Don t Miss Musician Sam Glaser on September 18

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1 Federation Voices 3 Calendar 4 From the Bimah 5 Education 7 In the Community 9 Mitzvahs 10 Arts & Entertainmnet 11 Book Review 11 Arts & Entertainmnet 14 Israel 15 Opinion 16 Campaign Dollars at Work 17 Recent Events 18 Obituaries 20 Tributes 21 Business & Professional Services 22 Published by the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire Volume 37, Number 1 September 2016 Av-Elul 5776 All Are Invited to the JFNH Family Barbecue/Annual Meeting Honorary Campaign Chair Bob Selig Manchester Excitement is building as the Annual Meeting is fast approaching. September 18 will be the first community-wide annual family barbecue, designed to bring our statewide community together. The kosher barbecue will be held at Seresc Conference Center in Bedford from 4 to 7 PM. Attire for the evening will be jeans and white shirts. The business portion of the meeting will be held in a separate room from the children. While our community honors the Shem Tov awardees, the children will be entertained by Sam Glaser, renowned Jewish musical performer who specializes in Jewish stories, folklore, and songs. We encourage families to bring their children for this wonderful occasion. A performance by Sam Glaser will complete the celebration. This year, Bob Selig, past president of the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire, will serve as honorary chairperson of the Annual Campaign. Bob has served on the Federation Board for many years, as well as the Foundation Committee, and he was a past recipient of a Shem Tov award. The JFNH Board applauds his continued service to our statewide community and honors him for his contributions to JFNH. Judith Jolton and the Annual Meeting Committee have been busy making all the arrangements for this exciting day. A large turnout is expected, so be sure to get your reservations in early! See you on the 18th! NH High Holidays Guide This fall, the NH Jewish Reporter once again brings you a Guide to NH High Holidays, listing observances in many parts of the state (see page 6). Even if you are not a member, we invite you to contact your local synagogue (see listings, page 2) if you are interested in worshipping with them to welcome the New Year. Wishing you and yours a sweet New Year! Don t Miss Musician Sam Glaser on September 18 Manchester Okay, so you have heard the big news that Sam Glaser is coming to the Jewish Federation of NH s Annual Meeting as the event s entertainment. You are wondering, who is this Sam, and why should I fit this event into my busy schedule? I am writing this article because I am a long-time groupie of Sam s. So, after you read what is written here, don t stop -- go online to his website at and really check him out. Look him up on YouTube, watch his music videos, and listen to his music. You will see why he is such a fantastic performer and appeals to people of all ages, from children to adults. If you join us at the Annual Meeting on the 18th, you will see how Sam s enthusiasm can be contagious, and pretty soon you will be clapping your hands and tapping your toes to the music. You may even forget yourself and start singing along. Sam sings songs that are beautiful to listen to and songs that enhance your prayer experience, like Oseh Shalom. He sings songs that rock the house and have a very modern beat. He sings about our history ( Across The River ) and about Israel ( Dancing In Jerusalem ). Sam Glaser has been performing Jewish music that appeals to a very wide audience since He has been to New Hampshire to perform in the past, and he even came to Nashua once, where he led a Shabbaton for the community that culminated in a concert performance with our Hebrew School students. The students had practiced his songs during the school year, and after one or two rehearsals with him, they performed for the community. It was an exciting experience for Dynamic performer and musician Sam Glaser the students and a moment for the parents to kvell. Sunday, September 18, will be a chance for parents to have that experience again, as Sam will spend time during the Annual Meeting rehearsing with the students, preparing them for a performance following the meeting. Sam is a leader in the Los Angeles music scene. He was named one of the top ten Jewish performers in the United States by Moment magazine. Sam has performed around the world, from Tel Aviv to Hong Kong to London. He is equally at home at your local synagogue or at the Western Wall in Jerusalem, on Broadway in New York City, or at the White House in Washington, DC. He has released 24 albums and was the first artist to be signed with the Jewish music label Sony/JMG. Sam s children s CD Soap Soup has won a number of awards, such as John Lennon Songwriting Competition, Parents Choice, National Association of Parenting Publication, and the International Songwriting Competition. I admit it -- I am an avid follower and fan of Sam Glaser and passionate about wanting others to discover him as a performer. I hope you will join us at the JFNH Annual Meeting on September 18 and bring your entire family (children, beg your parents to bring you) to participate and enjoy the music extravaganza. Be prepared to get caught up in the excitement and become a participant (and fan) yourself. Experience Sam Glaser s music at the JFNH Annual Meeting and Family Barbecue, Sept. 18, 4 7 PM, Seresc Conference Center, 29 Commerce Drive, Bedford New Address for JFNH The Jewish Federation of New Hampshire has moved! The new address is 66 Hanover St. Suite 300, Manchester, NH The phone number and address remain the same. JFNH plans to hold an Open House in October to show off the new place -- more details to come! The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Jewish Federation of New Hampshire 66 Hanover St., Suite 300 Manchester, NH Change Service Requested NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATION US POSTAGE PAID MANCHESTER, NH PERMIT NO. 1174

2 CONGREGATIONS AMHERST CONGREGATION BETENU Rebekah Goldman (Rabbinic Intern) 5 Northern Blvd., Unit 1, Amherst Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) Services: Friday night Kabbalat Shabbat services at 7:30 PM Saturday morning twice a month, 9:30 AM BETHLEHEM BETHLEHEM HEBREW CONGREGATION 39 Strawberry Hill Road PO Box 395, Bethlehem Unaffiliated-Egalitarian (603) davegoldstone1@gmail.com Services: Contact for Date/Time Info President Dave Goldstone - (516) or Eileen Regen (603) Weekly Services: July through Simchat Torah Friday: 6:30 PM; Saturday: 10 AM CLAREMONT TEMPLE MEYER DAVID 25 Putnam Street, Claremont Conservative (603) Services: Generally the second Friday of the month, 6:15 PM, April to November. CONCORD TEMPLE BETH JACOB Rabbi Robin Nafshi 67 Broadway, Concord Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) office@tbjconcord.org Services: Friday night - 7 PM Saturday morning - 9:30 AM DERRY ETZ HAYIM SYNAGOGUE Rabbi Peter Levy 1½ Hood Road, Derry Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) office@etzhayim.org, rabbi@etzhayim.org Services: Fridays 7:15 PM Please check the website for the Shabbat Morning schedule JRF: Jewish Reconstructionist Federation URJ: Union for Reform Judaism USCJ: United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism HANOVER CHABAD AT DARTMOUTH COLLEGE Rabbi Moshe Gray 22a School Street, Hanover Orthodox, Chabad (603) chabad@dartmouth.edu Services: Friday Evening Shabbat services and Dinner Shabbat morning services Call for times UPPER VALLEY JEWISH COMMUNITY Rabbi Edward S. Boraz Roth Center for Jewish Life 5 Occom Ridge, Hanover Nondenominational, Unaffiliated (603) uvjc@valley.net Services: Friday night Shabbat services at 6 PM, led by Dartmouth Hillel Saturday morning Shabbat services at 9:30 AM, led by Rabbi Boraz KEENE CONGREGATION AHAVAS ACHIM Rabbi Amy Loewenthal 84 Hastings Avenue, Keene Reconstructionist, Affiliated JRF (603) rabbi.ahavas.achim@gmail.com Services: Regular Friday night services at 7 PM Monthly Shabbat morning services at 9:30 AM Check the website for time variations LACONIA TEMPLE B NAI ISRAEL Rabbi Boaz Heilman 210 Court Street, Laconia Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) Services: Every other Friday night at 7:30 PM MANCHESTER CHABAD LUBAVITCH Rabbi Levi Krinsky 7 Camelot Place, Manchester Orthodox, Chabad (603) rabbi@lubavitchnh.com Services: Shabbat Services Saturday morning at 9:30 AM Sunday morning minyan at 9 AM TEMPLE ADATH YESHURUN Rabbi Beth D. Davidson 152 Prospect Street, Manchester Reform, Affiliated URJ (603) templeadathy@comcast.net Services: Shabbat services the first Friday of the month at 6 PM All other Friday nights at 7 PM with some exceptions. Alternating Shabbat services or Torah study Saturday mornings at 10 AM TEMPLE ISRAEL Rabbi Eric Cohen 66 Salmon Street, Manchester Conservative (603) office@templeisraelmht.org Services: Friday night 7:15 PM Saturday 9:30 AM Tues., Thur., Fri. 7 AM minyan NASHUA TEMPLE BETH ABRAHAM Rabbi Jon Spira-Savett 4 Raymond Street, Nashua Conservative, Affiliated USCJ (603) rabbi@tbanashua.org office@tbanashua.org Services: Friday night services 8 PM 1st Friday family service 7 PM Saturday morning 9:30 AM Mon. - Thur. minyan 7:30 PM The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Volume 37, Number 1 SEPTEMBER 2016 Av-Elul 5776 Published by the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire 66 Hanover St., Suite 300 Manchester, NH Tel: (603) Fax: (603) Editor: Fran Berman Layout and Design: Tim Gregory Advertising Sales: info@jewishnh.org The objectives of The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter are to foster a sense of community among the Jewish people of New Hampshire by sharing ideas, information, experiences and opinions, and to promote the agencies, projects and mission of the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire. The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter is published monthly ten times per year, with a deadline for submissions of the 10th of the month before publication. There are no January or July issues. All items, including calendar events, for the December-January or June-July newspaper must be submitted by Nov. 10 or May 10, respectively. Please send all materials to: thereporter@jewishnh.org Send items for the print and online JFNH Calendar and E-News to events@jewishnh.org Opinions presented in the paper do not necessarily represent the views of the Federation. Photos submitted by individuals and organizations are published with their permission. Neither the publisher nor the editor can assume any responsibility for the kashrut of the services or merchandise advertised in this paper. If you have questions regarding kashrut please consult your rabbi. The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter is overseen by the JFNH Publications Committee, Merle Carrus, chairperson. All materials published in The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter are 2016 Jewish Federation of New Hampshire, all rights reserved, unless noted otherwise. Shabbat Candle Lighting Times: (Manchester) September 2 7:00 PM September 9 6:48 PM September 16 6:35 PM September 23 6:22 PM September 30 6:10 PM PAGE 2 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Av-Elul 5776 September 2016

