We are called to serve. And to serve everyone.

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1 134 M inistry in the Face of M ental I llness

2 We are called to serve. And to serve everyone. We readily pray for one another when we re dealing with sickness, surgeries, cancer, or some chronic illness. Mental illness, on the other hand, is not often mentioned. Mental illness can take many forms, and it is estimated that 1 in 10 people suffer from depression. 1 People suffering from mental illness are all around us, including the church. Instead of ignoring the issue, let s consider a far more positive approach. Wouldn t it be wonderful if God allowed you to be a part of His ministry to others? Second Corinthians 1 shows us God can take the worst things that happen in our lives and use them in a way that would actually help us grow and help others get through the difficulties of life. We are called to join God in a powerful outreach and ministry to others. This study on comfort can apply to so many areas of life, but let s use it to focus on helping others who deal with mental illness, emotional struggle, depression, and other issues which often go unseen and unnoticed in culture and in church. Listen carefully to what God says to you in this study. The message is not easy, but it can be extremely advantageous to anyone with an open mind, an open heart, and a willingness to hear the Spirit of God. 1. Center for Disease Control and Prevention, An Estimated 1 in 10 U.S. Adults Report Depression, features/dsdepression/, (published March 31, 2011), (accessed March 3, 2014). Dr. Frank Page Dr. Frank Page is the president and CEO of the executive committee of the Southern Baptist Convention. He has written several books and pastored for more than three decades, but he likes to be known as husband and father. Dr. Page wrote the book Melissa: A Father s Lessons from a Daughter s Suicide. His goal is to use that tragedy to help as many as possible. BIBLE STUDIES FOR LIFE 135

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4 What comes to mind when you hear the words mental illness? QUESTION 1 #BSFLministry BIBLE STUDIES FOR LIFE 137

5 THE POINT God s people are to care for those suffering from mental illness. THE BIBLE MEETS LIFE It s the unspoken prayer request. In most Bible study groups and churches, prayer requests usually focus on people with physical illnesses or injuries. Often those illnesses and injuries are quite obvious and certainly cause pain and struggle for those involved. We also pray for those who are hurting because of the loss of a loved one. All that is as it should be. However, we re also surrounded by people both inside and outside the church who bear wounds which are not as visible. Those wounds are just as debilitating, just as serious, and sometimes just as deadly. Mental illness and emotional pain are daily realities for so many. Perhaps the most common form of this is depression, but mental illness takes many forms. We typically know how to pray and minister to those with physical health concerns, but what do we do with those struggling with mental illness? Instead of ignoring, looking the other way, or even worse, denigrating persons with mental and emotional struggles, let s look to the Scripture to see how we can help those who suffer. 138 ministry IN THE FACE OF MENTAL ILLNESS

6 WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY? 2 Corinthians 1:2-7 (HCSB) 2 Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. 3 Praise the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort. 4 He comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any kind of affliction, through the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 5 For as the sufferings of Christ overflow to us, so through Christ our comfort also overflows. 6 If we are afflicted, it is for your comfort and salvation. If we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which is experienced in your endurance of the same sufferings that we suffer. 7 And our hope for you is firm, because we know that as you share in the sufferings, so you will share in the comfort. BIBLE STUDIES FOR LIFE 139

7 THE POINT God s people are to care for those suffering from mental illness. 2 Corinthians 1:2-3 In his Second Letter to the Corinthians, Paul began with a common greeting that expressed a powerful truth: grace and peace come from God who is the Father of our Lord Jesus as well as our own spiritual and Heavenly Father. Then Paul penned an interesting phrase as he described God as the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort, Paul made it clear from whom our help and hope ultimately and uniquely comes. One of the most difficult times in my life was the death of my firstborn child. In moments like those, it s easy to become bitter toward God and blame Him (or others) for what happened. In my time of need, though, I chose to turn to our Heavenly Father. Words of Scripture I had memorized long before came to my heart; He used those very Scriptures to bring compassion and comfort to my soul. John 14:1-4: Your heart must not be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in Me. In My Father s house are many dwelling places; if not, I would have told you. I am going away to prepare a place for you. If I go away and prepare a place for you, I will come back and receive you to Myself, so that where I am you may be also. You know the way to where I am going. God s precious Word contains practical help and is a constant source of strength. It has helped me throughout my life in good times and bad times. God offers daily hope and comfort in His Word, through the Holy Spirit, and through His people. That s not to imply that all anyone struggling with mental illness needs to do is trust God more and pray more. The roots and causes of mental illness can be varied and diverse, and God does indeed work through medicine and counseling. But it all starts with Him. What are some similarities and differences between physical illness and mental illness? QUESTION ministry in the face of mental illness

