PARISH COMMUNITY OF OUR LADY OF LOURDES

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1 PARISH COMMUNITY OF OUR LADY OF LOURDES O CTOBER Mission Statement: The Catholic Community of OLL celebrates the presence of Christ, welcoming all with love and compassion. We encourage all to learn and live the Gospel through worship, prayer and service, with respect for human dignity, as we continue on our spiritual journey. 390 County Road 523, P.O. Box 248, Whitehouse Station, NJ Phone: Fax: Web: ollwhs.org

2 READINGS: RITUALSONG #1154 Gathering Song ~ Your Hands, O Lord, in Days of Old ~ RitualSong #949 Responsorial Psalm Text: Psalm 91 Music: Owen Alstott 1977, 1990 OCP Reprinted with permission under License # All rights reserved. Song at Preparation ~ Unless a Grain of Wheat ~ RitualSong #804 Communion Song ~ Healer of Our Every Ill Text: Marty Haugen Music: Marty Haugen 1987, GIA Publications, Inc. Reprinted with permission under OneLicense.net A All rights reserved. Closing Song ~ We Shall Rise Again ~ RitualSong #872 MANY THANKS TO THIS WEEK S ADVERTISER ~ INDEPENDENCE MANOR AT HUNTERDON TABERNACLE LAMPS BURN IN HONOR OF: EDWARD ZORSKY SACRED HEART LAMP BURNS IN HONOR OF: MEAGAN JORDAN WEEKLY TITHE 5% OF NEXT WEEK S COLLECTION WILL BE DONATED TO SPECIAL OLYMPICS. NEXT WEEK S SECOND COLLECTION On World Mission Sunday, October 23, Pope Francis invites each of us to be part of the change for our world of great need. He calls us to announce the mercy of God, the beating heart of the Gospel (Misericordiae Vultus, 12). The celebration of World Mission Sunday gives each of us an opportunity to strengthen the mission of the church and assist those most in need. Please strengthen the Church by making a generous gift to next week s appeal. PAGE 2

3 CLERGY PARISH STAFF PASTOR Very Rev. Leonard F. A. Rusay x 11, pastor@ollwhs.org PASTORAL SUPPORT Rev. Greg Uhrig DEACONS Mr. Charles Paolino and Mr. Al Adolfo LITURGICAL CELEBRATIONS WEEKEND LITURGIES Saturday 5:30 pm; Sunday 8:00, 9:30 & 11:00 am LITURGIES 8:30 am except Thursday at 12:00 pm HOLY DAYS OF OBLIGATION Please refer to the Bulletin. OFFICE HOURS MONDAY THROUGH THURSDAY - 9 am to 4 pm; FRIDAY - 9 am to 1 pm VISITATION HOURS CHURCH Daily 9 am to 5 pm SACRED HEART CHAPEL Monday to Thursday - 8 am to 4:00 pm; Friday 8 am to 1 pm PENANCE Saturday 4:30 to 5 pm and by appointment FAITH FORMATION PASTORAL ASSOCIATE Joline Frank x 12, pastoralassociate@ollwhs.org PARISH CATECHETICAL LEADER Nina Forestiere x 20, sacraments@ollwhs.org LITURGICAL MUSIC DIRECTOR James Cole x 19, music@ollwhs.org PASTORAL EXECUTIVE ASSISTANT Doreen Budris-Kovacs x 13, parishadmin@ollwhs.org PASTORAL FINANCE ASSISTANT Christine DeLessio x 15, finance@ollwhs.org COMMUNICATIONS DIRECTOR & PCL ASSISTANT Bridget Hackman x 14, bulletin@ollwhs.org PASTORAL SECRETARY Madeline Fisher x 21, receptionist@ollwhs.org YOUTH CATECHESIS ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANT Margaret Sanguiliano x 18 MAINTENANCE Colman Connolly Spiritual Direction - Individual directed prayer life is offered by our Priests and Pastoral Associate. Charismatic Prayer Group - This prayer community meets Tuesdays at 7 pm in the Sacred Heart Chapel. YOUTH FAITH FORMATION Religious education classes are held from September through May, for students in the First through Fourth grades on Monday and Tuesday from 4:30 to 5:45 pm and for students in the Fifth through Seventh grades on Monday and Tuesday from 6:30 to 7:45 pm. Twelve Confirmation Prep sessions are required for Eighth graders who wish to receive the Sacrament. CHRISTIAN INITIATION OF ADULTS The process where those inquiring about becoming a Roman Catholic are invited to journey with Church members in sharing their faith, while discerning God s call to conversion. Please contact the Parish Office for further information. PARISH MEMBERSHIP New members need to contact the Parish Office to register for an Evening of Welcome at which time the process of formally becoming a parishioner will be initiated. We receive many requests for certificates of sponsorship for Baptism and Confirmation. Certificates can only be given to registered members of the parish who actively practice their faith. Members are those who regularly attend Mass and participate in and support the life of the Church. SACRAMENTS BAPTISM The Rite of Baptism is celebrated on the first Sunday of the month following the 11:00 am Mass and the third Sunday of the month at the 11:00 am liturgy, except during Lent. Parents must attend an obligatory preparation session prior to the child s birth. Arrangements for a Baptismal date are made at that session. MATRIMONY In accordance with Diocesan policy, couples wishing to be married at OLL must participate in a one-year preparation program, which includes FOCCUS, Pre-Cana, God s Plan for a Faith- Filled Marriage, and required paperwork. Please confirm the date with the Church prior to making other plans. Marriages take place on Fridays and Saturdays no Sunday weddings. SACRAMENT OF THE SICK Contact the office to arrange for this sacrament of healing. PRAYER OPPORTUNITIES PAGE 3

