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Module 8: Manifesting Through Clarity Manifesting Through Clarity Introduction It used to irritate me that people would buy my material and then not use it. Others were using it and achieving results.

The truth is, if you want to achieve something and are trying and failing, or not trying at all, it s because of the person in your mirror: You. Yes, I know that s hard to swallow.

It all happens inside ourselves in our own mind. And it often happens without our conscious awareness of it happening. Self-sabotage is part of the human experience.

3 Module 8: Manifesting Through Clarity Manifesting Through Clarity Introduction It used to irritate me that people would buy my material and then not use it. Others were using it and achieving results. Why wasn t everyone using it? The secrets were there. The how-tos were there. Why weren t people taking action? Now, I know the reason. It s because of self-sabotage. The truth is, if you want to achieve something and are trying and failing, or not trying at all, it s because of the person in your mirror: You. Yes, I know that s hard to swallow. But the only person running your life is you. The fact is, for a wide variety of reasons, we often stop ourselves from achieving the very thing we say we want. It all happens inside ourselves in our own mind. And it often happens without our conscious awareness of it happening. Self-sabotage is part of the human experience. Until you break free of it, it will keep you down. This module will discuss self-sabotage and how you can clear yourself of this debilitating problem. Objectives After studying this module, you should be able to accomplish the following: Joe Vitale s The biggest problem with self-sabotage is that we generally don t know we re doing it. That s why getting clear is so important to be sure that the one biggest hurdle that could stand in your way of transformation isn t you. Joe Vitale Discover your own instances of self-sabotage and how they can damage you. Describe how you can combat self-sabotage. Expand your clearing techniques with the scripts from this module. Review your previous intentions and evaluate whether or not they are part of daring something worthy. Pre-Assessment To assess your current level of understanding about the topics in this module, please answer the following questions. (A Success Journal is available for you to write in, at the end of module 16.) 1. Have you ever considered yourself a victim of self-sabotage? If so, how and when? Copyright Achieve Today, LLC & Hypnotic Marketing 2014 v3.0 Page 159

4 Joe Vitale s MIRACLES COACHING Course Curriculum Volume 1: Illuminate the Path When I thought I couldn t go on, I forced myself to keep going. My success is based on persistence, not luck. Estee Lauder 2. What made you aware that you were self-sabotaging yourself? 3. What did you do to stop the damage and help yourself? Cut through the Pain My friend, Jonathan, told me, When you get the lessons, you don t need the experiences. As bizarre as that might seem, it s been the truth in my experience as well. For instance, a Dallas company hired me to help promote one of their seminars. I advised them on what to do, and then I got angry when I saw that they did the opposite of what I suggested. They were, in essence, screwing up their own success. Jonathan asked me what I got out of this. In other words, what was the benefit to me? Assuming a part of me did contribute to the company doing everything wrong, how would it serve me? I thought about it, and then I had the answer. Their screwup takes the pressure to succeed off of me, I said. They hired me to help them make the seminar a success. I wasn t sure I could do it. By their NOT listening to me, they have almost guaranteed that the seminar would fail. When it does, I can point my finger at them and say, You did it, not me. It comes back to what we do and feel inside, which plays a big part in what we experience in life. In other words, no matter what situation you are in, some part of YOU helped to create it. And, unfortunately, that often means self-sabotage. Joe Vitale s Page 160 Copyright Achieve Today, LLC & Hypnotic Marketing 2014 v3.0 Just as those clients in Dallas were deliberately compromising their own chances for success (and paying me to tell them not to), we all find ourselves self-sabotaging our own efforts, at one point or another. And it s painful to realize and fully accept that we do this to ourselves! If you want to deal with it, get in touch with it, and release your old beliefs and energy. Create what serves you best and brings you more joy. One of the best ways to do just this is to focus on what you want, on how it would feel to have it, be it, and do it. Thus, you can begin to attract it to you. The Problem with Self-Sabotage The biggest problem with self-sabotage is that we generally don t know that we are doing it. That s why getting clear is so important to be sure that your biggest hurdle isn t you! However, as you get clear, you ll almost always discover that your biggest hurdle is exactly you!