8 What responsibility do believers have to others who are suffering? QUESTION 3 2 Corinthians 1:4-5 The issue is not if you are going to have trouble in your life, but when you are going to have trouble. Troubles come to everyone. Unfortunately, an increasing number of people are experiencing mental and emotional turmoil. Rates of depression, mental struggle, and even suicide have hit epidemic levels. One recent study showed that more young people are dying by suicide than by traffic accidents. (The New York Times, May 2, 2013, Suicide Rates Rise Sharply in U.S. ) The U.S. Army Chief of Chaplains reported the loss of more soldiers to suicide than to combat and this was at the peak of the Iraq and Afghanistan war. (NBC News, 2013, The Enemy Within ) Suicide rates have risen dramatically for young women, ages 18 through 30. For youth between the ages of 10 and 24, suicide is the third leading cause of death. (Center for Disease Control and Prevention, 2013, Youth Suicide ) Trouble comes into the life of every person at some time, so how do we respond? The Scripture is clear that God comforts us in all not just some of our troubles. One way God desires to express His comfort to others is through us. God calls us to comfort those who are going through similar difficulties to those we have experienced. As we have received the grace and peace from our Lord, we can come alongside others to extend grace and peace to them. Paul rightly points out that our relationship to Him gives us the ability to let comfort overflow into the lives of others. BIBLE STUDIES FOR LIFE 141

9 THE POINT God s people are to care for those suffering from mental illness. "What God did to us, we Since Christ s comfort overflows to us, what are some practical ways to share that with others? QUESTION 4 then owed to others. The more we received, the more we were able to give." DIETRICH BONHOEFFER SOURCE OF COMFORT Choose one of the following. A good friend has just been diagnosed with clinical depression. I can respond by A coworker has been out of the office for some time. Some say they ve been getting medical help for a mental illness. I can extend mercy by A family member returned from serving in the war in Afghanistan and is dealing with post traumatic stress disorder. I can respond by 142 ministry IN THE FACE of MENTAL illness

10 How do our struggles bring us closer to God and to one another? QUESTION 5 2 Corinthians 1:6-7 God can use even difficult things for the good of others and for His glory. Both distress and comfort when experienced in the life of a believer work for good in the lives of others who are going through adversity. This is a concept that people in our world struggle to understand. How could something good come out of something bad? How could something most of us seek to avoid and evade actually turn out for the best? Can the deepest tragedies of life bring about some of the greatest victories? This wisdom from God runs contrary to the wisdom of this world. According to human logic, it simply does not make sense. Let s look at our problems in another way: nothing is wasted in this life. In the Book of James, we re encouraged to consider trials as opportunities to develop endurance and a deep faith. The apostle Paul teaches that afflictions produce character and hope (see Romans 5:3-4). Who doesn t wish for perseverance, character, or hope? Paul s words in 2 Corinthians 1:6-7 point beyond our own advantage and growth; he calls us to use what has happened to us for the aid and benefit of others. Instead of just running from or hiding our difficulties, let s ask God to use our struggles in a way that brings honor and glory to Him. BIBLE STUDIES FOR LIFE 143

11 THE POINT God s people are to care for those suffering from mental illness. LIVE IT OUT Part of maturing as a Christ-follower means allowing Him to use you and what He s taught you to minister to others. Start here: Pause to give thanks to God for being our source of comfort and mercies. Thank Him also for the gift of His presence in our good and bad days. Memorize 2 Corinthians 1:4 as a reminder of God s desire to use you (and your experiences) for His glory. Identify one person who needs comfort and hope. Commit to offer these and other practical helps until the situation improves. Be prepared to be a source of strength for this person for the long haul, if necessary. Hopelessness, fear, and loneliness run rampant in the lives of many. However, we know that when we struggle, God Himself comforts us through His Word, His presence, and His people. This week, offer God s hope and comfort to someone in need. In return, you ll get a fresh glimpse of how God works through His people. You re Not Alone I was in my yard-working clothes when the call came. It was Friday morning. The day after Thanksgiving. Ten more minutes and I d likely have been out on my mower, cutting the grass in preparation for getting our house ready to sell. If so, I don t know how I would have initially heard the news. Maybe a neighbor waving panicked from her front porch, pointing first to me, then pointing to her phone receiver, back and forth, frantically motioning me over. To continue reading You re Not Alone from the book Melissa: A Father s Lessons From A Daughter s Suicide, visit BibleStudiesforLife.com/articles. 144 ministry in the face of mental illness

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