4 A NOTE FROM FATHER LEN After a number of years being the main celebrant of the sacrament of Confirmation for our parish, it was a joy to have Bishop Checchio confirm the forty-six young adults who received the sacrament on Friday, September 30. There was a bit of nervousness prior to the event because of the difference in practices that our new Bishop has instituted. Also, being one of the guinea pigs for this process didn t make it any easier. Nonetheless, everything went fine. The new practices were: the Confirmandi no longer process into the Church, they no longer wear robes (which we have done for years), each candidate sits in their own pew with their sponsor and family (as we do at OLL for First Eucharist), and the Bishop comes to each young adult and administers the Sacrament at their seat. The reason given for not processing and for no longer wearing robes, is that this is not a graduation ceremony, but a rite of passage into adult faith. Each candidate s individual pew and the Bishop coming to the candidate was done so that each family was able to personally experience their child s being confirmed, as well as making the anointing an intimate, personal experience between the Bishop and the candidate. After having experienced the revised practice, all of the aforementioned makes perfect sense. There are many individuals who need to be thanked for their contributions to this wonderful event. First we thank the Altar Servers, Eucharistic Ministers, Ushers and Choir for their time and talent. Bridget Hackman for assuring us that the Church would be decorated for the event and that the new altar cloth would be here on time. The volunteers that set up and broke down the Hall for the post-sacrament gathering. The Pansari Family, owners of LaBonboniere Bakeries, for providing a superb array of pastries (by the way, the Bishop, who does not eat sweets, loved the apple/puff pastry ones). To the catechists that walked with the candidates for a year as they prepared for this momentous day. And last, but certainly, not least, to Nina Forestiere, for researching the available resources and promoting the new program which our young people used for this year s preparation. She has given many hours of time to the kids and deserves a big round of applause. Now that Confirmation is done, we move forward with other parish activities. Upcoming are retreats for next year s First Eucharist and Confirmation classes, Adult Faith Formation Classes featuring Bishop Baron s Pivotal Players, the Bereavement program, Friday morning s Women of Grace, and our weekly Youth Faith Formation classes. One upcoming event happens this weekend, the K of C s Italian Dinner/Tribute to Sinatra program. Tickets are still available by referring to the article in today s bulletin or the parish website. As stated in the book of Ecclesiastes, There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens. Let s appreciate what we have been given and continue to give thanks for every activity under the heavens. JOIN US FOR THE MUSICAL VERSION OF CHARLIE AND THE CHOCOLATE FACTORY. Only 15 Tickets Left! SUNDAY, MAY 21 ~ 1:00 PM MATINEE The bus will leave King s parking lot at 11:00 am with the show starting at 1:00 pm. We will leave New York at 5:30 pm, which leaves you with plenty of free time after the show. We should arrive at King s by approximately 7:00 pm. The cost of the orchestra ticket, transportation, and gratuity is $112. A GREAT CHRISTMAS GIFT! MONDAY 10 TUESDAY 11 WEDNESDAY 12 Gal 4:22-24, 26-27, 31-5:1/Ps 113:1-7/ Lk 11: :30 am Mass: Deceased Members of the Knights of Columbus The Parish Office is closed in observance of Columbus Day. 4:30 pm Youth Faith Formation 6:00 pm Confirmation Prep Session 6:30 pm Youth Faith Formation Gal 5:1-6/Ps 119:41, 43-45, 47-48/Lk 11: :30 am Mass: Helena Kolodzinski r/b Rosary Altar Society 4:30 pm Youth Faith Formation 6:00 pm Confirmation Prep Session 6:30 pm Youth Faith Formation 7:00 pm Prayer Group, Chapel Gal 5:18-25/Ps 1:1-4, 6/Lk 11: :30 am Mass: Joseph Jasontek r/b Don & Sandy Chamberlin PAGE 4