5 Module 8: Manifesting Through Clarity Therefore, once you bring it out, once you truly discover how and why you ve kept yourself from your own success for so long, what will you do about it? Well, there are many things you can do about it. The ideas expressed on the following pages are several things you can do to defeat self-sabotage. Remember Ho oponopono Once you discover how you ve been your own worst enemy, in ways you never knew, you will be in dire need of Ho oponopono because there s so much history to be angry about. How can you clear yourself of the self-anger that comes from discovering that your worst betrayer is (most likely) you? How can you forgive the one person you who has made you unhappy for years? How can you hold you accountable without you hating you? To acknowledge diabolical entities that possess power in and of themselves without the person s partici-pation, I believe, is inaccurate and destructive. It assures protection from uncovering one s finished business, because one is looking in the wrong place. Dr. Valerie Hunt That s why you have to return to Ho oponopono. The three most powerful words, I love you, are even more important, when dealing with yourself. When you say, I love you to yourself especially if you have years of self-sabotage to deal with you are ready to accept what it truly means to be you. In other words, what it means to be you WITHOUT everything else. Don t worry, it s natural to react to newfound discoveries about yourself. You will likely default to memory, just like we all do. That s because there s that old program in your mind that is not computing with your newfound sense of self. Your model of the world may not match this new model right away. If you are feeling confused, simply hold it in your awareness and say, I love you to yourself, to the Divine, to whomever you once were, and to whomever you could one day, But most importantly, say, I am sorry to whomever you are in the present! Joe Vitale s Dare Something Worthy Let s say that you ve realized instances of self-sabotage, which have left you embarrassed or angry. Finally, you gave yourself a chance for redemption through Ho oponopono. Now that you ve chastised and forgiven yourself, how do you courageously step forward and not be worried that you might hurt yourself again (and have only you to blame)? You ll have to reconnect with the Divine and reset your intentions around purposeful actions. In other words, dare something worthy about yourself! Copyright Achieve Today, LLC & Hypnotic Marketing 2014 v3.0 Page 161

6 Joe Vitale s MIRACLES COACHING Course Curriculum Volume 1: Illuminate the Path We learn the lessons in life we are to learn two ways: either through obedience to natural laws or through suffering the consequences of not observing those laws... None of us consciously create the suffering we experience. Karol Truman Excuses are Beliefs Remember, as discussed in Module 4, that excuses are beliefs; and if you buy into them, you re stuck with them. If you believe instead that there s always a way around excuses, then you ll move forward. Remember, to get clear of excuses, you need to adopt the philosophy of there is always a way. Suffice it to say that whenever you want to improve anything in your life, there s only one place to look: inside of you. Now, when you look, do it with love. Begin by saying I love you inside yourself, to everything and everyone. It also helps to connect this process to the Divine. The Scripts: More Clearing Methods Joe Vitale s Page 162 Copyright Achieve Today, LLC & Hypnotic Marketing 2014 v3.0 By now, you should have used some clearing methods I recommended to you in Module 7. Now, let me give you two more methods (scripts) for clearing yourself. Just like the ones in Module 7, these don t cost anything, don t take more than a minute to do, doesn t hurt, and works almost every time. Interested? The Script: First Round This method involves a simple script that you say out loud to release a belief or a feeling that you no longer want; and you replace it with something that you prefer. I learned it from my friend Karol Truman, author of the truly amazing book, Feelings Buried Alive Never Die. I ll give you the script in a moment; but first, understand that this powerful tool is so simple that it s easy to dismiss. All you re asked to do is say a couple of paragraphs of words. That s it! Yet, this script helps to reprogram your mental attitudes. It speaks to your spirit and asks it to help you to clear the most fundamental levels of your being. You are addressing you: that part of you that is metaphysical and most often beyond your reach (at least, you think that it is). I don t want to complicate things here by trying to explain how this process works. My job is to give you the tools and to show you how to use them. After all, for example, you don t need to know how the programming language in works in order to send or receive an all you do is write the , hit send, and it does the rest. This script works the same way. All you do is say it.

7 Module 8: Manifesting Through Clarity This will make more sense once you know the words in the script, so here they are: Spirit, please locate the origin of my feeling (or thought) of feeling negative about [insert the feeling or belief you want to release here]. Take each and every level, layer, area, and aspect of my being to this origin. Analyze and resolve it perfectly, with God s truth. (Remember, the reference to God means the Divine, as you define it.) Come forward in time, healing every incident based upon the foundation of the first, according to God s will; until I m at the present, filled with light and truth, God s peace and love, forgiveness of myself for my incorrect perceptions, forgiveness of every person, place, circumstance, and event which contributed to this feeling (or thought). Miracle minded-ness means behaving like someone who is fearless, well-intentioned, innocent, and, ultimately, invulnerable. She or he listens within for guidance and follows any and all impulses toward loving and constructive action, however bizarre and inappropriate they may appear to the ego. Carolyn Miller With total forgiveness and unconditional love I delete the old from my DNA, release it, and let it go now! I now feel [insert the way you want to feel here]. I allow every physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual problem, and inappropriate behavior based on my old feelings to quickly disappear. Thank you, Spirit, for coming to my aid and helping me attain the full measure of my creation. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I love you, and praise God from whom all blessings flow. Simple, isn t it? Now, this script won t do you much good if you don t believe in it. Will it? So, if you have trouble believing in the validity of this script, use the following in place of the first and fifth paragraphs (of the script): Spirit, please locate the origin of my feeling (or thought) of feeling negative about the power of this script. I now feel that any belief can be changed in just a moment, even with such a simple tool as this script. I allow every... Now, on to round two. Copyright Achieve Today, LLC & Hypnotic Marketing 2014 v3.0 Joe Vitale s Page 163

