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Advent: Meaning and Mystery A Ralph dvent from the Latin, ad venire, to come (to) is liturgically a period of penance lasting

The liturgical color is Purple, signifying Penance, except for the 3rd Sunday, which is Rose, signifying Hope.

This year we will begin CYCLE A. There are three cycles of scripture, Cycles A, B, and C.

1 Advent: Meaning and Mystery A Ralph dvent from the Latin, ad venire, to come (to) is liturgically a period of penance lasting 4 weeks prior to Christmas. The liturgical color is Purple, signifying Penance, except for the 3rd Sunday, which is Rose, signifying Hope. Advent is the first season of the Church s liturgical year. On the first Sunday, we begin a new cycle of scripture readings. This year we will begin CYCLE A. There are three cycles of scripture, Cycles A, B, and C. If we follow these cycles through the years, in three years we will have read through the entire Bible. But, getting back to the original meaning of the word, WHO IS WAITING, AND FOR WHAT, OR WHOM? In the pre-christian era, the Jews were waiting for God s promised Messiah.

2 Contents Advent: Meaning + Mystery... 1 Children s Corner... 4 Healing Hearts in Nigeria Ways to Welcome People to Church... 9 Sermon Snippet November s Big Question One who would deliver Israel from its enemies and usher in God s kingdom. Christians believe that God did keep the promise and sent the Redeemer, Jesus Christ, who would become human, like us; be born and live, like us; experience joy and sorrow, like us; anger and frustration, like us; fear and doubt, like us; and die, like us. Christ would have the fullness of our human experience. This, Jesus would offer to God on the Cross in expiation for the sins of all of us. So, what are we waiting for? Christ has already come physically into this world and physically left it to return to God, the Creator. Is Advent simply a lovely commemoration of the 4,000 years between Adam and Eve and the birth of Jesus, but not much else? And we have condensed it down to a more manageable 4 weeks? I do not believe so. We, as Children of the Resurrection, are also waiting as our Jewish brothers and sisters did. We wait for the completion of the redemption of the world through Jesus. When that will happen, only the Creator knows. But we have faith that it WILL happen and we must be prepared. We do this through periods of prayer and fasting (did I say fasting?) Yes, we should discipline our bodies to do without some goodie that we would enjoy and offer it up for God s glory. We do penance, self-abnegation, again disciplining our bodies so as to be more in conformance with the will of God. We examine our conscience to see where we might have turned our face from God s face and refused God s love.

3 ACoB s Big Bulletin November 13, 2016 OK, you say, but what about that 3rd Sunday and the Rose color? Rose is the liturgical color of Hope. We have waited so very long for the promised Messiah and we can sense that the promise is soon to be fulfilled, so on the 3rd Sunday, we have a little rejoicing to celebrate the fact that our waiting is almost over. So let us enter into this Season of Advent with Christian humility and hope. Let us try not to be too swayed by all the commercialism which is, even now, all around us, urging us to BUY, BUY, BUY. Remember too, that as beautiful as the Carols of Christmas are, we don t want to be so overwhelmed by them that we forget that Christmas is, first and foremost, a HOLY DAY, and only a distant second, a holiday. But, I think, the question remains: Is God coming to us or are we coming to God? That answer we must decide ofourselves. May you all have a blessed Advent. 3

CHILDREN S CORNER Sitting by a Tree Robyn L ily took her most loved little book Snuggled down for a cozy good read By the foot of her favorite tree Along then appeared a sad little boy Who had no

4 CHILDREN S CORNER Sitting by a Tree Robyn L ily took her most loved little book Snuggled down for a cozy good read By the foot of her favorite tree Along then appeared a sad little boy Who had no book, who had no toy He sat down for a rest, and dropped a big tear By the foot of her favorite tree Lily opened her book and said Here! Take a look, to the sad little boy by her side By the foot of her favorite tree He smiled at her and she smiled right back And they read and they laughed with much glee By the foot of now their favorite tree.