3 An Exciting Year Beckons for the NH Jewish Community We are near the end of another summer season, and we are approaching the start of autumn and the Jewish New Year. I hope that you were able to attend some of the summer events that the members of New Hampshire s Jewish community sponsored throughout the state. Events sponsored by our community synagogues, temples, and havurot demonstrate the vibrancy of New Hampshire s Jewish population and its desire to provide opportunities for Jewish social, cultural, and spiritual interaction. Contemplating the year ahead, excitement is building at JFNH. Last year s New Hampshire Jewish Film Festival was the most successful ever. Our Israeli educator in residence program was very well received throughout the state. We were able to support several Jewish community events through our grant program. In the coming year, we intend to build on last year s momentum in a variety of ways. In an unprecedented step, our Board met on several occasions during the summer and has appointed a com- Jeff Crocker Message from the Chair mittee to study and recommend innovative programming initiatives. Our goals include the following: raising JFNH s profile and impact in our local communities as convener, supporter, and sponsor of local Jewish events and programs; reintroduction of a program to bring Israelis living in America (shlichim) to our communities to actively work with our members and children through programming tailored for specific communities needs and designed to increase Jewish awareness, knowledge, and pride; review and expand our existing grant program to increase its effectiveness and impact; and increase the engagement of unaffiliated and nonreligious Jews in our New Hampshire Jewish community. Raising our profile and impact in local communities throughout the state means that we must take a hard look at how we allocate our organizational resources within the state. Each of us, as members of local Jewish communities, must not get stuck in the trap of merely trying to protect what we perceive to be our slice of the JFNH pie. It is my sincere hope that we can rise above that mind-set. In addition to my identity as a member of my local Jewish community in New Hampshire, I also consider myself a member of a statewide community of New Hampshire Jews. Establishing and maintaining relationships with New Hampshire Jewish men and women throughout the state has been a wonderful and enriching experience for me in a variety of ways. It also means that I acknowledge the benefit I receive from the support JFNH gives to local Jewish communities in New Hampshire besides my own. We are one people. In the words of the song: One people seeking freedom, one people seeking justice, one people JFNH: A Catalyst for Dialogue and Engagement seeking hope, one people seeking peace. By connecting Jewish individuals and families to each other, and to their local and statewide Jewish communities, through our programming, we will continue to fulfill our mission of providing opportunities for New Hampshire s Jewish population to explore and participate in Jewish life in New Hampshire. Together, let us demonstrate our desire to transform Jewish values into tangible deeds through philanthropy, activism, and commitment. Your involvement, whether as a donor, volunteer, or community leader (or all of the above) will support JFNH s effort to build a bright future for New Hampshire s Jewish population by creating a statewide Jewish community of purpose, engagement, and fulfillment for all of New Hampshire s Jews, both secular and religious. Only with your support and generosity will we continue to strengthen our statewide community, which provides a strong Jewish identity for ourselves and our children, grandchildren, and beyond. As I have recently completed the first three months in my position as JFNH s Interim Executive Director, I wanted to take this opportunity to set forth my thoughts about what I have learned and what I see as our goals and responsibilities going forward. Where are we as an organization and as a community? As an organization, we are much stronger than we give ourselves credit for. We have a sizeable endowment, which provides stability and financial resources to underwrite many of our programs. We service many populations in our Jewish community: campers, seniors, preschoolers, religious Bobbie Brayer Interim Executive Director schools, a monthly newspaper, care for the needy, and much more. Sometimes, we forget that we live in not only interesting but extremely complex times, especially for the Jewish community. It is during such times that Federation and all of us must remain measured and knowledgeable. We must remember that we represent an important and diverse community held together by common values. We must demonstrate our focus to address the most important issues we face and allocate resources where needed to take care of our fellow Jews at home, in Israel, and throughout the world. That is our responsibility! To that end, JFNH needs to become a catalyst for dialogue and engagement to address emotionally charged issues, such as the Iran nuclear agreement and the recently released Movement for Black Lives platform, which raises important issues, including economic justice, voter rights, and criminal justice system reforms. The platform also includes provisions that demonize Israel, erroneously equating the experience of African-Americans with that of Palestinians. The platform suggests that Israel is an apartheid state, guilty of committing genocide. Such a platform is contrary to the American Jewish community s strong commitment to social and racial equality. We need to exercise our rights to free speech and speak out against such statements. In the coming year, I hope JFNH will make its voice heard loud and clear against social injustice, not in an emotionally charged climate, but rather in a balanced and constructive dialogue. Living in the bucolic state of New Hampshire, we are insulated from world issues, which can erode our security. We need to always be vigilant and safeguard that which we hold dear. L Shana Tova! Save the Date New Office Address 66 Hanover St., Suite 300 Manchester, NH JFNH Annual Meeting Sunday, September 18 Av-Elul 5776 September 2016 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 3

