Harounian Israel Fund & The Israel Solidarity Fund "

B NAI/B NOT MITZVAH IN OUR TEMPLE ISRAEL FAMILY Shayna Zeitlin Shayna Hope Zeitlin will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on April 20. She is the daughter of Gina and Brian Zeitlin and Marcie Zeitlin and has three sisters, Hannah, 17, Amanda, 15, and Molly, 3, and a brother, Brayden, 1. Shayna is a seventh grade honor student at Great Neck South Middle School. She enjoys playing soccer, basketball, softball, tennis and skiing. Shayna will be attending the Waxman High School following her Bat Mitzvah. FROM THE WAXMAN HIGH SCHOOL Joshua Gal Joshua Gal will be celebrating his Bar Mitzvah on April 27. He is the son of Drs. Laura and Robert Gal and has three sisters, Hannah, 14, Emily, 10, and Sophia, 7. Joshua is a seventh grade student at Great Neck South Middle School. He is on his school travel soccer and basketball teams, as well as the football, wrestling and baseball teams. Joshua also plays the viola in the school orchestra and enjoys cooking. He attends the Waxman High School and will be visiting Israel next year with his family. Making Judaism Relevant for Teens Jewish commentators have compared adolescence to the book of Exodus, so it is %!!*/7$!".!$1>&$!##/'$.&#$.//>.,,8$*/C*!#+$!1$ lead services during Pesach, a time when we retell our Exodus story. After thinking about it for a moment, the connection actually may seem obvious. Both include breaking free from some sort of authority, a need to feel more independent, and a long journey with only an abstract destination in mind. Both the journey of adolescence and the OP1+>'$01>&/#8$%/+$*!'$4./+#&#&'$'#.&2"*/7$ for a new identity now that they are no longer under the control of a pharaoh or a parent/guardian. In addition, our wanderers face many triumphs, yet like our teens who may long for the simplicity of childhood, sometimes our ancestors wished to return to slavery in Egypt. And if I play out the comparisons in :1&#$+#!.*,?$4#$41>,+$%/+$:./8$*/'!./2#'$*/$ which the Israelites acted like an average teen. There may be no greater and obvious example than the incident with the golden calf. When the people saw that Moses was so long in coming down from the mountain, the people gathered against Aaron and said to him, Come make us a god who shall go before us, for that man Moses, who brought By Danny Mishkan us out of Egypt we don t know what happened to him. Then, as you know, Aaron collects gold from the people, and poof we have a new god. The part that makes this so typically teenaged is that this new god was a reason to party. We are told that the people offered burnt offerings, ate, drank, and danced. If I m not mistaken, this is the premise 4 Matthew Portnoy Matthew Portnoy celebrated his Bar Mitzvah on April 6. He is the son of Robin and Kevin Portnoy and has three brothers, Benjamin, 15, Jacob, 14, and the late Zachary, who passed away in 2007. Matthew is a seventh grade student at Great Neck South Middle School. He enjoys acting and playing the piano. Matthew attends the Waxman High School and Youth House. of every teen movie ever made. Parent goes away, babysitter loses authority, and the teens have a party that gets wildly out of control. Even the commentators of Etz Chaim give the Israelites a pass for this obvious idolatrous act, saying that the people are only a few weeks away from slavery, where they witnessed idolatry. In other words, the Israelites get a pass because they are only teenagers and not yet adults. However, a closer reading of this incident explains what teens really need in terms of their religious practice. The opening line of the incident states that Moses was long in coming down the :1>/!.*/5$9"#$*:;.!*#/2#$!1$%/+$1>!$!"#*& Continued on page 5 The Shevet Achim Boys Group meets once a month under the direction of Waxman High School Director Danny Mishkin to talk about being a Jewish teen in Great Neck from a male point of view. The group talks about money, toughness, wisdom, and many other topics of importance to teens.