5 ACoB s Big Bulletin November 13, 2016 Healing Hearts in Nigeria Kathy Fry-Miller Children s Disaster Services Director While the Church of the Brethren and EYN (Church of the Brethren in Nigeria) have been working to meet basic needs of people affected by the violence of Boko Haram, including trauma healing for adults, it became a priority to extend the work of trauma healing to children. Suzan Mark, Director of Women s Ministry of EYN, asked Children s Disaster Services (CDS) to design a curriculum for women theologians to use in their local communities or camps with children affected by violence. John Kinsel, CDS Critical Response Trainer, and I created the Healing Hearts Curriculum to share as part of a Training of Trainers workshop in Nigeria in April, Our future generations will live to tell stories about how the Church of the Brethren came to them. This program you have given us is rich. Suzan Mark Director of Women s Ministry of EYN The workshop was full of meaning and joy, even in the midst of painful stories. At any point in time, the women would burst into joyful singing, God is so good, God s so good to me! We would smile and laugh and join in. John and I (Kathy) spent two days with 14 women theologians working on trauma healing for children. It was an emergent process. Each woman received a manual, which included Bible stories from Shine On: A Story Bible. We presented our material but there was also time throughout the workshop for the women s stories and ideas to be shared. We played laughed and cried 5 together, and there were lots of hugs!

6 Each two-person team was given a Kit of Comfort with everything they would need to provide the Healing Hearts Curriculum sessions for children: art materials, bean bags, and the dolls and stuffed animals so lovingly created by volunteers here in the U.S. The women were thrilled with these gifts that would allow them to share this ministry of healing with children. One of the most unique and wonderful parts of this workshop experience was the practicum experience at a local school and orphanage the afternoon of our second day. Each team had some planning time that morning to choose songs and activities, as well as prepare materials. They presented their plans to the group, and they were ready to go! When we arrived, it was a bit overwhelming: 123 children gathered together in a huge dirt lot. I could not quite imagine in that moment how this was going to work. We were welcomed by the leadership and the children sang songs for us. When it was time to divide up into our seven groups for the practicum, the logistics were worked out quickly, and the sessions began. Joyful singing arose from each corner of that dusty lot. Burdens were given to God, prayers shared, and a variety of art and play experiences gave children opportunity to express their feelings and experiences. When we left, we all felt full. The children reached out to us with smiles and hugs as we walked to the van. We truly felt like gifts were shared that afternoon. Our lives were changed. Their lives were changed. One boy said, My burden is gone, so I have peace in my mind. I want you to pray for us so that we can finish school and be something in life, said another child.

ACoB s Big Bulletin November 13, 2016 In our time of debriefing, one of the trainers shared, When we first went there, I was just crying. Then when we started teaching, I felt the Spirit of God.

CDS has plans to expand this trauma healing work in the coming months, including another Training of the Trainers workshop with an interfaith supplement to the Healing Hearts Curriculum, which could

7 ACoB s Big Bulletin November 13, 2016 In our time of debriefing, one of the trainers shared, When we first went there, I was just crying. Then when we started teaching, I felt the Spirit of God. In the few days following the workshop, we heard that the women were excited about their work and how they were already using the stories and activities. CDS has plans to expand this trauma healing work in the coming months, including another Training of the Trainers workshop with an interfaith supplement to the Healing Hearts Curriculum, which could be used as a peace building tool with children, as well as for trauma healing in Christian-Muslim settings. May this work and the lives of each one touched by the compassion of these new trainers and the children they serve continue to be blessed. 7

8 Thank you so very much for your Purple Out! It was so inspiring to see the photo and the show of support for survivors and Doorways. We greatly appreciate it! Linley Beckridge Doorways Communications and Outreach Manager