8 Joe Vitale s MIRACLES COACHING Course Curriculum Volume 1: Illuminate the Path When you say I love you to yourself especially in light of years upon years of selfsabotage, you are ready to accept what it truly means to be you...what it means to be you without everything else. Joe Vitale The Script: Round Two You just explored the first instance of Karol s script. And since I ve spoken with her, she shared a new and improved version of it. She said the following script was even more powerful than the first. Here it is: Spirit/Super-Conscious, please locate the origin of my feeling(s) (or thought(s)) of. Take each and every level, layer, area, and aspect of my being to this origin. Analyze and resolve it perfectly with God s truth. Come through all generations of time and eternity, healing every incident and its appendages based on the origin. Please do it according to God s will until I m at the present filled with light and truth, God s peace and love, forgiveness of myself for my incorrect perceptions, forgiveness of every person, place, circumstance, and event which contributed to this (or these) feeling(s) (or thought(s)). With total forgiveness and unconditional love, I allow every physical, mental, emotional, spiritual problem, and inappropriate behavior, based upon the negative origin recorded in my DNA, to transform. I choose being. I feel. I am. Joe Vitale s Page 164 Copyright Achieve Today, LLC & Hypnotic Marketing 2014 v3.0 (Use the same appropriate positive feelings for each blank line to replace the negative feelings.) It is done. It is healed. It is accomplished now! Thank you, Spirit, for coming to my aid and helping me attain the full measure of my creation. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I love you, and praise God from whom all blessings flow. Again, either script is powerful use either one whenever you feel the need to get clear. They work almost like magic! And once you are clear, you can attract virtually anything you care imagine.

9 Module 8: Manifesting Through Clarity Post-Assessment Use the following questions to evaluate what you have learned from this module. (A Success Journal is available for you to write in, at the end of module 16.) 1. On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being most angry), I feel angry at myself for my self-sabotage:. Why? 2. On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being most often), I find myself making excuses when I don t achieve my full intentions:. Why? 3. On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being clearest), I feel that I am getting clear of my limiting beliefs, self-sabotage, and excuses:. How? Decide what you want, decide what you are willing to exchange for it. Establish your priorities and go to work. H.L. Hunt Assignments Review this module and write down any questions you may have for your coach. Complete these exercises (on the pages that follow): What s Lingering: Clear what s been lingering in your life that is getting in the way of your transformation. Self-Sabotage: List and write about the forms of self-sabotage to which you ve subjected yourself over the years. Ho oponopono: Use the powerful steps of Ho oponopono to release feelings of judgment and resentment, which result from self-sabotage. Dare Something Worthy: Brainstorm ways you ll dare something worthy. What would you like to dare now? Top Intentions: Base upon past intentions and classic excuses, list your top five intentions of all time. Intentions and Excuses: Create excuses for your top intentions, based upon the following sentence: I don t think I can achieve that intention on the highest level because... Clear Your Excuses: List each excuse from the previous exercise and state the clearing method you would like to use to clear them. Then, work with your coach to clear them. Copyright Achieve Today, LLC & Hypnotic Marketing 2014 v3.0 Joe Vitale s Page 165

10 EXERCISES What s Lingering In Module 7, what did you discover about your limiting beliefs and your feelings, which were standing in the way of your transformation? Were you able to clear them? If so, which method worked? Can you use it again? If not, write down the progress you made. Which new clearing technique will you use? Page 166

11 EXERCISES What s Lingering (cont.) Page 167

12 Self-Sabotage EXERCISES During the course of self-awakening, what forms of self-sabotage have you discovered? In other words, how have you served as an enemy to your own success? List and write about your selfsabotage. Page 168

13 EXERCISES Self-Sabotage (cont.) Page 169

14 Ho oponopono EXERCISES As you examine your life, awaken to new possibilities, and unearth your self-sabotage, there will be reasons to be angry with yourself. Use the powerful steps of Ho oponopono to release those feelings to clear yourself of judgment and resentment. Write down the form of self-sabotage, then practice each step of Ho oponopono for each method of self-sabotage: I m sorry; Please forgive me; I Love You; and Thank you. Page 170

15 EXERCISES Ho oponopono (cont.) Page 171

16 EXERCISES Dare Something Worthy Look back to Module 6, when you dared something worthy and set your intentions around inspired actions. Has anything changed? What would you like to dare now? How would you better define it? Page 172

17 EXERCISES Dare Something Worthy (cont.) Page 173

18 Top Intentions EXERCISES Return to the intentions you set in Module 6. Also, review your classic excuses that you listed and worked to overcome in Module 4. Now, list your top five intentions of all time. Page 174

19 EXERCISES Intentions and Excuses Take each of the intentions you listed in the previous exercise, and finish this sentence regarding each: I don t think I can achieve that intention on the highest level because... Page 175

20 EXERCISES Clear Your Excuses Consider each of the excuses, from the previous exercise, as counter-intentions, which you need to clear in order to attract success. List each excuse below, and then state the clearing method you would like to use to clear them. Then, work with your coach to clear them. Page 176

21 EXERCISES Clear Your Excuses (cont.) Page 177

MODULE 13: AWAKENED RELATIONSHIPS

MODULE 13: AWAKENED RELATIONSHIPS Module 13: Awakened Relationships Awakened Relationships Introduction Have you ever been in a relationship that just clicked: where you and the other person were like