March 4, 2018 Pastor Rev. Robert Hewes Parochial Vicar Rev. Allan Sikorski In Residence Rev. Lawrence Rafferty

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1 Roman Catholic Church of St. Matthew 35 North Service Road, Dix Hills, New York (631) Fax: (631) Office Hours: Mon-Fri in the Parish Center 9 am-12:30 pm & 1:30 pm-5 pm March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 1 March 4, 2018 Pastor Rev. Robert Hewes Parochial Vicar Rev. Allan Sikorski In Residence Rev. Lawrence Rafferty Deacons James McQuade, Carmine DeStefano and Luis Polanco Pastoral Associate Sister Kathleen McCarthy, O. P. D.R.E.: Mary Donaldson Music Director: Lee Forsythe T h e S a l v a t i o n o f S o u l s i s t h e S u p r e m e L a w SCHEDULE OF MASSES SATURDAY: 5:00 p.m. and 7:00 p.m. Spanish Mass SUNDAY: 7:30 a.m., 9:30 a.m. (Family Mass), 11:00 a.m. (Choir Mass), 12:30 p.m. and also at 12:30 p.m. (Latin) Tridentine Mass in the Chapel. MONDAY - SATURDAY : 9:00 a.m. Mass in the Church. Holy Days will be printed in the bulletin. CONFESSIONS SATURDAY: 4:00 p.m. 5:00 p.m. For any other time, please call to make an appointment with a priest. BAPTISM SCHEDULE The 1st and 3rd Sundays of each month at 1:45 p.m. and the 4th Saturday of the month at 12:30 p.m. (No Baptisms Easter Sunday or Christmas Weekends.) Please contact the Parish Center for the Baptismal Packet containing the registration form and all other necessary paperwork. First-time parents are also asked to register for one of the Baptismal Preparation Classes offered on the last Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. in the Church. (No class is held in December.) You may register on-line for the Baptism class only (not the Baptism itself) at MARRIAGE Arrangements should be made at least 6 months in advance and should be made prior to making plans for a reception. Call the Parish Center for an appointment with the priest or deacon you wish to witness your wedding. All couples are required to attend Pre-Cana.

2 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 2 PARISH MINISTRIES Saturday, Mar 3 5:00 PM Bernard Mc Cabe Eugene Howell Irene Schreiber James Fitzgerald Living Intentions Jack Tseng Sophia Valsamos 7:00 PM Sunday, Mar 4 7:30 AM Joe, Cathy & Rocco Commisso 9:30 AM Henry Strasser 11:00 AM Anna, Nancy & Chad Cortina 12:30 PM (L) For People of the Parish 12:30 PM Theresa Rocco Monday, Mar 5 9:00 AM Margaret & Edward Malone Tuesday, Mar 6 9:00 AM George Koch Wednesday, Mar 7 9:00 AM Christopher Motlenski Thursday, Mar 8 9:00 AM Stephen Barone Friday, Mar 9 9:00 AM John & Enrichetta Manetta Saturday, Mar 10 9:00 AM Dr. Marilyn Resurreccion Michael Szypot Nicola Seripierri Salvatore Montesano Tony Cotoia Vicky Kojananian 5:00 PM Andrew J. Garafalo Angelo Martino Dorothy Infanger Emilia Babic Living Intentions Jack Tseng Marianne Brewer 7:00 PM Sunday, Mar 11 7:30 AM Sandra Marie Lane 9:30 AM Anne Mc Nulty 11:00 AM Steve Tesoriero 12:30 PM (L) People of the Parish 12:30 PM In Loving Memory of Chad Cortina ALTAR SERVERS: Porzia DiGiorgio: me@porzia.com And John DiGiorgio: johndigiorgio@optonline.net APOSTLESHIP OF PRAYER: Kathryn Giandoreggio: ATHLETIC WEBSITE: www. smrcc.org ATHLETICS DIRECTOR/ INTRAMURAL & CYO TRAVEL COORDINATOR: Chris Felice: smrccathletics@gmail.com ATHLETICS MODERATOR: Rev. Allan Sikorski: x 125 BAPTISM OFFICE: Bettyanne Russo: x stmatthewdixhills@gmail.com BEREAVEMENT: Kathryn M. Douglas: Including: Teens (12-17) who have lost a parent. Widows and Widowers 65 and under Widow and Widowers 65 and over BIBLE STUDY: Anthony Albano: BOY SCOUTS: Ernst Tramposch: BULLETIN: bulletin@smrcc.org BUSINESS MANAGER: Dolores Tiernan: x 113 CATHOLICS FOR FREEDOM OF RELIGION: Ann Podina: CATHOLIC MINISTRIES APPEAL: John Gatto: x 117 C.C.D. RELIGIOUS ED: Mary Donaldson, D.R.E., 864:3321 Rita Minder, Assistant: CHOIR: Lee Forsythe: x 116 Ed Oriani, Cantor for Tridentine Mass COMPASSIONATE CARE & CONSOLATION MINISTRY: Sr. Kay McCarthy: x 124 EXTRAORDINARY MINISTERS OF HOLY COMMUNION: Ray Smolenski: EXTRAORDINARY MINISTERS TO THE HOMEBOUND: Sr. Kay McCarthy: x 124 FEED THE POOR MINISTRY: Frank Harnos: or Julie Maddaloni: FOOD PANTRY: Sr. Kay McCarthy: x 124 HOSPITALITY: Dolores Tiernan: x 113 KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS: Kevin Bertolini GK: K OF C SQUIRES: Sir Francis Scotti: LECTORS: Helen Campa: LEGION OF MARY: Judy Archbold: MINISTRY OF PRAISE: Rosemary Sammon: MOMMY and ME: Jessica Larsen: PARISH OUTREACH: Sr. Kay McCarthy: x 124 PILGRIM MADONNA: Rosa Nappo: or Lucia Agnone: PLANT ENGINEER: Luis Flores: PRE-CANA: Deacon Carmine DeStefano: RIGHT TO LIFE: Toni Shannon: ROSARY ALTAR SOCIETY: Terry Sbashnig: PASTOR/PARISH SECRETARY: Bettyanne Russo: x stmatthewdixhills@gmail.com SONS OF ITALY: Diana Grauer: SPANISH MINISTRY: Deacon Luis Polanco: ST. VINCENT de PAUL: John Gatto: x 117 USHERS: Tom Siegler: YOUNG SENIORS MODERATOR: Fr. Sikorski: x 125