4 Wednesday, August 31 Temple Israel Religious School Open House 5:30 7 PM, Temple Israel, 200 State St., Portsmouth Meet the teachers and tour the school, which focuses on Judaic studies and Hebrew language for students in grades K 7. For information, contact head of school Noa Bourke: nobourke@gmail.com, x14. Wednesday, September 7 Temple Israel Religious School Open House 5:30 7 PM, Temple Israel, 200 State St., Portsmouth Meet the teachers and tour the school, which focuses on Judaic studies and Hebrew language for students in grades K 7. For information, contact head of school Noa Bourke: nobourke@gmail.com, x14. Thursday, September 8 Open Discussion with Rabbi Peter Levy of Etz Hayim Synagogue in Derry and Reverend Ray Bonin of the Church of the Transfiguration in Derry 6:30 8 PM, Coffeeberries, Apple Tree Mall, 4 Orchard View Drive, Londonderry Join Rabbi Peter Levy and Reverend Ray Bonin as they provide a comfortable place for respectful discussion with people in your community. They promise no agenda, no proselytizing, no converting. They promise an opportunity to gain an understanding of a variety of viewpoints by talking and listening to each other, all while drinking your favorite hot/cold beverage. Additional date (same time) on September 22. More information: or rabbi@etzhayim.org. Friday, September 9 Open House 6:15-8 PM, Temple Israel, 200 State Street, Portsmouth Curious about Temple Israel Portsmouth? Come and meet Rabbi David Senter and members of the Temple Israel community as we welcome Shabbat at a Friday night service. Service starts at 6:15, followed by a light meal and guest reception in the social hall. Families and children welcome! For information and to RSVP, contact templeoffice@templeisraelnh.org or call x10. Saturday, September 17 Poetry Reading at Etz Hayim Synagogue 8 PM, Etz Hayim Synagogue, Derry Poet Midge Goldberg of Derry will read her poetry; her reading will be preceded by a short Havdalah service and followed by an open mic. Midge s most recent book of poetry, Snowman s Code, was the recipient of the 2015 Richard Wilbur Poetry Award. She has written two other books: Flume Ride (2006), also a collection of poems, and My Best Ever Grandpa (2015), a children s book. Midge has appeared on NHPR s The Bookshelf and has been a NH State Council of the Arts featured poet. Midge is a long-time member of the Powow River Poets, is a graduate of Yale University, and has an M.F.A. from the University of New Hampshire. Etz Hayim invites everyone to visit and experience our warm welcome. More information: org or Congregation Ahavas Achim's 100th Anniversary Celebration Dinner More information: Sunday, September 18 JFNH Annual Meeting/BBQ Featuring Musician Sam Glaser 4 7 PM, Seresc Conference Center, 29 Commerce Dr., Bedford World-renowned musician Sam Glaser will entertain the children while the adults hold the business portion of the Annual Meeting, followed by a Sam Glaser performance that all can enjoy. The event will include the traditional Shem Tov award presentations, kosher barbecue, and more! Families are welcome. Please RSVP by Sept. 6 to Monday, September 19 Interfaith Women NH Presents Individual Choices: A Talk about Christian Science 6:15 PM check in, 6:45 PM program begins, First Church of Christ Scientist, 22 Harrison St, Manchester IWNH invites all women to a presentation and discussion about the Christian Science faith. Presenters are Polyann Winslow (Member Board of Directors, Derry Christian Science Church), Martha James (First Reader, Manchester Church), and Kerry Reed (Christian Science Nurse). Parking is available in the Credit Union lot across the street, and the church is handicap accessible. Please send in your RSVP to interfaithwomennh@gmail.com or Reception to follow, with good food and socializing! Thursday, September 22 Open Discussion with Rabbi Peter Levy of Etz Hayim Synagogue in Derry and Reverend Ray Bonin of the Church of the Transfiguration in Derry 6:30 8 PM, Coffeeberries, Apple Tree Mall, 4 Orchard View Drive, Londonderry Join Rabbi Peter Levy and Reverend Ray Bonin as they provide a comfortable place for respectful discussion with people in your community. They promise no agenda, no proselytizing, no converting. They promise an opportunity to gain an understanding of a variety of viewpoints by talking and listening to each other, all while drinking your favorite hot/cold beverage. More information: or rabbi@etzhayim.org. Friday September 23 Israeli-Themed Family Shabbat Catered 6 PM, Temple Israel, Manchester Reservations by close of day on September 18, call Christine at (leave message). Saturday, September National Israeli-American Conference Marriot Marquis, 901 Massachusetts Avenue Northwest, Washington D.C. The National Israeli-American Conference is the foremost annual gathering of the Israeli-American community. Conference participants join us for an inspired, engaging three-day journey that delves into the most critical issues facing the Israeli-American and Jewish communities. More information: Shely Medved at registration@israeliamerican.org. Friday, September 30 Family Friendly Service 7 PM, Congregation Betenu, Amherst More information: or Learn more about JFNH by visiting PAGE 4 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Av-Elul 5776 September 2016

5 When I lived in Israel, one of the most haunting and memorable services I attended took place in a Sephardic synagogue beginning around 4:30 AM. All other months of the year, the Shacharit (morning) services at this synagogue begin later -- maybe 6:00 AM. But we visited during the month of Elul, the month that precedes Rosh Hashanah and the High Holy Day season. In the Sephardic Jewish community during Elul, extra time is spent praying special S lichot prayers before the regular morning service. Why then? Jewish mystics consider the end of the night, just before the morning, to be the time we are closest to God. S lichot means forgiveness. Thus, if we are asking God to forgive us for our misdeeds of the previous year, we want to offer those prayers when, according to tradition, God is most likely to feel a connection to us. For thousands of years, we Jewish people have used the month of Elul to put ourselves in the mood of the High Holy Days. For Sephardic Jews, the Jews of By Rahel Limor S lichot: Getting Into the High Holy Day Mood Rabbi in the House Rabbi Robin Nafshi Temple Beth Jacob Spanish descent, prayers of forgiveness, almost a mini Yom Kippur service, are recited every morning of the month of Elul, starting on the second day. For Ashkenazi Jews, the Jews of German descent (the overwhelming majority of American Jews), S lichot prayers are added to the service on the Saturday night or the Sunday morning immediately preceding Rosh Hashanah. (If Rosh Hashanah falls on a Monday or Tuesday, as it does this year, the S lichot prayers are added a week earlier.) Maybe it was the hour of the day, but I still remember the service from the fall of The melodies were unlike anything I had ever heard before. The rhythm, the beat, the modes -- they all differed from what I was used to hearing in a synagogue. The shofar was constantly sounded throughout the service, a uniquely Sephardic tradition. (Ashkenazi Jews sound the shofar at the end of the S lichot service, as well as daily other than Shabbat during Elul.) And finally, members of the congregation passed cups of hot tea through the pews, perhaps providing a needed caffeine jolt for the early morning service. S lichot services include quite a number of poems, called piyyutim in Hebrew. These poems were specially composed for S lichot. The service also includes familiar High Holy Day prayers such as Avinu Malkeinu. There is also a recitation of Al Chet, or for the sin of X that we have committed before You we ask for forgiveness. High Holy Day services are supposed to be different from our regular Shabbat or daily services. The liturgy, the melodies, and the space are all meant to evoke a sense of awe and majesty. In many communities, a choir adds voice, the clergy wear white, and congregants dress more formally than the rest of the year. We shampoo the carpets, tune the piano (if our community uses musical instruments in worship), and clean the chairs. We know, we feel, we sense, we demand something special and different. To arrive at Erev Rosh Hashanah services unprepared for what we will experience over the next 10 days would be paramount to running a marathon without stretching, warming up, and practicing. Think of S lichot as the preparation for the High Holy Day marathon. Congregations throughout the state will hold S lichot services on Saturday night, September 24. Attend one in your community. If you are not a member of a synagogue, find a service and go. Help yourself get into the High Holy Day mood. Shanah tovah um tukah -- a good and sweet New Year. What s All the Fuss About Elul, Tishrei, Psalms, and Tikkun? G-d exists in many different forms and is found in many different places amongst us. Each of us has our own unique experience. If we can find peace within ourselves we can make peace throughout the world. Listen to the sounds. Rahel The Hebrew months of Elul and Tishrei, this year spanning from September 3 to October 31, represent a time for teshuva and tikkun: looking deeply into ourselves, confronting our challenges, making improvements, and learning how to more actively engage with the Almighty. The concept of tikkun in today s world is generally understood in terms of tikkun olam, a form of social action that strives to fix, heal, and improve our world. The true essence and meaning of tikkun, however, is actually about improving ourselves. It is in this way that the world becomes a better place. It is told that G-d comes closer and closer to us every day during the month of Elul, and in Tishrei actually dwells among us. It is likened to a king who lives every day in the palace and comes out just once each year to greet and be with the people. At this time of year, as the seasons change, it is customary to make time for personal improvements. We reflect inwardly, searching deep within ourselves to assess who we are, where we are going, and how we live our lives. We ask for forgiveness and reconciliation from friends, community members, and G-d. We hope that by so doing we will merit another year and a good life. How do we get from where we are now to our new improved selves? We are taught that the best way is to live according to the Torah, the ultimate instruction and guidebook for a better life, G-d s greatest gift to humankind. However, this is not an easy task. In fact it s probably THE greatest challenge that we may ever be asked to undertake. I absolutely love studying and learning Torah, but not everyone does. I have found that if the text is put to music and sung, then Torah study becomes exciting, fun, and even memorable. The good news is that a good deal of Torah already exists in musical form. The Book of Psalms is said to be the inner workings of King David, a man who is regarded by many as the quintessential poet, singer, and healer, a mighty warrior and exemplary leader. The psalms represent not just the outpouring of one simple yet complex and very extraordinary man, but also of men and women who lived very human lives in extraordinary times. The psalms may be ancient, yet they are very much alive and relevant to each and every one of us today. They are the prayers, poems, and songs that represent the core essence of human existence, an outpouring of the soul; the positive and negative, joyful and painful crying out from deep within. At this very profound time of year, the psalms can help us as we work through our own personal process of self-reflection and discovery. When tikkun is accomplished, and we have succeeded in finding a place of inner peace, then peaceful existence in our world will naturally follow. Rahel is a Jewish singer, songwriter, cantorial soloist, educator, and therapeutic music practitioner/healing and healthcare artist. "TIKKUN" ( com/rahelmusic), her one-of-a-kind CD of the Hebrew psalms put to music, as well as a unique Tikkun Shabbat service created with Rabbi Louis Rieser, Rabbi Emeritus at Etz Hayim Synagogue in Derry, have received positive reviews. It is Rahel s hope that in this small way a door will be opened and together we will succeed in creating a more peaceful world. Contact Rahel at wishing everyone a sweet new year filled with health and peace... l'shana tovah. quoted from Eileen at Beckonings judaica table & glassware contemporary crafts & home accents unique jewelry wonderful wearables complimentary gift packaging 221 main street nashua, nh beckonings.com /beckonings Av-Elul 5776 September 2016 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 5

