LESSON 41: JAMES TEACHES US TO CONTROL OUR TONGUES

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1 LESSON 41: JAMES TEACHES US TO CONTROL OUR TONGUES L e s s o n 4 1 : J a m e s t e a c h e s u s t o c o n t r o l o u r T o u n g u e s, P r i m a r y 7 : N e w T e s t a m e n t, ( ),

2 Purpose To help you learn to control the things you say and think

3 OUR OPENING PRAYER WILL BE GIVEN BY (Enter name here)

4 Attention Activity Let s divide the class into smaller groups of (2) or more people.

5 Attention Activity Once the groups are set, go to next slide

7 Attention Activity Each Group needs to act out how you would control various things

8 Attention Activity One group acts it out, the other groups try to guess what it is they are seeing.

9 Attention Activity Any Questions (Answer questions then go to next slide)

10 Attention Activity Hand out slips of paper with the things on them for each group

11 Attention Activity When all finished playing game go to next slide

12 What would happen if someone couldn t control these things?

13 Attention Activity In today s lesson, you will learn about controlling something you always have with you.

14 Attention Activity It is part of your body, but it is not your hands or feet.

15 What do you think it might be?

16 Attention Activity Let s Read James 3:3 5. Listen for what part of the body you can control.

17 James 3: Behold, we put bits in the horses' mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body. 4 Behold also the ships, which though they be so great, and are driven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small helm, whithersoever the a governor listeth. 5 Even so the tongue is a little member, and a boasteth great things. Behold, how great a b matter a little fire kindleth!

18 What does this scripture tell us about our tongues?

19 Scripture Account Explain that speaking guile means trying to deceive or trick others.

20 Even though the tongue is a small part of the body, you must work very hard to control it.

21 What does it mean to bridle our tongues? (James 1:26.)

22 Why could we control our whole body if we could control our tongue? (James 3:2.)

23 Why can t a natural fountain send forth both sweet water and bitter water or salt water and fresh water? (James 3:11 12.)

24 What did James mean when he said a fig tree can t produce olives and a vine can t produce figs? (James 3:12.)

25 What was he trying to teach us with these examples? (James 3:10.)

26 What happens to us when we start saying unkind things or speaking harshly?

27 How do you think this affects the good things we say?

28 What commandments did Jesus give us about what and how we should speak? (Matthew 5:33 37.)

29 Why do you think it is important for us to keep these commandments?

30 Discussion Questions Play the triangle Game

31 Why are the things above the line positive things to say and why are the things below the line negative?

32 How do you feel when you say something kind to some-one or about someone?

33 How do you feel when you give someone a compliment?

34 Why does saying good things about others make us feel good about ourselves, too?

35 What do the Ten Commandments tell us about how we are to speak about the Lord? (Exodus 20:7.)

36 Why is it important for us to speak only reverently of Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ?

37 How does keeping this commandment help us become more like Heavenly Father and Jesus?

38 Let s listen to the following incident told by President Spencer W. Kimball.

39 In the hospital one day I was wheeled out of the operating room by an attendant who stumbled, and there issued from his angry lips vicious cursing [swearing] with a combination of the names of the Savior. Even half-conscious, I recoiled and implored: Please! Please! That is my Lord whose name you revile. There was a deathly silence, then a subdued voice whispered: I am sorry. He had forgotten for the moment that the Lord had forcefully commanded all his people, Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain; for the Lord will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain (Exodus 20:7) ( President Kimball Speaks Out on Profanity, Ensign, Feb. 1981, p. 3).

40 How do we control our tongues and our actions?

41 By controlling our thoughts, we can control what we say.

42 How can we control our thoughts?

43 What we think and feel determines what we say and do.

44 Discuss the following suggestions: Ask yourself, What would Jesus have me do in this situation? Think of a favorite scripture. Sing or hum a Primary song or a hymn aloud or in your mind. Pray for help. Remember you are a child of God. Think of what your parents would want you to do.

45 Testimony I testify to you that learning to control our tongues is one of the things we must do to become like Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. I want to encourage you to try to control what you say during this coming week.