3 Collections Weekly February 24th & 25th $17, Heating $ 5, Faith Direct $ 2, Mondays Miraculous Medal Novena: after the 9:00 am Mass Legion of Mary: 2:30 pm in the Blessed Mother Room Tuesdays Rosary Society: 1st Tuesday each month 7:00 pm K of C: General/Business Meeting 2nd and 4th Tuesday of each month 8:00 pm Wednesdays Adult Choir Rehearsal: 7:00 pm in the Family Room Thursdays Carmelite Holy Hour: 3rd Thursday of each month 4:00 pm-5:00 pm in the Chapel Young Seniors: 9:00 am Apostleship of Prayer: 1st Thursday of each month after the 9:00 am Mass Saturdays Fatima Spiritual Formation Prayer Group: 1st Saturday of each month after the 9:00 am Mass in the Blessed Mother Room Bible Study: 9:45 am Spanish Bible Study: 1:00 pm Tridentine Mass Choir: (Latin) 4:00 pm in the Family Room Youth Ministry: 8:00 pm-10:00 pm March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 3 Business Manager Dolores Tiernan Finance Chairperson Richard Bove Trustees Deacon Carmine DeStefano And Joseph Napolitano PARISH REGISTRATION NOW AVAILABLE ON LINE AT New families and new parishioners are encouraged to register with the parish. Registration forms are also available at the Parish Center. INSTRUCTIONS IN THE FAITH Those adults who live in the Dix Hills area and/or those with family in the parish seeking information about becoming a Catholic or completing their Sacraments are invited to contact the Pastor. FIRST FRIDAY: Mass is at 9:00 a.m. Exposition of the Holy Eucharist takes place in the Chapel from Friday 7:00 p.m. until Saturday 8:30 a.m. and concludes with Benediction. FIRST SATURDAY: 8:15 a.m. Devotions ANOINTING OF THE SICK: The Sacrament is available EVERY SATURDAY after the 9:00 a.m. Mass. The Sacrament is available for those who are to undergo a serious medical procedure the following week or who have a serious illness and who have not been anointed within the past three months. If you wish to be anointed, please let the celebrant know before Mass. PASTORAL CARE OF THE SICK: Holy Communion will be ministered to those confined at home. Those who are seriously ill should request a priest for the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick. PARISH SCHOOL: HOLY FAMILY REGIONAL: First Friday Exposition - From 7:00 pm the First Friday of the month till 8:30 am Saturday morning in the Parish Center Chapel. Private and authorized group prayer before the Blessed Sacrament in the Tabernacle is encouraged at any time during the many hours the main Church and Chapel are open. Occasions on which specific groups request Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament can only be conducted by a priest or deacon with the knowledge and approval of the Pastor.