6 High Holidays High Holiday Services Around New Hampshire Note: Information was not complete from all synagogues at press time. Please contact your local synagogue (listed on page 2) for more information and see our October issue for updated information. AMHERST Congregation Betenu Sun., Oct. 2: 7:30 PM Erev Rosh Hashanah. Mon., Oct. 3: 10:30 AM, Rosh Hashanah morning services. Tues., Oct. 11: 7:30 PM Kol Nidre. Wed., Oct. 12: 10:30 AM Yom Kippur services, 5:30 PM Yizkor/ Neilah, 7 PM break the fast. BETHLEHEM Bethlehem Hebrew Congregation Sat., Sept. 24: 7:30 PM Nosh/Havdalah, 8 PM Selichot. Sun., Oct. 2: 6 PM Erev Rosh Hashanah service. Mon., Oct. 3: 9:30 AM Rosh Hashanah Day 1, 1 PM Dairy potluck luncheon (TBA) followed by Tashlich. Tues., Oct. 4: 10 AM Rosh Hashanah Day 2, 1 PM Dairy potluck luncheon (TBA). Sun., Oct. 9: 12 PM BHC Community Cemetery service. Tues., Oct. 11: 6 PM Kol Nidre & Erev Yom Kippur service. Wed., Oct. 12: 10 AM Yom Kippur service, 12:15 PM Yizkor, 3 PM Break, 5 PM Mincha, 7 PM Neilah, Final Shofar (times are approximate). Thurs., Oct. 13: 10 AM Sukkah building, Brunch by Alice Dreier. Sun., Oct. 16: 5 PM Sukkah decorating, 6 PM Erev Sukkot service, dairy-pareve potluck supper, RSVP to Eileen Regen. Sun., Oct. 23, 5 PM Shemini Atzeret/Yizkor, 6 PM Simchat Torah celebration CLAREMONT Temple Meyer David Sun., Oct. 2: 7:30 PM Rosh Hashanah evening service. Mon., Oct. 3: 9 AM Rosh Hashanah service, 7:30 PM Rosh Hashanah evening service. Tues., Oct. 4: 9 AM Rosh Hashanah service. Tues., Oct. 11: 5:50 PM Kol Nidre. Wed., Oct. 12: 9 AM Yom Kippur service, 5:05 PM concluding service and break the fast. CONCORD Temple Beth Jacob Sat., Sept. 24: 5:30 PM Dairy/vegetarian potluck dinner, 6 PM Raise the Roof, 7:30 PM, Selichot service with Cantor Shira and the Choir. Sun., Oct. 2: 7:30 PM Erev Rosh Hashanah service. Mon., Oct. 3: 9:30 AM Rosh Hashanah service, 1 PM Kiddush sponsored by Sisterhood at the end of service, 2 PM Tashlich at Kiwanis Park (location TBA), 3 PM Family service (for families with children 7 or younger). Tues., Oct. 4: 9:30 AM Rosh Hashanah II service. Sun., Oct. 9: 9 AM Memorial service at TBJ Cemetery (Blossom Hill Cemetery). Tues., Oct. 11: 7:30 PM Kol Nidrei service. Wed., Oct. 12: 9:30 AM Yom Kippur service, 1:30 PM Family service (for families with children 7 or younger), 2:30 PM Afternoon Text Study, 3:30 PM Yizkor- Neilah services. Break Fast sponsored by Sisterhood at the close of Neilah. Sun., Oct. 16, 7 PM Erev Sukkot service. Mon., Oct. 17, 5:30 PM Pizza in the Hut. Thurs., Oct. 20, 6 PM Women in the Sukkah. Sat., Oct. 22, 5:30 PM Havdalah potluck in the Sukkah. Sun., Oct. 23, Simchat Torah/Consecration service with Cantor Shira. DERRY Etz Hayim Synagogue Sat., Sept. 24, 7 PM Selichot service. Sun., Oct. 2: 7:15 PM Erev Rosh Hashanah service. Mon., Oct. 3: 9:30 AM Rosh Hashanah service, 1 PM Tashlich, 2 PM Family service. Tues., Oct. 4: 9:30 AM Rosh Hashanah service. Tues., Oct. 11: 7:15 PM Kol Nidre. Wed., Oct. 12: 9:30 AM Yom Kippur service, 1 PM Study Session To Be a Jew, 2 PM Family service, 3:30 PM Afternoon service, 7 PM Community Break-Fast. KEENE Congregation Ahavas Achim Sat, Sept. 24: 7:30 PM Selichot. Sun., Oct. 2: 6:45 PM Erev Rosh Hashanah Evening service. Mon., Oct. 3: 9 AM 1 PM Rosh Hashanah Day 1 Morning service, 10 AM Children s service, 11:30 AM (approx.) Torah service, 1:30 PM Tashlich (local) at Black Brook (4 blocks from CAA ). Tues., Oct. 4: 9 AM 1 PM Rosh Hashanah Day 2 Morning service, 11:30 AM (approx.) Torah service. Tues., Oct. 11: 6 PM Kol Nidre Evening service. Wed., Oct. 12: 9 AM Yom Kippur Morning service, 10 AM Children s service, 11:30 AM (approx.) Torah service, 1:30 PM Yizkor (Memorial service), 2:15 4:15 PM Discussion/ Chanting/Meditation sessions, 4:30 PM Mincha service with Haftarah Jonah, 5:45 PM Neilah, 7 PM Havdalah followed by communal break the fast vegetarian potluck. LACONIA Temple B nai Israel Sun., Oct. 2: 7:30 PM Erev Rosh Hashanah service. Mon., Oct. 3: 10 AM 12:30 PM Rosh Hashanah service, 12:30 1:30 PM Tashlich, Lunch. Tues., Oct. 4: 10 AM 12 PM Rosh Hashanah service. Tues., Oct. 11: 7:30 9 PM Kol Nidre. Wed., Oct. 12: 10 11:30 AM Yom Kippur service, 4 5:30 PM Yom Kippur service, 5:30 6:30 PM Neilah, Break Fast. MANCHESTER Chabad Lubavitch Sun., Oct. 2 (7 Camelot Place): 6:30 PM Maariv, followed by fourcourse Rosh Hashanah Dinner (Adults $20, Children $10, Family maximum $50). Mon., Oct. 3 (7 Camelot Place): 10 AM Rosh Hashanah service, 11:15 AM 12:30 PM Children s program (ages 4 10),12:15 PM (approx.) Shofar blowing, followed by Kiddush. Tues., Oct. 4 (7 Camelot Place): 10 AM Rosh Hashanah service, 12:15 PM (approx.) Shofar blowing, followed by Kiddush. Tues., Oct. 11 (The Falls Event Center, 21 Front St., Manchester): 6:15 PM Kol Nidre. Wed., Oct. 12 (The Falls Event Center): 10 AM Yom Kippur services, 12:30 PM (approx..) Yizkor, 7:24 PM Shofar blast, followed by break fast buffet. Hotel reservations at special holiday rate available at La Quinta Hotel. Temple Adath Yeshurun Sat., Sept. 24, 8 PM Selichot at Etz Hayim Synagogue. Sun., Oct. 2: 8 PM Erev Rosh Hashanah service. Mon., Oct. 3: 10 AM Rosh Hashanah service, 3 PM Children s service, 4 PM Tashlich at Dorr s Pond. Tues., Oct. 4: 10 AM Rosh Hashanah service. Sun., Oct. 9, 10 AM Cemetery service. Tues., Oct. 11: 8 PM Kol Nidre. Wed., Oct. 12: 10 AM Yom Kippur service, 2 PM Children s service, 3 PM Study Session, 4 PM Afternoon service, 5:30 PM (approx.) Yizkor, 6:15 PM Neilah. Temple Israel Sun., Oct. 2: 7 PM Erev Rosh Hashanah service. Mon., Oct. 3: 9 AM Rosh Hashanah service, 5 PM Tashlich. Tues., Oct. 4: 9 AM Rosh Hashanah service. Tues., Oct. 11: 5:30 PM Minchah followed by Kol Nidre. Wed., Oct. 12: 9 AM Yom Kippur service, 6:50 PM Break the Fast. Mon., Oct. 17, 9:30 AM Sukkot service. Tues., Oct. 18, 7 AM Sukkot 2 service. Mon., Oct. 24, 9:30 AM Shemini Atzeret with Yizkor. Tues., Oct. 25, Simchat Torah with Yizkor. NASHUA Temple Beth Abraham Sat., Sept. 24: 7:30 PM Havdalah and Selichot services. Sun., Oct. 2: 8 PM, Erev Rosh Hashanah services. Mon., Oct. 3: 9 AM, Rosh Hashanah services, 9:30 AM noon babysitting, 10 AM youth services & teen discussions, 7:30 PM evening services. Tues., Oct. 4: 9 AM Rosh Hashanah Day 2 services, 9:30 AM noon babysitting, 10 AM youth services & teen discussions. Tues., Oct. 11: 5:45 PM Kol Nidre. 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7 PJ Library a Vital Link in the Jewish Connection By Allyson Sabel Preschoolers enjoy some summer fun in the water. I had the opportunity last month to attend a seminar at Hebrew College, Building Blocks to Building Communities: Securing a Strong Foundation Together. This seminar brought together professionals from across New England all with the same goal, to find avenues to reach young families. It was comforting to hear that all communities both big and small face the same challenge, how do we reach all Jewish families? The dynamics of a young Jewish family have changed, and statistics show many more families have dual working parents with limited time and more than 50% of families are interfaith, yet all of these families are still looking for that Jewish connection. Everyone agreed this is By Allyson Sabel JFNH Preschool s Summer in Review Summer Camp was great. Everyone had a blast. We started with a trip to Cowabunga's and ended with a wonder visit and pony rides from McDonny s Traveling Farm, and let s not forget everything in between: swim lessons at the YMCA and lots of outdoor fun. We can t believe it s over, but here at JFNH Preschool we re not sad. Preschool will why Federations, JCCs, and programs such as PJ Library are so vital in making that connection. Leaving this seminar, I felt recharged and enthusiastic about new ideas and ways the Jewish Federation of NH can become the core for these young families in our communities. start its 29th year on September 6, and all of our staff has been busy getting things ready. Classrooms have been set up and field trips planned, and we are ready for another year full of learning and fun. There are still limited spaces left in our toddler and 3-year-old rooms. If you haven t thought about preschool yet, now is the time. Both part-time and full-time schedules are available. Please call or preschool@jewishnh.org for more information and to set up a tour. Av-Elul 5776 September 2016 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 7