Men s Club Dinner to Honor Seth Moin And Waxman Youth House Co-Presidents Seth Moin Avir Waxman Rebecca Marcus MA#AL TO( TO... V$ Fran and Marc Langsner on the birth of their grandson, Grayson Max Bailyn. V$Fanny and Alfred Narotzky on the birth of their granddaughter, Evabella Dancigar. Outgoing Men s Club President Seth Moin and the presidents of the Waxman Youth House Board, Avir Waxman and Rebecca Marcus, will be honored by the Federation of Jewish Men s Clubs at their annual dinner on April 21. The dinner, to be held at the Crest Hollow Country Club, honors outstanding members of Men s Clubs and congregation students from throughout the region each year. Waxman Youth House Director T.//8$U*'"G*/$21>,+/Q!$;&.*'#$!"#$!41$'!>+#/!'$#/1>7"5$(9"#8$.&#$'*:;,8$!#&&*%2?-$"#$'.*+5 Mr. Moin is concluding two very busy years as president of the Temple Israel Men s Club. He had previously served as secretary and treasurer of the Temple arm. He comes from a family that is committed to Temple Israel involvement. His wife, Cheryl, has served as the congregation s vice president and Membership Committee chair. The couple has two daughters, Erica and Haley. Erica is one of the leaders of Temple Israel s college outreach group, College Grads and Friends. Avir Waxman, the son of Eve Keller and David Waxman, brought a strong sense of leadership to the Youth House community following his participation in USY On Wheels and USY Encampment. He regularly leads Youth House religious services, reads megillah on Purim, and has successfully helped build Youth House membership. Rebecca Marcus, the daughter of Amy Cantos, had a transformative experience on USY On Wheels and has successfully harnessed her enthusiasm into a commitment to the Temple Israel USY chapter and to increasing membership in the Youth House. Her outgoing personality has helped the chapter provide a welcoming and friendly environment to new Youth House members. A cocktail hour precedes the Federation dinner, beginning at 4:30 P.M. The full dinner with open bar continues until 9:30 P.M. Admission is $90 per person. For further information about the dinner, as well as the journal being printed in coordination with it, visit <moy.nymfjmc.org>. Making Judaism Relevant for Teens Continued from page 4 connection with God, their new destination, and their new role in the community is what caused the Israelites to stray, and I believe we do the same thing to our teens and it causes some of them to stray. A teen might ask: Why do I have to go to synagogue or attend the Youth House? or Why is the Seder so long? I have heard time and time again and probably by accident said it once or twice myself: You will want to know this stuff or do this ritual with your own family so you must do *!$1&$,#.&/$*!$/145-$K1&&8?$!".!$41/Q!$R8$31&$!##/'?$ especially in this day, with on-demand, instant message, and unlimited texts. We must not tell teens that Judaism will help them grow into more accomplished adults, but rather we must provide.$s>+.*':$!".!$:.g#'$1>&$'!>+#/!'$:1&#$3>,%,,#+$ teens. Our Judaism that we teach at the Youth house must be immediately relevant and important for our teens now right now. It must make their lives more meaningful now. I am proud to say that for some of our students their lives are better 1&$!"#8$.&#$ :1&#$ 3>,%,,#+?$ D#2.>'#$ 4#$.&#$!.G*/7$ this approach in the Youth House. One student was at her grandmother s house and asking questions trying to learn history and making sure her grandmother knew how much she was needed. When asked by her mother how she got so good at connecting with grandma, the teen simply said, that s what I learn at the Youth House. Our Rosh Chodesh Girl s Group and Shevet Achim Boy s Group never talk about raising a family. We talk about the joys and troubles of being a Jewish teen in Great Neck. One girl felt so 5 comfortable with her new Jewish friends that she could share tough times from childhood that she never told anyone else. It s clear that she will never need to be told why being Jewish will be important later, because it is so important to her now. When tragedy struck Long Island in the form of Super Storm Sandy, our teens never said let the adults take care of what needs to be done. In fact, our teens have contributed to Sandy Relief every month since the storm, twice traveling to Long Beach personally, collecting donations, and throwing their own fundraiser for a community in need. For these teens, Judaism means acting now, not when they are older. Finally, the 21 teens who led us in prayer over Pesach did so with the joy, nervousness, and energy that only teens could provide. We, as a congregation, are stronger and more youthful because our youth are leading us now and not preparing themselves for a future unknown time. My favorite part of this crazy incident with the golden calf is the way it ends. Obviously, what the Israelites did was disgustingly wrong and their punishment was harsh. However, they also got what they wanted in some way. They craved the immediate 7&.!*%2.!*1/$13$.$71+?$./+$'"1&!,8$.3!#&$!"*'$"1&&*%2$ deed the Tent of Meeting was established. This was a place set right outside the camp where the Israelites could go to encounter God without delay. It is my blessing that the Youth House will serve our teens as a Tent of Meeting, a place right outside the main building, a place where teens can encounter the wonders and beauty of Judaism now. Just like the Tent of Meeting, it only works when you go there.

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