4 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 4 A Priest Forever 40th Anniversary of the Priestly Ordination of Rev. Robert S. Hewes Ordained March 11, Parish Celebration: Sunday, June 24, 2018 Mass of Thanksgiving 12:30 PM Reception at St. Anthony s H. S. 2:30 PM 6:30 PM More information to follow. Please watch the bulletin.

5 Dear Friends, March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 5 The Sunday before Lent this year, I spoke to you about the annual Catholic Ministries Appeal and I m happy to say your response has started out well, in your usual way. Many of us will remember from our own religious education the Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy. Among the corporal works (those pertaining to the material needs of people) are feeding the hungry, clothing the naked, visiting the sick. These are particularly recommended in the Season of Lent. We carry out these works in concert with other parishes and the Diocese. This year, I ask you to remember that Saint Matthew s parish cannot, and does not stand alone in performing these works of mercy. As the spiritual works of mercy are performed in union with the whole Church throughout the world, so are the corporal works. The Catholic Ministries Appeal is the major way that our Diocesan community is attempting to meet the needs of our large and varied population. We cannot be aloof from the wider Church and I urge all of us to share in this appeal by our prayer and monetary gifts. The Diocese is not some thing out there. It is the concrete face and hands of Christ s Catholic Church in our two counties: its parishes, schools, Seminary, hospitals and organized charities. I have made my own contribution to the Appeal this Lent. Like you, I have to balance other needs. In my case, the paramount obligation I have, to care for my disabled sister, is to enable her to live independently and happily, as long as I am able, to provide for her needs, above any other aid she receives. Like many of you, I am aware of hard times ; yet there is something more that I can set aside for the support of the wider Church to which I belong. I am grateful to you for what you have done, and will continue to do, for the hungry, the naked, and the sick and those who need instruction, counseling, and admonishing. God s blessings, Father Hewes

6 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 6 A Note About Conversion And Reception Into The Catholic Church In recent years, this process has been under the designation of the Rite of the Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA) with its various rites, stages, and ceremonies. It is a fact in this parish, the number of people actively involved in carrying out the RCIA program has diminished and the lifestyles and schedules of those inquiring about becoming Catholics has changed. This necessitates a reform in the way this program is ministered in the parish. The very first step for anyone, of whatever nature of interest in either becoming a Catholic or an already baptized adult interested in completing their Sacraments in the Catholic Church, is a phone call to either Father Sikorski or me to set up an interview, for an introduction and discussion of your interest and/or needs in this area. This will enable us to get to know you, your circumstances and to determine an appropriate length and nature of your instructions in the Catholic Faith. These can vary in depth and length, according each individual s circumstances and schedule. The priest will then be able to arrange the appropriate stages and ceremonies for the potential convert. It has always been a hallmark of conversion to the Catholic Faith that they meet, and develop a relationship with his or her pastor and parish priests. I am very grateful to Mrs. Marie Prinito and Mr. Robert Ruvio, who have borne the responsibility for this important work for many years. The work of introducing adults to the Catholic Faith or completing others initiation into the life of the Church continues and will benefit from this reform and renewal. Father Hewes We Pray, especially for our Service Men and Women: Peter Mazzone - Marines, SSG Michael Hughes, SPC John Vautrin-Gardinier, US Army, Tyler Smith-Reynolds - U.S. Coast Guard, Lance Corporal Ryan, Matthew Ferrara - Marines, Matthew Kirchner - Army, Noah Kirchner - Air Force, Ensign Melanie Thompson - Navy, Capt. Joseph De Monte IV - Pilot - United States Air Force, Lt. Joseph Morgan, Lt. Brendan Johnston - U.S. Navy, LCPL Michael Porfidio - Marine in Afghanistan, Jeffrey Gabriellini - Air Force, Corporal Michael Grella - Navy Airman, Julien-Army- Iraq., Lt. Col. Robert Wright-Marines, Michael Wissemann, LPL San Sievero - Marines, Ambrose Michelino, Jarod Racuot - Army, Robert Scarpelli, Anthony Lazado - Marines, Richard Freese, Jr. - Navy, Rho Nagasguna - Marines, Michael Doherty - Army, Pablo Quirindongo - CW4 - Army, Cpl. Ronnie Belmarez - Marines, Lt. Commander Christopher Grande - Navy