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9 Southern New Hampshire Jewish Men s Club Plans Year of Breakfasts Nashua The SNHJMC is pleased to present its breakfast dates for , beginning with Sunday, September 18 (NH Fish and Game). This first breakfast of the SNHJMC breakfast season will feature Shawn MacFazden, conservation officer for the NH Department of Fish & Game. He will present an overview of the department and how it serves the citizens of New Hampshire. This is an exciting opportunity to learn more about the department as well as the environment we live in The famous SNHJMC breakfast will start at 9:30 AM at Temple Beth Abraham in Nashua. As you have come to love over the past 34 years, the SNHJMC will be featuring a full breakfast of bagels and lox, veggies and schmear, eggs, potatoes, whitefish salad, fruit, and all the trimmings. This is by far the best breakfast value on the planet, so come and join us for breakfast and this interesting topic! Breakfast is $8 for members and $12 for non-member/guests. RSVPs are strongly suggested and can be made at breakfastrsvp@snhjmc.org. We hope to see you there! Other SNHJMC breakfasts will take place on October 23 (political breakfast), November 13, December 11, January 8, February 12, March 5 (children s breakfast), April 2 (Annual Meeting), and May 7. The SNHJMC is actively working to plan multiple new and exciting events throughout the year, so stay tuned on our website, for additional information as it becomes available! Seniors Forever Young Offers Fun for All Hadassah Plans Fall Activities By Michele Bank, Chapter President The Manchester Chapter of Hadassah will hold its next meeting in September. All are welcome to attend and help plan the next year of fundraising events. Your suggestions and participation in this chapter s activity are encouraged. The members of the book club chose to read Trouble by Jesse Kellerman and will have a discussion meeting in autumn. Please check the Federation calendar for date, time, and location of chapter meeting and book discussion. Hadassah continues to offer a sterling silver open heart necklace on a chain when you make a $100 donation. The proceeds go toward equipping and furnishing the Sarah Wetsman Davidson Tower in Ein Kerem, Jerusalem. With at least a $150 donation, Hadassah is offering a lovely sterling silver necklace edged with cubic zirconia. This endless beginnings necklace features a quote by founder Henrietta Szold, "There is no ending that is not a beginning." The proceeds go toward support of groundbreaking medical research at Hadassah Medical Organization. As reported in the Jerusalem Post by Professor Dimitrios Karussis, the Hadassah University Medical Center in Ein Kerem is conducting a groundbreaking clinical trial with stem cells for a successful treatment for ALS and multiple sclerosis. He said that this treatment has the potential to positively impact other conditions such as Alzheimer s, Parkinson s disease, stroke, and spinal trauma. It is a matter of definitely less than 10 years, maybe less than five, that we can have this treatment available. For additional information about Hadassah or the necklaces, please contact Michele Bank, chapter president, at Michele.bank@gmail.com or Manchester Anyone wanting or claiming to be a Senior is encouraged and welcome to join Seniors Forever Young. We want to put a smile on the faces of all seniors and hope everyone has a good time. In the spring, Seniors Forever Young saw Singin in the Rain at the Palace Theatre in Manchester, followed by dinner at T-Bones in Bedford. The production was superb. In May, over 30 members of the group traveled to Congregation Beth Elohim, Acton, MA, to hear the Zamir Chorale of Boston perform a program of Jewish music from around the world. Cantor Sarra Spierer, daughter of Rachel and Mel Spierer of Manchester, was the guest soloist. The music was inspiring and breathtaking. Prior to the show, lunch was enjoyed at Not Your Average Joe's. In August, 20 members of the group traveled to Lake Sunapee to cruise around the lake aboard the M.V. Mt. Sunapee II. The day was perfect, with no humidity and no rain. The group then went to dine in New London at Peter Christensen's Tavern. Of course, several women could not resist the beautiful attire in the gift shop and made purchases. Plans are underway for a fall theatre trip and of course, our annual Chanukah celebration. all are invited to join the group in socialization and fun. For information or questions, contact Roz Levitt, ; Saundra Wexler, ; or Audrey Rondo, Do you live in Keene, Laconia, Bethlehem, Hanover, or another NH community and want to help produce the Jewish Reporter? We are looking for people all over the state who are interested in writing about their local Jewish community. To get involved, contact thereporter@jewishnh.org See what s happening in the community at Av-Elul 5776 September 2016 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 9

10 By Judith Jolton We have all experienced what it is like being hungry -- the physiological sensation caused by a lack of food. But for 49 million Americans, including one in five children, hunger has been redefined as a more telling epidemic: food insecurity, the inability to access food consistently, whether by not being able to afford it or not having access to it. Religious Response to Hunger Makes a Difference The problem goes far beyond the homeless population and has embedded itself in communities like ours, where parents have to choose between paying their utility bill or buying food, or they must go without food so their children can eat. A growing number of seniors face a different set of challenges, where many have the money to purchase food but do not have the resources to access or prepare it. These are the people who find help at the New Horizons Food Pantry and Soup Kitchen. For over 30 years, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Temple Israel, and New Hampshire s religious community have made it a High Holy Day tradition to help those in need with the Religious Response to Hunger. At a time when the need is high and pantry shelves are running low, New Horizons relies on the community s donations to help put food on the tables of thousands of people without the security of knowing where their next meal will come from. The Religious Response to Hunger will begin on Rosh Hashanah, when reusable bags donated by Whole Foods in Bedford will be distributed after services by members of Manchester Temple Youth (MANTY) and made available to those who cannot attend. All congregants are asked to take the bags home, fill them with the equivalent of nonperishable food they and their family would have eaten during the High Holy Days, add some more, and then return the bags to the Temple on Yom Kippur. The bags will then be taken to New Horizons, which in past years has received more than 25,000 pounds of donated food from the drive. Our Religious Response to Hunger calls on all of us to give more to the growing number of people who need more. There could be no better way to start the New Year than the mitzvah of giving. Keeping you connected enews jewishnh.org PAGE 10 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Av-Elul 5776 September 2016