5 CATHOLICISM...THE PIVITOL PLAYERS There is no class the week of Monday, October 10 and Wednesday, October 12. Join Joline on Monday, October 17, as she continues to discuss Saint Catherine of Siena and Father Greg on Wednesday, October 19, as he begins discussing Saint Francis of Assisi. ADMINISTRATION AND STEWARDSHIP PLEASE JOIN US IN CELEBRATING THE ROUND VALLEY DEANERY HOLY DOOR PILGRIMAGE Sunday, October 16 at Immaculate Conception Parish in Annandale, our prayerful journey, led by Bishop Emeritus Paul Bootkoski, will begin in the school auditorium at 3:00 pm. We will process and recite the international Rosary then conclude with the Benediction in the Church. Light refreshments will follow in the Parish Hall. Kindly R.S.V.P. to Sister Anna Nguyen at or by October 3. OLL PRE-CANA MINISTRY The OLL Pre-Cana ministry is currently looking for married couples, who are both practicing Catholics, to join our team. Our Pre-Cana session takes place annually, typically on the first Saturday in March. Our program touches on subjects such as Communication, Finances, Spirituality, and Early Adjustments in marriage. We share our experiences as married couples with the engaged couples to help them on their journey toward matrimony. If you are interested in learning more about this dynamic ministry, please Barbara Vergona at or DO YOU LOVE DECORATING? Due to Staff changes, we are looking for a team of people to decorate the altar for seasons, holidays, and holy days. Our past leader will be available to guide, support, and encourage you! Please contact Bridget at bulletin@ollwhs.org. COMPASSIONATE CARE AND SOCIAL JUSTICE ST. JOSEPH BY THE SEA RETREAT Our semi-annual retreat to St. Joseph by the Sea is scheduled for Wednesday and Thursday, October 12 & 13. All ladies of the parish and friends are welcome to attend. St. Joseph by the Sea is located in Mantoloking on the beach of the Atlantic. Get away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life and enjoy the quiet, solitude, and peaceful atmosphere of the ocean. Carpooling is encouraged. For additional details or to sign up, please contact Fran Zangara at or fmz56@hotmail.com. STARFISH FOOD PANTRY COLLECTION Our next regular food collection will occur next weekend, October 15 & 16. All types of nonperishable food items are welcome, but we are especially in need of hearty soups, mayonnaise, spaghetti sauce, juices, jelly, and paper goods. Please do not donate food items beyond their "Use by" date. Thank you for your continued generosity. THURSDAY 13 FRIDAY 14 SATURDAY 15 Eph 1:1-10/Ps 98:1-6/Lk 11: :00 pm Mass: James T. Leary r/b Pat & Dick Kennedy 7:00 pm Bereavement, Library Eph 1:11-14/Ps 33:1-2, 4-5, 12-13/Lk 12:1-7 8:30 am Mass: Diane Monahan r/b Mr. & Mrs. Malcolm Forrester 9:30 am Women of Grace, Community Hall ST. TERESA OF JESUS Eph 1:15-23/Ps 8:2-7/Lk 12:8-12 8:30 am Mass: Richard & Jean Miller r/b Semanchik Family 5:30 pm Mass: Joseph Romano r/b Sister, Joan 7:00 pm Knights of Columbus Dinner Theatre PAGE 5