7 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent St. Matthew Catholic Ministry Appeal 2018 Goal: $116, Pledges: $43, Donors: 122 Many thanks for your generosity, caring and sharing. God bless, John Gatto: ex. 117 Bulletin Deadlines for the Month of March March 11th Bulletin deadline is Monday, March 5th March 18th Bulletin deadline is Monday, March 12th March 25th Bulletin deadline is Monday, March 19th April 1st Bulletin deadline is Monday, March 26th 7

8 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent At St. Matthew s 2018 In the Church Monday through Saturday of Lent Daily Mass - 9:00 A.M. Tuesdays of Lent at 7:00 P.M. 3/6: 3/13: 3/20: 3/27: Eucharistic Holy Hour and Reflection People of the Stations: Pontius Pilate Eucharistic Holy Hour and Reflection People of the Stations: Simon of Cyrene Eucharistic Holy Hour and Reflection People of the Stations: The Thieves Eucharistic Holy Hour and Reflection People of the Stations: St. John Fridays of Lent at 7:00 P.M. 2/16-3/23: Stations of the Cross Use your IRA for your gift now and/or for your Estate Gift! If you would like to make a gift now using your IRA and if: You are at least 70 1/2 years old and don't exceed your maximum of $100,000 per year in qualified charitable distributions, you will not have to report your distribution as income. It will be free of federal and New York State income tax, and it will count toward your Required Minimum Distribution (RMD). The best way to start is with your IRA custodian. Tell them you want to make a "qualified charitable distribution." In most cases, you will only have to fill out a simple form. Very important! Your gift must go directly from your IRA to the parish. If you receive the money first, you ll be taxed on it. If you make an Estate Gift, you can make your parish a beneficiary of your IRA and your loved ones will not have to pay income tax on their proceeds. 8

9 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 9 RELIGIOUS EDUCATION The Place for Learning and Praying Our Family/Children s Mass is Sunday at 9:30AM Mary Donaldson, Director, Rita Minder, Assistant Religion Office Phone Fax maryccd@smrcc.org LOOKING AHEAD When registering a new student, 1st thru 8th grade, you must come into the Religion Office, on the second floor of the Parish Center, Monday through Thursday, between 11:00AM and 5:00PM. Please be sure to bring a copy of the child s Baptismal Certificate when you come. The fee of $ per child is due at that time. GRADE LEVEL MASSES FOR WINTER AND SUMMER PROGRAM STUDENTS Sunday, March 4, 2018, 7th & 8th grade will attend the 9:30 Mass. Sunday, March 11, 2018, 1st & 2nd grade will attend the 9:30 Mass. Sunday, March 18, 2018, 3rd & 4th grade will attend the 9:30 Mass. These Masses do include all the Summer Program students as well. For those students attending grade level Masses listed above, please sit in the front of the Church, try to arrive by 9:10AM and remember your tithing envelopes as they are not only used for a donation but also for taking attendance. All family members are invited to join us at these Masses. CONFIRMATION INFO Confirmation for our 8th grade students will be Tuesday, March 13, Bishop Andrzej Zglejszewski will be presiding and there will be two Confirmations, one at 10:00AM and one at 1:30PM. All Tuesday afternoon and night classes are cancelled that day due to Confirmation. Monday, 3/5 Confession 7PM M thru Z Wednesday, 3/7 Confirmation Student/Sponsor Rehearsal A thru L 7-9PM Thursday, 3/8 Confirmation Student/Sponsor Rehearsal M thru Z 7-9PM Tuesday, 3/13 CONFIRMATION DAY SUMMER PROGRAM The dates for Summer Program 2018 are July 29th through August 12th, from 8:30AM to 1:00PM, Monday thru Friday and the three Sunday 9:30AM Masses on 7/29, 8/5 and 8/12. Grades 4 thru 7 are eligible and the fee is $ per child. Registration is Wednesday, March 21st at 7:00PM in the Church. SPECIAL NOTES March 29th is Holy Thursday and classes are cancelled that day. Spring Recess, Easter Week and Passover begins on April 2nd and runs thru April 6th. Classes are cancelled for the week and will reconvene on Monday, April 9th.