11 Derry On September 17, poet and Etz Hayim Synagogue member Midge Goldberg will read some of her poems following a Havdalah service. After Midge s reading, others are invited to share their creations at an open mic. Coffee and cake will be served. Book Review Reviewed by Merle Carrus They May Not Mean To, But They Do By Cathleen Schine They May Not Mean To, But They Do (Sarah Crichton Books, 2016) is a novel that explores a topic very much at the forefront of every baby boomer's social conversations. Some of us are not yet of the age to talk about our own aches and pains. But if we are lucky enough to have parents who are still alive, we are discussing our guilt and troubles taking care of them as they decline in health and mental acuity. Being part of the sandwich generation is filled with happiness that we still have family to get together with for holidays and other celebrations, but frustration that there are demands on us as our parents age, and guilt about how we are handling it. Do we take them into our lives and fit them in between our work and social life? Do we put them in assisted living or let them age in place at home? Though you may not think this is a topic for an enjoyable novel, Cathleen Schine has written this story so well that you do not want to put it down. She has made the characters so believable that there is someone in the book every reader can relate to. Joy is the matriarch who is going through the loss of her husband, Aaron, as he slowly declines with Alzheimer's disease complicated by cancer and a colostomy bag. Joy is determined to take care of him in their apartment until the end, but that takes a great toll on her health also. Molly is the daughter who has moved the furthest away. Having divorced her husband, she has found a new relationship and career in California. Having left her parents in their New York City apartment, she feels guilty that she lives so far away, but relieved also when she can get away and go back to her separate world. Molly has a grown son, Ben, by her first marriage, who comes to stay with Grandma for a while. Daniel, Joy s son, lives in New York with his wife and two young daughters. Poetry and Havdalah Offered at Etz Hayim Midge Goldberg Daniel's wife and children give us the perspective of the in-law and grandchildren. They also are struggling with their Judaism. As the novel progresses, Ruby, the oldest granddaughter, is preparing for Bat Mitzvah. The daughter-in-law, Coco, thinks at one point about how this life experience can be used a teaching moment for her children: "Coco said nothing. She was thinking about her own old age. Would Cora and Ruby want her to come and live with them when the time came? She would set a good example." Coco tries to be understanding of her mother-in-law and even suggests they invite her to move in with them. To round out the plot, Molly is now married to Freddie, a woman whose father is in an assisted living facility near them in Los Angeles. Freddie and her siblings, of which there are many, have very different family dynamics with their father. Their family thread, though not the main story line, presents a different view of family and aging parents. Molly and Daniel talk to their parents on the phone constantly and try to help Joy as she takes care of Aaron. They try to offer advice and suggest caretakers coming into the apartment. Joy resists as long as she can, until her health is also compromised. From her point of view, the children are trying to take away her autonomy. She is still working as a conservation consultant at a small museum on the Lower East Side. But, as the computer and technology get more advanced, Joy is being left behind there also. Her new boss is changing the department and squeezing her out: "Joy had begun to identify with her artifacts, out of date, obsolete, left behind." Joy is struggling with her own identity, wanting to continue to feel important and needed. Cathleen Schine captures the adult children s guilt wonderfully in this novel. When I read the title on the bookshelf, I thought the meaning would be that parents do something to their children, like making them feel guilty to drive them crazy. I thought the book would justify my feeling that my parents have always been the crazy ones, not me. The title is taken from a favorite poem of the author by Philip Larkin called This Be The Verse, which starts out, "They f**k you up, your mum and dad. They may not mean to, but they do. They fill you with the faults they had. And add some extra, just for you." But Schine turns the verse on its head in the novel and has Joy, the mother in this story, deliver the line from the parent's point of view. Her son, Daniel, suggests she get a dog when she mentions she is lonely, and her daughter, Molly, suggests she go out more. "When Joy said her head was muddled and she sometimes was so tired she could not breathe, but so worried about The event begins at 8 PM at Etz Hayim Synagogue, 1 ½ Hood Road, Derry. Midge s most recent book of poetry, Snowman s Code, was the recipient of the 2015 Richard Wilbur Poetry Award. She has written two other books: Flume Ride (2006), also a collection of poems, and My Best Ever Grandpa (2015), a children s book. Midge has appeared on NHPR s The Bookshelf and has been a NH State Council of the Arts featured poet. Her poems have appeared in Garrison Keillor s A Writer s Almanac, and in Measure, Dogwood, Northern Woodlands, Verse Daily, and Appalachia, among other journals, and have been included in several anthologies, including Poetry Speaks: Who I Am, Hot Sonnets, and the Poets Guide to New Hampshire. Midge, a long-time member of the Powow River Poets, is a graduate of Yale University and has an M.F.A. from the University of New Hampshire. She lives in Chester, New Hampshire, with her family, two cats, and an ever-changing number of chickens. the cost of the caretakers that she could not sleep, Molly suggested she go to the 92nd Street Y's poetry readings. Poetry. They meant well, they did. But they f**k you up your son and daughter, Joy thought, pleased with her clever Philip Larkin allusion, 92nd Street Y or no 92nd Street Y. They many not mean to but they do." There were a few times as I was reading this novel that I asked myself why I would continue to read a book that hits so close to home on a subject that, when you are living it, may not seem funny. However, Schine tries to point out some of the humor in everyday life that you may not be able to see when you are involved, but if you stand back, it seems just crazy enough to laugh at. Maybe after reading this novel, those of us living with a similar experience will be able to step back and see some humor in our own situation. We may also be reminded that our lives are not that unusual, that maybe we also have material in our everyday lives that could be written down as a story someday. Learn more about JFNH by visiting Av-Elul 5776 September 2016 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 11