6 CONGRATULATIONS! Attend the 17th Annual Gift of Hope Gala, where our own Mary Jean DiRoberto will be awarded Volunteer of the Year by The Center for Great Expectations. The Reception begins at 6:00 pm followed by 7:30 pm dinner, dancing, and Silent Auction on Friday, October 21 at Fiddler s Elbow Country Club. For more information visit: or call: PAGE 7:00 pm 6 Acquire the Fire, Old Church Hall FORMATION YOUTH EVENTS NEED ADULT LEADERS Have you thought about being a mentor to our youth? Do you enjoy working with teens? Our parish youth needs role models to emulate and guide them to become the best versions of themselves. Please consider donating your time and talent leading the youth while providing wonderful events for families to enjoy. With the restructuring of the parish staff, we are left without a staff Youth Leader. In order for many youth events to continue, we need adult volunteers to chair various youth events throughout the year. In the month of December, we need adults to help organize and lead the events listed below. Many of these events are well established and with support from the Faith Formation staff can be executed with limited demands on your time. To volunteer and find out more about the youth events, please call Nina Forestiere at x 20 or sacraments@ollwhs.org. St. Nick & St. Lucy Party - December 3; Christmastime Kids Night Out - December 9; and Caroling at Mirota Senior Residence - December 10 COMMUNITY LIFE ROSARIAN GIFT SHOP The gift shop is open Sundays 8:30 am to 12:15 pm. We carry items for new homes, Baptism, military, key chains for new drivers, and many books by author Stephanie Stevens. Mrs. Stevens is an OLL parishioner, active with Hunterdon County History, and has written several books on local history, including Round Valley, Pittstown, and more. Special orders are generally available within 2 weeks. The gift shop supports the scholarships which the Rosarians give to graduating seniors from the parish each year. If you have any questions, please reach out to Ruth Stieh at or rastieh@gmail.com. A TRIBUTE TO SINATRA, DINNER THEATRE, SATURDAY, OCTOBER 15 AT 7:00 PM The Knights of Columbus will hold A Tribute To Sinatra, Dinner Theatre, featuring Vocalist Kevin Gray and the 78 West Jazz Quintet with an all-you-can-eat Italian Buffet, beer, and wine. Tickets for the evening are $40 per person. Join us in Community Hall for a night of great food and entertainment! To purchase tickets, visit the ollwhs.org homepage and click on Tribute to Sinatra or contact Roman Hnidj at /romanhnidj@verizon.net or Tom DiQuollo at / tomdiquollo@aol.com AUTUMN TRICKY TRAY NOVEMBER 4, DOUBLETREE BY HILTON, 200 ATRIUMDRIVE, SOMERSET, NJ Treat yourself to a great evening out with family and friends! Admission tickets are $50 and includes a plated dinner and one sheet of Tier 1 tickets. Doors open at 5:00 pm and we begin calling prizes at 8:00 pm. To make a reservations or for more details tricky.tray@diometuchen.org, call: or purchase online: No one under 18 will be admitted. No admission tickets sold at the door. Tricky Tray proceeds support tuition aid for deserving children attending a Catholic school in the Diocese of Metuchen. SUNDAY, OCTOBER 16 SEEDS HAVE BEEN SOWN NEW PARISH BLOG NOW ONLINE! 29TH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME Ex 17:8-13/2 Tm 3:14-4:2/Lk 18:1-8 STARFISH FOOD COLLECTION WORLD MISSION SUNDAY 8:00 am Mass: People of the Parish 9:15 am Family Ministry, Old Church Hall 9:30 am Mass: Pasquale Dinella r/b Wife, Rose 11:00 am Mass: Jon Gagnon r/b Karen Nash & Alex Ceruzzi Noah s Ark 1:00 pm Special Needs Scripture Meeting, Classrooms 2 & 3 Have you heard? As announced last weekend, our deacon candidate, Mike Lavallato, is writing a weekly blog as one of his formation class assignments. SEEDS features stories and examples - from everyday life - of people living out the gospel and putting their faith into action. This week s entry And the Winner Is presents one person s compassion for another in a surprising twist, showing how things aren t always what they may appear to be. Check it out on the parish website,

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