10 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 10 March 10 & 11 Eucharistic Ministers 5:00 P.M. 7:30 AM 9:30 AM 11:00 AM 12:30 PM I. Lucie M. Garaffa C. Sposato E. Vincente B. Abadom C. Vogt J. Gatto F. Harnos A. Pappas R. Ruvio R. Grande J. McCarthy P. DiGiorgio K. Zaki A. Albano M. Prainito M. Shef 5:00 P.M. 7:30 AM 9:30 AM 11:00 AM 12:30 PM J. Seefried C. DeStefano C. Okonkwo D. Manetta Y. G. Baby Chloe Atienza Gerard Costa Joseph Costa OUR SICK Elisabeth Dorovich Susan Harnos Lisa Marie Hulsen Thomas Iuculano Christine LoFrese Lee Mannino Christian Martino Lois McCarthy John McIntyre Marie Pecoraro Peter Prestia Marge Puccio Eugene Quarello Alice Reilly Helen Reineking Casey Rodriquez Christopher Sabato, Sr. June Sheehan George Schnell Brian Tripp The Apostleship of Prayer is a worldwide association of Catholics and other Christians who strive to make their ordinary, everyday lives apostolically effective. Through the Apostleship of Prayer, the Pope gives his monthly prayer intentions to the entire Church. For this reason, the Apostleship came to be known as "the Pope's own prayer group." DAILY OFFERING PRAYER - God, our Father, I offer You my day. I offer You my prayers, thoughts, words, actions, joys, and sufferings in union with Your Son Jesus' Heart, Who continues to offer Himself in the Eucharist for the salvation of the world. May the Holy Spirit, who guided Jesus, be my guide and my strength today so that I may witness to Your love. MARCH Evangelization: Formation in Spiritual Discernment That the Church may appreciate the urgency of formation in spiritual discernment, both on the personal and communitarian levels. March 4-Third Sunday of Lent In today s Gospel Jesus is asked What sign can you show us? Everyday we can see signs of how God has visited us in the blessings of our lives. Let us be a sign of God s love by being a blessing to others. Is there a family you know who needs assistance? Please call the Society of St. Vincent de Paul so that together we can be a sign of God s love to the suffering and poor.

11 St. Matthew RC Church Rosary Altar Society Presents ST. PATRICK/ST. JOSEPH March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 11 DINNER/DANCE Music by Party Up Entertainment Saturday, March 17, :00 PM Adult $25 each Child(ren) 5-16 yrs old $10.00 Corned Beef and Cabbage/Pasta and Meatballs Beer, Wine, Soda, Dessert Tickets will be available after all Masses ~ March 4th & March 11th and at the Reception Desk on weekdays in the Parish Center or Call Terry: Last day to purchase tickets is March 11th.

12 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 12 The St. Matthew Rosary Altar Society Fashion Show at the Crest Hollow Country Club Wednesday, April 25, 2018 We anticipate over 150 guests in attendance making this our biggest fundraiser event of the year! Please help by purchasing one of the journal ads listed below. All monies collected are given to worthy and needy organizations within our parish and also for the much needed renovations of our parish church. Your contribution will earn the deep gratitude of all who will benefit from your kindness and generosity. Please make checks payable to St. Matthew Rosary Altar Society and mail by March 15 th to: Louise Benenati 130 Albany St., Deer Park, NY On behalf of our pastor, Father Robert Hewes and the members of the Rosary Altar Society, we thank you for your continued support. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to call. Sincerely, Louise Benenati Journal Chairperson ( ) H ( ) C Terry Sbashnig - President Journal Ads Back Cover SOLD Inside Front Cover SOLD Inside Back Cover SOLD Middle Page Left SOLD Middle Page Right SOLD Full Page $200 ½ Page $100 ¼ Page $ 50

13 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 13 Calling Singers of All Ages St. Matthew's Music Ministry Needs You! Our Adult Choir and Children's Choir are looking for new members. If you would like to experience our Sunday Masses at a deeper and more prayerful level, this is for you! Our Adult Choir sings every Sunday at the 11:00 A.M. Mass. We rehearse Wednesday evenings from 7:00 P.M. - 8:30 P.M. in the Family Room. Our Children s Choir sings every Sunday at the 9:30 A.M. Mass and we meet at 8:30 A.M. before Mass in the Family Room to rehearse. Please see Lee Forsyth, Music Director, after Mass (by the organ) for more information or join us at our rehearsals. We look forward to seeing you.