46 OUR CLOSING PRAYER WILL BE GIVEN BY (Enter Name Here)

47 THE END

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49 Enrichment Activities Tell the following story about Joseph Smith Joseph Smith was put in prison many times by men who did not like him, even though they could never prove that he had done anything wrong. One night he and some other men were being kept in a cold and miserable prison where they had to wear chains around their ankles and sleep on the hard floor. They were trying to sleep, but the guards were talking very loudly. They were swearing and telling each other about all the terrible things they had done to members of the Church. After listening to this terrible talk, Joseph suddenly jumped up and said to the men, Silence.... In the name of Jesus Christ I rebuke you, and command you to be still; I will not live another minute and hear such language. The guards dropped their weapons and begged him to forgive them. They were quiet the rest of the night. (See Parley P. Pratt, Autobiography of Parley P. Pratt, pp )

50 Enrichment Activities What could you do if someone near you is swearing or telling a vulgar story?

51 Enrichment Activities 3. Compare one bad thought to the little iron wedge in the following story President Spencer W. Kimball told about a young boy who lived on a farm:

52 Enrichment Activity One day as a young boy was coming in from the field, he found an iron wedge. (Explain what a wedge looks like.) He knew he was late for dinner, so instead of taking the wedge to the woodshed where it belonged, he laid it between the limbs of a young walnut tree his father had planted near the front gate. He intended to take the wedge out of the tree later and return it to the shed, but he never did. The wedge stayed there for years, and the tree grew around it until it became a very large tree.

53 Enrichment Activities Many years later on a wintry night, freezing rain broke off one of the three major limbs of the big tree. This unbalanced the rest of the tree so that it also fell down. When the storm was over, not a twig of the tree remained standing. Early the next morning, the farmer the boy grown older went out and saw the damaged walnut tree. He thought, I wouldn t have had that happen for a thousand dollars. That was the prettiest tree in the valley. The farmer had forgotten about the wedge, but it was still there. Even though the tree had grown tall, the wedge had weakened it. The tree normally would have stood through the storm, but because of the wedge, placed there many years before, the tree was not as strong as it should have been. The wedge caused the tree to fall and break. (See Samuel T. Whitman, Forgotten Wedges, quoted by Spencer W. Kimball, in Conference Report, Apr. 1966, pp )

54 Enrichment Activities How are bad thoughts like a wedge? When we have a bad thought, it can work its way deeper into our minds, like the wedge in the tree, and become a big problem for us. We should get rid of bad thoughts immediately.

55 Enrichment Activities 2. Thread a ring or small spool on a long string and tie a knot in the ends of the string. Have the class members stand in a circle and hold on to the string. Choose one child to be in the center of the circle. Have the other children pass the ring or spool from hand to hand.

56 Enrichment Activities When you say Stop, have the person with the ring say something good about the child in the center. Then have the child in the middle exchange places with the one who said the nice thing and go on with the game. Continue until everyone has had a turn to be in the center. You may want to add a positive comment about each child.

57 Enrichment Activities Talk about how we feel when we say good things and how we feel when something good is said about us. If your class is too small for this activity, have each child say something good about the others.

58 Enrichment Activities 4. Discuss Proverbs 23:7. Include in the discussion ways the children can control their tempers, such as counting to ten when they get hurt or angry. 7 For as he a thinketh in his b heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.

59 Enrichment Activities 5. Sing or read the words to Hum Your Favorite Hymn (Children s Songbook, p. 152).

60 Closing Invite a child to give the closing prayer.

61 James 1:26 26 If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridleth not his a tongue, but deceiveth his own heart, this man's religion is b vain.

62 James 3:2 2 For in many things we a offend all. If any man b offend not in c word, the same is a d perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body.

63 James 3: Doth a a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter? 12 Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh.

64 James 3:12 12 Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh.

65 James 3:10 10 Out of the same a mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.

66 Matthew 5: Again, ye have heard that it hath been said by them of old time, Thou shalt not a forswear thyself, but shalt b perform unto the Lord thine c oaths: 34 But I say unto you, a Swear not at all; neither by heaven; for it is God's b throne: 35 Nor by the earth; for it is his a footstool: neither by Jerusalem; for it is the b city of the great King. 36 Neither shalt thou swear by thy head, because thou canst not make one hair white or black. 37 But let your a communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh b of evil.

67 Exodus 20:7 7 Thou shalt not take the a name of the LORD thy God in b vain; for the LORD will not hold him c guiltless that d taketh his name in vain.

Sunday, February 11, 2018

Lesson Text: James 3:1-12 King James Version(KJV) Sunday, February 11, 2018 I. CONTROL YOUR TONGUE (Acts 3:1-6) 1. My brethren, be not many masters, knowing that we shall receive the greater condemnation.