Young Adult Ministry Workshop. Diocese of Fort Wayne- South Bend

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1 Young Adult Ministry Workshop Diocese of Fort Wayne- South Bend

2 Introduc6ons Name Parish/Community and Loca<on State of Young Adult Ministry at your parish or community (example: is none, exploring it, just beginning, struggling, thriving, etc) Your involvement in YAM What you hope to gain from this workshop

3 Engaging Young Adults in the Faith Sean Allen, MDiv

4 Why does the Church have a Ministry specifically for Young Adults? Social dynamics have changed over 6me New trends for schooling, career, and family Past: Cath. school marriage bap<sm school Fewer in Cath. schools (youth ministry began) Marriage delayed, or not in Church, or not at all Couples having children later, not always bap<zed Gaps created between milestones, some missing No longer con<nuous life engagement by Church

5 Why does the Church have a Ministry specifically for Young Adults? To con<nuously engage YAs across life stages, providing a home for YAs in the Church To form YAs in the faith as adults and to help develop mature spiritual lives Establish an adult rela<onship with the Lord To walk with young adults during such an important decision- making period in life To benefit from the rich givs & talents of YAs

6 Development of YAM 1977 Archdiocese of Chicago forms Office for YAM 1979 Official recogni<on of YA stage by USCCB* 1981 First Theology on Tap held in Chicago area 1986 First Word Youth Day held in Rome by JPII 1993 World Youth Day held in Denver with JPII 1996 USCCB completes Pastoral Plan for YAM 2001 The Basic Guide to YAM book (Chicago) 2010 USCCB pastoral plan - revised edi<on 2010 USCCB companion book (ed. by CMD staff) * United States Catholic Conference, Sharing the Light of Faith: Na;onal Cateche;cal Directory for Catholics of the United States, (Washington, DC: USCC, 1979), no. 227 young adults are for all prac<cal purposes a newly iden<fied popula<on in U.S. society

7 Common Misconcep6ons about Young Adult Ministry Youth Ministry Singles Group Social Club Confusion Over Two Items: 1) Who are young adults? 2) What is ministry with young adults?

8 1) Who are Young Adults? USCCB Defini<on: Men and Women in their Late Teens, 20s & 30s Single, Married, Divorced, or Widowed With or Without Children Young Adults is ul<mately an age range Includes every state of life within the age range Age range can vary among cultures/ethnic groups Upper end is not as well defined as the lower end USCCB, Sons and Daughters of the Light: A Pastoral Plan for Ministry with Young Adults (Washington, DC: USCCB, 2010)

9 Does the Bishops defini6on of young adult match how you tend to think of this group? If not, what are the differences?

10 Developmental Stage of YAs USCCB Tasks of Young Adulthood Developing a Personal Iden<ty (faith ownership) Developing Rela<onships (family, friends, spouse) Developing a Meaning of Work (voca<on, givs) Developing a Spiritual Life (inner life, morality) Sociologists use terms like Emerging Adults to iden<fy the transi<on into adulthood Full Adulthood = finish school, stable career job, financial independence, and new family forma<on

11 Busy Young Adults Life stage transi<ons are oven primary focus Comple<ng school Establishing career Rela<onships: da<ng, engagement, and marriage Family: pregnancy or raising young children Church ac<vi<es must be relevant enough for young adults to make the <me to par<cipate Faith ac<vi<es must dialog vs. compete with life

12 Mobile Young Adults Move into and out of town regularly Graduate/begin school, new/loss of job, marriage OVen lijle integra<on into a parish community Convenience mentality for Mass <mes & loca<ons Do not register at or commit to one parish Arrive at Mass just in <me or slightly late, slip into the back, and leave immediately averward Do not know many others at their parish Can be an unseen part of the congrega<on

13 2) What is Ministry with Young Adults? If ministries or ac6vi6es are not relevant to young adults, they simply will not come. Dual Approach for Engaging Young Adults: 1. Ensuring that exis<ng church ministries are designed for young adult par<cipa<on 2. Reaching out to and engaging more young adults through new ministry efforts Note: Focus on parish, can adapt to other communi<es

14 Making Exis6ng Ministry Young Adult Friendly/Responsive Take into account young adult characteris<cs: Interests and Needs at this Developmental Stage Ex) relevant topics, quality events, social <me Diversity of Life Stages (college, working, parents) Ex) event <me, cost, childcare Busy & Mobile can create Lack of Commitment Ex) walk- up registra<on, self- contained, avoid homework Do not try to force YAs to fit another mold Gelng frustrated/angry at YAs is not helpful

15 How can we get young adults to come to our events? Reverse the Thinking: How can our events ajract more young adults? Avoid Thinking: But that s the way we ve always done this.

16 Why do you think more young adults are not involved in ministries at parishes?

17 The parish doesn t offer anything for me. What is this person really looking for? Usually, a peer community If no one else their age is present, it s not for them If it s for their parents, then it s not for them From experience, assume events aren t for them Only a limited number of young adults will par<cipate in church ac<vi<es without peers

18 Engaging More Young Adults Form a young adult community Place to fit in & own place within the Church Meet and get to know other Catholic YAs Community to invite & welcome more YAs into Relevant ac<vi<es shaped by the YAs themselves Integrate with the rest of the Church Balance <me between only peers & with parish Par<cipate in parish events with peers/friends Help parish events be responsive to young adults

19 Goals of Young Adult Ministry USCCB Goals for YAM: 1. Connect young adults with Jesus Christ 2. Connect young adults with the Church 3. Connect young adults with the Mission of the Church in the World 4. Connect young adults with a Peer Community USCCB, Sons and Daughters of the Light: A Pastoral Plan for Ministry with Young Adults (Washington, DC: USCCB, 2010)

20 Do the Bishops goals of young adult ministry surprise you in any way? What stands out to you most about the goals?

21 What is Young Adult Ministry? Not meant to be merely a social club Walking the journey of faith together Can be carried out in many ways, such as socializing, learning, praying, and serving Home in Church where YAs share talents Welcoming community for other YAs

22 Ques6ons?