14 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 14 Respect Life News Spiritual Adoption Program MONTH SIX Developing Baby Your spiritually adopted baby is developing quite beautifully now. His/her weight is approaching 2 pounds. Babies born prematurely at this time have a very good chance of surviving. The medical advances in caring for extremely small newborn infants are extraordinary indeed. Justice O Connor has remarked that the Roe vs. Wade decision is on a collision course with itself. Each passing year, we witness medical advances that allow medical professionals to save younger and younger premature infants. PREGNANT? NEED HELP? Birthright Inc. 24 HOUR HELPLINE Islip: Hampton Bays: Southold: Rocky Point: Wantagh: Focus on Religious Freedom From Catholics For Freedom of Religion Play - but Don't Pray: Students Fight Back Against Atheist Group Beloit, Ohio - A community prayer before basketball and football games, led by a local pastor, has been a tradition at West Branch School District for the past 30 years. Pastor Mark Reich said he prays for the athletes "protection, good, their best efforts and for everyone to go home saying, 'I did my best.'" The atheist Freedom From Religion Foundation (FFRF) sent a letter of complaint to the school district in January. This anti-god group routinely attacks and threatens small towns and average Americans for exercising their First Amendment freedoms. (They even sued Presidents Obama and Bush over the National Day of Prayer, claiming they were offended by the proclamation. Fortunately, in this case, the appeals court concluded, "Hurt feelings differ from legal injury.") Nevertheless, each year, FFRF continue their dozens of complaints against schools and too often, the schools will capitulate rather than engage in a legal defense. West Branch Superintendent Saxton decided to stop the prayer while exploring a compromise. In the meantime, over 100 students and adults arrived at a recent game wearing "Prayer Matters" tee-shirts. "I was upset and outraged because our community is so close-knit and it's upsetting to see something that's important to so many people get taken down," said a West Branch graduate. (wkbn.com, 2/10/18; christianpost.com,2/11/18; aclj.org, 2015) "I believe we are allowed to express ourselves and it's our freedom guaranteed by the Constitution. I want the praying to continue." West Branch student - age 14 Worldwide Marriage Encounter And hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. Let the Holy Spirit acknowledge and increase our love for our spouses by attending a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Weekend. The next weekends are Apr , 2018 in Huntington, NY and Nov , 2018 in Huntington, NY. For more information, call John & Toni Torio at or visit them at

15 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 15 YES ~ SENIOR NEWS REMINDERS ~ UPCOMING EVENTS March 8 ~ Margaret Cuffaro from the Roslyn Bank will speak on fraud updates. We've touched on this subject before, but it seems that once one scam is discovered, there is another to take its place. You will be amazed to learn how many fall victim and lose a great deal of money because of these methods. It is sad to say, seniors are prime victims of their deceit and we must do everything we can to be one step ahead of their latest plans for us. Don't be the next victim. March 15 ~ Luncheon at Orlando's at 12:00 P.M. ~ No meeting. March 22 ~ We will be entertained with music by Bob Serrao and his one-man band. March 29 ~ Holy Thursday ~ No Meeting. It has become a tradition, here at St Matthew, for our children and grandchildren to bring their Easter baskets to church on the morning of Holy Saturday to be blessed. Father Sikorski conducts a lovely ceremony, blessing the contents of their baskets. This is not limited to the children. Adults are also encouraged to participate. I have seen many foods including hams, breads and even butter in the shape of the Pascal Lamb that will be on the Easter table. They also will be placed on the altar for blessing. This tradition was originated in Europe and many of us remember this custom from when we were children. Each year we have more participants than the year before. Come and join us at 10:30 A.M. in the Church, take photos and teach your young ones that Easter is the Resurrection of Christ, not just bunnies and colored eggs. Remember to pray for all who are ill and for their loving caregivers. Remember those who serve our Church and our country. God bless America! See you in Church. Pat A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words. Unknown Your best friend is the person who brings out of you the best that is within you. Henry Ford St. Matthew s Gift Shop is open Monday through Saturday 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Closed 12:30 p.m. 1:30 p.m. for lunch Unique religious gifts, rosaries, books, fonts, statues, picture frames, wedding unity candles, vestments and so much more... The Gift Shop is located in the Parish Center, across from the Receptionist area. All Proceeds Benefit Our Parish Ministry!