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15 Professor Addresses Israel's Overpopulation in Groundbreaking Book Beersheva, Israel Israel s historic demographic policies are no longer sustainable and the country must actively change direction, according to awardwinning Israeli environmental activist and Ben-Gurion University of the Negev (BGU) professor Alon Tal in his new book, The Land is Full Addressing Overpopulation in Israel. In his third book, Prof. Tal addresses Israel s tenfold population growth. The country has gone from 800,000 people to eight million people in only 68 years. Such exponential growth has produced acute environmental and social crises in the tiny country. The ramifications of such extraordinary demographic growth -- from burgeoning pollution and dwindling natural resources, to overcrowded classrooms, courtrooms and roads -- are monumental, says Prof. Tal. Zionists have always been nimble about adapting to dynamic realities. Those who love Israel must revisit their fundamental commitment to immigration and population growth and cultivate a new vision for preserving the landscape and quality of life in the Jewish state. In a July 25 op-ed in The New York Times, Tal explained that "it is Israel s high fertility rate percent higher than most other Western countries -- that puts it on an unsustainable course. This didn t happen naturally; it is the result of decades of government programs that encouraged large families. As the country fills up, Israel needs a change of direction, with economic strategies to empower women of all communities in its diverse society." This provocative book, based on extensive fieldwork, describes the origins of Israeli policies and suggests how they must change to support a sustainable future. Research for the book included interviews with dozens of experts and people from all sectors of Israeli society. While the issue may be jarring for some, many believe the time for study and analysis of this critical issue has come. For 25 years, Alon Tal has been on the front lines of Israel s struggle for sustainability, says Tzipi Livni, Knesset member and former Israeli foreign minister. His book asks hard questions, offers practical solutions, and demonstrates how a country can turn over a new leaf Mekudeshet 2016 to Push Boundaries of Identity and Sanctity Through Art Jerusalem An unprecedented experimental festival taking place this month in Jerusalem will harness the Holy City s timeless energy to inspire artists and other participants to transcend cultural and spiritual borders and unite in these troubling times. Presented by The Jerusalem Season of Culture (JSOC), the Mekudeshet Festival, Sept. 4 23, will feature dozens of artists, actors, musicians, media figures, and others from around the world and draw thousands of participants. Mekudeshet, which is Hebrew for holy or sanctified, will feature an eclectic array of events, including: docu-theatrical immersive city tours; a night of alternative realities called Recalibrating ; the Mideast s largestever singing circle with surprise guests; underground sounds and voices in Jerusalem s forest; and people reading each other s secret confessions aloud. A range of musicians hailing from England to Senegal will mix traditional and contemporary world music, and a famed ultra-orthodox Jewish singer will perform classical Arab music. For the first time, Mekudeshet will also host a gathering called Amen -- A House of Prayer For All Believers, which will unite Christians, Muslims, and Jews under one roof for the week of Sept to pray, sing, study, and even debate together. The power of Mekudeshet flows from the ancient depths of Jerusalem and returns back into the source, says Mekudeshet artistic director Itay Mautner. With the help of a collective sound and different languages, we will try to prove that Jerusalem is, and not just fleetingly, the home of a unified voice that is calling for tolerance, inclusivity, and collaboration. We will see if it is possible, despite all the corporeal difficulties and earthly obstacles, to create a new Jerusalem reality. For more details, please visit www. mekudeshet.com. About the Jerusalem Season of Culture (JSOC): Each summer since 2010, the Jerusalem Season of Culture (JSOC) has summoned the ancient muse to create a schedule of original, city-specific productions that traverse artistic disciplines, unfold in breathtaking locations, draw inspiration from the city s landscapes, stories, and people, and create moments that could happen only in Jerusalem. JSOC is targeted to culture lovers of all ages and backgrounds from Jerusalem, Israel, and the world. to truly become a promised land. Although most of Prof. Tal s research is focused on Israel's environmental challenges, he is also focused on how to make progress in the sustainable development and prevention of desertification in Africa. Prof. Tal is an associate professor in the Bona Terra Department of Man in the Desert in the Swiss Institute for Dryland Environmental and Energy Research of the BGU Jacob Blaustein Institutes for Desert Research. In addition Dartmouth Grad Makes Aliyah to his role at BGU, Prof. Tal founded the Israel Union for Environmental Defense, Israel's leading green advocacy organization, and the Arava Institute for Environmental Studies. A passionate advocate for local and global environmental protection, he served as chair of Israel's Green Party from 2010 to Tal received a life achievement award from Israel's Ministry of Environment at age 48. In 2005, he earned the Bronfman prize, a humanitarian award for young leaders. Jordan Kastrinsky Hanover Jordan Katrinsky developed a passion for Israel and a love of Judaism that started on a family trip to the State of Israel when he was 10 years old. Though his life has taken him in many directions, now as he graduates from Dartmouth University in Hanover, NH, he is finally fulfilling a dream. Jordan left on a Nefesh B Nefesh flight on August 16 to make Aliyah in Israel and join the IDF, Israeli Defense Forces. Jordan feels a deep attachment to the land of Israel. He says that he has thought living in Israel for a long time, even as far back as that trip when he was 10 years old. Jordan said, So in many ways this is fulfulling a dream, it just took a bit of a journey for me to realize it. Along that journey, Jordan has attended the Denver Academy of Torah, a modern Zionist Orthodox Jewish Day School. He was a member and leader in the Rose Youth Foundation. He also made many trips to Israel, including a trip with Nesiya, and he has recently led a Birthright trip as president of the Dartmouth Chabad group. Jordan says that he sees military experience in the IDF as an investment in his future. It is valuable personally and will give him a chance to assist in the progress of Israeli/Jewish society in general. He has a strong desire to give back to the Jewish people. Jordan says, As a person who has benefitted from Israel and is a G-d-fearing, Zionist Jew, I feel that this is one way of giving back to a society I cherish and hope continues to exist for many years to come. Sometimes money and well crafted arguments aren t enough, you gotta get your hands dirty. Portsmouth Temple Seeks Travelers for Israel Trip Temple Israel of Portsmouth is seeking participants for its trip to Israel this fall. The once-in-a-lifetime experience in Israel will run November 3 17, The tour will be led by Rabbi David Senter and one of Israel s top tour guide educators, traveling in a deluxe wi-fi enabled touring motor coach. The itinerary will include NH's Sister City of Hof Hacarmel as well as Jerusalem, Tel Aviv, the Negev, Haifa, Tzefat, Masada, and much more. An optional extension through Nov. 21 will visit Eilat and Petra. For detailed information and to register, visit www. templeisraelnh.org/israel-2/israel-trip/. Learn more about JFNH by visiting Av-Elul 5776 September 2016 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 15

16 By Brian Grodman AIPAC Leadership Dinner Focuses on the U.S.-Israel Alliance On Sunday, June 5, about a dozen New Hampshire supporters of the American Israel Public Affairs Committee (AIPAC) attended the 2016 New England Leadership Dinner held at the Seaport World Trade Center in Boston. I was disappointed with attendance from our Granite State when compared with the 1,500 people present. AIPAC works on many fronts to achieve the tag line America s Pro-Israel Lobby. Massachusetts governor Charlie Baker was very clear regarding his strong support of the Jewish State of Israel. He described the economic benefit of bilateral trade and the importance of Israeli brain power. The keynote presentation was an interview with Admiral James Stavridis, former Supreme Allied Commander of NATO, by CNN analyst Bakari Sellers. Admiral Stavridis explained that it does not make sense to discuss the Iran deal, because it is a done deal. He strongly dislikes the deal due to the weak verification regime, huge financial windfall for Iran (25% of Iran s gross domestic product), and 10-year shelf life. However, he explained that the United States must move forward by creating a formal alliance with Israel. The United States must defend the Philippines due to a 1951 treaty. We must defend Albania and Slovenia, as mandated with a 1949 treaty. However, there is no formal treaty with Israel. Our country has a formal defense treaty with 27 countries. Due to the huge $100 billion funding of the Iranian government, the Admiral made a case for developing a necessary treaty with the State of Israel. There were twenty synagogue partners at the dinner. Each synagogue purchased at least one table, and congregants enjoyed this informative evening of discussion, socializing, and education. I strongly suggest New Hampshire synagogue board members, presidents, and rabbis formally discuss becoming an AIPAC partner and attending this dinner event on Sunday, May 7, I promise you will not be disappointed while building your local synagogue community, increasing your knowledge, and assisting the Jewish State of Israel. Moving the Federation Ahead JFNH leadership made a great decision in selecting Bobbie (Roberta) Brayer to assume the transition job of guiding the organization through much needed changes. Bobbie has been committed to the Federation for years, as a Board member of the Federation and of the Federation Foundation committee. She also created the NH Jewish Film Festival. I know she will be able to apply her skills to many of the issues confronting the Federation s challenges. It s true that Bobbie s learning curve has momentum from her pre-knowledge of the Federation s strengths and weaknesses and of the people who are already invested in the organization. She began her leadership role in the early weeks of this summer. Bobbie completed negotiation for JFNH s move to a longterm, centralized location next door to the Palace Theatre in Manchester, got much needed support to strategize, stabilize, and maximize the Federation s funds, and began the process of enthusing member synagogues and individuals to reinvest their interest in the Federation s many programs. Preschool, PJ Library, Birthright, special events and speakers, a united face against prejudice, support for the needy, and the sorely missed Shlicha program are all under review, with speedy action to follow when we all work with Bobbie. Together, we will bring the statewide Jewish community together. Barbara Morgenstern Gilford Letters to the Editor may be sent to thereporter@jewishnh.org. Letters must be signed with full name and address. Learn more about JFNH by visiting New Office Address 66 Hanover St., Suite 300 Manchester, NH PAGE 16 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Av-Elul 5776 September 2016