9 ACoB s Big Bulletin November 13, Ways to Welcome People to Church Marty Troyer, Mennonite Pastor How do you welcome visitors in worship and make them feel at home? Not by grabbing and shhhhhing them, that s for sure! I arrived slightly late to the sanctuary as a visitor one day, having struggled to get my infant son s rainy coat off him in the foyer. Opening the sanctuary door I was literally grabbed by the shoulder, spun around, and told by an usher to stay put until the opening prayer was over. As a seminary student at the time, my tolerance as an unknown visitor to this church was likely higher than most church shoppers. But needless to say, I never went back. The following is a list of ways congregations, and more specifically you as a member of a congregation, can love any and all who walk through your doors. This list is adapted from the book Now Go Forward by J. David Eschelman, who says, Loving unbelievers the way Jesus did is the most overlooked key to growing a church The command to love is the most repeated command in the NT, appearing at least 55 times. 1. Every church member is a host and not a guest. Making visitors feel welcome is primarily the responsibility of members, not the nebulous church. 2. The most important person for a visitor to talk to in order to feel at home in a new church is you. It is not the pastor, or the greeter, but a regular attender. Eshleman says One of the most impressive gestures we can extend to first time visitors is for people with no official position to take the initiative and welcome them. 3. Treat first time visitors as guests 9

10 of God, not strangers. 4. Smile at everyone and offer your hand. 5. Look people in the eye and smile. 6. Take the initiative, don t wait for visitors to initiate conversation with you. 7. Learn people s names and remember them. 8. Use [only] appropriate and allowed Touch such as a hand shake or a gentle pat on the back. 9. Ask questions and learn about your guests. It is better to express interest in them than it is to try to sell your church. 10. Listening is a very effective way to show love. 11. Greet children at their level. 12. Let children be children. Yes, families love children s church and child care. We also love it when you allow us to decide if our children should remain with us in worship. And even more, when you love our kids as kids (crying, playing, singing!) and don t expect them to be grown-ups. 13. Invite visitors to join you at something, anything! Invite them to today s fellowship meal, next Sunday s Christian Education hour, or to a restaurant for some one on one time. 14. Never let new people sit alone. Eschelman says, New people should never have to sit alone. Take initiative and go to them without delay. 15. Help visitors find seating that suits their families needs. 16. Help first time visitors by being their tour guide and helping them find worship resources. Visiting a new church is like a cross-cultural experience, even for those of us who have visited dozens of other churches. 17. Invite people to fill out your church s visitor registration card or information. 18. Tell people you re glad they are here. 19. Pray for them throughout your week. 20. Be yourself! You are loving! You have a good thing going! You have the capacity to love more people, and to love more deeply. Eschelman says, Practice making people feel special, and what you give to others will be returned to you. Hospitality is not a given among Christians, it s a calling which requires a specific skill set.

11 ACoB s Big Bulletin November 13, 2016 I am always amazed at what we as a congregation accomplish with such small # s of individuals coming together to support our church and outreach programs. Don 11

Sermon Snippet Pastor Nancy We work with God when we practice justice, & pursue peace for the sake of all When we keep lifting up the oppressed, feeding the hungry, and serving our neighbors When we

12 Sermon Snippet Pastor Nancy We work with God when we practice justice, & pursue peace for the sake of all When we keep lifting up the oppressed, feeding the hungry, and serving our neighbors When we put our very lives between the evil doers and the persecuted. In these ways we are living the promise that God will and is doing a new thing! With God s Spirit fueling us, God s comfort surrounding us and Christ s promise that life lived with him is a life worth living, we forge on faithfully, because it is in the promises of God that hope is kept alive (N. Rivera). November s Big Question What do you expect to be thankful for? Arlington Church of the Brethren Office Hours (call ahead) Wednesday 6:30-9:30 pm Saturday 8-11 am Sunday 12:30-3:30 pm Contact Tel: Mobile (call anytime): Fax (call ahead): ACoB@ArlingtonCoB.org

Sermon Series 1 Peter. Part 9 Entrust Your Soul To A Faithful Creator

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