16 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 16 Dear Rosarians, Our next meeting will be held on Tuesday, March 6, We will not meet in the Chapel as originally planned. Instead, during this Lenten season, we have a wonderful opportunity to attend the Eucharistic Holy Hour and Reflection - People of the Stations: Pontius Pilate which will be held in the Church at 7 PM. Our regular business meeting will follow In Msgr. Goggin Hall. Our St. Patrick/St. Joseph Dinner Dance is Saturday, March 17th. See Bulletin for details. Tickets are $25 and will be available at the meeting. Our biggest fundraiser of the year is our Fashion Show on Wednesday, April 25, 2018, at the Crest Hollow Country Club.. Tickets are $60 and may be purchased by calling Peggy at or Mary at Please bring Chinese Auction donations to the meeting. Donation letters are available, if needed. We are also having a Journal. If you would like to place an ad or know anyone who would, please contact Louise at Thank you. Cake ladies for the March meeting are: Judy Archbold ~ Anna Bischoff ~ Anna Cantone ~ Marcia Cormack ~ Hannalore Mueller Dates to Remember: March 3/4 ~ Selling Dinner Dance Tickets March 6th ~ Rosary Meeting March 17th ~ St. Patrick/St. Joseph Dinner Dance March 25th ~ Easter Plant Sale April 3rd ~ Rosary Meeting April 14th ~ Bible Museum Bus Trip - Washington D.C. April 15th/16th ~ Selling Fashion Show Tickets & Lotto April 21st/22nd ~ Selling Fashion Show Tickets & Lotto April 25th ~ Fashion Show - Crest Hollow Country Club Please remember to pray the Rosary. May Our Lady always be at your side. God bless. Terry Sbashnig, President Feed the Poor Ministry On the third Saturday of every month, immediately following the 9 o clock Mass, in the kitchen in Monsignor Goggin Hall here at St. Matthew, a group of people get together and make a difference in the lives of some very needy people. Some of them bring wrapped sandwiches they have made at home; some bring individual bags of chips, homemade goods, or 12 packs of canned soda. Some drop off packaged cookies, or napkins, or even toiletries like mini shampoos, mouthwash, etc. Tons of clothes are donated. For over fifteen years, this merry band of volunteers has wrapped up all the generosity of this parish each and every third Saturday and has taken it to the men at the Bellevue Men s Shelter on First Avenue and Twenty-ninth Street, next to Bellevue Hospital. How would you like to join us? Sometimes writing a check to your favorite charity doesn t cut it. Sometimes you want to get involved and express your desire to help the poor. You don t even have to go to the city with us. A commitment equal to your wishes could be fulfilled in this group s effort and here s how you can help. Make a few wrapped sandwiches of beef baloney and cheese or peanut butter and jelly. Bring the food, etc., to the kitchen before Mass, if possible, but we must have all at about 9 o clock. Our usual departure is about 10 o clock and usually we get back before 2 o clock. Remember, you can buy chips, puddings, soda, cereal bars during your monthly run to COSTCO and flag it for the homeless. Your help or donation lights up the lives of these marginalized folks. Be inspired by the kindness and generosity of our parish and join us in this way to lighten the sting of poverty and homelessness. There is a place for you in this ministry. For information call Frank Harnos or Judy Maddaloni

17 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 17 St. John the Baptist Diocesan High School Magna Cum Laude Julianna Beauman Luke Beauman Sean Bertolini Ryan Rebetti Nicolette Rollino Cum Laude Nicholas Russo Sunday, March 11th The Parish of St. Hugh of Lincoln in Huntington Station is now interviewing for a Parish Social Ministry (PSM) Coordinator. The PSM Coordinator will work with the volunteers (e.g., Core Workers) who serve clients that seek parish assistance through the food pantry and other support services. She/he will also serve as liaison between the parish and various social outreach and advocacy organizations in the community. This is a full-time position. A degree in the social sciences is preferred, as well as experience in PSM. Ability to speak both Spanish and English is highly desirable. Please cover letter and resume to: Fr. Bob Smith (FrBob@ssthugh.org) WARMING SHELTERS SUFFOLK COUNTY The Suffolk County Department of Social Services has opened the Emergency Safe Beds Shelter Program that is in effect when the air temperature is at or below 32 degrees. Shelter assistance and a food pantry are available at the following locations: 2 S. 2 nd Street, Deer Park Middle Country Road, Coram Wireless Boulevard, Hauppauge E. Main Street, Riverhead