17 Thank You for Nine Months in Israel By Shoshana Sernik This past year, I lived in Israel for nine months and had the most incredible time. Before I talk about my time in Israel, I would like to thank the Jewish Federation of New Hampshire for the generous scholarship that helped me spend the year in Israel. I went on the college leadership program, Nativ, which is affiliated with USY and the Conservative movement. I lived in Jerusalem for the first half of the year, studying, learning Hebrew, and exploring the country. During the regular week, I would go to Ulpan, or intensive Hebrew lessons, in the morning, and I would study at the Conservative Yeshiva in the afternoons. Living in Jerusalem was one of the best experiences I have had so far. I was completely immersed in the culture and was able to experience Judaism in a new way. I went to several different synagogues during my time in Jerusalem, each with its own community, traditions, and set of melodies. I danced for hours on Simchat Torah and went out for a second celebration the night after. I bargained for the best price for the biggest, brightest etrog at the shuk. I sang in the middle of the street on Erev Yom Kippur with my friends because there were no cars. I danced in the middle of Ben Yehudah Street on Purim in costume. I enjoyed many Shabbat dinners with friends and strangers. In addition to the religious aspects of living in Jerusalem, I also enjoyed the nightlife, the shuk, the museums, hiking around the city, and the chance to live more independently than I had before. For the second semester of my year in Israel, I lived in Yerucham, a small development town in the Negev. In Yerucham, I volunteered in an all girls religious high school teaching English. I also volunteered with Magen David Adom as a first responder/emt on the ambulances. Working on the ambulances was one of the best experiences of my life. Not only was I learning valuable skills, but I was also giving back to the people in the Negev region, both Jewish and non-jewish. Many nights my friends and I would also help out with the high school robotics team. It was incredible to give back to Yerucham, a town that welcomed us in, and to connect on such a personal level with the town and its people. Some of my favorite days in Israel were our free weekends. I would go hiking with my friends, spend Shabbat with family and friends, and explore the country. Free weekends gave me the incredible opportunity to experience and enjoy different parts of the country and learn more about the land. I hiked from Tsfat to Meron, visited and stayed on several kibbutzim, hiked the Zavitan, explored Tsfat, and slept on the Palmachim beach. Taking a gap year in Israel allowed me to explore the country and my connection to it, both politically and spiritually. I was able to find myself in the land of Israel. Shoshana Sernik received a grant from JFNH through the Irving and Bernice Singer Israel Experience Program. L Shana Tova! From Your Friends at... L Shana Tova May the New Year bring good health & joy to you and those loved ones around you! PAID FOR BY FRIENDS OF KELLY AYOTTE Av-Elul 5776 September 2016 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 17

18 Want to see your organization s photos here? Send them to thereporter@jewishnh.org. Camp Gan Israel's CITs took some time to enjoy a full trip day this July. Happy campers of Camp Gan Israel ended a successful summer season with a trip to Canobie Lake Park. JFNH Preschool students met a friendly pony from McDonny s Traveling Farm this summer. Robin Greenlaw, Gail Robinson, and Eileen Regen learn the art of parchment stretching from Torah soferet Linda Motzkin. See what s happening in the community at Members of Temple B nai Israel share snacks following a Havdalah ceremony. The Temple Israel Hebrew School teachers and students would like to thank our teen school volunteers, Talia Grodman, Zoe Zeballos, and Georgia Schill, for their faithful service during the last school year. Our younger students benefited greatly from having such strong role models, and we look forward to continuing our mentorship program next year as well. PAGE 18 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Av-Elul 5776 September 2016

19 Rabbi Jon Spira-Savett of Temple Beth Abraham presenting a mezuza scroll at the Islamic Center of Greater Nashua, part of his God is One visits to area houses of worship. Rabbi Jon and some of the Temple Beth Abraham contingent at Camp Yavneh Rabbi Jon visits with some of this summer s Temple Beth Abraham campers at Camp Young Judaea Save the Date JFNH Annual Meeting Sunday, September 18 Av-Elul 5776 September 2016 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 19

20 New York, NY The theme of Hadassah's 98th National Convention -- The Power of Our Dreams -- incorporated the philosophy of Hadassah founder Henrietta Szold, Dare to dream and when you dream...dream big." Oscar-winning actress and NY Times best-selling author Gwyneth Paltrow received Hadassah s The Power of Our Dreams Award in recognition of the values she shares with Hadassah and for her role as a business woman and health activist. Malcolm Hoenlein, Executive Vice Chairman of the Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations, accepted the Henrietta Szold Award for outstanding humanitarian service. Hadassah s 98th National Convention also honored world-renowned cardiologist Dr. Nanette Kass Wenger and featured appearances by celebrated mother-daughter authors Letty Cottin Pogrebin and Abigail Pogrebin, Iron Dome weapons system developer Natan Barak, and first woman Speaker of the Knesset Dalia Itzik, among other distinguished guests. Nearly 1,000 Hadassah members, Associates and supporters were in attendance. Serving the Community since 1978 For the NEW YEAR Handmade selection of Apple Honey Sets, Kiddish Cups, Challah Covers & Gifts! Find everything you need for a wedding or bar/bat mitzvah celebration! 437 HARVARD ST BROOKLINE, MA Hadassah Sets New Policies on Zionism, UN Reform, LGBTQ Equality, and Caregiving The four-day convention, which concluded July 28, included the passage of four new Hadassah Policy Statements on the issues of Zionism, UN Reform, LGBTQ Equality and Caregiving. Ellen Hershkin, 26th National President of Hadassah, The Women s Zionist Organization of America, Inc. (HWZOA), states, Advocacy is central to Hadassah's mission helping our members and supporters realize their potential as a dynamic force in American society. From supporting the creation of the State of Israel and selling war bonds during World War II, to championing stem cell and gender-balanced medical research, Hadassah has a long and proud history of advocacy on issues important to women and the Jewish community. Hadassah's Policy Statements represent the organization's official stance on a wide variety of issues facing our nation, Israel, and other international matters of concern. Policy Statements are debated and voted on at national meetings by Hadassah s National Board and delegates from our membership. Once approved, statements become official policies of the organization and Keeping you connected enews Save the Date JFNH Annual Meeting Sunday, September 18 jewishnh.org serve to define Hadassah's overall agenda and advocacy priorities. Hadassah, as a charitable organization classified under section 501(c) (3) of the Internal Revenue Code, is strictly nonpartisan and is prohibited from any direct or indirect support or opposition of candidates for public office. Zionism In response to worldwide increased anti-zionism, often masking anti-semitism, the statement reaffirms Hadassah s commitment to Zionism, expressed through practical Zionism, by supporting the Hadassah Medical Organization and other Hadassah projects in Israel, and by promoting and engaging in Zionist education and advocacy in the United States and worldwide. UN Reform Reaffirms and expands prior policy statements in response to increasing anti-israel activity at the UN. States support for the Conference of Presidents' Declaration Opposing Discrimination Against Israel at the United Nations -- urging the U.N. to implement broad and substantive changes to its institutions and bodies. LGBTQ Equality Reaffirms and expands Hadassah s 2006 Policy Statement for LGBT rights. Restates opposition to all efforts to selectively limit or deny civil rights to members of the LGBTQ community. Calls upon federal, state and municipal governments to enact new public accommodation and non-discrimination Sandra Ruth Sandi McCurdy measures -- especially in the areas of employment, education, housing, and health. Caregiving Reaffirms that women are often the primary caregivers for their families, sometimes juggling the responsibilities of caring for both children and aging parents. Recognizes and values the integral role of caregivers -- paid and unpaid -- in supporting the health and dignity of America s aging and disabled population, and supports policies from the medical community, government, and private sector to further that support. Hadassah, The Women s Zionist Organization of America, Inc. (HWZOA), is the largest Jewish women s organization in the United States. With 330,000 members, associates and supporters Hadassah brings Jewish women together to effect change and advocate on critical issues such as medical care and research, women's empowerment, and the security of Israel. Through the Hadassah Medical Organization's two hospitals, the world-renowned trauma center and the leading research facility in Jerusalem, Hadassah supports the delivery of exemplary patient care to over a million people every year. HMO serves without regard to race, religion or nationality and earned a Nobel Peace Prize Nomination in 2005 for building bridges to peace through equality in medical treatment. For more information, visit Nashua Sandra Ruth Sandi McCurdy, 73, passed away July 28. She was born in Detroit, MI, on July 20, 1943, a daughter of the late Louis and Edith (Weise) Ellenson. Sandi graduated from the University of Michigan with a BS in Biology, and she was a longtime employee of Highland Tool Company in Nashua. Sandi was an active member of Temple Israel in Manchester for nearly 40 years. She served as chair of the Ritual Committee and Gabbai Rishon. Sandi was an avid cribbage and mah jongg player. Sandi s presence will be sorely missed at Temple Israel in Manchester and Temple Beth Abraham in Nashua, where she also Sandi McCurdy z l davened regularly. Sandi is survived by her loving daughter, Rachel Davis, and her fiancé, Mark McKenna; a granddaughter, Jut Davis; and a brother, Gary Ellenson. Donations in her memory may be made to Temple Israel Manchester or Community Hospice House, 210 Naticook Road, Merrimack, NH Please visit www. goodwin.com to sign the online guest book. PAGE 20 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Av-Elul 5776 September 2016

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