18 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 18 WE RE HIRING!! DIRECT SUPPORT PROFESSIONALS Developmentally Disabled Adults (All positions require a HS Diploma/GED & valid NYS Driver s License) JOIN US AT OUR OPEN HOUSE JOB FAIR: Tuesday, March 6, Schleigel Blvd, Amityville, NY At Catholic Charities, Diocese of Rockville Centre, we are always looking for individuals to be part of our faith-based ministry and offer Care With Dignity & Life With Hope to clients in our 13 group homes located across Long Island in Nassau, Suffolk and the East End. PT & FT evening Awake overnight Weekend (Saturday & Sunday) and many flexible On Call opportunities are available. To schedule an Open House interview, call If you are unable to attend the job fair, please visit our website at for a complete list of our job opportunities. (We are also seeking candidates with bilingual capability (Spanish/English) for several of our programs so that we can fully serve our communities.) CATHOLIC CHARITIES AN EQUAL OPPORTUNITY EMPLOYER RESIDENTIAL MANAGERS Group Home Developmental Disabilities Elmont & Babylon, Long Island For the position of Residential Manager, we are looking for a dedicated, talented individual who has a passion for helping our developmentally disabled adults to achieve their goals and live a full life. Major responsibilities include: Ensure quality of resident care is provided, 24 hrs./7 days/week. Develop and implement individualized service plans Manage staff scheduling, training, performance management and regulatory compliance. Oversee household maintenance and budget adherence. Our ideal candidate will have: BA/BS plus 2 years experience or HSD/GED plus 4-5 years management or staff supervisory experience. Must have experience working with developmentally disabled adults. Prior experience managing a group home for DD adults a strong plus. Clean, valid NYS Driver s License. A comprehensive benefits package accompanies the position including medical/dental coverage, life insurance, retirement planning, tuition assistance, and generous earned time off. TO APPLY: or fax resume and cover letter of interest to: Jobs@catholiccharities.cc or fax to Please note Residential Mgr./DD in the subject line of your or fax. CATHOLIC CHARITIES AN EQUAL OPPORTUNITY EMPLOYER

19 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 19 A Lenten Tale Told to God ~ LENTEN DAY OF PRAYER At the Seminary of the Immaculate Conception 440 West Neck Road, Huntington Sunday, March 4, 2018 ~ 9:30 am to 3:00 pm Donation - $30 per guest Fr. Patrick J. Griffin, C.M., will present a Day of Prayer Talks by Fr. Griffin - Quiet Time - Confession - Lunch - Mass Sponsored by Friends of the Seminary For reservations, which are required and for additional information call Ext. 102 or bmalone@icseminary.edu. Maria Regina Residence, at 1725 Brentwood Rd., Brentwood is a 188-bed skilled nursing facility under the care of the Sisters of St. Joseph. We are currently seeking compassionate, dedicated men and women who are willing to volunteer their time and talent in varied service areas (usually for one morning or afternoon/week) in assisting the Pastoral Team as a Eucharistic Minister, helping to transport residents in their wheelchairs, assisting with recreational service or other needs in the building. For more information, please contact Sister Mary Sheppard, CSJ at St. Dominic High School 110 Anstice Street Oyster Bay, NY is offering a 2018 SAT EXAM Prep Course for the May 5th SAT Exam on the following Saturdays: March 3,10, 17, 24 and April 14 and 28 9:00 AM to 11:30 AM in Marian Hall. Course Fee is $250. (includes textbook). Students accepted on a first-come first-served basis. For additional information please contact, Mrs. Stutzmann at (516) ext APPRENTICESHIP and TRAINING FOR PLUMBERS LOCAL UNION #200 The Joint Apprenticeship and Training Committee for Plumbers, Local Union #200 has been conducting recruitment since January 10 th for plumber apprentices and will continue until the end of March. Applications must be completed, in person only, at Local Union #200, 375 Central Avenue, Bohemia, NY between the hours of 10 AM and 5 PM every Wednesday, during the recruitment period. All applications must be received by March 28, The committee requires that applicants: Must be at least 18 years of age. Must have a High School Diploma or High School Equivalency diploma (GED or TASC). Must be a resident of Nassau or Suffolk County. Must have a valid NYS Drivers License in order to operate company vehicles. Must submit to a drug test at the expense of the sponsor after selection and prior to indenture. Must purchase text materials for related instruction classes as required average of $200 a year. Must provide DD-214 Certificate of Release/Discharge from Active Duty, if applicable. For further information, applicants should contact their nearest NY State Department of Labor Office or Local Union #200 at

20 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 20 St. Matthew s Church K of C #7479 Spring Blood Drive Sunday, April 8, :00 am 2:00 pm 35 North Service Road, Dix Hills Msgr. Goggin Hall Rafaello is a member of our congregation. At age 3 he was diagnosed with leukemia. He received chemotherapy along with 36 lifesaving blood transfusions. Your blood donation will help to save the lives of people like Rafaello. Eligibility Criteria: Bring DONOR CARD Or ID with signature or photo. Minimum weight 110 lbs. Eat well (low fat) & drink fluids No tattoos for past 12 months Age (16 year olds must have parental permission. Age 76 and over need doctor s note). For questions concerning medical eligibility call For more information please call: George Wolf (631)

21 March 4, 2018 The Third Sunday of Lent 21 Please come join us in thechurch at 10:30 am on Holy Saturday as we celebrate the European tradition of Blessing the Food. Bring your baskets of colored eggs and/or food that will be shared with famiy and friends on Easter!! Start your own Easter tradition with your children!